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Yes
/r/seduction12/08/23 12:35 AM
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Advertising works
/r/seduction11/08/23 08:33 PM
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Having pussy is a great way to get even more 😘
/r/seduction11/08/23 07:53 PM
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I've dated women much older than myself and people would give us the odd looks too. Don't worry about what others think, as long as both are consenting adults with similar maturity levels it's all good
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:42 PM
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It's crazy how many parallels there are between sales and.. Dating lmao There's prospecting, I.e. Getting the date in the first place Objection handling I.e. Putting them at ease and getting them comfortable .. And the list goes on and on
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:42 AM
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Never say never Justin Bieber
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:54 PM
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Excellent anecdotes
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:49 AM
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Porque no Los dos
/r/seduction19/04/21 06:59 PM
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That's shitty advice because it's way too vague. I know plenty of people with low self-esteem that have high paying jobs, tons of accomplishments, fit and toned bodies, etc..
/r/seduction07/11/19 01:41 AM
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Despite being with a few girls in the last year, I still get that nagging doubt in my ability to get someone as good or better than her.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:33 PM
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I've far surpassed that anxiety stage over a year ago. I'm just telling you how I did it. Say the right things? It's more than just saying the right things. It's super easy actually. It's called just being authentic and honest instead of putting on a mask to protect your ego. You talked to 1 girl and you're trying to tell me how it's done now. The fuck outta here with that bullshit.
/r/seduction17/08/19 11:51 AM
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Look, backup a bit and try re-reading my response. I acted aggressively towards you, because the advise is terrible. It's like seeing a salesman rolling into town selling children toothpaste which is like 50% sugar with amphetamine sprinkled in. You can't think of negative emotions as just bad and sweep them under the rug. Look at them, analyze them, and sort them out. You have to figure this shit out if you want consistent results (trust me I've been there). Otherwise you'll continue facing the…
/r/seduction17/08/19 12:12 AM
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You don't need to bury anxiety. Just take the next step, make a move anyways, acknowledge the elephant in the room instead of talking about the weather or trying on recited conversation topics.
/r/seduction16/08/19 05:20 AM
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This is really shitty advice. Resist your emotions! Lol what the fuck? Just be open about it, people eat authenticity up like hot cakes. Don't try to be someone you're not. How about you don't ignore your emotions and instead try to understand what they're trying to tell you. Otherwise, enjoy being miserable. Oh and btw, you being anxious about something is not necessarily your brain trying to somehow work against you; it's just your bitch ass response; i.e. flight instead of fight. The latter i…
/r/seduction16/08/19 04:38 AM
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What the fuck, I'm in the wrong business..
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:39 AM
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Look, playing these game of who texts first and how soon are total bullshit. The only thing you need to make sure not to do, is come off as overly needy. It's totally up to you what you decide to do, but choosing to text first or wait is such a minor thing that it's almost laughable. If you're working in a bit of push-pull, that's fine. But I wouldn't weigh to heavily on it alone.
/r/seduction10/08/19 05:13 PM
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What? That's terrible advice, good way for her to totally forget about you and get her thinking that you ghosted her. I'm not sure what the vibe is like between them, but radio silence is almost a guaranteed flake after a week. Be honest with her and don't sweat it if she's not eager to respond. If she's into you, she won't ghost you.
/r/seduction09/08/19 02:48 PM
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Just run her off the rode next time, there's your opener/s
/r/seduction05/08/19 07:41 PM
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What books on the topic do you reccomend. I liked Dale's Carnegie and "the charisma myth", but I'm looking for something more in depth that goes beyond pop psychology.
/r/seduction03/08/19 05:21 PM
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If she's interested in you, then great PROCEED. If she's not, then leave her alone and don't waste anymore of her time. I'm so sick if this "bbbut wutefff shee things I'm weeyd". Stop being a bitch and polarize.
/r/seduction02/08/19 09:14 PM
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I think a step above objection handling is objection avoidance so you don't need to play that game in the first place. Instead of waiting for objections to arise, read into the kind of objections you could realistically expect from the girl and weave into the interaction the solutions before giving her a chance to object in the first place. Bonus points for getting her to agree with those same "solutions", IE work in your philosophy of casual sex not being a big deal and how restraining yourself…
/r/seduction02/08/19 09:03 PM
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Skip to the last 15 minutes, basically what OP said, with more specific examples Flirting and push-pull go hand in hand. Super useful to get this one down.
/r/seduction29/07/19 08:28 AM
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How often do they have "bad reactions" most of the time they let you off pretty easy. The worst rejection I've ever faced was just being ignored.
/r/seduction29/07/19 08:22 AM
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You literally can not be non-needy in a committed relationship. Doing so would mean that you could walk away with 0 emotional consequence. What you're condoning is to see people as disposable, it's like listening to a psychopaths inner monologue. At the beginning stages you can't be needy, because that'd just be weird since you don't really know each other. However, once you develop an emotional and physical bond, you can't just say, "I'm willing to walk out on that at a drop of a hat". I think …
/r/seduction28/07/19 08:40 PM
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I lost a lot of respect for the guy after looking more into where he drew influence from (especially Jung, the guy was a complete nutcase that followed tons of bullshit and his methods where anything but scientific.. and Peterson see's him as this almighty genius.) And then he takes this completely unnecessary swan dive into theology as it obviously holds THE key to demystifying the human condition. And then he brings up his arcane knowledge as if it's something that's supposed to be in the comm…
/r/seduction27/07/19 08:19 PM
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Or maybe it'll go the other way and make you feel like you can't be yourself or do anything without alcohol. Everything in moderation is the name of the game imo. If you're out at night it's hard no to drink and having a few drinks is fine if it's done socially. You do however need that overall core confidence that gives you a foundation to fall back on when everything else goes to shit. Imagine if you had to be slightly tipsy to do your job well, maintain relationships and hobbies; that's not a…
/r/seduction27/07/19 12:38 PM
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Negging is definitely walking on a tight rope. You should never ever EVER actually offend the girl and it should be done in a flirty way AFTER you've built some rapport and connection with her. Negging off the bat would just be kinda weird. You start easy on the teases and as the interaction progresses and you feel her out, you should gain some intuition on what will and what won't fly. By no means necessary though and potentially disastrous
/r/seduction26/07/19 08:49 PM
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Todd V is the fucking man, he's probably the best pua that's publicly out there atm. And to you OP, KEEP THE MOMENTUM going, whatever you're doing, it's working out. Just wait and see. Good game will bleed into other areas of your life. Just keep the course and you will see.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:37 PM
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Yes! FACE YOUR FEARS
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:10 AM
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Holy shit, one passed away? Where's this coming from?
/r/seduction21/07/19 10:58 PM
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If you want lose less by the time you get older, stay fit. It's the loss in muscle and bone mass that causes reduction in height over time (as much as 2 inches).
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:42 PM
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Why wait until you have a great income to start a relationships? Afterall, the one's that stick with you now have potential to be better-quality women that like you for you and not your job title. The best one's will understand that you can't take them out for fancy dinners or $15 cocktails for the time being. And that's nothing to be ashamed about (as long as you're actually focusing on improving your finances).
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:35 PM
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I've noticed the flaking too with respect to daygame vs nightgame. You can literally be making out and groping each other and the next day she just disappears, lol. Shit's wiild.
/r/seduction20/07/19 08:49 AM
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The problem with self-reporting is the inherent bias present here. Unless you physically record interactions, we'll be taking shots in the dark. There are cases where having wingmen/coaches can be extremely helpful. Just do your research, because a lot of "dating coaches" have no game themselves.
/r/seduction20/07/19 08:47 AM
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No, you're confusing social skills for game. Game includes social skills, but it encompasses more than that.
/r/seduction20/07/19 08:43 AM
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I think this is regional too. What's attractive is often just a trend. From region to region, I sometimes can't help but laugh at the guys the chicks there are fawning over. Know your demographics people.
/r/seduction20/07/19 08:41 AM
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Are we still on this, "do looks matter" bullshit? Ffs, what idiot was arguing against the notion? Look, in this instance the guy got pulled by the girl. That's not really what game is about. Looks, money, social status, height, etc.. ALL of these things matter (of course they do, children know this), but game is a seperate category. So why do develop 'game'? Because when all those things are gone (yes, you get shorter with age) the thing that stays is game. At the end of the day, game is basical…
/r/seduction20/07/19 08:36 AM
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So the tiers are subjective to a degree, but the way I see it is as follows: • Beginner: someone that no matter how many approaches they do, don't get a result (getting laid) and/or any result is a result of random chance and not a dirrect result of your game (IE a wasted fat girl hits you over the head with a rock and drags you to her dungeon) •Intermediate: This is where game becomes a numbers game. But you can get relatively consistent results (say 1 out of 100). •Intermediate advanced: Here …
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:28 PM
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I think that at the beginner-intermediate level, it's more basic social skills and getting over anxiety than actual game.
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:19 PM
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When you're cold approaching, you're practically selling yourself. Would you put a totalled auto on the showroom floor? YOU are what they're buying, so naturally making the "package" more appealing will make the sell a lot easier. And there's a lot of ways of doing that. If I where you I'd start focussing on a specific type of girl you like and go after that (I'm not talking about looks alone. Think hobbies, interests, etc.. where are the women you like the most, likely to be). From their you ca…
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:17 PM
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I don't think it's that logical. Think about what distinguishes your best friends from your typical friends. Chances are that the former you probably give and take shit from each other, but it builds you up. In other words, it's not a threat. Now imagine a relationship where you're always only polite and afraid of offending the other person. That dynamic won't withstand any turmoil whatsoever. If a girl gives you shit, I can guarantee you most of the time she's not ever doing it as some kind of …
/r/seduction18/07/19 07:58 AM
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Not to be cheesy, but I don't think there ever is an endgame. Just getting better and better when you have the opportunity to do so. It doesn't end when you're in a relationship either. Once you've kindled that fire, you still needa keep the flame going. Seduction is not a one and done deal, but a dance where you can't stand on the sidelines. You absoloutley need to continuously make them feel desired while still maintaining the stance that YOU'RE the prize.
/r/seduction18/07/19 07:52 AM
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Upvoted for the connection part. IF theres chemistry between me and another girl who's completely average(whatever the hell that means) AND I have the opportunity to chose between taking her home or a dime who happens to have 0 personality, I will ALWAYS choose the average girl. What a lot of guys get wrong is thinking that sex starts after your clothes are off and you're slipping on a condom, whereas my perspective is that it starts waaay before that. The way you interact, gaze into each others…
/r/seduction18/07/19 07:47 AM
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It's pretty simple, just imagine your best friend or close relative warmly smiling at you and it'll come out naturally
/r/seduction17/07/19 04:04 AM
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There are good days and there are bad days like with anything else. I left out some extraneous details on that one for privacy, but the gist is that I missed a very VERY good opportunity and ultimatley let myself down. I'd consider myself beginner/intermediate leaning towards intermediate at this point. We're all on a journey.
/r/seduction15/07/19 04:51 AM
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De nada :)
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:18 AM
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If 90% of the guys here could grow some balls, we could have some really interesting topics + comversations. Instead, most stuff is heavily skewed towards beginners :/. Guys, please don't just stop gaming after you get into a relationship, these skills are EXTREMELY valuable in most facets of life. Plus they're quite fun to develop too.
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:09 AM
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You go in flirting lightly and amplify that as the interaction progresses (when she starts warming up to you a bit). Ideally, if you're a beginner you should jump into the premise ASAP and make your intentions clear. When you get the hang of that, you can move on to being more subtle which is arguably "better" game, but you need Need NEED to get dirrect game down to get a feel of where you should generally be steering the interaction. Both dirrect and indirrect game have their contexts, so it's …
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:05 AM
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Little side note here. Psychiatrists are your usual go-to if your looking for drugs (erm, I mean pharmaceutical intervention). Psychologists and therapists are the ones that you go to for cleaning up your mindset and dealing things that have been weighing on you.
/r/seduction15/07/19 02:58 AM
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Then cold approach is perfect for you. As long as you live in a descent sized city, it's low risk/high reward + inconsequential practice if you really fuck it up. You just need to let go of your pride and ego while also being willing to learn from mistakes. I'd highly reccomend a wing to start if it's absoloutley from scratch. That way, you can keep up morale and have more fun while you're out.
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:37 PM
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Not the type of girls I'm after
/r/seduction13/07/19 07:04 PM
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If you're constantly going out and on top of that have a few hobbies, you begin having too many to keep track of. Or "hey, can you take a pic of me doing x for my y profile". It's that easy.
/r/seduction13/07/19 06:21 PM
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He got more hobbies and started showing them in his pics. OP became a more interesting person. Which is more attractive than someone posting mirror selfies.
/r/seduction13/07/19 06:19 PM
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So I'm assuming you do approaches. What's your sticky point(s)? Are you closing and getting the number and not getting any descent follow ups? Are you making your intentions clear from the get-go so its clear to them that you're not just being friendly? There's clearly a problem(s) (ignoring looks assuming you have good hygeine, style, physique, and a decent haircut) and if you're serious about a resolution, it's crucial to zero in on them.
/r/seduction13/07/19 06:03 PM
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Dude, you must be doing something wrong and it's not looks trust me (check out my profile if you need a confidence boost, I'm not a good looking guy myself lol). Especially since you've stated that you've been doing various forms of self-improvement for the past few years.
/r/seduction12/07/19 02:38 PM
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Indirectly, a ton. And I could've written this post myself. I have this feeling that society is growing more and more antisocial in general. People seem to see more things as a threat even though, statistically, crime rates are at record lows.
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:13 AM
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Do you often put yourself in situations that can lead to getting laid. Por ejemplo, I go out almost daily because I have nothing better to do
/r/seduction12/07/19 02:04 AM
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After a quick glance over your posts, it appears that you're living a self-fulfilling prophecy. You're always trying to convince others that no woman ever finds you attractive, but do children literally shudder at your appearance. Do babies begin crying? You need to fix your mindset after all those years of negative self-talk. The best interactions for me usually happen when I ASSUME attraction which leads to better vibes with girls. It's sososo important that you get them to feel comfortable ar…
/r/seduction12/07/19 12:02 AM
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Are they literally saying to your face, "you're too ugly for me, I'm not attracted to you"? Make sure you're doing everything in your power to look presentable ofc such as hygeine (at the very very least), nice and well fitting clothes, great hairstyle + beard/stubble, fitness, and posture. can you honestly tell me you've got all of these things under wraps?
/r/seduction11/07/19 10:48 PM
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My goal is higher charisma and better vibing. Occassionally I get lucky, but I want to be better at smoothing out the process. Sex on its own is fine, but that's not the primary goal. I know I won't be a Casanova, but I want to improve.
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:25 PM
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You're fine. I constantly see pretty ugly guys with their arms around girls way out of their league. It sounds to me like you need to make your intentions clearer. And the making girlfriends is actually really helpful, because often they like to play matchmaker and hook you up. If I can tell she's not interested, I usually shoot for the platonic relationship that has its own benefits (MASSIVE social proof when you're out with the girls)
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:22 PM
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It's more like a narcicisstic breakdown tbh
/r/seduction11/07/19 09:26 AM
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I DON'T just want to fuck them. ONS are usually boring as hell. I really really want to form a connection/bond. When that happens, it's better than mediocre sex. Just being infatuated with each other. Nothing beats that feeling. It's just that the next night, it's as if nothing happened and you're strangers again.
/r/seduction11/07/19 09:19 AM
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WHO ARE THESE FISHERMEN?? That aren't just self-procclaimed gurus?
/r/seduction30/06/19 07:23 AM
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That's a big ass, how tall does that make you?
/r/seduction08/06/19 11:50 PM
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So play with perspective and find some short friends👌. My dumbass has always used self portraits 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:33 PM
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People do that? Seems kinda tacky
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:16 PM
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How do you even show that you're tall on tinder lmao?
/r/seduction08/06/19 07:13 AM
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I have a huge ass sunburn on my back and wearing a shirt is super painful lol
/r/seduction08/06/19 07:11 AM
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https://youtu.be/7nkrzI9GwNk
/r/seduction08/06/19 06:43 AM
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"If you want to feel confident, stop judging yourself, but do go to work on yourself"
/r/seduction04/06/19 09:12 PM
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He really took fight club too seriously. The guy now literally has a cult..for guys that wanna get laid lmao.
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:35 PM
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I disagree with the "not being the real you" using certain things to alter your state of mind. It's just brings out a different part of you that you might've not known was there by altering your neurochemistry. It's my belief that certain drugs are quite useful even if it's just to give you that reference experience so that you can access it while totally sober and for gaining deeper incite into who you are as an individual.
/r/seduction24/03/19 09:34 PM
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Yes, abs are great, but you have to be in a place to show them off. Abs aren't evident when you're just out and about (which is like 98% of the time) that's why I ranked shoulders and forearms above them. But yea abs are great, I often find myself getting off to them in the mirror, but I usually need to dim the lights cuz I'm not quite there yet. Just being fit in general puts you in a great position. P.S. Don't forget the triceps. That's like 1/3 of your arms and most guys neglect them
/r/seduction18/03/19 03:49 AM
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Shoulders > biceps > forearms > abs > back > legs IMO
/r/seduction17/03/19 07:42 PM
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Uh, no. Instead of limitting your options go for who you like and see what works. This isn't some super pragmatic process where everyone's walking around with a number over their heads and will only talk with anyone at or above it.
/r/seduction17/03/19 07:32 PM
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Lol, modafinil isn't that great. Basically just makes you feel awake and clear-minded.
/r/seduction17/03/19 07:29 PM
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Idk, I think I was on pretty good terms with my parents growing up. I think im clear on that front for now, lol. But not knowing what I want in an SO rings true. I guess I'm just lost in that matter for now. Anyways, thanks for the support! Great to see other people willing to lend an ear and help out. I probably will see someone about this soon.
/r/seduction01/03/19 06:36 AM
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I feel like that might be part of the reason I can't commit. After all, I'm usually the one that gets cold feet and end up going after someone else. I just have nothing there to tie me into a relationship, independent of the quality of the girl. Every encounter (even if it ends up in a hookup) feels completely platonic to me. And to answer your former question: It has more to do validation in the sense that the girl likes me enough to give me her phone/snap/Insta, makeout, take me back to her pl…
/r/seduction01/03/19 06:13 AM
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It makes me feel good when another girl(pretty much anyone lol) reciprocates my interest in her and accepts my advances. And yea, it makes me feel accepted as if im "enough". But the situation is pretty selfish, because in doing so, I'm making it all about myself.
/r/seduction01/03/19 05:14 AM
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Like in what? I have hobbies, I'm relatively fit, eat well, travel on occasion, etc.. I just don't get that feeling with anyone where you see a happy couple holding hands strolling along in the park. Something to do with a 4-letter word. And I know that im not coldhearted or incapable of forming bonds. It's just that I literally could not care less about most people(for whatever reason that might be). Idk, I'll probably need a therapist for this..
/r/seduction01/03/19 04:53 AM
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Seriousley one cool ass mofo. When I got talking with him(I was getting some strong bi vibes from him), I asked where he got those moves. Then he just looked at me square in the face and told me to watch magic mike, lmao. If you focus on being a great and likeable person, you'll naturally attract people. This took me a while to "get" myself. Virtually everyone has insecurities wether its their looks, height, weight, finances, anything really.. We all have baggage. Learn to genuinely love and app…
/r/seduction24/02/19 10:36 PM
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Depends on your level of game. I was at a pretty popular club last night in a college town and the guy that was getting the most attention was probably a 5 at best(below average height, sleazy outfit, and definitely out of shape, wore glasses, had acne scars, wore an unbuttoned shirt exposing his overly average body, etc.. you get the point). Didnt matter because of the amazing vibes he was giving off. Dude was all over the place, girls where swooning over him left and right. A handful of guys e…
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:35 PM
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"I like sucking cock, but not because I'm gay. I just like the texture"
/r/seduction23/02/19 09:34 PM
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https://m.imgur.com/xguXHr5
/r/seduction22/02/19 06:18 AM
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Dude seconded ukranian girls, they're something else.
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:33 AM
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Seconded on the exercise thing (especially cardio atleast 30min per session a few times a week). We're not built to lead the sedentary lifestyle most of us live day-to-day. Exercise is one of those keystone habits where once you get it down, it'll naturally lead to other great ones such as diet, mindfullness, etc.. get on top of that shit
/r/seduction13/02/19 06:46 AM
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You sort of get desensitized to it (as with most things in life). If you're like me, you'll still fall hard for a girl on occasion, but that usually happens I've you've built a connection over time. You just don't want that happening with someone you just met/hardly know.
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:00 PM
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This is nothing. It shouldn't mean anything to you, because there's nothing indicating that you 2 even have chemistry. This should register on the same level for you as eating breakfest and putting your shoes on in the morning does. Keep talking to people, even if you think you've found someone interesting. Always have options, but don't be aggressive either. Even if it's just platonic, KEEP YOURSELF ON THE RADAR. Also, just focus on having a good time and the people will naturally follow.
/r/seduction27/01/19 07:12 AM
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If you're using obvious filters and PS then yea, I agree with you. But picking out your best photos is not at all catfising imo. Por ejemplo, if you're following this photographers advice (as seen in exhibit 1 and "in the DiCaprio"), you're not doing anything wrong. Besides, you should be showing up on your 'A' game anyways to your dates. PS: check out that photographers channel btw, really cool guy
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:42 AM
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Also, working in sales I'd say.
/r/seduction26/01/19 07:27 PM
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Yea, that's the same principle. My example was overly dramatized to convey the point. And the thing is, that it's common sense really. We're usually drawn to the ones other people like, so naturally being social and friendly is a good way to achieve that. In seduction, you know you're on the right track when you start thinking, "oh yea that makes sense, how could it be any other way?"; It's like finding those last puzzle pieces to reveal the same picture as you see on the box art.
/r/seduction15/01/19 05:24 AM
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It's a common phenomenon where, when someone notices another person that's popular with others in a group, they'll start reading into any possible redeeming qualities to justify others beliefs about them. When you're constantly on the lookout for what makes another person so great, even if you initially didn't like them, you're basically conditioning yourself to overlook their flaws and magnify their strengths. Try it out. Hire some photogrophers to hound you like a paparazzi and you'll have peo…
/r/seduction13/01/19 04:12 AM
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Different strokes for different folks. A lot of the time you can take that ONS further if you so choose, but yea I agree with you in that they can be pretty unfullfilling. Having a genuinely great interraction is better than a mediocre fling imo, but hey if the opportunitie's there..
/r/seduction08/12/18 05:35 PM
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Unless they are just one night stands. There are times where ,"eh might aswell" turns into "holy shit that was amazing".
/r/seduction08/12/18 08:54 AM
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Black mirror: Hang the DJ To all the guys/gals feeling disheartened by online dating, we are just getting started 😅
/r/seduction02/12/18 06:20 AM
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Lol, imagine a freudian slip. "Oh I was just imagining how ugly you'll be in a few decades" It helps thinking about them as any other person going through the mundane bullshit of day-to-day life.
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:23 AM
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Just keep doing cold approaches and not necessarily with the intent of getting girls or numbers. Just have more conversations with strangers and you'll get desensitized to it rather quickly. That "excited feeling" is a great way to re-frame approach anxiety and you will, believe it or not, miss it after getting used to interactions.
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:17 AM
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Here is a great video on your EXACT problem Side note: I don't like RSD for alot of reasons, BUT some of their guys have some great videos on youtube for "inner game"(especially their older stuff). Just be weary of all the bullshit(which is easily discernible for anyone with an iota of common sense).
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:13 AM
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Going out to a club, you know a social place to have fun, dance, and meet new people. Yea, totally creepy. And if you're uncomfortable alone, it's pretty straightforward and easy to make some quick friends.
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:17 PM
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Most girls that I approach seem to be either indifferent or impressed that I'm alone. Besides it's super easy to make a wingman, since most other guys there are on the same page as you. Be a bro and open a group of girls and invite your new found friend(s) over. This builds social proof among the girls and your dirrectly giving the guys value and they'll really appreciate you for that. Being the middleman that connects people puts you in a great position from a value perspective.
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:11 PM
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First off I love love LOVE seeing more women going against archaic societal norms and making the first move in a relationship. As for where you should go, I'd go with the advice other commentators already made. Ask him out somewhere you both would be interested in going.
/r/seduction01/12/18 07:55 PM
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So, accepting your disadvantages without looking at your situation judgementally and with as much objectivity as possible, what can you do in your situation? That is to say, "what is and isn't under your own DIRRECT control"? You don't have to answer, just give it some thought. As an side on the virginity thing, I don't understand why American culture is so obcessed with it. On it's own it's not that great and occasionally pretty boring. The 1st stages of a relationship (aka the "honeymoon phase…
/r/seduction01/12/18 04:55 AM
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OP better respond to this comment. It's too often that I see guys on here (among other places) laying out there problems/spilling their guts, seeking help,.. and then proceeding to do absolutely nothing with the feedback they received. That is the ultimate form of self-betrayal imo.
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:49 AM
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Oh I talk with evryone, only getting tired a few hours in after which it's time to leve. And most of the guys where zombie by the end. Everyone gets ecausted.
/r/seduction22/11/18 12:02 PM
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I just went out again to another club. No lays, but grinding and made out with a girl. I still have no clue how go flirt or vibe. Are my looks that bad in your opinion? Social conditioning is not have-or-not unless you have something like autism. Most of the guys there aren't exactly the most socially savvy people at the club nor are alot of them attractive. Oh and for the social conditioning part, most people are drunk/high. Few people feel comfortable approaching without the added courage. You…
/r/seduction22/11/18 12:00 PM
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I talked to girls indiscriminately and a strange thing I noticed was that the uglier ones reacted more negatively towards my advances than the others, because I think they thought that I was doing what you're suggesting. You gave me an epiphany. The hungarian girl that approached me probably got angry when I started talking and dancing with her friend. When I got back to her I got an "accidental" cigarette burn after which she shortly left. God, I'm such a moron 😂
/r/seduction22/11/18 12:10 AM
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Thanks, I'll be using this one tonight.
/r/seduction20/11/18 12:49 AM
4

You'd be gay not to.
/r/seduction11/11/18 01:18 AM
3

Next step is to completely stop watching porn and only masturbating to your reflection.
/r/seduction11/11/18 01:17 AM
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Don't try forcing yourself into having or not having thoughts. You'll get the exact opposite of what you where hoping for. Instead, observe each thought as a seperate entity(as you would if you where meditating) and a acknowledge them. It's not your thoughts that hold power over you, but the fealings behind them.
/r/seduction14/07/18 11:49 PM
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Yea, they're phenomenal for forearms. I used to just hang as long as I could on a pull-up bar, but it took much longer to feel the strain.
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:24 AM
5

In that case This thing is your best friend
/r/seduction09/07/18 12:21 AM
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It can be an ok conversation opener, but talking about occupation can be bland. Most people are sick of talking about their job, because it's always one of the first things anyone new usually asks you about.
/r/seduction11/05/18 05:09 PM
1

Aww shucks now I neeed to give it a shot
/r/seduction09/05/18 04:14 AM
1

This can go over reaaallly badly..
/r/seduction09/05/18 03:59 AM
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Amazon link Free Epub link
/r/seduction02/05/18 04:53 PM
1

I get your point, but I still think it's kind of an intentional dick move if someone throws away a drink you just bought them. If anything it seems like something you would do if you wanted to piss someone off or insult them.
/r/seduction01/05/18 12:09 AM
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Not to condesend the original message. But easier said than done
/r/seduction09/06/17 04:50 AM
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Maybe you are on adderall, no appetite, but have to eat. Your move chap
/r/seduction02/01/17 07:36 AM
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How many
/r/seduction19/11/16 09:29 AM
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How is that not a normal responce though. Sure, most people prefer minding their own business, but a little small talk here and there isn't unusual. This would seem like a common responce, maybe some people would be confused at first.
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:03 AM
5

Lol wut
/r/seduction18/11/16 02:22 AM
5

What the fuck
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:42 PM
2

Here's the site that I used to make the search: http://gen.lib.rus.ec
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:39 PM
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To be fair, if you look like this, you're gonna have a bad time
/r/seduction14/11/16 06:03 AM
4

Like physical coaching? Totally worth it, because you can get dirrect, unbiased feedback. If you're talking about videos and books. No, you can get that for free.
/r/seduction12/11/16 06:17 PM
1

I do care to an extent. I try to see myself from another persons perspective, like how I would see any other person. From that point I just act the way I would consider appropriate. It's all about context.
/r/seduction04/11/16 07:21 PM
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https://youtube.com/watch?v=Js19h1GW32o
/r/seduction29/10/16 09:44 PM
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Hang out with successful people and people headed in that dirrection. You sort of just naturally emulate them and mix into their culture. Drop the things holding you back and find the things that will push you forward. Here's a useful TED talk on breaking bad habits: https://youtube.com/watch?v=-moW9jvvMr4 Edit: It's about thinking with reason, not emotion. You have a goal, an objective. You are hellbent on reaching it and with god as your bloody witness. Nothing else matters. You're to busy wit…
/r/seduction22/09/16 07:58 AM
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Better not to resort to street drugs because you can't be certain what you'll get. It doesn't get better than pharmaceuticals™.
/r/seduction06/08/16 06:57 PM
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Mediation or setting time aside to just think
/r/seduction06/08/16 02:23 PM
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Or just get some xanax and adderall.
/r/seduction06/08/16 02:19 PM
4

And then substitute that for diazepam.
/r/seduction18/06/16 06:54 PM
3

Or your are just an idiot lol.
/r/seduction24/05/16 08:18 PM
5

Move.
/r/seduction12/05/16 09:10 PM
3

It works best if it's perceived as authentic instead of just a ruse. Pretending to be scarce vs actually being scarce. Think diamonds and gold.
/r/seduction10/05/16 05:34 AM
6

Push, pull.
/r/seduction08/05/16 06:58 PM
3

Great info. To add onto this: Exhale twice as long as you inhale. It supposedly triggers a parasympathetic responce in your CNS(physiologically puts you into a calm state).
/r/seduction05/05/16 02:13 AM
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All that crap is the truth. The article is completely honest. I'm not sure what your expexting. Want a magic bullet? Try cocaine/ MDMA/xanax on a night out. Guaranteed results unless there's something seriousley wrong with you(in which case you have bigger problems to deal with). Why don't you go ahead and post a few pictures of yourself and some of your outfits? You've obviousley got these fronts covered since they're so basic.
/r/seduction02/05/16 05:38 AM
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I think most everyone has almost everything on that list to an extent. For example, everyone has atleast a hint of charm, wit, humor, skin, eyes.. It seems to be more of a spectrum than a binary yes or no.
/r/seduction02/05/16 05:31 AM
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Read "The 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene. Seriousley, there's alot you can take from it that's applicable in basically all facets of life. Unfortunately, I can't reccomend this kind of book to people I know personally, because they'd probably never trust me again ;)
/r/seduction23/03/16 07:20 AM
5

Touching up your pictures with photoshop can do wonders.
/r/seduction31/01/16 04:58 PM
3

This. So much this. Especially MDMA
/r/seduction16/01/16 07:14 PM
1

What you said sounds exactly like outcome independence. Confidence comes from competence. What makes you valuable and necessary to society?
/r/seduction24/10/15 12:51 AM
1

Once you focus on the eyes, you are in full view of a myriad of sub-concious facial expressions.
/r/seduction18/09/15 11:56 PM
1

Hey man, thanks for the responce. My goal isn't just to get better at game, but with people overall. Like being that random Norwegian dude that you and a group of friends met during a trip and ended up having the time of your life, you feel me? Part of that is being resourceful also, but alot of it is being able to interact with people at a deeper level. I've tried the whole going out for 20min up to an hour, but it doesn't feel right (I can talk to women, but it ends up being an immersive/casua…
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:32 AM
1

Try not sleeping for one day. You have a tendancy to not care about anything because you're in "survival mode" and everything is sort of distorted. Besides that you can go with exposure therapy, which is basically exposing yourself to the thing causing you anxiety and increasing in frequency the behavior. You should get used to it and become descentised over time. If you want something more immediate, there's always alcohol, although I don't like it due to the whole "please step out of your car,…
/r/seduction11/08/15 10:02 AM
1

Honestly, don't get all your content from a single source. Reddit is more of an entertainment site with casual conversation most places. You should look at communities focussed on something specific to get the best quality content.
/r/seduction04/08/15 06:37 AM
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Just a hurdle n00bs needa get over. Can't get layed? hire an escort (the more the better). Not confident enough to do that? Order some cocaine and viagra off agora. It stops there. Ends there, if that doesn't work you probably don't have a pulse.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:14 AM
0

You could have summed up this write this up as: I see grill and go up to her 2 talk. Then talk bout stupid shit playfully 'n keep talking. Maybe go somewhere.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:07 AM
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I have to disagree with your conjecture of humanity evolving at an increasing pace and the concept of "change". People do not change (with VERY few exceptions). Sure over time we might adapt new habits, mannerisms, or prefferences, but at the core everything stays relatively similar. Humanity is not something super special, we are not entitled to any high praise. We are nothing, but smart apes. All behavior has an emotional influence and calling humanity sociopathic is completely ignorant. Thing…
/r/seduction03/07/15 05:43 AM
1

Yea, I agree. There's no universal principles that make someone ideal or superior to everyone else. The term is relative as it varies from person to person. With that being said, there are individuals that are obviousley leaders. They turn heads when they walk into a room and are respected by their peers. This might be different from others experiences, but throughout my life I've always noticed that amongst every group of friends there was someone that always took the lead. There is a hierarchy…
/r/seduction03/07/15 04:25 AM
1

8
/r/seduction03/07/15 01:42 AM
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all that social Darwinism ("survival of the fittest" etc.) is baloney, in my opinion. Not really. When you think of it on a scale of value it all makes sense. Being obese, lazy, pessimistic, etc.. would constitute being lower "value" whereas being fit, disciplined, and energetic would usually be associated with higher value. Having your shit together and displaying certain characteristics has a large effect on the outcome of the interaction. "Fittest" in this day and age doesn't require you to b…
/r/seduction03/07/15 12:42 AM
2

Meanwhile r/coontown remains... wow
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:56 AM
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No, that's called courage idiot Edit : Confidence: noun the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust. Courage: noun the ability to do something that frightens one.
/r/seduction02/06/15 05:34 PM
1

That's alot of air brush and makeup.
/r/seduction02/06/15 03:14 AM
1

You can be a 10/10 to yourself 2 ways, 1st way is prefferable. Realize that attraction is subjective and that by being a 10 you're your best self. No one agrees on what defines a dime. Second way is to live in your own delusional world thinking your gods gift to humanity and that if anyone reacts negatively towards you, the problem is with them not with you.
/r/seduction02/06/15 03:10 AM
1

The game is all there is or ever will be
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:18 AM
1

I think modern society greatly(but not completely) blurs the lines of gender roles alot. some women are good comapny, some aren't
/r/seduction30/04/15 08:10 AM
1

WTF bro. People are just emotional animals. We have instincts and logical fallacies. If you want logic lock yourself in a room and spend all your waking ours obcessing over some obscure branch of mathematics. Yes, you should be reasonable, but don't be radical.
/r/seduction30/04/15 08:06 AM
2

So you're gonna need some sexual tension(as an opposing force) my man. "Yea, I adopted a puppy last week. I named him swenson after my distant aunt. Here I'll show you a picture"<pull out phone>"oh whoops that's my dick"<without any hesitation act like nothing happened>. I haven't ever tried it, but I might. Will report back. (Tip: don't try this if you come off as creepy/awkward and or the chick isn't comftorable around you) Edit: I took a picture of my dick on a table and alongside a ruler. I …
/r/seduction30/04/15 07:59 AM
1

I thought the "after party" thing was just an example. I didn't beleive people recycle that. I cringe especially when I see guys on friday nights out doing that spinning dance move on chicks (or whatever it's called). I mean it wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't so common.
/r/seduction30/04/15 07:52 AM
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What I'm saying is that reddit is a source of conversation. Most users are anonymous and someone that's providing the answer to whatever it is your looking for could easily be wrong. You can get naive people to agree with you because most are lazy to verify their sources. And if they're smart enough to verify their sources they likely wouldn't be on reddit in the first place. Reddit functions mostly as a media platform and as its gained popularity, good information becomes vastly out-numbered by…
/r/seduction27/04/15 10:27 PM
1

More like an athlete quitting madden to actually practice football. A professional doesn't listen to rants from amateurs. The problem with reddit is that it's difficult to verify and filter good sources of information.
/r/seduction27/04/15 04:21 PM
2

Come join Quora
/r/seduction27/04/15 01:34 PM
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Because you used a condom
/r/seduction22/03/15 04:22 PM
6

It's not extroversion and introversion. Business boils down to sales. Being able to make people feel a certain way about certain things and convincing them to do something. Just so happens that the ones that are good with people are the ones that spend time with them. It's fairly unlikely that you don't actually like people(around 5% of people fall into this category). Go out into the wilderness alone for a month. No Internet no radio, tv, or books, etcetera. I think your opinion may quickly cha…
/r/seduction07/02/15 08:11 AM
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Your life would be much more interesting if you didn't allow morals and ethics to stand in your way, but that's just my opinion.
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:11 AM
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