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I know women who are like “I’m single so I’m not shaving” or “it’s winter so I don’t need to shave my legs” and I can’t understand that. I love my legs shaved and couldn’t imagine not shaving them. If I was shaving then all the sudden stopped and my guy noticed and was unhappy, he’d have a right to be because trust that if he didn’t manscape, shower, or exercise to stay sexy to me, then I’m saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:41 PM
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Hi. I read your other comments and since “past performance is the best indicator of future performance”, I know the type of guy I’m dealing with and I’m not interested. Please take the crystal ball you own and move on to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 08:04 PM
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I’d expect a grown up to be able to read and comprehend simple sentences, but some of us just have unrealistic expectations, don’t we? Please be gone from my comment thread if you can’t understand why I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 07:43 PM
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I'm sorry you can't get out of your box to understand that I didn't know what I didn't know. That's what "growing up" means: learning new things. You oughta try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 07:18 PM
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Was premarital counseling supposed to include a book of hypothetical questions regarding managing a home/ kids/ pets? Because if so, I got ripped off... I didn't even know what I didn't know about these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 06:33 PM
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I think I made the reasons why I didn't fully know this beforehand very clear. Separate/ low maintenance living situations. Then you buy a piece of property and get a dog and there are a ton more things you learn about what a person can, cannot, and will not even try to learn to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 06:14 PM
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That explains a lot. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:38 PM
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Not dating anymore. But was married to. TLDR, didn’t know he was a man child til we got married, bought a house, got a dog. Prior to that we were living in low maintenance apartment/ separate living situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:01 PM
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I have a little experience with it, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 03:48 PM
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Yeah, man, sure. Whoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 03:16 PM
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A manchild is more than just a man who "can't do something". It's more or less a man- who should be functioning as a equal member of his household- WON'T even try to do something or learn how to do something. Examples: My lunch didn't get made. Who's gonna make my lunch? What am I going to eat now? Wants several dogs to "protect" the house. Won't clean up dog poop because he "doesn't do that". Won't unclog the toilet after taking a massive shit because he doesn't know how. Leaves it there for so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 03:06 PM
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Lol, but not anymore shaming and "cunty" as calling a woman a nag for having to ask for something from a man more than once. That must be okay though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 03:00 PM
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Most likely the promiscuity is because you are young and coming into your own and experiencing new things. The sexual energy is there because you have no other cares in the world, no adult responsibilities. At 30, I can tell you that I felt sex in a better way than I did at 18, but that might be due to having emotional bonds with the people I was with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 11:36 AM
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This post was way too long. No need to get married at all. If your idea of marriage is sleep with anyone with contractual obligations to raising kids, then skip the “marriage” piece and write out a contract for conceiving and raising a child. Prevents men from having unwanted children and forces each party to go in eyes wide open. Alimony is avoided and child support can be determined as a percentage of income. Marriage, versions 1.0 and 2.0 were just forms of indentured servitude on the part of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 11:29 AM
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What exactly am I wrong about? My opinions? The questions I asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 08:11 PM
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Lol. Read the comment. The reference to “soon to be ex” refers to the spouse you’re divorcing and how easy it is to do without drama if you aren’t both assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 04:26 PM
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I guess I fail to see the relevance. She had a high level director's position (probably made more money than him) and he had a job he hated with hours that sucked and it was her obligation to manage the home because "woe is him"? She was privileged to have a job she loved, but she earned that job, no? Was that given to her because "woman"? And for Christ's sake, why is it her fault that he's staying in a job he hates? What would he do if he were single and not living with someone? Wouldn't he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 02:48 PM
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Then the reverse is also true. Just because [whatever you want to call it] told you had women have an awesome privileged life as a rule while men are basically their slaves who have to give women all their money in exchange for no sex while women do nothing doesn’t necessarily mean it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 02:41 PM
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I'm saying it was none of those things. Have you ever been divorced? If you and your soon to be ex aren't total shit tards, you can do it for the cost of the filing fee only. No lawyers, one short visit in front the judge as a formality. No drama, no mediation, no antics- then freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 02:37 PM
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“Do something”? What could I have done that would have prevented me from taking full advantage of said “opportunities the govt has created for me”? I don’t even know what that means. But, no, as hard as it is to believe, I left and simply wanted him to be okay and not go through a long and arduous divorce process to divy up “things”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 11:05 PM
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Agreed. Don't marry. Women can have kids if they want, make money when they want, and have all the sex they want without marrying. The sooner women get it through their head that marriage is a prison for them- full of unrealistic expectations put on them by men and other members of society- the better off they'll be. How do I get that "anti-marriage" tag next to my name???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 09:42 PM
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The world inside your head is a sad one. I'm really very sorry about that. >Why did you not divorce rape your beta husband when you left? Did you do something that prevented your ability to do that? This question doesn't really deserve a response but here goes: Because I'm not an asshole, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 09:35 PM
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If I am understanding you correctly, you’re saying that his expectations of you have no bearing on whether you think he is good enough to get married to?! Does that make sense to you when you read it? Another point is that I fail to see how “divorce rape” in this scenario is relevant to how someone is considered marriage material. Just FYI, though, when I left my husband, I gave him 25k of equity in the house, all the furniture he wanted, half the savings, the car I still pay for for him, and hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 05:55 PM
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Maybe video games is a bad example but the rest I stand by. Men went to work and came home. Women minded the home and children. Roles were separate and defined. Each was an equal contributor to the success of the home. What has changed is that women are now working outside the home and still expected to do the rest of it too. I stand by that definitely. In my close circles, very few of my female friends have a “partner”, so you’re right I’m exposed to shitty, immature men but I am most definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 03:51 PM
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Women are doing what men have been doing for decades- putting themselves first. In this day and age, both parties have to put others before themselves if a relationship is to work. Lots of men aren’t “marriage material” because these are the times where they expect that women cook, clean, and child rear while also working to contribute financially to the home. Also, sex all the time (which would be awesome except lots of men fail miserably at pleasing their partner in the bedroom) all while they…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:35 PM
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I’m willing to bet it’s the first and third more than anything. I listened to this podcast https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/hidden-brain/id1028908750?mt=2&i=1000406897543 regarding males and emotions and how society doesn’t allow them to be “emotional” and can only be that way in a romantic context. Could be one explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:27 PM
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I chuckled at this. By your twisted logic, a man that prefers a tight ass, big boobs and a skinny waist is a racist too. I mean all the offense in the world with this statement: please take your incel ass right the hell on somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:55 AM
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Didn’t say it was easy. I said it can be done. Nothing about marriage is easy, but it can be done. Assuming both parents are responsible and committed, a nuclear family is best... duh. But that’s not a reality for lots of parenting situations, so women don’t need to hang their hat on that happening in order to have children is all I’m saying. Sorry if it annoys you. Sometimes the truth does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:18 AM
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Protective role? Maybe, you’re right. But you can all the way miss me with that emotional role crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:30 AM
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The problem is that we give a shit about "status". Status is a trend that can change like frozen yogurt or skinny jeans. So be the change. You can be a functioning member of a society without catering to it's whims and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:34 PM
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They are slowly coming to realize it. That's why less and less women are getting married. Granted, it's not the sole reason, but it's a big reason. Women can make their own money. Women can have children without a man. Women can own a home, take care of the home inside and out, and get sex at the drop of a hat, so what's really in it for women? More and more women are focusing on their friends and their hobbies instead of marriage. I'm not for man bashing at all but a woman can have an emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 05:31 PM
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Women do have demands in a husband that are very far fetched, but I don't always think a high income and spoiling her is it. I've heard from married women that if their husbands put in a little more effort in the home, they'd be okay with a 70/30 split on housework and stuff. As a woman who stays in shape (more for myself than anyone else, but sex is a whole lot more fun when muscles are bulging everywhere and you have the endurance for cowgirl; just saying), I’d want my man to do the same. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:37 PM
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Excellent argument. All your points are spot on. 👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:39 AM
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This is my favorite reply so far. 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:34 AM
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Thanks for the input but as others have pointed out already, I prob wasn’t clear in the title. Also, I’m new to Reddit so just figuring it out. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:26 AM
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Excellent in theory- because I am a woman doing the same. Understanding the nature of men and deciding that the traditional “law” of relationships gets in the way of enjoying my life. That does not mean I’m riding an endless carousel of dicks either. Monogamous FWB without all the cuddles and bullshit. I’ll even make us breakfast but if you start telling me what to wear, who to be friends with, or start pouting because I decided I have shit to do and can’t hang out with you all day... boy, bye. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:24 AM
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I’m not sure how to copy your text and then reply to it, but... if a man doesn’t care about a woman’s ability to provide, then why the fuck is there a giant uproar in their community about women using them for their resources? And if a man inherently knows that a woman seeks to reproduce with a genetic stud, then why get so mad when she actually does it? You answered the question saying they’re upset they’re not genetic studs but they act as though they’re logic is flawless. If hypergamy (mating…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:19 AM
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In general, people should live life according to their own premise. Women are living according to their own needs and desires and men should do the same... both need to do it quietly and without judgement of the other side...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:13 AM
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I totally agree. I’m just annoyed today about it. Sorry for the rant. Don’t need a view changing, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:30 PM
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Lol. You’re right. I know a newish MGTOW personally and want to vomit every time I think about being in a relationshit with his projecting, narcissistic, self absorbed, and insecure ass. (See, there’s that rage again...)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:29 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:24 PM
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No, this. You’re right. I have my moments of rage about it. And, yes, I think it annoys people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:21 PM
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I think you’re right, I don’t think I needed the CMV. Also, I’m not that great at Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:20 PM
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Avoiding extremes in relationships is very important, but if you pop over to r/mgtow, they act like any woman that opens her mouth is a "nagging cunt", so I apologize if that makes it sound like a man isn't interested in a woman with emotions or mood swings. I'm not particularly fond of feminism/ mgtow extreme views on the opposite sex. I think men have always been emotionally constipated as that is what society expects of them. I don't think women are any more emotional than they always have be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 12:45 PM
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Tall, physically dominant, full head of hair, not obese in any way, non gnarly teeth, takes basic care of himself (especially how he smells), and not a douche canoe that you might be able to take home to meet mommy and daddy one day. Men want a woman who isn't a landwhale, enjoys sex all the time, is good at sex, has low N count but is sexually adventurous, doesn't have an opinion about anything, doesn't ask him to do anything for her, doesn't have emotions or mood swings, and generally better n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 09:37 PM
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I was an athlete all my life and spent lots of time around these "amazons" and I gotta tell you, alot of them have their own insecurities about being that tall and NOT being attractive to men. They would want to know that a man was completely comfortable with her height before they would likely entertain going out with him. So, if you want to approach a woman like this, you better come correct with your confidence. Also, it means she doesn't have to wear heels. Which, for lots of women, is a plu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 09:28 PM
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It's delusional to think it's just one cause. Social media and dating sites, the instantaneous information and gratification from rampant and widespread internet usage. 89% of adults use the internet today compared with 75% in 08 and 50% in 2000. Those are huge jumps. Internet porn, the endless memes about how men are "worthless", the way TV shows portray the "happy wife, happy life" mentality, more focus on women's empowerment, and the decline in religious involvement all play a role. The finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:35 PM
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Exactly why I said go your own way. No point in relationships whatsoever. A woman can make her own money and get the physical attention she needs when she wants and not have to bow down to any dude. A dude gets mediocre sex at best and doesn’t get anything else he desires. I don’t see the point either! GYOW! 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/MGTOW07/06/18 10:51 PM
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Damnit, I had a long response to your comment which I accidentally deleted. In short, I agree with you that men are treated like shit in society. I hate it and I call it out with girl friends and guy friends often enough for them to roll their eyes at me when I start to talk about it. I'm not a feminist. I'm not a tradcon. I'm in the middle, choosing to see both sides of this shit coin. Men who think women are just wet holes are no different than women who think men are just ATM's. Two points of…
/r/MGTOW07/06/18 07:51 PM
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Sorry, obvi, not 8 months ago....
/r/MGTOW07/06/18 07:41 PM
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Rule Updates It has been brought to my attention that several people are unhappy with the content of the sub, mainly all the negativity towards men, and I happen to agree. To be clear, I don't find issue with content such as "these are my/other's experiences dating men and how dating men has harmed me/them," it's more these unrelated posts, such as news articles about men killing/raping/assaulting women, and frankly, I don't see what these types of threads in large numbers have to do with WGTOW.…
/r/MGTOW07/06/18 07:39 PM
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AWALT seems to mean that women will trade up to something better when they have the chance to do so. And with a million different options vs. a 100 options for a man to do the same thing, it seems like we can do it more as women than men can... BUT if the roles were reversed, they would do it just as much. For the record, I don't think that all women do this, but the men that post on Reddit are not always here for thoughtful discussion; they are here to vent their frustrations... on the internet…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:53 PM
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The only control you have is whether or not you play the game. Don't play the game. Go your own way and leave women alone. Whether we are in it for security, physical companionship, or a little of both, our desires are selfish and self serving. Yes, I'm a fem. GO YOUR OWN WAY FELLAS. Fight the natural desire for human connection and breeding. Crank one out to porn and do things that serve you and you alone. That's the only way to happiness.
/r/MGTOW07/06/18 02:47 PM
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Yes, I definitely agree with the fact that women are allowed a pass to do so. My woman friends do it all too often- think it's okay to have a shirtless firefighter calendar hanging in their offices, but are appalled when a male colleague would think to do the same. And, I love Ellen Degeneres and all that she does for the world and helping people, BUT her having men on her show stripping down to their skivvies is absolutely shameful. It is a severe double standard and as a heterosexual, mid 30's…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:48 PM
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I guess I don’t understand your argument. Yes, it was my choice. But I’m not sure where you are going with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 03:46 PM
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It’s as if “dick” is the only thing we care about. Which is actually projection on the male part. Most women I know want to be in equal partnerships and equal means different things to different couples. We don’t want man children. Men and women need to be on each other’s level. I told my ex, I’m not cool with him not taking care of his health (eating shit food, not working out, not getting enough sleep). He expected the same of me. I expected he didn’t ruin us financially (and he did do some da…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:48 PM
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We aren’t expected to contribute? So we get to be “leeches” off of men and the government (and then get shamed for doing so)? 🤔 How do women “put this on themselves”? Not married. Don’t want kids. Gonna make my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:40 PM
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What you just said is: Men give up their right to chase endless pussy Women want to pursue an equal partnership. It’s really as if men are focused solely on how to get their dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:44 AM
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Women don’t put this on themselves. We live in a society where women are expected to contribute also. Too many marriages end in divorce for a woman to not look out for herself financially. Also, and probably a bigger point, move over to TRP and MGTOW and see that men are obsessed with women being codependent on them for their “resources”, so which way do y’all want it? Do we stay home and make babies and be dependent on your “resources” or do we get out in the workforce and contribute?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:38 AM
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There are a shocking number of women that feel this way- in just my friend group and extended friend group alone. (But I guess, yeah, I could be you) 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 05:59 PM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 05:54 PM
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So 91% of nurses and 46% of up and coming doctors are women. These women are taking care of those rough and tumble night shift cops getting shot and beat up. Lol. The idea that women “need” protection was something programmed in us and in males. Many men are afraid to walk down those back alleys too, Big Guy. Marriage provides status to women so long as they hold value in what others think of them. Some women do, some women don’t. More and more don’t see marriage as something they must attain. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:42 PM
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My only comment is women “want” it but don’t “need” it. Just as men “want” sex but don’t “need” it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:33 PM
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A partnership is all I really wanted. A majority of the time I felt like all he offered was a mess I had to clean up and sex whenever I wanted it. Maybe if he helped out a little more, I would have more inclined to have lots of sex. Or maybe if I had had lots of sex with him, he would have been inclined to help out more. I’ll never know and I don’t wish to gamble on that deal ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:11 PM
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So original. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:43 PM
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Because I'm not interested in having sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:33 PM
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I'm divorced. No kids. I left because I was married to a man child- someone not willing to put in any effort in the household but wanted sex at the drop of a hat. I won't get married again. The emotional toll of a separation and divorce (even though we split everything amicably and didn't need a lawyer) is too much to do again. I'd love physical companionship but I don't want cohabitation or anything that resembles you implying I am here to "serve" you or vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:23 PM
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So what you’re saying is that woman makes up something that exacerbates a man’s condition, making it seem like it is worse than it really is (the word cold vs. flu), just so that SHE doesn’t have to put in any effort? 🙋🏼‍♀️ am I the only one that that makes zero sense to? And, yes, I’ve heard of having vivid and sometimes terrifying dreams during a fever. I’ve also heard of them during pregnancy and times of high stress. Not saying every man experiences “man flu” but enough of ya are like that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 09:26 AM
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There are certain truths to stereotypes, and where I don’t want to generalize, the post asked what women feel men exaggerate what men feel women exaggerate. It is not to ridicule men as we would appreciate nothing more than you guys to STOP feeling sorry for yourselves when you’re sick and still contribute to the household as a woman would and does in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 09:14 AM
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“Statistically significant” is important in making the statement that there is a difference in how men and women respond to illness due to testosterone. Whether or not a man is just an “emotional, whiny baby” can also ‘play a role’ but that’s not a statistically significant piece of data. Or maybe all my years of medical training have steered me wrong. 🤔🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:07 AM
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Please have my upvote. 👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:00 AM
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I’ve heard of that, yes. But I’ve also heard of guys getting out of tickets because they like the same football team as the officer and/ or volunteer at the local fire company. The damsel is distress thing (crying at a speeding ticket) doesn’t apply just because she’s a woman. If it was a female cop, that shit wouldn’t work. It flies because it appeals to the innate protector nature of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:57 PM
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You do realize that posted “study” says “there are no statistically significant differences between male and female immune systems”, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:47 PM
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Man flu has a definition and it’s exactly what I am referring to. Doesn’t mean you won’t go to work; it just means that around a SO, you are incapable of acting like a reasonable human being with an illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:34 PM
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Men exaggerate sickness. They exaggerate what "nagging" is. They exaggerate the simplicity of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 07:12 PM
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At the expense of my career, no. He is setting up a good financial deal for himself (to prevent "divorce rape") by not marrying, intertwining finances, so I will be doing the same. Also, money will not be combined because I will be securing real estate and setting myself up "Just in case".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:23 PM
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I totally disagree. Cohabitation tells you alot about a person. The biggest thing is how you learn to "fight". Or conflict resolution is the more PC way to say it. The idea that a couple never disagrees is ridiculous- but the true test is how you fight and how it's resolved. For instance, my ex's "job" (agreed upon mutually) was to take the trash to the curb. There were a few times that he didn't do it and when I asked him about it, he said "I don't do things according to your timeline". But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:55 PM
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I agree that marriage is a bad deal for men... and a bad deal for women. There's no point in getting legally married. If women are unhappier in this day and age, it's because they are still taking on the lion's share of household duties and child rearing as well as working full time and providing financially. Added pressures of "keeping up with the Joneses" also plays into it. I do agree with men saying EWALT (Enough women are like that) to change their approach to marriage, etc. But this idea t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:16 PM
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Why does it have to be so black and white? I believe in mutualism so the question was simply about how I can be conscious of signals sent and received in order not to blur the lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:46 AM
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Is the rise at r/MGTOW in any way related to the incel sub ban. Because (and ive said this before) I think a lot of the posts over there are less “guys doing their own thing” and more women bashing and such. I don’t know how to check how those metrics correlate because I’m a Reddit rookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:21 PM
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That’s me alright. Ya got me pegged. So insightful. 👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:10 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:09 PM
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Haha, refusing to come forward about WGTOW (Women Going Their Own Way)? I think you might be confused with what Going Their Own Way is... it means I am not interested in getting married or cohabitating again based on the raw deal relationships and marriage are in this day and age. Counter to the other group, r/MGTOW which is a toxic cesspool of woman hating and "never have anything to do with women ever" type stuff. This was not what MGTOW/WGTOW are intended to be. Also, I intend on communicatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:31 PM
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One of those, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:11 PM
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At a place we both mutually frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:10 PM
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Society has been focusing on correcting the image issues for women that have persisted for decades. Unfortunately, we aren't spending enough time addressing the issues of overweight men and body image. I, for one, am not interested in an overweight male but that's more because I take care of myself and keep up my body and value ones mindset on health as a part of ones personality. I think I'll agree that this "pass" for "love your body as it is" is a bit much. Health and Beauty are not synonymou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:38 PM
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That absolutely makes sense. Thank you, because if I was interested in a guy that called me buddy or dude, I'd feel put in my place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:04 PM
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I feel like this is what I want to avoid. This is a cool dude with genuine interests that are the same as mine and fun and laid back. I am divorced for a couple years now, found myself in a vey manipulative 6 month relationship with someone I found out later was MGTOW (how I found this site, actually) and now I'm back in a great mindset and want to keep it that way. The "game" of dating is not an interest of mine. Being single and unattached feels better to me inside and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:01 PM
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Your response is so odd, considering that that's not at all what I said or how I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:47 PM
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Touché. To be fair, I went looking for understanding in the beginning- hoping it would shed some light on things. I looked in the wrong place, needless to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:45 PM
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No, you go to the sub and request access from the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:16 PM
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I just can't with you guys. Women who have put in time and effort and sex (even with the burger flipper type) are interested in committing. It's not entitlement, it's investment. No one wants to feel like their time is wasted. If you had said- "hey, let's go out, but I'm not interested in LTR or anything more than casual sex and vacations and such and this could end at any moment" and she still throws a hissy fit when you end it, that's her fault. Shallow women want "things", just as shallow men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:22 PM
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MGTOW act like they are going their own way. And if their way is to get online and bitch about women, then I guess they are going their own way. But that's not what they act like. They act like and discuss that they care nothing for women. In actuality, they are consumed with what they feel are the terrible traits of women (hypergamy, etc.). Discussing women as "nothing more than fuckholes" is misogyny. The WGTOW sub (which I am subbed to) is strict about their bashing of men, as it is not allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:54 PM
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It shouldn't be "strange" that your response gained her respect. While there are tons of women who are in "the game" for purely selfish reasons, there are a lot of women who deeply desire a partnership with someone who recognizes that they are equal in very different ways. Social media just puts all the nutcase women (and men) on the front page, but a real power couple has very little online presence with respect to their relationship and people who are confident in who they are and what they wa…
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 10:45 AM
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I think most men try to tell women what they should want because they are projecting what they want women to act like. This right here. All over MGTOW and TRP and Incel, they talk about how women aren't like they were in earlier decades. Well, men aren't either and that's something we have to accept. They want women to work and contribute financially to the home, let them play video games and watch porn, cook, clean and fuck em whenever they desire. But expect that they pull their share around t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 05:17 PM
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So what happens is that the woman stays home with the baby and the household is down one income so the father (if he's there) has to get a second job or (if he's not there) he's gonna have to pay child support to cover the roof over this child's head, etc. Doesn't seem like that would benefit men very much. Seems like the current structure benefits all parties involved?
/r/MGTOW19/04/18 07:32 PM
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Is it not because women have the option to leach off government resources for shelters and places to go?
/r/MGTOW18/04/18 03:20 PM
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Lived in an apartment- no need for maintenance and lawn things Got married: Bought a house (realized he couldn't do any of that and did not want to learn) Got a dog: he never cleaned up dog poop because he "doesn't do that"; never planned vet visits, meds, or baths. I realize I don't want to have kids with him because of this. The stress of homeownership and life piled up and nothing got better, so I left. Relationships have to evolve. I didn't know how to take care of a dog before we got one. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:09 PM
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I do. Except, I own two vehicles. I do all the maintenance (oil changes, brake pads, and some belt replacement). I don't have kids (except dogs, who do investigate the bumps in the night). Admittedly, I am not super handy with respect to plumbing, but I did just replace the power component on my dishwasher and I maintain all the PM schedules for all the appliances. I'm in my late 30s and divorced because I didn't have a partner in those things you listed above. He was "happy" and content and cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:44 PM
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Is it fair to say that if we feed you and fuck you, then you're happy? Who's cleaning up after the meals, taking care of the kids, mowing the lawn, cleaning up the rest of the house, managing the finances, maintenance of the physical home, the laundry, daily schedules, etc.? And what does respect look like? What does "not respecting you" look like, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:29 PM
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A man who is "truly happy" at home doesn't engage in that kind of talk with his buddies. Period. If a woman does the same thing, it's her hypergamy. She shouldn't be discussing the physical attributes of another man with her girlfriends either. Some women act on their attractiveness to another man, if she feels like she is not getting what she needs from her partner (in the form of emotional support and physical support in the home or with the children). A man will act on his attractiveness to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:56 PM
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"He likes her, he likes fucking her, and he wants to keep fucking her. So he locks it down." What does he like about her, other than the fact that he can keep getting his rocks off with her? If she asks him to do anything, she's a "nag". If she has friends she hangs out with, he's thinking she's being unfaithful. If she has hobbies and he doesn't participate in them, he inevitably believes her "hypergamy" will have her looking for someone else that does want to do those things with her. If she a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:31 PM
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Well, yeah, that's what you said. But they are staying because it's convenient for them and because they don't want to be bothered with finding someone they are truly happy with. They are settling. They don't WANT to be there but they don't want to leave. What self respecting woman wants to deal with that for the long haul? Am I missing your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:11 PM
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So a man gets married, not because he's interested in a long term committed partnership with someone who he is emotionally invested in, but because it's about a) sex b) boredom, and c) complacency/settling? And somehow TRP believes divorce rates are women's faults?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 12:32 AM
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