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Because usually poorer nations have a much more lax attitude towards child labour so your kid can literally make you money. Also poorer nations have no social security, your kids are your retirement insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:32 PM
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Just ask Canada how that plan has been going.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:29 PM
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Mostly that "men only want one thing" and that "men are pigs". You can probably guess my mom had a lot of baggage when it came to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:16 PM
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Yeah, I'm rock stupid so flirting is a no go. I really need a 'want to fuck' or something equally clear. I look back on many a missed opportunity because I didn't take the hint or even realize I there was a game being played. Don't go playing 3D chess on me when I'm over here with my checkers board.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:08 PM
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This is really a pick your poison approach. Flirting has never been my cup of tea and has never worked so not every woman is going to be down with that approach. Plus, if you're in it for a LTR and not a fling your best bet is to cut the bullshit. Flirting to me is more of a short term goals approach. If you want something that's going to last you have to have the skills to hold a conversation with a woman that isn't purely based on the pursuit of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:44 PM
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Multigenerational households are the way to go if you're family focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:07 PM
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Bullshit. Two equally attractive women, one in a bodycon outfit with long hair and makeup on point is getting FAR more attention from men than her equivalent in a baggy hoodie with hair pulled back. Men notice and care. The difference in reaction depending on how I dress speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:20 PM
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Propaganda is about pushing a narrative that's often built on a foundation of half truths and the misleading framing of select information so you can steer the viewer into drawing a pre-determined conclusion. Sometimes propaganda is also just outright lies. Not everything falls into that definition. PragerU definitely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:53 PM
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I sure do. The real big brain take is that every side deals in propaganda and you shouldn't take anything any 'side' says at face value because everyone's got an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:44 PM
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For the vast majority of human history the virgin to wife pipeline was the only way males could be assured of parentage and avoid land and property going to another mans kids. That is the true purpose of the monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:40 PM
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Sure but it actually is propaganda. Look into their funding, it's sketchy af and involves two billionaires involved in the oil and fracking industries, a massive asset management firm, so called charities that have histories of pushing for election reform to benefit a conservative votership and 'charities' that have directly funded anti-climate change thinktanks. Even their mission statement explicitly states that their goal is to 'advance Judeo-Christian values'. That's literally the definition…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:34 PM
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Man where are these easily available providers you all seem to know? You all just living in the land of eligible bachelors here. Ladies, we need to find this Promised Land and steal it's men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:10 AM
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Old people mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:12 PM
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Yep. Men making babies en masse and dumping all the responsibility on others because raising their own kids or sharing in any of the cost of their upbringing is inconvenient isn't exactly a cause most people, even other men, are jumping to support. I'm all for my tax dollars going to social benefits to help ease the burden on parents but who wants their tax dollars going towards the cause of letting deadbeats fuck and then fuck off? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:54 PM
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Women can be equally destructive about womens rights. You're advocating that a man a has say in medical decisions involving a womans body. Medical decisions he has zero stake in aside from protecting his wallet but can have catastrophic consequences for her. Now how is that just and fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:27 PM
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Either way you position this it's men taking control over women's bodies for their own benefit and trying to craft a society where men come out on top 100% of them time, regardless of how much it harms women. Wow, you offered to pay for an abortion. Awesome. Who cares that I have to suffer intense pain and bleeding that could wind me up in the hospital while passing lemon sized clots and needing a vacuum shoved up my uterus to extract the stuck gestational sack which could lead to lasting PTSD s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:00 PM
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My experience with traditional men has been that of gender roles. 'Women's work' and 'men's work'. These guys go to work, come home and consider their job done because they've provided for their families. Meanwhile their wives not only go work (also providing for their family) but also handle all the childcare and housework and cooking and social calendars etc. These guys might not be abusive but their traditionalist views haven't caught up with how the modern world works and their unwillingness…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:08 PM
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It's telling that you think men who aren't traditional are pussies that women will hate. On the contrary, my husbands efforts in parenting our child, taking his share of the housework and his relaxed gender expectations allow us both to live happily and relatively stress free. What could be more masculine then doing whatever it takes for your family? Traditional men seem to have this mentality of 'whatever it takes' right up until it comes time to change a diaper or do the dishes. Every woman I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:31 PM
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Twilight invented the paranormal romance genre. Twilight absolutely 100% did NOT invent that genre. It didn't even invent the modern version of the genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:30 PM
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50 Shades was written in 2011 so it's kind of dated now. It ticked the boxes in it's time but romance moves pretty fast. Paranormal romance and Regency romance are king right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:23 PM
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Massive oversimplification but...the cervix is a muscle that acts like a barrier to the uterus (where the egg goes during ovulation) so no normal activity like sex or masturbation going on in the vagina affects anything that's behind the cervix. Ovulation is a hormonal process so it happens independently of sex or masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:53 PM
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Why doubt when you can observe? It's not like this shit is only accessible by secret password or something, you can literally find as much fetish variety as you can handle made by women, for women on Kindle or A03 or Tappytoon/Lehzin/Netcomics etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:33 PM
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If a women does ovulate it can mean that she loses an egg, so increased frequency of ovulation = less eggs isn't an unsound theory. Do you think women ovulate with orgasm or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:39 PM
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I remember hearing the author of that study fudged the numbers by throwing away female outlier results as being anomalies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:16 PM
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People are way to quick to fall back on stereotypes and say: 'I've never seen it before, so must be special and unique to men and our beastly biology'. If you've ever been a part of female dominated writing areas, fetishes and kink are nothing new. The thing about female dominated anything is that it's hidden from view unless you're already part of the community so it flies under the radar, even from other women who otherwise have few or no outlets to explore fetishes and kink. That's why shit l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:10 PM
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That could be. I'm in BC, Canada but have also gone to conventions in Seattle. The gender ratio seemed pretty even at all the conventions I've ever went to in those two locations. Could be west coast specific tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:53 PM
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Depends on the generation zoomers it is a bit more mixed but among millennials it is almost entirely men. As a female millennial weeb you made me laugh. Have you ever gone to an anime convention in the past decade? It's like 50% women. Most of my female friends have been into anime. I will say that most women who are into anime do tend to avoid guys who are into anime. Same with video games. I've had one too many encounters with guys who either try to out me as a poser and make it weird, like I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:24 PM
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What young women do you know? Jeez. Join a sports team or a book club. Shit, get into pottery or art classes, I can guarantee there are young women there. There's a million hiking groups specifically for dating. Join a foraging group, foraging is HUGE among women right now. Historical European martial arts (HEMA) is also very popular with young women though expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:12 PM
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They did that before the widespread adoption of birth control and before modern living/economics sank it's dirty claws in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:49 PM
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I don't think it's setting yourself up for failure. Women and men have been raised with a very specific expectations of the opposite sex that has been reinforced by parents and media but that modern society has been in the slow process of dismantling. You now have a gen of men and women who were raised on a set of expectations that aren't really applicable anymore and it's causing a lot of confusion and resentment as both sides are looking at each other going 'why aren't you what I was promised'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:46 PM
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Your clear reasoning and unwillingness to back down has clearly intimidated him into leaving. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:21 PM
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You seem to have settled on a single definition of what intimidated means and are using that as your sole argument for why everyone is wrong. You can be intimidated by the size of a big meal or the thought of working out next to people who are more fit than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:17 PM
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You do know the intimidation factor is about physical beauty and the fear of rejection, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:11 PM
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Serpents of the Abyss: The Darvel Exploratory Systems Give it a read, it's fine. Not the greatest work in the world but it gets points for a semi-unique concept
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:28 PM
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Not really. In the culture of the book the female serpents are larger and aggressive and push out the males when they're young and the woman in the book was from a caste society where her options and future were limited so the relationship was like a coming together of equals who had only ever lived in an unequal society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:40 PM
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Woman tricked into indentured servitude for a mining company meets sexy underground serpent man who saves her from death and they wind up fighting against the establishment together.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:56 PM
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As someone who reads an absurd amount of romance novels....no. This is like saying 'the plot of practically every fantasy novel is a teenage wizard using his magic to defeat the dark lord'. If you're like most guys here you're probably assuming Twilight and 50 Shades represent the whole scope of what romance has to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:20 AM
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men continue to be the breadwinners. Women claimed the good jobs but refused to provide How can both these things be true at the same time? 'Men providing' was no more deep that the man went out and earned a wage. If a woman is earning a wage and using that wage to pay rent and buy groceries and pay for childcare then, by default she is acting as breadwinner and provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:35 PM
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Is it a good thing if you can't ever be emotionally vulnerable with this person for the whole rest of your life for fear of consequence?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:52 AM
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For obvious reasons, I will never cry in front of my current girlfriend, despite me believing that she is "the one" and currently ring shopping. There's no need for me to risk a 10/10 relationship by doing something stupid like crying. Guys on this sub are so extreme. My husband has cried many times in front of me for many different reasons, crying isn't a turn off, being an emotionally unstable wreck who dumps all their emotional burdens on their SO because they can't form emotional connections…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:09 AM
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Is it that she already knows what to do? Bingo. Venting is rarely about 'I have a problem, let brainstorm a solution together'. Honestly though, I've had so many guys vent at me that I know for sure this isn't a male vs female thing so I'm not sure where this befuddled 'what do these crazy women want' vibe is coming from. Literally nobody of any gender wants their vent moment to be co-opted into someone elses big problem solving moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:51 PM
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Apparently recently regret rates, especially for for under 25 years olds, are super high. I think a lot of childfree people underestimate how often and how quickly people can change their mind on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:58 PM
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You're massively inflating this as an issue. In my 5 year relationship before deciding to have kids there was not one single pregnancy scare and when we did decide to have kids it took almost a year to actually conceive. Nobody relies on abortion because contraceptives are incredibly effective when used correctly and even without contraceptives pregnancy can take a long time to happen even with regular sexual activity and even then the pregnancy doesn't always progress even when it does occur. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:52 PM
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It's interesting to see how people have spun the current boom of childfree into some sort of a liberation of personal choice and freedom. Like the global birthrate plummeted because everyone just decided having kids was too bothersome at the same time and not because our society is in a downward spiral of out of control inflation, wage stagnation and job instability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:38 PM
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Looks are most important in initial attraction but looks can only get you through the door. Many women end up marrying less attractive guys because they're compatible with her lifestyle and life goals over a more attractive guy who isn't the 'right fit'. I think this is what most women mean when they say looks aren't most important. No one's denying that looks matter but not as much as if you get violent when angry, if you expect me to do all the housework while still bringing in a paycheque, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:19 PM
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This whole story was either totally fabricated or OP is a super naive guy who was completely taken in by the lies of a really bad manipulator. What woman is going to willingly step into single motherhood with multiple children when she has such an amazing and sweet husband as OP is making this guy out to be? And the whole 'he wanted to see his kids but it was just sooo much emotional stress on his son so he stopped because he's such a good guy and that's why he has to pay child support' line. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:15 AM
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As god intended
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:47 PM
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Someone needs to start a TRP/FDS dating app. Let's pair these sad sacks up and let them find happiness in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:46 PM
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You can disagree, that's just been my personal experience. Lots of average people married to average partners in my circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:17 AM
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You don't tend to see people over the age of 30 desperately pining for unobtainable perfection despite us millennials having grown up in the age of photoshop. Tik Tok is the same old capitalistic insecurity machine selling looks and lifestyle to impressionable young people hoping to buy their way into happiness. Eventually most people realize the quest for unobtainable perfection is a sad, lonely one and lower their expectations accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:02 PM
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It's weird because you seem to be thinking I'm saying something about men in society when my original point was specifically about bad husbands. Are you a bad husband? Is that why you took this as some sort of personal attack on the work of all men? Just...don't be a lazy fucking husband. Super simple stuff. Help your wife, the literal mother of your child, out. Change diapers, get up with the kid at night once in a while, go on a walk with the kid so your wife can sleep for a few hours, clean u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:37 AM
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Sure and women had to keep the country working doing service jobs and nursing and teaching and running daycares. You really must have been out of town if you somehow missed their contributions to the covid effort. Man this isn't even history yet and you're already trying to rewrite it to erase women. Slow down, champ. You're getting ahead of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:31 PM
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You must have been out of town when covid happened and everyone with a desk job had to work from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:07 AM
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Come talk to me about working your ass off when you're breastfeeding a baby while trying to take meeting notes at work. I also notice that subtle nod to how the dad is 'working his ass off' while the mom can 'no longer work'. What do you think mom is doing all day with a newborn, gambling and snorting blow? Is she not also working her ass off literally 24/7. The disrespect for the work that goes into take care of a newborn is honestly disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:23 PM
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The bible actually has a fair amount of social norms that, for it's time, we're meant to help people live healthier lives. Prohibiting sex too soon after childbirth is something that has been prescribed across culture and time. The cervix is still open so sex could introduce harmful bacteria to the uterus that is still healing from the wound caused by the placenta detaching. Modern women are even advised to not use tampons during this time too because the risk of infection from any foreign body …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:19 PM
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Those are undoubtedly also the guys who expect their postpartum wives to do EVERYTHING and won't lift a finger to so much as change a diaper but expect their wife whose still bleeding from childbirth and figuring out the behemoth that is breastfeeding to take on all the childcare duties day and night as well as keeping house. Then they wonder why she has no libido. She's exhausted asshole. How are you helping?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:12 PM
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Generally it's not cool to interrupt someone pouring their feelings out with a 'WeLL AcKSHulLY'. Basic manners, bro. Basic manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:07 PM
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Enough to have a kid with him but go off king.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:40 AM
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I have no idea what half the guys here even classify as 'emotional'. Like if you're the kind of guy to be throwing dramatic bitchfits, shouting and punching things and crying over every little disagreement because you never learned to emotionally regulate as a child, using your GF as an on-call therapist because you can't be emotionally vunerable with anyone but her so she's forced to be your sole lifeline to the world of your feelings....then 100%, I hate those dudes. If you're like my husband …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:19 PM
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I have heard this complaint so often from so many guys here. I've rejected a guy before because he was too short. Other women won't. What's the conflict? You butthurt because women have individual preferences that can contradict and can sometimes be shallow? Welcome to the real word bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:27 AM
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The vast majority of men have zero idea what pregnancy and childbirth actually is. Their education extends as far as the sanitized and false images the media shows them and it seems they don't even bother to think about it past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:20 AM
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Do you think abortion until birth is good or bad? I think it's good for the simple reason that no woman is going to put her body through pregnancy only to decide right at the moment of birth 'you know, maybe I don't actually want this baby in me any more'. And even if she does its called an induction, a fairly common practice. The only abortions that happen late term are medical tragedies and families don't need a pack of self righteous strangers politicizing the most difficult and grief stricke…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:13 AM
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A man who doesn't understand consent. Colour me shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:04 AM
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Depends on the speech. There's a time and a place for certain speech, if you're at work and are being unprofessional, even if you weren't intending on being overheard, that's on you. A certain level of professionalism should be observed at all times when at work. Save your risque shit for hanging out outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:01 AM
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Ain't it just. I still see people talking themselves in circles trying to deny sexism is at the core of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:07 PM
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And before any edge lords come in talking about how the pay gap isn't real and it's all because of personal choices I would ask them why female driven jobs are so poorly compensated and why motherhood should come with such severe social and monetary penalties when it's one of the few roles that is absolutely essential for a functional society. I want to know why this is not only tolerated but treated as correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:00 PM
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I also disagree with the general sisterhood that feminists want, I don't think we should all be in the same camp and "look out" for each other bc of the simple fact that we have the same genitals. I've found that this sisterhood is 100% conditional and an unfortunate number of feminists will pile on and reject fellow women that don't fall in line. As much as they claim to want a sisterhood, in practice it's more like a clique. Try being a tradcon Christian and see how welcoming the 'sisterhood' …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:51 PM
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Or they're fake. I can count on one hand the number of relationships I've seen irl with such a wide age gap. If big age gaps are showing up with crazy frequency in those subs I'd bet money at least a portion are faked because they probably generate more upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:12 PM
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Probably yes. Massive outside upheavals have destroyed many a great civilization. Ours will eventually fall and be replaced, climate change and other factors probably will spell an end to our current way of life but it's not like our society ending means humanity ends with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:40 PM
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They assume everyone is drowning in a sea of misery and the only fix is self annihilation. I love life. I'm glad I was born and I wish to continue living as long as possible. These people speak as though their nihilistic opinions are a universal truth and thats obnoxious af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 09:34 PM
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This is the harsh reality so many guys here don't want to admit. Honestly what are women asking for except for men to match the effort we put in and get shown some appreciation for those effort? It's really not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 03:08 AM
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A better comparison would be like blaming a chef for your obesity. At the end of the day you choose to eat at that restaurant knowing exactly what was on the menu.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:57 PM
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It is but youth alone doesn't account for other factors that would make someone a desirable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:27 PM
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Your first paragraph seems to be rooted in fact. Possibly explainable by, as far as my personal experience goes, a conflict between past and present. Most of today's young women have been raised within a culture that praises gender equality but raised by parents who push a very different message of finding a husband to take care of you. This culture of traditional gender roles doesn't just disappear just because society is working at gender equality. We seem to be in a middle zone where the idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:04 AM
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I wouldn't place our dying society at the hands of gender roles breaking down. I consider myself a fairly hardcore feminist but still want kids, in a perfect world three would be my goal. However, as I've personally discovered, modern society makes it incredibly difficult for women to make motherhood a reality. Capitalism has determined that pregnant women and children are a net burden on society. The needs of families are simply not factored into the model of working life and at this point in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:48 PM
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The vast majority of women have jobs and are still expected to keep home as if they don't. Modern women, at least one that aren't tradcon, have absolutely no expectations of being provided for but men overwhelmingly behave as though housework and childcare isn't their area. Or if they do help they do so under the expectation that 'well if she needs help she can just ask' as though he doesn't share equal responsibility for the work and is participating in a support role to his house manager wife/…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:19 PM
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Pregnancy, postpartum and breastfeeding necessitates a woman having a strong support structure around her to prevent the abuse of her vulnerable state. Tribal societies did a much better job of protecting women than post agricultural revolution societies ever have
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 09:09 PM
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Probably because women's reproductive rights are never secure, many women barely have access to essential care (and I'm not talking about abortion but even basic gynecological and prenatal services is often not available, look up maternity care deserts) and the care is far too often abusive and dismissive even when it is available. There's so many issues to fix in women's reproductive care. Are you going to fireproof your neighbors home when yours is on fire? No, you're going to focus on your ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:28 PM
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Just say you view the issues that are likely to affect you as a man as being of more importance than the rights of women to make their own reproductive and health decisions. That's ultimately what it comes down too. Reproduction is one of the few biological areas where men are at an inherent disadvantage and some men can't handle not having and exerting control so in response they choose to try and control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:18 PM
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Oof. Well there's your reason liberal women won't touch you. When pregnancy and birth is concerned this is my body on the line, my health at risk, my time and energy breastfeeding, my career on hold. Not yours. Never yours. Who are you to just say 'I'm pro-life' as if that's the end of the conversation? What a blatant lack of respect. I bet you'd be one of those guys too who thinks having a job is the end of your parental responsibility. No thanks. I'd rather be sexless and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:11 PM
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That was a genuinely hilarious read. Like an alien trying to explain how gender relations work to their fellow aliens
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:52 PM
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Conservatives are hardly long term thinkers, they live in the past and rarely seem interested in bettering anything or advancing societies progress. They live in a state of perpetual stagnation whereas progressives want to leap forward to the point of alienating people and becoming hostile when people aren't immediately on board with their stupid ideas of what progress looks like. A big problem with the left is that instead of deconstructing traditional gender roles, finding out what works and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:30 PM
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Parents regularly sell their children into forced labour and sex slavery for lack of options. We can't comprehend the inhumanity and desperation that comes with living in a society where you have absolutely no social support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:51 AM
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Men like the above have completely eroded my trust in traditional gender roles. I make my own money and rely on no man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:27 PM
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The problem with labelling anyone critical of modern gender theory as transphobic is part of the problem because it assumes malicious intent where none may exist. I don't agree with a lot of modern gender ideology because it's moved on from 'live and let live' to demands for validation and acceptance from a community that has recently been displaying an alarming amount of entitlement and misogyny towards women. They demand that I must accept that a man identifying as a woman is equally as much o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:17 PM
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It appears the existence of preferences is considered unreasonable by the men of PPD. Is wanting to be sexuality attracted to a man an unreasonable preference? Is not wanting to date a man who has bad basic hygiene, a drug problem, poor social skills or an Asian fetish unreasonable? If so then I fully embrace the unreasonableness of my preferences and make no apologies for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:28 PM
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I'm not out here trying to hand out pity fucks like my vagina is running some sort of charity organization for every hard dick that points in my direction. I'm positively drowning in the entitlement of having basic standards of sexual attraction. Drowning I say!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:34 AM
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Every decent guy was already either dating someone or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:14 AM
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I remember at one workplace having the multitude of 'options' such as the secret coke head, the guy who could barely string together a sentence, the guy who didn't brush his teeth or the guy who was super into Asian chicks but would settle for some free non-Asian pussy if it came to it. Every decent guy was already either dating someone or married. Womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:00 AM
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Almost every guy I know who has used dating apps had the strategy of swiping right on every woman in hopes that casting a wide net would net him something. On the scale most guys are doing it they end up playing themselves and each other by oversaturating the app market and collectively devaluing the concept of 'matching'. When I know that there's an 80ish% chance of every swipe being an auto match it forces me to take the opposite strategy to avoid being swamped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:54 PM
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A good friend of mine tried to engage me in basically bashing my own husband, I shut that down right quick. That's a pretty taboo subject among female friends with exceptions being if the guy is abusive. Even then so many women with abusive partners won't hear anything negative about them so it's a double edge sword.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:29 AM
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Oof, most guys know absolutely nothing about bra sizing and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:48 PM
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Sex work is 'illegal' in as much as you can literally go on rub maps and find a massive selection of prostitute rings around any major city, a drive down any seedy neighborhood can find you any number of women selling sex and adds for escorts are readily available online. Sex is readily available. This idea that any woman would be threatened by the existence of sex workers is classic revenge fantasy porn. Prostitution has been around since as long as humans have been around, sometimes illegal an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:50 AM
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Blanket training has a bad reputation because it's fundamental principle involves beating your child to achieve results. And this was not being done on toddlers but on crawling babies. If you research into it the subject matter is grim, anyone who has so much as glanced at child psychology studies knows that beating your child until they're too afraid to leave a blanket is going to mess your kid up for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:16 AM
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And I can afford my own shit without having to answer to someone else like a child begging for an allowance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:24 AM
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Everyone's happiness has been decreasing. Wage theft is rampant, inflation is rapidly outpacing average wages, full time non-contract work is becoming a thing of the past, work/life balance is diminishing, workers have absolutely no bargaining power against billion dollars corporations, rents and housing prices are increasing globally etc etc. Even if women weren't in the workforce they would be feeling the crunch via their husbands increased stress/workload and the diminishing returns on his ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:21 AM
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See this is where the redpill always fucks up. Women are individuals and there is no secret sauce that will unlock the pussy gates. I absolutely hate cheesy romantic gestures with a passion. I've had some guys really go overboard like they were living out a step by step teen romance movie and I couldn't stand it. I'm a low key person and some of those romantic gestures genuinely gave me anxiety. The one exception to my dislike of romantic gestures being this one time my now husband snuck into my…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:18 AM
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6.2 lbs actually. No regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:23 PM
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Without modern society you, as a man, would be the one providing physical protection to the women and elderly of your family which comes with a whole host of risks to yourself. You and your family would also have no safety net if you got ill or your crop failed or your house burned down or you got murdered - you would be solely responsible for making sure your entire family unit succeeded. Many, many men of the past failed at this task, they and their whole families suffered greatly as a result.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 02:22 AM
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I do suspect in the next generation we're likely to see a massive uptick in conservatism as conservative values tend to include having many kids and people from more traditional (usually conservative) cultures also tend to favor having kids. Unfortunately many modern liberals and young people tends towards viewing having kids as almost outdated, they're much more likely to want to preserve their lifestyles by remaining childless so naturally conservative families will begin to outnumber the agin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:40 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_women%27s_legal_rights_(other_than_voting)_in_the_20th_century I'm sure you'll fine some in there. There's also 19th century and before as well as 21st century pages on wiki as well. Honestly the fact that there is no male equivalent wiki page, much less one spanning such a wide scope of time, speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:39 PM
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IIRC the photos were on a private account dedicated to her workout progress that she only shared with friends, one of her male 'friends' leaked the photos to the guys on her site and apparently created duplicates. The main photo in question that was being circulated was a bare back photo showing her muscle definition, something she explicitly wanted to remain private. Circulating private photos of your female coworker among your otherwise entirely male staff is a level of targeted harassment tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:18 PM
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If women didn't want to do certain things why did laws need to be made explicitly banning women from education and types of work that were considered masculine? There's an old story about female miners who were banned from being able to work in the mines because the men of the era thought the clothes they wore was inappropriate and would reduce their chances of marriage. You can spin the narrative about women liking the status quo all you like but the historical laws on record don't lie and ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:03 PM
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It's not that we couldn't afford furniture, I had plenty of money, he just thought it was faggy I've seen a lot of guys gay panic over some stupid shit but owning basic furniture items is a new low.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:55 PM
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I know several guys who have gotten head injuries and didn't go see a doctor about it because of their 'walk it off' mindset Risking brain damage isn't low maintenance, it's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:51 PM
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I know a female electrician who had the men on several different crews at her worksite circulating workout progress photos of her around her worksite and sharing them among each other. Men creating work environments like that is doing a lot of the heavy lifting keeping women out of male dominated labor industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:47 PM
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Why does it seem like every guy in these threads claim to be absolutely surrounded by women in abusive relationships? I can probably count on one hand the number of women I've personally known in abusive relationships and yet according to PPD that number is like 80% of women. What are the odds that all these women are surrounded by the best, most kind, most deserving men and yet somehow always be tripping onto the dick of Mr. Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:35 AM
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I know a woman just like that and her husband super fucked her over when it comes to their retirement. They're living below the poverty line after hubby both made and then squandered millions. A pair of balls doesn't magically grant good leadership or decision making skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:32 AM
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Socialist hellhole? Do you even live in Canada? All the newcomers I see are filthy rich and have zero need to rely on handouts. They make their millions and billions elsewhere and come to Canada to park their money in our housing market. More like a capitalists hellhole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:19 AM
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I see the argument you're trying to make here. Men are blameless because it's the responsibility of the woman to police male behavior. Therefore if something bad happens to her it's her fault because a blameless woman wouldn't possibly be in a position to be taken advantage of. Sounds like a pack of guys committing honor killings is pretty much your crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:58 AM
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An opinion that just the other day had the guys of PPD angry because women are being cautious of THEM and they're not like those other scumbag guys. Why can't women just be trusting of the good guys and be cautious of the bad guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:41 AM
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Typically after being sentenced by a male judge, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:34 AM
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On this flip side I've definitely been wary of men that other guys, when mention the guy makes me uneasy, are like 'whaaaat nooo not so-and-so, he's such a great guy'. Yeah, great to you maybe, bro doesn't want to fuck YOU now does he?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:39 AM
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Taking responsibility for your actions assumes that there was a wronged party that is demanding accountability from you. If a woman is being abused for what then does she need to assume responsibility for? Should it not be the abusers who should take responsibility for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:28 AM
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I really don't buy that father's are the gatekeepers of female safety. History is chock full of famous bad matches and abusive men, even at a time when having a father in the picture and families played a big part in matchmaking, women still regularly ended up in poor relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:11 AM
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In this analogy the better example would be that the dog doesn't lash out at the master, instead it lashes out at strangers who did nothing to this dog but are the target of its rage because the dog can no long distinguish between people that mean it harm and people that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:12 PM
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You do know miscarriage is incredibly common regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:53 AM
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Social guidance seems to be at the root of women being steered into lower paying jobs. I know when I was trying to choose my career teaching and nursing were almost defaulted as top of my list. I have no interest in teaching or nursing but those were the two main jobs that respectable women did, they're highly visible female professions and when you have young girls with no clue what they want to be or do, or even what all their options are, you tend to get a lot of people defaulting into certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 07:37 PM
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I would argue the failure of the family unit is more down to a convergence of rampant individualism, consumer culture, debt culture, inflation and the gutting of the middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 06:26 PM
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Twice the workers in the workplace is twice the demand for everything from cars to restaurant capacity. Corporations are to blame for keeping incomes low even as they record record breaking profits and ever increasing raises and bonuses for execs. By sick sense of humor careers that women typically choose have been increasingly undervalued to the detriment of society. Teachers and nurses, for example, are very necessary and important professions and elsewhere in the world salaries reflect this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 06:20 PM
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Men are much physically stronger and able to have their way with women. Many of your responses are just "brush it off" or "we're fighting" or "don't go back there" or "ignore them". Those are really not an option when you can be cornered and overpowered within seconds. These guys are clueless. I've been chased twice, full on running top speed with a strange man/men chasing me, and there is no ignoring that or brushing it off. I think a lot of these guys are assuming that just because they don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:19 AM
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That's a bad rational. Trying to brush it off as 'only the crazies' ignores how prevalent this sort of behaviour is. Every woman I know, myself included, has had sexually aggressive encounters with random men on the street, mentally ill or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:08 AM
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Kindle was absolutely my gateway drug into romance. Mostly because you're going to find the fun stuff that would never make its way onto bookstore shelves and, like you said, no embarrassing covers for people to judge you over. But I think people who aren't familiar with the genre don't really understand how expansive and versatile romance is. You can find romance novels about everything from murder mysteries to time travel to biblical mythology to first contact. It's a shame how many people thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:56 AM
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Modern romance has evolved a lot since harlequin. The old Fabio style guys still exists for sure but there's a lot more diversity of love interests than you might expect. There's even been an increase in romance (mostly cross species style romance) where both partners find each other ugly af and have to work past the attraction barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:12 AM
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Haha are you me? Kindle Unlimited is really good if you're coming off slash fanfiction, like romance and are also frugal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:06 AM
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Imagine if women were multidimensional beings that aren't easily categorized into narrow stereotypes. That would be too crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:55 AM
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It's insane. I'm 34 and just popped out a kid and I STILL get a stupid amount of guys staring like they haven't seen a woman before. If the wall is real I'm still waiting to run into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:38 PM
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I notice a difference. I used to shower and never moisturize after and my skin always felt tight and itchy and I would have a massively flakey T-zone. Doesn't happen when I slap on some product
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 11:33 PM
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As I said, the men of N. America largely didn't adopt any of these looks so it would be impossible to take home what doesn't exist. At least in my city though there's a big population of well dressed, good looking Asian men who are absolutely nailing it in the fashion department and these guys rarely seen to be hurting for partners so take from that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:40 PM
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Not necessarily true. I remember the metrosexual trend back in the day, euro fashion and the rise of Kpop aesthetics and both were/are very popular with women but North American men almost universally deride these types of trends despite it being obvious that women are attracted to the styles. I have yet to see N. American men jump on any style that women find attractive. They're more likely to make fun of it and call the guys who do gay or effeminate rather than take notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:39 PM
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Right. I know so many stories about guys that got a whiff of responsibility and straight up left, going no contact with their kids and providing zero financial support even when the mother and kid ended up in poverty. But yeah the real problem is those awful single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 11:38 PM
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Wait...you think men don't idealize DD boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:35 PM
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Being 70lbs overweight with a bad combover is a choice. Taking care of yourself is seen as universally more attractive than letting yourself go and absolutely isn't a female specific ideal. You can go anywhere, from the largest metropolis to small bush tribes, and self care it still a gold standard for attractiveness. Natural physical features of course matter but when you look at attractive people a huge part of their appeal isn't necessarily down to natural appeal but the hard work it takes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:13 PM
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Hard to lose an argument you're not engaging in. I wasn't refuting your argument; I was questioning the validity of your stance, your impartiality and if you would still hold your opinions if you felt you were benefitting from women having sex (that is, having sex with you rather than with other men).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:21 AM
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Decent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:12 AM
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I'm not looking for you to agree with me. It's hardly a personal attack to note that your opinions seem largely fueled by personal resentments, opinions that you probably wouldn't hold or care about if you felt as though you were benefitting from female sexuality instead of being shut out. Am I wrong to call this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:40 AM
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You're saying nothing that can't be easily refuted or debated but since you've clearly made up your mind about what the truth is there's simply no point. This sub is about debate but there is a shocking number of guys here who simply aren't open to hearing opinions that contradict their already held worldviews or engaging in good faith with people who have differing opinions. You appear to be one of those people. It's unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:28 AM
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But if we stop having sex what will you have left to complain about? Guaranteed you wouldn't give two shits about any of the stuff you've been talking about if you felt like you were getting your fair slice of the pussy pie. But nope, instead you're online arguing with a woman that's been raped about how safe sex is for women. Because you're clearly the expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:30 PM
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It's not about wanting stunning. My standards are anything but high but the amount of guys that clearly don't even brush their teeth or give a shit to keep their weight under control or bother to care about basic grooming and apperance is fucking shocking. And that's even before getting into what I consider actually attractive. I can't tell you how many decent looking guys have tanked their own appeal by being stinky or having dragon breath or wearing visibly stained and wrinkled clothes. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:21 PM
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Haha oh man I wish. That sounds like what I would say if you asked me what my ideal dating life looked like. Reality has a way of kicking you in the proverbial nutsack when it comes to dating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:09 PM
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Where did I (or anyone) say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:23 PM
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Normal is code for don't be offensively weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 10:53 PM
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Why does this continually come as a surprise to guys on this forum? Some women fall for guys that are complete trash, others have very high expectations of baseline behavior. Women don't exist as a monolith of opinion and action.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:50 AM
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My boyfriends mom lives like that. She runs the entire household and cares for her elderly mother while husband sits around drinking beer and watching football. She literally packs the mans lunch for him every day. Naturally she also has a full time job and contributes to bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:25 PM
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The problem, as I see it, is that you seem to view guys as being either ugly or hot. Either you're an absolute god unit or you're short, fat, balding and ugly. There's a massive gulf of average appearances between those two options and that is where charisma makes the difference. Very few men are god unit hot and very few men are legitimately ugly. Most guys are just kind of average and can easily move up or down the attractive scale based on countless individual factors like charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:55 AM
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You specifically requested actor examples, I gave you actor examples. Trying to make out like Chris Pine is just some hot but relative unknown compared to Driver and Hiddleston is laughable. Chris Pine is one of the biggest actors of this generation and is a household name. Also I AND op specifically stated that nowhere in this discussion is it being stated that there isn't a baseline of attractive that is being considered here. You seem really hung up on trying to argue points that aren't being…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:44 AM
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I think you fundamentally misunderstand what she's talking about. There's a reason women go crazy for actors like Adam Driver and Tom Hiddleston while much more conventionally attractive actors like Chris Pine don't seem to inspire that level of rabid attention despite being objectively better looking. Charisma or lack thereof can vastly influence attraction to the point where the objectively less attractive man is perceived as more desirable because his charisma is so potent. That is NOT saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:03 AM
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OLD is a picture buffet. If you're at a buffet with every possible option you're not giving those gnarly looking soggy veggies a fair shake, you're going straight for that beautifully displayed fried chicken and cake because why wouldn't you? It's a buffet and you have absolutely zero reason to hold back
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:42 AM
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If you think that you don't know much about makeup. Most women don't use makeup to craft a whole new face but to subtly look more vibrant. A dab of concealer under the eyes and on blemishes to look less tired and spotty, a fine layer of BB cream to smooth out skin tone, some mascara to make the eyes pop a bit, a touch of red on the cheeks to look more vibrant and something on the lips so they don't look dehydrated and thin. You probably see women who are wearing this kind of makeup all the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:16 PM
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This sub is hilarious. "Women don't know what they want. We men know, though. We know all your dirty secrets." This same sub two minutes later... "What even are women? Lets speculate."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:56 PM
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Using 'it's hard for a woman to understand' is an excuse. All women get it, even if they would be angry about it. If you feel strongly about it make your want for one clear well before kids are in the picture. Going behind your wifes back can't be interpreted as anything other than distrust and suspicion and that kind of shit will ruin a marriage. There's nothing quite so devastating for a marriage than to accuse your spouse of an infidelity they didn't do, shattering their trust in you and your…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:07 PM
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I store my semen in a special vaginal pouch and impregnate myself whenever the urge strikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 07:44 PM
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I'm not sure what that's proving. Saying women spending more time shopping than men is a far cry from the '94% of women between the ages of 15-35 spend over an hour per day shopping online' the above poster claimed. That statistic is just blatantly made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:53 AM
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This reads like a great trashy romance novel. Love it. Book 1: Candace is almost 27 and must seek out the top Alpha Male before Baby Rabies sets in and forces her into an undesirable match. Can she find Mr. Right in time? And why is Chad McHugeDick giving her such steamy glances across the break room. Book 2: Candace doesn't want to see his penis anymore. She's done. Now that her kids have reached the age of viability Candace is back on the market and looking for love. Desperate Beta Cuck Brad m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:41 AM
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Men been fighting to the death to fuck the hareem for billions of years, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:09 AM
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What use is monogamy when your child is the child of the tribe and will be taken care of by the group? Why would a male need to 'commit', you're part of the same tribe, it's not like she's going anywhere. Why would a female need to 'commit', it's not like the men are going anywhere either. In fact you all have probably know each other all your lives and will know each other until the day you die, what use is monogamy under these circumstances? Why bring up lions at all? Human males don't tend to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 07:42 PM
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Evolutionarily speaking it makes perfect sense with how people think humans evolved, that is in close knit, largely egalitarian tribes. Taboos about sex and concepts of monogamy are very likely modern concepts pushed on us by the agricultural revolution because landowning males needed assurances about lineage to avoid territory and inheritance disputes and the only way to do that was to basically lock down a woman or several women and make sure you were the only one able to impregnate them. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 07:19 PM
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That statement doesn't even make sense. If women had an evolutionary incentive to 'improve the genetic chances of her offspring' being a 'slut' would be at the bottom of the priority list because a woman can only get pregnant by one man. You would instead see aggressive monogamy among women with men competing, likely violently, with direct sexual rivals for their chance to be selected to mate with. A lot of animals do that. Humans are not one of them. More than likely our ancestors evolved with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:56 PM
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Not at all, I don't mind. My family is from Nova Scotia but I was raised in BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:28 PM
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Not necessarily. My own mom (who is coincidentally also black Canadian) sounds very similar to OPs mom. Women raised in conservative environments aren't necessarily conservative themselves but still carry a lot of the conservative hangups when it comes to the female body and sex. My own mom tried to be liberal and understanding but she was also gripped by fear that I would do something that would make me not suitable to be a wife. Tampons are a common struggle point for women from those backgrou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:59 PM
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The assertion that childbearing = male disrespect. What does this disrespect entail and why would men show it to childbearing women exclusively? What is the cause of this disrespect? The claim that women are happy to put up with said disrespect the earn 'social points'. What is 'social points' in this context and why are the social points only given by fellow women? The existence of said 'social points' and what value women place on them if it's a trade off between male disrespect vs gaining soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:56 PM
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As I suspected
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:28 PM
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I would ask for a source but I know you pulled every word of this out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:05 PM
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It's sad how often this gets lost in the sex conversation. Some people here treat sex way too seriously and probably ruin it for themselves by expecting too much, being too afraid of looking bad/inexperienced or trying to emulate porn etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 05:01 PM
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Virginity is a made up concept that has no basis in medical science while having a preference for certain physical appearances almost always has some sort of logical backing, even if that logic isn't always PC. Like it's fine if you're just saying you don't like the idea that the person you're having sex with has been around because it makes you uncomfortable or like you're being judged in comparison but some people act like virginity acts as a vacuum seal to lock in that new vagina freshness an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 04:46 PM
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That's the conclusion I'm drawing. When I think of a 'Chad' I'm thinking of the actual top tier of men...the sort of men I have zero chance of meeting, much less sleeping with because they're just living in a different world than me. It's sounding like the definition of 'Chad' these guys are using is any regular guy who is displaying basic attractive traits any woman is looking for like personal care, probably some level of charisma and drive, maybe the ability to hold an interesting conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 08:12 PM
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Common? Where are you living that this is common?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:06 PM
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Probably. That's never been my experience but then again I'm not the person to get drunk and loudly talking about dicks in public where other people can overhear. Get three cocktails in me and I could probably write you a whole dick thesis, then I'd wake up in the morning and throw that thesis in the trash cause drunk me is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:00 PM
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It's clear you have an idea in your heard if what is the 'truth' and desperately want a woman to confirm it to you and when you get women telling you their personal opinions you're deeply unsatisfied because that is not the 'truth' you're looking for. Long story short: sounds like a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:56 PM
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Wait, I think I know what you want to hear... Your dick is small and you'll never be good enough. My harem of Chad's can please me in ways you've never dreamed of. Monster cock or GTFO, loser. There...now you can rest easy knowing all your suspicions and fears are true and stop asking questions you don't want real answers for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:44 PM
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Dick size is only a status thing in chick flicks and sitcoms. I've literally never had a female friend bragging to me about dick size like it's a new guuci purse and tbh I can't ever remember the subject coming up in any meaningful way when talking about sex. If we're talking about sex it's going to be about how 'good' or 'bad' the guy is as a whole. Is he considerate, does he do good foreplay, is he into some weird shit, does he make you orgasm. Unless you have a micropenis or are literally hun…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:30 PM
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At no point did I say that clitoris' in mammals don't exist, I said that they are regarded as pseudopenises and differ wildly in purpose and structure from the human female clitoris for which the only recognizable use is sexual pleasure. This is absolutely unique in the animal kingdom as an entire organ dedicated to sexual pleasure with seemingly no other function is not in any way the norm and we have very little understanding of why the human clitoris is the way it is. It's not an exaggeration…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 02:14 AM
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Your paper doesn't really disprove anything, it's been long known that some female animals like hyenas have a pesudopenis structure but that structure isn't analogous to the human clitoris in purpose. The idea that female sex organs are just obsolete male sex organs is an old, oooold theory that's long since been debunked. The fact is the human clitoris seems to serve no other purpose than sexual pleasure which is very unique in the animal kingdom and as we've only just mapped the full structure…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 10:54 PM
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From what I've heard there's no understood purpose. This field is poorly studied and there's little clear evidence one way or another so I've only ever seen the scientific equivalent of a shrug. We know it happens and is common, we have no idea why. The science of sex, particularly where is relates to the female body, is lagging far behind where it should be so a ton of questions people have about the subject simply have no answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 06:04 PM
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What about saving someone from suicide, confronting their depression and encouraging them to follow their own life path and be open to new experiences is Chad-like. Have you ever even seen Titanic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 05:17 PM
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Interesting to note there was a documentary I watched a while back that was studying female anatomy and found that when a woman orgasms the internal mechanisms basically act as a suction for sperm giving some evidence that fertility is much more likely with a willing and pleased partner. There's also the big mystery of the clitoris, an entire organ dedicated solely to sexual pleasure not seen in any other species. It's not well studied for various unfortunate reasons, but evolutionary speaking y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 05:00 PM
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The provider, nurturer dynamic doesn't hold up worth a damn when the woman is expected to be both provider and nurturer. You and Jordan Peterson are stuck in the 50s and are failing to update for the modern reality most married women deal with which is that they are expected to work then come home and play the housewife. Feminists do fight for women in Asia and against FGM. Not sure why you think that isn't the case. Where are you drawing your conclusion that married women are free to relax and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 12:19 AM
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"Most men want women who will take on a massively disproportionate amount of labor with no assistance from their husband so I don't see a problem with it" isn't exactly a resounding argument for women having it better in marriage. Your second paragraph doesn't really provide evidence to prove your point. Literally the whole point of the feminists movement was to fight against sex inequality so not sure what your point is about MGTOW is as the feminist movement is arguably much bigger indicating,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:33 PM
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It's well known that marriage benefits men more than women, especially in a modern era when women make their own money but are still expected to take on the bulk of household chores and childcare duties. You'll notice divorce is highest among the older demographics and has fallen a lot in recent years, there's a reason for that. I know older women who do everything in the household while their husband sits on the sofa with a beer and watches football even though they both work. I've seen a grown…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:07 PM
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The fact that in you can't even have a hypothetical conversation about this mysterious nag woman without name calling and being aggressive says much more about your level of childishness than hers. Bills not being paid is a legitimate concern and that concern doesn't seem to warrant calling someone a cunt or an immature entitled baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 06:23 PM
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If you can't get your bills payed on time that needs to be a conversation. Nagging implies no conversation is being had and your gf feels she has to get on your ass about it because nothing will get done otherwise. Communicate like a grown up with your gf about your finances, see if she can help, call up the company you owe money to and see if you can get an extension, maybe see if someone can front you the money. Literally anything is better than doing so much of nothing your gf has to nag you …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:07 PM
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I remember when I was plucked out of school and made CEO of a fortune 500 company because my ovaries were exactly what a bunch of tech bros were looking for in a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:57 AM
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Constantly nags him for not having the bills payed on time? I should hope so. I don't nag my boyfriend about bills because he takes care of his shit. Likewise he never hears about my half of the bills because it's taken care of. If you need your gf to nag you about bills you need to grow up and act like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:37 AM
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Gonna need more than a disembodied graph with no additional information
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 08:36 PM
1

Eight inches. Fuck that. My boyfriend is 6 and even then if I'm not warmed up enough my cervix is liable to come out of the encounter with a bruise. Imagining all women want an 8 inch dick is basically a porn fantasy and is focused on the entirety wrong dimensions. Thickness is far more important than length. Oral and foreplay even more important than thickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 05:06 PM
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If approaching is how men engage sexuality and show an interest than not approaching fat/ugly women is equivalent to rejection. Fat and ugly women notice when their thinner and more attractive friends are getting male attention and they're essentially treated as invisible. It's a passive rejection that doesn't hurt any less than an active rejection. The main reason guys don't tend to talk about or criticize fat and ugly women is because those women simply aren't on their radar. These women don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 04:52 PM
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It's interesting when you see a statement that is so confidently wrong. It raises so many questions. Questions like: did time immemorial begin in the 70s or does this person genuinely think societies like ancient Rome or China were super accepting of women asserting themselves sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 04:43 PM
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Wow we're sinking to denying the existence of PPD now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 04:30 PM
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Having been on the receiving end of it from a number of guys, trust me when I say men give the silent treatment just as often as women. My boyfriend legit didn't talk to me for two days after a fight we had a few months back. The only difference is they won't call it the silent treatment they'll say things like 'I needed time to think' or 'if I said anything I would have started yelling so I decided to calm down first' but at the end of the day it's still the silent treatment. I've also been in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:21 AM
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Do you think in the past every guy who thought he might have a chance could just approach a woman and have his attempts be universally well recieved? In most areas in the past it was simply taboo for unfamiliar men to approach a woman without first being introduced. The only thing modern about the problems guys are having is that the barriers between the sexes have been largely removed so guys are able to approach women at will - this has naturally opened both men and women up to uncomfortable s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 03:56 AM
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What is it you mean by 'speak in cues' and 'wait for cues to speak'? That kind of language could mean anything or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 03:43 AM
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From a female perspective there's some validity to it. Remembering back when I was in high school there was definitely a cultural message that testing a guy was expected behavior, largely fueled by a fear that he could cheat or another girl could 'steal' him from you so you always had to be on guard. Really the 'tests' usually came down to asking stupid questions like 'do you think she's hot' and getting angry regardless because you felt insecure in yourself. Generally speaking most women grow o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 07:15 PM
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I'm a woman and I'd think you were a clown if you were answering my questions like that. The spaceman thing in particular would just leave me hanging with nowhere to go conversationally, super awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 06:31 PM
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Your viewing it as a test is colouring your whole perspective on this. When I ask my bf to do something like getting me a glass of water it could be because he's already up or I'm tired or have a mild headache. There's no grand plan, no test, and he doesn't have to say yes but if my bf was totally unwilling to do any small favor for me without making a big deal out of it I would be seriously reconsidering that relationship. I don't want any part of a cold transactional relationship and neither d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 06:07 PM
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It's natural to lash out in confusion and dismay when the mind is overwhelmed by a sheer force of wit such as myself. I hold no ill will towards you, my child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 09:55 PM
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Are betabux redeemable at stores? I'm interested in learning more about this program
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 09:17 PM
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No you don't understand. You can't possibly hold men accountable for how they choose to spend their money, the insatiable man thirst basically makes them little more than mindless animals and the evil bad women are taking advantage of their inability to think for themselves. These poor creatures need to be protected and sheltered. I voulenteer at a shelter for lonely men and the state of them is unspeakable; bodies gone soft and flabby, not showering for days, social skills nonexistent. It's the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:25 PM
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I'm wonder how many of those stats are bunk. Someone I know has an informal shared custody arrangement with his ex, sees his kid literally all the time. As far as the government is concerned though the ex is a single mother because single mothers get a lot of benefits and they both don't want to pay out the ass for stuff like daycare which is subsidized for low income single mothers. It's better for both of them for her to be seen as a 'single mother' because his income and any sort of shared cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 06:14 PM
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Likely same for me. I was very shy, especially around boys, growing up and was basically invisible to them. I played video games religiously but ironically the toxicity towards women kept me away from the community and video games tend to be a massive tool for radicalization. Had I been a boy I 100% would have gotten sucked in to the bullshit. There's no real radicalization for girls or outlet for your 'why am I alone' thoughts, you either have to git gud or celebrate the fact that you're single…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:11 PM
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Wow women don't find this level of rampant entitlement attractive? Put me down as shocked and surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 03:05 AM
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Hunter gatherers typically lived communally and often didn't have modern concepts of marriage/family. Children were often the business of the tribe, not the individual family. Resources were often shared fairly to avoid in fighting and because not every person in the tribe was either a hunter or gatherer. There is even substantial evidence to suggest that prehistoric humans cared for the disabled so it seems strength and the ability to materially contribute wasn't the be all end all of tribal li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:28 AM
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Even in Pride and Prejudice the father acknowledged that Darcy is a man he wouldn't dare refuse anything too. A sufficiently rich and powerful man didn't need permission to take a wife and even if the woman could say no it would be such a black mark on her and her family most wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:19 AM
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You're talking to a brick wall with some of these guys. They read being emotionally strong and self confidence as being an asshole because to them being 'nice' to women means desperate fawning and catering. When you try to tell them otherwise they won't accept it because being an asshole is easy, anyone can act like a prick, being self confident and strong requires working on themselves in a way I think most just aren't willing to do. They want a quick fix answer to their troubles and what you'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:25 AM
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The playground is a tough spot to find your soulmate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:14 PM
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Input chapters 1-3 and out falls sex. How's the weather in dreamland?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 09:57 PM
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You guys underestimate how easy it is to see that a mask is being used. It doesn't even have to be overt, just a tickle in the back of your mind when a guy speaks to you, the look in his eyes. It's hard to describe but I've felt it off so many seemingly normal guys just seconds after meeting them and you just know something's up. You'd be surprised how often you'll be talking to another girl only to find they've felt the exact same sense of 'avoid this one' off the same guys you have. My spideys…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:33 PM
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Modern capitalist era in this case means the era of deregulated capitalism. It coincides with a bunch of different trends from union busts to wage stagnant to the rise of the billionaire class to the beginning of the gig economy to inflation of everything from milk to houses. There are several points I'm sure I've missed but you catch my meaning. All of which effectively makes traditional lifestyles near impossible to sustain because the average worker cannot make enough money to support a famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 12:40 AM
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The lack of a proper women's movement in Japan is actually driving a lot of their population and social issues. Japan is massively traditional and a lot of women are foregoing marriage and children because in a lot of cases they would have to give up too many personal freedoms in order to be what is considered a proper wife and many jobs simply won't keep a woman on if she has kids. Who wants to go to school for years and kickstart a lucrative career only to be kicked out so you can become a hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 10:05 PM
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The thing is I don't even think they're being screwed over by the opposite gender half the time. Granted there are some who are great people but might just have factors out of their control that means they just aren't that desirable to the opposite sex and man, that's a rough hand to have been dealt and I would want a place to vent too... but the vast majority of the time it's not mystery why some of these guys aren't succeeding. From the perspective of a woman I'm just not going to date a guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 09:45 PM
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That's really unusual. Suicide rates are down globally and even in my city this year alone rates are down 7% despite covid and everything. There's got to be something unique about American culture that is driving suicide rates up so dramatically compared to other developed nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 09:26 PM
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Yeah that's a dick move to pull on someone, either commit to the friendship or don't. Keeping a guy around to use as an emotional mannequin is probably a massive red flag for how she'd be in a relationship so bullet dodged I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:03 AM
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My city is so introverted that's like a dream. I had to end up being the aggressor in order to get a guy to do more than stare sadly at me with puppy dog eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 02:55 AM
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Multiple men every day? Hot damn where is this land of milk and honey where dick is falling from the sky? I can count on one hand the number of guys that I've had to let down, those are lifetime numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 02:44 AM
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All my male friends that were 'friendzoned' typically watch tv shows we're both into and casually hang out with me. And occasionally I'm an ear when they need a female perspective on something. Not sure what kind of partner labour friendship you're imagining but it ain't that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 02:33 AM
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Staying fit/healthy is way more complex than lifting weights. You can lift as much as you want but if you're eating like crap and not taking care of the rest of your body your results are going to be severely diminished or you could even hurt yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:10 PM
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Past societies absolutely did focus on sex. Not like we do but there's still a reason why religion in particular has so many rules and restrictions surrounding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:18 PM
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I tried to have a ONS once - five years on we're expecting a baby. Go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 04:16 PM
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Tell me more guy who knows so well the mind of women his expertise and experience surely makes him one of the Chad species himself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 04:11 PM
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It's funny because I hear a ton of guys here who clearly are not Chads consider success as having sex with as many women as possible. They don't want to date, they want the easy access to pussy that they think this mythical Chad possesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 04:09 PM
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Anecdotally I worked at an office that had a massive male to female ratio gap and in a profession that attracted a lot of socially awkward men. A handful of men were playing the numbers game and asking out every moderately attractive woman in our department. When the girls started warning each other and discussing it it became clear that there was a handful of us that not one single guy out of the several that had been trying had asked out, unsurprisingly it was the not conventionally attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 04:06 PM
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It's interesting that depending on the needs of your argument you are either disparaging female artists as entirely lacking in natural male artistic abilities, having capabilities but using them in a narcissist and self serving way or being just as good as male artist but lacking the drive to excel. It cannot be all of the above which leads me to believe your argument is not in good faith, you're simply arguing any and every position that will achieve the goal of reinforcing your already held be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:54 AM
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A big part of the reason women didn't paint those images is because the vast majority of classical portrayals of war, religion, conquests, kings and saints were commissioned and largely controlled by the church and the wealthy, usually nobility. Painting as a career depended heavily on wealthy patrons and the vast majority of wealthy patrons simply would not hire women to paint masculine scenes and figures. Some of these paintings took months and years and even then many of these subjects had to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 11:17 PM
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I provided ample reasons and examples to support my position, you have provided none. An argument isn't ignorant or nonsensical simply because you refuse to properly back up your assertions or provide a decent rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:27 PM
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Interesting how a focus on pregnancy, fertility, womanhood etc is considered narcissistic to you. Especially considering those subjects have been conspicuously absent from classical art done by men who were more concerned with the female form than authentic femininity. Is it so shocking that female artists would seek a representation of self that was more in line with self perception than idealized representations? Look at the difference in the subject of Judith Beheading Holofernes as painted b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:31 PM
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How does evolution follow when it comes to valuing high status men when humans evolved in close knit tribes where resources were shared and most tribes didn't practice modern day pairing practices such as marriage to one man for life or the nuclear family model where one man would be solely responsible for caring for one wife. What evolutionary pressure would there be for women to select solely for status and power when most tribes didn't function under those kinds of heirarchies? Moreover it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:53 PM
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I read a theory that fertility statues were essentially self portraits done from the perspective of pregnant women as the proportions make more sense when viewed from the perspective of someone who is pregnant and looking downwards at themselves. Not sure about the validity of that theory but it was an interesting idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:30 PM
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Human nature has always been as it is and I have to question how someone can make it to adulthood, going to school every day with girls and knowing grown women in their lives while still maintaining a strong delusion about women. I can only assume most of these young guys had been highly sheltered or were antisocial, failed to get proper socialization and experience while growing up and entered the dating world wildly unprepared and were shocked and disillusioned by it all. None of which has any…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:18 PM
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That's assuming your initial assumption that women are drawn to sociopathic assholes is correct in the first place and not the result of bias or cultural feedback from your specific region that may not hold true elsewhere. Given that the vast majority of people, men and women, end up in relationships and people displaying true sociopathic behaviours is a very small minority of the population and that anti-social behaviour doesn't automatically equal success in the current world (typically you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:51 PM
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It's interesting you say I'm looking to make women out to be the victims when all I did was name well documented wartime atrocities and sieges. I didn't even explicitly say only women experienced these events. You then bring feminism into it when feminists has nothing to do with the assertion that being a non-combatant doesn't protect you from experiencing death and rape and torture and starvation. My assertion was always that women have historically been barred by law from participating in dire…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 07:19 PM
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See your issue is that you brought feminism into it at all. I'm not discussing feminists ideology nor have any of my links been from feminists sources. This is history. Undeniable facts that are undisputed by historians. You want to deny basic history to suit a narrative that women were equal to men through history and women never had to fight for any rights or had any handicaps that were solely based in prejudice against their sex. You say that men nobly did the work to allow women to stay home…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 06:59 PM
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The horrors of war aren't limited to body count. Look at all the people during WW2 who were being bombed out of their homes during the Blitz, how about the people during the Siege of Leningrad who were forced to resort to cannibalism to survive, how about the Rape of Nanking, Comfort Women, or the massive number of non-combatants sent to camps to die? Do you think those people didn't experience war because they weren't holding a gun? War isn't just about fighting on a battlefield and not being o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 06:31 PM
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Not being allowed to fight does not shield one from the horrors of war. What do you think happened to women, especially low class/caste women from the losing side? What do you think happened to women whose lands were occupied by foreign soliders? Moreover, even in ancient societies if your city was under siege women were absolutely expected to step up and defend their home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:57 PM
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My argument is not that women never had any rights ever it's that the wider trend has always been men holding all the rights and positions of power with women having sporadic to no rights depending on time period and location. Even in modern times I can take a plane and land in a place where suddenly I have less rights simply because of the happenstance of my gender. My main issue was that you were denying that women were in any way disenfranchised by society but it seems you're now acknowledgin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:52 PM
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Sure, men had more rights, but they also had more responsibilities. apart from a few small outliers the rights of men have been similar to the rights of women. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:23 PM
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In the case of things like serving in the military women were explicitly banned from service. There are multiple accounts from across history and the globe of women dressing up as men to fight so the ability of women to stay away from war wasn't a choice made willingly to avoid conflict and live in comfort but a choice forced on them. It's the same with mining. Women were miners and wanted to be miners but laws were eventually passed barring women from participating in that field. https://www.hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:16 PM
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The presence of outliers doesn't contradict the trend. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legal_rights_of_women_in_history You claim feminists are retconning history. If that is the case feminists have singlehandedly managed to influence the whole course of history to suit their narrative. An impressive feat. Can you provide some examples of these protections and provisions that women were given and men denied thoughout history? I don't know to what you're referring to. Edit: I did a search for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:12 PM
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A lot of these guys are very comfortable denying uncomfortable truths and facts when it contradicts their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:53 PM
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You can't just say this without backing it up with solid evidence. The commenter above gave you solid reasons as to why women were artificially reduced to second class citizens. Your whole rebuttal is 'no, you're wrong'. There is evidence piled upon evidence supporting the fact that women were kept out of working positions, not allowed to be financially independent, denied access to the law from within their marriage, kept from higher education, not allowed to inherit or own property etc etc. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:44 PM
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A man who requires you to degrade yourself in order to feel like he's better than you is not a strong man, that's a weak man who needs others to be weaker than him in order to feel strong. Meet me on my level or not at all. A partner should compliment your weakness and strengths, not bring you down to enhance himself by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:36 PM
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No I know exactly what you meant by that. Guys have tried pulling that shit on me since I was a teenager and girls talk to each other about it all the time, it's not hard to spot the type of guy whose trying to play games and better yet the type of girl he's likely to target. Call it what you will but most guys aren't good at it and it's only a specific type of girl that either willing or unwillingly falls for it. Your repeat assertion that niceness isn't attractive is still missing my earlier p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:52 AM
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Could be. More likely socially awkward, the hanging around until you notice her sounds like classic social awkwardness. If you'll excuse the metaphor, sounds like she hooked the fish but has no idea how to reel it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:41 AM
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Manipulation and coercion are laughably easy spot, most guys aren't the Machiavellian masterminds they think they are. Being nice is perfectly attractive as long as that isn't your only quality. You have to be bringing slightly more than a blandly acceptable niceness to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:34 AM
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Sounds like a self sabotager. If she was interested enough to do all that chances are she's really into you but is probably too socially awkward or insecure to properly follow through.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:19 AM
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Most women grow up where niceness/friendliness is a requirement. I think this confuses a lot of guys who view niceness as a seduction tool because putting on a nice/friendly face was never required of them growing up, they were allowed to be distant and antisocial (behaviours that would get you labelled a bitch for women) and so they confuse the baseline social niceties of women with sexual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:08 AM
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Being nice isn't a rare quality and I think most guys in this sub forget that or deny it. Regardless if it's genuine or faked nice is pretty much a social baseline. Far too many guys assume that niceness ought to be rewarded and if it's not why bother being nice, might as well be an asshole. That's not how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 03:56 AM
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Having feelings complicates things and feelings dictate attraction and value are not controversial statements, that's just common sense. Why do so many people here operate like robots where basic human emotions and feelings are alien concepts they can't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:49 AM
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My god thank you. Way too many guys are hooked on this idea of extremes and fail to understand the key is acting like a normal human being who is interested but not desperate. They also want an in. That surefire set of behaviours and attitudes that will guarantee them success. Women aren't robots. What I like and who I am isn't what the next five girls might like and are all about. It all comes around this this idea that is so hard to grasp: women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 03:23 PM
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Why do you think narcissists tend to make up a ton of high powered positions in society? These people are considered universally charming and charismatic and confident, traits people of both sexes consider attractive for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 03:13 PM
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None of the guys here seem to understand the massive gulf between an actual asshole and a guy whose being real and why a guy whose being real is massively preferable to a fake nice guy whose fawning and telling you everything he thinks you want to hear if it will just get in him your pants. As usual the dudes here have overcomplicated a subject that is very simple. Women enjoy being treated as people. Your version of an asshole persona probably looks closer to how a normal human being acts than …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 03:08 PM
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Your arguments have turned nonsensical. I'm not here to argue if a 15 year old girl is more important than Einstein or acknowledge the bizzare point that I am not a fully conscious human life. I see no point in discussing this topic with someone who can't argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:02 AM
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If you want to get into life for life's sake very few people would agree that the life of a first trimester embryo/fetus holds the same weight as the life of a born child. You're arguing that the presence of life is enough but for most people they understand that a fetus isn't a fully conscious human life. Yes it's it's own independent genetic life but genetic diversity doesn't make it human. Like I said, having seen it firsthand, a first trimester fetus is a glob of bloody tissue that doesn't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:37 AM
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There is absolutely no scientific definition of when conscious life begins. Simply being alive is not an indicator of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:06 AM
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A fetus isn't compatible with life until a least 24 weeks. That is not arbitrary. Like I said all of this stuff is very well defined that's why you see the vast majority of abortions taking place in the first trimester when the fetus is little more than a sack of tissue (having seen it with my own two eyes I can confirm there was no miniature baby, it was just a wet pile of bloody goo in a sack), a lesser amount of abortions take place after genetic screening results get back in the second trime…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:59 PM
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They've also gotten a huge amount of female driven subs banned
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:46 PM
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It's not arbitrarily defined at all. Pregnancy stages are so well defined you know exact where the embryo/fetus should be from week to week, what they look like, what parts are being formed, what senses are more advanced, if pigment has formed etc. One of the first signs of my second miscarriage was that the fetus was developmentally at week 8 when it should have been at week 11, a difference that is so huge you can see it with the naked eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:43 PM
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I had a guy for our first date blindside me with this massive affair of a fancy dinner date followed by an amusement park followed by meeting his friends. I ended up getting sick so thankfully I didn't have to go on it but man, when he was describing the date it spiked my anxiety so hard. I remember getting sweaty and my heart beating fast just hearing him talking about it. I have a lot of social anxiety and it was just too much too fast. Big fan of casual coffee dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 11:22 PM
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It's painfully obvious you've never actually talked to any girls/women about their preferences. Not sure whose ass you're pulling your evidence from but you should tell them the info they're shitting out is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:55 PM
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You can't take the actions of some women and say 'there is a problem with female hypergamy'. Hypergamy is explicitly about moving up in class and status and that doesn't happen with any real frequency. The existence of women who will dump a man for another man who has more or earns more doesn't change the fact that this is not a society wide problem. That's a relationship problem and no one is telling anyone to not talk about it but instead that turning your individual story into 'most women do …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 04:33 AM
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The modern concept of property and ownership emerged as a result of the rise of agriculture. You need land to grow crops and land, especially fertile land, is a finite resource that everyone wanted. Human beings didn't evolve under those circumstances and that is not our natural state. It's a trade some civilizations chose to make for a relatively stable access to food. Other civilizations didn't make this choice, maintaining a nomadic lifestyle, and were notably more egalitarian and with less r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 04:15 AM
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I never said hypergamy was a male and female problem I said it didn't happen, not with any real frequency, and that concern over it is largely contained to areas like TRP, incels and MGTOW... subgroups that are notorious for painting male/female relations with broad strokes that lack nuance and always paint the males as the best of people who were wronged by the bad females. I have yet to see any frequent examples of middle class girls regularly getting plucked from their middle class lives to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 09:18 PM
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Someone should tell all those pre-industrial tribes about it then because I don't think they got the memo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:36 PM
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Your example is not indicative of a societal wide problem. As I've said before, if you're talking about the dictionary definition of hypergamy you're just straight up wrong. Marrying outside of your class is rare, so rare it can and has made the news. You're angry about competition from within your own social and financial circle and to that I can only reiterate, dating is not a charity. In your example we have a shining paragon of a man and a devious pretender woman and are extrapolating that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 07:15 PM
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As someone who reads a truly ridiculous amount of female erotica I'm amused you think getting kidnapped by a hot alien warlord is a genuine prospect I have for my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:50 PM
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Of course men are socialized by civilization to not kill for rights to harems filled with underage females. Oh damn...you actually believe this? Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:46 PM
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I don't know how much you stroll in feminist circles or even chat with women but I can assure you this topic rarely comes up. I've only heard this issue being discussed with any real depth among redpill/incel/MGOTW men because, frankly, the majority of people just don't care because there is nothing to care about. If we're talking about the dictionary definition of hypergamy the reality is marrying up out of your class/caste/financial situation is HUGE, literally life changing Cinderella fairy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:30 PM
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If that it true I can only assume the US is an absolute wasteland when it comes to women's reproductive health. Especially as women need to pay for abortions in the US it seems highly suspicious that the most common abortion method would be the most expensive and invasive option available. Do you have a source for your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:01 AM
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Ah no surprise, he's been all around here spreading alarmist misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:54 AM
2

The word you're looking for is embryo. Keeping an embryo fully intact outside the womb seems like a hefty ask since they're the size of about a quarter at that age and barely more substantial than a period clot. Also I've personally never heard of a suction being used for first trimester anything. I had a suction done and it was done after the gestational sac became stuck after a miscarriage. Chemically induced abortions are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:43 AM
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Yep and it's just a fact that at that stage a massive amount of pregnancies end abruptly. Your body has the common sense to weigh the life of an embryo/fetus against a cost/benefit ratio and make a decision. Something no different than what is done in a chemically induced abortion only in that case it's the woman or family doing the cost/benefit analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:11 PM
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Your use of dismember when you likely know for a fact that the majority abortions (barring those tragic cases where late term abortions are necessary) are induced by a pill and therefore are no different from a miscarriage tells me you're arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 04:03 PM
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It literally is tissue. I've seen it. No other words could be used to describe it. I actually had the suction used and it brought out the fully intact gestational sac. The whole thing was the size of a quarter and unrecognizable as anything human.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:59 PM
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No, I really can't. I've had two miscarriages (spontaneous abortions, functionally no different from a chemically induced abortion) and got to see the resulting 'baby'. Killed and dismembered is a hilariously hyperbolic way of describing what is, in reality, your body pushing out a ton of blood and tissue in the worst period you've ever had and not actually being able to tell the 'baby' apart from the rest of the mess until the doctor points it out. I'm pretty sure the doctors threw it all in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:55 PM
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Have you actually ever seen an abortion? This killed and dismembered bit sounds wildly uneducated and removed from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:41 PM
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It's telling you're outraged on behalf of a glob of tissue that requires nothing from anyone but are perfectly willing to let a full grown baby starve if it means you might personally have to pay for the upkeep of said baby in some unknown future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:39 PM
2

As the old proverbs tell us: Don't start nothing, won't be nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 11:20 PM
2

pretty normal stuff like global politics Just imagine a bunch of red arrows and circles around the words "pretty normal stuff", I understand comprehending the fine details in someones words is not a skill everyone has so the visual metaphor may help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 10:15 PM
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For me looks are somewhat important but more important than looks is intelligence and education. I want to be able to hold a mentally stimulating conversation on a variety of subjects and it's such a boner killer when you're talking to a guy about some pretty normal stuff like global politics and you just see that blank look in a guys eyes and realize the conversation isn't going anywhere, or worse, when they're wildly uneducated about a subject but can't admit it so they'll say some blatantly w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 04:14 PM
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I didn't denigrate anything, I just pointed out that getting angry at the women who fall for abusers and cheaters not because they abuse and cheat but because they get sex makes you a dickhead. Rapists also get sex and they're not exactly the model I would hold up as what women are looking for in a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 09:33 PM
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If pointing out that cults are organizations that brainwash and abuse their members is deflecting and saying anything about women then sure. I'm sure I did everything you say I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 09:00 PM
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Who said I want to hear anything of the sort? You were referencing cults as an example of women being status seekers and are now getting butthurt when someone points out cults are tools of brainwashing and abuse. Not my fault your argument couldn't hold up to basic critical thought
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 06:52 PM
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You are aware of course that cults also target and brainwash men, right? But that doesn't flow with the women!bad narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 06:27 PM
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Cult leaders are the best example of status based sexuality of woman Also the brainwashing, abuse, restricting access to the outside world, religious fervor and heavy lean on older men gaining access to underage girl and the fact that women repeatedly try to escape said cults and warn the world about the rampant abuse that goes on. But yeah lets ignore all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:36 PM
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Here's some advice. The benevolent Nice Guy role you're putting on here isn't going to score you any points with women. Why? Because you're not actually concerned about women falling prey to duplicitous men, you're not outraged over abuse and cheating. You're just angry you're not getting as much sex as the man who lies and abuses and cheats. You're envious of this man and that makes you just as much of a scumbag as any cheater and abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:15 PM
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We diet, work out, spend so much effort on staying up to date and attractive in every way and guys think an “average woman” is anywhere near an “average man”? Fucking please. This a million times. When I was growing up men (even young men) were massively unimpressive to me and for a long time I was confused as to if I was even attracted to men because all of the guys around me I just felt nothing for. If anything the thought of them touching my body was repulsive so I avoided them for a long tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:59 PM
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The key word in that sentence is collective. You're not being rejected by the entirety of female kind of one woman or even dozens of women doesn't want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:29 PM
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The biggest difference being one is a passive unfairness and the other is an active unfairness. Women not wanting to date you isn't something that affects all men nor is it a collective action against you personally. And it doesn't it mean that there won't eventually be a woman out there for you that you just haven't met yet. It's just luck, good or bad. It's also something that can strike women, I've known a lot of older women who are loveless and unhappy but because of a variety of reasons suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 12:59 AM
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Not really sure how you're conflating this with feminism as the two have literally nothing in common. The fact is no one is entitled to a partner, another cold hard reality that people don't like to face. You can complain about it until you're blue in the face or you can suck it up and deal with it stoically, how you choose to deal with the frustration doesn't really matter because it doesn't change the reality that you're never guaranteed success or long lasting happiness even if you do find a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 12:11 AM
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You're assuming the storyteller is doing anything. In this study it was purely a theoretical and women were free to choose from among various different attributes and skills without being influenced by any so called game or manipulation or even physical attraction from the men. This doesn't really hold with the alpha male 'top 20%' physical/status based attraction theory a lot of guys here hold. Much like my example with the apes this is much more about group cohesion, the man's ability to promo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:50 PM
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Humans evolved in an egalitarian tribal setting not a nuclear family setting where it is the sole responsibility of the man to provide. Naturally even in a tribal situation there will be more and less attractive men but there was study showing that in modern hunter gatherer tribes it was actually the storyteller's that impressed women the most and tended to have the most children. Storytelling doesn't have much practical survival skills so why then would tribal women value their skills over that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:19 PM
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A lot of guys also don't realize many women when they say that a guy is 'unattractive' purely physical appearance is only a part of the equation. How they treat others, how they speak, how they conduct themselves in public, how they hold themselves, confidence etc are all factors that can make any man attractive or unattractive that have very little to do with raw physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:09 PM
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The biggest fallacy of dating advice is that you have any control over anything but yourself; that there is a set pattern of female behaviours and social norms that can be decoded and manipulated to all but guarantee success. So many dating strategies aimed at guys support the fallacy that there is a code and you too can crack it. I see so many guys here acting like all female kind is a big hive mind with one want and one goal and one set of behaviours and that is the key to their failure. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:26 PM
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There's likely a good reason for that historically if you think about it. When you have a kid most women are going to be taking some time off work either by choice (to breastfeed and be with their kid during the first few months to year) or by necessity (high risk pregnancy, medical issues, traumatic birth experience needing a long recuperation period). During that time you're largely going to be relying on the husband's income. Nowadays it isn't such a big deal as most countries have family lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 08:08 PM
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Not really when you're all over this thread trying to dispute everyone who is bringing up very legitimate reasons why relying on a man for your future is not a positive move for women. There is little incentive for women to live that lifestyle and the only reason women have historically done so is by being restricted from working, restricted from owning property, restricted from inheritance rights, restricted from opening her own accounts etc. Society had to work double time to make it so women …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:09 PM
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More like when your husband decides to trade you in for a better model and you find yourself needing to search for work on nothing but a high school or less education while supporting kids you're pretty fucked. My mom had a seventh grade education and when my dad left (and with not a cent of child support from him) she was left with very few options and predictability we ended up in extreme poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:41 PM
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Hahaha you just described individuality and social dynamics. You're so close to true enlightenment. All these women with their complex social networks and their blasted array of thoughts and behaviours that follow no consistent, predictable pattern. The hive mind has no consensus and changes moment to moment that's why it's real thing that really exists. If you really think about it your entire post is a harsh slam on men who are apparently are having a hard time decoding the mystery that is flu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 12:29 AM
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Which is exactly why all these guys with the apparent key to the hive still can't get any, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 10:07 PM
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So? I didn't have sex until I was 24 and have had exactly one serious relationship in my life. I know tooons of single girls who haven't ever been in a serious relationship and who aren't exactly tripping over dick in their every day lives. The fact is with population being what it is for every lonely guy there is an equally lonely woman out there having the same bad luck. Do you seriously think all women are just passing the same 20% of guys between them and leaving the other 80% to rot in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:06 AM
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And yours come off as classic Nice Guy. You're such an amazing, kind, man who is inexplicably being passed over despite being the best man on earth for these comically villainous Other Men who somehow are all either addicts or abusers or cheaters. Having been on the receiving end of many a guy like that the thoughtful, devoted thing isnt so appealing when you're casting your net over every available female within 100km. Any pussy will do so long as I get to fuck it isn't going to win you any pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:43 AM
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Different is not easier. Go into any female space and listen to all the complaints about relationships, you'll find no shortage of women who are tired of men and dating and relationships in general. It's easy to jump on a dick for a night, it's hard to find a good man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Men incorrectly confuse the two all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:35 AM
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I would also point out that a lot of women have similar stories of their boyfriends changing once they marry so in a lot of ways maintaining a fake persona seems to hurt men in the long run. It might get you in the door but it's not going to keep you in the house once you drop the persona. As a personal anecdote a friend of mines husband apparently did a complete 180 after getting married and my friend told me recently she feels decieved, like the man she married was a lie and is now looking to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:26 AM
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A lot of your examples are not female based. Attractive people receive harsher sentences regardless of sex, an ugly woman will get a much higher sentence than an attractive man for the same crime. If a man is the primary caretaker and a stay at home dad he will get alimony and child support but more often than not men give up parental rights to women when it comes to custody which is why it is skewed so heavily in favor of women. Your last example is not measurably provable, what is a 'mistake' …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:33 PM
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Then how does that value translate into any real world benefit? Something that is valued is usually taken care of or given additional benefits in some way over something disposable and yet my life is not measurably any better than my male counterparts despite them apparently being disposable and me being the beneficiary of Inherent Societal Value. How do I translate that value into a tangible benefit? What is my value worth if I get nothing out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:54 PM
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Daughters are a luxury item, valuable on their own even if they provide no benefit. It's like that time I threw my Bugatti into the trash because my Jeep Wrangler was the better work vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:37 PM
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In all your conversations over this thread I have yet to see you provide even ONE example of how a woman is inherently treated better than men. Stop holding out on me! I'm tired of working and would like to kick back, never work again and have all my shit taken care of but you haven't told me how yet. Here I am earning my paycheque with my labour and paying for my own rent with my own money like some fucking lowlife scum when I should be reaping the benefits of my Inherent Societal Value as a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:30 PM
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Booooy do I have even more shocking news for you https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_rural_left_behind_women https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_agriculture_in_China https://www.indiaspend.com/73-2-of-rural-women-workers-are-farmers-but-own-12-8-land-holdings/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 05:01 PM
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Your idea is based off of several flawed premises such as women not working (they do, especially in extremely poor places most women have no choice but to work, especially in villages in China women going off to work in factories to send money home to their families, often leaving their children with relatives for months or years at a time is incredibly common), that sons are not valuable but then contradict that by showing all the ways sons are valuable (because they earn and provide for the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:53 PM
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they do not work (in these societies) Boy do I have some shocking news for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:45 PM
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Men take on dangerous jobs because they pay incredibly well for minimal schooling, they're doing it for their own bank accounts not because they're being forced or conscripted to by a society. Same with war, men choose to go into the military (most who will never see combat) because of the perks or because they want to. Those guys could easily just go to school and join the rat race but they choose not to for personal reasons. How many western men have died in combat and from work related injuri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:42 PM
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What people deny is that this disposability is in any way relevant in the modern world or at least that such disposability puts men at an inherently weaker position in society than women. People here talk about men taking dangerous jobs or going to war but all of the is voluntary in the modern world, a man can just as easily choose a cushy office job and to never provide for a wife and child and it has no real bearing on how he is able to live his life. A man need not even provide for his family…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:29 PM
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Whether they use it or not they are still valuable. Infertile women are often viewed as 'less than' even in progressive countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:16 PM
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If women are valued for what they are then why is sex selective abortion happening in many countries today? Families in small villages in India will often kill a newborn girl and do so without regret and I fail to see how immediately killing a girl child because she wasn't a boy is an expression of inherent female value. You don't destroy something you value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:12 PM
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You fail to take into account how a lot of men choose to show attention to women they're interested in. Having been on the receiving end of it the 'shudder over someone we're not hot for' has nothing to do with looks and everything to do with a feeling of danger and general unease. Way too many men choose to show interest in a way that is not at all seductive or compelling and what the woman is rejecting isn't their looks but their mannerisms or aggression or intensity or bad social skills etc. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 11:57 PM
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Alright, I'm about to apparently out myself as some sort of prepper pervert BUT... A lot of the guys fail to properly create the atmosphere (which I get it, they're not doing these videos to titillate) but you can't just stop at showing the thing you built you have to show it in use. There's a couple of the guys/channels who go to the effort of creating an atmosphere after the fact, building makeshift candles, showing the dwelling in a particular environment (say in the rain or the snow), the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:47 PM
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Wow, now that you mentioned it that visual is spot on. I've definitely had my heart speeding up when a guy does that but it's been so long, my boyfriend straight up never does that so I totally forgot about how good that move is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:11 PM
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If I'm to be honest I've never once been aroused by watching those channels but I'll admit to having blown many an hour watching dudes building viking long houses in the woods or survival shacks and such. But then if I really think about it the thought sometimes come to me later like 'wouldn't it be hot if it was just me and whoever alone in the woods in front of a roaring fire just outside the longhouse/cabin in the cold of winter and when it gets too cold and too dark we could go inside the ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:03 PM
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I've never pretended to be anything but me, if you somehow thought I was an evolved, superior angel that's on you, not me. Take responsibility for your own misconceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:49 PM
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Fakeness keeps the peace. We've all met those assholes who are 'just being honest' when they give a blunt opinion but really they're being unfeeling, abrasive and rude and generally people don't like them. People say they want truth but when you are truthful they get hurt feelings and low self esteem and then they get mad at you for making them feel that way even when they know what you said was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:42 PM
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This. I'm unmarried and am pregnant with a baby my boyfriend and I planned for. I don't see any reason to get married when legally we're already recognized as common law. We're on each other's benefits and can file taxes together, not sure why we need an expensive ceremony and an extra piece of paper that won't change anything. I'm not opposed to getting married since I basically am and we call each other husband and wife. It's just so damn expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:03 PM
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As you should. A date is a not a downpayment on your genitals and any guy who treats it like that is clearly not interested in you but in his own gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:59 PM
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Where I live splitting the bill is very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:54 PM
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No amount of money could compel me to let a guy like Weinstein put his hands on me. Most women have this thing called 'self respect', not sure if you're heard of it. It's a pretty big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:38 PM
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Most women aren't spending their time pining over the Chris Evans' and Henry Cavills of the dating world so why are you? Why bother focusing on the top tier of anything? Unless you're roaming in those circles already you're basically dreaming if you think any 'top tier' person is going to be giving you a second look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:17 PM
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I see you don't understand the fundamental principals of biology and why abortion is tied to bodily autonomy. You don't have to think about it because the worst thing for you is having to shell out some money. Such a hard life. For women it's having no right to bodily autonomy. Having the risks of pre-eclampsia, diabetes, 4th degree tearing, anemia, vitamin deficiency, hemorrhage, incontinence, c-section etc etc forced on you by the government. And then you still have to pay for the child when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:44 PM
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Hahaha you think women don't work? Two miscarriages and I didn't take any time off work except for hospital visits (not saying it's a good thing it's just what I did). I had to go to work every day while feeling like my stomach was trying to work its way up my throat for 3 months and wanting to sleep every minute of every day. I get to go to work while being kicked from the inside. I'll still be working after the kids is born. You got the long end of the biology stick and are STILL managing to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 06:08 PM
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The vast majority of the time women get sole custody is because the man walked away. Most women aren't exactly jumping at the chance to be a single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:58 PM
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The fact that you would abandon your own child without a second thought, having zero desire to ever see them and know them, to make sure they're getting the best advantages in life, to make sure they're happy and healthy and not being abused or mistreated makes me question what you are worth as a human being. Such a person is not worthy of respect or consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:52 PM
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This guy is harsh embarrassing himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:40 PM
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Men shouldn't pay for womens choices. Uh oh, someone doesn't understand how procreation works
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:38 PM
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The first key to lying successfully is not bringing up you have an association with the thing in the first place. It's hilarious how you think my head would explode or I wouldn't recognize the tactics when I clearly spend my free time arguing with redpillers online. What's even more hilarious is your dialogue for my bf. 'Yea babe'. I'd have to shoot him because he'd have clearly been taken over by a alien impersonating a human male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:07 PM
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Oh just the small fact of him telling me he hates the community and mentioning how it fucked with his head. I bet you're all imagining the tactics and attitude he must have used, the magic panty dropping rp formula possessed in this one man that eventually won him his prize ... which, honestly is pretty hilarious to anyone who knows the guy. Does trp teach 'advanced intro into explaining Star Trek lore'? How about 'quoting the Simpsons until her ears bleed'? Or 'how to talk to a female about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:43 PM
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One guy murders a few people and women label us all as murders even if we are pacifists. It's always 90%+ male perpetrators for any kind of violent crime. This is not a 'few guys'. How does anyone know who these guys are? You don't. It's not like they wear a bell around their neck signaling their violent tendencies to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:07 PM
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If this community is making men resent and hate women it's unlikely if you're not having success already getting stuck in a self defeating mentality full of stress and anxiety and resentment isn't going to help the problem any. My boyfriend apparently started going down the redpill path before I met him, he doesn't talk about it much or give any details when I've asked but whenever the subject gets brought up now he gets visibly angry and clearly holds a lot of resentment for whatever mentality …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:33 AM
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Hit pieces that are old af. The redpill had a moment of prominence then faded from public view. Like I said, philosophies that work aren't relegated to a few fringe subs and websites where guys complain incessantly about women. You don't tend to see guys having success in relationships and sex complaining because what do they have to complain about? The only guys whining about women are the guys who aren't having any luck. Redpill can't be all that great if a huge part of the philosophy revolves…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 06:06 AM
2

Does it work? Generally speaking people that are succesful and happy in don't tend to waste their time complaining about the opposite sex online. If the redpill mentality led to any real success or happiness you'd think it would have moved into the mainstream by now but if anything it's gone further into the fringes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:50 AM
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Lets be honest, what modern 30+ year old men mean when they want to 'date' younger women is that they want to have sex with younger women. Back in the day if you were 30+ and were attracted to a 20-something woman you weren't dating, you were courting with the intent to marry and most families wouldn't allow the couple to go off alone like they do these days, courtship was a supervised and set system that the parent had a large say in because that shit was for life. And even back then age gap ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:20 PM
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It's funny both you and the other guy are assuming that a) I'm not successful and b) I'm blaming others for said lack of success. I'm simply reporting a fact backed by science. Women are universally seen as less competent, less likely to receive promotions and less likely to receive raises and those raises are likely to be smaller than those of male employees. I've tailored my career knowing these facts so I can overcome prejudice, demand raises when necessary and position myself for promotion b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:31 PM
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Ladies, have you tried just earning the respect of colleagues? This man told me that's where we've been fucking up. I'm gonna go to work on Monday and try it out. I'll report back with my findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:03 AM
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Man: Women tell me why you're unhappy. Woman: Explains why she's not happy citing common issue surrounding perceptions of competency in the workplace and the difficulty of having to prove competency when male counterparts are granted an assumption of competency and how this affects perceptions of performance... Man: No shut up you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:26 AM
1

Explain all those single mothers then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:29 PM
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Wait wait wait...so it's a mere convenience, not a need for a woman to have the means to take care of herself but she's also to blame for foolishly relying on someone to take care of her if she chooses to become a SAHM. The contradictory nature of your beliefs are truly something to behold.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:26 PM
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Womens outlets were minimal until very, very recently. Just look back on books written by famous female authors and you'll see that most of them were incredibly critical of the fact that they were allowed very little mental or physical stimulation and had no real chance at meaningful occupation. Granted these were all written from the perspectives of well of women but I'm sure being a poor woman wasn't any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:41 PM
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It's a power fantasy for people who feel they have no power. "If I lived back then I wouldn't be a loser, people would respect me and I could just take what I wanted." The reality is if you can't garner respect in the modern era where respect comes pretty freely there's little chance of achieving respect in an era of brutality and violence. Also war was not the be all end all of being a man back in the day, most soldiers were conscripted and the ones that made names for themselves and achieved a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:29 PM
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Unless women are running a massive underground pedo ring that is so airtight not even multiple global agencies have been able to track then down I'm gonna say unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:44 AM
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The one area where I think that's not true is whenever I see busts for child porn or sex tourism for children overwhelmingly it's men who are caught seeking out this kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:43 PM
5

Preach! I tend to wear high necked shirts and fairly demure outfits because the presence of large titties and small waist on a female seems like an open invitation for some people. I wore this to my in-laws place for a family dinner and STILL got commented on about my 'revealing' clothes. If I can't be safe from people viewing me as a scandalous temptress at a family gathering while wearing a fashion burka then what are my options? I either have to dress in menswear or like a middle aged nun for…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:27 PM
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Straight up. To me that's a red flag because what else is he going to start competing with? My job? My hobbies? My friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:51 PM
2

That movie was an emotional rollercoaster. Genuinely one of the hardest movies I've watched.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:20 AM
4

My first trimester was pretty funny with the empathy crying. I was watching Kiki's Delivery Service and at the end when her business got off the ground, she learned how to fly again and she saved her friend I had this absolute dam of empathy burst where I was so happy for her I started crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:20 PM
4

In my experience men are just as emotional as woman but are crippled from early childhood by people telling them their emotions are wrong, telling them to man up and stop being a pussy and by societal pressure to appear more manly. I've seen a lot of guys turn into rage beats because of it. Maybe they're feeling lonely or depressed or hopeless or sad but they feel they can't express it so they bottle it up and redirect it as rage, often at people who haven't done anything wrong but just happened…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:09 PM
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My boyfriend follows Mia Khalifa on Insta and will regularly keep me updated on the goings on of how Mia and her husband are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:47 PM
4

As a milk smelling woman I must protest! FF15 got flak for advertising an epic war story between dueling nations in a magic vs technology story where people worshiped gods of death and with Noctis having a powerful love interest/antagonist in Stella (later replaced by the lackluster Lunafreya) and then after a poorly handled production instead gave us a bland boys day out road trip set in a world that was noticeably incomplete while all the interesting content was shoved off into anime, movies a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:57 AM
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As a woman I got to say I'm loving this idea that I'm a part of this crazy Dark Triad sex cult where I'm just dominating in the sex scene with insanely good looking Chads until I decide to settle down with a nice beta cuck and forget how to sex. And that you've done research into romance novels and then are like 'my god, is this what women want... disgusting'. Pure gold. I wish I was everything you imagine me to be, I really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:59 AM
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This reads like wish fulfillment porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:51 AM
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Disagree hard. Guys are way more likely to date a girl because he's attracted to her and for no other reason. I've seen so many guys in clearly abusive relationships absolutely deny there is any problem and make excuses after excuses for their girlfriends because she's cute and they like to social clout that having a hot gf gives them. Saying 90% of guys prioritize personality traits over looks is measurably wrong. And you bring up pseudoscience evolutionary theory that has been proven wrong to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:46 AM
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Hot people get lesser prison sentences. It's like being born with a superpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 02:27 AM
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I think it gets pushed equally. I've heard dad's yelling at their sons for doing some innocent rough housing with girls and pushing the 'treat girls like princesses' thing. It's a societal holdover from the past that everyone is in some way responsible for pushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 12:04 AM
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My point is in this metaphor instead of being angry at the misinformation people are getting angry at the germs when the germs had always been there and always been doing germ things. It's not the fault of the germs that idiots tried to pretend washing hands was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 11:52 PM
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Why do you want to have sex with Becky when she's clearly emotionally abusive and has very poor decision making skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 11:47 PM
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Effect or not, what I don't accept is that these boys/men take their disillusionment and instead of getting angry at the people and society who fed them lies instead choose to be angry that women aren't living up to the lie. It's also up to people to be critical and not mindlessly believe what they are told when there is evidence to the contrary right in front of their face. I can guarantee these same boys who were fed that line went to school with asshole girls, had female relatives who were fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 11:39 PM
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No you don't understand. They were nice to a woman and didn't receive the request payment of pussy for their great sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 10:51 PM
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Amazing this need to even be stated but women are people. You know how not every guy is an angel or a devil but a collection of traits and habits and flaws that make up the individual. Many guys on this sub legitimately don't view women as people or autonomous individuals. I have to shake my head at a lot of the conversations men have about women on here. They sound more like they're talking about a fictional race of hyper sexual aliens rather than people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 10:46 PM
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Valuable doesn't mean powerful. The only time that has been relevant is in war times when small societies had to worry about small population sizes. In modern times with billions of people now in the world reproductive capabilities don't count for anything. There's not exactly a shortage of humans or a great need for anyone to reproduce. As for the dating climate. If you're relying on nothing but Tinder and other such apps yeah some men are going to have a bad time. That's just reality. Men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 02:59 AM
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Your philosophy is based on a flawed idea of female power equivalent to male power. That is simply untrue. Reproductive power exists in theory but when men hold all the societal and monetary power and women are afforded no hard power reproduction becomes nothing but a liability. Pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding all puts women in a socially vunerable position and most women want a man standing next to them who isn't viewing them through a jaded lens of sex and power. Those sort of men tend to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 11:32 PM
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Who wants to have a never-ending job you don't get paid for and where you have to rely on a single man to not be the type of asshole who will drop you like a hot potato the second someone new comes along, leaving you with no money and no marketable skills to be able to make your own way in life. I watched my own mother get screwed this way by my deadbeat dad when he decided he found a better option. I and many other girls grew up knowing we couldn't rely on men, we had to forge our own path. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:32 PM
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Women have always worked. Do you think the farms just kept themselves running while the men were in the fields or at war. This idea of women as creatures of domestic leisure was a upper/upper middle class Victorian era invention, largely an idealized fantasy, that persists to this day. Hardly in line with reality throughout history or for people of other classes. Even in that era, the height of the leisure wife craze, you can easily crack a history book and see women working the factories, in mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:36 PM
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I used to work in video games as a woman, it's not hard to spot the redpillers. It's not exactly a subtle mindset and guys like that act particularly weird towards women than regular men do even when they think they don't. I'm sure they think they've perfected their mask and nobody sees the thoughts going in behind their eyes. That's a lie. Half the guys on here I have zero doubt are in this spiral where they don't realize they're broadcasting their views and people are picking up on them so the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:21 PM
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You think women were never exploited until now? That's an interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 05:04 PM
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Being a wife to a bad man is. Honestly same goes for being a husband to a bad wife. It's incredibly difficult to find a good partner who respects you and who you can respect, who can handle mature conflict resolution, who has the same values and goals in life, who is motivated to work hard and be ambitious. That's not even getting into abusive spouses. Better to be single than spend every day trying to make things work with someone who is entirely incompatible with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 04:48 PM
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That doesn't mean their motives are unique. At the end of the day body dysmorphia just means that these people are viewing your own body with a level of disgust, this doesn't have to be gender related it can also manifest as eating disorders, self harm etc. Body dysmorphia is a complex topic. For some people they are able to come to terms with those feelings and resolve them without transitioning while for others the permanent solution is to transition into a form that is less distressing to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 06:33 PM
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And yet when you look at detransition stories a LOT of them say exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:49 PM
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I think most people fall into some sort of gender non-conforming behaviors. I've always been against the strict female/male, girls do pink and boy do blue, mentality because it's incredibly confusing to children (especially pre-pubecent children) who are still figuring themselves out. If a child is saying they're the opposite gender chances are they are reacting to a perception of gender they're rejecting for themselves and that isn't something that needs chemical treatment or surgery. Example b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:45 PM
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