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Inside-Language-5251/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 06:41 AM
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I completely get it if he was a super wealthy man with all the resources in the world i would understand this concept more. Dont get me wrong he does well for himself but he doesn't have a high social status he makes 80-95k a year at best and is not the sole breadwinner I still have to work as well. And he isn't offering to marry me or take care of me....he has said he will take care of me but that I would still have to work.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 06:26 PM
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I haven't asked him to do anything beta persay. But he would never exhibit any beta male characteristics. To him he thinks that i would find him less desirable if he was beta. He believes strongly in the alpha fucks beta bucks.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 08:56 AM
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Thank you for your advice however we are both non believers. I am more of a spiritual believer and so is he. But I do believe that maybe he needs to do some shadow work and inner work on himself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 09:49 PM
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That has been my rebuttal as well. He states that he never will he always uses protection. And doesn't engage in oral.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 08:12 PM
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I really do appreciate you advice a d I am taking everyone's into consideration. I may eventually decide to walk I am doing a lot of self discovery at this time but as of right now it's just not that easy for me to throw in the towel and say goodbye. 😔
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 06:51 PM
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Thank you for your perspective. For your #2 no he would absolutely never want me to even be friends with another man. He doesn't consider casual sex if it happens to be cheating as we discussed it before we even attempted to do this LDR. He states that's He is basically just masturbating with another woman's body to get off. He doesn't openly tell me about these casual encounters I asked him if it has happened since he has been there and he told me. He came to visit in December and we discussed …
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 06:21 PM
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It may seem dead end to you from the outside looking in but the way he looks at me and treats me when we are together suggests otherwise to me. I believe what he tells me as far as wanting me to be his lifelong pertner.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 05:56 PM
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And we aren't typical traditional but we do hold very similar values on traditional roles of men and women. I am very open to make thinks work for me and him just trying to find a common ground and looking for advice.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:32 PM
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I did make some new boundaries. He is agreeing to them however, I do t believe he will be true to his work im realizing he boasts how honest he is but I have recently found out that's not the case at all.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:14 PM
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I tried to find that book but there are several different editions on my kindle. Which one??
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:07 PM
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We definitely disagreed. Like I said I'm ok with him having casual hook ups while he is away in Japan. I can't even go see him because the borders are closed for tourists. I did tell him that my boundaries were if he slept with another woman more than once to tell me so I can end things. He agreed. He also said he may never need to sleep with another woman agai. When he is permanently back in the US. So idk I guess at this time I'm just taking it day by day.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:06 PM
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I have thought about just doing my own thing as well since I live in the US and he is in Japan and seeing what happens. But I just dont know if I can morally. As far as the toxic game what are you suggesting?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:03 PM
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Thank you for your suggestions. I also offered threesomes as well. He claims that they are likely to happen as he doesn't want to do them with random women as he is afraid I will contract something orally. And my rebuttle was he's ok sticking his dick in random? And his responses was condoms. He claims that doing the threesomes was to satisfy my curiosity and not something he needed or desired.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:01 PM
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What do you mean when you say triangulation?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 01:43 PM
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I want to thank all of you all for giving me strength and advice its something i need....I lost my mom in 2016 to colon cancer and went through depression and an abusive relationship. I do not have any females in my life to turn to for advice. I am afraid I'm settling for this relationship because I don't want to end up alone and my self esteem took a hit in my prior relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 03:52 AM
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You are right im extremely confused and losing attraction. He has also told me I am not a plate. I havent been a plate since we had our exclusivity talk years ago. And yes he refuses to do anything beta.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 03:30 AM
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Like I said I'm new to TRP and he claims a RP man and highly desirable and HVM have those things.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 02:15 AM
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I feel silly asking this but what is STR?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 11:40 PM
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But he claims high value men are above 6 feet tall, have abs make money. He's a marine he's not Jeff bezos.so he's not a billionaire with a Hiram of gold digging twenty year Olds swooning over materials. He thinks he is though
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 10:48 PM
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I am doing my part as being submissive, friendly, feminine and fit. This ideology is just all new to me and the first RP man I have ever encountered this is all new to me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:42 PM
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That is a good answer i have done that with other dead end relationships in The past and wasted way more years of my life.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:36 PM
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Agreed
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:35 PM
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He said he won't do it again. And if he slept with someone more than once he would tell me so we could end things. But at this point I don't believe him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 08:24 PM
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We have been together 2 years of course I put out and he has had to pay for every trip and he's flying from Japan. But if he's banging so many women over there why come pay and get it from me when he can get it for free over there??
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 08:01 PM
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Right, he would just continue to live the bachelor life and spin plates and not even have a relationship with me
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 08:00 PM
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This is true maybe he's not...but to me he is.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 07:58 PM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 07:58 PM
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We are both in agreement about staying fit and in shape so we are both attractive to each other. I do t believe that people should use marriage to get complacent and lazy like most do. My sex drive matches his perfectly and there is no disconnect there. I just can't give him what he needs while he is away and we are doing long distance. And I also don't want a roommate who splits roles 50/50. I enjoy women duties and I want him to do men duties.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 07:56 PM
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I am standing up for myself now which is causing strife in our relationship...his only response to my boundaries is that he understands where I am coming from and sex IF he decides to have sex with other wen when we are back together in the states would be nothing more than sex and he keeps emphasizing IF. in his thought process he thinks that I will want him more if other women do. I agree that that may be true to some extent but the more he talks about it, it in turn makes me less attracted to…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 07:20 PM
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He said that it's not being selfish and I can walk anytime I want. I chose to be with him and this is what I get for dating a HVM
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 06:23 PM
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That's what I'm realizing. I'm not sure if I want kids but I would have liked to know from the get go that he was incapable and I wouldn't have even continued a relationship with him. He also said that from his past experiences women have ghosted him after he told them so now he just doesnt.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 06:09 PM
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All of our other life term goals align.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 06:00 PM
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Marriage isn't a huge deal for me not something I need. I just want some type of commitment and stability. I don't want to wait 2 years for him to return and put all my eggs in one basket for a man to just up and leave me. Kids....eh, I go through phases were some days I do and some days I don't. Monogamy while we are living together is a must when I am providing him with everything he needs sexually...I grew up in a military town a.d have dated another military man who was not this way. TRP is …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 06:00 PM
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I would say probably not. But it's easy from the outside looking to say this. I am in love with him and when we are together everything is perfect. I just sometimes think he overhypes how great he is to keep me interested because that's what TRP tells him. That if I see him as my best option I will do whatever and put up with anything to stay with him because I'm 36 and approaching "my wall" I'm a very loyal and committed person willing to make things work for the person I love.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 05:54 PM
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I want to keep him and be happy but I cannot tolerate him being unfaithful when he is here in the US and I'm providing him and fulfilling him with everything he needs. He said as long as I do those things he may never sleep with another woman again, but he doesn't want to lie and say that it may never happen again.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 05:24 PM
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He said he may change his mind in the future but why do we need to put a label on things.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 04:56 PM
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He is going on 43 and was married for 16 years in a loveless marriage and he says it's because he was into the blue pill and his marriage failed because of him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 04:49 PM
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He has said that he doesn't want to lose me... I am a great catch fit, friendly, cooperative a great cook, never been married and have no children and I have a good job.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 04:45 PM
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Lol not insanely hot. What I mean by traditional values is he wants to be a provider, protector and take care of me. I said I was ok with the casual sex while he was in another country since we are in a long distance relationship at the moment.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 04:41 PM
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This is true but if he is such high value and getting so many women why does he want me? And why does he make efforts to come see me as much as possible, plan virtual dates and even discuss our future plans and life together.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 03:47 PM
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I agreed to turning a blind eye to his fidelity while he is away.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 03:45 PM
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So I am sure you can see my dilemma and confusion.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 03:44 PM
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I can see how it comes off as a dead end relationship. But if it was dead end why would he spend his time, money and resources to fly to the states to see me and make plans about our future and continuously tell me he wants me. And agree to having a long distance relationship and make virtual dates with me regularly?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 03:43 PM
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Please
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 03:17 PM
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I really appreciate your advice. I agreed to the non ethical monogamy while he is away overseas but was under the impression that it would end when he returned and we are back together, as we are in a LDR right now. Up until recently he has said he may continue these habits if he goes away on a trip after I am already invested into this relationship 2 years down the road.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 01:47 PM
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I appreciate your advice. Sorry about the punctuation. You may be right maybe I am looking for validation because I love him and don't want to leave him. I am just afraid that in the long run its going to be detrimental to my mental health.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 01:34 PM
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I agree that it's just sex he is in the military and overseas I was already open to him not being monogamous while he's there because it's just sex. My concern was that he recently told me this behavior would continue when he returns back to the state and that is something we never discussed pr agreed upon.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 11:01 AM
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This topic came about because he's military and I saud I was ok with turning a blind eye because we are in a long distance relationship and I understood it would be just sex I didn't think it would be ongoing when he returns back to the states
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:49 AM
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He has said that he doesn't want marriage. He was married prior but he has also said that maybe he will change his mind in the future. We are in a long distance relationship now he is military. And I stated that I was willing to turn a blind eye if he had some one night stands. But not if he has sex on a regular basis with the same person. I recently found out that he had sex with the same woman 4 times and now he's telling me that he may or may not be monogamous in the future when he returns to…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:47 AM
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He has told me he never wants to get married. He was married prior.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:40 AM
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I agree with a lot of what you are saying I also agree that the fact he continues to always tell me he's statistically higher than average and so high value that he's over hyping himself.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:39 AM
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