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16

It's a rule she's made consciously, but also a shit test unconsciously. Since you passed and held frame, she'll prob contact you back/change her mind.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 05:40 AM
7

huh, my issue with female friends is that they consistently trying to cock block me around other women. It's a difficult game to play because at the end of the day, you need them.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:20 AM
0

Give her a "I never asked you to send me nudes. Texting/meeting in person is not the same thing. I don't validate this kind of behavior because I want you to respect yourself more." Something like that lol- then she'll start telling her friends you're the most caring, loving, and honorable person she's ever met.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 04:19 AM
1

Start applying more dread one way or another. Maybe starting going to the gym more or hanging out with your buddies...etc. Let her fantasize, seems like you've build up too much comfort and rapport- where the tension is gone. Just my imo
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:43 AM
1

Because he finds one that has LTR potential and he knows that she's going to eventually leave...etc if he doesn't pop the exclusivity question. Sure some RP men will spin plates indefinitely, but that's the minority imo. You're going to have to pick one eventually if you plan on having kids.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 09:20 PM
0

He was getting older and wanted to enter into a LTR and have kids?
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:30 PM
2

Nice post!
/r/askTRP28/12/20 04:51 PM
1

The bitterness is from being a previous beta and putting urself in the friend zone/ wasting opportunities because you thought that would get you laid. I think about those years quite frequently with the girls I tried waiting for the perfect opportunity with, which led me to being rejected later on. Now that I've just left and haven't spoken to them in years, I wonder if they'll message me and I'll have the opportunity to sleep with them later on. In reality, I wish I would of read the rational m…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:30 AM
8

Ironic thing is there's nazi's on the right that need to be told the same thing. They blame jews and major corporations for all their problems.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 06:18 PM
0

Go to ur local bar with a friend and approach women that are there with their friend. Their whole purpose of being there is to be approached by men.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 03:00 PM
3

Wishing you the strength to continue on and celebrate his life.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 02:34 PM
1

You're overthinking.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:47 AM
1

Wait til midday Friday to see if she responds first.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:43 AM
6

Why the hell are you living together in the first place. Absolutely never live with these girls since there is zero point.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:45 PM
1

I think that this is the question of the red pill; I think about letting go of my blue pill days and the missed opportunities, but I def still feel a rage.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 02:41 PM
1

This posts reminds me of the power of flexibility, essentially a reminder of why I feel zero pressure to get married or have children.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:30 PM
12

No need to kick the guy when he's down. He knows he needs to cancel it, but he's scared of the future.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 04:29 PM
1

And that will be the end of their "cohabitation," especially if that guy loses frame that bad... makes him look weak, vulnerable, and insecure. Now, tease her and bring up that past invitation to her place. And if she complies, aka her inviting you over to her place, then you're in and escalate.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:54 PM
2

Lying compulsively is AWALT. This post brings back memories to one girl who would never make an effort to see me, but will say" I love you so much and want to marry you etc" whenever they are feeling down. These women are so insecure and emotionally unstable that it's best to simply plate then and drop them when they start becoming unbearable.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:05 PM
3

Don't frequent the forums as much anymore unless it involves some new interesting content/study, but most of these posts can always be attributed to "oneitus," or you're too emotionally invested man. Girls will change at any moment based on how they "feel," so they can and will leave you at any moment. It's fucked up, but after it happens a few times, you learn AWALT and this is the way it is.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 05:50 PM
2

Because he can't control the environment all the time. The guy froze and "orbiter" took advantage of him. But if the guy doesn't isolate or make a move soon with her giving these IOIs, he'll be put right in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:31 PM
1

pretty easy since you escalated before. If you get rejected, tell her you don't need friends and you shouldn't be talking unless it's going somewhere.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 04:18 PM
1

Could be something going on in her life-where she actually had to postpone it. Give it another try and if it goes nowhere, aka, she ghosts/rejects and give another time, then move on. Sometimes you'll see these bitches give you a text months into the future as if nothing happened, most of it attributed to you not harassing her.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:09 PM
2

This post is cringe, and I'm guessing you have never read any of the content here. She has zero respect for you and will continue to suck you dry financially and mentally, while she goes out and fucks any other guy she likes. Coming back to her at her request, will only cause her to lose more respect for you. Cancel the wedding and drop her to a Low level plate or completely. Look at the red flags and move on. The controlling behavior is just her "competition anxiety" mentality working on a subc…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:53 PM
7

This killed me pre-red pill days, I had changed a bit so my value was higher physically, but mentally I didn't make the shift. It just never occurred to me if you and her don't know each other that well and are going out together 1 on 1, especially at night(logistics) there is interest 95% of the time. Building comfort and rapport without escalating is a trip straight into the friend zone.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:00 PM
0

Had the same thing happen with my buddy recently, but I think he broke up with her. And now we get to see her pathetic insecure self immediately beg for attention on tinder and instagram. It's all in the pictures.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:07 PM
3

I always come back and look through these threads once in a while. This is a good example of women in their party years imo. She knows she's young and her ego is high since she's getting a bunch of attention from guys. Honestly, why break up with her? If she's starts to be disrespectful toward you, then do it. Otherwise, utilize dread game and push her out a bit. Let her come back and enter your frame. You should know this is going to happen and every chick in her party years is going to take fu…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 06:39 PM
2

Ya, but there's nothing to lose if she agrees to go out for drinks...etc. If she has no inclination that it's not 100% plutonic then she's an idiot.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:31 PM
2

I'd say most of the posts are from people who know, but are seeking attention/ validation for the decision they really don't want to make. After a while, everyone knows what they need to do to increase their SMV, they just need to keep pushing..etc.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:54 PM
1

There is only one way to go about relationships, which is putting yourself first. Everything else... controlling frame etc comes unconsciously because you pick and choose how to live your life and make yourself happy.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:43 PM
1

You can go cocky/funny and just indirectly answer the question. The chick will instantly forget the seriousness of her previous question and assume you're fine.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 10:38 PM
5

"I knew she was a whore." Standard jealous female response. I'm a bit surprised your female friend will allow you to hook up with her friend/not do everything to prevent it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 04:49 PM
2

She's trying to move you down on the ladder, as a second option now. LTR are a waste of time, girl always needs to imagine you have other options to put down for you.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:40 PM
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Been thinking about this and how fucked everything is. To have a chick be all over you one day, and then ghost you out of nowhere a week later. A guy would be perceived as a psychopath in psychological terms, but for a women, it's normal.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 06:17 PM
2

You can't go from LTR relationship to plate lol because she's always going to think you're still together. You build too much comfort and rapport without any push/pull so she started to branch off to find her ex chad who treated her like used garbage because she loves the emotional adrenaline. By being complacent and still seeing her, she's going to just start to use u to buy her shit without any sex...etc. Show zero respect to you since she behaved this way before and you were complacent. Yes, …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 02:23 PM
1

If you never orbited around her outside of work, then you can work on this to achieve an end result. In reality, you need to stock spending time with her less and less etc, insinuating that you are with some other girl..etc. Look for some kind of reaction to your behavior, whether she confronts you on it or starts giving you negative looks. You need to rebuild the initial tension somehow and then eventually ask her out for drinks. And Women don't think rationally about the context of a work envi…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:35 PM
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I feel like a lot of these posts are from men who already know the answer and are just looking for validation. She operates on your time, so if you need to look her in the eyes with a grin and tell her, "you need to prove yourself to not be my side whore," then do it. Women operate out of a fear mechanism since they know their value comes from attention.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:33 PM
1

Well fuck, first off, take her off the lease or move. If you're having these thoughts, then the only thing that will make you happy is to break up with her and start plating other girls. Maybe be open with her and just demote her to a plate...etc.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:16 AM
17

All that complaining about finding a quality guy, but zero empathy for her beta husband that put in all that time and effort for her/ the emotional and physical destruction he must have felt. It's truly amazing after women start to lose interest in a guy, they start to hate him for wasting their time lol
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 05:38 PM
1

After you get a ghosted a few times by girls that were super into you in the beginning. You see she's with some guy 10 years older than you living in a high rise, in which you then realize they can leave you at any point at any time without warning.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 12:48 AM
2

She's a bitch since she's seen as an object all day from guys. I wouldn't say she was attracted to him at first, but since his frame was so strong she eventually did.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 12:40 PM
2

It can be beneficial to show that you're high status and have options...etc. Just use it for that reason.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:09 PM
4

Just goes to show you how psychotic these girls are in their "party years." If you want to be with me, then I don't want to be with you and vice versa lol. Endless amount of mind games and shit tests to gauge whether you are desperate or needy/ have other options. I'm going through something similar with a plate, even though we just met. Can't even continue when the girl is already shit testing and applying dread game to see if I'll chase lol.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 01:47 PM
1

Didn't read any of the info, but from the title, just no response. Why get involved with bs.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:34 PM
2

Funny, since if you chase then she will lose respect for you anyway. She just wants to have power and control over you since she's psycho and is attacking you're ego(frame).
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:22 PM
0

You're not losing frame by asking what's going on, though you already know the answer. You lose frame freaking out when she tells you that she's with someone else.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:20 PM
2

From experience since I was with a girl in the past similar to that and thought the same thing, if she meets up with you in a location 1 on 1, she knows and expects you to escalate. It's called compliance.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:29 PM
6

Signs of low interest aren't even low interest, most women will sit back and do nothing.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:09 PM
32

Never understood women that go straight to someone's house they met on an app.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 02:36 PM
9

You are working the push/pull game to a tee- she's madly in love with you and extremely unhappy you will not commit to her. She's trying to make you jealous etc, but then again why waste time on social media for petty bullshit. She'll come back eventually, though you'll prob have to break it off because she'll become insane. It's laughable that not wanting an exclusive relationship is the equivalent to "using someone." But society puts all the expectations and guilt on men.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 09:59 PM
1

I taught myself salsa so whenever some latino song comes on, I ask a chick if she wants to learn lol.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:53 AM
7

Stop talking so much after she's giving you IoIs and build sexual tension. Stare into her eyes and if she stares back for some time, then go ahead and kiss her. If there's a ton of people around, then isolate her and take her to a more secluded spot.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:48 AM
1

She followed your lead and once the ship started sinking,(struggles you had) she jumped ship to find another beta provider. Notice how she leaves you at your worst time. Also, you said you wouldn't share anything with her on a personal level...etc. Women need to connect emotionally with their guy, so if she opens up to you, reward her(operant conditioning).
/r/askTRP27/07/19 06:20 PM
10

Wise comment. Nothing wrong with going with the for sure thing vs. potential of HB8 with bf having no intention of hooking up, but looking for attention and validation. I would think a majority of the time girl willing to hookup in the moment will not bring up boyfriend, nor is thinking about him.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 06:04 PM
12

I had a girl that would talk about "how many kids" she wanted, and how she wanted them to go to catholic school..etc. This when she had just turned 20. Forget the comments, it's your choice whether you want to continue with her and forget about all the other potential options you have. There may be major regret and pain from not experiencing anything else later on, though you committing long-term with her essentially means the breakup would ruin any chance of reconnecting down the road.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:19 PM
5

If you don't qualify what you like to her back, she's going to get so frustrated/angry and eventually begin to hate you. If you like when she compliments you, then reward her for this behavior.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:08 PM
2

If only society promoted strong masculine and independent men, the idea of oneitus and the evolutionary pain of breakups, would subdue into the abyss.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 10:46 PM
1

Good post! I cringe so hard when I see shit like that on social media. Like the: "love you so much babe, or you look so good"... on every one of the chick's pic. Can the guy look like any more of a faggot, like why would any chick want to be with someone like that?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 02:38 PM
1

How do you guys handle if the girl makes no offer to pay after the 2nd or 3rd time going out? I'll pick up the first/second tab. Just drop as a plate?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:20 PM
3

Don't take antidepressants Jesus -that stuff will turn you into a zombie who can neither think nor function.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:53 PM
4

hitler youth cut is good stuff. Get rid of the mustache, that shit just makes you look creepy nowadays.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 12:51 PM
1

When she responded to your text and you went over to her place to grab your shit, you should of kissed her before you left and her body language would of told you were you're at. Either she isn't interested anymore, or she's shit testing you so hard that she might be nuts anyway. If she was into you, she would of apologized for being out of the loop.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:57 AM
1

Sounds like the girl is insecure, and the tension this guy created with her is making it impossible for her to move on.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:45 AM
1

Relationships aren't meant to last forever. That's like saying 95% of people wasted their life because however many years they were together with their ex is all a waste.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:42 AM
1

You know what you need to do, there's no way around it- you aren't attracted to her anymore, so let go. You're scared of making her feel suicidal or whatever, but if the roles were turned, she'd throw you out without warning.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:36 AM
1

You have plenty of time. Best to plate women non-exclusively until they are at least 21-22 and are more mature before considering any kind of LTR.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:44 PM
2

Start it off as if it was a random occurrence you're talking to each other, then eventually ask her out and don't be anything like your previous beta self.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:06 PM
2

She's seeing someone else pretty much.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 03:55 PM
3

Bingo.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:12 PM
2

Only works if you're a 10, then you can say whatever you want.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:44 PM
0

I meant keep her around in your mind, not enter her frame and orbit her.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:55 PM
-2

Keep her around, eventually she will have problems with her boyfriend and leave him for you. Just a messed up world we live in, though I will say she was just being friendly. If she was really into you, she wouldn't call him her boyfriend, but someone she was seeing..etc.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:38 PM
1

Your perception of the world is much different than most people on here. The only way to have a happy and healthy relationship is having an open one.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 04:28 PM
2

Was explaining the red pill to a friend in a LTR, and ironically she dumped him with no warning on a date a month later..etc. Guy went insane, but I think he's starting to understand.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:47 PM
1

They're more manipulative and conniving than women. They play the covert game at another level and are simply there to cock block you from their hot friends. Just stay away they will do nothing good for your life.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:42 PM
12

Every time you're with a girl 1 on 1, and you haven't been 1 on 1 for for like 5 or more times in the past without escalating, assume you're on a date. Women understand this and would not be around you 1 on 1 if there wasn't some interest on their side. I look at missed opportunities in the past when I had no idea about anything, whereas that phrase would always go through my head.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 01:37 PM
5

She's not insecure and sees you as at least an 8 on the SMV scale...etc
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:54 PM
12

The "women as friends" post is something I've been waiting for someone to say on an unconscious level. Though I feel it is a must to have girls around you for "pre-selection" purposes. Just let them enter your frame all the time and keep them at an arms length.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 04:59 PM
3

Also works vice versa when you're not interested in a girl, and then they go nuts...etc. That part is not fun.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 04:34 PM
1

Ignore, don't give into bullshit..etc. If it is a recurring theme, then say something in a funny/cocky manner: "I hope you like getting punched in the face then."
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:05 PM
3

Think about it.....if they are below a 5, and factoring in that a women will only sleep with someone 1-2 places above herself on the SMV, then that leaves the guy with a 1-2 female SMV. On top of that, standard incelhas zero social or communication skills, thus he can't start or hold a conversation.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 12:31 AM
1

She's not going to hit you up again if you go no contact. Shit happens, no one on here can tell you what she is trying to do. Give her another chance and if she flakes again, then hard next...etc.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:00 PM
1

The idea is that he's not sleeping with anything after an ACL tear- extremely painful.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 05:19 PM
1

Ya, don't waste your time on Tinder/ Bumble- unless you're famous. You can find plenty of women staring you down in bars..etc.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 03:17 PM
20

Also sounds like he let her define the relationship, "I'll be out of here in 3 days." You: "Okay, cool." Wtf, more like pack up and leave now.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:59 PM
-2

There's plenty of girls that aren't going to "put out" for a while, so I think this is pretty standard.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:36 PM
2

How long did they know each other before they started spending all their time together?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:55 PM
2

How do guys here cope with the inevitable rage that sometimes consumes you on female behavior. While I can act stoic in public, I'm still a fucking human being.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 12:39 PM
1

True. Still tough looking back on all the missed opportunities during my "blue pill" days.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:23 PM
1

I honestly think you're cutting yourself short, the "unattractive points" you make are not terrible. I think the mentality you have needs to change though; make yourself a priority. Maybe you grew up in a dysfunctional household like most "beta" males where you're used to giving in to "keep the peace" or make everyone happy. And you've unconsciously applied this to your adult life. For right now, quit seeking approval from the women you talk to and just go cold. Start working out/joining a gym t…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:02 AM
2

5"10 and 152 is average BMI.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:54 PM
4

Exactly. OP, you're basically asking her to have no respect for you whatsoever and become her beta provider bitch. Don't be surprised when she starts fucking someone on the side because she knows she has her provider locked down.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:01 PM
1

Because they love the "never ending" drama and the emotional swings they get from being around him. They are so deeply invested in him, that he pops up in their head all the time.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:15 PM
-1

Women are incapable of having intellectual conversations because they are emotionally centered. It seems like you struggle to build sexual tension.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 04:47 PM
3

You can joke around with them if they are initiating. I think the lesson is to not keep entering their frame and come off as needy and desperate with zero options. However, I think the forum overplays it a bit. If a girl likes you, she will have positive emotions when you enter her frame to make plans/talk, though just don't over do it- let her enter your frame.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 04:32 PM
4

Agreed. OP has to have boundaries; if you allow those to be crossed and stepped on, then she will have no respect for you anyway and will continue her ways. He has no choice but to reward her for telling him and then moving on.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 06:11 PM
10

I agree with this statement. A man needs attractive female companions, I wouldn't call them friends because I would never open up to them nor do they do to me, but they are good to have around for pre-selection reasons when going out. And if your goal is to eventually fuck them, hitting on other women will only make them jealous.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:49 PM
1

Recommend reading "The Slight Edge." A lot of people posting comments similar to the framework taught in that book. It's never too late to change man; think about the people that wasted away in prison for something they never did. The power of belief is an amazing thing.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:32 PM
0

He's def talking about strong generalities, not everyone in a literal sense. Since women are more emotional and sexual in nature, you can communicate with them and condition them better from an emotional standpoint.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:19 PM
0

Good point, I need to rewire my brain to thing this way all the time.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:17 PM
0

If 1 on 1 with girl you haven't seen in a while, and she starts insulting table with group of guys next to you based on their looks, she nervous around you? They just looked like standard incel gamers having a good time eating and chatting. I was thinking do most women think like this, damn.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:11 PM
1

Stop caring about the outcome. And female friend hitting on you.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:21 PM
1

Just use dread until she starts entering your frame again, and then reward her with a compliment/kino. The more desperate/beta you look, the longer it will take for her to "change her mind" subconsciously and see you as a leader.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:14 PM
5

Pretty much. He has to condition her by rewarding her when she gives her time/attention to him. Vs. entering her frame and telling her "hey, all your guy friends are starting to make me feel uncomfortable" and automatically dropping himself down a bit on the "value scale." You can't change her opinion, she'll keep seeing those guys because it boosts her ego and self-esteem.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:18 PM
3

He's worried that dark triad Chad will come around and slither his way into her pants. Nothing you can do, just going to have to deal with it and continue to use dread game.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:06 PM
32

I see all the passive aggressive bullshit from women, and I just think: "I don't want to play these games."
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:44 PM
2

You have plenty of time. Don't sweat it, it's nothing unless you see yourself in a LTR with that girl.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:45 PM
2

Because they are psychotic and their whole life revolves around their emotional mental map. Start conditioning them through punishment, or make them qualify themselves...etc. Start showing them less attention.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:24 PM
6

Just wait and hit her up again. She already qualified you by telling you she is free during the day.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:49 PM
2

Just learn to love women that you never want to be with only "one" thus never putting anyone on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 04:29 PM
1

Sucks man. It's good you held frame and told her to get out.....etc. Still doesn't numb the pain.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:24 PM
1

Get a bunch of money and start showing if off inconspicuously, while being cocky/funny at the same time. Then have the balls to close and not care about any girl.... the end.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:09 PM
2

First off, please check out a book on grammar.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:07 PM
0

The fact that you notice this stuff and care about this behavior means you're way too invested.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:04 PM
2

Redpill is a mindset saying, "I have value and I know it."
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:27 PM
2

She was faking it; trying to act cool about it as if it didn't affect her, hoping you would start things up again. Having strong feelings toward you: anger and resentment simply mean you have a strong influence on her emotions.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:44 PM
8

She wanted an exclusive relationship with you like every girl that gives sex. You didn't commit, thus she took it as her being "less than" so she got mad since it hurt her feelings. This happens every time you bang a plate and go nowhere, eventually they will start to hate you. Unsure of how to remedy the situation so she doesn't go nuclear and try to ruin your reputation within your friend group, I guess it depends on the girl. Ya, going from banging a chick to "friends" never works.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:03 PM
1

Everything is in the actions and body language. I think about this a bit, as there is no right answer. If she facetimes you or you meet up in person, look for IOIs. Is she leaning toward you, giving you the prolonged eye contact(listening to everything you say), any kind of kino obv. Women in general have a short-term emotional memory span; they will forget about the beta cuck you were if you are showing value and attracting attention. In general, you developed an emotional bond with girl as a b…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 07:01 PM
1

Ya, had something similar when I was beta and stupid, never made a move on girl who I liked and she was into me too...etc. Desexualized myself and then eventually got rejected when I made a move. Stopped talking to her and improved myself in the meantime, now she enters my frame all the time. She wants to see if you'll orbit her again- just control frame and she might eventually get frustrated(building tension) and have feelings again for you.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:59 PM
5

It seems like you are way to preoccupied with women.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:16 PM
7

Just stop hitting her when fucking...etc. But, understand that this situation will be an issue in the future and brought up again.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 03:50 PM
9

Bring her to your place. First off, get a few drinks in her and start to tease her...etc. See how she responds: does she get close to you and look into your eyes? is she touching you, playing with her hair? Does she tease you back? If she sees you gaming other girls/ doing anything that has raised you smv, there is a good chance she is interested, especially if she agrees to come over. See how well she responds to kino, and go in for a kiss. If she violently moves her head away, then you got you…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 07:46 PM
15

He sounds like he's gaming 3-5s who have low-self esteem to begin with, while he may be an 8-9, thus the acceptance of his impulsive behavior.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 07:15 PM
1

Emotional maturity with this one is real low lol. Test her by saying: "oh, I'm not that interested anymore...etc." If she doesn't apologize and accept the strength of your frame, then prob not a LTR.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 03:42 AM
4

See that's the issue- you didn't follow through on those two nights in a row and came off as cold. Even though you were legit busy, it came off as a "cold rejection" to her. Just as a guy isn't going to message a girl 3-4 times in a row with no follow through...etc since it comes off as needy and desperate.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:01 AM
1

Should of been pretty obvious with all that baggage. Knowing they are just trying to fuck with your head, since they didn't care about you in the past, you should fuck her on the side and that's it. If she goes nuclear, which she will eventually, then just cut her off and move on.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 11:32 PM
5

True, keep the attractive ones around to generate desire and value, but never invest more into her than she gives you...etc.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 10:35 PM
7

Most young people openly right-wing.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:09 AM
1

I'm saying over text...etc. A girl is not going to meet up with you without some kind of conversation that insinuates normalcy. She overtly mentioned it by saying, "let's get to know each other first" aka I'm not going to meet a complete stranger without some kind of dialogue.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:31 AM
8

True, because she's already insinuating that she is extremely insecure and prob has mental issues.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:02 PM
1

Hard shit test, wondering if you're like all the other guys orbiting her(needy/ fucking loser..etc). If the date went well, sounds like it did with all the IOIs you mentioned, then don't listen to all of the bullshit.... message her to hang or do something in next few days. Most likely she has extreme anxiety and needs to bring all that up to make herself feel better.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:01 PM
1

You seem to care quite a lot.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 02:01 AM
0

Listen to this: Are you a female? Why are you trying to control her? You shouldn't care that she has other guys orbiting her lol. All this anxiety and lack of mental control. This is where having Dark Triad traits come in handy because all those thoughts never enter into consciousness. The red pill community cannot stress this enough: A girl will never complete you, fulfill you in anyway whatsoever- that must come from within. Years of conditioning make this idea unfathomable because it gets sho…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 12:39 AM
2

She doesn't know you, so you need to talk a little more with her to establish trust lol. That is literally the first step in seduction.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:14 AM
1

She is going to deny you because she knows her sexuality is the one thing she has control over you, thus she will use it against you to try and force you into the good beta-cuck provider she wants. On top of that, her anti-slut defense is strong. Had this happen with a girl this week, where both times she's in my bed, I can't even get a hand job or anything from her- just making out...etc. Then they get mad at you because of "sexual pressure." Was using slow kino escalation techniques, and still…
/r/askTRP19/01/19 05:06 AM
3

Gay dude prob doesn't like you because he is not getting enough attention etc from her, and that's all that gays care about. I think you're overreacting- multiple phone calls and facebook post(facebook post looks desperate even). She's def mad that she cannot control you, or your not in a relationship with her. Sounds like she's playing with you to get you to come back and commit. Don't get messed up in the bullshit.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:34 AM
1

It is true, most right leaning or right women will not have sex with you for a while or give you anything...etc.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:25 AM
1

It takes so much more patience and game to get with the attractive innocent girls, which are usually good for long-term etc. because their defenses are so high from conditioning. Isolating them becomes a task in itself, otherwise they wouldn't be single for the past 3-4 years. Unfortunately, they are usually so unbelievably passive aggressive that anything can set them off. Once had a chick get mad at me for taking a few minutes to type a text back.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:10 PM
14

Didn't work out with the other guy so she started messaging you. Since you started ignoring her every attempt and sounded mad(anti-seductive), she eventually hung up to protect her self-esteem. You can message/ call her and then escalate to something more. Attractive women have multiple options and calling her out didn't help your cause.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:12 AM
1

Take her out for ice cream or something simple and then go back to ur place. Put on a movie...etc and then escalate.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:14 PM
1

Just keep focusing on increasing your value in the SMP, a girl should always complement you.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 06:57 PM
3

never mention trp to women- I feel like that should just be a given.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 09:36 PM
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