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I'm at the point where I have realized that getting my dick sucked is overrated. I have been applying this TRP stuff, spinning plates until the point where I can't find the motivation in plating anymore. Leading myself into an identity crisis. Having the feeling I took massive action in the wrong direction. But I'm also not able to find a new direction. I lost meaning in life. It has lead me into a depression. As an example, Before I loved sports, going to gym, I had a good physique but now I ca…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/24 02:31 PM
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I haven't been on TRP for a while now. The reason why I did open reddit again, was because I'm wonering how many people that are following a TRP-life are actually happy. How many of us are seeing a therepist because they are feeling empty, anxious, stressed, not in balance with themselves? Then I came across your post, I can relate with your story. Traveled the world, worked on my social skills, got in shape, picked up over 50 girls, then I stared losing interest. And now I'm in the same positio…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 11:09 AM
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What do you mean? What's the only thing left to do?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 08:17 PM
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Can I ask how old are you and in which phase are you now? I had the same beliefs as you have written down. But now I'm 37, checked off my bucket list, lived the life I wanted, invested money (I'm able to coast-FIRE, still thinking if I want to reach full FIRE) but once you are there: no need to wake up to earn some money or to be responsable for a close relative. Is making me wonder what am I doing here? What is purpose of life?I think I'm missing belonging. Alone is just alone.So at this moment…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 10:08 AM
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I can relate with your post. And I feel similar. What I have been wondering about is if self fulfilling prophecy is playing a role here. Because we have taken the red pill we behave in a certain way, and in a way we expect that we can not rely on them. That they will be unfaithful. But maybe because of this, it might enforce or encourage them in a way to act this way. Just thinking out loud. In the end everyone is your mirror, you behave in a certain way around certain people. That's also how pe…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 10:00 AM
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Is getting laid the definition of having a good life? I have had my single life for quite some years and yeah I have had more sex then when I was in a LTR. But the sex isn't fulfilling at all anymore. In the beginning it was about excitement, now it makes relationships more complicated once you have had sex, imo
/r/TheRedPill16/07/23 02:50 PM
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I like your post, your introduction 100% resonates with me. I also had this period where I thought I didn't need anyone. Left everything behind, going monk mode, building on myself. But as you say, it's true that we do need true connections. After building myself (lifting, learning social skills, getting financially on track,...) for me it isn't a problem to connect with people, and for me, joining a club does work to meet people, as good or even better then meeting people in a chill bar. Also h…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 01:38 PM
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It that the end goal? Does it make you happy? I can pull girls but it doesn't fulfill me. It feels empty. I need an other goal in life then earning money and becoming high status. I'm searching for a why, and before it were girls, but now I have them. I feel they don't add to my happiness. Looking for new motivation in my life
/r/TheRedPill02/04/23 04:27 PM
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Doesn't the casual sex give you an empty feeling? After living this suggested digital nomad lifestyle for more then a year, I got tired of it.
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:24 AM
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Yeah, it for sure makes you think about it. But at TRP we all know the downsides of an LTR, and at the moment I also don't feel like a girl can add anything to my life Therefore I'm curious, what end game, after being trough the red pill journey, is the most taken In the end TRP is the sexual strategy for man. But what is the use of having this strategy if you don't want to make kids or start a family,. Which is also part of this strategy in current society So we are have a sexual strategy, that…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:52 PM
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When I read the comments, it looks like you are not alone. And that I am not alone, either. Although I see two groups, one who thinks you are self-sabotaging, an other group who sincerely believes that you could spend your time better than with chasing and dating girls. I'm in the 2nd group, After having had sex with multiple women, plating them. The sex starts to get meaningless, and boring for me. The girls, the sex, they start to fall off their pedestal. And dating just to add an other girl t…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:31 PM
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Imo OP is overreacting, Girls like intagram followers, no big deal. Shure she will do it again, all girls will, so what? You will get a hard time finding the unicorn that will not want to share IG with anyone. For me OP failed a shittest that actually wasn't a shittest. She just was telling what happened to her that day. Read this, I got it form this sub somewhere, not sure where: Respect is to be earned / We're asking that if a woman meets another man who's better than you – be it better lookin…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 09:54 PM
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Smile on your pictures, you look depressed on the 2nd one and get rid of the bio, is does not add anything
/r/askTRP29/05/21 06:26 PM
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I relate with you. 35 now, swallowed the pill 4 years ago. I'm also traveled the world, checked off my bucket list, best experience ever. It made me grow, made me more confident, and loving my live. Looked for and found a job where I can keep traveling. Now I install projects worldwide. I love it, feels like I escaped the rat race as every project is different, brings me to new places, new people, new experiences. But what OP mentioned in his post also fills my mind from time to time. With the F…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 08:19 PM
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I'm also looking for a guide or something like that, to get started (and to become a master) at dirty talk.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 02:13 AM
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Nice post, thanks for that. One question, how did you sexualise with girls. I'm struggling with that, any tips or books I could read about this topic?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 06:38 PM
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Spartacus Best series ever!
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:15 PM
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The Slight edge
/r/seduction17/10/20 01:00 PM
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Move out, best thing I ever did! It's investing in yourself
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:57 PM
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Move out as soon as possible
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:41 PM
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Thanks a lot!!!
/r/seduction05/01/20 06:02 AM
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Where do you live? Search on Google maps for a calisthenics park. Maybe there is a community active. Join them. Or just go and train there alone, it's a great place to meet new people. I also use the free app Thenics, to guide some of my trainings. And have a look on YouTube
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:48 PM
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Acroyoga, Calisthenics, standing acro, reading, traveling, salsa
/r/askTRP09/12/19 08:15 PM
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I also had this phase a while ago and it is true, everybody will cheat in the 'right' circumstances (typical in a relationship with a beta nice guy and being presented a alpha to spice up her life) . And you can't even blame them. That's what humans do, they follow their feelings. It is your job to be the stromg alpha male who she wants to be with for the rest of her life. Who she respects, would trust her life to. If you are that man, she will not even think about cheating.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 06:21 PM
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There are some green flags. But with the trp theory I end up getting them way to attracted and emotionally connected, that I start to feel guilty. I start to feel guilty, not having my emotions on their level. So I believe they should find someone else who is ready to commit and give them what they want (eg family) Wondering, how to cope with those feelings, when you have found a submissive green flag. They would literally do anything to keep me in their life and to convince me to commit to them…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 12:32 PM
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Interesting, 8 years I worked as a design engineer for a big international company. I hated my desk job. 2 years ago I decided to quit and travel. Did that for 1 year and after that I worked one year as a sports and fitness instructor in a 5 star hotel. Never regretted quitting my job as an engineer, I had more time to work on myself and to improve. Never been happier and really enjoyed those last 2 years. Made lots of personal progress, also with girls. I definitely agree with OP. Now I'm looki…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 06:24 PM
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Makes sense, speaking more than one language is always an asset. But can you comment on how it would change your life? Or what you would do? There are many interpreters who speak about 7 languages and aren't living an exceptional life.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:17 PM
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'Hi trouble' Works wonders, is confident and playful
/r/askTRP15/05/19 08:01 PM
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I'm curious which action OP will take
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:45 AM
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In the first dates I never speak about what 'we' are. Be mysterious about it. If she asks later I usually answer with: we will marry this summer, have 2 kids, get a divorce 6 years from now and live happily ever after. Out of the book of pook: Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled by a faithful loser. A lot of guys (and almost every woman) have a big problem with the truth of this because they take it too literally. POOK wasn’t suggesting that you overtly declare that you’ll …
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:17 AM
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Trust your gut feeling. If you think she might be cheating on you, she probably is. And if your gut feeling is saying she is cheating on you, in that case you can not trust your rationalisations who try to tell you she isn't. That is natural for you to do because you probably don't want to believe it. Also if you ask her, don't trust her words but her actions. Everyone will cheat in the right circumstances.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 08:14 AM
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Go to old.reddit.com instead of reddit.com. This should work. Reddit has made an update to the layout, there still are some bugs to fix.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:13 AM
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Link?
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:18 PM
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What kind of work did you do in the hotels?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:24 PM
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Hehe, indeed, philosophising about life is a good thing to do, once in a while. Although I prefer to sleep at 3am. ;-) (12h50 here atm) And what would you do after becoming that 'professional', having your connections, hating your office job with 100k on the bank. Quit your job and do whatever you want to do? Or first make a 200k? When will you have enough? At what age should you start doing what you like to do? In my opinion it makes sense to invest in a job that drives you and gives you energy…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:54 AM
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Thanks for the reply, but I'm not resonating with that. Doing what you dislike during the most physically capable years of your life is a nonstarter—nothing can justify that sacrifice. And what to do with your money if your are working your ass off. Buy shit you do not need to make your life a bit more satisfying? These days people are sacrificing their health for money, so that they later can use that money to fix their health.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:19 AM
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