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| 439 | Companies hire women over men in 2024 | General | InstructionNo8404 | /r/MensRights | 10/07/24 07:11 PM |
| 208 | Most men need a mentor, not a therapist | General | InstructionNo8404 | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 02:11 PM |
| 12 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color. | Removed: Assumptions Based on Physical Appearance/Limitations | InstructionNo8404 | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | What does "I'll hit you up" really mean? | Removed: Specific Situation | InstructionNo8404 | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 02:38 PM |
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| 2 | What to do if hating feminists is too much of toll on me?Not surprised, like I said the internet is full of these people. The majority of feminists just believe in equal opportunity of the genders. It’s these online ones who believe in ridiculous things | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 06:10 PM |
| 2 | What to do if hating feminists is too much of toll on me?I don’t think they all hate men. I think you’re only seeing the most extreme versions. Don’t let social media twist your world view. Social media will show you the most hateful and extreme variation of every group. Don’t be chronically online and don’t let these misandrist who are also chronically only skew your perspective on what most feminist really are. Garuntee you if you go out there and talk to normal everyday women, they would identify as feminists, and if you pick their brain you’ll rea… | /r/MensRights | 23/07/25 01:52 AM |
| 1 | why is men’s mental health still treated as secondary?I think that the awareness is getting a lot better. I just think that the methods that are being promoted are not attractive to men. Like talk therapy for example, most men don’t get much from it. I think there needs to be more like men’s groups out there. That would be really good. I can tell you from experience and experience from a bunch of my friends who are are all open about this stuff that the way myself and they deal with this stuff is through joining groups like jujitsu, local book club… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/25 04:40 AM |
| 1 | What was your "red pill" moment?When I really started dating. Prior to when I was putting my self out there, and I was in university studying as an English major, and had an older sister who’s a gender studies prof, I was always aligned with women, pro-women, even called myself a male feminist at some point. When I was 22-23 I started really putting myself out there and dating, and that’s when I really got “redpilled” as you call it. I was never deep into it and never a hater of women and never really had bad experiences with … | /r/MensRights | 06/05/25 02:56 PM |
| 38 | What’s it really like being a man in today’s workplace?I think is really hard to get a job in white caller work as a man these days. I work in corporate sales and it’s pretty much all women, and getting this job was such a damn grind it’s not even funny. I sell medical devices and before this I was in b2b automotive sales and I was top 10 in sales in Ontario (where I’m from), and I remember this spot opened up for a senior account executive and my coworker who was ranked 67 in sales in Ontario (still amazing) got reached out my HR to apply for this … | /r/MensRights | 03/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 8 | Why do people through the word "incel" around so much these days?It’s the male version of the word slut for women. Slut is a mean word for women because it means a woman who gives it up too easily. Since women are valued for not giving it up easily and being picky, they’re shamed for giving it up easily and called slut. For men on the other hand, they’re respected for being able to get sex from women because it’s difficult to and shamed for being incapable of getting sex from women, because the inability to get laid symbolized male incompetency. So the word i… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Most men need a mentor, not a therapistYe man it’s really crazy how simply increasing cashflow will help your mental health. I remember all of 2022 I was working minimum wage, taking home 1.5-2k per month and my mental health was horrible. I was always in shape and had great friends. I was working at a supplement store selling protein powder and I was getting laid way more than I am now, but I could not sustain a romantic relationship because I didn’t have my life together, and I couldn’t afford to go on trips with my friends. But th… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Most men need a mentor, not a therapistI think a better job, the gym, and good friend is better than therapy for men. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Most men need a mentor, not a therapistI’ll check that out actually. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Most men need a mentor, not a therapistExactly. If you’re not living the life you want and you go to therapy, and they start asking you about your feelings, wtf is that gonna do? They need to ask you to describe the life you want to live, then ask you what have you been doing to achieve it. Then they should help you brain storm ideas on what you can do differently. Then if the steps they give work and you start living that life you want, by proxy, the shitty feelings you used to have from being a failure will go away. Now you might s… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Most men need a mentor, not a therapistThis ties into a topic that should be another post, but we essentially need more male spaces that are literally just for men. Now alot of men get this via sports teams and stuff, but we need to have like spaces that are geared for these issues where we can mentor young guys where they can find mentors who are masters at the work that you want to do. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Most men need a mentor, not a therapistBingo! This is what I mean! And to add to your point, I love how you emphasized working. Because something about therapy that I believe showcases how female centric it is, is that fact that it’s built purely on communication. As men, we actually don’t get better by just talking, we need to exert our emotions into tangible work and be creative or transmute our emotions into tasks. Think of when men socialize, we’re always doing activities, like sports, pool, card, even video games with younger gu… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Companies hire women over men in 2024Interesting take. I mean aside from the fact that companies have quotas and have to hire a certain amount of minorities, I partly agree with you and I also think that in 2024 in the western world, the perception of a men who meets the characteristics you just mentioned, are kinda seen as bullshitters. Like if you’re a man who is well spoken, good looking, in shape, know what you’re talking about and come into a job interview, their first instinct is to assume you’re kind of full of crap. They al… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/24 02:34 PM |
| 4 | How often men should ejaculate to lower their risk of CANCER, according to major review.This is a myth. They want men to jerk off and especially jerk off to porn, because it screws up dopamine receptors, makes men more lazy, complacent, less ambitious, less competitive and most importantly easier to control hence less likes to start a revolution. If you’re dopamine receptors are healthy and you knew the only way you can bust a nut is there sex, you’re going to level up your life, get richer, stronger, smart etc, and overall these characteristics are a threat to the system because m… | /r/MensRights | 13/08/24 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Why has there quietly been a War On Men last couple of decades?Life has always a small group of men controlling everything. Not because of patriarchy but because meritocracy. But in order for those men to stay in power the people they have to have power over are the other men. So by controlling mens natural tendencies by making men afraid to act like men, they also change how men think | /r/MensRights | 10/08/24 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Feminist sub right now: Enforcing gender roles on men is misogyny!So does that mean if a man protects his wife or girlfriend he’s a misogynist? Which is worse: a robber enters the house and in order to avoid being labeled misogynistic, you decide to NOT adhere to gender roles and hide away and let the robber attack her, OR should I risk the label and protect her? | /r/MensRights | 30/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 3 | So let me get this straight, men are obligated to put themselves at risk for random people?This is the problem with the western world currently. The entire “men ain’t shit” movement, what it does is lead to a generation of men who don’t have something they actually wanna do defend. The reason men in other countries and men in history had so much honour and would literally die for their countries is because they were respected by their community and by the women in their communities. It’s crazy because the girl boss culture and the culture of women being allowed to openly ridicule men … | /r/MensRights | 18/07/24 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me or do many feminists seem to literally have Narcissistic Personality Disorder?I’d say like the newest update / dlc of the feminist does. So the gen z, septum ring astrology feminist is hella narcissistic. But the OG ones aren’t. Those ones are pretty fair ngl | /r/MensRights | 16/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Companies hire women over men in 2024Yee man I heard about this. My previous job the CEO was from Ukraine and he had a lot of guys from their working and used to always talk about this. On top of that, I’m from Canada and live close to Toronto. The amount of Ukrainian girls who came here and are literally just partying is crazy. I’ve met a lot of them in Cabana and clubs in Toronto and heard stories of how they’re just at Drake parties and being taken care of by rich western guys | /r/MensRights | 11/07/24 01:52 PM |
| 4 | Companies hire women over men in 2024I agree it does matter. But the reality is that women tend to be better at booking meetings, frankly because I’m b2b the leads are always rich middle aged men and they just wanna see the chick. But men are better at actually closing. The best situation is you have a hot chick as your appointment setter, then you show up to the meeting with her and do all the talking lol. Sounds like I’m kidding but that’s actually what happens in a lot of industries. A girl I’m talking to right now works as an a… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/24 01:11 PM |
| 6 | Companies hire women over men in 2024Yee man it sucks. The worst is the girls I go in dates with that are complete idiots and work for an amazing company and hate it. I’ve hooked up with a bunch of girls who work in tech sales or work at companies like Deloitte as sales reps. And when I tell you they’re straight up airheads and some of them tell me it’s their first job ever. One girl who works as an account manager for a design company that has Sony as a client literally told me she’s been wanting to get laid off for month but it’s… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/24 03:41 AM |
| 11 | Companies hire women over men in 2024It’s crazy tho man, because honestly sales is such a masculine career. Literally as a man, you’re selling yourself through communication you’re entire life way more than girls just to get into place. To pull girls, we gotta sell. We grow up bantering with our boy which is literally teaching you how to handle objections. We’re more competitive. I’ve trained female coworkers of mine on how to sell and make ones, and in all honesty, guys just pick it up way faster and easier. Because we’re used to … | /r/MensRights | 11/07/24 03:36 AM |
| 8 | Companies hire women over men in 2024I hate to be that guy, but I’m a decently big black guy. I’m a bodybuilder, I’m decently tall, have a thick beard, have a deep voice. I’m also very good at communicating, pretty charismatic and outgoing. It’s always these white girls from HR interviewing me who know nothing about sales. And they all look like the prototype feminist classmates I had back in uni who never Shutup about the “patriarchy.” I sometimes think they have this misconception that because I fit the archetype of the joc just … | /r/MensRights | 11/07/24 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Companies hire women over men in 2024Yes I’m interested. Is it cool if I message you? | /r/MensRights | 11/07/24 03:24 AM |
| 27 | Companies hire women over men in 2024I’ll tell you something crazy I just found out ironically AFTER I already made this post. I got an email from an insurance company I applied to for commercial lines account manager role. The email was a rejection letter. When I looked them up on linked in, a girl who got hired for the same role this month, her previous job was cashier at Walmart and before that cashier at giant tiger. Which in Canada is basically a glorified dollar store. Meanwhile I have years of experience in b2b corporate sal… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/24 08:07 PM |
| 40 | Companies hire women over men in 2024That’s just so stupid man. I absolutely cannot stand big corporations and Human Resources. I’m gonna start applying to startups | /r/MensRights | 10/07/24 08:03 PM |
| 67 | Companies hire women over men in 2024Yee I can see that. But I actually think there’s a misconception that’s the popular one which is this myth that men have an easier life, that inspires this culture of hiring women just cus they’re women instead of men. I think the reality is that women in general tend to only notice the men who are in positions of power while majority of men, who are actually a quiet majority, are literally invisible. And this makes the women believe men have it easier because the lower status guys aren’t even n… | /r/MensRights | 10/07/24 07:52 PM |
| 13 | Companies hire women over men in 2024I’m passionate about sales | /r/MensRights | 10/07/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?I've learned to honestly never ask a girl that I'm dating her body count. It doesn't matter too much if she's had alot of sex, it's more so her character. I've talked to girls before that probably had crazy high body count, but what turned me off wasn't that they had alot of sex, but that all they cared about was their sexuality. All these girls ever did was bounce from guy to guy, post sexy pics on social media. They had no hobbies, don't read books, don't have srs goals. I couldn't have a srs … | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | New to the sub not sure if this is the right flair but how do I approach a girl when she is with a group of friends? Like what do I say?You ask them for directions to somewhere at school, then. Simple. Then introduce yourself. Rest is smooth sailing | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | New to the sub not sure if this is the right flair but how do I approach a girl when she is with a group of friends? Like what do I say?Idk tbh. Depends on the situation. It's up to you to be clever enough to say something in that moment. I can't tell you exactly what to say cus it night not work. Approaching girls the right way all has to do with that particular situation. For example, I was at a pita pit one time and the girl who was infront of me was really hot and I wanted to make a move. I saw what she ordered, and I simply asked her "so, is that something you'd recommend to a first timer." And the convo started and it turn… | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | New to the sub not sure if this is the right flair but how do I approach a girl when she is with a group of friends? Like what do I say?Just conversate with the group as a whole. Don't pinpoint her as this can make her feel like she's being out on the spot. Don't even approach with the obvious intention. Just get to know all of them. If she sees her friends think you're cool, you'll come off as more desirable to her. She'll feel more comfortable. Then when the time is right, try to talk to just her. But don't junk straight into asking her out. Tell all of them what your name is and ask them there's. The difference between you ac… | /r/seduction | 25/03/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining 12% body fat is easy when you quit sugarBro if you really wanna maintain a lean physique, I highly recommend intermittent fasting. Back in summer 2019, when I first ever got to 10%, I really didn't wanna be too focused because it was summer. Leading up to summer, however, I was really on point with everything. But I could not see myself enjoying summer if I was meal planning and all that. So all I did that summer was intermittent fasting and eye balled everything. And maintaining that body composition was effortless. I would blunt my … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/21 06:23 AM |
| 2 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.My mindset is to use everything. Dating apps and cold approach. As a guy, you have to make sure you are constantly reminded that there is an overabundance of women out there so that we don't get too invested and get sidetracked. By remaining on dating apps, you know this. And by getting good at cold approach, you know you keep your skill sharp. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 2 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.Dude day game is a hack lol. If you approach girls in the day. Think gyms, cafe's, costco etc. And you are charming and look decent. It's like a unicorn for these girls. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.Ye I have like 3 shirtless pics. But I'm gonna replace them with shirtless pics that are shot at the beach. The bathroom/changroom selfie can be tackey lol | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.I'd say my pictures aren't that bad. They're just not shot in great environments. Like in the pics I have a haircut, and I'm groomed, but other than one of them they're all shot in my house. I can see that making me seem boring lol. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.I'm gonna get good pics done as soon as barbershops open up again. I'm looking homeless rn loool. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.That's good advice. Thanks | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 12:16 PM |
| 4 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.Stop speaking/thinking in absolutes. You're clearly extremely dumb, uneducated, and don't know many black men. I can tell you're the type that really believes in stereotypes that are portrayed by popular culture and media that stem from culture rooted in white supremacy. This is the same as people that assume all white guys are douchy frat boys. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.I'm open to it. At the moment, I'm just locked in because of covid and doing grad school from my laptop. Just reactivated tinder because I'm bored. Been reactivated for a few hours. I'll see how I do on it for a month. When lockdown clears up more and girls are down to actually link, I'm gonna go ham on the apps. Just pure high quality pictures and pics that show off my body. Because I know I won't be going out for a while cus I'll be burried in school and work. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 10:49 AM |
| 3 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.I agree with you that we're more accepting of thicker. But the thickness I'm talking about is just ridiculous lol. I'm talking Lizzo status size bro. I'm not gonna lie it kinda annoys me because I work out so much and I know for a fact that they won't even try to get the white guys with the same physiques as me, but for some reason, they think I'll settle for them lol. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 10:27 AM |
| 3 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.dude my photos could be better ngl. I just don't take my pics in general lol. Once this covid stuff is done tho I'm really gonna invest in some good photos. My cousin's a photographer, so I'm get him to take high quality pics of me. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 09:48 AM |
| 3 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.I'm from Canada and I'm a moved here from an African country when I was 6. I could tell you for a fact in the area I live, the GTA (greater Toronto area), we literally describe people this way. Like for example, my friend will tell me "I been piping this dark skinned." I feel as though that inferiority is more common amongst African Americans. Not first generation african immigrants as much. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 09:17 AM |
| 7 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.I love myself. I like dark skinned girls, light skinned girls, white, asian, indian, native, middle easter you name it. If she was any of these races I would mention it the same way lol. Dude my favorite porn star is evanni solei, nyomi banks, Cherokee d'ass. Google those chicks. They're literally the same skin tone as me lol. I just wanted to mention that they my ex was biracial to emphasize the fact that in person, I am able to attract girls that don't seem to pay me any attention on tinder lo… | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 08:30 AM |
| 6 | Women don't fuck things they percieve as 'cute'To say "pretty boys don't get laid" is just not true. And women do fuck guys they perceive as cute. A girl can find you cute, and a pretty boy and fuckable and sexy at the same time. And you don't need to be an asshole to get laid. Guys that are assholes don't get laid because they're rude and obnoxious. These guys just also tend to be more straight up in general, and hence more straight up to girls. If you're an asshole, it's because you just say the wrong shit because you aren't as worried abo… | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 08:26 AM |
| 5 | My tinder experience as a black guy. Tell me your online dating experience as a minority or person of color.I feel like a big part of attraction for women is comfort. Women in the west are conditioned to view white males as more comfortable if that makes sense. So from a purely visual standpoint, I can see that being the reason white dudes will get more matches. In-person though, I think just your vibe can transcend preconceived notions brought on by your looks. This is why for minority dudes such as ourselves, we could have an more of an advantage with in person game over online. Currently, I'm just … | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 07:49 AM |
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