InstructionsUncl34r Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Hit it off with a girl at a rave last week	Conversation	InstructionsUncl34r	/r/seduction	25/01/25 10:00 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	5-7 Matches a day but no dates... There are so many people purely using the apps for validation, you’re kinda doing the right thing moving quickly cos you filter them out, serious people want to meet after a little bit of a vibe of a chat	/r/seduction	21/01/26 01:55 PM
1	Got love bombed by a women who suddenly pulled away Bro I hope things work out for you truly cos they can be inherently very selfish, mine said she tried to not be too FA because if anything went wrong they’d wanna stay friends (which is FA in and of itself) so after I made the decision to step back for good her effort levels to maintain the friendship have disappeared now I’m no use to her, meaning if she meant what she said, she only meant if she was the one to walk away. makes you question it all tbh 😂	/r/seduction	14/01/26 06:38 PM
19	Got love bombed by a women who suddenly pulled away She sounds like a classic fearful avoidant and it’s sad because they really don’t mean to or even realise they’re doing but they are better off avoided until they can get therapy. It almost seems like a canon event to deal with an unhealed FA at this point. At least you can spot the signs early now and you’ve got out at a good stage, I let mine play push pull for the better part of a year 😂	/r/seduction	13/01/26 07:53 PM
4	Why flirting is so easy in chats?? Brah this is the opposite of me and most people I know. With talking in person I’ll just say things in the heat of the moment, on text I have more time to think and get in my own head	/r/seduction	22/03/25 10:55 PM
3	How to seduce recently broken up girl I am sexually attracted to Haha no worries bro, just little suggestive comments, if she says something that could sound sexual, give a cheeky smile, and just gauge her reactions	/r/seduction	29/01/25 02:59 PM
3	How to seduce recently broken up girl I am sexually attracted to I guess a cheeky flirt and sly references can’t hurt and go from there but be wary because if you’re friends already she could see you differently afterwards and you risk her latching on & emotionally rebounding	/r/seduction	28/01/25 11:35 PM
3	Hit it off with a girl at a rave last week Cool so just text if there’s actually something to talk/ask about and other than that nothing? (Saying this because she deals and was gonna get her to bring a lil something for me lmao) I’m in group chats with her anyway so not like there’s no interaction at all	/r/seduction	25/01/25 10:09 PM
6	Should I accept girls as friends? Having women friends is a cheat code when it comes to going on a 2 man tbh	/r/seduction	27/12/24 12:42 PM
1	Anyone here quit smoking weed to improve their dating life? I tend to just not use it before social events because I won’t speak to anyone lmao. Other than that I mean it’s been a good bonding point with some girls, as long as you’re a functioning stoner I wouldn’t say it’s an issue	/r/seduction	04/12/24 12:46 PM