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| 1 | It all started 2 years agoNice. So these people. You give them random names or have you already started talking to them? | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 05:24 PM |
| 2 | So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice?No worries man. Let me know how it goes. Doing stuff like #2 at bars or coffee shops has done wonders. I occasionally get hooked up on a free drink or some kind of discount. Of course that isn't my intention. It's just one of those things people appreciate, because they are used to typical mundane interactions. | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 04:54 PM |
| 2 | It all started 2 years agoHaha solid man. I'm going to try that sometime. Have you ever experienced any reserved people that gave you a negative response? If so what happened and how did you react? | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 04:45 PM |
| 3 | So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice?Nothing wrong with feeling nervous. Use that to your advantage. You already know you might feel nervous. Think about what factors create this feeling. I'll try to give you an example. I used to be very nervous about giving presentations (it still mildly exist). I figured the best way to handle this feeling was to do the following: sit in the environment where I will be giving the presentation well before it starts. When it's empty. I observe the room. I acknowledge the feeling of being up there.… | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 04:28 PM |
| 2 | So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice?Don't sweat it. It takes time to develop the ability to feel comfortable. Especially talking to attractive women. I was once one of the shyest guys you would have known. It took valiant effort and practice to get to where I am. Honestly, the process and transformation is a big part of the enjoyment. If I could experience it all over again, I would. Just enjoy yourself and go in with the mindset that you are going to have fun regardless if it leads to interaction with women. | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 03:53 PM |
| 3 | So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice?This is not ground breaking advice, but this is what I do when I decide to make a solo trip to the bar. First I understand what you are saying. Initially I would do exactly as you described: sit at the bar, pretend to watch the game, pull out my phone, look around, etc. It took a few solo trips to get comfortable in that environment and eventually I decided it was time to just start talking. By that I mean talk to anyone. This is what I did a few days ago and I find this works for me. Setting: a… | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 11:55 AM |
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