Intellectuallinguist Archive

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2	Approaching a female in a large group of people Talk to everyone man. To the best of your ability, make yourself appear like the fine interesting gentlemen that you are. Eventually you will see that opportunity to talk to the girl. I personally wouldn't go straight for her. Once people see that you are a cool and confident dude, you will be welcome to speak to whomever you want.	/r/seduction	31/12/14 04:46 AM
2	So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice? It can happen. I would recommend the bar before it gets busy. I wouldn't bother them too much when they have their hands tied making drinks running back and forth. I've been told by several bartenders this is a major pet peeve. You can still open with something witty, but you probably won't get the same response if they had more free time to talk to you.	/r/seduction	30/12/14 09:19 PM
1	It all started 2 years ago Nice. So these people. You give them random names or have you already started talking to them?	/r/seduction	30/12/14 05:24 PM
2	So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice? No worries man. Let me know how it goes. Doing stuff like #2 at bars or coffee shops has done wonders. I occasionally get hooked up on a free drink or some kind of discount. Of course that isn't my intention. It's just one of those things people appreciate, because they are used to typical mundane interactions.	/r/seduction	30/12/14 04:54 PM
2	It all started 2 years ago Haha solid man. I'm going to try that sometime. Have you ever experienced any reserved people that gave you a negative response? If so what happened and how did you react?	/r/seduction	30/12/14 04:45 PM
3	So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice? Nothing wrong with feeling nervous. Use that to your advantage. You already know you might feel nervous. Think about what factors create this feeling. I'll try to give you an example. I used to be very nervous about giving presentations (it still mildly exist). I figured the best way to handle this feeling was to do the following: sit in the environment where I will be giving the presentation well before it starts. When it's empty. I observe the room. I acknowledge the feeling of being up there.…	/r/seduction	30/12/14 04:28 PM
2	So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice? Don't sweat it. It takes time to develop the ability to feel comfortable. Especially talking to attractive women. I was once one of the shyest guys you would have known. It took valiant effort and practice to get to where I am. Honestly, the process and transformation is a big part of the enjoyment. If I could experience it all over again, I would. Just enjoy yourself and go in with the mindset that you are going to have fun regardless if it leads to interaction with women.	/r/seduction	30/12/14 03:53 PM
3	So I want to go out to the bar for new years.. by myself.. tips and advice? This is not ground breaking advice, but this is what I do when I decide to make a solo trip to the bar. First I understand what you are saying. Initially I would do exactly as you described: sit at the bar, pretend to watch the game, pull out my phone, look around, etc. It took a few solo trips to get comfortable in that environment and eventually I decided it was time to just start talking. By that I mean talk to anyone. This is what I did a few days ago and I find this works for me. Setting: a…	/r/seduction	30/12/14 11:55 AM
1	How did you guys start your transformation? For me it started nearly a year ago. I was in a long term relationship that I felt was going nowhere. Because I was out of the "game" for nearly 6 years, I became less proactive about being social and approaching strangers. I though I was going to settle down and never need the skills to begin attracting women again. However, like I previously stated, I had a moment where I knew I wasn't going to go down the path of settling with this one girl. I began improving my social skills and personality.…	/r/seduction	26/11/14 10:11 PM
1	Weird weekend, anyone ever got the same situation? That is pretty attractive. It reminds, I am very much into assertive women.	/r/seduction	11/11/14 06:09 AM
1	Hold Me Accountable Thank you sir!	/r/seduction	11/11/14 03:53 AM