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“Real man/not a real man“ sounds like the no true Scotsman fallacy. To be a real man, all you have to do is have the biological makeup of a man (XY chromosomes, testosterone, etc). I get it can be confusing in intersex and trans terms, but this is how to be a real man 101!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/26 05:17 PM
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Politically and socially, I’m not sure if there’s much we can do (I’m from the US though; we have our own issues). What I planned to do all June but chickened out on was sending all the guys in my life a little text or email that was uplifting and validating toward their needs. Giving individual support is the most I can do, and I feel it’s more impactful since it’s also more personal to each individual guy who receives the text/email.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 12:31 AM
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I’m hopeful, though I really do hope it stays as androcentric as it deserves to be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/26 12:27 AM
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Well, we have this sub, for starters! Good start, we now need this kind of thing in real life where guys and their female allies can meet in person. Even then in real life, I still support at least a few male-only groups since I’ve heard abused/assaulted men may get triggered around women since they had a female perpetrator. And some guys just aren't as open with women since they know how that will end.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/26 12:34 PM
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Being an MRA isn’t male-exclusive; it’s just androcentric — pertaining to the issues men and boys face — as they should be! It’s a bit of androcentricism among a whole heck of gynocentricism, which is progress, I’d admit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/26 12:31 PM
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Good point. I still think we should still have a few male-only spaces, though, as long as female-only spaces are also tolerated. If we do allow women and girls in, men and boys should at least have their needs met to make the best out of the experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 06:17 PM
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Interesting to know the racial differences alongside the gendered ones! I can kind of understand why these struggles occur with each racial difference, even though I’m an Asian female. With ICE going around these days, of course Latino/Hispanic male survivors are less likely to disclose in fear of being deported. For black male survivors, it’s the aspect of involving law enforcement. Black men are highly likely to be discriminated against as more “dangerous“ and are arrested more often than whit…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 03:00 PM
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I’m not sure if it’s one of the main ones... I think it’s more about “including women“ than anything. I believe it’s more gynocentricism than misandry here. Neither are significantly worse than the other, per se, as they sort of intertwine in these cases, though it’s like the DEI of groups/clubs favouring women, that kind of a thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 02:51 PM
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I’d assume that males are just more likely to be involved in a crash, and that’s why data’s so skewed. I learned that yesterday, in driver’s ed. I will try to scour for data, though!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 02:16 PM
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Never did I say male dehumanisation doesn’t exist. I’ve heard of it, and even witnessed it a lot! However, that is only one tiny factor in a multitude of reasons for people denying male-only spaces but praising female-only spaces.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 02:12 PM
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“Misandry doesn’t kill!“ Last time I checked, the global male death rate in itself is higher. Why? Forced conscription, lack of mental health help that leads to suicides, workplace deaths, etc. I recently learned than men are about twice as likely as women to face physical trauma in a car crash (surprising, since I thought the female physique would make women more vulnerable). After I bring that up, it’s just silence and crickets chirping.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 01:00 PM
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Ah, this is why we have “Violence Against Women (and Girls) Acts/Bills. Nice study, man. It’s not a surprise to anyone, though seeing the numbers just gives me a peace of mind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 12:54 PM
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That’s probably only one tiny factor. I assume it’s so “women and girls are included.“ That’s a whole hunk of jack crap, since it’s just as easy to do joint sessions or open a whole new co-ed scouts instead of having girls infiltrate the boy scouts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 12:50 PM
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What I’d propose is more male-exclusive spaces, but apparently that’s “excluding women!“ The Garrick and Boy Scouts are two examples of male-only spaces that have been infiltrated by women and girls. At least in my town, we’ve got two successful all-boys high schools! I hope they stay that way. Boys need to be around each other more often and interact more to be more successful in the long term.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 04:56 AM
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Men aren’t humans; just soldiers in their eyes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 02:43 PM
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No problem; that’s just exactly what I thought of while reading this. I know a good amount of psychology myself, and can’t help but apply that when I see any sort of fallacies in thinking or behaviour! Anyone with power has the ability to abuse it for the oppression of others!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 12:23 PM
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Too many people only want to help men to help women; it’s all a bunch of gynocentric crap. Help people for the individual humans they are. When did that go out of fashion? Why is that statement all of a sudden “ahead of our time”? Shouldn’t have it been held dear since the beginning of time?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 04:27 AM
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Nice, though I think “would you rather share your feelings with a woman or a tree” works a bit better. Also, I’m female and would choose both the bear and the tree over fellow humans!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 04:22 AM
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This. I’m so relieved I’m not the only one who’s been bothered by this. I remember having a this whole large debate on misandry and misogyny with ChatGPT, and at a point, I asked, “if patriarchy reinforces misogyny, what reinforces misandry?” ChatGPT then answered also patriarchy, which extremely confused me, but I took it that time since I hadn’t the heart to question the concept of “patriarchy” just yet. I also remember doing a whole gender neuteralising of the Duluth Model with Chat, and I as…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/26 04:05 AM
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Wishing Todd and his kids the best ;)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/26 07:12 PM
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Interesting. They want nondiscriminatory language and ended with “male violence against women,” which is highly misandristic (discriminatory toward men). This is either a paradox or a contradiction, and I can't wait to see how the guys of Italy react to this one. P.S. We hope the answer is that they either hold an uprising or move away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/26 05:41 PM
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Feminism is a gynocentric activism, so obviously, feminists will only care that women do well in education. Women have been behind, and now that they're ahead, some may see boys falling behind as “revenge” toward the patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/26 03:49 PM
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Ummm… I’ve made this analogy before, and there’s a whole sub called r/menkampf that literally draws the parallels between misandry and Nazi rhetoric…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 05:36 PM
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I mean, obviously they wouldn’t charge childless women, though it seems as if women are preserved solely for childbearing. I’d assume that’s why it’s illegal to cane women and girls, and why Singapore protects their right to maternity leave more than they protect men’s right to paternity leave.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 04:14 PM
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I’d assume like any other misanthropic country would do, Singapore treats its men purely as soldiers and its women purely as baby-making machines? If you’re not a good soldier/baby machine, you get (extremely) harsh punishment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 03:37 PM
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Dang. From misandristic to misanthropic... Bad way to go; supports all my reasons to stay far away from there. The West is much more developed in gender equality, even though it still has work to do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 02:44 PM
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Indeed! Even in classroom settings where I was the good kid but others misbehaved, we were punished as a class, and I always found that so infuriating. I rage quitted on easy mode; don't want to imagine moderate mode, even.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 02:42 PM
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They're going to call critique “misogynistic“ and “anti-equality.“ If you’re not a feminist, you’re a misogynist. Well too bad, looks like I’m misogynist for being egalitarian instead...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 02:40 PM
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That belief that to solve one side requires solving the other would be considered ahead of our time; depressing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 03:55 AM
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I think when women are highly oppressed, the men are as well. Gender roles affect both genders, and when a woman is forced to stay at home, her husband is forced to go out and do the work. Also, the men in those countries are no doubt forced to serve in the draft, as even the draft is open in America. To solve one side, we also have to solve the other as well
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 03:51 AM
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I’m kind of talking about those countries that actually oppress women. Forcing them to wear hijabs/burkas, giving them less chance in education, etc. I think Afghanistan has even passed a law recently, saying it’s okay to beat your wife as long as no bones are broken. That is true oppression.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 03:42 AM
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Also, usually, the “oppression” of which feminists speak either are experiences men have also faced (sexual violence and domestic violence), or aren't even that bad (”benevolent sexism,” etc). Have they ever known real oppression (women in Middle Eastern and Asian countries)?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 03:10 AM
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We need at least some heterosexuals who do get together in order to keep the population up! Not everyone has to be, just enough to keep us reproducing. If we’re declining, the only source to blame is ourselves!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 03:07 AM
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Feminists and the Nazis literally share an analogy, the “poisonous mushroom” one where you don’t know which ones are poisonous so you stay away from all of them. All men/Jews ‘till none sort of thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 03:02 AM
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Good grief. Thank God you’ve never set foot there, and even as a woman, I’ve added Singapore to the list of places I’d like to stay away from entirely. Thanks for linking the sources, mate! I’ll read up on it!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:59 PM
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What the heck? How do you know this many personal stories? If you live there, run! All those men and boys in Singapore deserve to be treated much better than they are being treated right now! Holy mama of misandry…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:48 PM
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The hypocrisy… Did you see that other post on here where the mom is teaching her daughters how to “dismantle patriarchy” by being misandrist?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:40 PM
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I’m sorry, but when I read this Mom wants an "inflated sense of self" for her daughter to survive patriarchy. it sounded so cult-like to me since “patriarchy“ is literally their favourite keyword. Also yet another way to spot the similarities between feminism and the Nazis, this way of raising kids sounds a bit like Hitler Youth to me...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 07:04 PM
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You’re correct that most people who hold power are men, but it’s still all men till it’s none /s. Men must face the same consequences of the few men who rightfully deserve that consequence (collective punishment). This does not apply to women, as that’s misogynist and makes you an incel. Women have been oppressed long enough; now it’s men’s turn /s.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 06:59 PM
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Don’t forget that it’s completely illegal to cane women or girls, but okay to cane boys as young as nine even for offences such as bullying?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 06:55 PM
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Link please? I’m curious to see how this goes!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 06:37 PM
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This “patriarchy“ thing still makes no sense to me. You think if women were that opressed, we’d all know patriarchy like the back of our hand. As long as the concept of patriarchy is like quantum rocket maths to me, I doubt it exists or has much affect in my life, at least.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 08:03 PM
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She was amazing; would’ve totally been my favourite celebrity whom I’d demand a signature, handshake, and friendly discussion with if she were still living!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 04:58 AM
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What in God’s green earth is “benevolent sexism”? Imagine being so entitled that you’re ungrateful for even the advantages and privilege you have, calling it “oppression” and “sexism.” What’s really sexist is putting all that burden on guys to pamper gals.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 04:56 AM
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Some people say the experiment had nothing to do with her assisted suicide, but I disagree. The experiment just shoved her off the ledge she had already been near for a while (she suffered some mental health issues even before the experiment).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 04:27 AM
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I’m currently reading Self-Made Man, and have heard really good things about it!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 04:22 AM
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I have a similar experience, LOL! There was this one community Reddit recommended posts from, so naturally, I commented on a one meme post four days ago (I looked in my comment history to check). Last night, I randomly was banned for not being trans (the sub name gave me absolutely no clues that it was exclusively for trans people), and I didn’t even mention whether I was even cis or not: I was merely reacting to the meme. What sort of foraging around my profile they did to conclude I deserved t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 03:16 AM
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That’s exactly why I dropped out of girl scouts early. For me, it was all selling cookies and making friendship bracelets, no outdoor stuff. I learned that on my own time in my own backyard.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 03:06 AM
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Never read the book, though I am dying to. I’ve watched videos on Norah Vincent and her social experiment. She’s a real man!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 06:45 PM
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I can’t believe the male-only draft is still enforced even in a first-world country like the US. We’ve got a long way to go before we reach gender equality of any kind, so long as young men and even boys are forced to war in all sorts of countries around the world.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 06:43 PM
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Norah Vincent’s Self-Made Man should clear up any blind spots. She, unlike Bell Hooks, actually made an effort to walk a mile in male shoes, literally.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 06:40 PM
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No wonder it was dropped. There’s no reason to have a lawsuit over that, though I know of some guy friends who were Boy Scouts and were upset that they’ve let girls in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 03:16 PM
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Interesting. What’d they have the lawsuit for? Like what charge?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 03:11 PM
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Not surprised! I was a girl scout only in kindergarten, and I barely remember anything about it. I would’ve joined a gender-inclusive scouting group, anyway. But not one that used to be for boys only; that’s just barging in. Did the lawsuit get much focus, or was it mostly shoved off to the side?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 01:38 PM
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I’d add The Garrick Club (traditional English gentlemen’s club) and The Boy Scouts (now Scouting America) to that list, there! I ashamed at the screeching double-standard that women can barge into men’s safe spaces, but men cannot do the same to women’s spaces. If cis women can be allowed in male-only spaces, it’s only fair that trans women and even cis men be allowed in female-only spaces, and I say this is a conservative, usually right-leaning Catholic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 04:20 AM
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That is a true fact, and I’m highly grateful! Thanks for accepting me, guys :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 04:10 AM
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anyone handed unchecked power is capable of leveraging the vulnerable to satisfy their own lustful or sadistic urges This quote reminds me a whole lot of the Stanford prison experiment! The “guards“ were so dehumanising that the experiment had to be stopped early! The only issue I could find was that all the test subjects were male, though I’ve heard plenty of stories of female guards who were sexually violent to male juvenile prisoners in real cases! In juvie, it seems, that’s the most prevalen…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 10:26 PM
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Exactly!!! And the guy always happens to be the subject, too. If he’s the perpetrator, you get “man kills X“ but if he’s a victim, you get “man killed by X.“ The guy is almost always the subject.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 10:11 PM
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It just seems that gender and sexuality is so much looser in Protestant settings, especially considering that some denominations allow homosexuality, birth control use, being transgender, etc. Catholicism has never allowed any of that. Also, I am really curious to know under which right conditions masculism could’ve become mainstream before feminism!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 08:58 PM
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That is very interesting; I did not know that, but am not surprised to hear about more right-wing women due to Mother Mary. I love my Mama Mary! I see Saint Joseph as a great male role model for men and boys, however, and I pray for his intercession every day before I come onto Reddit for LWMA and my male survivor space. I’m not surprised that feminism originated in Protestant countries, since Catholics have a much stricter view on gender roles (which I don’t normally follow).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 06:53 PM
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Yeah, and I’ve noticed that in media. If the majority of sexual violence victims in juvenile prison are boys, news says “X number of children, including X number of girls,“ if applicable. No news I’ve seen highlights boys in any way, shape, or form unless it’s an all-boys prison, and even then, news would just say “children.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 03:25 PM
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I am Catholic, but I am fully supportive of you and suggest you take a look at my post about Biblical misandry! Genesis had a few misandristic passages, and Genesis 17 had me on my deathbed (not mentioned in the post), especially! Exodus 1 had pharaoh call for andro-infanticide, as well as that other passage before Jesus was born... I’ve highlighted many misandristic Scripture quotes from Genesis alone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 03:17 PM
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Once again, I’ve always questioned how fifty percent of the population could successfully oppress the other fifty percent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 04:57 AM
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This is a harmful Hammurabi's Code way of thinking. There is absolutely no excuse or justification for rape. Not for punishment, not for reimbursement, nothing. We have to remember that even if someone does commit violent crime, they are still human and most likely hurting. Hurt people hurt people, and raping prisoners, guilty or innocent, will hurt the person in the long run.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/26 04:35 AM
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In general, that’s what makes me egalitarian. I advocate for the equality of all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/26 05:30 AM
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Facts, though, since Middle Eastern countries’ treatment of women is so crappy that I resist the urge to let my inner feminist run wild...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/26 03:05 AM
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I can kind of relate, mostly with the “my roof, my rules“ thing. I was freaking adopted, also. Whenever my parents told me “we don't owe you anything,“ no matter the context, one of two things would occur every time. The first is that I’d technically sell myself slave to them and punish myself severely whenever I didn't live to their expectations, and the second that occured more after I realised that they may be verbally abusive at best was that I wondered, then why even give me anything at all…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/26 11:21 PM
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Your point about mothers is amazing. And I’ve seen studies that show more mothers are abusive than fathers, and it’s usually sons being abused (by either parent). I’ve experienced some verbal abuse myself, and the amount of time it took to even acknowledge that for myself was much longer than I’d wish upon anyone. Mothers are usually the stay-at-home parent, therefore get many more opportunities to hurt the children than fathers do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/26 10:31 PM
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Never seen that; thanks for the link! I live near a great boys-only private high school, and have heard of another nearby! I’m not too worried about them, as they've made no loud plans on changing gender policies just yet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/26 09:55 PM
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It may be the loud ones, but also those supporting them as well!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/26 08:12 PM
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What society basically thinks is if the perpetrator is female, don’t take the case seriously! And only male-on-female violence is highly cited and taken seriously, in order to prove the myth that all men are misogynistic monsters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/26 06:34 PM
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Agreed. Even in disadvantages highly affecting men and boys, women are still the spotlight. Think of homelessness and others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/26 10:25 PM
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“Believe all women“ would totally fail in cases of female-on-female violence! It would really destroy the victim in cases of female-on-male violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/26 09:04 PM
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That was really surprising to me as well! If we added the forced to penetrate stats... Dang, would the stats skew male.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/26 06:29 PM
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Good grief, that’s disgusting... Why can’t my brothers just stand up for each other? That guy is either a pick-me or legitimately in need of help to find his self-love again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/26 01:44 AM
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That’s what I liked about this sub as well! It’s run for men, by men and not some feminists who blame everything on the patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/26 12:14 AM
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You seem new to this sub. Just wondering, what were your first impressions when you first came across us?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 11:13 PM
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Of course, size does matter to a significant degree! A lot of the bullying I endured was verbal, which also hurt a lot. The principal did get involved and ended up siding with me, which helped a whole lot!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 11:12 PM
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This aligns with my experience also, and I’m from the US! A girl (sometimes ganged up) bullied me in middle school, which took an extreme toll on me for a while before my bully genuinely changed and we befriended. I’m very happy she changed, though I know a few friends of mine were also bullied to greater severities than I. Being bullied by other girls really drove me away from femininity, as I saw how much tension could be present in a girl group. I’ve seemed to make friends with guys much quic…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 09:51 PM
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This is a great explanation; thank you so much! I know this already, though it is too often where the perpetrator is male and people immediately classify him as a monster from the beginning. Hurt people hurt people, and that should apply to all perpetrators of violence, not just female perpetrators.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 09:41 PM
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That is unfortunately how many like to villainise any sort of male advocacy, label it as “misogynistic“ and whatnot. I do not see male advocacy as misogynistic, feminism is misandristic, and I say that being female. We’re just trying to make our way in this world without feminist worldviews shoved down our throats as well
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 04:14 PM
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These lines are absolutely disgusting. Ain’t no way this one getting past the gender swap: “I grope every bastard wearing swim trunks.“ Feminists want equality, not revenge??? “The Bible already taught us to poison the apple I don’t want us to be equal, I want revenge, you little brat.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 02:24 PM
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I’d like to believe that there’s been this increasing awareness about verbal/emotional/psycological abuse in general. More people talk about abuse, then bring up it may not always leave a physical mark, but can definitely leave a mental one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 02:13 PM
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I’ve seen this language used even in my church! A missionary came to promote donation to a charity that helped impovershed nations supply with clean water, and the brochure mentioned that women and young girls travel miles just to get water, which isn’t even clean. I was wondering, what about the men and boys? No pictures of men in the brochure, either. Only women and children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 01:57 PM
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We are pretty interconnected with the same members (also r/egalitarianism) since all deal with men’s rights advocacy from a left-wing, egalitarian perspective.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 01:49 PM
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Society’s much more gynocentric than we think, and I say that as female. Statistics show that cases with female targets are viewed as more important to solve, so are solved faster than the cases with male targets, then there’s the trauma-lympics (who has it worse). I don’t care if there’s only one guy who was targeted for “violence against women and girls;“ he deserves the same attention and support as all the other survivors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 01:09 PM
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My family consists of very conservative Catholics, and I remember this one day where my younger sister and I were discussing modern-day slavery, I said slavery is not gendered. My mother immediately responded that it is, and that women and girls are being sold for sex slavery all the time. Though even my younger sister agreed, I rebutted that by telling them that men and boys are sold into forced labour, which is also a form of slavery, and even they can be sold into sex slavery as well. I also …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/26 12:41 AM
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I say that in this day and age, men are still treated as ATM’s by their partners, so women still are upholding the “patriarchy“/male gender role.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 11:34 PM
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I just don’t like the term in general. It has such a bad connotation now, and even masculinity without any descriptors does. At least the latter should be viewed in a positive light, though patriarchy should be renamed to be more gender-neutral since it can affect both genders both negatively and positively.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 07:32 PM
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Even the most conservative people I know hold some sort of feminist rhetoric to heart. It’s like a freaking disease now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 07:28 PM
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They teach their sons such inappropriate things at such a young, vulnerable time! I saw one video where a little boy called his mom sexy in the dress she was trying on, and that made me wonder now who taught him such language, huh? Children see, children do. Children hear, children say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 07:27 PM
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Like the white feather thing they did to men who didn’t go to war!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 07:24 PM
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Same in the US, but not sure if trans girls are allowed or not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 07:14 PM
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Good grief, I’ve seen these shirts once too many times. I don’t understand why these men are letting the shirts sell, even if they promote violence against fellow men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 06:23 PM
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That reminds me of what I was thinking! Patriarchy totally exists, but patriarchy is a misnomer. More like strict gender roles/norms, since they advantage and disadvantage a gender at the same time. All this rhetoric around “patriarchy“ and “toxic masculinity“ sounds more like a sweeping generalisation and victim-blaming than digging deep, even as deep as hell, to find the real issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 04:57 AM
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I’ve heard of an old gentlemen’s club, The Garrick, that abolished their men only policy and that the Boy Scouts have changed to Scouting America, both done to include women and girls. I wonder where men will find their own space now...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 04:51 AM
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At least some US states have gender-neutral rape laws! In the UK, you need a penis to be charged with rape, so male survivors who were forced to penetrate are bound to be left out. The UK really is not a safe place for men. At least they have the ManKind Initiative and Abused Men in Scotland shelters for men, which is a plus, I guess.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/26 04:38 AM
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I’d add New York, definitely, and possibly Nebraska!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 06:46 PM
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Yes! Then maybe my friend will suceed! Even he conforms to all school rules, is smarter than I, asks for and receives more help than I, yet still has a lower grade than I do in English. Females are outperforming males in school and the workplace nowadays!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 03:25 PM
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Yup. Praised and glorified, even. The mom’s such a slay and all that junk
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 02:43 PM
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If boys and girls are different, what’s it with trying to make them “equal“? If they’re different, why are we trying to break down “patriarchy“? Feminists tryibg to “break gender stereotypes“ while also saying “guys and gals are different“ sounds hypocritical.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 01:39 PM
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I mean, it really is true that men are targets of violence more often. They’re also still forcibly drafted in some countries, which pushes them to be both an instigator and a victim of violence when they might rather not, and instead live a peaceful civilian life. There has always been an epidemic of violence against men and boys, and instead of trying to cure it, we’re staying complacent at best or worsening it at worst.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 01:36 PM
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I give you permission to pull out the men are also oppressed card, along with the post filled with the sources for it! As a part of the “oppressed gender,“ I see more oppression going on in the male side than ours. We’ve got our oppression, too, but I still see more guys enduring oppression.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 01:30 PM
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I notice that in videos as well. They focus too much on the perpetrator and not enough on the victim. The perpetrator needs to be held accountable, though I’d say main focus on the victims since they weren’t in on it and were just targeted for whatever sick reason. This can ruin lives. I mean, abusers normally do have screwed childhoods, but as long as that’s not happening, these sons are still children, and they’re victims of sexual grooming, they should be helped instead of demonised just beca…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 04:36 AM
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Objectifying men as soldiers and ATM’s is totally not internalised/societal misandry! /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 04:19 AM
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That standard there is so toxic, but also I’ve noticed that a mom sexualising her son is “cute“ while that would absolutely not survive the gender swap.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/26 04:17 AM
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Either of two “extremes“... So sad...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/26 07:23 PM
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Seems to me that somebody didn’t study their rape statutes! Men and even boys are highly disadvantaged there, especially if the perpetrator is female.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/26 03:24 PM
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Surprisingly, I was so done with feminism when I discovered LWMA so I joined without hesitation. I had a feminist friend who liked to crap on men at times, but also complain about everything else around her, so that turned me away fast. And I do see why feminism is so heavily critiqued in MRA spaces because feminism is a the roadblock to achieving more male rights. After I became a MRA, I found out about Donna Hylton, Dr. Mary Koss, the Duluth Model, feminists against gender-neutral rape laws, a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/26 03:22 PM
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I mean, the FBI of America counted more rapes against men than against women even with a gendered, penetration-focused statute since prison rape was also counted. This was fourteen years ago, in 2012, and this made America the first country in history to have counted more male rape survivors than female rape survivors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/26 04:00 AM
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That’s not very surprising since I almost identified as a feminist, but definitely believed a few misandrist feminist values then ended up here after realising how much feminists love crapping on men. The more I know and learn about feminism, the more I wish I could forget.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/26 03:55 AM
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I will never forget the time feminists in India rallied against gender-neutral rape laws, and that’s not even the worst of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 09:53 PM
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Yeah, so when I say feminists ignore men’s rights at best that means unfortunately, they do not hold the male gender to much positive regard. If ignoring is the best they can do for men, the worst may be hell
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 06:13 PM
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Thanks for the free advertisement! I’m not sure if I’m on the autism spectrum, and no it was not an insensitive question at all! I’d assume I am, though, because I seem to have super strong fluctuating obsessions. But when I first read that, I thought you were referring to the aro or ace spectrums (yes, on both), LOLLL!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 02:54 AM
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Gendered laws are not equality! As another comment here said, if it ain’t gender neutral, it most likely shouldn't be a law.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 02:12 AM
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It doesn’t matter what time it is, that’s still so harrowing… I would not be chillax with being shoved in the hot seat like that. I’ve turned away from feminism long before anyone could put me in the hot seat already. Glad you’re out now and advocating for men’s rights!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 01:55 AM
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I wonder which spectrum you’re speaking of! But, yeah, I’m not sure why I feel so strongly about men’s rights… I feel like it’s a calling since I think about it 24/7. Thank you for posting on r/StrongMaleSurvivors, by the way! I hope we can collect more contributors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 01:52 AM
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No problem. I stay in androcentric spaces instead of looking for fights in feminist, gynocentic spaces. It makes me glad to be of assistance and help fight against misandry’s toll on my bros.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:30 PM
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We’re from different countries, though, like I met someone from the Philippines. I don’t know which person’s from where, and where in the country we’d meet. Unfortunately, that part’s not as easy as you think.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:09 PM
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That is legit harrowing, and a male teacher subjected you to this? I was also assigned female at birth and still identify as female, but I am most definitely not a feminist and would never keep the chill if I was subjected to something like this. I am an egalitarian MRA, case closed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:03 PM
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You’re right, since male rights advocacy is relatively new. We have to go big or go home, but also don’t want to go as big as feminists, lest we be no better than they were to us MRA’s.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 09:58 PM
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Congratulations, bruddarrr! Would you like a cookie or to be a quadrillionaire? Would you like to see other men’s rights subs, including the one I’ve made myself?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 09:37 PM
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Like...what can be done, though? I’ve created a safe space for male survivors if that’s good enough. We all do the best we can, but at the end of the day, if feminists, male and female, have more power than the average man, nothing much can be done. Since any call to help marginalised men and boys will be dismissed at best or demonised at worst.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 09:33 PM
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I think the reason why we focus so much on feminism is because it really is a huge barrier to male rights. Even if something affects everyone, such as an earthquake, feminists will demand women and girls be given assistance first, even when men and boys are just as affected or possibly even more affected. We still have wage gap rhetoric when women are doing better in education and in the workplace than men are. All those wider left-wing topics you’ve described are indeed issues that deserve disc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 07:31 PM
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It’s all just so toxic. I don’t really care how terrible demon-possessed men are to y’alls feminists; the men in my life have surely treated me much better than the fellow women in my life have. If that’s evil, what to say about fellow women in my life? Every feminist post makes me much more jaded to the world, and once I open it up to read it, every word adds one minute to a nap I deserve…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 03:57 PM
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Sadly not surprising, as men aren’t encouraged to speak up, leave, or get help in domestic violence situations. Especially if the abuser is female, he’s told it's not that bad or he may have caused something to make her mad, or something. Victim-blaming all around
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 01:38 AM
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Interesting how you specify “middle aged male.” Could I have more information about this? If I may assume, many of your clients are in this demographic, or perhaps this is similar to your experience?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 10:03 PM
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I was recently told on Reddit, "Ask any woman you know; they will have experienced male violence." Buddy, those feminists don’t know how many male survivors I know. About half of them have experienced female violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 09:29 PM
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I mean, all groups have their skeletons, but I’d choose a group that mostly adheres to the following: makes up for as many skeletons as they can, preferably not have a darkly crazy amount of skeletons to begin with encourages and lives out good morals free to join, leave, and return without too much limit/criticism can logically and respectfully buffer criticism etc There’s probably more I should add, but these are the basics! All the groups I identify with meet my standards very well, which is …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 09:23 PM
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That‘s really black-and-white thinking, which is a logical fallacy. I am Catholic, and I think those who are on the fence aren’t necessarily with Satan since non-Christians, even, are capable of getting into Heaven if they are legitimately a morally good person. The latter is complicated, but when it comes to gender issues, you’re either a feminist, a male rights advocate, an egalitarian, or maybe a combo. Those are the labels I know, and adding all my labels would have me at butch aroace Cathol…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 08:00 PM
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I see some pretty good replies, but no sources. All are great, inducing arguments but they need sources to really spice up the analysis. I’m glad this guy can’t align with this! That means he’s got an amazing community about him! I can assume he’s social and has many good friends since he wasn’t conditioned with any sort of silent treatment or treatment to make him “man up.“ u/griii2, I am very glad you haven’t experienced the behaviours described in this post, and I wish nothing but better days…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 06:29 PM
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I feel bad for the guy, really. He’s got to change himself only while his wife can stay the same. In a marriage, both should work together to be the best they can be not only for each other’s resources, but to be able to love each other better and more purely. Also, using sex as leverage should really be a form of abuse, most similar to financial abuse, I guess.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 06:22 PM
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If I’m not feminist, I’m misogynist? Learn to expand your vocabulary to add “egalitarian.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 05:48 PM
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If you can’t handle someone at their worst and objectify them at their best, they should sprint far away. At least he's working on being a better person for himself (as he says). He should not be changing just so he can get intimate with his wife. He should change for himself, and for himself only.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 03:45 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing! I was debating between lesbian and biromantic, but landed on biromantic. I’ve always been asexual but was really lost on the aromantic spectrum. I’ve made out with a female friend before and courted a guy before. However, neither of those worked out romantically either, so we‘re just friends. I do not consider either an ex, just friends. All this dating stuff in modern day has got me far away from wanting any more at all, so I landed on fully aromantic, fully asexu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 05:35 PM
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Yeah, I know, and that’s the absolute sad part... Actually, I have a cousin (or maybe even multiple cousins) who aspire to be a priest, so technically, that’s aroace, I guess. Maybe alongside my new male survivor space, I can also create a males on the spectrums space. That may be less popular, though...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 05:20 PM
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Nice, thanks! I just really want to get to know guys on the spectrums and ask about their unique experiences of how it’s like to be on the spectrums and a guy at the same time since just being on either spectrum is difficult enough.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 05:16 PM
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Ohhh, hello, it’s like meeting a celebrity... I wanted to ask how guys on the spectrum felt about being on the spectrum and how other people treated them if they ever came out via a post on this sub during June, but my post wasn’t accepted since it apparently “does not cover the issues of men and boys.“ I identify as both aromantic and asexual after a long journey of discovering that ultimate answer. If you are inclined to answer, what was your journey like? I’d gladly share mine if you ask!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 05:05 PM
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Great advice; which ones, may I ask?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 05:00 PM
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I wish I could know one, at least. For now, I can keep dreaming. However, I have had my dream of meeting a female MRA come true! That’s you, Melissa!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 04:09 PM
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Sure, if you like! Was wanting to know more about you (because I have to work on being social also). You seen like an interesting guy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 03:52 PM
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I just wanted to engage in further discussion. You don’t have to answer; I was just liking to keep the conversation flowing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 03:20 PM
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Yes, indeed; rest in peace, Jackson. There’s another thing I saw on TheTinMen blog about a guy who was falsely accused of rape — Grant Townsend.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 03:19 PM
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I’m getting there slowly... So, what you’re describing is guys on the spectrum who defend feminists by telling other guys they’re not entitled to sex because those who don’t have sex are okay with life? Sorry, I just have never heard of this before and am trying to comprehend the stuff and wording.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 03:15 PM
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On that note, do you have someone yet, or at least someone in mind? I’m not sure about many modern women who would meet your standards and be loving, or maybe that’s just feminist discourse getting to my head. How would you live single life if you can’t find the right one?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:59 PM
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I get the discarded part, but how exactly do guys on the aro/ace spectrums harm others to little benefit to themselves? By not reproducing, I assume? At keast they choose not to reproduce, I guess! I just think they’re soldiers for enduring the hardships of being on either or both spectrums, in addition to being male.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:56 PM
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That’s the huge issue, and I cannot fathom why caning guys is okay, but not gals... Abuse is abuse, sexual humiliation is sexual humiliation, full stop. I don’t get why us (yes, I’m female) women and girls are treated as the supreme untouchable beings, and even one little thing that offends us is seen as “misogyny.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:19 PM
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Was it this one? I’ve been threatened with rape behind my back, so I understand how you feel on that part... I wish goodness upon you, and hopefully you find a great woman! I like being the protector and provider for my family and friends. I have had partners in the past, though we regressed to friends when we felt it didn’t work out. I personally treasure virginity as a whole, including male virginity. This is why I loathe it when young boys are sexually abused or even raped by caretakers such …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:14 PM
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Those guys are freaking soldiers. I cannot go into a feminist space without seeing one post and needing a long nap... I hope to meet a guy who identifies on either spectrum... It’ll be like greeting a celebrity at this point...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:13 PM
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Why the downvotes on this person’s comment, people, is it illegal to disagree? Sir, could you please enhance more on your argument to give the others more context? And someone find this gentleman a source, so a good debate can form instead of downvoting for no reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:10 PM
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I hope to meet one in person, but for now I can keep dreaming... I don’t know how they’re brave enough to go into rad fem spaces, as I am already too afraid to leave this sub because, downvotes. I sometimes visit to silently, strongly disagree, but never do I leave a comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 02:00 PM
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The main issue here is that people preserve women so they can reproduce, which is correct. The part people get wrong, however, is that men are also needed to reproduce. If it takes two to tango, we have to keep female and male population at about equal rates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 01:57 PM
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As a Catholic, I actually agree with you wholeheartedly. I’ve heard a lot of Italian gynocentricism lately, and femicide laws in general make me cringe. People also always can point out misogyny in the Bible, but few could point out misandry even when it was prevalent as well. I see this as improvement in the world; something to be grateful for!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 01:53 PM
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Boys aged 16-18 can be sentenced for brutal caning on bare buttocks by criminal court for juveniles. I’m afraid...depending on whether the front is covered and if so with what, this may be sexual humiliation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 01:47 PM
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Ha, I’ve visited that sub and it’s really funny. It does a great job portraying how feminist rhetotic mirrors Nazi propaganda.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 01:40 PM
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I believe if the judicial system really does say “innocent until proven guilty,“ we really should treat all the accused as such. I don’t know about you, but I firmly believe Michael Jackson was not guilty, and now with the Michael movie in theaters and his death anniversary recently, I’ve been thinking about it a whole lot more. His reputation was freaking shattered after those allegations, yet he still toured on and stayed for the good-faithed fans. I’ve never heard of a man falsely accusing an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 01:39 PM
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Probably not related, but I have yet to meet a guy who identified as either of the following: Aromantic/on the spectrum Asexual/on the spectrum Aroace, anywhere on either spectrum. The groups above are already highly underrepresented in the queet community already, but since guys apparently “like intercourse“ and are “horny asf,“ I can see why less guys can openly identify with any of the above. I have the female privilage to openly and proudly identify as aroace, and all June, I was thinking ab…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 01:08 PM
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I just don’t like generalisations. It seems dehumanising and takes away from the complexity of humankind. An example is the “redpill manosphere.“ Those guys have crazily radical takes, though I can see the pain behind that thinking. I personally have struggled with it as well. However, people just like to bash on them instead of looking deeper, adding to their hurt, which makes things worse for all sides. Humanisation isn’t the same as justification, and acknowledging that a crazily wild take ma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 03:18 AM
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Agreed. I like people because they’re good to me and other human beings, not just because they’re in a certain group or have a certain set of beliefs. Humans are very complex and very multifacteted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 11:28 PM
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False allegations are the worst. I’ve heard of plenty of guys who took their lives because of false allegations. I think it’s exceptioannly bad when it’s a DARVO allegation, and a guy is accused of being the perpetrator when in reality, he’s the victim. We think it’s innocent until proven guilty, but society treats the accused like guilty untill proven innocent, but even then they’re still suspicious since they were accused in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 11:26 PM
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I think an egalitarian lens is the best way to go. Just like this sub, since it doesn’t hate on women, instead it critiques non-egalitarian feminist concepts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 09:25 PM
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The choose vs born thing makes a lot of sense, though generalising as a whole is bad. It’s important to know that humans are really complex creatures and can have crazy different points of view. In a wide scope, feminism is terribly misandrist at best and possibly androcidal at worst, but knowing one good feminist will definitely prevent me from saying “all feminists“ because including her would be disgraceful. Despite the fact she identifies as a feminist, she’s been nothing but supportive and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 08:58 PM
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I definitely notice that, especially after we had Indian feminists rally against gender-neutral rape laws. Not so much for men, now...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 08:51 PM
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Fair, though I do know one person who identifies as feminist yet still is supportive of me advocating for male rights. It’s one person, but she means a lot to me and is really, really supportive! That’s why I said not all feminists, because of her, though she may be mistaking being feminist with being egalitarian. I am egalitarian as well, though I see more issues on the male side so I join MRA’s. I’ve also never stumbled upon a misogynistic MRA, but other than that one friend, all other feminis…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 08:21 PM
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I know not all feminists are bad, just like how all men aren’t. However, if feminists want men to hold other men accountable, it’s only reasonable to ask feminists to hold other feminists accountable. I’ve never come across a misogynistic MRA, but you bet your bucks I would hold that person accountable if I ever come across them. I’m even holding myself accountable as well by trying to see good in fellow women, using “most,“ “a lot,“ etc instead of “all,“ and lastly just focus on helping my bros…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:32 PM
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Hey, at least they wave their red flags high for people to see! That way people should’ve seen it coming if they talk to her and are whacked in the face with misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:24 PM
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Thank you! This is all in my free time, but I don’t spend a second forgetting my bros out there struggling.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:20 PM
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A lot of feminist rhetoric reminds me of how Nazis viewed the Jews. The poisoned mushroom analogy reminds me a whole lot of “all till none.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 03:18 PM
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With that, feminism hurts male advocacy more since at least the manosphere doesn’t try constantly hard to deny male suffering... Those men are actually suffering themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 03:09 PM
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Yo, that’s female privilage there! Always helped first in crisis, like the Titanic, allowed to cause crises (murders and rapes) without much consequence or accountability, and even being praised for hating on our male conterparts... Since I can’t say “I don’t claim them as women,“ I might just want to leave myself...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 04:18 AM
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I do wish for true, egalitarian-like equality for all, but I am not sure we’re going to even be able to convince enough people how men are struggling and how to help...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 04:07 AM
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I feel like keeping more men alive and decreasing the male death rate is enough for me. I just want to show enough love to my brothers so that they can stay alive and want to stay alive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 03:09 AM
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Me neither, but ain't nothing going to stop me for standing up for my brothers!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 02:13 AM
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I come here to advoacate and push against misandry. Now, I’m even moderating a safe space for male survivors of sexual and/or domestic violence! I feel like that can distract me enough!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 11:34 PM
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I feel like as long as we’ve got self-hating male feminists still, male advocacy isn’t going to go very far... Guys, y’alls gotta be brothers and team up for equal rights! Feminism earned me my female rights and privilage a long time ago since enough women demanded them. We just need enough people to demand equal rights for men. Who’s with me, because I am all in!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 11:32 PM
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According to what I read, he is innocent as his friend Wilson describes, and freaking deserves a hug...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 11:26 PM
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Professor Murray Straus noted the symmetry of intimate partner violence! I’d call him more of an egalitarian than full on MRA, but that’s still great!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 11:16 PM
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I mean, I read the fine print most of the time, so those tricks won’t work on me. I already know guys are more likel to be targets of brutal violence, anyway.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 04:48 AM
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At least they put the stats in there and admitted men were more likely to be targeted of brutal crime... But doing that and complaining about violence against women and girls at the same time sounds like absolute nonsense since stats clearly are saying that men are more likely to be targeted anyway...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 10:57 PM
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Nah, I was agreeing with you. He was unwell, but not unwell as in crazy like feminists believe.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 09:25 PM
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I feel like it’s harder to gender DV, though, since hitting is hitting... But apparently only being penetrated can count as rape, not being forced to penetrate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 03:04 PM
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Bruv, of course he was unwell! He was underfunded and also survived domestic abuse himself! He built a shelter to help his surviving brothers and look what happened to him! I don’t blame him or shame him at all for being unwell after that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 03:03 PM
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Also, those who found DV stats to be equal were also sent death and bomb threats. People like Professors Strauss, Gelle, and Steinmetz.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 03:01 PM
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Not male, but I’m glad that for the most part, many US states (including mine) have gender-neutral rape statutes! Also glad to personally know some amazing male survivors and help two of them speak out about their repeated sexual assaults (we three had the same perpetrator so it was easier).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 04:52 AM
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Unfortunately, discrimination against men and boys is seen as “deserved“ since “they did it first via patriarchy.” Misandry is either invisible or it is outright praised by many these days.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 10:48 PM
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I know, it’s all so sickening how little male survivors are acknowledged and helped at the same time. I pray that good man is in Heaven with all the other male survivors he helped.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 10:47 PM
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This makes me think of Earl Silverman, who set up his own shelter for abused men, but was so underfunded that he shut the shelter down before shutting his life off as well. If only he had received adequate funding…maybe things would’ve looked brighter for Canadian male abuse survivors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 09:26 PM
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Yeah, and rape is a form of sexual assault. Definitions of rape, underreporting, and sometimes even refusing to count male survivors skews the statistics towards women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 01:28 AM
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Rape is usually defined as the victim being penetrated, skewing the statistics toward women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 11:40 PM
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Same with aromantics, asexuals, and all on the spectrum! I’ve unfortunately never met any guys on either spectrum, but I still can’t believe some say all men want is sex when I’m sure there are guys on the spectrum(s)!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 11:37 PM
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Men are ATM’s. Heck no they aren’t, and I’ve felt like an ATM before. It’s freaking tiring and anxiety-inducing since you don’t know when you’ll earn that back. I’ve paid for plenty of treats for male friends before. Ladies, take note. Offering to pay is out of kindness and once it’s expectation, like tips, it gets irritating in a snap.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 11:32 PM
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Dads teach children to be strong, to know how to take in real world obstacles! With a bit of “rub some dirt on it“ mindset, one is much more prepared for the world!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 11:26 PM
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I pity all those self-hating men. I hated myself too, once, and focused on helping everyone but myself. One CANNOT help others if they haven’t helped themselves or it’ll take a crazy toll on them (speaking from my own experience). I was very angry at male feminists, even validly truthful ones, but now pity overpowers my anger. I know how hard it is to force yourself to help others while simultaneously hating your own self.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 11:22 PM
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It is kinda hard to understand the audio! Basically what happened is that someone called CDC to ask why rape and forced to penetrate were considered different and the CDC representative couldn’t really explain the reason. Gulity! Maybe turning subtitles on could help?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/26 03:54 AM
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Also, deploying weaponised incompetence and then blaming men for using it! Pay for your own meal, or pay for your boyfriend’s/husband’s meal as well!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/26 12:54 AM
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That‘s my main issue. Why do feminists love the victim card so much? I saw this one quote and I was blown away at the genius bluntness of it. This isn’t verbatim, but the message is pretty much the same: “Feminists are either empowered or victimised. They just choose which is most convenient for them at the moment.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/26 02:36 AM
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These are amazing stats! And no matter who is victimised more, all survivors deserve support. It’s not a trauma-dumping contest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/26 01:28 AM
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Also, queens were more likely to wage war than kings were.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/26 12:52 AM
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I wonder why the definitions have even been like that in the first place. Women raping men should’ve been around since Biblical Old Testament times, at least, since Lot from the Bible was raped by his two daughters via alcohol in the book of Exodus. Also, some versions of Homer’s Odyssey feature female dieties like Circe and Calypso raping Odysseus via coercion or magic traces. If it’s feature in literature, surely it should’ve been in real life since people write about what their senses pick up…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 10:52 PM
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I do not believe things are equal or just at all unless the genders are treated equally as survivors/victims and equally as perpetrators. We all know men can rape women. We’ve got an idea that men can rape other men. We can barely fathom that women can rape men. Worst of all, does anyone at all even understand that women can rape other women???
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 10:47 PM
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At least there are a good amount of states that imply forcing someone to penetrate is also rape. Many states’ statutes, including my own, say “forced sexual intercourse“ which could go either way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 10:28 PM
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This is great info with excellent sources! I’d apply this to domestic and intimate partner violence as well! A majority of unilateral violence perpetrators are female, yet when we bring domestic or intimate partner violence up, there’s this widespread impression that the men are hurting the women. A lot, a bit over half, of violent relationships overall are bilateral anyway, and that increases injury probability and severity for both parties terribly the longer it lingers. However, very rarely i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 10:25 PM
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If feminists wouldn’t have taken male survivors seriously if it wasn’t for Koss, they have absolutely no right to say they are for men, or even for equality! As for the HHS saying “ abusing men is different because we care about people's well-being" part, enhance on this? I’m a bit confused on what the HHS and FBI are trying to convey.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 10:09 PM
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Koss said, and I quote, “It is inappropriate to consider as a rape victim a man who engages in unwanted sexual intercourse with a woman“ and called male survivors “ambivalent about their sexual desires.“ The last quote and the way she used engages makes it seem as if the guy wanted it or even liked/enjoyed it. Feminists are totally correct that rape culture exists. Just who it really hurts is what they often get wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 07:19 PM
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I honestly agree with that. It’d be hard for me to forgive as well, but I guess everyone’s different and got the Hodgkinson he needed and advocated against future happenings of coward punches enough to be forgiven by Dunne’s parents.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 07:04 PM
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Why haven’t we been counting them as the same? How is being forced to penetrate different from being forcibly penetrated? When I look at CDC and NISVS stats, I simply count the forced to penetrate and rape stats together with the best of my mathematical ability.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 07:01 PM
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Even under the US’s general definition, more rapes were counted against men and boys (prison rape), making America the first country to count more male survivors than female survivors. Imagine what adding forced to penetrate would do to that already male skewed statistic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 06:59 PM
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You know, you’re right and you’re amazingly strong for being here with us today. It doesn’t even matter which state or even which country you’re in! There’s always going to be a false notion that female perpetrators aren’t as bad as male perpetrators of any crime, really.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 06:57 PM
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Just another sad example of how disposible male lives are… At least that guy, Jacob Hodgkinson, was able to reconcile the bad he had done to James Dunne by advocating against coward punches after receiving help. This is what I wish to see more of in this world: former criminals reformed into some of the best people today.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 01:37 PM
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Some states and even the FBI have flawed rape definitions thate require the offender to penetrate. My state is looking okay, though, according to RAINN.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 11:47 AM
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Great article! It was a very interesting read that also made me feel bad for all the guys involved. This especially is hopefully not as bad as I turned it out to be as I read it: “She followed all the old wives’ tales—including “drugging” her husband with supplements, timing intercourse, and eating acidic foods—in an attempt to maximize the odds that her third child would be a daughter.“ This sounds like rape when it probably isn’t even... Drugging her husband and timing intercourse...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/26 04:53 AM
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Would love to read the link, but it doesn’t work for me. Great insight, though!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/26 11:07 PM
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I never even thought about this even once! Now that I think about it, my mom did some of the things listed (not in a crazy, authoritarian manner) whenever she left the house for even a few hours. Her lists were mostly for me when I was home alone with my younger sister, but sometimes even addressed even if our father was home with us. He does tend to forget things a lot and do his own thing, but I also noticed my mom would correct a lot of things my dad did, such as laundry folding. At least he …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/26 05:09 PM
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Most of the time, if we flip misogynistic stuff around, it’s just as misandrist since I’d like to bet that real-life men have experienced it before. The ads for ties, coffee, and slacks really shot bullets into my heart since I can and have already noticed men and boys being treated like the ads shown.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 09:36 PM
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I’m extremely excited to read this! Here’s mine, if you’re interested: https://www.wattpad.com/story/409660892-azure-blue. I’ve also got a Google docs link if this one doesn’t work: https://docs.google.com/document/d/104FkWN0LsoqEJhhHQg3WMjG0NWTXOKZAn7LZKHwEAlw/edit?usp=drivesdk
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/26 11:52 PM
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This is awesome, and I’m looking forward to reading it! I’ve written a few male advocacy books myself and plan on more. The best and latest one I’ve got is about an abused husband and how he navigates his extremely toxic relationship while also hiding the abuse from his family via physical covers and wild stories for his injuries. It’s really short, but I’ve never been prouder of any of my works like I have with this one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/26 11:38 PM
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You know, I’ve always vehemently questioned how 50% of the population could oppress the other 50% of the population.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 08:59 PM
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I hope gender-neutral rape laws, globally enforced, is next!!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 01:55 PM
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That’s hilarious. I guess no more dating, and if dating still, if a woman can do men’s jobs better, surely they wouldn’t mind paying for their boyfriend’s meal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 12:30 PM
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https://youtu.be/eRt91_rgJDg?si=kXBl5PtCHoi6_77C https://youtu.be/ZQjtEV89uEA?si=EDKvE1LSguM08bR8 Yeah, we need men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 11:52 AM
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Buddy, I saw a vid (or more) of feminists saying women can do anything a man could or do it better, then watches a video and men doing some sort of heavy-labour job and says, “embrace gender differences.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 11:25 AM
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Man, I absolutely ADORE Norah Vincent!!! She did the experiment to prove her radical feminist belief that men had it easy and were privilaged, and she was met with such the opposite that she had to stop it early. The best part was that she admitted she was wrong, and men do have it very hard. Her experience has really buffered me from even thinking of trasitioning. I am very privilaged and grateful to be female. If only she was still around today...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 04:55 AM
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If men aren’t needed, I guess women will have to put on their big girl shoes and do constructing, garbage-picking, war, and more...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 04:49 AM
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I mean, even if fathers DON’T take paternal leave, they’re still earning money to help provide. We always hear about a mother’s love, but when was the last time we heard about a father’s sacrifice?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/26 08:37 PM
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TheTinMen cuts it clean perfectly. Women are seen as incompetent but valuable. Men are seen as competent but disposable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/26 03:48 PM
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Crazy work, here. The more you try to bring someone in close (not a feminist, not worthy), the further you push them away (more people leave or simply don’t even bother.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/26 01:04 PM
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“Benevolent sexism“! Imagine being so ungrateful for all your privilages that you want them all out of practice, then start crying when they are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/26 12:34 AM
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As one who once identified as lesbian (it was a very short time and I was debating between that and bi), those who are lesbian just to avoid men are absolutely petty. I just kissed a girl because I liked her at the time, not to avoid men at all. Men are awesome! I do find men attractive at times, bi, that means, I just like being the provider and protecter but don’t want to intrude on a guy like that when he feels obligated to do the providing and protecting. I’m fully fledged aroace now. Choose…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/26 11:14 PM
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Actually, aren’t lesbians the most statistically likely to be in an abusive relationship/get divorced? And gay couples are least likely to do either, less likely than even hetero couples?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/26 03:44 PM
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And we wonder why males have a higher death rate — globally! No one really emphasises their deaths, or even prevents those deaths in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/26 03:40 PM
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Wrong is wrong even if everybody’s doing it. Right is right even if you’re going solo. I’d rather go solo than support misandristic, matriarchial, androcidal causes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/26 03:37 PM
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Wrong is wrong even if everybody’s doing it. Right is right even if you’re going solo. I’d rather go solo than support misandristic, matriarchial, androcidal causes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/26 03:37 PM
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No crap, Sherlock! What happens during childhood is pretty bound to stay and possibly be repeated in adulthood! I’m not sure how a felon at large could be born in perfect conditions. Somewhere, there was a major screw-up...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/26 03:34 PM
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Also, what does the wife have to hide??? If she was faithful, she wouldn’t have anything to hide. In cases of rape, I’m sure there’d be a way to work it out with the husband. A good spouse would support and protect their loved one if they heard about any sexual trauma they had.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/26 07:40 PM
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I’m Catholic, but I totally approve of manditory DNA testing at birth. Can also help look for inherited diseases/disorders alongside preventing paternity fraud.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/26 05:28 PM
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I’m not cut, and actually learned about MGM a while before I learned about FGM. And so, I guess I focus more on stopping MGM since it’s also somehow legal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/26 11:47 AM
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I have no foreskin (female), but I think circumcision is absolutely heinous considering the fact that the reasons baby boys die from it are either infections or lungs bursting from screaming in agony (when anesthesia isn’t used). I was only sexually harassed behind my back before, and no fellow survivor has ever minimised my experiences! Suffering is suffering, and why are we competing for most traumatised? For pity? What for, if not? You think 2026 would be advanced and progressed...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/26 05:35 AM
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Some “patriarchy“ this is if men keep dying like this, and in other brutal ways...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/26 07:33 PM
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This is all so sad. Would never, ever survive the gender swap. I wish well for all those poor gentlemen.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/26 05:02 PM
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Thank you so much for this! God truly is egalitarian, and it’s society that was misandrist/misogynist during Bible times, not He. And God puts up with all this crap because he respects the free will HE gave us in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/26 05:45 AM
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Sure, I mean, I’ve already posted something. I’m not a frequent poster, though I do comment a whole lot. I’ll try it out, but I do criticise a lot of feminist beliefs and am too scared to leave this sub, don’t want to risk bans and downvotes...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/26 05:34 AM
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Yeah, the cancelling out is really stupid... I guess it’s not misogyny if a woman does it!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 01:51 PM
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We either burn femicide laws to the ground OR we lump it with “genocide“ as a whole WITH androcide.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 01:44 PM
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Heck yes, this June, we really have to open our eyes to this. Many who get into violent crime highly likely didn’t have a good father figure, or not one at all
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 01:39 PM
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It’s assuming gender roles benefitted only men and harmed only women. Looking at it from a female perspective, as female, I feel like gender roles/rules/expectations have harmed more men and benefitted more women, to be honest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 02:09 AM
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It’s not like women are babies... Yet they are infantalised constantly...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/26 02:06 AM
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Ha, saw this earlier today in TheTinMen blog. This is why the guy is always arrested no matter what happened...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 04:40 PM
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Oh, lord, we could’ve had one since I shoved this in a feminist’s face after she downplayed forced to penetrate, but she didn’t read it because, I guess she was scared of the truth?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 04:35 PM
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I feel like changing old gendered rape laws to fully gender-neutral ones for male survivors is more progressive, if anything!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 01:53 PM
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I had to argue with a feminist why being forced to penetrate should count as rape ON THIS SUB. We were both women, and guess whose pointsn were backed up by multiple other MRA’s? I wouldn’t call that hostility toward women. I’d call that justifyingly upset that some people can’t strive for equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 01:48 PM
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This was the last straw. I had my doubts about feminism, but this took it all to the ground. I ain’t supporting THIS.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 01:44 PM
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Eh, it’s no biggie. I mean, this is my main sub anyway since I’m scared of other misandrist subs. I probably give too much praise since this is like my home sub 😅
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 01:43 PM
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Yo, I’m curious about this hateful MRA stuff. As hateful as Andrew Tate? Never experienced or even heard of it. Really, really upset about how damaging feminism is to men and boys? All the time, including me!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 01:40 PM
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Maybe r/egalitarianism? Egalitarianism is all about the equality of both men and women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 01:35 PM
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Exactly! Even men who suffer more are ignored at best and mocked at worst...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 04:33 AM
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Uh oh, “Men Drafted, Women Most Affected“ mindset again... I don’t get why feminists have to make it so that even male issues affect women most. Imagine we took women’s issues and focused them on men. If it don’t survive the gender swap, it don’t deserve to live.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 03:08 AM
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I think Obama said some thing(s) generalising about men that possibly turned a lot of men away from the Democratic party. That’s the basis of my knowledge, though; I don’t care too much about this stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 03:00 AM
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This space, in my eyes, is the best male advocacy space I’ve been in. My ideas aren’t seen as lesser and I am not being hated on just because I’m female. I’ve never seen or even heard of a hateful MRA, but that’s just me. We’ve got a lot of rules against generalising people and using ad hominems during arguments, so I’m sure you’ll like this space. Even if not, r/egalitarianism seems like another good sub to engage in!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 02:53 AM
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Oh gods, I heard of a baseball player who was falsely accused as well. I have low faith that he got his baseball career back. His life is ruined now...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 12:10 AM
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Eh, sure.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 10:03 PM
1

Sure, what about?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 09:28 PM
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That’s okay. I can do the providing and protecting of my friends. Too aroace to marry, so next closest thing is family and friends.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 06:58 PM
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Dang, I’m sorry, man. Hopefully things get better. Yeah, I hear DEI sucks these days with excluding men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 06:00 PM
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I don’t blame men for dropping out at all. I sort of have in a way. One friend I have hasn’t yet, and he’s been treated like crap. From being raped by a female cousin and abused by an ex, I can only wonder when he’ll check out as well...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 05:45 PM
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This is great and so very heart-wrenching. That 90% of refugees being women and children to gain sympathy was missing the very point you pointed out! A job well done, sir.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 04:31 PM
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Danggg, this is happening with me and my friend. He’s obviously smarter than me, gets more help than me, and engages in class more, but has a C in English, unlike me who sustains an A-
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/26 03:29 PM
1

True, but I’d also argue why gay men don’t focus on the female gaze is because they’re out for men in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 11:29 PM
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I think rape culture totally exists! As long as we’re either dismissing, minimising, and/or laughing at male survivors, we’re upholding rape culture. Rape is not defined as gender-neutral around the world yet. Female teachers sleep with male students. Circumcision kills legions of baby boys at worst and severely violates their bodily integrity at best. This is not rape culture as feminism defines it, but heck yeah, it’s still normalising/denying the victimisation of men and boys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 04:49 PM
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Ew, that’s just gross. This is probably why I’m aroace, romance and sex averse. Let gay people write gay romance, and lesbians write lesbian romance... This is worse. Now we have two men to sexualise for the female gaze, and those two men don’t even give a crap about the female gaze because they’re gay.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 02:30 PM
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The female gaze, here. Watch the end closely; it feels symbolic to how men are treated when they don’t meet those set expectations. Also, why are we forgetting that many men in romance novels were written by women for women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 02:11 PM
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Agreed, I just think we could at least have some human decency and count that as sexual violence at best...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 01:31 PM
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About 100 baby boys die from circumcision every year, if I’m not mistaken, and they ways in which they die are infections or screaming their lungs out because they’re not put under anasthesia so they feel everything. Is this what we’re supporting when we but those face creams?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 01:30 PM
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Exactly! What the heck is this society? Haven’t we learned that consent is gender-neutral yet?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 01:27 PM
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False accusations already suck to an unimaginable degree, but that on top of actually being the victim... No wonder the male suicide and death rate as a whole is so high. And what’s much, much worse is that few in power care to do anything about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 05:28 AM
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This is totally going to enable more female abusers and silence legions of male survivors. Sure, the guy may be larger, but it’s harder to control things being thrown at you. Size doesn’t matter there. Also, a smaller person with a weapon can totally leave a mark on an unarmed, bigger person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 04:53 AM
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Shot in the testicles???!!! I feel like that should count as sexual violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 04:18 AM
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I’m not surprised of a majority of men who have commited suicide were in an abusive relationship... If I’ve been bullied and wanted to die, I can only imagine these guys’ perspectives on their own worth after having it torn down constantly.
/r/Male_Studies02/06/26 02:56 AM
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To be fair, and with all due respect, I feel like if men should keep other men in check from being misogynist, women should keep other women from being misandrist. I am female, for reference
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 01:44 AM
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Actually, a whole lot, about 80-ish percent if I’m not mistaken, but the problem is that said care is not helpful, thus men dropping out of therapy and giving up. It’s so sad; really, we need to tailor mental health care to boys and men if we really want to help lower male death rates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 11:15 PM
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I have an issue with this study. It defines rape as, and I quote, “forced sexual intercourse, including both psychological coercion and physical force. Forced sexual intercourse means vaginal, anal, or oral penetration by the offender(s).“ That definition erases all male survivors who were forced to penetrate, which really should be counted as rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 11:00 PM
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If we cannot use stats, what else can we use to make a logical argument? I agree that stats are hard; I don’t like them very much as well, but I’m not sure if subjectives can be used any better than objectives. Even stats can get subjective, so what’s to say subjective subjectives are better?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 10:46 PM
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The scapegoat is so much of the scapegoat, that when they have issues, it’s also somehow their fault... Because they’re the scapegoat.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 09:50 PM
1

Yeah, the firstborn son thing is kind of a misconception... As is the “Mary of Magdala was a prostitute before following Jesus“ misconception. I don’t see anywhere of a mention of firstborn sons. It was firstborn in general. Maybe that’s in Sacred Tradition, but definitely nowhere I can see in Scripture... Correct me if I’m wrong, though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 09:28 PM
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It goes back to the fact that feminism is a gynocentric women’s movement, thus called feminism. Talking about men’s issues without blaming men or the patriarchy takes away from all the gynocentrics of that. And apparently, bringing up male issues “undermines women!“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 07:43 PM
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Actually, the Passover was the slaughter of all firstborns, not firstborn sons specifically. There’s no denying the misogyny in the Bible, but there’s no denying the misandry in it either. I made a post about it here in LWMA not too long ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 07:37 PM
1

I mean, I also received a couple ad hominems as well on a different post, and even the Odyssey, which is a myth, featured sexual coercion against Odysseus. My point was far from religion; it was violence against men and boys has been around for longer than anyone thinks or wants to admit with examples from the Bible, kind of to disprove the feminist argument that the Bible is inherently misogynistic because it was written by men. Yes, it was, and those men recorded the violence they saw their br…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 06:15 PM
3

Crazy business. Maybe I should vheck it out myself...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 05:33 PM
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Also, when it comes to DV in general, women are more likely to be killed, no denying that, but very likely out of homicide-suicide from the guy. Only about 6.5% women killed by DV homicide were victimised of violent abuse before the homicide.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 04:20 PM
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Dang! I acknowledge men’s mental health all the time, but I wish it was more front and centre so more people could acknowledge it with me... Everyone I’ve told doesn’t give two craps.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 03:42 PM
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Heck yeah, accountablility is an issue even with me. Like, I can’t receive criticism (based on how it’s posed is a big factor in my reaction) without getting defensive and pointing at them with the tu quoque fallacy. But by this point, I’ve been really weathered down so whenever I get criticised in a demeaning way, I shut off and stare at the person and let what they said go through one ear and out the other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 01:23 PM
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Crazy thing I saw on TheTinMen blog, if we added all different types of IPV-related deaths, men would be the primary victims bcause we added the “suicide“ category, in which many men in abusive relationships have at least attempted, especially if they are the victim. The only category women are most affected in is actual homicide. Men in IPV are more likely to die from all other categories such as law enforcement intervention and corollary deaths.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 12:37 PM
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Remember, boys, equality is oppression in the eyes of a narcissist. Those poor young men were destined to die for the country, nothing else... Why else have a draft?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 12:17 PM
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That’s crazy, man... Seems like a bunch of DARVO from OP, and you didn’t even mention gender which most likely indicates she wants you in trouble with the sub (most especially if you’ve posted or commented other things before that could’ve triggered “misogyny“).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 12:09 PM
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I think the best we have is Movember, and that’s not even in June...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 11:54 AM
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I received a few ad hominems which were only taken down by mods... And I was looking at a post yesterday titled, “What is logic behind saying men cannot live without women but women can?“. I hope they’re wrong about the reproduction thing...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 11:51 AM
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How I view misandry versus misogyny is this: Misogyny such as “women are weak” can easily be proven wrong. That’s the worst type of misogyny I’ve faced so far and I can prove it wrong. Misogyny is mostly about false assumptions. Misandry, on the other hand, is a bunch of crap expectations. Those, you can’t run away from as easily because expectations are probably more policed than mere assumptions. And I can think of many more misandry examples since I‘ve seen and heard of misandry much more oft…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 05:10 AM
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It’s the “women are wonderful” affect. I am female, and trust when I say it is an absolutely dangerous affect.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 05:02 AM
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The first released policy said that only hate speech against "minority groups" weren't allowed, meaning that hate speech against Christians, white people, men, and straight people were perfectly fine. I had this same problem with reporting hate against Catholicism! Someone was hating on me for my Catholic beliefs and calling Bible accounts a myth (in a belligerent manner) so I reported it to Reddit at least two times under “harassment.“ That person’s comment is still up, but I’m glad I could cha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 04:58 AM
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Anything to make anyone opposed to feminism look bad, possibly?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 04:07 AM
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Glad you pointed out a limitation to my argument! I could, however, point out the same thing to the verses that are seen as misogynistic, and even if the Bible was as made up as the Odyssey, both feature violence against males. Odysseus, in some versions, was raped by multiple female dieties such as Calypso and Circe... Since both were also written a long time ago, couldn’t we fairly argue that violence against men and boys was real because these accounts portray it? People write based off what …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 02:24 AM
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Actually, nations with female rulers were more likely to participate in war than nations with male rulers did.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 12:05 AM
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I can handle it, but NO ONE talks about fellow survivors that way without getting me upset. She could say anything abou me, but when she said MALE SURVIVORS, she really crossed a boundary…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 07:42 PM
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I respect your nuance and critical thinking skills, sir. I especially admired how you used male survivors of DV as an example. Just because one group is more violent doesn’t mean the other group’s violence can be excused. Most of the time in war, it takes two (or more!) to tango and there are most certainly going to be heinous crimes committed by people of each side. And using young men as human shields is just a bad way to go no matter which side anyone’s on. We respect and fight for the rights…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 07:29 PM
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And women say they carry men’s emotional labour. We really haven’t taken much thought of how often people add on to men’s issues by venting to them but not letting them vent themselves. I have seen this first hand with my father, who always had to comfort every women in the house (me included) but never opened up himself. I praise that man so highly for his emotional labour for us. I’m celebrating Father’s Day extra hard this June.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 05:54 PM
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I relate so much. After being told many times to suck it up with both mental AND physical issues, I’ve stopped telling anyone. If I can’t walk, okay, I still will because no one seems to care, and if they do, it all seems fake news to me. I’ve taken tests while concussed, and screwed them and my brain so bad, but it was the best I could do since I was seen as faking my injury by my family.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 05:50 PM
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*gulp* I’ll stay home (here), I guess...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 02:08 PM
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Yeah, we all have our own different battles, speaking of which, I have a lot of fearmongering to erase from my head...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 12:54 PM
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I refuse to go into any other subs because I will get downvoted to oblivion... Just like staying home where it is safe because you’ll have no idea who will attack
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 12:52 PM
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I guess it was just the inhumane nature of the joke last night... Even I didn’t expect my own sister to be that cruel. And her apology after I confronted her sounded so freaking hollow.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 12:51 PM
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Thanks for asking the question! I am very glad you asked for more insight. It’s so awesome you have great people in your life. If only more men and boys could experience the tranquility of your life!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 05:43 AM
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I had two misandrist classmates last year, and one claims that she knows men have feelings, but they really shouldn’t. She even said she laughed at a guy walking out of the bathroom crying. The other said something along the lines of “all men deserve to be in cages” or something. She even is a self-proclaimed misandrist. The guys in my class were brave enough to speak out about that. Good on them, but would that survive the gender swap??? Also, literally just now, my sister was on a tab with the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 05:21 AM
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Smart idea! Smarter than trusting any old translator! Serious topics deserve serious attention.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/26 02:23 AM
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Thanks for giving me a sub to avoid! I was thinking of posting my first post about misandry in the Bible in a different communit, and I guess that community will not be one of them. Shame, because the changemyview sub would’ve been excellent if it weren’t for so many misandrists there. Maybe I will one day, if my karma isn’t risked and I’m feeling audacious…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 10:33 PM
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Got this from DeepL translate. I don’t know Arabic at all, so I am not the best source. لا تقم بسحب القلفة عن هذا الطفل. لا تقم بختان هذا الطفل.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 10:29 PM
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I give my greatest accolades at your displays or respect. One “sir,“ “ma’am,“ or “madame“ can really make a conversation seem more mature. Keep it, sir/ma’am! 🫡 🫡 🫡
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 04:39 PM
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Thank you for your compliment. I am quite proud of myself as well for handling that well, which I most certainly couldn’t have done as easily if this was said in person. We should all be able to separate history from religion more often. Though they intertwine, as I believe the Holy Spirit did inspire humans to write these books of the Bible, there were most certainly people who don’t follow the same religion and see it from a different lens. Clearly, without the religious aspect, these accounts…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 04:10 PM
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If taken care of and nurtured, an infant can grow to be a great adult! Hopefully, I can say the same about research of female sex offenders.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 03:57 PM
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Yet another area in which women can play the victim. We talk so much about beauty standards, but have we really noticed the standards for men? My sister had been listening to some song recently, and as I really listened to the lyrics (unlike she does), I noticed that Superfruit’s “Guy.exe“ points out almost every single expectation people have for men pretty cleanly. I feel like the end of the music video is very symbolic to how men are treated when they fail to meet those expectations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 03:56 PM
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TheTinMen just posted about this type of thing! An actor for Wolverine would occasionally stop drinking water for three days, to the point he could freaking smell it nearby, just to lose water weight to have the ideal ripped body on set. Skin gets thinner when one doesn’t drink water, therefore showing more muscle, but three days, even twenty-four hours without water seems crazy dangerous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 03:18 PM
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I’m Catholic and I approve this message
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 03:13 PM
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This is a very interesting document, thank you, as I know some male survivors of female offenders. At least one guy took it seriously, so we’re getting somewhere?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 03:10 PM
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I found this incredibly interesting as well. I’ve been taught this stuff quite early in life but never, ever did it come across my mind as androcide or even violence against men and boys until earlier this very week. And I had known a lot of this information for years! Shows to us that violence against men and boys is dangerously overlooked, even it’s right in front of us (“no crap, Sherlock“ kind of information).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 02:52 PM
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“Masses of Baby Boys Slaughtered... Women Most Affected!“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 12:11 PM
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Very interesting post! I posted this, thinking about all the discourse around how the Bible was written by men, therefore misogynistic and “patriarchial.” Yes, the Bible was written by men, and those men knew how to include the violence their brothers were facing into their writing. A lot of us just don’t think about it and focus more on the misogyny in the Bible. I got really intrigued once I realised that there was much systematic misandry around back in even those days. I think it was the Hol…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 05:27 AM
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Even if they were myths, they are still accounts of violence against men and boys. These are old accounts, in fact, thus still proving that violence against men and boys has been around longer than people think or want to admit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 04:56 AM
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Haha, I stand (superiorly, LOL) correct on many levels. This sub is great.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 04:38 AM
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I have been picked! In the best way. I swear, this sub is awesome. My fuel for the day…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 03:31 AM
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I have seen a few pretty good, valid arguments from this sub, despite all the fallacies in those arguments. I revere this sub as a pretty intelligent sub, more intelligent than a lot of other online spaces I’ve been in, for the most part. I know we are all humans and make mistakes, and I am willing to give free credit to even myself (I’m surprised at that) for witty claims and arguments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 03:30 AM
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I do believe I still have a place in this sub since I am advocating for male rights. This is the purpose of this sub in the first place, and I’ve heard of many criticisms of left-wing beliefs on this sub as well. The anger is not very called for, and despite our disagreement, I will continue to take part in this sub. I don’t want to be the kind to toot my own horn, but based on my upvotes and Reddit karma, I think I am valuable enough to this space to stay. Apologies for possibly commiting the t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 02:52 AM
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The definition of left-wing in this sub fits what I believe. From the mission statement directly, this is a left-winger. “Supports free speech (yes, this is a historically left-wing value that we’d like to bring back into vogue!) Defends civil liberties Seeks freedom of and from religion Critical of harsh criminal punishment Critical of capitalism, corporate power, and deregulation thereof Prefers public (state or community) ownership and/or regulation of economic resources Opposes imperialist w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 02:34 AM
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Enhance on this, please? I’m interested in your claim since I’m Catholic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 02:10 AM
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Yeah, but this was in a joking manner which was even funnier! Never been called a pick me as an insult before.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/26 02:08 AM
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LOL, that’s the first time I’ve ever been called a pick me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 08:07 PM
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Crazy business! That’s freaking androcide. Androcide’s been around for longer than many think. Longer than many feminists want admitted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 06:48 PM
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The problem I have with the original comment: “True feminists don’t think all women are good/innocent beings unable to uphold patriarchal norms,“ is that it is deploying the “no true Scotsman“ fallacy to keep feminism looking good. If they say they identify as it, they are what they said. All those women linked identified as feminists, did they not? They are still feminists and therefore should still be held accountable for whatever they did. It is on the individual always, however, that makes a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 02:25 PM
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All/most/90-ish % of rapists are men/men are rapists!!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 01:27 PM
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Does male survivors of sexual violence or domestic violence being ignored/mocked/ minimised look like patriarchy? What about that fact that men have a lower lifespan than women do, globally? Men are more likely to be victimised of almost every kind of violence. More of the homeless are men. More suicides are fully completed by men (though women attempt more). Don’t even get me asking what sort of patriarchy is this???
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 01:23 PM
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Yes, however, that is called “internalised misogyny.“ What about men being forced to be strong? “Internalised misand－“ No, no, it’s “toxic masculinity!“ This view paints women and girls as victims of the patriarchy while lumping even affected men and boys into the male oppressor group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 12:37 PM
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Remember, boys, to narcissists, true equality feels like oppression. This is probably why gender-neutral draft has not been established even in the US yet. And don’t even get me started on forced to penetrate. Since women perptrate that the most, it’s not very feminist of a country to count that as rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 12:05 PM
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Donna Hylton is literally the most evil feminist in my opinion. She freaking participated in the rape, torture, and murder of an eldery gay man. Like, wtf, is that empowering???!!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 12:01 PM
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Error. No true Scotsman fallacy detected. Try again. Reloading...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 11:58 AM
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This is sooome patriarchy... You think people would understand forced to penetrate by now, It’s the late 2020’s.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 11:57 AM
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Obviously the “women are wonderful“ affect. It must be bad if I, female, am irritated by it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 06:18 AM
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Women have also reinforced some “patriarchial” norms feminists say are toxic. Such norms that have been pushed on me by other women include “don’t open the door for your male partner, he’s the one who does it” “act like a lady, etc, type crap,” and the signature “I need a strong young man to help me lift [insert heavy item/s here]” from teachers. So wtf is this “patriarcy” when some women out there support it. And remember, the thing I have a serious issue with is whether patriarchy, matriarchy,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 06:16 AM
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I filled it in for you! I hope more male survivors of “violence against women and girls” are acknowledged more since they are victims of those types of violence at non-trivial rates. Also, I said that using terms like “toxic masculinity” and “patriarchy” lump males into an oppressor group, which can seriously affect they way men and boys view at themselves, others, and society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 05:56 AM
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That seems like a good idea! Post your findings when they're cmplete for us???
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 03:58 AM
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I’m female and I don’t blame you! I think it’s not a good idea if a mass of one group avoids the other, as men and women need to work together to maintain good population, but if you as an individual man are 4b’ing women, I can see why I would 4b other women as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 11:33 PM
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I’ve heard of many more men who transitioned to women than women who transitioned to men. Some days, even I wish I were male, but once I really start thinking about it, I am much more privilaged than I think. For example, people care much more about if I could possibly be victimised as a female than if I was already victimised but male. I loathe fearmongering and am still trying to wash all the irrational parts away, but when I turn a few more brain cells on, I realise it’s far better than alrea…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 11:06 PM
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Dang, that means you’re on their radar, despite being of the youngest possible conscription age. In my opinion, twenty-five is still pretty young. Good luck, man, and though you can’t really run from them, I hope you still manage to stay safe no matter what happens.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 10:57 PM
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Awww, even if she is not a MRA, she surely seems like she’d be great for the MRA community!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 10:05 PM
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So a false allegation? Either way, it’s bad. Glad you’re still with your friend! You’re her boyfriend now? According to what I’m hearing, she’s a good partner and will be a good wife.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 09:11 PM
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I’m in America, and I’m so freaking angry that I must drive down to another state just to volunteer at a men’s shelter!!! Like dang, if a shelter was closer, even one city away is cool, I’d be down there every weekend checking on my brothers. But another state??? The closest thing I have is in MenHealing in Utah, and even if I volunteer at their retreats or something, I still have a very limited role. That’s undserstandable, but I kind of had more in mind that just that ... 💀 💀 💀
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 09:08 PM
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You’re welcome. The post about the boys in the Singapore education system that I read last night literally took a lot of my faith in humanity away. Equal punishment for all!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 08:26 PM
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She knew you were gaslit into intercourse??? Keep that woman; she’s a hundred percent a keeper. Stay friends with that one. Thank her for being there for you and understanding; that’s what I’d do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 08:24 PM
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Same with me, but I’m female losing my faith in humanity because my brothers aren’t being treated right. EVERY. FREAKING. DAY.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 08:20 PM
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Like the comment that said “women literally get killed for simply saying no. They’re getting stalked for simply existing” is especially triggering since I’m sure men ain’t gonna hand over their wallets and get stalked and killed to be robbed from or something. And men and boys are more likely to be victimised of almost every type of violence. These people should grow up and quit the whining.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 06:41 PM
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This is so heartbreaking. I’ve had legions of male friends unable to report sexual assault, even if it was violent. I had to tell them to their faces that what happened was sexual assault/rape. We need to raise our boys better, acknowledging they’re children, not grown men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 03:25 PM
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Dammit. “Men’s Mental Health Declining; Women Most Affected.“ And it was literally a mental health sub! The comments I saw literally made it worse, probably. My hope in society is almost gone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 02:34 PM
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I wonder why the Singapore government forbids caning of females??? Singapore’s Criminal Procedure Code doesn’t state why, I don’t think. I’ve never heard of such a stupid law.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 02:28 PM
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I still don’t get why society treats men and boys like this. As if the other side didn’t also have problems they caused.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 02:26 PM
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I am a cis woman and I approve this message.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 05:05 AM
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That’s ironic how people say that since men and boys are also more likely to be victimised of almost every type of violence….
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 05:03 AM
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Boys as young as nine years old, are we kidding???!!! Why do women and girls get the exception, is worse! This LETHAL, SYSTEMATIC misandry is just dehumanising.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 04:53 AM
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Unfortunately I think men are disadvantaged at all levels, even in “violence against women and girls.“ BECAUSE it’s violence against women and girls, male survivors are much less likely to be helped, yet ASSISTED.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 12:49 AM
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Agreed. I just think women already have many protections (I feel it already though still a young woman). Men need protections like that as well. Like, who would majority believe: the male or female partner in an IPV case?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 12:44 AM
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I think rape kits are the best form of evidence. Witness testimony can get pretty “he said, she said, they said.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 12:41 AM
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You’re 1,000% right. I am egalitarian, though I focus much, much more on men’s rights since I know feminists deal with women’s rights already. We need an ANTHONY! B! SUSAN!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 12:33 AM
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Back to point two, I wish it weren't so tricky to find evidence... Other than witness testimony, camera recordings, and possibly rape kits, evidence is hard on those cases...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 12:32 AM
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If we learn about feminism in school, in the future, I’d love to hear about masculism(?) taught in schools! And especially all those brave individual men and boys who fought for their rights! We got Susan B. Anthony; time for an Anthony B. Susan.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 12:29 AM
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I actually have more insight on MGM with TheTinMen blog and his insights on circumcision. I don’t know much about FGM but I’m sure it’s just as heinous as MGM.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 12:25 AM
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Well, like me, he chooses a bear over any fellow human. Either love everyone equally or hate everyone equally...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 12:23 AM
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I personally loved the old series, despite its flaws. Watching that series really got me into male advocacy, alongside personal experiences. Second episode is coming out soon, but here’s the first! I was pretty hyped when I found out the new series would be indie animation instead of gacha. I’ll link the next episode as soon as I can!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 09:30 PM
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I think no country has achieved gender equality for men and boys until forcing them to penetrate is legally defined as rape. And also charged rightly so!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 07:04 PM
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There’d be more shelters for male survivors of DV/SA, and even the bare minimum: they’ll be taken seriously. On that same note, take every accusation seriously, but do not immediately believe the complainant. If it’s a false allegation, that guy’s life is ruined. Also, add a false accusers’ register and charges for false accusers that are similar to the sex offenders’ registry and charges. Misandry would be acknowledged and taken seriously. Possibly even labelled as sexism (if society’ll let us)…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 04:27 PM
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If a man dares lay a hand on a woman, he’s cancelled. If a woman (or anyone, even) dares lift a knee to a man’s no-no square, people laugh at his face distorting in pain. We can hit the male character all we want since y’know, he’s a man. Just like we can send young men, and even boys off to fight war. Just violent soldier war machines, that’s men to society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 04:14 PM
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How is FGM worse than MGM??? Genders only? That’s like saying starving affects one group more because they are that group. It’s like the “Men Conscripted to War: Women Most Affected” mentality. No, idiots, both groups are suffering!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 04:08 PM
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And said animals are still needed in society. Not many women do construction work, engineering, fighting for our country, first responding, etc. It’s mostly animals.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 03:55 PM
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Welcome back to “Would It Survive the Gender Swap.“ Today, we’ll consider whether men’s cologne made from FGM is acceptable. If not, why is this??? Circumcision is a heinous act of sexual violence toward a nonconsenting baby boy, which is already terrible enough. And now the foreskins are being used in women’s skin creams. No words could convey how appalled I am at this, despite having already heard about this via TheTinMen blog.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 04:39 AM
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Men are considered wolves (predators), but even wolves have hunting seasons. Male-hunting is all year round…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 03:38 AM
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Interesting, since I thought…patriarchy. It’s supposed to benefit men, not disadvantage them! /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 09:18 PM
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Sigh, men are just animals aren’t they… Not fellow humans needing support, just animals… 😔 😔 😔
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 08:46 PM
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I know! It was either that crazy kidnapper or the boy to die, and the cops chose to save the boy. Imagine letting a kidnapper get away with hurting an innocent young boy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 08:02 PM
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I hear nothing about Fleur grooming or manipulating Caleb… Lots of sources say she was supportive. Doesn’t change the age gap, but changes quite a bit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 06:10 PM
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I read a few articles, said Fleur was supportive of Caleb??? Even if that, the age gap gives suspicious vibes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 05:58 PM
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Thank you! Any noteworthy reliable ones that don’t cast Fleur as innocent?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 05:48 PM
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Oh my gosh, at least they handled things well in this case! The boy had to get stitches, though, most likely traumatised for life. Props to the police, and screw everyone who thinks they did the wrong thing!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 05:45 PM
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That poor man… I wonder if they have any kids? Also, where can I read more about it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 05:41 PM
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Welcome to the sub!!! I respect the accountability and willingness to research even if results don’t align with your view. Misandry and misogyny are both buns of a crap sandwich, or two sides of the same ugly coin. And it is cyclical. If we stop one, the other’s demise will almost surely follow.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/26 11:21 AM
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All for one and one for all!!! It’s either no forced conscription at all or everyone’s gotta be conscripted. Man, I really appreciated the fact that this post was posted on Memorial Day. Let us remember all the men (not just American men!) on the other side who were forcibly conscripted. There’s a good song by Kate Bush that conveys how forced conscription (or just war in general) affects soldiers. Have a great Memorial Day, to ALL, not just Americans!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 11:39 PM
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I do colour guard and once told a flautist that I like guys in colour guard. They’re confident in their masculinity, possibly not caring if anyone makes fun of them. She responded with “all colour guard boys are twinks“ which I could see from the bodily aspect, but it sounded pretty mocking to me. Gentlemen, do whatever the heck makes you happy, whether “girly“ or “manly.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 10:55 PM
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Hmmm, because masculinity is a thing so heavily policed that even if a guy displays emotion, he’s seen as less of a man/weak/etc. However, I’ve never seen or even heard of gays being excluded from male spaces. That seems quite extreme, especially since we can’t really judge a person’s orientation based on looks alone. A guy must tell us first that he’s gay; we can’t just assume and magically be right every time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 10:14 PM
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Exactly!!! For every misogynistic thing, there’s ALMOST always an equal and opposite misandristic thing! If there’s the sexualisation of females, then people assume it’s the fault of the patriarchy (males), therefore ALL men/boys are disgusting pigs who can’t keep their eyes and hands to themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 08:55 PM
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Y’know what’s THE worst? Saying misandry is acceptable, almost necessary, because of misogyny. I heard this somewhere else, but to quote that wise person, “fighting fire with fire will do more than just burn the house down.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 07:43 PM
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Preach, girl! I got another TheTinMen post about that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 05:55 PM
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It’s early 2010’s stats, so it’s probably not as relevant today. I edited my original comment to include it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 05:09 PM
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Trying to find it, would love to link it once I do!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 04:59 PM
2

You’re right. Thanks for the correction. It is many I’ve met, though, including me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 03:59 PM
2

Accountability! Seriously, women are on the struggle bus. Can’t take accountability, including me. I pray this changes soon and we all get served justice since a lot of evil teachers out there could still be raping schoolboys and getting away with it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 02:14 PM
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They don’t think it’s bad because they’re “punching up...“ And not many guys can speak out against it, yet he be called sensitive, weak, told to man up, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 01:55 PM
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May I generously contribute a TheTinMen blog link to your nice composition of already useful links?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 01:54 PM
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Man, I have a similar story. A guy friend of mine was casually describing how a close female cousin forced him to get intimate with her. It was so casually described that I thought it was consensual. I gingerly texted him a few days later to clear my confusion he said, mark these words, “no [not consensual] I already told you that, lol.” OH. MY. FREAKING. GODS. LOL???!!! I had to say it straight — “that’s freaking rape” — because I was enraged at how society conditioned him to not take it seriou…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 01:44 PM
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That’s the problem. They didn’t recognise that violently being shoved against a locker/wall and being threatened with rape MULTIPLE TIMES wasn’t assault. I had to tell the authorities on behalf of them when they really should’ve had the (female) privilage to recognise it for themselves and be believed if they ever disclosed. We fearmonger our girls of all the evils of men, which I’m trying to dispel the unrational parts, but we don’t think to give a little advice like, “hey, buddy, no one should…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 01:33 PM
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I wonder if conscripting men to war doesn’t freaking kill them... And I guess a baby boy DOESN’T die from circumcision about every three days... Oh, and all those male victims of either DV or SA DIDN’T hit the exit button on life, and neither did any other guy... Heck yeah, misandry kills. I think the tides have turned in this era. Misogyny has been irritating (trust, many misogynistic comments I’ve gotten were pretty easy to prove wrong), but misandry is literally killing men and boys as I type…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 01:25 PM
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I asked a male friend “woman or bear“ the other day and he said bear!!! Oh well, a bear never targeted his crotch during dodgeball games and suceeded the aim five times...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 01:18 PM
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Eh, I guess what I wanted to convey is a rational amount of awareness. Always be aware but not fearful, instead, ready to fight back or even fight for someone who’ll need help! You make great points about fear that helped me see my argument at a different angle.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 01:14 PM
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Ha, please, this is only a side of feminists’ demonisation of men. I’ve heard of men getting sued for “harassment/assault” or something else (usually for big buckos) for saving a woman (not from other men, from oncoming cars or even falling down a flight of stairs). No wonder passerby men are hesitant to step in… God forbid a freaking hero later getting a false rape allegation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 04:31 AM
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Men have more reason to be afraid of basically every violent crime (besides SA), yet feel significantly less fear because they are all rare events. Actually, studies show about half of IPV cases are bilateral, and about 70% of unilateral (about 30% of all IPV cases) IPV survivors/victims are male, so that adds up to more male survivors/victims of IPV if we add everything together. ~ 50% male survivors/victimsof bilateral IPV PLUS ~ 30% male survivors/victims of unilateral IPV EQUALS ~ 80% total …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 04:25 AM
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“A catcall is not a rape threat (though it is disgusting)“ Preach. I was literally threatened with rape behind my back, yet my male survivor friends somehow think that’s worse than themselves enduring repeat sexual assault??? I always question why our perpetrator threatening me (female) was somehow the breaking point of all the sexually violent acts he committed against countless male classmates… I guess if we fear being attacked (I’m short, afraid I won’t stand alive in a fight) the best we can…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 04:07 AM
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I salute all the effort put into this! I’m female; trust when I say “women are oppressed“ is freaking DARVO at it’s finest or it’s minimisation/denial of male suffering at best. For point 35, I have a guy friend who is TOTALLY smarter than me AND receives more help/feedback on his work than me but he still has a lower GPA. I’d say that’s unfair －nicest way to but it －and I am always struck by “survivor’s (achiever’s) guilt“ whenever we talk grades and GPA together. A lot of these points aren’t s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 11:04 PM
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I don’t get “no penis, no opinion“ on MRA spaces either, and I have great discussions about male rights with all sorts of people. Everyone’s just open and so far, even in disagreement, respect still holds and instead of stupid arguments, fact-based evidence is used to back up claims. LWMA is a really intelligent space; that’s for sure.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 10:12 PM
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I have no penis, therefore no foreskin, but I dare say: CIRCUMCISION IS JUST BARBARIC. Just having it described to me already gives me chills. A female friend and I were talking briefly about it, and we both agreed circumcision is a horrendous act of violence toward a non-consenting baby boy. She even knows about Metzitzah b’peh and agrees it’s heinous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 09:39 PM
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Exactly! Even little things are “misogynistic.“ People, grow up. I’m sure many feminists would freak out if more men called out true misandry (forced conscription) but will gladly call out “misogyny“ over things as little as a man opening a door for her (why can’t you take it to your mind that she can open it herself???).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 02:09 AM
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Ha! Like, I’m sure a female rapist is a victim of the patriarchy, and the poor male survivor/victim is just…disposable??? He liked it/asked for it because he had balls??? Didn’t count since he was aroused (erect)/not counted in legislative statue/male???
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 09:59 PM
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Yeah, no problem, I admire the respect! I cannot express enough gratitude for how respectful yet harshly truthful everyone on this sub is. Helps with the debate and keeps it mature and professional.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 09:58 PM
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Yes, and what the heck, “benevolent misogyny”? There’s always going to be a reason something’s “misogynistic.” That’s what I meant, even if it affects men, women always somehow make it about themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 09:54 PM
3

I guess the basis is murder is never the answer, and I’ve watched a video of an abortion before. Barbaric. If there’s life on the line, keep an effort to preserve both lives.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 09:50 PM
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Haha, everything is misogyny these days... Victim mentality. So, they are admitting women are not less dangerous than men? We need systems to acknowlege that even if no one admits anything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 09:01 PM
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Eh, I’m a pro-life female, but I actively engage in men’s issues and how to solve them, so applying “no uterus, no opinion“ would mean I have no say in men’s rights spaces since I guess “no balls, no opinion.“
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 08:58 PM
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Yeah, even “patriarchy“ has pampered women in some ways!!! Can’t complain unless you’re seriously ungrateful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 04:04 PM
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It’s never just one group, but a system of groups.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 01:53 PM
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Eh, I can see the pont, I guess. Like, women can’t be violent as men reinforcing the “women weak“ thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 01:52 PM
1

Talk about conflicting! 🤣 🤣 🤣 Patriarchy can only be defeated if you freaking stop imagining it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 11:47 AM
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Hmmm, because “misandry doesn’t exists/if it does, only hurts egos!“ I can name many more examples of systematic misandry, such as harsher punishmemt for a man who commited the same crime as a woman. AND WORSE! In IPV cases, the man’s more likely to get arrested. Thanks, Duluth Model! /s!!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 11:44 AM
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I think there was a quote I heard that went along the lines of, “Women are either empowered or they are victims. They just choose whichever benefits them in the moment.“ I never heard such gospel truth in only two sentences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 11:36 AM
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I think you can make one. I have a uterus (a cramping one right now, LOL) and I’ll allow you to make an opinion below. And after “no uterus, no opinion“ is used, feminists wonder why men won’t stand up for them anymore...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 11:32 AM
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Not all women choose to murder their own child in the womb, but if so, it’s ALWAYS a woman. Gosh, I loathe the “it’s all until none” thing. It’s so generalizing, and then feminists ask where have all the good men gone or they say chivalry is dead. Well, miss, YOU drove all the good men away with you generalisations, and they most likely had the most chivalry, so can’t complain…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 04:35 AM
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If we’re not voting on this matter and if the government doesn’t see this as a political issue, I wouldn’t call it political... All this “toxic masculinity“ rhetoric, I’d say, is most likely pushing men and boys AWAY from feminism as well as all other forms of blaming men as a group for societal issues. I feel like masculinity shouldn’t be viewed as toxic, as both misandry and misogyny stem from toxic HUMANITY; it’s just us humans being crap to each other. Men can be misandristic to each other a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 04:05 AM
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And since when do husbands trauma-dump that much to their wives??? Men are told NOT to open up. Just contradictory with what society has placed upon men’s already loaded shoulders. Hope things are better now, man!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 03:55 AM
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My mother told me to stop crying, then says it’s healthy to, and I’m female!!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 03:53 AM
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I’m talking about whether men should or should not have feelings/express them, which isn’t politics. Should they suck it up like a true “man“ or should they express them to “prevent toxic masculinity“???
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 03:51 AM
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Deleted old comment, commented same one again; hope it shows up!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 12:55 AM
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Heck yeah, female MRA’S are so cool! (Biased? I am one, LOL, and my menstrual cramps are currently killing me). On a more serious note, though, I respect how other female MRA’s reject toxic feminism when they are literally encouraged to follow it since they see a hidden issue. And unlike male feminists, I do not see other female MRA’s bashing their own gender to appease male MRA’s (something I need to work on). From what I’ve seen/heard, they really want equality/equity. Period. I hold my highes…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/26 12:54 AM
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Right! I was always told not to cry over “little things” and that if I ever complained, I was just playing the victim. This includes when I spoke out against my sexual harassment, the minimisation coming from none other than the ones who raised me to be an emotionless achievement machine anyway. Now they want me to open up more. What??? This is probably a tenth of the real male experience, as I’m female, so I can relate to the guys out there even if a bit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/26 11:13 PM
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BINGO! Even in my own house, my father has to carry all the emotional labour for the ladies of the house, including me, which guilts me very much. Props to my father, the best man in my life!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/26 11:07 PM
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Yup! Choose a side people…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/26 11:05 PM
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I’d bet when women do “emotional labour” for a guy, she just doesn’t want to listen and will instead tell him to suck it up and be a man. And if any guy opens up, that’s rare because society has conditioned men NOT TO. People say men must open up more, but once men do, they’re putting “emotional labour“ on the person they’re talking to???
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/26 08:45 PM
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Hot take: Husbands do a lot of the emotional labour for their wives now, and more, such as being constantly partner-shamed for “weaponised incompetence.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/26 08:36 PM
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Not my country, but a few of my states: men raped by women don’t get the right to be acknowledged as rape victims. That’s under a different statute.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/26 02:30 PM
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I’d like details! Good luck!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/26 07:31 PM
2

Only on Wattpad; I’m not going paper just yet
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/26 07:21 PM
1

I’ve tried advocating for men and boys in daily life, but guess who listens to me? So few people that no one has called me a pick-me (yet). I’ll keep up though, since someone should be bound to listen and care.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/26 05:01 PM
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TheTinMen post that I found that most likely supports my claims… What I’m trying to say is female perpetrators don’t gat as much backlash and punishment as do males who are just mooning over a girl with no harm intended.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/26 02:39 PM
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I wrote a novel. Very short, though, since it was a slice-of-his-life type book. His partner is physically abusive, but also very sexually abusive. I’ll share a link if demand is high.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/26 12:54 PM
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According to feminists, I guess; this is merely what I’ve observed. All men are evil and toxic and all women are angels. If women do wrong, the patriarchy made her do it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/26 12:15 PM
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I think I have much right to believe men are sexually judged much more brutally than women. If a man shows interest in a woman’s body, even if he has no malicious intent, he’s objectifying her. If a woman flat out rapes a man, or even a boy, she gave him a piece of “manhood” and he better feel lucky he was chosen. She did him a favour.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/26 10:11 PM
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Weaponised incompetence: Ask a woman to pay for the date, or at least her own meal. She’s fully competent, right? She doesn’t need a man to pay, open doors, walk street-side, offer her a jacket, or anything else for her. She’s independent. Mic drop. Emotional labour: Heard it myself, unfortunately have probably put some of my male friends in that position as well. My mom complains about work to my dad, and he’s just there listening. He does complain about work to her sometimes, but I hear my mot…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/26 10:07 PM
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Yeah, I’ve always known I wasn’t the worst. But I’ve heard of some of the worst which was enough to get me interested in male rights. I respect how inclusive this space is: not saying “all of group X“ with malicious intent, and welcoming unsterstanding people of said group X to this space because it really isn’t a primary group’s fault; it’s a system of groups and sometimes our own normalised fallacies, even.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/26 09:37 PM
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I almost became a feminist, never a misandrist feminist, but I still have guilt from making misandrist jokes of how I could “easily overpower a man with one lift of my knee.” True, but now, I would never think of hurting a gentleman (emphasis on the GENTLE). Never hit/strike a gentleman. And once I got to school, I felt much more accepted among the guys than the girls. Maybe it’s because I have more masculine interests, but it’s still something. That changed my perspective on things a whole lot …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/26 03:52 PM
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Ah, yes, I expected this comment, and I’m so glad I did! I’m just so angry at other women for crapping on me and men, and then getting away with their behaviour just because they’re “harmless, innocent women.” I could guarantee that if I were a man apologising on behalf of other men, feminists would EXPECT I do or else I’m lumped in with “all men” (even if I do apologise, all men means ALL men INCLUDING little boys to them)… Thanks for giving me a reason to be a MRA. I hold such deep-rooted resp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/26 10:01 PM
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I’m female, and from the start have been wary around feminism and feminists. First of all, if it’s really about equality/equity, why is it called FEMinism? Why not “Gender Equitism”? What it’s called is already giving a gynocentric vibe instead of a gender equality vibe. And all the misandry around it only dispels my remaining interest in the movement. If it’s all men ‘till none, it’s all women ‘till none. I’ve personally had such bad experiences with fellow women (and heard other men’s AND wome…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/26 04:22 PM
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Thank you! The difference I’m trying to point out is that I only got rape threats BEHIND MY BACK and spoke out, but all other male survivors I know have experienced CONTACT sexual assault at least and kept quiet. We need to help male survivors acknowledge/recognise their experiences AND help them be brave enough to speak out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/26 02:50 PM
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I don’t get what you mean, “probably SA against women should be played for laughs also”, but despite what you meant, sexual assault should NEVER be played for laughs AT ALL.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/26 11:42 PM
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Woah! Thanks so much for this! I’ve got a long story, but to keep it short, I know three male survivors (two of which had the same perpetrator as me). The two who had the same perpetrator as me only spoke out when I (a female survivor) spoke up for them first. Our perpetrator is gone, so good. The third was raped by a female close cousin and GROUNDED for three weeks when his parents found out. He didn’t want to tell them it was unconsensual (hmmm, I wonder why). I‘m not sure if this counts, but …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/26 11:37 PM
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Yeah, and I wish it were better handled! The US, and my state, is doing well, but in the UK, the perpetrator needs a penis to be charged with rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/26 07:19 PM
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Took time to reasearch, but according to RAINN, states such as South Dakota and Tennessee require the perpetrator to do the penetrating. What I mean by gender neutral is basically charging a female who forces a male to penetrate her with rape. Because I believe ANY forced intercourse should count as rape. Personal opinion here, only a survivor of sexual harassment so I don’t have much of an opinion on this matter. But I do know a guy who was forced to have intercourse with a female “friend.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/26 07:17 PM
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Like pick-me’s. ”I’m not like the other guys!”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 07:30 PM
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I’m on the struggle bus, mate… I have read so many LWMA posts and have seen bros struggle in everyday life that I’m fighting every last nerve not to claim misogyny for myself. And I’m female
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 07:25 PM
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PURELY gender-neutral SA/DV/rape statues federally enforced!!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 07:20 PM
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