Intelligent-Can-4480 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Life’s a Struggle		Intelligent-Can-4480	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 07:31 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Life’s a Struggle I appreciate that, I have two dogs. She has 3 kids which became a part of me which also makes it hard. But you’re right no one should ever rescue me. I’m sure if I had a dad in my life to show me that I would have learned. Now winging it. Thanks for the advice	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 07:49 PM
1	Life’s a Struggle Okay thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 07:04 PM
1	Life’s a Struggle Yeah man I’ve grown a lot the last two years self reflecting. I know I fucked up. I should have never stayed with someone who was cheating on me and believe she could change. And then I jumped into this because I felt like I was losing time. I feel I’ve grown and would never choose either of these women at this point. I just been trying to make it work because I didn’t believe in divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 03:57 PM
2	Life’s a Struggle Thanks man I appreciate the insight	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 03:49 PM
2	Life’s a Struggle I feel ya man, I feel like I’ll be the same way and this sounds so much like her. Better things to come 🙏	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 03:40 PM
1	Life’s a Struggle Yeah second guessing is rough. Mine plays games all the time. Do y’all have a relationship with her now at all, and with the kids?	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 03:33 PM
2	Life’s a Struggle Nah we been married 4 years. We just were only engaged 3 months. And yes, not healthy at all, I’m working on getting out now.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 03:32 PM
3	Life’s a Struggle You’re right. I was alone my whole upbringing so I’ve latched on to anything. I acknowledge that, and know it’s time for me to move on and just be independent.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 03:17 PM
1	I want a divorce and don't know how to leave. I feel you on this. In SAME exact boat man. It sucks and fuckin women are manipulating af.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 03:15 PM
3	Life’s a Struggle I definitely have a lot of childhood trauma and my father wasn’t in my life. And I was cheated on in my first engagement and rebounded big time. She was just feeding me bull shit to get me hooked then once she had me she changed. I understand I moved too fast and I need to be alone and on my own. But the trauma is a lot to work through. I’ve been dealing with this for 4 years. And I appreciate the advice. I’ve been in and out of counseling for years. Doesn’t make a difference once she instigates…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/23 03:14 PM