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That's true tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:20 PM
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Settling has a negative "connotation". That's what creates the uproar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:58 PM
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I agree with bro. I don't like Rubiales and I don't care one second about Spanish football. But this whole thing explain why many many many men will never watch women's football. Like they can't even celebrate a trophy in silence. Shit gotta turn into some witch hunt. Rapinoe did the same shit 4 years ago with the male-female salary. As soon they won, they start protesting asking why they don't receive the same amount as their male counterparts. Like cm'on now. Even wins of major tournaments are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:56 PM
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It sounds unhinged but...I agree with him. I prefer a Adrianna Chechik/Bonnie Rotten type of girl than a girl I have to work hard to make her cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:51 PM
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. it should be fun! you’re having sex after all 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:48 PM
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Do you think the right-wing and anti-immigration people will be in favor of immigration if governments practice "sexual immigration" ? Like you give priority only to women(generally between 23-28) and you create clear a pathway for them to get the citizenship in a short timespan. Like Mariage or having children by a local ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:05 AM
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dont need an extinction, the moment the infrastructure starts going down, trades guys that maintain/upkeep it will become the sexiest men alive Yeah, true. I didn't think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:51 AM
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You have received the "approval" by the community so she can trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:46 AM
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OP's post makes me realize something: How governments or society will treat women if there is a possible extinction of the human race upcoming ? Like women love to say that they don't owe anything to society when people bring up the sexlessness of men. But is this argument going to hold weight if society is going toward a possible extinction ? But to answer the question, it doesn't really surprise me. I am 24 but hey, no woman ever give me the time of the day. Many other dudes are the same boat …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:44 AM
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I am going to be very honest. If I was handsome like crazy and women were thirsting over me, I will never be loyal. I will be smashing women left and right and will only bother with pretty women or women with an important physical attribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:08 PM
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Not at all. Not in the slighest. The same way you love tall men. It is the same way they love petite women. Women love standards until we have to apply it to them. That's why many women complain about Miss America, pageantry contests/ modelling constests when they don't fit in. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:40 PM
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💀😂😂😂 I love this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:36 PM
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Feel free to care. Don't call those they don't names. You're just a psycho, Is it bad that I predicted you will go straight to this accusation ? A NPC to be honest. one of these dudes who can't take no for an answer. I said that I don't approach women and don't go out of my way to socialize with them. Yet you end up still making such assumptions. Funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:19 PM
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Honestly ? I don't really feel any type of way about women stories about men. Like read OP's post for 2 seconds. Many men have internalized women saying shit about them. But they still either live their lives or simply don't interact with women. When you factor that into the equation, you realize that a woman explaining how many times a man assaulted her is a non-event for the vast majority of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:36 PM
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Not at all. But I am going to keep it at it and stop this useless convo. Godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:24 PM
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I don't. Actually look for my comment under OP's post. Or even my posts history. I am even annoyed when women feel entitled to men's personal space in real life( chatting with us for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:21 PM
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Of course you don't want to hear it. You are right. That's considerate of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:44 PM
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Exactly. Like I will see women out of nowhere trying to converse with me in the elevator. And I am like :" is she talking to me, really ?" I ended up not answering and putting my earbuds to avoid the convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:44 PM
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Lol. Ok if you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:41 PM
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Actually I like this post, OP. I think you put words on things I was seeing but couldn't phrase it myself. Honestly that's the word: Women want men to self-shame themselves and only men they want to approach them. And because rules are non-existent(you said not clear but I prefer non-existent) for them, thus we are in this situation. Personally, I don't approach women either. I think women group chats, how society thinks "men bad women good" no matter the situation and all these stuffs make wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:39 PM
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Absolutely not. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:25 PM
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None. You can't be white and be an incel. That's an oxymoron. White incels are wanted by all races of women. So if you can even land one, just KYS.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 12:01 AM
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And just like that the whole "mEn HaVe A hErO iNsTiNcT Lol. I think the opposite. My self-preservation will always be more important than any women's life. Don't ever call yourself an Alpha, yeah? I never called myself like that. And I won't.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:28 AM
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Lol. Read the comments. You will be surprised.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 03:13 PM
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Oh trust me man, many persons actually piss me off by just thinking about them.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 03:01 PM
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Bro I am not a teen. I am 24. I don't live with my parents. I am living abroad. I won't re-grow ish with them.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 03:00 PM
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No ???
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:33 PM
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Your Second comment btw.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:25 PM
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I don't live with her. I am literally in another country and I support myself ?
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:24 PM
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Yes and yes. At the time I was not shy and had no problem chatting up strangers and enjoyed things like dnd, going out drinking, anime cons, playing video games etc Lol. Let's be it then. Yes and yes. I’ve even offered and been turned down, multiple times in fact lol. I am not shy again and enjoy sex/feeling sexy quite a bit so those times did not feel good but it happens I guess Seriously ? Even for sex ? Are you a real human being ? I don’t really have a type? I like all kinds of men though I …
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:16 PM
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I understand men risking their lives for women of their families. Maybe let's extend it to female friends. But risking your life for a random woman is dumb. Women are not entitled to men's protection. This is one of the numerous thing society allowed in this one-sided dynamics. Men's sacrifices are mandatory, women's sacrifices are optional and depending on their will. I won't help women my family because none of them matters to me. I don't feel love for them. The only exception being my materna…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:01 PM
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That's false. Straight up lie. I think you are a man larping as a woman. Ok I will take the bait. What do you mean by very outgoing ? Like chatting a lot with strangers, socialize a lot ? What do you mean by openly sexual ? Like you will come to a man and talk about having sex with him ? Also what type of men were you looking for ? Shooting out of "your league" if you see what I mean ? Also were you giving a shot to all men ? Height, weight, behaviors etc. Like let's say I come to you. I am blac…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:49 PM
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Female incel don't exist.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:41 PM
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I hate all human beings honestly. Concerning my parents ? I hate them both honestly.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:48 PM
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That's the whole point of periods ? Or it is more ? Anyway I don't care to be correct or not.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:47 PM
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Same.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:44 PM
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Lol. Ok.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:44 PM
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Because I don't care about them.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 12:43 PM
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I agree lol. That's highly hypothetical but yeah it still makes me mad.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:34 AM
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Wouldn't bother helping any of them.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:29 AM
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Exactly
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:24 AM
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Yeah I know it was example. Was just using it to explain my personal case. I literally can't see any happiness in these kind of relationships. But to each their own I suppose.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:51 AM
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I used OF once. Because I actually tought you could link up with the "content creator" and have sex with her. Learn it wasn't the case. Cancel my sub, deleted my debit card and never went on this website again. Being deprived to the point of being sent paid shoutouts hide something deeper. Being in a relationship with a woman won't even heal that.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:39 AM
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It is down to dignity then. Better to be lonely than sharing your "SO" with other men.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:23 AM
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So if I understand well, you think men who crave emotional and sincere intimacy with a woman want to share her with other men ? I don't like women outside of sex but even me finds this statement problematic. Women may maybe befriend blackpillers. Actually try to show her that NAWALT( I personally believe that all women are shallow and not worth anything.) But date 2-3 at once. Also did you factor how a man who never got any luck with women will react if he finds the only woman who can help him i…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:16 AM
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Would be surprised. You are a woman ?
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:33 AM
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Women aren't real.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:32 AM
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Yeah, I doubt myself that there will be any women on here. No pushback nor reporting. I don't complain tho.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:16 AM
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Don't worry. I also read posts where people were doing things way more disturbing than me.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 02:47 AM
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You are the moron here. I asked in what parts of modern western culture someone can get away with hating on women ? If right now, someone comes up and say:" I hate women", you think he will calmly go home ? Without any issue ? Of course no ! So therefore, what misoginy women talk about everyday ?
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 02:29 AM
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misogyny is very real, Please how ?
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 12:42 AM
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As I said, do you mate.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 10:36 PM
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English is not my native tongue. Thanks and godspeed.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 09:55 PM
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That's like saying as long you get a paycheck each 2 weeks, the frustration and the stress are worth it. Lol. But if it works for you, do you.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 08:49 PM
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I usually don't like ad hominem attack but I agree with you. Doesn't look like winning to me.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 08:34 PM
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That's gotta be bait.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 07:52 PM
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Maybe I am projecting but I won't mind dating a woman older than me if the intentions are reciprocal. But here a situation. Let's name 3 persons: Sarah, Michael, Eddie. Sarah and Eddie are the same age. They are both in their early 20's. Sarah never looked in Eddie's direction and see him as a "kid" because not "mature enough", not handsome enough, nothing attractive about him at least to her. Sarah on the other side humours Michael, 20-30 year older than her because he has all these qualities E…
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:45 PM
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Initially my point was not to discuss about an evolutionary discourse. But I will take the bait. What are superior or inferior genes ? Is it someone intelligent ? If then what are the guarantees the offspring will inherit the intelligence and high IQ of their father ? Is it Someone gifted an amazing body ? Once again what are the guarantees on this one ? Is it money ? The list is long, very long. Inferior genes is also from a standing point of view. Not trying to say that to sound edgy or play a…
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:30 PM
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Never said that. But men are more tolerant in terms of looks than women. Women are more shallow than men and it is not even close.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 05:46 PM
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You literally have no idea WTF you're talking about. We are consistently the most race-loyal demographic. False. Most black women, mainly Gen X and Gen Z want white men. But many end up settling for black women. As I said, you won't mind dating black men but that's not what you really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:30 PM
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You are saying that I don't see black women pairing up with white men. And I am literally implying that yes I see that a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:29 PM
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That's true. Some people dismiss it by saying in Africa surely black men must have the higher SMV. That's false. Many white dudes go to Africa and put Wilt Chamberlain numbers over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:28 PM
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??? Like gueninely read again what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:27 PM
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Recently saw a study saying that all women statistically prefer white men. There is what they want and what they settle for. Many wants to have a white partner but end up settling for their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:26 PM
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In terms of dating, I personally think black women should stop to lie to black men and be upfront about their real preference which are white men of course. Black women are OPEN to date black men. But we are not what they want. More like what they want if things go south for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:22 PM
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Everyday the same topic under new fancy names. Even as a mysoginistic and women h*ter, I start to be tired of the repetitivity. Women know that but they don't care and won't change because it suits them. And everyone know that what suits vagina owners is what society likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:12 PM
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If it makes you feel good, I don't joke with women at all wether in public settings or in private. One of the thing that never sits well with me is calling women:" sweetheart/ Darling/ Baby/Honey(hun')/Babe". I personally will never call a woman like that and I always cringe at men doing it. I simply don't believe in interactions and I see people as video games NPC or object: unless I really need them, I won't interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:09 PM
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Many men can only dream of making women wet. At least with androids, you know she wants to bang you everytime because she has been created for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:22 PM
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I think in this cas an android woman is good thing if you want a wife without their negative traits. I also think many women would benefit from it because only men they want will be on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:18 PM
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I mean I was not really talking from a women point of view. Women will still have many options even if tomorrow there are only 5 men in the whole word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:15 PM
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What will happen if men create their own "women" ? Like androids in Detroit become human for example, we have female-looking android. And many men, even the wealthy ones have some. No need to please anyone, she will accept whatever you are doing, no need to meet no standards etc. And she will actually have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:11 PM
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I doubt it. As I said earlier, when I said I don't want to put with women telling me their traumas, I got called names. And many men can relate to that. It is not an obligation but for some reason, women feel entitled to our empathy .And when we don't display it, we "h*te" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:53 AM
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Do you think most women when feeling down or depressed for an extended period would be satisfied with their man just saying "Uh...go to therapy." They won't like it actually. They will say men are heartless. But actually I agree with a man saying to women go to therapy if she feel depressed. Men shouldn't have to deal with emotional labour from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:50 AM
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This whole emotion thing doesn't make sense to me. Men complain about women not letting them being vulnerable but they have no obligations to do so. Men should just apply reciprocity. Plain and simple. I made posts about how I dislike my own sister calling me to rant. I remember once a girl opened up to me(I don't know if I made her feel safe. Which will never be my end goal around people, men or women) about the sexual harassment she suffered from one guy I knew at the time. I really regret unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:43 AM
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Personally, I don't really care if women trust me or not or feel unsafe around me. I don't feel safe around women either. At the same time, I just want women to complain directly to the men that hurt them. I don't like women that got assaulted by Chad or connor to come and put their anger on me. That's my only issue with their paranoia actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:09 PM
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Guess I am exagerating and fixating too much on the negative comments then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:51 AM
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Lot of people putting the blame on you and giving excuses for her. Women are really privileged, that's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:49 AM
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Women are not wired to feel sympathy and men shouldn't seek empathy from such creatures. Also patriarchy is the perfect excuse for all misandrists women. As soon that men complain, it is their fault because they "created patriarchy". Funnily enough these same women don't like accountability due to their own actions either(aka got f*cked and dumped by a guy they PICKED. But if you point it out, you are a monster) Actually you just reciprocate the energy, that's what I think. Women don't empathize…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:47 AM
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As a short man myself(5'6), I wouldn't date a tall woman. -wouldn't be able to handle the pressure and regards coming from such a "combination". There is also the "you don't deserve her" looks I wouldn't stand either so... -I really dislike the expression short kings. A woman calling me like that and I will cut my ties with her -There is also this weird fear I have that she could use her height to abuse me physically. So it is no for me. But I also think it is very unusual for tall women to even…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:53 PM
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Is it the continuation of the Keke Palmer discourse on here ? Please I left twitter because I don't want to have black / Nissan Altima Twitter typa of discussion here too. Boundaries are lines to not cross . If crossed, the person will put her/his whole relationship (friendship, SO, Tutoring, co-workers etc.) In jeapordy. If my friend says don't do X or I will stop being your friend, then I will weight if doing X is worth losing my friendship. If not, I won't. Preferences are literally what I or…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:55 PM
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Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:26 PM
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Are you a woman ? I am a man and my love language will be weird to describe. If I receive a sincere poem from a woman, I will be more happy than receiving any type of hugs. Another thing will be details for me. She knows I like X thing, so she buys one for me. This will be my love language. Now if it is on my end, like how I express it, it will be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:25 PM
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Yes I am. Maybe I am exagerating. But I just feel uneasy around a lot of women my age. I don't know if I am being awkward or if I am making her uncomfortable. Thanks for your kindness toward me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:41 AM
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Pretty much many times. Fellow classmates or girls with who I went to school and university with. Generally they are my age range( let's say 21-25. I am 24). I also have some type of social anxiety around women. Like if I heard voices of a group of person coming in a room and the voices sound like women, I will leave the room. If I see women or a group of women in front of a building I want to go in, I will either turn back, use another path or a backdoor to get in. I don't get this look from ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:31 AM
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The Twitter situation I cited above. A guy hitted on a girl, the girl faked being interested in him because she didn't know if he could take no as an answer to try to get out of there safely. Personally in real life I don't interact that much with women. They look at me as monster or call me creepy for just breathing in the same room as them(mind you, I never talk to them and I always mind my business).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:20 AM
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I was not thinking in terms of dating. I was thinking that even befriending a woman can be an issue . I am just being friendly but for her maybe I am "a danger". Regarding all of that, I think interacting with them lead nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:14 AM
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The more I realize it, men and women are not complements of each other and never have been. Yeah I agree. I agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:08 AM
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You said you were at a marriage(Sorry to hop into your conversation). And you hoped the receive the bouquet from the bride. Generally speaking, at least in my culture and those I know, women are the ones interested in these kind of things. I tought you were a man based on your previous comments. But now regarding this info, I think maybe you are a woman. Sorry for all this saying, yeah maybe I shouldn't have hoped in this convo. Forget about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:48 AM
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So here what I think. -I think eugenism is good. In my case, I inherited all the disgusting physical traits from my father. And I can actually see that in the mirror or when I take pictures. The older I become, the more I look like him(which is depressing to me honestly). Also my mother is not...anyway she is not some type of model if you see what I mean. People used to say "Hey X your mother is so pretty" And not only the person calling her are ugly by all the metrics in my mind but I never see…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:45 AM
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I saw your previous comments on this megathread. I tought you were a man ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:27 AM
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All subs where people post pics are filled of women with Onlyfans. Tired of that. I made a post about it because I want to know what's the point of OF if it is just speaking with women... There are literally women who will speak with me for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:23 AM
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Men of color. Non white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:07 PM
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I said it. I am a MOC and my height is 5'6. My weight is also 149 pound. Also it is not my "personality". Because personality would suggest that I can attract women but my attitude is off putting. Which is false because even if you pay a woman to look in my direction, she still won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:51 PM
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I am a MOC and my eight is 5'6. So the game is already over. Unless I enjoy women rejecting me. And high school girls treat me as a low subhuman. My most positive interactions with women so far: -My mother, my grandma, my great-grandma(peace on her soul) and my godmother. But family I guess. -It happens twice that a woman offered me a ride. First time it was during a cold night during the winter and a storm was expected in 2 hours. A kind woman saw me and offered me a ride. Whoever she is, I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:43 PM
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Because it was on my timeline unprovoked and it catches my attention
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:43 PM
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I agree with this part. That's why I shouldn't have it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:42 PM
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I saw a man getting killed in front of me in real life and didn't feel bad for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:03 PM
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Yeah. On the other side people in the comments are surprised that no men stepped up to stop him(because indeed the footage shows that both men and women were passing when he was killing her). I am surprised they are surprised because that's something even europeans/north americans do already when a crime is happening. Guess it was infuriating here because how violent the crime was.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:02 PM
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I don't think so. Maybe few "political agendas" but you can't defend that. I hope it wasn't an underage girl. Because it would make it worst than it is already.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:56 PM
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I just watched a video on Twitter and I feel numb to it. Apparently it was in India. A young girl got asked out by a guy and she refuses. And the guy savagely k!lled her. And when I say savagely, savagely is a complete understatement. Stabbed her 40 times with a knife a and smashes her dead body with stones( He even throw away a huge stone on her dead face out of rage). He also cuts some parts of her body in his rage. I can't link it but it is the twitter account of South Asia Index. Yeah it sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:53 PM
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what a bizarre response That should be my line honestly. I am opening about a trauma that shapes my current personality and will forever dictates my interactions with women and your main issue is how to protect women reputation, not addressing the inhuman treatments they put me through.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:19 AM
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Do you say the same thing to women wronged by men. I just want to know how consistent you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:05 AM
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Lol. Please the next time someone is speaking of his past and your main problem with his story is how he can harm people, please stop conversing with him. I am not some type of i**** who is going into a rampage and sh0t everyone. But independently of your bad faith, yes I will get my revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:04 AM
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So nothing about the girls who treated me badly ? Because that's fault actually. But tbh I don't expect you to confront this part of the story. Anyway, yes I stand by what I said. I will what I can to get revenge on these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:53 AM
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So me talking about how I was wronged in a high school is a manifesto ? Apparently men discussing how their trauma shape them is a manifesto. A reductionist view tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:46 AM
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They just got played. Not only they are not nice as they think they are but it is a lie. Men adore nice women. It is the only consistent type of women a man will never turn down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:29 AM
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People underestimate how high school shape men's attitude toward men. I personally "don't want to grow up" in this matter. I won't forgive how I was treated like crap for years for the sake of potentially finding a "wife" and overlook how I was treated . That's why I completely condone and support men who are like me and get their revenge on women who ridiculed them back either by having sex and ghosting them, putting them through emotional stress, or harming them psychologically in a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:27 AM
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I agree. That's why I said it is a false equivalency. Mean women get line of men so imagine a woman who actually has a heart and can be kind. As you said, she will get a husband in 2 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:04 AM
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Nice girls exist tho. They make posts about how men like h*** and don't like women who like them back. But it is a false equivalency tbh. If a woman shows the slighest amount of kindness, a man will reciprocate because women being nice to men is rare and uncommon. On the other side, a man being nice to a woman is an instant turn off. Add to that how women are severe about beauty standards concerning men(aka if you are nice and ugly, she will be scared the hell out and ready to scream the moment …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:55 AM
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It is not suggested anywhere. All the pushback made by women in this comment section is "men do it too". I never said it is an issue exclusive to women. Both sexes do that. And I didn't invented anything. Actually I precised it in my first comment and all the other comments I made that I am speaking about how other men's experience(results of real life discussion, online group chat and social media). So yes, it is real not "invented".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:15 PM
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Yeah virgins should seek virgins. If they are both prude, it could give epic entertainment lol. Having a degree =/= intelligent. That's almost a fallacy. I personally don't think the woman I will be with will be uneducated. In the end, I navigate in academia and domains that require at least a bachelor. But as I said above, educated women themselves don't give chances to uneducated men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:32 AM
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Well, many men who slut shamed other women to me have also told me how they wished they were a woman and how much sex they'd have. 2 ex fuck buddies of mine would like to be (female) sugar babies (they didn't word it like that, but that was the gist of it). Another said if he were a woman he'd fuck 5 different guys a day and then ghost them till he was 30 and then he'd marry a crazy rich businessman (that one was funny cuz that guy was already the town bicycle even as a man and he did have an ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:20 AM
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I’m not really talking about your OP I mean to say the way it is often discussed on this sub Ok I see because that’s the nature of gender argument. It’s the same as when a woman is talking about her experiences with men being abusive and a guy says “whoa you know men get abused too,right?” Not usually constructive but it happens a lot. I won't take this road. I don't do "woe is me" when women tell their experiences. But it not exclusive to this subreddit tho. me personally? I never cared because…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:00 AM
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You didn't phrase it that way or say anything remotely similar, so how are readers supposed to magically infer that that's what you mean by "A woman who sleeps around a lot can carry STDs"? Because the topic is centered on how men see women ? So of course my answers will be like what you quoted. I don't even get this answer tbh. That's not what you said. This is what you said: "Men requiring sexual purity from women is a standard similar to women requiring men to be handsome." Which is arguably …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:34 AM
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I admit that this is difficult for me to judge. As a man, I have never suffered from a lack of female interest. Here we go. Either that or you were a woman. Because an average man who doesn't get the chance to have sex regularly would have written that. Otherwise, it doesn't make sense to me. If most men perceive it as having less casual sex than they would like, then they should, on the contrary, encourage women to want and have casual sex. Who else, are the mostly heterosexual women going to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:12 AM
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Then it is my turn to ask the questions: -When did I present it as "woman only" issue? Because I didn't say it once -Why all the pushback in all the comments answering me is just "men do it too" ? -Finally(and the most important one) what is with women not wanting men to have "sexual purity" as a dating standard ? Guenine questions btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:04 AM
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The only part you agree with me is the part where I say things a woman wants to hear. Interesting how it works. Most people who sleep around consciously (that is, not to get in a relationship but because they're after the sex itself) are very meticulous with protection and usually get tested regularly. A woman who's slept with 5 guys who she wanted a relationship with/she was in a relationship with, is more likely to have skipped protection and less likely to get tested than a woman who's slept …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:59 AM
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So can a man. People of any gender that sleep around, have unsafe sex, and don't get tested regularly are disgusting and could be passing their STDs onto people. I said earlier it is not "women/men do it too" contest. Because clearly both sexes can catch STDs. It's not an either-or decision. As a low-n-count woman, my type is handsome guys that aren't "community dick". Many of my friends are the same, as guys who've only been intimate with their long-term exes or have high standards for what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:50 AM
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Thankfully it is not my goal to have sex with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:43 AM
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That's literally the point of being marked by your ex ? Could literally have other partners that are better than him but you end up breaking up with them because your ex is the only one you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:38 AM
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So because you can't relate, it is untrue ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:35 AM
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But if a mindset exalts women's sexual purity while simultaneously shaming men for their sexual purity and encouraging their sexual conquests, it pits women against men. And it hurts both women and men. Because men are also human, they have empathy, and if they believe that with their sexual achievements they are actually harming the women with whom they had intimate contact, then they cannot see themselves as good beings from a sexual point of view, but believe that they are predators and every…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:23 AM
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I don't understand. Everything we do is a confirmation bias. Even what you are doing right now. (I believe in X thing. I will look out for things confirming this thing, 2-3 things going my way and boom it becomes a truth no one can ever convince otherwise anymore). But how can you use confirmation bias to dismiss truths. Because even confirmations bias have truth to an extend. So what's your point ? Again I am asking. I am not even talking about me or my personal feelings in this discussion but …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:58 AM
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Glad you find someone who seems to make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:46 AM
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Far from what I said. I based my reasonning on something simple: experiences from multiple men I have either discuss with or read stories about . And when you notice a pattern, you try to understand why and that's what I did. Even if it is not a formal conducted research(I insist on this one), at least we can consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:44 AM
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This is pseudoscience. And it still plays a big role in the discussion. So dismissing as pseudoscience doesn't help. Women don't necessarily bleed their first time having sex. Read up on how hymens work. Didn't know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:35 AM
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From my p.o.v is not even about measuring up to another man. It is more about how this man already got this woman "in chokehold". I don't know if you see these kind of posts, but regularly women would post on social media and say how great their husband or current bf is but this particular ex was special. So they got into this position about how on the paper the man they have is almost flawless but this or these exes marked her so deeply that any other men could divide the world in 2 and it won'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:33 AM
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It is highly possible that people that will respond to this comment(OP and other members of this sub) won't get my replies before hours because it is exactly 1:54 AM when I am seeing this post. Sexual purity in itself is good. A woman who sleeps around a lot can carry STDs. Another simple reason is women that are sexually "marked" by their exes or some of them. In other words, one or more of her exes "f***** her so good" that now she can't have any relationship with a man without thinking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:17 AM
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No need to be. You treat me normally. You are different from them. And so are many other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:58 AM
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I am used to women acting weirdly with me even when I don't even know them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:18 AM
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Your definition of romantic is probably off. Most women can't get romantic relationships with men because they see their beauty/sexual utility first and their personhood second I disagree. Women don't love men that love them. These second guessing toughts only appear when you love: -Men all other women want -the wrong type of men -Men you drool over but recirpocate very little the feeling. It is actually in this very same sub women(and it is even a growing trend on social media) that women said …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:06 AM
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In a society where sex work is not about "answering to the demands/needs of sexually starved men "( which you know is the base of providing a service ) but is about "sex worker should only entertain Chad and have the utmost right on everything pertaining to sex"(which is, spoiler alert, maintaining the status quo). Then no, I am not interested sex workers. If sex work is regulated, sex worker don't have the "right" to refuse clients except on concrete criteria( sexual disease, violent conduct, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:55 AM
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It won't make sense for her to think that because she is the one who engage in a discussion with me meanwhile I was holding the door and looking outside, waiting for my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:07 AM
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I personally don't know what creepy means to be honest. I said it earlier in the comment section but I come from a french background and in french there is no clear definition for it. It will be the word "effrayant" but this word is already the equivalent of scary or threatening even terrifying. So what creepy means. For example I got a weird girl calling me creepy once. Why because I was holding the door for my friend while he was outside parking his bike. And I see women use this word a lot fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:44 AM
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I am surprised by your answer. Not because it is false ( you are indeed right) but it is rare that women admit some of them can hypocrites as way of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:34 AM
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Remind me of this guy who dresses as a woman for a social experiment on youtube and women were telling him he was pretty. They couldn't tell he was a man. Even his voice. And of course men try to hit on him. So yeah I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:46 AM
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I agree. I personally don't think a woman can't get a romantic relationship with a man. It is the easiest thing a woman can have. No matter how she looks, no matter the handicap, no matter her behavior. Many men standards are just "as long she breathes" and that's enough. This dynamic doesn't exist in reverse. Women are not forgiving on men looks for example. Women don't have the " as long he breathes" standard . Or not desperate for men to the point they will accept a short ugly man not showeri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:43 AM
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Surprised it is your answer. I read Radfem in your bio. I tought you won't even want a man looking in your direction. But yes, that's what women say. So complimenting a woman is not it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:56 PM
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Fairs. Then you are an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:52 PM
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So if a man comes compliment you ( respectfully), how will you react ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:50 PM
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I agree to disagree. I saw too many women saying that online for you to tell me that most don't say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:46 PM
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I don't get it. If what you said is true, then why women say they hate men complimenting them and don't want it ? I already know that women don't like to be complimented by men they find ugly or at the very least not attractive. Also don't use the:" They are complimenting them because they want to hit on them". Because even kind compliments without any second toughts get backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:42 PM
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I agree. I personally don't think all women are pretty. But that's what society tells us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:19 PM
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Personally they do what they want. My only issue is women who put make-up but have issue with ugly men "looksmaxxing". Example, I remember I read a whole article written by a woman about incels and how these guys were leaving Europe and Canada to undergo facial surgery to get a jawline or get thin nose. And these women were in the tone of the article insulting the surgeons for even accepting their requests because they find it unfair(How dare these men want to be handsome ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:07 PM
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Maybe I worded poorly but what I mean by "All women are pretty" is because X individual is a woman, she is automatically pretty. More like woman=pretty de facto.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:54 PM
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-Ugly women still get more attention than the average man -Ugly women are not real because "All women are pretty" and "Pussy is pussy". So in other words society manages to see value in women beyond their physical appearance. By the way I think there is more pressure on men to be handsome than women to be pretty. But that's a debate no one is ready for. -Yes basically any woman can get money from horniness of men. Basically all women. See, human relationships have a a funny characteristic: Men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:47 PM
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I didn't say that you said men are trash. It was an example actually. Doing the same with the other gender because that's my sexual orientation. Women like to use homesexuality as a gotcha when if anything if makes your point more weird to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:42 PM
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The tiring argument of women saying:" jusy fuck men". Do you say the same thing when women get emotional over men playing them ? Like: -men are trash -Just date women ! Do you say that to other women ? Or you just say that to men because except the men you value, anything else is disposable therefore not important ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:38 PM
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Why women have the right to only date handsome men and top 1% but I have to go for undesirable women ? Do you say the same thing to women who struggle to get into relationship or get married ? To lower their standards ? Also these same women you cited earlier, they still get lot of play, people dating them far and left. They are almost in a simulation where they can just go out and have plenty of sex in 2-3 minutes. Would love this privilege where all women are free prostitutes where I don't eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:29 PM
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To be honest, I am not expecting anything from women and less women on this sub. Most of the time they are either in couple or they have options but just refuse to use them. Which is a huge privilege. People talk about men having privilege. But if men could get into relationship and exit them the same exact way women do, many problems would never exist in the first place. Care to address this part ? Honestly I would like to have these same priveleges as women. Not doing ish and still be able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:19 PM
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I am going to play a game. Let's assume you are right. Can we go to the root and say maybe these men don't want personal relationship because of rejection when they tried to get one. Earlier you were talking about ugly men. Ugly men try to meet people=> people reject them=> ugly men develop a social mutism => they try to meet people => get rejected => repeat process. To be honest, I am not expecting anything from women and less women on this sub. Most of the time they are either in couple or the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:11 PM
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This discussion is getting tiring now. Not interested in it anymore. Believe what you want. But at the same time, I guess that's one of the numerous priveleges of being a woman. Everything dating related is already set-up and easy. Just exist and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:54 PM
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So your reality is my reality ? You are trying too bad to make me say:" most men in relationship are good people" and it simply doesn't match my reality. One thing I would like women to stop is not acknowledging others reality when theirs is different. Most men my age I know are not in relationship. Those who are don't have huge love for their girlfriend. I am not saying that as some kind of "Why is she dating him ? She should date me instead". But more like :" He put her through so much but yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:52 PM
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men in relationships must be assholes since they were picked A lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:26 PM
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So you say the same thing to women too when they complain about dating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:00 PM
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Your best answer this whole conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:53 PM
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I don't think you know what harassment is, because it's not avoided or sought after. It's any sexual attention despite not wanting it and telling someone to stop. That's it Ok You're telling me that every man you know in a relationship is an asshole? Meet new people. Once again, you are doing what I despite in this convo. Not acknowledging women pick bad men. And instead redirecting the fault on me or the men seeing it. So when women remark that almost all men display misogyny, consciously or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:53 PM
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I am not reading all of that. Take your nonsense and go somewhere else. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:41 PM
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What are you even talking about ? You are confused about my post. I said women pick bad men and are surprised when these men treat them like dirt. I don't know a single genuinely good man that is single and none of them see women or relationships as rewards for acting a certain way I don't know any women who have been victim of sexual harassment. All women I know can clearly spot a bad man and avoid these uncomfortable situations. Hope you see how it sound. So because something doesn't exist to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:39 PM
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And if you fuck pedos you aren't moral so you are either dumb or not honest when you write "Both moral and amoral women fuck these men to be honest." I am kind of fed up of women ignoring why men saying the things I said exist. Because it is a clear dismissal of women bad behavior or difference in their desires (I want X behavior but I date a man with Y behavior). And never I heard a woman say:" Nice guys are maybe existing because women are confusing". These discussion is tiring. No good faith …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:16 PM
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The topic is deciding that women pick assholes because he sees those traits and he mentions them from beginning to end in his post Yes. Women pick assholes. He is right. Those traits are not bad and do not define an asshole. I agree. His definition of nice is being respectful of boundaries, not vulgar, humble, mild mannered, and apparently quiet It is in theory the definition of an introverted man coming from certain type of families or culture. And I agree nothing about its inherent kindness. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:12 PM
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As I said it is just to make difference. I don't think these traits are bad (even if I will ditch in the minute a loud man or woman because I hate that). It was just to make clear differences based on observation. You just decided to pick on these differences and avoid the real topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:47 PM
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Are you going to keep misusing language? Would you like me to say you are correct and we'll stop? Not looking for you to validate me. I don't care about that. If a man say: "I'm nice...", that's not ann experience, or an observation but an opinion - similar to ugly women saying they are hot. So please try to not bullshit for no reason. And fuck my beliefs So if someone is nice gueninely but it never paid off, for you it is an opinion. Not an hard fact. The principle of an observation is to see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:45 PM
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OP just used these traits to make a difference. I don't think he think these traits are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:30 PM
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Downvoting me(I didn't say it is you) when what I said is the truth is a strange copium. Who Men is treating Are treating who Women like what Like sub-humans, like lowlives, like crap, without any consideration How Really ? What you mean how ? So men who get women pregnant and dump them for example ? Men who belittle their wives 24/7 and destroy their self-esteem etc.Like come on. I literally have 100 examples in head. Did I really need to explain it ????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:28 PM
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Extroverted, confident, or loud people are not assholes by default It has nothing to do with what I said. But if anything it is more protection your original fallacy to be honest. Being an asshole is not about being extroverted or confident. more shy quiet people are not nice by default More protection of your fallacy. By the someone being nice is not necessarily nice. In fact you make two pictures in your head of precise men and you attribute them behaviors and start discussing about it from no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:24 PM
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Tiring or not, if all you have is men complaining about how nice they are and you taking their word for it then you have nothing. So we have to dismiss their experience and observations because it is irrelevant or more precisely, because it doesn't align with your beliefs ? See? :) What am I supposed to think, women go out with pedos? See? You throw words that are supposed to have gravitas without knowing what you are saying. This last part of your argument was besides the point of the discussio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:17 PM
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Bare minimum when many women get in relationship with men treating them like sub-humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:26 AM
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This post was the classical " assholes can be respectful too" and " nice guys are not actually nice" rethoric
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:24 AM
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This fallacy is tiring now. "If you call yourself nice, maybe you are not that nice". Please let's stop now. It is an easy fallacy to stay in your bubble of false convictions and not face the reality that women don't reward good morality as they claim but instead hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:09 AM
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Disagree. It looks more that guys here aren't very observant and would rather lunp women together than look at women at an individual. Also, guys here aren't willing to admit when they are the problem. Women should be seen as "individuals" but men are the problem. So predictable. They do. That’s bare minimum. If every female he knows wants an asshole, he has bad taste in women. Being nice is not the bare minimum. Women are not entitled to that. Wether you like it or not. And judging by how many …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:02 AM
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Women are seen as more valuable than men. As long you have a vagina, society looks at you differently. Women don't like when people point out the source of their privileges but they sure as hell want to keep these privileges. Men are seen as free and overabundant material. That's why people will never be interested in men's problems. Women are seen as rare and valuable. If something happen to them, we have to drop everything and run to help them. This society is sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:29 PM
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That's kind of bollocks. I am black but I don't get a play. Black, african to be more precise, 165 cm(5'5). I am not really fit but slightly overweight(1 or 2 kg more than the required weight for my height). I get nothing. Like nothing. Except being called nice. No compliments, no look in my direction, no girls giving me the time of the day. I groom, have a normal hygiene routine. My clothes are mostly hoodies(must have at least 30 something hoodies).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:10 AM
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