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| 9 | Need advice: I'm a great funny intelligent good-looking guy that is actually really great at having fun funny conversations with women - but I rarely think about asking them out and rarely when I do they lose interest. | Escalation & Calibration | Intelligent-Day-5954 | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 02:25 PM |
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| 1 | Average Girl - Wanting DatesInteresting, I always hated the chase personally - it's just a lot of getting ghosted and stood up and treated kind of rough. But maybe you could try a text like, "Hey where you been stranger?" A little playful, gives them an opening to talk with you. Or like "Hey longtime no talk. What's going on." | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 0 | Average Girl - Wanting DatesI think I know the answer, take the lead in planning the first date. Like hey I've got this thing, do you want to come with on Saturday? I've gotten women's numbers but when I try to follow up they always seem super vague, too busy, disinterested so I take that as they're not interested and stop texting and move on. As a guy if you come on too strong, like suggest an activity, they immediately cut you off over text despite saying they were interested in person. And you have to be ready to let go… | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Approached hot mom and daughterGood for you! I don't think it was cringe, sounds like you did a good job and they were both playing along with you, so you were able to communicate well. | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 10:21 PM |
| 6 | Approaching woman at the gymHow did that work? She was rude but your kept talking then tried to ask for her number? | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Turning Rejection into Resilience: How to Respond When Dating Feels PersonalI ask women out expecting to get rejected, and I'm very surprised when she says "Yes". But even then I expect it'll still not work out, so if it does it'll be a nice surprise (when it someday happens). | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 05:15 AM |
| 7 | Attraction KillersI was talking to a girl who seemed interested and I asked her out. But because she was working at the cafe and I know it can be uncomfortable to be hit on by a customer, I said we could meet up but "no pressure." She repeated the words back to me "No pressure" - like right away I could tell her interest just died right there. She never texted me back and soon started dating one of her coworkers instead. I think I fell into the "nice guy" trap - I usually don't care about rejections because I've … | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Woman willing to helpHey this is awesome, I actually just posted a question and if it's OK I'll comment it here as well: Need advice: I'm a great funny intelligent good-looking guy that is actually really great at having fun funny conversations with women - but I rarely think about asking them out and even when I do they lose interest. Like I might make a comment at the grocery store about something and get in a fun little conversation with a woman about our lives - and she's smiling and looking at me brightly. But … | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Need advice: I'm a great funny intelligent good-looking guy that is actually really great at having fun funny conversations with women - but I rarely think about asking them out and rarely when I do they lose interest.Honestly that's a great question and very hard to tell for a person like me. But there have been some clues where the woman I'm talking to at first is very excited and interested, but as she realizes I'm not interested, there's almost a sense of disappointment in them. Like had a girl (a coworker) trying to flirt, show me pictures of herself in a bikini - and when I didn't take the bait, she says I need more confidence, even jokes I might be gay. But from my perspective, she's trying to get my a… | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Need advice: I'm a great funny intelligent good-looking guy that is actually really great at having fun funny conversations with women - but I rarely think about asking them out and rarely when I do they lose interest."Yes when you're in the moment it's too hard to micromanage your game." Yes, that's such a great way to put it. When I'm in the moment, it's hard to shift those gears and say "hey this woman is interested and interesting, time to make a move." Because I'm just having a conversation about the weather or making a joke. I didn't talk to the person with the expectation of anything, so it's not even in my mind when they suddenly show interest. The other point you made about confusing charisma and gam… | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Need advice: I'm a great funny intelligent good-looking guy that is actually really great at having fun funny conversations with women - but I rarely think about asking them out and rarely when I do they lose interest.That's fair, and good advice. If I'm chatting with a woman and it's going very well - then I really like the simple line you gave to ask for her number. It just takes a second to shift mt brain. One second I'm talking to someone about the Olympics - the next second, she's giving me super flirty vibes, but I'm not picking it up or making moves because I'm not in the headspace. Like I didn't start talking to this person with the intention of asking her out, so I rarely think about doing it spontan… | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 02:41 PM |
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