It's hard to describe if you weren't here, and I wasn't that active either, mostly lurking. But her flair was love pill woman, and I don't think I've seen other love pill flairs around here.
It depends. I personally didn't have any symptom except this one, and I just wanted to understand it more. But I do love family and friends. And I didn't get diagnosed with anything.
I've got tested for ASPD and a bunch of other stuff, I tried the volcel life, and obviously I just waited as well. But nothing. Love, at least how I think of it, probably doesn't even exist. Maybe even my parents are faking it.
✅ Primary Archetype: “Hunter Chad” ✅ Hunter eyes ✅ Deep cheek hollows ✅ Sharp zygos and jaw ✅ Aggressive, predatory look ✅ Strong SMV signal (especially to women with dark triad bias) ✅ Secondary Archetype: “Med Chad” Mediterranean masculine: tan-able skin, strong bone structure, masculine philtrum/chin, good hair. ❇️ Bonus Alignment: “Dark Triad Archetype” Slightly intimidating, non-soft features. Eyes that look through people, not at them. You’d thrive in photos with neutral or negative expres…
6. Jawline & Chin Jawline: Very defined. Your gonial angle looks within the 110–120° ideal masculine range. Chin: Excellent projection, width, and alignment. No signs of recession or vertical elongation. I... didn't expect it to actually talk like this LMAO.
Assuming she stays healthy and doesn't have a condition, they will get a bit lower/higher with age, though probably still in the higher/lower ends of normal. I personally would love to see an RHR below 100 in a patient, but yeah I'm probably desensitized a bit. Still, if she doesn't have any other symptoms, I wouldn't get too concerned if it is constantly below 100. From what I read she actually seems almost too healthy, I remember she said she basically never gets headaches and doesn't get sick…
They're at the low/high ends of normal. They're going to get closer to the average as you age, so probably nothing concerning. But getting it checked out cannot hurt.
Dark hair, dark eyes, tan, basically what you can see from the avatar I made when I was drunk. Around 6'5'', 15%ish bodyfat because I don't like counting calories, but I do eat pretty well. I don't know, what other details do you want? 😂
Not that chronically online. Also, as I told you before, I sometimes lurk from my main so that I won't be able to comment and engage, therefore not wasting even more time.
I don't smoke a lot, I'm a social smoker, so I only smoke when other smokers are around, except if I am really stressed or feel like absolute shit. I did not keep track of that, somewhere in the high double digits or low triple digits. I had an ONS phase in my late teens, after that though it was mostly fwbs/no strings attached with some occasional ONS. I'll turn 26 in the summer. No, I don't go out every single weekend. But I also worked yesterday so I couldn't really. Somewhere in Europe.
My flair is mostly a joke. You know, just not doing all the things a 'Chad' is known for on this sub. Other than that, the simplest way to describe it would be 'live, and let live.' But the second part of this sometimes needs a bit more attention, I mean it is harder for some people to just 'live' so letting them live requires not just tolerance, but some more active help too.
When I was younger I only liked girls with full lips. But I swear it's the opposite now, everyone seems to have those fucking huge lips full of filler. And now I don't even like natural big lips that much, and the really small lips look better and better as the years go by, but they're also rare as fuck now.
Nah on Monday I went back to being a surgical resident. I don't usually do this. I usually go out once a week or every two weeks. But I just really needed this.
So this weekend: On Friday I went to the club. Got drunk before arriving and had to act sober to get in. Kind of blacked out. Left On Saturday, I went to the club. Drank a bit less. Kissed a girl. She was coming on really strong after that, but I stopped her. Drank some more. Left. On Sunday, I went to a friend's birthday party. Got drunk again, but at this point I wasn't enjoying it that much. So I smoked a lot and tried to join the conversation while trying to not fall asleep. Are you happy no…
I had the shittiest week in months, both at work and otherwise. At least I have the whole weekend off so I will be going to the club and getting drunk 3 times in a row.
Almost 90 days of being celibate so halfway through, and I was expecting a lot more. I will stick to it just to be able to say that I did it. But I am no longer expecting it to solve anything.
I don't love the gym although I have been going more often lately, before that I would go once or twice a week, now I do it at least 3 times. But I still enjoy running, swimming and body weight training a lot more. I liked my body even when I barely went to the gym and just focused on these.
Last week's daily average was 2 hours and 33 minutes. I don't scroll after I wake up, but I turn do not disturb off and then check if I have any texts or missed calls. A few hours before I fall asleep. Usually before showering. At work during a slow shift, sometimes on public transport. Other than that I either just chill and scroll at home doing nothing else or only use it to call or text someone, check the map and take photos.
I don't hate them with the same passion as you or this guy, but I am not a great fan either and don't really see the hype. There are so many better condiments and flavors out there.
Actually no! But I am still a resident, and it is bound to happen sooner or later in my specialty. I know that when it will happen, I will feel like shit...
Yes, I am single. The longest period is the past 9 years if we only count committed relationships (I had one girlfriend in high school.) The last 3 months if we don't count non-committal sexual relationships as single.
Probably 3, 2, 1. I am not saying her being attracted to my appearance does not matter, but other women were as well, and it doesn't exactly warm my heart that much, maybe it warms something else lol.
Did one of those 'dark triad' tests and apparently I am '17.17% Lighter than the average person.' Also got less than average on each scale. Sounds about right.
It's true. Some women tolerate asshole behavior from some men that they are already attracted to. But the reason they are attracted to them is most likely not the asshole behavior.
Tall, skinny or slim with some curves, not very big ones, small waist, long legs, dark hair. I usually also find women who don't match one of these traits attractive, for example if she is blonde or not that tall. But not a short blonde very curvy woman. I also don't like women who aren't at least slim or fit even if not skinny.
Tall, skinny or slim with some curves, not very big ones, small waist, long legs, dark hair. I usually also find women who don't match one of these traits attractive, for example if she is blonde or not that tall. But not a short blonde very curvy woman.
That I have slept with plenty of women on the first date, usually it wasn't even a date, but now I would probably wait at least a few weeks before sleeping with someone. And in this case it wouldn't be because I am not attracted to them, on the contrary.
“A woman who had sex with other guys quickly but makes you wait and jump through hoops first probably isn’t all that attracted to you. Screen for raw attraction.” What if it's a man?
So answer this question: there is a 16 year old guy who is handsome and hasn't been selected by anyone yet. What happens first, him being attractive or being selected by someone?
That's what I am saying, that the main reason women liked him is because he is attractive. And because of that some of the women overlook his more negative parts. But he isn't liked just because he is obnoxious or pre-selected.
What I am saying is that it is more likely that he was hit on by that girl because he was attractive (and that is also why others liked him), not because of his obnoxious behavior. Same thing when it comes to the whole preselection debacle. It's a correlation, not a causation.
What do you mean by attractive, only physical attraction? I wouldn't settle on the full package, but I would 'settle' on her not matching my exact type physically.
I don't think that is what I am missing. I don't want to brag so I am not going to list my attributes. But I had several women I was in casual relationships with want to make it more serious. And they were also very close to amazing. But I just wasn't feeling it emotionally so had to end it.
LMAO no, it has nothing to do with this sub. It's just a break for me from casual sex. I would still maybe be open to breaking it if I caught feelings and we dated for at least a month. I just want a more meaningful relationship, not a casual one. And I don't want my dick to guide me while trying to find it. I also don't think sexless dudes admire me, quite the opposite.
Would be weird to be critical once I also smoke. Although I try to limit it to when I am drinking. I am also in medicine, so yeah. But I see so many middle aged doctors who are always outside lighting up. So do as we say, not as we do I guess.
Made out with a girl last night in the club. We were outside and she asked for a lighter, then we talked a bit, otherwise I wouldn't have considered it. We also followed each other on Instagram, but I am not sure if I was really feeling it, so probably won't message her. At least I am still celibate.
What you are saying is more comparable to anti-vaxxers in countries where vaccines aren't mandatory. If you can do it, just do it, and stop complaining about it.
How do you know that? Then she would only sleep with him in a casual fling, not be in a committed relationship with him if she doesn't at all care about loyalty or his personality.
That doesn't matter, The woman with whom he is in a monogamous relationship in expects loyalty from him. Cheating on her is by definition tricking her and even worse than that.
Obviously a really beautiful woman (all done up) is still at least naturally pretty in PJs and no makeup. Otherwise we cannot call her beautiful. Other than that, it is not equivalent. I am not talking just about looks either. The Chad still needs charm, charisma, game and so on. As long as he is not fooling or tricking anyone on purpose, it is fair.
Maybe we can call him a player if by that you mean tricking people. But a man who is a drug dealer or a bank robber isn't a businessman just because he got money and is rich.
If a man needs to lie, cheat, manipulate to get laid then he is not a 'player' or 'chad' or 'fuckboy', it is like it didn't even happen. I don't care what anyone else says.
I am a food snob too, I don't see how that's fruity. But I also don't go to fast food places expecting Michelin star service. It's probably a neutral flag, but I would think she is a bit nitpicky for bringing up something like this.
1 is false because I don't just want any relationship. Also I don't see how 2 is an advantage, it can very easily lead to becoming bitter and disillusioned.
Well https://www.psypost.org/is-the-bad-boy-appeal-a-myth-study-investigates-dark-triad-attractiveness/#google_vignette 'For short-term relationships, and in contrast to the first study and some previous research, lower levels of Dark Triad traits were actually perceived as more attractive than medium or high levels.'
I've been lurking from my main, then created a new account to comment. My thing is probably being celibate after years of being the opposite of that, because I got tired of just casual relationships.
Girl next door vibe. If I saw her on the street and didn't know she was famous, sure I would think she is pretty, but I would also forget her the next day.
Q4M: do you enjoy going to bars/clubs for the music/drinks/dancing/socializing with your friends etc, not just to hit on women and try to have a hook up? I have always liked both, but now that I am celibate I still like going with my friend group, even if I don't go out of my way to flirt with women. But on this sub the consensus seems to be that this is not something most men enjoy.
What do you mean by strong and weak in this context? My parents' relationship is very egalitarian when it comes to family decisions. But yeah, he was both very present and very involved.
I'm still going strong with the whole celibacy thing. Not that it is very enjoyable, but also not as bad as I thought. But not life changing either, at least so far.
