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| 2 | How do you actually STFU??20 years together. Have high expectations and if they’re not met, my points stand. Yes we are human but over time we see patterns. We are not talking a bad day or one argument. I personally will not entertain being with someone who is not consistent. I have friends who have left because their partners have changed after kids and assumed their wife wouldn’t leave so decided to slack off. Guess what happens when they do leave? The woman gets her glow back, her life back, her free time back and she… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/26 05:18 AM |
| 2 | How do you actually STFU??It’s his fault he’s choosing not to step up and be the leader his family needs. When you have the dynamic of man who actually protects, provides and shares the mental load of raising a family, and who makes your life easier, you never have to mother, control or nag him because he is already going above and beyond. This is true whether or not a woman is a stay at home wife/mother. Many woman tell their partners where their needs are not being met for months or years before leaving, then the husba… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/26 04:26 AM |
| 4 | How do you actually STFU??So here’s the thing, men are very competent leaders, they prove this in the workplace. If he’s not stepping up at home, it’s because he doesn’t want to and knows you’ll pick up the slack. Don’t let him take advantage of your niceness by doing everything and passing it off as he’s tired or stressed from work or forgot. We are all tired and stressed during this season of life. Either divide and conquer as in you both have set things that need to be done each day and be accountable for yourself (he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/26 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Need advice - finance has given upWhen you truely have a masculine man, they naturally put you in your feminine energy where you feel safe to receive and be taken care of. This means you don’t need to play games or implement strategies, you naturally respect and show appreciation to them because your nervous system feels safe enough to allow them to take lead in the relationship. If you fall into controlling or mothering energies where he feels disrespected- it’s likely because this man doesn’t make you feel safe or you can’t fu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/26 02:31 AM |
| 10 | Is this a dealbreaker?It’s highly likely they had unprotected sex, she got pregnant and then he left her to deal with this herself. To make himself sound better to the new woman he’s running with she baby trapped me. Ask yourself, why would this woman baby trap him? What has he got that no one else does? Why would he want his child to grow up with a single mother? How seriously does he take contraception with you (note he could be taking this seriously because he messed up and got someone pregnant, not because he act… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/26 12:14 AM |
| 5 | What characteristics would I need to have in order to attract a PROVIDER?The right man will be so masculine that it will force you into your feminine energy. Once you see it and feel it, you can’t unsee it. If you aren’t healed or ready for that, it will trigger you. You need to actively be able to receive help and have the ability to ask for help which can be hard- especially for single moms who have had to do it all on their own. Men want to feel respected, needed and appreciated so they thrive on opportunities to show up. Even if you can do something yourself, let… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/26 05:42 AM |
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