IntelligentStart1052 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Men trying to make connections should stop caring about potentially offending women. What about the approach would suggest the guy lacks social connections? If the guy is attractive, does he also get rejected in the basis of “lack of social connections” by virtue of having approached?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 07:45 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You’re trying to weasel away. You implied that the redpill guys don’t have an objective view, they are just scarred from their abusive moms or sisters. Implying that “normal” men wouldn’t hold RP views, and that if RP guys with abusive moms do get dates, they’re bad dates and the guys “struggle to communicate.” And when called out on this, you backtrack and make the completely unfalsifiable statement “some men have negative views due to negative experiences.” Who can disagree with the latter? It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 07:50 PM
2	Question for those who are concerned about passport bro's leverage... I have been to China, Korea, Japan, Malaysia, and Thailand, for a combined 6 months or so between those countries. And I have friends who are born in those countries and they straight up tell me white guys do better. I also saw white guys doing better with my own eyes as I was traveling with white guys. The data also agrees with me that white men get more matches with Asian women than non-white men. You’re living in fantasy land, come back to reality please.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 03:51 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your comment is an insult. You started with “PPD women have toxic relationships with their parents, that explains a lot.” You didn’t caveat it by saying it wasn’t true of all men. And you clearly intended to dismiss the men’s viewpoint and argument as just the scars of abused children or something. If I said “ppd women are prudes cus they were all molested by their dads as children,” how is that anything but an offensive comment meant to pathologize the women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/23 03:46 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Everyone who disagrees with you is an incel basically?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 09:13 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Many of the men posting weren’t incels. A few guys were talking about how their parents said red pill talking points to their girlfriends etc. I am not an incel, I’ve had several girlfriends and dozens of hookups but the women in my family are total chad chasers. I have a cousin who went to Ivy League and is now unable to date a man who has less pedigree. She’s approaching mid 30s and frustrated. She asked me to introduce her to some of my friends and the guys she picked were literally giga-Chad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 05:11 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mentioned this in another comment but I like EDM raves, lifting weights, and video games. None of these are first date appropriate so I do coffee/bars/restaurants. I don’t understand this logic of inviting her to something you would be doing, like bowling. Do people bowl alone on Monday nights and then just invite people on dates to the bowling alley? I have never heard of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:35 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I try to be thoughtful and pick places geographically equidistant. I have 3-4 places in my neighborhood but she might live further out. Also most of the planning is around time. I say “let’s do Monday at 7” she says “I can’t do Monday” and then I have to re-investigate her availability, most women won’t just say when they’re free for some reason. I think it’s part of this TikTok meme where the guy needs to make all the reservations	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:32 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Drinks and coffee dates are pretty ordinary and those are my bread and butter. The dates are a performance in the sense that the woman ends up interviewing me. I’d be happy sitting there talking about pop culture or the weather, but inevitably she starts trying to check boxes. I mentioned the questions, “what are you looking for,” “what do you do to stay active,” “where do you work,” I can obviously answer those questions but it turns into an interview. I am pitching more coffee and hike dates b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:29 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I enjoy going to EDM concerts, playing my piano, and playing video games. These aren’t first date activities, so I can’t just do my hobbies and invite someone along. I spend energy planning the dates because someone has to figure out what day of the week works, what day works, whether we need tickets or a reservation, and 99% I am that person and not her	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:24 PM