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ConversationIntelligentUnion9322/r/seduction20/01/22 06:42 AM
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Late 20s/early 30s
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:25 PM
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That’s a good idea - he’s mentioned that he got it checked before, but didn’t say how long ago that was. Will suggest this again at a good time. Thank you!
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:46 PM
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Re: short-lived relationships, I kind of just chalked it up to being young and wanting to play the field, and the challenges from depression. I’ve tried to talk to him about seeing a psychologist, but it’s like trying to force together repelling magnets. Otherwise that would be a promising route… Ahah, I promise I’m not egregiously annoying - I don’t mean turned off as in “that’s unattractive”, but more like “aw I want to cuddle you, not make love to you”. Yeah, throwing myself at him abruptly d…
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:27 PM
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Ah, I should have clarified - he had a healthy sex drive in his previous relationships. Many of them were short-lived, and I’m aware of at least one instance where he had a one-sided polyamorous situation (he was seeing multiple girls (who knew about each other), but they were monogamous to him). He’s had a lot of experience sexually (in numbers and frequency), which is why I said his sex drive is higher than mine in general. Not having sex for 6 months has been really worrisome for me as well, …
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:46 PM
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I’m aware that all of this is just from my own POV, with my own biases and often we can’t see our own faults - so I’m just trying to have an open mind and see where I might need improvement too. Thank you so much for the luck! 🤍
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:20 PM
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Hello! Thank you for responding :) My partner has a pretty healthy sex drive (likely higher than mine). Mine is simply more pronounced now because I’m the sex-seeking partner in this dynamic. He enjoys sex, but doesn’t find it pleasurable with me - he doesn’t understand it all that well either but from what I understand, it’s a mix of emotional familiarity/lack of a seductive quality on my part. He often calls me “cute” - even when I’m trying to be sexy, it’s like that image for him is set, and …
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:12 PM
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Hi, thanks for dropping in with these really great suggestions! Massage: I’ve tried it and he doesn’t like it. It’s either too ticklish or painful. I’m pretty confident in my massage skills (exes/friends have requested them frequently) so it’s unlikely that I’m just doing it wrong, otherwise I would have brushed up and tried again. Racy pictures: Also tried, didn’t get much of a reaction. He said something like, “lol I’m at work”… and that was that. 😭 Dirty talk: I do need more practice here! I’…
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:27 PM
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Thank you! This is so encouraging, it means a lot. I appreciate this, and I appreciate you. ☺️
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:34 PM
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Hi Jacob! Thank you, I appreciate your viewpoint and can definitely see the logic in it. I have no doubt polyamory works well for many couples when both parties are agreed - however, I personally don’t want that for myself. If my partner slept with other women, it would be my interest (both emotional and sexual) going to the grave. Of course if that is what he needed and he told me this, I would earnestly wish him well and let him go - regardless of how much I love him, I wouldn’t be loving myse…
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:04 PM
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A part of me sometimes thinks that (that I’m the only one trying in regards to our sex life), but another part of me genuinely thinks he’s stumped and can’t put a finger on what is missing for him to feel aroused by me. From what I can gather from our conversations, he does find me attractive (or did at one point), but as we got closer emotionally and more comfortable with each other, he started losing sexual attraction. There are moments when he does find me attractive, but it’s not enticing en…
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:28 PM
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I haven’t tried bodystockings, but will definitely check them out~ Thank you as well for the other great ideas! 🤍 I def need more practice in the “teasing” and “tempting” areas.
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:40 AM
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Acting slutty is definitely something I will need to work on. Thank you for the suggestion!
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:13 AM
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Hi, thank you for stopping by to comment! Depression and stress definitely affect sex drive, however I know for a fact that my partner was quite a playboy/sexually adventurous before me, and he’s been on antidepressants for a long time - putting two and two together, I can’t help but think it’s me who still contributes to a considerable part of the problem. I’ve asked him to teach/guide me in the bedroom, suggest activities that he would like, make me aware of what turns him on/off - but he can’…
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:04 AM
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I would normally dress in lingerie with a silky robe over it and try to engage him by getting close, sitting on his lap, kissing him, keeping eye contact while touching his chest/arms while we talk - then I generally wait for him to make a move/show a positive reaction because sometimes he won’t want to take it further, in which case I’d back off. He definitely has an interest in sex (I won’t go into the details publicly for his privacy, but if it would help, I can discuss via pm if you don’t mi…
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:55 AM
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Thank you for your response! Granted it’s only my own subjective view, but I’ve always thought of myself as quite feminine - though I suppose there are different kinds, and I’d like to have more of a seductive femininity (vs the sweet and proper type, which I have). I know it’s going to take time to learn, practice, and internalize - but I’d at least like to find the proper tools to help me along. 😊
/r/seduction20/01/22 07:10 AM
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