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| 22 | Closing the deal over text is the hardest thing in existenceWhat's worked for me in the past has been "I'm a little busy today but I'll call you tonight". Talking on the phone is way better than texting. They get more of a sense of your personality and get more comfortable. This usually increases the chances of them wanting to hangout. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How to ask guy where he sees our relationship going?What was the talk of what you guys were looking for at the beginning? | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | She suddenly stopped responding . What should I do?Small talk is boring to women. They get asked all the same questions by many men. If you're going to text try sending something unique. After a couple of text I usually just call them just to get my point across quicker. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | I need your guys adviceSounds like you need time for yourself and heal. Definitely look into changing that shift on Wednesday for a couple of weeks. Don't text, snap and give her attention when you see her. What's done is done. Giver her space and let her reach out if she wants. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Girl ghosted me for 4 days after setting up second date, apologized after missing itIt's not that it's a no no but you're just showing her that you like her more than she likes you or you're more into her than she is you. I usually don't text so much but rather do a phone call so they get a sense of my personality. It makes them more comfortable for the next date. Texting can get boring and conversations die off or get dry. Then you get in this weird keeping the conversation going one worded responses. A balance with texting..If she's at work I wouldn't try to text. Feed off of… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:41 PM |
| 26 | Girl ghosted me for 4 days after setting up second date, apologized after missing itYou're overreacting bro. You've gotta let women breath and come to you sometimes. You've initiated most of the conversations and meetings. Kinda pressuring her and coming off as needy. A simple "Just reach out when you're free to get together. I've gotta run. Talk to you later." Works fine. Send it and forget it. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Should I be concerned with how she's replying?There's no concern but I'd just leave it alone. Next time ask when she's free to get together instead of asking her to come along. She probably wasn't feeling ramen lol | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | No bs, are my standards delusional?Definitely sounds like you're looking for someone that's super similar to you. Definitely figure out your deal breakers and what you can live with. Opposites definitely attract. But think about it as what can you both bring to the table to add value to one another. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | I’m 30 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, my face is very disproportionate and I’m on autism spectrum, could I realistically make myself attractive to women? (Pics included)Looks fade but being a good person and having love in your heart don't. Some women might think you're ugly but I'm sure there's plenty that will think you're attractive. Don't put yourself down. The gym is a great confidence booster. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Great Date, No Text Back (M)Not sure if me texting her that will make her think of me as less needy, probably would do the opposite. I’m definitely going to try to save this, but I’m hoping I just get a bite back so I can reel it in. I definitely used the wrong bait to begin with though, so I’m gonna have to switch it up a little. All I can do is wait and see, but I guarantee this will not happen again. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Great Date, No Text Back (M)Bruh missed opportunity to go on another adventure. She wanted your presence and you failed to deliver. She definitely took it as rejection then after you texted her she took it as you not having confidence/needy. Just wait it out and see what she says. If not wait about a week and send the generic "It's been a while but just wanted to make sure you're doing ok." | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 11:38 PM |
| 3 | How long can you maintain a casual relationship before she pressures for commitment or leaves?Definitely depends on the situation and woman. It's always varied for me but was always upfront with my intentions. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 09:49 AM |
| 0 | How to let girls know u broke broke?Bruh, you choose the spots to meet up. Research...Find places with good happy hours. There's also lots of things you can do for free besides fancy bars and dinners. You have hiking..the beach..walk at the park. Be different my guy. My go to dates are usually Taco Tuesday and dive bars with pool tables. Never fails 🤙🏽 | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Girl seems interested, but isn't texting back. How can I address this without coming across as needy?Think about the pro's and con's about dating her. She works full-time and goes to college. She lives far. Obviously she isn't a good choice to date or consider her romantically. Your best bet is to keep it as friends and find someone who has time for something romantic and lives closer. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedDude I recently found out that there's a Facebook group that post men's online dating profiles and ask what's the tea on them. It's based on the city. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedThere could be a number of reasons. Women tend not to like confrontational situations and some women suck at communication. She probably didn't know how to tell you she wasn't interested or was probably way easier for her to ignore you. The best thing you can do is try to be the best version of yourself and know what happened is not your fault. Take time for yourself to get over the situation. Good luck brother. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | When you meet a girl initially, do you focus on getting to know her alone or with some playfulness/teasing/flirting?Read up on charisma and I'd recommend asking meaningful questions. Try looking up Sean Evans from the hot ones. He's a great example of that. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayTotally agree with this. Women will come and go as they please. You have to be comfortable with her coming and going. If your intentions is for something more than what it is aka relationship yeah look somewhere else. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 6 | What do I do?Yeah I think what build my uncle's confidence was playing sports and the gym. He played in sport teams for people with disabilities. He played football, basketball and volleyball. They were so many women there too! Lol Find what you're good at and run with it. Find groups that have the same hobbies as you. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:16 PM |
| 5 | What do I do?Dude it's all about confidence. My uncle was in a wheelchair since he was 14. He never let it be a disability. He consistently picked up women. Women didn't see his disability because it didn't bother him. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | why is she very hot/flirty then coldI mean have you asked her out to hangout? She might be waiting to set up a date 🤔 | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How to stop caring what she’s doing?Definitely need time for yourself and take care of those insecurities. We all have them. You looked at information that hurt you and she clearly lied. So you now see she can lie to you in your face. Probably not the best person to have a relationship with or be friends. That doesn't mean you can hook up with her but keep your emotions in check. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 05:39 PM |
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