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FDS HUMORIntelligent_Cut7135/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:11 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESIntelligent_Cut7135/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:59 AM
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The accountant in me wants to bring up the immediate depreciation but I won't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:16 PM
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Thank God we have resources our mothers didn't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:01 PM
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Oh shit I didn't think about that, I haven't drank in 5 years! I might take it back haha maybe it is just as dangerous as being on only fans. Creeps trying to get your location
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:32 AM
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You don't even have to jump in, you can just attend a church! People are usually nice and you can keep to yourself if you prefer. It's been very healing to attend church after a year of isolation, just being around nice ppl in a pretty building with music.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:29 AM
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So fucking scummy! Cassandra Mack on YouTube has really helped me shed my feelings of shame and empowered me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:16 AM
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I finally realized that play abuse is still abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:36 AM
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Kink shaming is my kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:35 AM
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This video helped me, she said it all OUT LOUD. https://youtu.be/Pdpc2r4cBxQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:23 AM
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it's the new patriarchy xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:22 AM
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If he doesn't return your texts in a timely fashion, try sending a spicy nude to let him know he's on your mind! He's probably just busy and tired, you know how busy and tired Men® get
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:18 AM
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A lot of girls got zero attention and grew up in broken families and this is the only attention men will show them. Some men only show affection when sexuality is offered, idk it's easy to get deceived and manipulated when you are young. I think that's why the pervs like under 25s. They put up with so much bullshit and give themselves away for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:16 AM
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Same I also appreciate the moderators for allowing truly free speech for women. I can bring up the fact that I don't support pron at all, the fact that casual sex didn't serve me at all and actually exclusively served the men around me, the fact that Jesus Christ saved me, the fact that sex is extremely dangerous EACH AND EVERY TIME in terms of std risk and pregnancy risk. All without getting verbally abused or permanently banned :) I am no longer crouching in the shadows:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:00 AM
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You say "unpopular and archaic" - I heard music to my ears! This is a basic success principle that seems to have been erased by possibly well meaning, extremely emotionally sensitive activists. I think the majority of people realize (especially if they grew up in a broken home or with no father) that you are going to have a higher chance of success if you have two parents who love each other (preferably a mother and a father but I don't discriminate against gays) who are married and over the age…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:55 AM
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My ex tried to pimp me out to the internet by filming our.. relations... (I said no) but he was like you can earn a couple hundred dollars! It was disrespectful and degrading. I regret every athiest Tech Bro pron addict I ever dated. I realize all kinds of men can be trash, but I've never had a good experience with the type of man I describe. At least the Christian country boys (not the fake or racist type) believe in God, believe in therefore honoring God's creation, protecting you, providing a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:48 AM
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That's my worst fear- a past boyfriend using a nude against you in the future. I would honestly just stay calm, say it's a photo shop or a deep fake, and file a restraining order. I don't need to live in fear because I was naive enough to trust someone I loved. Read the NYT article called "the children of pronhub". I'm so sad for these girls (including myself in late high school) who had camera phones. However after nyt put pronhub on blast, visa and mastercard strangulated them and pressure is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:40 AM
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Bro just be a bartender if you are a hot woman. Don't do only fans! You can wear a black t shirt and pants while collecting 200$ a night. And you get to throw the creeps out of the bar. If you are hot and charismatic, you can easily clear 4k a month in a big city as a bartender. I was a bookkeeper for a restaurant in a tame area but the bartender (who was a nice older lady not a hot young thing) would easily clear 500 a weekend in tips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:32 AM
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So can a pay raise and a promotion which you are much less likely to get if you have nudes online. Some angry "customer" might dox you as well. Although my sympathies to women who have have revenge pron used against them. If that ever happened to me I would honestly just gaslight everyone and say it's a deep fake and the person is mentally unstable trying to destroy me. You know? Why melt into a puddle and cry and beg your torturer to make the pain stop? F@ck you I'm turning these tables! I thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:28 AM
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And good for you for doing so, we have to stand in the gap for these young women. Besides it's never as scary sticking your neck out or giving advice as you thought. I am grateful for the women who gave me advice while I was emerging from my early 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:26 AM
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I honestly found it by googling my thoughts and feelings followed by the word "reddit". Haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:26 AM
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If you watch the media interviews that Ellen Fein and Sherry Schneider gave regarding their books "The Rules"and "not your mother's rules", they don't beat around the bush! So many were calling them (and especially today might call them) old fashioned wenches, but wow did those books change lives and sold millions of copies to grateful women. Us women are empowered to speak our minds no matter the criticism. And the enemy will stir up accusation, lies and attacks when we speak truth! I think I b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:24 AM
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Nice!! Yeah I've recently (at the age of 25) started SPEAKING MY OPINION. I used to curtail what I thought might get disapproved of, but that's the enemy convincing us our viewpoints and our opinions are isolated, rare and weird. The enemy would love to convince us to be quiet, scared, and shrink into a little hole. Even if people disagree with me, I'm willing to either hear them out OR set a personal boundary that no, I'm comfortable contributing my comment and that's it. For example, I also do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:16 AM
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Hello you've reached the FACTS department. Never date guys who use reddit or play league of legends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:42 AM
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All the Rules is just the Rules 1&2 combined. Those were written by Ellen Fein and Sherry Schneider in 1994/1995 but they did a revamp for all the new technology and hookup culture in 2012ish. It's called Not Your Mother's Rules (adorable title lol) and it's extremely useful. I own all 3 in audiobook and strongly recommend audio for the best idea of the energy of the books. These books changed my life and honestly gave me my life back from the hyper sexualized hyper aggressive progressive femini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:41 AM
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Thanks for the support everyone. I'm glad women like myself and others are waking up to realize that abstinence is for our PROTECTION, not oppression
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:26 AM
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Updated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:24 AM
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The line you quoted that I used is actually an exact lyric of a Kanye West song- https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=Mrfu0FBB110&feature=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:10 AM
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Make sure to immediately start contributing to a 401k. Especially if company match. One year later I already have 8k in my account. It's not fully vested and half was employer match, but I've never had that much money and the year flew by. I feel so empowered knowing that 40 years from now I can just buy a house in Wyoming or whatever with my retirement money and be fine. You don't want to be a woman with no retirement or savings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:11 AM
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Y'all downvoting me when you know it's true- lockdowns and women losing jobs by government force was an abusers wet dream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:38 AM
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And how has that worked out? In communist China the government will literally force married women to have abortions if they exceed the 2 (formerly 1) child limit. Or if they don't get their child permit paperwork processed pre pregnancy. Be careful what you wish for. Only when Chinese women began killing themselves in droves did they increase the child limit. Chinese often live in multi generational households as well. But saying the nuclear family is an American, capitalist conspiracy tells me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:33 AM
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No dude the nuclear family has been a staple in human society for hundreds and hundreds of years. Muslim, Hindu, Christian- Indian, Asian, American. Family values and structure are extremely important to children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:27 AM
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Dude, why does every response assume I'm wistfully longing for some scumbag father? I grew up with a single mom and absolutely no male father figure or other relatives. It was not good. Kids need FAMILY. I'm talking about GOOD fathers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:26 AM
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Nobody is talking about families of 4 I'm just saying growing up with ONE parent, that's not good for kids. Whether it's an aunt, foster parents, grandparents, having one single mom and nobody else is extremely isolating for children especially if the mother is abusive And no, I don't think having a father in the home is "terrible for women and terrible for kids". Everyone is assuming I'm talking about ANY father. I'm saying kids NEED a positive male figure to protect them and provide fatherly f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:24 AM
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I'm saying that all children would be better off with two parents in the home who love and care for them. It sounded like in the video she is saying the nuclear family is a conspiracy created by men. I suffered a lot for not having a (good) father in the home And don't gaslight me saying I need therapy. The alternative is to have a good father. I'm advocating my beliefs for the benefit of future kids. It's best for a child to have a GOOD father. If I can't provide that I'm just not going to have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:20 AM
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You can usually pick up on a cold/sinister/creepy vibe from these guys. I think most of the guys on those subreddits don't typically leave their moms basement so I am not too concerned but it is a good idea to educate about "negging". The Rules (1994) tried to warn us about PUA "venue switching" a long time ago- warning women to not run around to ten places on the first date. I recommend every woman listen to the book "not your mother's rules" and just keep listening over and over. You don't hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:12 AM
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A lot of these men think women "deserve it". "Nyuk nyuk nyuk, isn't this what fEMiNiStS wanted with the sexual revolution and birth control pill? Isn't this what they wanted?" They are probably the most dangerous and humiliating type, the type who will make you drive yourself to your own abortion and pay for it yourself and get zero support or alternatives. "That's what the feminists wanted isn't it" It's a very weak and passive standpoint. Even with Adam and Eve, Eve was deceived by the serpent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:06 AM
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I agree hundred percent. I'm not having sex until engagement either (lol not getting a legal marriage to someone who might be super creepy in bed with a micro penis sorry not sorry). If guys think I'm a lame, or "Christian girl", okay! Fine with me. I tried it the other way for ten years between 15-25. Even if you do have sex they will absolutely reject you, humiliate you and use you. Better to just be rejected based on "she's not having sex until engagement" than to have sex, get chlamydia and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:04 AM
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Don't buy men ANYTHING. At best it emasculates them, at worst he perks up and seems happy and then clearly "Keeps you around"for what you do for them I used to cook meals for boyfriends I had only been dating 6 months or less. Now, I'll make a pan of chicken and throw a few potatoes in the oven and that's it, and that's only after 3 months if dating. One time a guy ate EIGHT of my muffins. I brought the whole container of home made muffins because I prefer to just have one container until they a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:56 AM
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I love when they get disgruntled that you made plans after not hearing from them at all until Friday afternoon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:49 AM
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He's going to text the url to his ex to try to get another 6 years out of her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:47 AM
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Exactly Darwin award!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:46 AM
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Those titles make me so sad. I'm so glad Laila Mickelwait is standing in the gap for us. I grew up as an old zoomer where our parents did not understand smart phones, so we had access to so much pron. We were also told that if it's on a website is 100% legit. Actually, mindgeek, the literal biggest pron company in the West, biggest brand Pronhub, did not require age, identity or consent verification except for an email address. Teenagers had to pretend to be lawyers to get their rapes removed an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:42 AM
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Many women in their teens and early twenties accept bullshit because so many millennial/zoomer are pron addicted, video game addicted. And if you don't have a father in the home or a mother who is nice to you (mine was cold and abusive) you literally don't realize you are worth more than being tolerated. So gross. Young women are taught via social media that their body is their only asset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:38 AM
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There's a great video by teal swan on YouTube called "why women like assholes" and "containment". Both videos perfectly summed it up. Women don't LIKE assholes, they just prefer a confident guy who is going to "own"her in a positive way. For example, don't we all love to be called, asked on a date, picked up at 7 and then he walks us to our front door at the end of the night? Rather than the guy who texts you "so u wanna hang out lol I got netflix lol" or expects you to basically plan the entire…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:35 AM
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THE GIFT OF FEAR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:29 AM
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They need to love themselves, they need God to be honest with you. It's just as creepy to have a guy trying to groom me into "feeling loved" from day one. It's like bro you don't even know me. Don't be telling me how "amazing" I am and texting me long texts after one or two dates. So much pressure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:28 AM
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I don't think they think we are smart enough to detect this malignancy. But women have great perception and intuition because they have to if they want their offspring to thrive and survive. Imagine not being able to tell when your baby is hungry or when you're in danger 800 years ago. Not great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:27 AM
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Can you recommend a website?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:24 AM
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Exactly I've had multiple guys say "oh yeah I definitely support women's sexual liberation and empowerment..." These clowns don't care about feminism they care about having sex and they will say whatever it takes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:23 AM
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Same with stds -in the past, before I found Jesus and practiced abstinence, guys would literally say (even guys who asked me to be their girlfriend, not hookups) "yeah I got tested X weeks ago at X doctor" but when you ask to see the results either online or if they got it on paper they freak out and refuse and gaslight. In the future, I'm going to say "hey I'm not comfortable having sex until we get tested- let's make matching appointments" and then "compare results". Don't forget, you have to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:20 AM
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I want a man who respects and protects freedom but still took precautions and a vaccine. Not a full anti vax anti mask, but I think a lot of abusers were overjoyed with their wife or girlfriend being isolated for a year. Not to mention having total financial control since 2m women dropped out of the workforce. It's important we don't give the government the power to take away our kids education for a year plus, our livelihoods. Not being isolated and at least being able to earn income is extreme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:14 AM
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It's like a damn part time job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:11 AM
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If God wants to give me a husband he will find a way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:11 AM
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I want a man who seems conservative but took the vaccine and respects me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:10 AM
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Eww but also true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:07 AM
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Ding ding ding! The attention they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:06 AM
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Leo decap looks like a troll that got hit by a bus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:06 AM
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They have to take it out on these women because they remind them of the woman who rejected and dumped them in high school. Getting even. That's why they think you are a gold digger the instant they clear 50k annual salary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:05 AM
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Christ he needs an ambulance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:03 AM
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Thanks for explaining. I guess I thought it sounded divisive but I can see how it might seem more inclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:10 PM
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Yeah on one hand I was definitely sexting as a teen so I can relate but I also wish I hadn't been sexting xD From zoomer to boomer in 5 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:09 PM
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Sounds like a 20 year old mommy's boy who thinks women should be responsible for dealing with unintended pregnancies (not a small feat no matter which option you choose). Screw that! I don't even justify myself to these clowns anymore. Some guys are truly naive, some want to get a rise out of women and make them justify themselves and their choices to him because it makes it feel powerful. It really confuses that type of guy when you just don't respond or even read xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:58 PM
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Absolutely, I started to get a frown line before I discovered Fds/The Rules books. I no longer have a frown line. I look more relaxed and that makes me prettier. I am also happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:47 PM
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Men think they can remove babies from sex. You can't. And you are responsible for the babies you create. Even though I'm technically pro choice in a voting sense, I despise men who have sex and then tell the woman to get an abortion. They act disgusted or inconvenienced or even relieved that she is just going to terminate the human life he helped create. These men don't even pay for it or bring you soup either. Oops my toy is broken, go get an abortion. Now that I'm 26 I don't have sex unless I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:32 PM
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Same with Mad Men. At first it seems like an insufferable old style tv show but you can see the reactions and internal processes of the women and what they went through and how they navigated the sexism and racism. You end up feeling sorry for Don but then not at all, I do not feel sorry for Don .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:27 PM
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Same with all the Chris Brown simps. Oh that's okay Chris, you beat the shit out of a black woman, Rihanna, that's ok here have your career back it was just a mistake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:23 PM
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Dude absolutely I am team Carole Baskin. They ASKED HER on VIDEO why a cat might eat a foot. She RESPONDED "well you would have to have sardine oil" And they are like OMG IT'S PROOF SHE KILLED HER HUSBAND. Like nah dude have you worked around animal people? She was simple answering a question and being jovial. I would be jovial too if I was in her position. Look, I do not support murdering your husband lmao. But it seems carole's life turned out pretty good for her. She has secured the bag and l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:19 PM
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Yeah I can't blame hot women for being willing to put their hotness out there. I still feel attractive, but now that I'm over 25 I no longer feel like "omg I need to show my body it might not always be so young and hot" And between 16-22 I definitely felt like BECAUSE I was hot that I needed to showcase it. And if these women make millions doing so, I can't blame them. But yes, I'm sure they have a lot of pressure from their executives and contracts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:16 PM
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I think the devil would love to deceive women into thinking they are all alone and there's nobody who thinks like them. The internet is a cesspool. I only use this sub and tumblr for aesthetic images, no Facebook, no insta, nothing. It really helped my cognitive dissonance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:14 PM
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I wonder if you are talking about the artist I have in mind. Yes, I agree. I like oldies, country, worship music/gospel lately. I like doja cat/ariana, I have gone through the same life phases as them (when we discovered smartphones and our parents weren't aware about all the pron and we were not aware of the hypersexual instagram/Facebook depression vibes yet), I did experience hypersexuality, but now that I'm 25 I'm like kinda of prudish. I'm just very intentional about what I consume. I still…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:13 PM
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I'm extremely intimidated and a little turned on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:09 PM
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We don't even need to justify ourselves to the haters. Most are probably 14-25 year old skinny inexperienced boys playing video games in their parent's basement. Older guys, good guys, they would understand. But I don't feel the need to have men sign off on my choices anyway. That's why in "The Rules" they say DON'T TELL MEN YOU ARE DOING THE RULES. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:08 PM
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Absolutely and some men will just MAKE STUFF UP. My ex who seemed like a nice guy- he ended up cheating on me (or TRYING to, most ppl wouldn't answer his messages when I got in his phone to investigate xD) including with men. However he had a few weeks earlier been having sex with me and freaked out about suddenly wanting to wear a condom after 8 months of relationship with just using an IUD (ladies, use BOTH. you can still get pregnant with an IUD not to mention stds). I was like honey what's w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:54 PM
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I was able to have more confidence and strength after being saved by Jesus Christ. I used to look to men for approval, to sign off on my personality and attractiveness, for strength and forgiveness and approval and love and desire. I have all these things with Jesus now. It's very liberating. And it repels the guys you are talking about. I used to wax poetic in giant paragraphs when some guy wanted to rain on my parade or undercut me. Now I'm just pretty breezy and ice cold with those guys, I pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:45 PM
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I like to buy women (used, cheap) copies of "Not your Mother's Rules". One time a beautiful hairstylist asked me if I ever read "why men love bitches" Damn I love books! Women empowering women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:42 PM
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Imagine being paid $100/hr to tell people they have "communication issues" Thanks Tom but everything that comes out of our mouth is communication can you be more specific
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:34 PM
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Ah, my high school nickname. 💃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:32 PM
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Men don't like being told what to do, and they definitely don't like being embarrassed in front of others including their kids (learned this stuff in the book "for women only"-shaunti feldhahn) She did insinuate he wasn't "strong enough" to tolerate the pain. NEVERTHELESS profanity is not okay. Verbal abuse is not ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:29 PM
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They can't handle the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:16 PM
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Hi Canada! I am not that far from your border in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:08 PM
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I think they assume that even though you said no to him, YOU'RE DOLING IT OUT TO OTHER DUDES, SHE'S DEFINITELY SMASHING BRO they assume you have their brain: pron obsessed, jacked up on testosterone, constantly h*rny. Why WOULDN'T YOU BE smashing new dudes every single night? Men think that because we can have sex easily, that we are, all the time. Because that's what they would do. It's the worst of petty jealousy. One time I rejected a guy for being incredibly pushy and blatantly violating my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:55 AM
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Proof that men will do anything to talk to you IF THEY WANT TO. Ladies don't approach a man, EVER. I used to and I felt pathetic and exhausted. It's so much fun to just have a small flirty encounter, perhaps there's some tension and smiling, and then I walk away. Idk why I felt I had to follow through on every single instance of attraction. You don't need to! Just enjoy the moment and if he's your mister right, he will chase after you by giving you his name on a napkin lmao. I can't believe how …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:50 AM
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I love the female fyckboi character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:47 AM
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One hundred percent. Brittany Venti has a great youtube playlist "why pron is bad", and Laila Mickelwait with TraffickingHub/ExodusCry is a great speaker. pronhub used baby yoda in a tiktok ad targeting kids for pron consumption "when your mom leaves the house" and it showed baby yoda with the logo in his eye reflection. They didn't even have age or consent verification until new York times put them on blast and visa and mastercard strangulated them. Gross! And I think early pron exposure and ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:39 AM
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These women must have had mothers with cheating fathers who told them from a young age that all men cheat and you have to be perfect to keep him and perform for the man. And these men play along too, they love convincing the women that they are just crazy and insecure. At least she won't be sussing out your sketch vibes and dumping your ass if she's too preoccupied hating herself. Women need to love themselves but also the healing love of Jesus Christ transformed me. I get what I always need fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:28 AM
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I was just thinking how based you were but then I noticed we have the same birth year. Zillenials are waking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:25 AM
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Absolutely. Women had to be very careful about who they let near them (there was no birth control back then) and only pick the best mate lest they end up in poverty and vulnerable alone with children. Fds vibes lol. I feel like THIS is the natural female instinct. Not to give your body away to every caveman who says hello, what resources do you have buddy? Are you strong and are you loyal? Just like you said, men's "legacy" literally depends on being able to get a woman to carry HIS children. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:24 AM
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He's probably cheating on her and she can pick up on it intuitively but is gaslighting herself into thinking SHE has a problem with suspicion since she doesn't have hard evidence. Read "the gift of fear" and "wolf in sheep's clothing" and "how to spot a dangerous man before you get involved" and all of Lundy Bancrofts books. NEVER doubt your gut... Your instinct.... What some might call discernment... Energy... VIBES... God leading you! Just step away don't gaslight yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:20 AM
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One time my supervisor (a BEAUTIFUL woman, she just seemed to have some jealous and controlling tendencies, I get it girl, it's okay, we were all teenagers once) thought I was "flirting"with a male supervisor because we were making jokes while walking around taking inventory. It was shocking. I became less magnanimous.. and funny.. but now, I'm like.. I'm not going to stifle myself so you don't wig out! I walked right over to the male supervisor and said: "I definitely wasn't flirting with you. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:17 AM
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It hurts a thousand times worse when an ugly, skinny/fat guy cheats on you and barely takes you out! Ugly guys get lazy too at least have something to look at! They also look down on you, assuming you have a mental deficiency. It is exhausting to BE someone's self esteem. Unless he's like really secure in himself, in which case even if you are physically ugly, that's the most attractive trait you can have. TRUE self esteem and resiliency and confident. None of this narcissistic cocky/hate myself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:14 AM
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Absolutely. When I was 22 I might have said "but I like THIS guy!" Yes honey, but that guy can easily lose interest 4 months in and then you are hurting. I used to feel BAD for "doing that" to guys, but they only wanted to commit when they knew I was still available to others! Scummy guys LOVE to have a (one way) exclusive gal to use for sex and never commit to. They get off on you sitting by the phone begging for them to come over. Don't lower yourself to that. If a guy fades out on you, it's a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:07 AM
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It's because men sometimes get manipulated by their deadbeat single fathers into thinking that their mom is a "whore" and that's the reason they are not together. Hey, I get it, women can cheat. But how many men gaslight and lie to their own children after divorce or separation. My mom told me my father hated us and didn't even try to get custody. It was a lie. Imagine a young boy being told his mother is a cheating whore (not usually true, cheating men usually project and lie) and that's why he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:29 AM
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Patriarchy literally convinced us we would be empowered to show our WAPs online for $5 and to have casual easy sex with men instead of making them earn it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:24 AM
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Because Google and other big tech are heavily biased towards progressivism and anything other than progressivism (in life or in the algorithm) is destroyed. For example, when this sub only had 25k, I think a lot of well meaning zoomers and millennials (the only people on reddit for the most part) had extremely violent reactions to what we were saying. Omg, the guy has to pay? GOLD DIGGER. Omg, you don't want to have sex for months at a time at A moment's notice? Prude!! You must be brainwashed b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:21 AM
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My business degree woke me up. There's an entire world of entrepreneurs who want to make your life better. Amazon and YouTube have empowered me so much even though they are big companies. I have so much more time and more money because of Amazon (and when you buy used, either warehouse deal or third party seller, you help the environment or help a small business using Amazon). I spent hundreds on very specific types of Christmas ornaments on Amazon but they were shipped through third party small…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:19 PM
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After I got sexually assaulted I tried to take my power back by having lots and lots of consensual sex. I also enjoyed the seemingly "unconditional" adoration of the men during sex, their full attention, their desire. But they are not there for you, they don't care about your preferences or your heart, or your physical safety (most men don't get tested they just take women's word for it, and many women take men's word for it or they are lied to so this is how stds circulate amongst unknowing tra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:05 PM
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The enemy is the father of lies. A lot of us were tricked and groomed with unregulated early pron exposure from our smart phones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:57 PM
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It's literally human trafficking. Sex trafficking. It's like pimping to other women basically. The girls who do the lifestyle and try to groom others into it. I get it, I've been financially desperate before but you ARE being conned into sex trafficking. Not to mention the pron executives make 20m a year or more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:56 PM
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Don't forget church!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:53 PM
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Disgusting. I used to like watching Lance 210 (don't judge me lol). When I was younger. And he still seems like a cool guy. However his ex created an only fans. Her "fans" began to openly abuse her and "demand" their "money's worth" even saying that be 30/month is "too much" unless she does hardcore. Not only is 11-15k TOTALLY DOABLE with about 5-10 years of moving up at a company or field (personally I take home 4400 pretax and that used to seem like a fortune) after 2 years in my field. You ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:52 PM
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I honestly turn to Jesus for the things I couldn't get from men emotionally although I love that we are performing the physical tasks. I have come to Jesus in the last year. I was looking for the acceptance, forgiveness and love of Jesus in men. Now when a man is lacking, I don't feel out of control (listen to Teal Swans video about containment) or like I have to "be the man". I just turn to Jesus. I know Christianity has some stigma but it's really been serving me in a positive way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:46 PM
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B O U N D A R I E S Does he understand yours, or his? This will often get a woman dumped after 3 years of dating. She was just pretty and available, so they dove head first into a relationship. I can't blame us for falling for guys who seem to be into us.. but a lot of guys are still in mommy mode where their mother bends over backwards to kiss his ouchies, cook him dinner and coddle him. Idk if y'all experienced this, but when you date a man who seems to be really into you but then becomes dist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:43 PM
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If this guy is actually 40, he should start by stop calling women "girls". Such a turn off. I'm only 25 but when a grown man says "girls" in any other context than "are you having a girl's night?" I assume he's a pron addict. Or pedo inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:29 PM
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