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The “I was just joking” / “You can’t take a joke” for me was “you should be mindful enough to know when it’s a job” from a mofo that claimed to have had a spiritual awakening as I was looking for spiritual peeps. The same guy who unapologetically used a racial term from a culture he was nowhere near apart of towards himself(?) and also added something along the lines of “I’m not going to miss a chance to say something funny.” Couldn’t wrap my brain around it and he never apologized or owned up t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:52 AM
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I was wondering if it’s okay to just want casual conversation without intentionally looking for dating. I found a newer app with less users that let you connect based on MBTI which of course isn’t in depth or a good determinate of finding people on its own. But you can choose if you’re looking for men, women, or both and friends, a relationships, or both. Sometime people I’ve come across are fairly decent and are all for the bs but of course it’s hard to tell until getting to know them. Some peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:57 PM
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Thank you for this. I’m certainly still learning to love my hair and it’s been nice to solely build that love from within Men need to get over trying to control us even in what they think are small ways, any way is unhealthy and uncalled for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:20 PM
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Thank definitely be my rule of thumb if and when I check out anything on there then 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:05 PM
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Honestly I believe this, I would think a normal man would be minding his business unless it was to help a woman if she asked for it. I need more family that can warn women in my family, I know the smart and independent ones already are living their best lives far away from the foolery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:17 PM
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Lmbo, he’ll be using his imagination of that ever happens 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:15 PM
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Oh my gosh I do remember that! She’d been doing all these spins, flips, tumbles, etc and yet that was their focus. Her performance, hard work, and dedication should’ve been the highlight dang
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:28 AM
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Absolutely, thank you for sharing this experience because I hadn’t heard from any ladies with positive experiences with the app or website. You go making double salary too, it sounds like a major upgrade from the first job! I will also admit my fault of possibly mixing up Monster with Ziprecruiter which also gave me slightly sketchy vibes. I do apologize for jumping the gun and could’ve thought about it a little longer. I was using multiple sites so an honest mistake. Thank you again for clearin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:52 AM
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He truly is, he thinks he has a lady now but the way he talk about her, he sounds like another one of her kids. It’s sad but that there’s none of my business💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:48 PM
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I’d be wary of Monster, I kept getting emails that all looked the same. I’d set my resume up on several job search sites and kept getting the same generic email of them “seeing my resume on a job site” with an attachment that had minimal text, not mentioning the company name or logo and the email address was always off. Please be careful of using it, even after removing my resume I still get these emails like spam, even when I ask which site, they do not tell me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:41 PM
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I think your opinion matters hun, I’m thinking he feels uncomfortable with something he knows he can’t control and feels mentioning it periodically will slowly change out minds. I think we just care about our hair not being processed, still being healthy, and it being a different journey to care for and learn about ourselves. Thank you for this, I feel your perspective is valid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:34 PM
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Apparently his hygiene isn’t bad but other aspects of his personality, character, and lifestyle are not anything close to admirable 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:30 PM
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Mmm if only you ladies could see him, y’all would roast him to a crisp in an instant. I wholeheartedly agree with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:49 AM
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I have to try that, I couldn’t find any conditioners with good slip besides my deep conditioner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:25 AM
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That does sound super cute! He could never replicate that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:24 AM
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Always has been and always will be yet them minding their business is free mmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:23 AM
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Lol what? It’s your body, time, money, and energy so why is she caught up on that? The backhanded compliment could’ve stayed in his brain or thrown in the garbage, I hope he doesn’t talk to her like that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:19 AM
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It’s always something smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:10 AM
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That’s honestly how I’ve been since letting it grow back out. Health of hair should definitely be prioritized over length, if the length retained isn’t healthy, “is it really worth keeping” kind of thing. It does feel amazing but when detangled, mine will still manage to tangle the next day. I need to try something to define my curls more, I found a twisting cream I’m going to give a go my next wash day. You’ve got me back wanting to try more styles, thank you so much for being lovely ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:38 AM
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Honestly that is a good theory. It’d be hard to focus money we’ve earned on both without sacrificing something. To not even have that freedom to use our own money on ourselves, when we deserve it is ridiculous. It would be like a cycle or trying to buy products ro enhance ourselves with a partner that doesn’t appreciate our efforts while not respecting us as human beings then trying over and over. I think I’m getting what you mean with this. Us spending a lot of time and money on ourselves, at l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:32 AM
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Flexi rods always sounds amazing and I hasn’t used any for since time since relaxed hair days. Ah I’ve been meaning to do Bantu knots but my hair shrinks so much and stretching it takes a bit then sectioning makes my arm tired, a whole workout D:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:24 AM
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Thank you girl, I definitely plan to because it’s one of the best decisions I made over 5 years ago, even having it shaved a few times, it’s still going strong with or without outside male input it. I hope your twists turn out nice, I’ve only been doing flat twists or cornrows(if I can manage to loosen them up). Y’all are so dope are and I love it, I’m glad I stuck around for so long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:20 AM
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I can’t find the sense this is supposed to make, he’s so far out of pocket it’s unreal major eye roll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:58 AM
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I meant to ask what NEET meant also, fits extremely well. Oh he was not and would make a fuss about being asked or, god forbid, told to do basic respectable things like get a reliable job or to save money or be respectful towards her. It made no sense, he tried to do what we want and could get away with but she’s out her good down with the nonsense. He was like a whole teenager
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:56 AM
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Got his ass, I love to hear things like this. Being able to clap back in the most straightforward way unapologetically. This is an aspiration I have for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:30 AM
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Don’t have me rolling, he wouldn’t know where to go. He’d jump out of his skin in a heartbeat🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:53 AM
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Y’all truly have made my day better, all you ladies with natural hair, supporters and admirers of natural hair, and just ladies who know about this type of situation. I’m still young myself but I know this community is helping me be better as I age and grow regardless of how the world views us from the outside. I appreciate each and everyone one of you ladies for being here and sharing your time, your truth, and your energy😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:51 AM
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Oh no, I hope you were able to get away and protect your natural hair. Only you should have say so with how your hair is treated/manipulated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:47 AM
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The best way to describe him yes, also a leech in other ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:46 AM
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I’ll let him know if he decides it needs to be repeated for whatever reason 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:46 AM
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As another woman said, they have the same texture we do if they let it grow out and didn’t keep it cut for waves or be bald. Sounds like some projecting and self hate, why change what we’re born with that’s versatile and cute? I’m wearing my crown, don’t drop yours for anyone sis ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:45 AM
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It comes back around randomly and I find it so strange. My mom really told me, everyone is entitled to their own opinion and while she’s right, it doesn’t mean it has to be verbalized when in range of what it’s about. Considering I’ve never asked how he felt about it because it’s irrelevant We are not the property of our male relative, that’s a fact yes! He wouldn’t know the first thing about maintaining the textured hair we have smh Thank you, I believe all hair can be and is beautiful and more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:43 AM
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If they didn’t know, they should know. Also how do dreads no get ridiculed on men by men. Even when black women wear weave, it has to be something that they want or else it’s “ugly,” huh? We bought it for us so it’s irrelevant lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:23 AM
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He would comment on the smell of burning hair when we did press n curls in grandma’s house. As if he didn’t know what we did every week when he lived there. I’d love to see him squirm while his scalp burned to meet standards set by society or pressures within cultures🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:15 AM
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Legit, I can only think “and?” When he says something, anything when he’s not trying to do the bare minimum of being an adult. Like mind your business and maybe you’ll have your life together but no no no he must find something wrong with those around him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:09 AM
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He really did that. Wow, I couldn’t fathom wanting an opinion or advice from such a lowly human let alone one that legit just doesn’t even set an example of caring for themselves. Haha a mini stroke, I truly had to laugh there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:05 AM
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Ugh yes, they’re living their best lives and minding their business yet men must find something to go on about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:37 PM
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Yeah, he keeps adding onto the list the more he says and does. Not the best role model for the younger family members, child, it’s just a catastrophe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:24 PM
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Honestly, I don’t even think he’s upset. He’s just mad he doesn’t have hair anymore and his hairline is pushed back, could be projecting his insecurities and how unnecessarily uncomfortable he feels. As if he wasn’t born in the 70s I think, that stuff was everywhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:16 PM
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Phew yes, I think women with any hair that what’s considered an unconventional texture of hair should be and are allowed to rock their hair their way. Even if they wear weaves, wigs, and do to it what they will. The color makes it pop, I feel the same way! It’s such an enhancement ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:14 PM
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Literally what I needed to hear right now. I know there’s a reason to be upset but when his influence on me has only been to not be a bum like he is now and to not grow up like him, I just have to laugh at this. It doesn’t make any sense and for him to still not have any kind of life besides flashing clothes and money he shouldn’t be spending and trying to be a thug, he needs to get a job… point blank. I would’ve been better off never hearing it… again, I’d forgotten about it being said before a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:06 PM
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I asked about this earlier in relation to having an alternate account and removing any connection to the sub from there because of the risk of doxing. I have done so but am now hesitant to leave up one or two pictures I have from a completely different sub up because, you never know. Why do men have to try to make the Internet feel so unsafe, they’re trying their best irl, isn’t that enough? Minding their business is free, I don’t understand 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:35 AM
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I found a nice group but it has both young and maybe middle aged men and women. It’s a telegram group(I’d never heard of this app until a few weeks ago) that I found through a female spiritual YouTuber. You can honestly ask about the spiritual stuff, ask for advice, and/or just hang out like some people do. I made a little group with a guy and girl that are a bit younger than me and we’re all so supportive of each other although busy to be fair, they’re like siblings so me now. I just know of a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:17 PM
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Ooo I see, I realize I only made two posts but many many comments from my main. I’d feel paranoid too, this is supposed to be a safe place for support and growth yet we still have to worry about this for being in a place that’s best for us. Ugh I’ve got some work to do now. I really appreciate your responses, I hope you’re having a lovely day/night and are safe and well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:04 PM
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I’ll get right on it then, thank you for this. I should look those up, I love browser extensions that can do the work for me. So you remove posts even from your alternate account, both, or just the main?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:58 PM
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Phew I’m trying, I think more time accepting and processing it will help. Thank you for the reassurance and encouragement🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:22 PM
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Wish I’d been told this many years ago. Being reckless after/while living with an overprotective mom had me wildin’. I accidentally showed my face once to a stranger and he tried to blackmail me. It was not my best night. I still feel guilty about it from time to time but I know I’ve grown. I just know I could never tell my mom, only close friends know and past partners. I get pickmeisha tendencies at times but then I think back to when that happened accidentally, why would I then do it delibera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:32 AM
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Why did I think of Amazonian women/warriors? Self sufficient, independent, strong, etc 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:51 PM
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As soon as I heard, “Okay but what were you wearing?” My eye twitched in the most disgusted way. Wow, I’ve heard my own mother say this and I feel bad she’s brainwashed to think this is a/the valid point when a women is assaulted in any way☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:46 AM
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