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RantInteresting-Drop3599/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 04:08 PM
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I was smart enough and secretly bought a small cheap pad when I knew my divorce was coming. I bought for 150k at the time. Got a second job to handle the mortgage. It Needed some work but at least I was able to land somewhere when the divorce was finalized. I had to be smart about it and not just go with emotions.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 05:02 PM
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I’m not on social media other than Reddit. Haven’t been in several years. It’s not weird.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 01:17 PM
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Nah don’t do this. Make your life an enigma to her. Don’t let her know a damn thing about your personal life. You seeing someone? None of ya business. Are you dating? None of ya business. Get the drift here. Anything you say and do can and will be used against you. Give them nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 01:09 PM
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It looks and feels like shit but trust me it isn’t. This dude is taking a load off your back and dealing with her garbage. That means it’s deflected away from you. You WANT them to have a dude that is absorbing all or some of the shit from her for you. Be indifferent every time they show up together. Draw a line when they say or do something disrespectful around you or the kids. Otherwise just be apathetic and let the dude deal with her. She wants a negative reaction from you. Don’t fall for it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 01:01 PM
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Hold on to your belt buckle. This was the standard for me. She went to great lengths to make sure I don’t date anyone else. It didn’t work. I’ve been divorced for a minute tho.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 11:41 PM
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Spot on. Thanks bro
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 07:57 PM
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I divorced her because she was emotionally unstable and it was impacting us all negatively. I had to walk.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 07:42 PM
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Thanks. I’ll use this method. Luckily the kids are in their teens now. About 4 more years of this ridiculous behavior. Once the kids are all adults I hope it gets better.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 07:39 PM
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I’ll be doing this.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 07:30 PM
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I was smart enough to not give her any information to find my new lady. She will message her if she finds that information. I’ve Fort Knoxed the shit out of the whole situation.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 07:29 PM
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We have kids together. Parenting app didn’t work. She refuses to use it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 07:19 PM
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Way too fast. Too much communication in the beginning.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 07:14 PM
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Don’t date coworkers. That’s your first fuck up.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 04:58 PM
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Spot on. They’re happy to ‘talk’ so that they can assess the damage they did or are doing. That part of your life is over. Move on and stop the heart to heart talks. It will do more damage than good.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 05:26 PM
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40 is young bro! Don’t worry about your age as you still got time. I don’t know much about the laws in Canada but if they’re similar to the US, be ready to pay child support for the next 15 years. You’re at advantage for having the house in your name, the worst case scenario is you may have to give her a portion of its equity when you do divorce. Your marriage sounds like it’s dead in the water so my advice would be to courageously go forward with the divorce. Consult with a lawyer, come up with…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 01:15 PM
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The tears will always flow at opprtune time. Don’t believe them and don’t let it pull at your heart strings. Be thankful that you don’t have any kids together. Once the house is sold and everything is settled, become a ghost. I mean it! it’s gonna be hard and she will certainly reach out again in the future. Be disciplined and ignore. I have been through a similar situation as yours so I’m coming from a real experience perspective.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 03:26 PM
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Get a second job to handle the finances and start saving. As others have also said, find a hobby with your remaining free time. Shit ain’t gonna happen unless you make it happen because no one is coming to save you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 05:59 PM
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