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Is everything men’s fault? Can the woman not provide? Vice versa it’s not an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:23 PM
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What I’m trying to say is that these guys weren’t particularly special looks wise and neither are their wives. They also weren’t that successful when they met their wives. The grifter story of build your value and wait is often too late for many guys and they’re left with low quality options (high body count women that have a load of baggage, single mothers or young girls that are only really interested in their money), even if they get a lot of them. I’m not saying that guys shouldn’t better th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:20 PM
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All the most successful guys I know met their wives in their 20s. Most are looks matched too. They didn’t wait to build themselves up first and their wives bet on a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:54 AM
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Fair point!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:48 PM
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Men get more options in their 30s but they’re usually bad options! High body count women who want to be conservative with their beta bucks provider that they’ll look to marry and cheat on after kids. Genuine burning desire is not there. The guy they pretend was a loser, they were genuinely attracted to! However, guys that got their shit together can get a roster of these hoes and it will work out fine as long as they never commit but pretend to. The truth is that the good, marriageable women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:30 PM
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I’ve had a few. The first few I actually wanted a relationship with but the girls wanted to sleep around. This was in my early 20s, however, I was totally naive then. My last one before I met my wife in my mid 20s, the girl wanted a serious relationship but she was totally unsuitable for a relationship (alcohol issues etc). I suppose you could have classed maybe 2 of them as friendships but not really for a guy, especially as I wanted a relationship so I was emotionally detached after that wasn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:46 AM
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Not necessarily. You could have a hoe on the casual side and not have one else. She’s just a free hooker in the end. No relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:26 PM
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It wouldn’t be a relationship to me! So they’d be zero financial support, living together or birthday presents etc. In that case, she’s just an FWB which is fine but she’d never get further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:54 AM
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If I lived 10,000 years I’d never be a cuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:59 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:52 PM
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With me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:35 PM
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Yeah if she tried it once and didn’t like it then that’s totally fair! But if she did it regularly with Chad and not with me, it just highlights lack of genuine desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:39 PM
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A woman doesn’t have to do anything with her boyfriend that she did with Chad but the guy doesn’t have to stay in that relationship too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:14 PM
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That post is basically proof why guys won’t marry you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:55 AM
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No guy is thinking deep down, I wish my wife had fucked 50 guys before me! An eventful past is a red flag as guys don’t want to get screwed by the divorce machine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:41 PM
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Hookup Material/Short term = high body count, unreliable, entitled, only fun to be around for short term, headache 🤕 long term. Wife material = Low body count, genuine desire, history of long relationships, no casual past, wants to support me and my goals, wants to be a wife (not just get married), wants to be a mother, is fun to be with long term, feminine, grateful. I’ve had plenty hoes in my past and learned the hard way. I’m currently married 10 years with 3 kids. Be careful who you choose g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:49 PM
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Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:59 PM
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Agreed on the asymmetry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:57 PM
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I think the most promiscuous and sleeping with the most promiscuous. Do you really think when Chad brings a girl home from the club, it’s her first time doing that? No, she fucked Tyrone last week and some other guy the week before. Chads share hoes and hoes share chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:49 PM
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Reality is the Chads are sharing all the hoes! The rest are pairing up 1-1 with the bottom 30% of Men excluded
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:48 PM
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Clavicular is a clown 🤡. Tate is a human trafficker. Just have the awareness and cut the grifters
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:25 PM
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They don’t do as well as blue pill but they don’t get burned half as much! Red pill awareness is important to avoid the minefields but not engaging the grifters (Cooper, Rollo, Myron etc) that just try to monetise rage and keep the audience. Chads are all blue pilled as the Disney movies are reality for them, but that’s only 1% of guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 10:19 PM
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They already are doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:50 PM
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He/she gets first dibs but if they don’t fulfil their role as a wife/husband then they don’t get to expect loyalty!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:35 AM
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The redpill grifters like to believe women are sharing the top guys when the reality is the top men are sharing the (mostly average) hoes. Does Chad really think when he brings an average girl home from the club that he’s the only one that’s done that before with her? Tyrone banged her last week! Chad Lite (let’s call him Brad) literally is her FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 02:50 PM
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I mean that’s an extreme example of course. Naturally you shouldn’t do anything that hurt you. Guys just want the same enthusiasm for them you had for Chad which is usually missing (boring missionary sex only). It’s not about extreme acts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:33 PM
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Top 10% in US for men is 175k, hours worked not so relevant. Top 5% is 250k. Men are way more likely to be high value if attractive than if just financially attractive. The Chad bartender has far more options than the average doctor. He’s also desired for the right reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:27 PM
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“As long as they don’t cheat”…this is the whole problem with slutty women! THEY DO CHEAT! Traditional women can be up for it a lot but they are more careful who they share their bodies with. Hence lower risk. It’s idiotic to say that slutty women who are fundamentally casual material are relationship material!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:10 AM
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Given your handle, I hope for his sake you gave him the same treatment as all casual hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:47 PM
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That’s fair enough if you want a traditional man, however, big question is are you a traditional woman? Promiscuous past?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:46 PM
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Why do you feel entitled to a free meal always?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:19 PM
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It’s probably if you posted that you slept around, made your husband wait or something to that effect that shows you settled for him and weren’t really attracted to him! Worst would be you had a FWB while making your husband wait but really only the most toxic feminists would do this. This is generally only true for older modern women that let their husbands past 30. Downvoting is basically for the gaslighting “I love my husband” when you really don’t. If you met young, hadn’t slept around a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:03 PM
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Feminism thought then to gaslight men “my past doesn’t matter” when it clearly does and there has always been a struggle with accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:42 PM
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Given the amount of pornstars that end up with boyfriends or husbands, there seems to be no limit to the amount of simps and cucks around! Women always land on their feet but not with the guy they actually wanted! So talking about higher standards is pointless for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:16 PM
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Reality would contradict you! Women might prefer the top men but they won’t date them unless they are the top women themselves. Similarly the average man is more attracted to the top women but the difference is he doesn’t have access to easy sex from the them. Rule 1 is true for one reason: women gaslight, lie to protect feelings etc. If they were brutally honest their advice might be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:16 PM
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I don’t think most women say this, that’s grifter garbage! Men tend marry women who desire them and whom they met early. It’s only mid, ran through women over 30 that really says this. Also casual sex is easy if you have really low standards. Most men sleep way down casually. I had a friend that used to bang 2s/3s/4s most weekends while he worked hard to be in great shape with a 6-pack. To me the juice wasn’t worth the squeeze. It’s akin to working really hard, 6 days a week to save 150k to buy …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:50 PM
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What women want: https://youtu.be/HzYE4RT2tCQ?si=xZDzaJXGHPzwLTWl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:41 PM
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Hence the high divorce rate! They probably cheat too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:55 AM
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So you make the cuck “relationship guy” wait? Let me guess, you probably sleep with other guys while he waits as “he’s special”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:52 AM
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Considering she’s the one that likely wants marriage, I would pretty much insist in it unless she had a really good last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:04 AM
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All this doesn’t overcome the physical attraction high barrier! The few men that pass the barrier can act however they like!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:09 AM
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Yes of course it requires fair thought! My example only applies really to a woman that’s sleeping around but decides to make the “relationship guy” wait. Biggest turnoff ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:29 PM
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So you’re gonna keep advocating dating serial killers? Your argument is a stupid extreme! Naturally if a girl said she was raped that would totally change the situation and one would take a different more considerate approach!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:53 AM
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Of course go with an extreme example! I could say something extreme too like the last girl that made me wait was a serial killer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:34 AM
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Guys want relationships with girls that desire them physically! If she desires him physically then the sex life will be good. Guys do want relationships too but often they just want hookups. The issue is honestly only works for the top 5% in attraction. The worst thing she could do is make him wait when she previously had casual sex. He’ll then (correctly) believe she wasn’t really into him, isn’t actually that attracted to him and at best he’s gonna get is unenthusiastic missionary. He’ll know …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:04 AM
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Well let’s be honest, most guys aren’t getting their first choice either! She needs to be very attracted to you with genuine burning desire for a LTR! Otherwise she’s using/defrauding you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:23 PM
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I think guys as they get older become more attractive to women THEIR age or close to it. That’s due to guys having more going for themselves other than looks which only benefit a small minority in their 20s. Conversely women are declining and have a biological clock so they’re more pressured therefore the two tend to converge in desirability. The guys with the most success are generally broke Chads in their mid 20s! These Chads (like ran through women) generally can’t pair bond and are poor choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:08 PM
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He’ll probably gaslight her that their situationship is going somewhere but often it isn’t. He just wants continued access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:58 AM
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It depends entirely on his options! A man with loads of options will keep those women in casual rotation. He won’t see them as special and is unlikely to commit. He will aim for a conservative low notch count girl for his wife. I think experience is the wrong way to look at it. It’s a preference, some guys care, some guys don’t. Some people love taking risks, others don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:56 AM
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Pill communities (such as red pill) have made men more risk adverse and weary of inviting chaos (the wrong woman) into their lives. Consequently, when you won’t date (on a serious basis) ran through, promiscuous, high risk cheating women, you lower your dating pool. The more careful, the more the pool shrinks. Social media has made people more anti social in general and people have a lot less closer friends than they did 30 years ago. Women are delusional to their true value/level and equate sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 05:03 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 That is redpill cope that peak is 40! Real peak is Chad at 22-32 before the grey hair comes and the hangovers become unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:46 PM
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35 is probably expiration for most! The wall has hit hard then and the woman is no use for a family! Likely unable to pair bond then especially if high body count. However, if paired up early (20s) and have a family there is no expiration date really if you are both happy and have a family and long term bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:44 PM
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Polyamory = I’m selfish and I don’t give a shit about you, my partner! I’ll gaslight you that it’s ok because I’m I haven’t lied! Cheater = I’m selfish but I at least care about your feelings and don’t want to hurt you. Therefore I lie! Neither are good but Poly is worse!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:54 AM
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Well that’s not really relevant! He doesn’t necessarily have to take either option! But if he’s happy with what he’s getting then good for him!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:01 PM
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That’s basically being a sugar daddy in a bad way! If he’s not attractive, girls way younger won’t want to date him without strong betabuxxing! He’s definitely not just FWB, that implies no spend or favours and she’s actually into him!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:28 PM
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They have no income standards for Chad or Tyrone! If income is a requirement, she sees you as Beta Buxx
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:44 AM
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This is just modern women trying to gaslight SIMPS into believing they’ve changed their promiscuous ways are now suddenly aren’t huge cheating/divorce risk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:36 PM
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I agree that most men in actual real relationships aren’t cheating. What I’m saying is the massive gap is explained by women in situationships/sharing are incorrectly believing they’re in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:28 PM
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No most men are not in relationships and the few that have loads of options don’t count the 5 situationships they have going as relationships. Whereas at least some of those women might say they’re in a relationship despite the guy never asking her for an explicit relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 12:03 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:42 PM
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Women’s preference are to date close to their own age according to surveys. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, I’m sure some date older but that wouldn’t explain the massive gap! Sharing is the obvious answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:41 PM
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There is more single men between 30-40 too so this is not the full picture, only a small piece. Women Sharing the top guys (knowingly or unknowingly) is far more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:40 AM
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Women under 30, sharing (knowingly or unknowingly) the top (more attractive usually but also most successful guys). Many women in situationships might consider themselves in a relationship but the guy considers himself single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:38 AM
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This is stupid! Men are consistently told the opposite! Avoid cheating Hoes that can’t pair bond!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:46 PM
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Use the factually accurate term: High Body count ran through Hoes!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:46 PM
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She’d want to be fucking exceptional and I’d want to be rich! But she’d basically be like a collectible, like a car (depreciating asset) and would get traded in as soon as she aged out (>25)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:42 PM
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TwoX is a collection of the most toxic feminists ever, that crave supremacy while also claiming to be victims! There is zero point in highlighting logic or rational thinking or evidence to them. They’re so misandrist, they’re beyond help!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:48 PM
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Yes, we live in a female first primary social order!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:13 PM
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A beta is basically someone that lets women run him and the relationship. A SIMP that tolerates disrespect and cheating and believes the gaslighting of toxic feminism. Many married guys are betas definitely but many are also leaders within the relationship and are not betas. Taking care of your family is not being a beta. It’s being a decent human.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:23 PM
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Having a low n count is generally beneficial as it lowers the risk of cheating. Only those that have an issue with accountability struggle with that. The virgin thing I think is fine if the guy is also a virgin. It’s also statistically the lowest likelihood of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:13 PM
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Is a poor woman wanting a rich man also by your logic a hypocrite? As she is not rich herself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:26 AM
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Poor women want a rich guy! That’s no difference than a high BC man wanting a low BC woman. As long as no one is shaming, then it’s a fine preference. Would you call a poor woman wanting a rich man a hypocrite as she isn’t rich herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:25 AM
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No Chad would be cheating on them repeatedly as it’s his nature and he has no self control! This is the experience of many wealthy (post divorce often women). They get a guy with a body count over 200 and he cheats repeatedly. They also try to pretend he has some “career” but in reality he’s a good looking waster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:17 PM
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True I did note the repeated cheating which is basically saying “he’s not yours, it’s just your turn”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:16 PM
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Women would marry a stay at home Chad with a strong prenup and eventually divorce him after repeated cheating (by Chad) and get a new Chad! Chad’s would be kept like pets
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:48 PM
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Defo! Although the SIMPs actually get sex with escorts, whereas through OnlyHoes they’re paying for completely nothing! SIMPS/White Knights & Captain Save-A-Hoe’s have ruined dating and the sooner they stop the better!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 06:02 PM
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“The other day I was talking to a feminist” You’re pissing against the wind as soon as you start talking a feminist. That’s like trying to tell an Israeli that Arabs are people and have rights. Aka pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:05 PM
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Women initiate the vast majority of divorces. 97% of alimony is paid by men to women. Family law in the west is very anti fathers! Men naturally are weary of marrying the wrong woman. Given a woman’s optionality for casual sex (they can always sleep up with guys out of their league but not get commitment), guys are naturally gonna be weary trying to turn a Hoe into a housewife. Not only is she far more likely to cheat, she probably (delusionally) thinks she’s settling even though the Chads were …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:14 PM
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Why does one have to be one extreme or the other? In the real world, hardly anyone has 1000 sexual partners. Reality check - Men can have preferences!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:46 AM
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Naw, maybe an issue for you but given my experiences Hoes are Hoes! They’re just not capable of monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:45 AM
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High body count, entitled and bad with money, although the last one could be worked on. Toxic feminism has given so many women so much bad advice it’s really sad! 😞 pretending that you can have your cake and eat it just isn’t reality. Given your profile, I would say in your specific case, just find someone that wants marriage and children. They should talk about it enthusiastically. If they get uncomfortable or change the subject then they aren’t ready or aren’t interested! Many young men will n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:59 PM
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Disassociate. Don’t make her publicly girlfriend. Tell others you’re single. You don’t owe it to her to be faithful as she’s not faithful. Just treat her as a casual placeholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:01 PM
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Only idiots would believe such gaslighting! Easy solutions: roster of male friends = she’s casual sex only post revealing photos = she’s casual sex only keeps exes on back burner = she’s casual sex only
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:26 PM
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I think guys mainly just want to avoid being the clown 🤡 (BB = Beta Bucks) in the Dual Mating Strategy (AF/BB) of some women. No guy wants to be the SIMP that had to take her on 5 dates and made to wait for sex while Chad came over and banged her after you dropped her home from a date. To a guy that’s like working your ass off in a job only for someone else to receive your paycheque!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:43 PM
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Older men dating younger women (all adults) = winners in the eyes of all men and as these guys are men and strive for what men what, they are the ultimate winners 🏆 🥇 Don’t let toxic feminism gaslight you into believing that the winners are losers! It’s like trying to convince Usain Bolt that he’s a really slow runner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:54 PM
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OP doesn’t understand the epiphany phase! It’s when an average women finally realises she cannot lock down a high value man apart from casual sex. She then needs a beta to provide and assist her in raising her or Chad’s kids. Look at 90% of single moms. They’re not looking for love, just looking for help!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:24 PM
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Yeah it’s basically confirmation bias. It’s the equivalent of saying the top 10% of male attractiveness is happier than the bottom 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:17 PM
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Women swipe on 5% or less of guys! Are you saying 95% of men are unattractive? That’s delusional. The big issue is the numbers mismatch. If I was on an island with 1000 women across the full attractiveness spectrum I’d have loads of options and probably only sleep with the top group. The vast majority of women would want sex and I as the only male would suddenly be extremely attractive. Since I’d only bang the top group due to limitations of being just one guy, it doesn’t mean I don’t find the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:14 PM
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No as a population group they’re far more likely to cheat as 90% of women have easy access to casual sex and usually with guys way out of their league. Whereas only 10-20% of men can cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:10 PM
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Because 80% of men have little to no options and the few they do have are disgusting to them. Women on the other hand can sleep up. A top 10% guy in looks though is high cheating risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:04 PM
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They do apply to many men. Those they don’t apply to, she isn’t showing any interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:02 PM
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This is exactly the RP point! If you’re not in the 20%, she will only want to be with you for the WRONG REASONS which usually equates to resources. This only happens post epiphany phase (30+). The point is women can sleep up out of their league but generally not date out of league (a 50% on the female attractiveness distribution can sleep with a guy in the top 10% but he’ll never commit to her). So they spend their 20s having fun with Chad & Tyrone before going to look for Billy Beta, the guy th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:15 PM
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Would you share the windfall and let your husband cheat also for equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:23 PM
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Modern women cheat for free! So setting a crazy high price is nuts. Given how materialistic people are I think it’s 99% yes for all men and women with only exceptions for ultra high net worth individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:22 PM
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Yeah but it’s likely you find the 25-30% that are 304s! The guys that I know with the highest body counts were best at figuring out which girls were game (would Go home with them) quickly. However, this subset of all women was a small subset often and therefore they usually slept down. (3s/4s and some 5s).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:46 PM
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If they hit 30 and haven’t had long two/three serious multi year relationships then they’ve likely rode the cc! Even by just trying to look for someone to get into a relationship, they likely got played by many Chads before the epiphany phase where they realise Chad is out of their league and isn’t going to commit!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:43 PM
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I care about certain groups so that’s just your projection! You might genuinely be concerned about those women and if you do, then respect to you! I am also against any sex trade, human trafficking etc but I don’t see an issue with two adults coming to an arrangement where neither party is under duress. I’m just saying most modern women are narcissistic driven by the social media age and the general rise of anti socialisation of societies. Look on any bus or train journey and all you see is scre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:38 PM
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If a feminist says the guy is a loser, then you know he’s a WINNER 🥇 🏆! He’s achieved the ideal male outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:54 AM
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I’m saying 90% of modern western women DONT GIVE A SHIT about anyone other than themselves. They’re incredibly narcissistic, they live on instagram, so why would anyone believe they care about third world women? It’s total nonsense that they care about these “poor women”. Therefore the only logical conclusion is they don’t want their SIMPs and orbiters getting attention and options elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:51 AM
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Hookers or 2/10s and below. They’re his options given the current state. If he gets jacked, he’ll naturally become above average looking (top 20%) as only around 2/3% if men are actually jacked. He’ll get casual sex then with a few social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:27 PM
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Fair play to her! That’s commendable! I said many/most but not 100% of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:26 AM
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Total nonsense! If you want to get an entitled 2/10 with a high body count as an average guy, use dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:15 AM
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I don’t see many modern feminists giving money and time to these third world women. Anyone could share a TikTok video
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:48 AM
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Feminists are terrified of this as it lowers the price of sex relative to getting married and divorce raped! They’re worried wealthy successful men won’t SIMP for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:42 PM
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Probably the hooker. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze and std risk with modern women. Hookers/escorts (non street walkers) take care of their health much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:40 PM
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The 10/10 is probably going to be into me if I’m a Chad! Even if paying (Dan Bilzerian etc) So it’s close.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:39 PM
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6.5/10 is above average girl so id probably pick her. Most of the guys I know that got a lot of casual sex were average looking but jacked and they were constantly getting 3/4/5s so getting a 6.5/10, is need to be a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:17 AM
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It depends on the guy and how much effort he wants to put in. If he’s top 10% he’ll likely get women around 5/6 maybe 7 out of ten, therefore sleep down as all man bar the top 1% do. With hookers he can sleep up. So if you are bottom 90%, you sleep up, spend in many countries can be less than going to the club but it’s often mechanical. If you’re in reasonable shape and you have regular girl you see, then sure it can be more enjoyable but she’s still doing it for the money. Neither are as good a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:03 PM
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Generally successful women’s options for LTRs are limited to unicorns 🦄 if they require hypergamy! If they don’t, they probably have a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:55 PM
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The guy that had to SIMP, wait for sex, pay for dates while the previous 100 guys had to do nothing bar send a DTF text.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:52 PM
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As men find out about your past, you’ll be in the casual only category for the majority. Men in general are delighted with FWB/casual as so few men can get them. No guy wants to be the beta bucks provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:39 PM
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Calling men cowardly: That’s just the toxic feminist viewpoint as they’re terrified the SIMP population will decrease and stop providing them with unwarranted validation and resources! Say in an extreme environment where nearly all men had very easy access to sex (similar to 90% of women), how many do you think would bother chasing, SIMPING and providing for average entitled delusional modern women with high body counts. They wouldn’t! Thats why toxic feminism tried to shame guys for paying, des…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:51 AM
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That’s not always true! Guys that get casual sex do also marry! The main thing you need to remember is most women aren’t ran through! Sure a lot are nowadays and just avoid committing to them. They’re best kept for situationships. Most of the girls I dated and slept with before I met my wife were total sluts. I learned that these Hoes going through hoe phases were not relationship material and thankfully I was only emotionally attached to one. My wife had been with 4 guys all LTRs and made them …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 07:32 AM
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It’s all about how they treat me relatively. Does she want me to wait for sex or is she willing to hookup quickly? Most are consistent to their nature, I’ve found and you don’t wait too long. Although one tried to pretend she was a good girl, conservative etc while having an FWB. I bounced immediately just as she was getting really into me. The biggest red flag 🚩 is a promiscuous girl that is conservative with you = she doesn’t see you as hot enough to hookup with and she sees you as her beta si…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:32 AM
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What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is ours you mean. But yeah, her income has no relevance as she will not share it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:15 PM
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Only during the hoe phase I think as they’re trying to let as many guys as possible run through them! After Hoe phase, all women will want to date the Chad, no matter how useless he is otherwise. Bar the 1/2% that are criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:10 AM
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Not for everybody yes, but in general people get married to start families.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:25 PM
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They don’t want to buy the ring, lock themselves into a contract with the state often broken by cheating promiscuous women. Now do they want stuff similar to Marriage? yes! Just not without the state interfering in their finances and to be able to get rid of poor choices (the women) they might have made easily. In 2025, most modern women are totally unmarriagable! They’re only suited for polyamory or polygyny with Chad. It’s actually really hard to find a marriageable woman these days that hasn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:21 AM
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Wrong! Desirable men and most average men are chased and pressured by society to propose often to terrible choices (promiscuous women that will cheat on and divorce them). Why do you think guys talk about marriage being a trap 🪤? Now guys definitely want kids and in an ideal world the guy would have kids with his long term gf and be exempt from misandrist divorce machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:18 AM
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Men are not desperate to marry! It’s the women always pressuring the guys to get engaged. The majority of men would be happy with long term girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:45 AM
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Women don’t marry down economically unless he’s way way better looking. A kept Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:17 AM
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Yet marriage and fertility rates continue to fall. If these modern women were such great catches I’m sure offline men would be jumping at the opportunity to marry them. Sadly the manosphere and toxic feminism has made men and women more weary and adversarial.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:14 AM
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The guys with options don’t pick those women though! That’s the key sticking point. They’ll keep them around for fun but not marriage. The broke overweight loser probably will marry as he has no better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 10:11 AM
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You don’t have an instagram yet you post your photo on Reddit? A place where almost nobody does that. I guess it’s good for clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:35 PM
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I think it’s easy for guys: 1) Successful man with strong career potential and or wealth - don’t get married! You’ll still get GFs and probably be able to have kids but you avoid the misandrist family law system. 2) Average guys, with average careers and a woman that makes similar, might as well get married. Kids will always need to be supported, married or unmarried. Access issues will always be bad married or unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:00 PM
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You can think that and I can think you’re a sex worker with an onlyfans account.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:52 PM
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“Most well adjusted people” Using toxic shaming language is basically highlighting a lack of accountability and lack of maturity. Just because you don’t agree with someone’s preference doesn’t mean it’s invalid! Promiscuous people are more likely to cheat!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:35 PM
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If they lied about that, it’s a pretty small step to lie about having an affair!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:31 PM
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So you’re ok getting cheated on regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:42 PM
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I’d be delighted with option 2, sleeping up is something rare for most men! I get 6 days peace…where is the downside?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:41 PM
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That’s ultra high for bench! That’s even high for deadlift. Anatoly can’t even manage that! It’s world class elite level for guys that are enormous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:28 AM
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How much is 4 plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:57 AM
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Depends on her past! But if she wasn’t promiscuous and or trying to run dual mating strategies, I’d consider her. It would depend on my options though. Marriage would probably be unlikely though!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 11:40 AM
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I don’t think anyone should give up unless the they’ve really tried and the juice isn’t worth the squeeze! Working on yourself should take max a year unless you’re morbidly obese. It doesn’t take that long to get into a reasonable shape (lean with some muscles), you don’t need to be Larry Wheels! The practice from trying this will give you better options in later life as you’ll understand and be able to talk to women better. Don’t simp or white knight and have standards. But don’t disengage unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:38 AM
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No not in reality as women like sex too! Their version of what is attractive would change dramatically. I’m not saying you’d have the option to bang all of them but it’s likely the majority would want sex if you were their only option over the long run. This isn’t the case naturally if you were there for a day or week but if years, then I think as an average looking guy in reasonable shape, I think I could bang the majority. I’d basically become Chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:22 PM
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I think women rate men they don’t know unfavourably but men they do know more accurately (normal distribution similar rather than a large skew). The reality is if you go outside most couples are pretty closely looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 10:19 PM
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That’s not true! If I was on an island with 10 women ranging from 1-10 in attractiveness I’d probably end up fucking the hottest ones if I was the only guy! It wouldn’t make me better looking or a 9/10, it’s just circumstances. Dating apps are the same given the gender mismatch ratio. If the apps were 50:50 then maybe you’d have a point but not at 80:20.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:31 PM
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Dating apps are just like nightclubs, the most attractive guys or the most jacket (often average guys with low baby fat) get the hookups. It’s not really that different from the past just the apps have further reach
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:28 PM
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Well for guys that got cheated on and divorce raped in the misandrist family law system by cheating promiscuous women, it’s probably somewhat true! More likely to hate the specific women that wronged them than women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:59 PM
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No the biggest predictor is past behaviour! Promiscuous people cheat more (men and women). Women in general are much better at it and less likely to get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:20 PM
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This is obvious and true for both genders!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:16 PM
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Because she’s promiscuous! Much higher likelihood, especially if she feels she’s dating down or settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:15 PM
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That’s just basically saying that men western countries do better than third world Arab countries. There are so many other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:14 PM
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This is just not true! They know they’ll probably get cheated on, plus she won’t have genuine burning desire for him. Sure some guys will, but they’ll quickly realise it’s a nightmare especially if she’s way out of his league. It’s like buying a Ferrari when one can only afford to buy a Toyota and dreading any maintenance/breakdown cost. Most people just don’t do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:08 PM
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Men don’t hate promiscuous women, they just hate it when a promiscuous woman tries to be conservative with THEM! It’s one of the biggest red flags 🚩 in dating as its basically saying, “I’m not really attracted to you and even though I jumped into bed with 50 guys first night, I’m going to make you Billy Beta Simp, wait 3 months” often while banging another guy! Guys love promiscuous women for short term, casual, FWB etc but generally not for LTR/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:06 PM
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So having them will cause the fertility rate to plummet further which brings me back to my previous point about societies going extinct!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:02 PM
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Have you seen western fertility rates and the trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:52 PM
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No I know it’s just the side effect of the sex dolls. FYI I do think they’ll be extremely popular in future. People are much more introverted than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:03 PM
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Modern Feminists are supremacists, therefore, they will pick and choose which traditional/equality traits that suit them! They will: expect equal pay but only date a higher earner expect guys to be chivalrous expect guys to be traditional (provide, protect, marry etc) while they are untraditional (promiscuous, demanding, non-feminine, entitled) At this stage I’d never (and I think most men now days) listen to feminists/supremacists. Therefore of course a modern feminist can be and are often gold…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:39 AM
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For a society that will go extinct, yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:08 AM
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Those men would be hugely motivated to continue to perform to ensure the sex supply was steady! Men have to create their value whereas women are born with it in general. Although this excludes the top 10% of male attractiveness (they just need to not be fat) as it comes easy to them. Many Chads are broke, lazy working dead end jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:38 PM
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Women (the majority, not every single one) have always been hypergamous! It’s not really debatable. It was necessary for survival. Those instincts don’t just evaporate with 50 years of feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:29 PM
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Only the top men are the prize! The bottom 90% are in the non-people zone! Chad doesn’t have to do any work, spend a cent and they’ll still chase after him. In time, polygyny will dictate that he can make even more demands (the women are already comfortable sharing him, being his female providers isn’t that much of a stretch). It’s clear the Chad is the prize! 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:26 PM
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Feminists construct that men as a whole group are privileged which is just nonsense. I agree that a small group of mostly men but women too control the world. I think the term is used by feminists to state “all men have power or privilege”, whereas the reality is “a tiny minority of men and some wealthy women from the richer countries hold the power”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:58 PM
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There is no mythical patriarchy! That’s just a feminist construct to paint themselves as victims. There is an elite group of ultra wealthy powerful people that subjugate men and women! Men arguably have it worse in many regards. No average man in Ukraine or Russia feels privileged at the moment! In recent times, under the woke liberal era, white men were severely discriminated against due to racial quotas in hiring. Thankfully that DEI nonsense is dying and it’s back to merit. I don’t think ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:26 PM
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Fake AI girls and OF whores don’t forget
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 11:29 PM
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A & A easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:07 PM
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Sorry to hear that man! But you see all types of couples together. Can you give some background on why specifically? I’m sure you’ve seen worse looking guys with women around? Are you in shape?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:05 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:36 AM
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Because they can sleep out of their league! They can usually only date around their level. If average guys got hookups from Dua Lipa etc they’d be jumping at the chance!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:18 PM
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It’s High definitely but I don’t think 80%! The main thing is how she treats you! Did she jump into bed with you straight away or make you work and toil to prove yourself worthy! Then she should only be suitable for short term fun as she clearly isn’t into you and seeks you for the wrong reasons (financial stability etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:58 PM
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They’ll say the soft spoken improver but they’ll CHOOSE the fit, attractive bad boy with a roster!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:54 PM
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Yes of course they want to date him! In 90% of cases anyway, unless say he’s a criminal etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:04 PM
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I think the key differentiator is that many women don’t do any casual sex! Therefore for those women, the best looking guy they get with is the one they date with and marry. Therefore the Chad that only wants a hookup won’t bother with the effort. One of the biggest red flags in dating is the woman that does casual with one guy but makes the other guy wait, jump through hoops, prove himself etc (dual mating strategies - Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks). Now most women don’t do this but if you meet one t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:46 AM
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Because the men they’re hooking up with WONT date them! Most women desire the hookup guys and gaslight themselves after saying he was only for fun. Sure! The guy way out of your league was “only for fun”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:39 AM
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I never said women shouldn’t work or earn their own money!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:42 PM
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The most attractive guys I know banged a few 3s, not to mind 4s & 5s. Usually drunk though after the club etc High count = low standards in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:23 PM
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Out of interest, how have you done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:56 AM
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Is it? Most won’t let on until you’ve revealed your red flags. Most will pretend to be liberal left leaning etc until they get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:16 AM
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Red pill men are traditional and don’t have an issue paying for the date. If you are successful, this isn’t a big cost for you! I would always pay unless the woman made no effort and was cold etc…then I’d split as it’s a sunk ship and I ain’t paying for a stranger’s food.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:57 PM
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This sex negative culture (like in the past) is better for 90% of men. It’s generally better for women too as less likely to get played, end up single, childless and alone. People overall were happier in the past. Women especially before the 1970s. Getting “empowered” to slave away like a man isn’t making women happier. Neither is getting ran through and played by Chads. I think do what you like! Just like any guy can do what he likes but just accept (as guys do) there are consequences for life …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:33 AM
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There is an easy win: just have sex in committed relationships! OR sleep around and accept there are consequences for that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:06 AM
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Mid guys don’t get hookups! Unless she’s super drunk and even then it’s rare (especially in the instagram/OLd age). She’ll usually pick the much better looking Chad that will discard her like a used condom after. The mid guy then has to jump through hoops for the mid girl (that delusionally thinks she’s settling, even though Chad was never an option) , wait for sex and prove himself to get access. Hence why women with a casual past are huge red flags for LTRs and why most modern women are undate…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:35 AM
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Answered in another comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:35 AM
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Take your pick. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and social psycholo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:35 AM
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No as that’s only pictures and videos not the real thing! If they were sleeping with them, like escorts then yes it could well do!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:33 AM
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Promiscuity damages both men and women but women more for the following simple reason: Men sleep down while women sleep up! As women are hypergamous (by nature, essential for human species survival), sleeping with guys way out of their league and then having to settle for her looksmatch (average) beta provider will never satisfy her! If she had met her looksmatch first, then she will be far more likely to form a lasting pair bond. Men sleeping around are usually sleeping down (8s & 9s banging 5s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:49 PM
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AI Sex dolls for both men and some women is the sad future coupled with Polygyny for the most attractive chads. Chad will have so much options from the endless spiral 🌀 that he will demand female providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:46 PM
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