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Most guys in relationships are significantly more attractive than their female halves in my experience. I say that as a heterosexual dude. Questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:22 PM
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The things I do in my relationship, I would never do for a non relationship guy. That guy doesn't deserve that level of effort and trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:14 AM
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Yeah, fuck women. Doing men in the butt is where it's at bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:13 AM
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My love is not unconditional. You're not my child. If a woman has to face anal fissures and prolapse to prove her love to you, her love would be wasted on you. Share your kinks with people without asking them for the world because your request is imbalanced and illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:12 AM
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If you're single, no one is coming to you with woe is me shit. You're just adding to the noise of ungrateful men who work very hard to make women feel like we offer nothing only to whine incessantly when we rescind our part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:02 AM
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Try dating men before laughing at this. It might embarrass you to witness how much the average man asks for these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:18 AM
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You are conflating unrelated things to just highlight the fact that you, yourself, are ungrateful. A woman's contribution is not really up for debate which is why men statistically remarry so quickly after the death of their spouse or a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:17 AM
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I was not responding to you unless you're saying /u/NockerJoe is your alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:13 AM
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Ah yes. You, the unchosen male, are better at choosing men to mate with than the biologically driven female. At least we live in a time where you are free to choose all the men you want instead of the useless clucking about all the way women exist incorrectly for your tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:12 AM
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I wonder if there are any men on this subreddit that value the contributions of women that work hard to please their spouses. The longer I read this place, the more I realize that the misery of some men are completely justified. After all, what a foul thing to say for no reason. It doesn't add to the discussion and it doesn't answer the question but it just adds information to female readers like men are ungrateful and you should only look out for number 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 01:18 PM
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So the women who actually do everything and beyond for their husband's should just shut up because protesting a clear imbalance makes her a shrew?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 01:16 PM
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It is illogical to think this way considering most young people spend so much time online and a woman's options and access to better guys greatly increases. I agree that most men are on their looking for sex but LTR and marriages are born out of online dating apps all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 02:23 AM
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I love what tons of porn is doing to my brain, women simply become invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 10:31 PM
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She does more than housekeeping but using your valuation, just hire a housekeeper and leave that woman to a partner who places more value on her contributions in the household. Minimum wage will not get you all the benefits seen and unseen. You can be happy with getting what you pay for and that woman isn't getting scammed by an ingrate of a spouse. It is a win-win for everyone then. Be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:57 PM
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I can get that without marrying this person and being with them for life. Why would somone like this alone be husband material?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:52 PM
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Many young women are working and going to school. You don't need to reverse the genders. The modern world includes women with incomes so what is your excuse now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:38 PM
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How is a woman who got what she wanted victimizing herself? Don't bite my head off just because you don't like how this works. You're personal choices are completely under your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:29 PM
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Men who lean on the more masculine side frequently explain the thrill of the chase and speak of women being masculine in pursuit are less attractive. Passive men don't understand these dynamics and it tends to show as the relationship progresses. Some women are comfortable with effeminate men but not all of us like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:27 PM
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If the man is not a provider, doesn't protect since we live in safe times, and he cannot carry babies to term himself, what exactly would make him "husband material"? What is he there for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:22 PM
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Your assertion makes it seem as though a woman is only honest in her attraction if she is with a man who is not a functional adult. Most PPD women will have the same salary or above so how is assortive mating gold digging? Slightly above average is not worth the efforts of a gold digger. Men are pretty much attracted to the same type of woman so if she is conventionally attractive and gold digging, she is setting her sights pretty low. An attractive woman who ensures her partner is financially s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:18 PM
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I see men make this assertion often here so what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:08 PM
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Resources are not a social structure though. Be it money or food, the basis is the same. If you can stop attacking me for a moment, you can turn towards the same biological basis men make to justify pursuing attractive women to see that the female always flocks towards the most resourceful and genetically gifted males to propogate the species. My looks are not who I am. I was fortunate enough to be blessed with great genetics and I exercise, eat well, and groom daily. You aren't going after unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:05 PM
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And since pussy is currently artificially inflated due to societies laws empower women and controlling men’s sexuality. Would you explain how the laws artificially inflate my sexual value? How are the laws making men pursue me harder than they already would and how is it an injustice to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 01:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 01:07 PM
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I don't see a "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:33 AM
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The vast majority of men have a vested interest in keeping those men in line This.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:32 AM
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I see. So the comment was not important then. I am glad to see the mods have removed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:21 AM
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Our lily white suburbias have the same things with people in better clothes and they aren't hearing your elitist snobbery. They are just enjoying themselves doing the very same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:17 AM
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I'm sure he would be just shattered by your opinion of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:14 AM
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The OP is flawless. Everything stated is true. Happy couples born out of a woman pursuing the man are exceptions. In addition to that, men too shy to pursue are not a strong choice for a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 11:00 AM
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Neither of those women would be the jobless or underemployed men you're agreeing with. I wonder what you would say to the woman with a complicated pregnancy by a man who can't pay for a doctor's visit. The endless criticisms of men are to be ignored because you leave no reasonable pathways to consider the needs of women. It's just an endless tirade meant to punish us for inconveniencing you no matter what the cost is to us. Is it any wonder why more and more women rather die alone than bother wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:20 PM
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Ultimately it's your choice if you want to get pregnant or not. I'll be sure to let biology, instances of rape, successful deception, states that do not allow abortion, and instances of sex slavery know that we women and our voluntary wombs pick this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:13 PM
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You don't date women who are not white collar professionals so your palpable hypocrisy is next level of irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:11 PM
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Like why would you risk getting murdered by your boyfriend? This risk of doing business is what it means to be a woman. I don't know how you don't understand that as much as women express this. Is your boyfriend exempted from all these men? Is he on a moral high ground than the rest of us? Yes. Most men will go on to live normal lives without murdering anyone. But that's besides the point of this post. I don't know why you had to mention that. Because it is one of the risks we deal with in engag…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:10 PM
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Straight men are not avoiding women, sluts or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:07 PM
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Yeah, he is just a guy showing how hurt he is that women dislike men like himself. Hardly the hallmarks of a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:06 PM
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You don't have to understand them. You are heterosexual and should focus more on what women are doing. All your complaints do nothing to decrease the population of men who don't agree with you and freely pursue and love us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:05 PM
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What do I get out of lying about a trope? I didn't say all men do this but enough of them do for this to be relatively common knowledge.. If you don't like that example, you can easily just read the statistics that show all the women beaten and murdered as a result of the jealous rage of men. Men snoop and check in so much that the ones who don't are the real surprise. It doesn't get to me because I have nothing to hide and it is easier to pick my battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:01 PM
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I wouldn't feel anything because my assumption is he is doing this. Men are loud and jealous even of their own infant on the breast of their wives sometimes. We are not the ones screeching in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:23 PM
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I do not support casual sex culture but I often feel like the loser because men say they care but in practice, these women enjoy commitment and devotion and even riches several magnitudes greater than the average woman. They get bigger efforts and more admiration. I think men today disincentivize chasity. You can't come together as a group telling women to give up sex in dates 1-3 or else you bail then simultaneously claim you care about n-counts. Women can bare their behinds on instagram and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:22 PM
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I don't have the nerve but it is something I admire. Thank you for this huge compliment!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:18 PM
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Yes, I would say most of them are. Most times they find their new husband in their sexual travels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:18 PM
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Plenty, actually. Being poor doesn't mean that you're deprived from religion and morals. If anything, enlightened liberal types trying to justify poly relationships with scholarly discussions are less inclined to be corralled by morality. It also shows how someone with nothing might be using sex to find a love society says they do not deserve. The slutty lib millenial has no such arguement. They aren't overcoming much beyond maybe bruised ego and hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:16 PM
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Thank you Aaren. I realized while reading your comment how easily I am able to explain away certain behaviors and I would peg them as leniency due to some unfair deficits that man might have developed growing up differently from me. However reading the attitude of a man who knows what he wants and pursues it makes those explanations seem weak. I am with someone new now and I like him a lot but I am asking because I want to overcome my blind spots. Thank you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:06 PM
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I really like your point of view on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:03 PM
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This falls on deaf ears knowing the insatiable appetite men have for sexual variety, their comfort with dishonesty, and almost certain penchant for disloyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:02 PM
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I can't change your view because my man knowingly dates me and gets a kick out of these discussions. He is also tougher on men than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:00 PM
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How would you advise your daughter or a woman you care for on how to identify a man who believes a marriage vows like you do? Men will use the same words and facial expressions to make such promises but it is still difficult to tell. It is apparent to me that you're sincere and I am heartened by this. You might have insight that I do not as a young woman. What are some tells that a man who says he wants marriage will follow through this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:48 PM
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Typically emotional neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:39 PM
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Considering the financial ruin men put themselves in for mere images of nude women despite it being free all over the internet, your taunting of women's sexuality is confusing to me. Men have proven they would do anything for sex. Will you explain to me how that is different than your assertion about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:38 PM
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If what you say is true, it seems to me those secret opinions are unimportant since it doesn't affect the outcome. They are still pursuing relationships, marriage, and family with these women so what difference does it make at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:35 PM
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Tell you what, message me back a couple of years from now and let me know how Mia Khalifa's relationship is still going strong. In the case of Kanye, Ray J got the better end of that deal. Kanye's just a rich, useful idiot who now has to shoulder the burden of everybody knowing his wife's on videotape taking the dick like a bitch. Will you let me fuck you in the ass? If not, why are you being so insecure? This would be far more interesting if low n-count people didn't always divorce and face pov…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:32 PM
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I'm sorry would you please quote the message you mean? I'm still new to reddit and I just see loads of unrelated comments so I don't know what you are referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:21 AM
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Yes, you are forcing this situation bc FDS BS is not keep for them but is a goldding gospel to make women believe bitching is the right way, even newspapers have spoken on how this is actually oppressive for women who want to date as equals. All you have to do is move on to the next woman. You're not a victim. Don't put your pussy on such high pedestal, there's plenty for every man. I'm not the one who is putting it on a pedestal. You men are. By virtue of screaming at me on the internet, you va…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:17 AM
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Thank you so much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:08 AM
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Your response is magic and perfectly explains what I have been trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:07 AM
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I'm sorry you don't feel comfortable enough with yourself to speak freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:59 AM
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Nothing besides the fact that men say they aren't asking for this while they vigorously pursue such women with fervor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:54 AM
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I am not a disingenuous person. I always offer to pay. If he allows me to pay, I will not be seeing him again but I am always gracious, I make the move, and I always say thank you. There is only one guy I recall who allowed me to pay my half and even though he was cute and the date went well, I refused to see him again no matter how many times he asked. That is my prerogative. No, I haven't tried to insult you. The purple pill sub discusses the matter of the red pill or have you forgotten what b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:56 PM
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FDS advocates waiting. Most men do not have the patience to do that much work for a pump and dump nor do most men have the options. Good to see you advocate getting over on women and using our bodies while hypocritically being against a gesture like generosity on a first date the man asked for in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:31 PM
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We are not interested in your version of equality. Let us know when you can share pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:29 PM
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Nonsense. My boyfriend and all of my exes easily paid for dates and expenses. I always offered and they said no. I would gift them and treat them on different occasions because I am not stingy and I enjoy treating my partner. Men tend to be surprised too. Most adult men with reasonable amounts of exposure to the opposite sex in the dating world operate this way. There isn't really any point in being nickel and dimed by the men of the TRP when so many more men wouldn't ruin their chances with mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:27 PM
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You can feel free to report any of my comments you find inappropriate. I am confident there aren't any. I have not written any "woe is me" comments as I am in a happy relationship and I am not the party complaining about the opposite sex. I do find it interesting that you find my thorough and honest replies as "gaslighting" but you have said nothing to the baseless and frequents attacks against women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:23 PM
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Your hostility has not added anything to the conversation. When I get married, I will be giving up certain things to bear my husband children. Men cannot have children themselves and those that want them invest in the women they want them with if they are responsible people. If I don't want a man's involvement, I'll go to a sperm bank so yes, in fact, a man trying to be with me with that reason including means he must prove his worthiness to me as a young, attractive, fertile woman. No one is fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:21 PM
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Better question is, how will low value men adapt to their redundancy? Harsh but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:16 PM
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You aren't the only person or gender that went to school. Many of us modern girls are highly educated as well with well paying jobs and can afford to look for more meaningful factors in pursuing a connection provided he is a functional adult with a decent job. In addition to that, I have youth and conventional attractiveness going for me. Many of us do. Attractiveness is the only factor to a great deal of men so when it comes down to it, that professional man who worked as hard as he did will of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:14 PM
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It is not hypocrisy. My role as a woman will require me to give my man things he cannot give me biologically. I am also very generous in my relationships and I do more work in many ways. I will not consider a man who won't pay for a first date because I will not squabble over a few dollars. I have money but it is the principle of the thing. I am not interested in people so immature that they are hyperfocused on these things. I am the kind of woman that men pursue and I do not strong arm anyone. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:10 PM
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I have not suggested men owe me anything. I should also point out that the amount of investment I put in taking care of my body and appearance is of great value to at least some men. A common complaint from men is about how unattractive, fat, and unfeminine so many women are today. You don't have to see a woman like me and ask me out or pay one red cent but women like me have options that include men who make the time and effort worth it. No one forcing you into the situation. It is not likely I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:06 PM
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What you consider high value as a man is irrelevant since straight men are not interested in you, they are interested in us. We are not interested in you either so I guess we are both happy for you in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:33 PM
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It appears I have already replied to you and all you have to say is you don't like it. It doesn't affect you since you're not interested in FDS women and vice versa. Good day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:26 PM
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I am not a gold digger for not wanting to date cheap men or low effort men. Men don't have many ways to show how they value women and many of them exploit a low barrier to entry by pushing for non committed sex, abuse, and abandonment. As a woman with a sizeable income and a generous heart, it would be stupid for me to allow men like yourself in my life. I don't shirk my responsibility as a woman to my partner and find guys who cry equality as a reason to be cheap untrustworthy. You're likely no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:20 PM
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Yes there is nothing wrong with men paying for things just like there is nothing wrong with women bearing men children and sacrificing their bodies and lives to do it. You're so jaded you don't know that there are women like myself who are generous too. There is also nothing wrong with calling oneself "queen". You can be as bitter as you'd like. No one is forcing you to pursue women who are FDS. They are not interested in you and you are not interested in them so there isn't really a problem to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:26 PM
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No one says you have to date anyone from FDS. I am pretty sure you have the wrong idea about how we treat men. My boyfriend could never say he has been mistreated or abused because I appreciate him and I show it. I appreciate him because he easily clears these markers and I am not forced into a situation with no reciprocity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:02 PM
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Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:57 PM
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You're a man, not a woman and it is men who chase. Your rules select for female doormats and it is a common strategy of men who will devalue the woman in his life. Men always mistreat the women they did not chase. This is precisely why FDS teachings are so important. Following their strategies, it would be impossible to end up with you and that is to the benefit of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:45 PM
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I'm a real woman and I'm a devoted follower of FDS. My womanhood is not in question just because I am learning to value myself and reject narratives men push that cause women harm. So called real men would be supportive of the rejection of low self esteem, low morals, and the culture of casual sex leaving broken souls strewn about. You're not entitled to respect just for being a man especially if you don't carry yourself as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:40 PM
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Real men respect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:37 PM
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I am not an undesirable woman. FDS taught me to stop undervaluing myself by giving time and energy to men who do not reciprocate. These uncharitable and rude comments about women who want more fairness in dating says a lot more about you than it does about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:29 PM
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Men walk away and leave their male offspring all facets of life and this is women's fault? Invasion of male spaces? I thought men "let" women have rights and civilization. How is it possible that those same strong men are having their spaces "taken" by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:25 PM
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It is really simple. Men will only invest in what they care about. Screening for men who are not generous early on prevents you from locking yourself down with a low effort individual who will likely cost you down the line. There is no reason to squabble with a man about splitting the bill. We know to just pay our half then never see him again. Men pay more upfront, women pay more for life. FDS is focused on LTR and marriage, not hookups so if it inconveniences a man to pay or wait, him leaving …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:00 PM
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Yes men do this and if I am being perfectly honest, I am comfortable with a man walking away for such ultimatums. Your feelings are not important to me. I have limited time and opportunity to build the best family I can and I rather spend my energy with a man who is ready. If more women were this direct and willing to walk, it would be best for us all. Men con women into wasting important decades. That will never be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:50 PM
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It is not your scared duty. The ultimatum is so that you walk if you're not worth the energy of all those years and our time is saved. That is the point. You're a man and we cannot trust you. Walk and keep walking because the men who ultimately get 100% of female investment play ball. Our time is shorter and more valuable so it is a favor to us if you get lost to make room for the man that is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:48 PM
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She can do exactly that if she so pleases because honestly, what are you or anyone going to do about it? That schlub will be grateful for the attention and go for her just as she went for Chad because biology doesn't care about your biased so-called morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:12 AM
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Ugly men are somehow better for women than attractive ones? You don't have a womb. Let's not be disingenuous about your so called superior picking skills. You just want us to have low standards and admitted it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:10 AM
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Why should a single woman be loyal to unattractive men that do not benefit her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:08 AM
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Can you prove that unattractive men are more loyal, better fathers, more resourceful and more romantic than attractive men? If you cannot, what rewards are women delaying by passing on the better genetics for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:06 AM
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That's rich coming from the biological whinefest masters calling polygyny natural and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:43 PM
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Women are vain and men are innocent. Women should ignore fame and fortune despite men feeding the machine like no other industry on the face of the planet. I should fact check that because the food industry faces the insatiable, voracious consumer base too but I'll assume you get my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:34 PM
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Don't shout your issues at me. I am a clear communicator and I don't waste my own time treating the man in my life well with a covert contract. Women may feel pressured to do that because manchildren get skittish but I have no such concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:17 PM
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Because men will waste our time and best years with complacency and taking us for granted. Please see the current population of under performers who rather opt out of adulting because it's too hard. They can do it because they have no ultimatums forcing them to perform. We do it because men make us. You will be the same one humiliating that woman for staying until after she hits the wall and now has to choose between even more problematic left overs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:10 PM
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As a woman, I never saw how hypergamy was worse than polygyny. The constant demonization of female nature while lauding male nature as innocent is what has desensitized me to their pains with hypergamy. Men will say there is always someone better so hypergamy is worse but if someone keeps sleeping with other people and having babies outside of your relationship because you will never be enough, I don't see how it is worse. I would argue that a woman has a harder time to exercise hypergamy after …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:07 PM
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That 16 year old girl does not speak for me. I know we are women but please stop attributing the fantasies of a few on all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:21 PM
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You are kidding yourself if you think your argument can take traction in a culture where young men will freely use deceit to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:15 AM
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Reddit has made me less attracted to short men. I never cared before and I doubt it would keep me from a catch but I just don't care to deal with the neurosis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:40 PM
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This is such an intelligent comment so I thank you. I left my ex boyfriend after exhausting all my emotional resources dealing with abusive and emotional behavior. I left another ex for cheating on me. People cite these stats without considering women like me who go above and beyond to cater to men who whittle us into a bare nub of our former selves. At some point, leaving is self love and self preservation. I don't know if men are more willing to withstand abuse but I have always felt like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:26 PM
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Your morals are not more important than my health.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:20 PM
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No. It is a complete dealbreaker with no room for discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:16 PM
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Yes, there is a lot of misogyny but There is no "but". It doesn't go beyond here for me. I don't have any sympathy for people who see me like nothing more than a simple minded animal. You don't get to dehumanize me and then hope for the humanity in me to feel for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:17 AM
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This really hurt my feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:48 PM
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He needs to be able to maintain our current lifestyle if I become unable. I am able to do it if he does. I am not taking on male liabilities like I used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:24 PM
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That's their only option and I'm helping them out. Gross because this is exploitation. I feel bad for people in this position and I wish nothing but health and wellness for them in this society of debased predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:18 PM
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Or it is biological as men not wanting mates with high n counts. The overworkings of the male ego needs to give it a rest. If he has to pay for it, he is unattractive. It is also unattractive of him to be so indifferent that any hole would do. Men who have to pay are unattractive. Men who don't have to, like rich celebrities, but do sometimes are not as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:16 PM
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This is a really gross thing to say and doesn't cross my mind as a woman. I just don't find a man who had to pay for sex attractive. I've lost attraction to a person for this before. You don't say anything about men who don't like sluts so don't be so messed up about our disgust for johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:09 PM
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I am going to need a source on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:54 PM
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The one that takes the lives of other people away because they cannot get a grip on their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:54 PM
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Still beats the strangling and shooting of women that hurt the fragile male ego
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:53 PM
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Not getting sex is more important to you than a more dominant man bashing your face in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:52 PM
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Your commitment to discredit every single thing women tell you is a strange hobby that only serves to feed your resentment. I get that some of you hate women but this is getting silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:38 PM
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On the flip side we have women with very unrealistic veiws of their own attractiveness, who assume men are attracted to the things they are. They refuse to make efforts to create feminine appeal for men they want to attract - and then blame the men for their own lack of effort.... I think this is true for some women but to play devil's advocate, why would they change when they can still get sex and relationships the way they are the way men cannot? Maybe some men won't deal with their behavior b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:24 PM
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I have noticed this to be true. It is older women who tend to me drawn to the man approved masculine beefcakes. Even then, men will take it too far and think that means women like serious bodybuilders. Even if Jason is one too, and I don't know that he is, his frame isn't try hard and doesn't look like he doesn't cuddle or eat delicious things on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:18 PM
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It is not only a dealbreaker, it is a non starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:09 PM
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Spinsters predate MGTOW and their internet movement. Immaturity is not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:24 PM
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This comment is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:52 AM
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I didn't expect you to hear what I just said but I did say it for the record. Men as a class are a disappointment because they do what you do. Hamfisted shouting at women while dismissing our realities. I don't care that you hate FDS or fail to see how it helps women. I just care that it exists. You're with someone for 16 years so no matter what, your opinion isn't important to us anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:47 AM
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It is specific because it is inspired by a guy's post but alright, I will message the mods. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:36 AM
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How is this an advice thread? This topic isn't about me. It was inspired by a post a man made and I wanted to know what the RP stance was on non committed men expecting exclusive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:33 AM
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I honestly don't get why this guy would be anything other than happy about this situation. I think it's because men push this image of not caring about this holiday just so they don't have to try when in the real world, men enjoy romantic attention even on this "stupid" holiday. I can't be the only girl who will go out of her way to make her man feel special and I've had boyfriends cry on me because of it. There will be thousands of upvotes on Reddit threads from men saying they don't get compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:25 AM
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Both may be greedy but men inflict psychological damage and bodily harm on women if they are a bad match and it just seems logical to leave men alone if that is all you can get. I also take issue with you calling women who lean WGTOW greedy. Have you ever heard of a woman who leaves men alone because he wasn't a godly billionaire Chad? What are some of the reasons you believe a woman would opt out? I see some MGTOW as greedy because they want to contribute little to nothing and be gifted the sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:04 AM
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They're greedy but they can't satisfy that greed How strange coming from the polygamist male gender who willingly torpedos his life for a little sex. Men need MGTOW to do what women will naturally do in the face of bad options. More than half of MGTOW continue to pay for sex or pursue women only to keep his MGTOW status by saying he won't marry. Women get friends, activity, and cats with better health outcomes than their married peers. I don't see how you are characterizing women who leave men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:41 AM
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You were never waiting for a reason to be a misogynist. There was never a difference where you were going to have a positive opinion so feel free.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:19 AM
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Not under deafening cries of jilted men on the internet, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:16 AM
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Those two things are things that men will pick over women, and women can't do shit about it. Actually, we all know that not all men were chosen to procreate in the past. A certain quality of man is concerned with things like legacy and doing more than jacking off until they are dead. The tactics that you mention work fine with the men wired for more. Now that LVM have something to do that distracts them from their position, they are hoping it stings women but women continue not to care. All your…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:11 AM
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The words seem optimistic but all I am picking up here is anguish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:00 AM
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fds' ugly autists That's alright, I'll be an FDS ugly autist enjoying the kind of relationship I want and you can proceed feeling superior with your over investment in porn. I enjoy being in a relationship where I don't have to silently resent an addict. If you say porn sickness is normal, I'm glad we aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:40 AM
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If you have been with her 16 years then you are not really qualified for this discussion because this is about dating in today's climate. Everything is different. It is faster, harsher, and with little civility. You're talking about overweight women when I am an athlete that is explaining to you that we already know being pretty and fit is important. Only a man would think that is all it takes to get a relationship of quality. That is why we don't ask you for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:58 AM
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TRP is almost only anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:46 PM
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Your comment only focuses on looks but good looks are a foundational premise of the female experience. When you only focus on looks you end up with unsatisfying relationships, divorces, dead bedrooms, and infidelity. This is why men keep ending up with the pikachu face over divorce. You don't find any value in the experience beyond someone looking good. As women we have to consider generosity, safety, and kindess. We have to learn to see the signs of flaky and dishonest men who will not stand th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:45 PM
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I lose attraction to men who needed to use sex workers. If it were a friend of mine, it wouldn't impact our friendship but I would be unable to look at a man I am dating the same. I need to be able to admire him on some level and something about having to pay a prostitute makes the man seem like less of a prize. I don't mean to be offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:28 PM
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They literally say things like "you should break up with a guy if he ever watches porn", Men with porn addictions are terrible partners and everyone suffers. Why don't you look to the reason things are being said instead of repeatedly attacking what you don't understand? Many women enjoy porn too so a boyfriend who watches it is usually fine but like everything, some people act in excess. They expect painful and unpleasurable acts to emulate the porn they are addicted to and they introduce all l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:25 PM
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Average woman dont get to be in monogamous relationships with top tier men. That doesn't mean the average woman has to settle with trash. FDS teaches discernment and boundaries to women who overlook these seeking love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:19 PM
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That's so lame. That thread would have been a party if they didn't censor you out. The stuff men are allowed to say on that subreddit can be so sexist and cruel. Why is that okay but you defending FDS not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:03 AM
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Not as unpleasant as running into LVM time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:40 AM
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We want LVM to walk away. You can see from the outrage they find this offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:38 AM
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It's so beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:15 AM
2

This is flawless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:02 AM
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I don't see it as an endorsement but I do feel good that inconsiderate men take this opinion piece as credibility and are spreading the word. This is a good example as to how male black and white thinking and lack of individuality benefit motivated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:45 PM
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Male thirst and ego is good industry. They are so willing to pay and do things to their own detriment so long as "quality goods" are available. That is a lucrative, social fail safe for women. That explains their resentment and inability to divorce from our sex despite it. Tl;dr Kryptonite pays really, really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:43 PM
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Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:40 PM
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I am humbled by this comment. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:32 PM
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I don't care to shame you. I am more than a hole. Please enjoy your "cool girl" points from men who would never defend you, at 50 no less, in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:00 PM
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You can't raise that because men themselves concluded sex from psychotic women is the hottest and they value sex and hot women over all else. That is why women don't have to correct behavior and men do. It's about what you can realistically get and not about your sour grapes Reddit comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:55 PM
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You're not that important. For every misunderstood woman that can easily appeal the ban hammer is 25 men trying to attack the subreddit. It is easier to reinstate you than waste an afternoon trying to figure out what you mean while hundreds of other comments come in by the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:52 PM
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I find it bizarre one needs a “strategy” to not date losers. Does it really take that much work to identify them? You find it bizarre because you were not groomed by society to be a vapid doormat to attract men. You weren't told your self worth was rooted in beauty which is a genetic decision you don't participate in. As a man, you are careless about how men exploit their power and abuse trusting idiot women. Why would you see reason in needing a strategy to protect one's self and follow your bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:50 PM
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RPW cannot keep the kind of man FDS wants. Female charm is heavy weaponry but lack of boundaries and common sense give men the room to abuse their powers and eventually get bored and cheat. Men will always abuse their power. That is why we don't have a mutually beneficial casual sex culture. Men are just as driven by challenge and flattery as women are. There is an art to it and RPW just gives you the road map for "female welfare" where a man who dabbles and demoralizes his wife is called captai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:45 PM
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No, I think TRP has easily proven that they are objectively awful and that men are being sensitive to the rational outrage and adjustment of women. I will start thinking it's more when men are past this odd stage of blatant false equivalencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:32 PM
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Selectivity can work both ways, but for men it's much easier to be selective when they're getting their sexual needs met in the interim. Then men should do that and leave us FDS women be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:29 PM
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That isn't necessary. I was just sad and confused by what you said and you made yourself clear. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:11 PM
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Oh. I didn't get that from her response about not owing anyone anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:10 PM
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And so what is your point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:09 PM
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I have dated all races but mostly White. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:08 PM
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The same duty that gifted you the freedom to be awful to other women today. However I take your point and my disappointment in what you are home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:06 PM
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I am just asking why you said this Some dumb hole wrote a positive article about it. This is one of the most degrading and hurtful things I've seen men call women. Why would you, a woman, do it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:02 PM
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This underestimation keeps more women safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:51 PM
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Because one side uses their power to exert bodily harm on innocent people offline and the other doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:46 PM
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This is not a claim being made here and FDS explicitly tells women not to do this. I am glad you came around in support of FDS teachings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 02:52 PM
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This information was always available to men. Nothing said is new. Men just don't listen to women so this is not the revelation you hope it is. Men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 02:51 PM
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We dislike having sex and wasting years on LVM men even more but I don't see you worrying about that. Leave our negotiations with the men who show up to us, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:50 PM
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So what? Reddit is full of misogyny including this sub and I deal with it. Why can't you? If you don't like how it feels when women don't like men then say something when men here act the same way or worse. Don't expect us to meet a standard that you don't especially since we are not asking you for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:44 PM
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Maybe not you personally, but many of FDSers like to badmouth them. Men badmouth women all over Reddit all the time. Reddit is known for it's open and rampant misoginy. I come here and read I am not worth anything more than sex. I come here and listen to men say I am like a child or that I am too stupid to know what I want of that the juice is not worth the squeeze to exert any sort of effort to be with me just because I am a Western women. You are a regular poster here and you are comfortable w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:39 PM
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What do you want me to do for LVM and what are those men doing for me? I don't exploit anyone and I don't see anyone advocating for the exploitation of HVM. I am not very sympathetic to men in this case. I can be but I will not put myself second to men any longer. What men are complaining about is unreasonable. If I make a mistake, none of these men will defend me or protect me. All I am doing is selecting amongst those who seek me. I feel attacked by men in the dating scene when I come to subre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:15 PM
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Yes it is. The women who follow FDS are interested in a particular kind of relationship. If you have a problem with that relationship, you are a bad match to be avoided. Not all women will like FDS or pursue those relationships. You don't want women who want those things either or else you would be advocating for men to reach FDS standards. Either we both get what we want or it is a bad match. Enough with men taking sex and emotional energy and ignoring our needs. We avoid you. That is far bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:03 PM
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Because it has men outright seek and target women like me and do things that hurt me. And you know what? I don't go online and yall at men about TRP. I read what they had to say and just avoid them. many of you promote lying about your past, not texting too often even if you want to (the kind of manipulation promoted on TRP women often are criticizing very much) and so on. You are defending the TRP so you see what men say and do with that information. I don't lie about my history but I understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:52 PM
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Interesting to see you manufacture a narrative and then argue it against yourself. Looks like you don't need me for this exchange. Have yourself a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:44 PM
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Some men to be avoided are disgusting but others are just a bad match for the quality of life we want. They aren't disgusting they just don't fit and that is ok. So many men are unforgiving when we choose poorly and bad outcomes have to be survived so I cannot allow male sensitivities dictate what is good for my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:43 PM
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You mean like the very popular and fatpeoplehate and where are all the good men subs that attract thousands of men on Reddit? It has already been done and continues to have many subs like them populated with the ire of men who hate on women for their looks or being single mothers so why the hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:41 PM
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Please leave me alone. I don't like how men on this subreddit keep trying to force feed me with discussions about feminism. I didn't make any claims yet you are attacking me. You don't know what my personal beliefs are. I reported your personal attack. Leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:39 PM
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Yet they do. As none of them show any amount of compromising on their standards. And they shouldn't. If you don't meet them, you don't date. You have the same power to make those choices for your life. You are not going to guilt anyone into accepting less. Women accepting less has ruined things for everyone. I mean do you think men demand women to meet their standards with zero compromises? Wait don't answer as you of course say yes despite men do compromise all the time just like non FDS women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:29 PM
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Why should women hide their bitterness when they are victims of some really bad people? Men can be angry all over the internet and be defended by other men but women who have been hurt can't speak honestly with each other because it bothers you? This is the sort of self centered attitude men have today that has turned some women agaisnt them. It is not about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:20 PM
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women don't grade on a rational bell curve, of what isn't attractive to what is You don't get to decide what we want. Calling it irrational is not the demerit you want it to be. It is just sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:18 PM
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Hahaha what a reach. Men actually kill women and say we deserve it for choosing bad partners. This tweet isn't a serious call for the death of men but nice effort at trying to be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:15 PM
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No, of course not. Maybe some do and some don't but are you actually arguing this is worse than murder? Do you see why people don't sympathize with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:14 PM
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If you're a woman and you end up fucking a man who practices TRP, you've only yourself to blame. Good thing women are taking some personal accountability and learning from FDS to avoid these men instead of suffering and having unsympathetic people like you saying their being used is their own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:11 PM
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• dating multiple men simultaneously and flaunting this into their faces in order to provoke them into making a move You're going to have to show me this one. We advocate dating multiple men until one becomes exclusive which is how everyone dates. • having foody calls, or general exploitation of orbiters FDS did not write this article and I don't see posts instructing women to do this. • using a guy you aren't into in order to make a guy you are into jealous This is the same as your first point …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:10 PM
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So why does FDS expect men to fit their standards? I mean they go on non stop demanding men play by their rules. Things like waiting 3+ months for sex etc etc. They don't though. They just refuse to date and sleep with men who don't meet these standards. No one is forcing you to meet them. The end goal of FDS is a loving LTR where the give and take is equal. lamo. The end goal of FDS is to have a relationship where the woman is in charge and the take is not equal. All you have to do is avoid wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:00 PM
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Men today are already saying fuck that and not playing ball. That is why women have begun filtering low effort, low value men out. FDS is already mainstream. These are the old rules that were temporarily suspended when women tried to appease men and Tinder. All it got us was a generation of entitled neets that make life hell. If you don't play ball, you won't date that woman so you're happy and she is happy. We just know that 11/10, being single is better than being with a LVM. That is how bad a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:46 AM
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I have absolutely idea what you're talking about. I just know that I am not going to sit and let you attack me for no other reason than being born female. You wouldn't like it if I made a comment dehumanizing you because of actual things men do like rape and murder as opposed to your blatant mischaracterization of feminism. Please take your problems with feminism to women who care to discuss it. Having a vagina is not a crime. I have no comment beyond this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:41 AM
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Maybe I grew up under a rock or maybe I didn't. Should I allow myself to be used and abused for not knowing something or should I learn from the mistakes of other women and do well for myself? I don't know what you mean by having men play against each other. Most men know if he finds a woman attractive, other men will too and I don't recall any advice suggesting we set these men up for battle. What advice suggests we take advantage of men we aren't interested in? Why would I waste my time and en…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:35 AM
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You are not being honest. I would link you to some horrifying threads but I cannot do those searches for threads that have been deleted. It isn't just a handful of us that have seen them. I will be mindful and save screenshots for when I run into men such as yourself later on in PPD so we can stop the childish gaslighting and get you to confront some of the disturbing behavior everyone has a problem with. I just wish more men who defended men would be more honest in these discussions. Denying th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:26 AM
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Men call for this now and it doesn't matter if I like it or not. If I want to date those men, I have to meet those standards because there is no negotiating attraction. Lots of men currently belittle women for feminism and criticizing these male preferences. No amount of disagreement gives women the authority to decide what men value and it is also true the other way around. Men are just not used to seeing it happen the other way around. I suppose I should change my language because it is not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:23 AM
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I am glad you feel this way because men who have a problem are precisely the men we wish to avoid. It is a win-win instead of the usual which is a woman taking a loss giving a LVM a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:06 AM
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This doesn't mean that I think it's a good idea to wait six months (because then you also start to weed out the guys who are sincere), but nevertheless I can see why women do it. However, there's more to manipulation than that. Alright then please continue and explain what manipulation you speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:04 AM
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I don't see men who are providers and who are respectful of my need for time as subordinates. This is the kind of man I trust to head my household so yeah, we disagree completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:03 AM
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I haven't been alive for decades and I never said I was a feminist so I'd appreciate it if you keep your venom away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:02 AM
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It is a difference without distinction because either way, we were always raised to defer to men and speak in certain tones to be liked by them. The women who won't abide by this won't get picked by those men. It is the same thing here. What matters to women is not for you to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:58 AM
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I can if you're saying "women" do this and I am a woman. I am not a remarkable outlier. I am just one woman and if I exist, other women like me exist. It isn't even logical to argue that all women are into this so why phrase it that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:39 AM
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Tell that to my ex or some of the guys my friend's tried to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:37 AM
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What exactly are we manipulating for? If I don't want to date a man who is cheap or who tries to rush sex with me, how am I manipulating him? Isn't it more correct to say that men who say they will bail if they don't get sex fast more of a manipulation? Why is it wrong to fight back and avoid these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:35 AM
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Yes, that's right. Did you expect an argument from me about this? Women already know lots of men want this. This is high value for these guys. What is there to take issue with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:33 AM
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Am I not a woman? I don't find assholes attractive and I never have. Why do men keep saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:28 AM
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It is not knowingly mislabeling though. I'm a woman and this is what I consider a high value man. That is the kind of guy I wanted. I just don't see why men keep telling us what we are supposed to value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:22 AM
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FDS is based on very old, tried and true rules. Women shot ourselves in the foot giving the "cool girl" thing a chance and allowing men to abuse it so much that they feel entitled to sex with extremely low effort. Men who can't make it through the filter have no business with the girl so it works. What you don't seem to realize is the guy who tries to game someone on FDS just to get sex would still have to put so much more effort than the average fuckboy is today. By the time he did all that wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:17 AM
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The problem I have with FDS is that it's a guide on how to get commitment from high value men by playing games. An actual high value man has options and won't put up with getting messed around. Why should you have a problem with that? You don't invest time in finding us husbands that we want so what is it to you? All we do is avoid dating men that are not a good match and date those that are. If he won't put up with it, what do you care? Are you rooting for our romantic success? If the man won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:12 AM
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If women define this as high value male, what is there for you to ridicule? You're not the one dating that guy, marrying him, or bearing him children. What you value as a man is not relevant to the discussion of what women want. This is similar to how men love muscles and think we should be more attracted to them when we are more attracted to frame and general fitness. Your tastes aren't what decide what is high value for women. Women's tastes decide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:05 AM
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I find some of your comments more honest than most of the men here so it is strange to see your characterizations. The things I would read in the men's subs turned my stomach and hurt me. I never knew men hated us so much. The things on FDS might be off color sometime but we don't celebrate when men are killed or raped. We don't write evil plans that harm men with the help others to perfect. We don't advocate secret cameras to violate the privacy of men or push the envelope with the definition o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:54 AM
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I broke up with someone and I am dating someone I am really happy with using the information I learned from FDS. It helped me let go of someone I had no business holding on to and understand his behavior. You are kidding yourself with these comments. There are types of men we just don't want so if the end result is men self selecting themselves out of the way, this is a positive thing. We can never be that optimistic so it is better we learn the self respect and the desirable traits we want in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:49 AM
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Porn sick, limp dick. It is really embarrassing to come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:43 PM
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I wasn't the one who decided appearance was the end all be all. Men did. So to be quite honest, I suppose it does mean that for the average man. We don't value men based on appearance only so that does make him the worse option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 02:15 PM
1

Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:09 AM
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I want to be you when I grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:09 AM
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I am 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:27 PM
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Men cry a lot. But when you catch a cold, they ignore you. If you need something, they ignore you. If a relative dies and it makes you sad, they (LVM) act like your emotions are so inconvenient. This has been my experience. I'm done feeling like I am low value because of it. I treat my partners really well and it is my pleasure to do it. I am on the look out for someone who doesn't act like reciprocation is asking him for an organ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:12 PM
2

No, not all of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:43 AM
5

A queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 04:55 AM
7

I am so ashamed. This is me, verbatim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 04:54 AM
20

The continuous truth bombs found in this sub are too much for me. Women have finally found Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 04:53 AM
223

I am no longer this girl. I'm walking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:24 AM
2

I'm nervous. What if you're right? It’s basically a disease that healthy people get when they caretake unhealthy people. Succinct. I will look into this right now. Tysm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 02:55 PM
2

It is 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:06 PM
1

I know girls do this but I can honestly say he just isn't trash. I need an alternate theory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:10 PM
0

Chances are once he comes out the other side, he'll be done with therapy and done with you. Oh my God. I had not considered this. And I love him. I would never choose to keep him broken just to have him even though I don't think I can do "better". My best friend of two decades told me this morning that she likes him for me. This is the first time she ever said that. He has sat through my trauma. I am not perfect and I even lashed out on him once. His default reaction all through life is to run a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:09 PM
15

Am I lying? Will you make this my flair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:04 PM
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Have you seen what's out there? I actually like being the hero to this story because I get so much out of it. You have to understand. I hate dating I cannot imagine it getting any better. Everyone has issues. I will trust the advice on this sub but please tell me you still feel this way after my rebuttal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:04 PM
4

How convenient. You can complain about women not meeting your needs as a man with their failing to be attractive enough but when the shoe is on the other foot, you fulfilling one of your only biological purposes makes her a "whore". Keep rubbing those nickels together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:54 AM
9

If you had more nickels, this wouldn't be your dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 02:07 AM
11

This post needs to be highlighted in a stickied thread of it's own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 08:35 PM
30

She has to do all this on top of childcare because his salary is too low. Instead of picking up some extra work or helping out with childcare, this is what he does. How is being single worse than this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:45 AM
8

I was flattered by this too! 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:16 PM
3

You are probably right but he acts so needy for it. He seems his happiest when I am giving him the most attention. He gets these really kind moments from getting consideration from me that he says no one has ever given him. You're right, though. He also has begun to take it for granted. I am so confused and avoiding him altogether now. I will take a look at it this evening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:44 PM
1

I don't know what to say. I just want to be like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:40 PM
2

Getting started now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 02:02 PM
2

All the time you are willing to spare. I need to learn. I am sick of these patterns. I am always in the same position and I don't understand it because I make so much effort to be really good to my partners. I am not attracted to fuckboys or trouble makers. I just don't understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 01:28 PM
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I have remained quiet but I cannot stop reading these responses. You ladies are right and it is a tough pill to swallow. I am grateful for this subreddit and for each and every one of you. Your advice has not fallen on deaf ears. I have pretty much withdrawn myself and I think it will take a few days to state the obvious. He is being strangely attentive and more communicative but I think from what I learned here this is just reactive behavior like when you take a toy away from a child. A toy is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 01:14 PM
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