InteriorInsights99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What am I supposed to spend my money on? Wine, women and song?	Social Issues	InteriorInsights99	/r/MensRights	24/11/22 05:00 PM

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1	What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce… Who are they? From what I’ve gleaned from conversations about celebrities among my colleagues these two sound immature, dysfunctional and desperate for media attention. TBH I’ve never heard of them before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 05:11 PM
2	Nightclubs are not the right place to meet women There weren’t just ‘young’ people in the clubs and social media addiction isn’t just a problem for the 25-40 age range. Younger women: heavy alcohol consumption/ social media/non stop scrolling/smoking/obsessed with image/money. Women my age ( 45-60): heavy alcohol consumption/constant telephone use/ looking for a man who can ‘look after them’ so that they can either give up working or who’ll pay for shopping/holidays. The more the woman earns the more she wants her partner to ‘look after her.’ …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 03:01 PM
3	Nightclubs are not the right place to meet women I (m56) don’t go to bars or nightclubs because I don’t drink alcohol and I dislike the kind of music they play. Physically I’m 1m80, heavy set, muscular, blond haired, blue eyes. No tattoos ( women love men with tats over here!) Living in Europe a majority of people still smoke and consume a lot of alcohol ( despite frequent government health warnings). I got fed up with people criticizing or trying to belittle me for being a non smoker/teetotal and not liking the Euro pop/rap/rnb mysic. I’ve lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:18 PM
3	How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it? My previous head of marketing used to filter out any man in her life who wasn’t the ‘right’ astrological sign. She had been married 3x, then had three bfs at the same time and still couldn’t find someone to be her ‘eternal one.’ She rejected me straight off because I was an Aries ( like her 1st husband). The last I heard of her she was still using astrological charts to decide who she dated or who would be a potential fwb. She’s now 59. She’s intelligent, fun, generous but her private life is go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 01:12 PM
4	How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it? Ok my astrology sign has been used by several different women I met IRL as a sign of incompatibility. They didn’t like the fact that I’m Aries. Told me an Aries is unstable, takes too many risks and Aries men have to be the dominant partner therefore Aries men either don’t respect women or even worse are serial womanisers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 10:32 AM
1	Its true, women don't make any effort in dating Women put in the effort when they are genuinely attracted to a man who can also improve their life in some way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/22 08:26 PM
1	If men want to be successful with women, they should listen to other men that are successful with women. They should NOT listen to women. Sure I’ve asked lots of guys and always got the same answers…. Single…. Have money to spend on dates/pampering and spoiling her. Single…. practise one of these sports on s regular basis: winter sports/ tennis/rowing/martial arts ( notice lifting weights isn’t one of the sports that proved ‘successful.’ Married… money/money and money. Always treat your wife to classy restaurants/ take her shopping and buy her what she wants/….for long term success the two ‘successful’ strategies were taking her a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 10:43 PM
3	In a perfect world, how often would you have sex? It’s not the quantity that counts but the quality!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 08:51 PM
0	Hobbies for men vs women These are my hobbies: collecting old film posters/ going to film memorabilia fairs. ( over 500 posters now). -going to the cinema ( recent blockbusters+ cult classics/old movies in small town cinemas). Last time I went to the cinema with someone else was over 15 years ago ( with my kids). -collecting music CDs/cassettes/vinyls ( about 4000 ish). Going to music fairs. -going to rock concerts/festivals. ( 200+ so far and counting) -going to the opera/ballet/theatre. Most recent was Vienna opera an…	/r/MensRights	27/11/22 08:32 PM
1	The Body Count thing is gendered, but not in the way people think I’ve lived and worked for a long time in Mediterranean countries ( Spain/France/Italy/Greece/Malta) and a man with high body count signifies to a woman that a.) he’s experienced and knows what he’s doing and even more importantly b.)he’s slept with a lot of women because he has things that women want in a man… money, status, being the two most appreciated. When I’ve mentioned that having a high body count could indicate lots of casual hook ups/poor self esteem /sex addictions/inability to connec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/22 01:36 PM
1	It doesn’t matter the level of attractiveness of a woman, they ALL still only find attractive men attractive Women are attracted to men who are physically attractive ( obvious) but what seals the deal are the following: -his status. Not even his perceived status but how much he’s actually prepared to spend and keep spending. -what sports he practices on a regular basis. Winter sports, tennis, martial arts give attractive men with money/status extra attractiveness. -if he has the above two then the next one is decisive… is he willing to pay for every holiday or even buy her a car? I’ve seen this play ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 04:24 PM
1	Why should men still be the ones to pursue? Men have to pursue. Having lived and worked for many years in numerous ‘Latin speaking’ countries ( France/Italy/Spain/Greece) I can tell you that it’s instilled in men from an early age that a man pursues a woman he likes, and it’s the woman who chooses to accept him or not as a partner. If he’s not chosen then he isn’t up to scratch and must try even harder. The expectations on men have increased as women have achieved equality in society. The message is that if a woman doesn’t choose a man it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 04:19 PM
36	Single Men vs Single Women Ive heard the following hundreds of times… -‘he doesn’t earn enough so he must be lazy/lacks ambition.’ -‘there’s obviously something wrong with him.’ -‘he’s single because he can’t offer anything/he doesn’t know how to talk to women/he’s bad in bed’ ( it’s always one of these!). Concerning single women: -‘she just hasn’t met the right person yet.´ -‘most men are a waste of space/lack money/are poor/lazy/unambitious so she’s obviously having a tough time finding someone.´ When men are single it’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 08:58 PM
3	Women do not like male virgins and prefer men with skill and experience in bed This might be viewed as outdated but over here in Europe male virginity is associated with all the negative masculine attributes. Being a virgin in itself isn’t the problem. The problem in the eyes of a large number of women is what that virginity means… social isolation, lack of communication skills, emotionally stilted, lack of ambition and drive in life. Male virgins are mocked, ridiculed and viewed as losers because in the eyes of the women they are virgins for a reason… they can’t attract a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 09:45 PM
1	How do attractive women pick a man to commit to? In one word..being generous. European dating is very transactional. All my female colleagues, female acquaintances rank a man’s generosity as the most important characteristic they look for. A man’s generosity is ranked first and foremost in financial terms and secondly with his personality. It sounds cold and harsh but I’ve literally been told dozens and dozens of times by attractive women ‘love is fine, but money makes me love more.’ ‘I know what I’m worth and a man should know that.’ Perhaps …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 12:19 PM
1	How do attractive women pick a man to commit to? I’ve seen both these scenarios play out multiple times ( here in Europe). Concerning situation 2 all the attractive single women in the company I work for share men they perceive as high value. I used to think that polygamy was a fringe dating habit but then about a decade ago I became aware of my v. attractive female colleagues automatically rejecting any man who didn’t meet their v.high standards and instead of just waiting for the suitable candidate to perhaps one day appear, they started sha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/22 12:05 PM
5	An interesting prediction for the dating market Women are thriving in further education and have been for a while.	/r/MensRights	03/11/22 10:19 AM
8	An interesting prediction for the dating market All my single female colleagues share bfs. These ‘bfs’ are perceived as high value and even guys I work with earning 6 figure salaries, are fit and healthy , intelligent, empathic etc get systematically rejected. Sharing ‘high value’ men is common over here in Europe. I started seeing this over a decade ago and it’s a common occurrence in all the countries I live and work in	/r/MensRights	03/11/22 10:09 AM
8	An interesting prediction for the dating market In my son’s university class there were 27 women and 12 men. In my daughter’s 54 women and 31 men. Every university class I taught part time had more women than men. Even when I taught at university over a decade ago there were more women than men in each year group. I live and work in Europe.	/r/MensRights	03/11/22 10:03 AM
5	Unpopular opinion: incels are justified in feeling frustrated A lot of women share men. Many of my work colleagues share the same high value bfs. I’ve witnessed this phenomenon in all the European countries I’ve lived and worked in.	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 06:17 PM
1	Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is? Nope! It’s called ‘intelligent feminism ‘ for a reason. I’ve lost count of the shear number of women who I know either socially or professionally who follow this strategy. Their objective is to protect their futures when their husband/partner inevitably cheats on them. It doesn’t matter how long they’re together, or how deeply connected they’ve become, their man will definitely cheat on them, so ‘intelligent feminism’ is all about getting your husband/partner to spoil you rotten ( remember their…	/r/MensRights	17/10/22 04:26 PM
1	Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is? I’ve yet to meet one who isn’t like this. They’ll talk about wanting a man who’s kind, loyal, honest, empathetic with good communication skills but each time it doesn’t take long before the conversation turns to a man’s job, status, and his ability to ‘look after her’ and ‘show her how appreciative he is of her.’ Dating/relationships are more and more transactional and mercenary here.	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 08:03 PM
31	Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is? Oh dear… if a European woman hears you ask this you’ll be condemned to the stake!!! This is how it works over here… the more highly educated the woman, the bigger her salary, the more her partner is expected to provide for her. It’s called ‘appreciating her’, ‘being considerate’, ‘being a gentleman’, or ‘ a woman has a certain level of comfort that her male partner needs to understand.’ Never, ever mention a sugar relationship. My female colleagues proclaim ‘girl power’ and ‘womanly values.’ The…	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 01:55 PM
125	Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is? I live and work in Europe. Quite often there are social get togethers and my female colleagues talk openly about their dating/relationships. 12/15 of my female colleagues are divorced ( 6 for the second time). They were the ones to instigate the divorce. They’ve frequently stated that their husband ‘didn’t look after them enough’, or ‘didn’t make them feel special/wanted.’ They all willingly said that meant their husbands didn’t show how much he cared for them… he didn’t spend enough money on th…	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 07:13 AM
17	What do you think is the biggest issue men are facing right now? Double standards…ask most women what they want in a man nowadays and they’ll say things like ‘honest, emotionally intelligent, loyal, good communication skills, empathy’ etc. They’ll downgrade things like a man’s status, job, monetary value because the majority of women are independent these days… they’ll repeatedly tell you that a man’s job, bank account don’t count anymore… In my experience and those of every man I know either through work or socially that is absolute trash. Every single man I…	/r/MensRights	01/10/22 11:44 AM
1	Do you think most men are oblivious that they've been Sexual Assualted? I knew what had happened to me wasn’t right, I felt different, When I was ten couldn’t concentrate because I was constantly ‘daydreaming ‘ ( zoning out/dissociating multiple times a day) the day after I’d been sent to a foster family. Imagine being seduced, manipulated, forced to smoke weed, held down then two older women abused me. After that it was every day with different adults, men, women, older teens, everyone was sleeping with everyone else in this rural community. After about 18 months I…	/r/MensRights	09/09/22 09:11 AM
1	Have you noticed Reddit is aggressively anti-men? The problem is how things are presented in our media obsessed society.	/r/MensRights	06/09/22 12:25 PM
2	Man wrongfully convicted of New Orleans rape as a teen exonerated decades later Kevin Strickland of Missouri was released after spending 43 years in prison for a crime he didn’t commit. He wasn’t eligible for compensation either ( compensation only if exonerated by DNA). Just look up the innocence project and see how many people have been falsely imprisoned.	/r/MensRights	28/08/22 02:47 PM
1	Guys are being dehumanized in the dating scene and these are the reasons. This doesn’t correspond to the European dating scene. Women prefer to share men ( i know of about a dozen of my female colleagues aged 35-50 who share bfs rather than date across.. they always date up. ) My fellow project leader shares a bf with two other women ( one of whom also works in our same NGO). They’re quite happy with this polygamous situation because the guy in question is definitely up market ( all three know he’s married and already has children). They have many suitable single guys…	/r/MensRights	27/08/22 03:28 PM
4	"Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better" I work with more women than men ( NGO) and more than 60% of the people I meet/see outside work are also women. This is what I’ve noticed… -a lot of women aren’t good communicators, or emotionally available or even know what their values are ( so don’t know what similar values to find in a man). I’m the first to admit that I have some serious flaws which I’m working on in therapy ( CPTSD/PTSD). I’m open, honest with my feelings and I’ve learnt to be more emotional vulnerable and communicate my wa…	/r/MensRights	20/08/22 02:18 PM
1	Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?" Throw the question back at them and see how they answer first?	/r/seduction	19/08/22 03:30 PM
5	Apparently Now Men Are Single Because Of A " Skills Deficit ". What Skills Are We Talking About Here? Yes I would agree with this. Here in Europe women have a lot more rights and equality than many women in the US. There are more women at universities than men. Women are better represented in politics, governments and business. The further north you go the more you see this. I believe 100% in equality and equal rights. However, there are two elephants in the room: Men haven’t been given the same help/ received the same affirmative action as women have had. Men are lacking in soft skills, emotion…	/r/MensRights	14/08/22 09:03 AM
7	Apparently Now Men Are Single Because Of A " Skills Deficit ". What Skills Are We Talking About Here? No, the women I know always level up when changing partners. All my male colleagues earn 100K+, most do sport, educated, cultured etc. Fewer than 5 have a partner. The women from low admin/secretarial all the way up to boardroom level always date up. The lower paid female colleagues don’t date my male colleagues earning 100k+ because these women are generally aged 21-30 and they opt for guys their age who are physically very attractive.. my secretary only dates bodybuilders ( she’s currently got…	/r/MensRights	14/08/22 08:21 AM
10	Apparently Now Men Are Single Because Of A " Skills Deficit ". What Skills Are We Talking About Here? I work with lots of men earning 100k+ and you can count on one hand the number who are partnered. The rest are all ignored or even if they get some dates are dumped for someone better ( it’s either for a fitter/more muscular guy or one who earns even more). All my male friends and colleagues are single or divorced. Ages range from 30-60.	/r/MensRights	14/08/22 08:17 AM
4	Found on FB. Huge support of sentiments in comments. Anyone have the original article? The consequences will become more and more visible for everyone in the next few decades… Having an ever increasing group of single, lonely men is bad for society. Men who feel left out, excluded become isolated, alienated and are prone to fall for extremist ideas. So you’re going to see more and more misogynistic behavior, violence and extremist groups taking advantage of this. Domestic terrorism will become more dangerous compared to foreign based. A lot of men will simply give up and focus on …	/r/MensRights	13/08/22 02:55 PM
-1	Miami OnlyFans model captured on video beating boyfriend she later killed We don’t know everything yet in this case. The elevator video may not be admissible in court because we don’t know what happened before this or afterwards. The way it was presented to the press during the press conference strikes me as an attempt to influence the public opinion and show her as the abuser. The knife wound is strange.She claims she threw it from about 10feet away but according to the medical examiner it was a downward strike of about 3 inches. They’d supposedly broken up weeks bef…	/r/MensRights	12/08/22 07:33 AM
1	My wife yells at me, throws things and says I Gas light her My ex wife was like this. She could go from calm to raging anger in less than 30 seconds. It was scary how her facial expressions changed. She was bipolar, had OCD, and I suspected had experienced childhood abuse. She’s Italian and during the early part of our marriage we lived near Turin. I lost count of the numbers of times she slapped/pushed/bit me or threw things at me. I had cuts, bruises and psychological stress. Once she threw a heavy cooking utensil at me which knocked me out and left me…	/r/MensRights	06/08/22 09:26 PM
1	What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you? Women don’t want a guy to impress them because that indicates to them that you’re handing your power over to them ( putting them up on a pedestal). Women want a guy who has something that benefits them, makes their life easier/more comfortable but they have to put in the effort. Confidence, a sense of humour, an ability to communicate your emotions/feelings are more important. Women don’t care if you can cook, clean and look after your own house/flat, dance all night, repair a car engine/change …	/r/seduction	06/07/22 05:04 PM