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| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they arefound lizzo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areyou'd be slurping my dick in real life if you saw me, you basement dwelling fatass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.they don't desire sex, they desire sex with chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:06 AM |
| 1 | If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with?i mean the husband gets his rocks off from porn and masturbation in a marriage because he ain't getting any from the wife. otherwise very few men are such porn addicts that they'd rather masturbate to porn than to have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they arewhale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.women could not give 2 shits about how muscular you are as long as you're tall or handome. you could be physically weaker than a woman but if you're tall or handsome you'll still get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.boo fucking hoo, i ain't reading that wall of text | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:16 PM |
| 3 | If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with?exceptions. most of it is women not wanting to have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:07 PM |
| 0 | If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with?dead bedrooms are caused by women. the reason most married men watch porn is because they're not getting any action from their wives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:47 PM |
| – | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:58 AM |
| 1 | What would happen if all Men abstained from sex for a entire year?that's not sex, that's masturbation with flesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:18 AM |
| 2 | What would happen if all Men abstained from sex for a entire year?lol you're delusional. i have average looking female friends and their inboxes are blowing up with men hotter than them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:18 AM |
| – | Men, do you actually reject women for this reason?absolutely. for me anything over 1-2 previous partners is immediately rejected. i was lucky enough to find my virgin girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:12 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with average men?i like seeing people having to live with the accountability of their past actions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:09 AM |
| -1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they arei'm 6 foot, now cope. you sound obese. i have a girlfriend who's more beautiful than all the women on this subreddit combined (news flash, you're all 2/10s) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 08:03 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with average men?being single, bitter, post wall cat moms slash wine aficianados at 30 is gonna feel swell, i assure you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 08:01 AM |
| 4 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areno, i can and will hate delusional bitches thinking a 5'8 man who is well above the average women in height is too short to date. there goes the "just be taller than her" cope women constantly lie about on this subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:29 PM |
| 5 | What's wrong with average men?a lot of average women on this thread thinking they're not average and don't want to date an average man lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:24 PM |
| 6 | What's wrong with average men?absolutely nothing. in fact the average man is in a lot of ways better because men are constantly told to try harder at getting women so they take care of themselves and better themselves while women just exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areoh my fucking god, i legitimately, physically loathe women like this, i guess half the women in the world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)No, they're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?I found mine after being patient, but sadly most men aren't strong enough to stay single and tough out the loneliness and stick to their principles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Happily partnered folks, does your (heterosexual) relationship seem at all similar to RP beliefs or is very different?If these replies from every other mediocre chick banging a tall guy doesn't get you to take the red pill, I don't know what will. "I don't care about height, but my boyfriend just happens to be 6'10, tee-hee!". The memes write themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:19 PM |
| 17 | CMV: "Emotional vulnerability" is true, albeit misleadingNever open up to women emotionally and cry, they are hardwired to dislike you for showing weakness. Go cry to your father, he'll understand. Go cry in the shower under the running water. Don't even cry to your mother. "Show more emotions" is a shit test women do to really test your masculinity deep down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?Lack of a father figure is indeed tied to women clinging to masculine stereotypes much tighter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | The spark exists for women, and it drives a majority of their choices in men.You're not wrong, and I do give pathetic men shit for chasing women and getting scammed for it and more. That doesn't change the fact that women falling for obvious psychopaths is much more ridiculous than pathetic men lusting after mediocre women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen marrying down and women marrying up is the norm in financial-gap relationships. I can't believe it took you three repetitions to get this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou know what I meant. That's the norm for financial-gap relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | The spark exists for women, and it drives a majority of their choices in men.Funny. Yes, we can. And yes, the ones who aren't desperate for subpar women can. That's not nearly similar enough to being attracted to psychopaths. Men can't see a women scamming them from a mile away because they're that depraved of female attention. Whereas women can easily differentiate between a masculine man and a psychopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen date/marry down and women date/marry up, that's the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)yessir | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 03:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 03:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCongrats, you found one famous example you can compare to rich men marrying broke women everywhere, every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.This is true, although you have to realize social media is mostly what fuels this, before that relationships were much more organic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 01:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean it does happen. A millionaire or even a billionaire could fall in love with a cashier and marry her, he'll have no problem bringing her into his luxurious life, whereas the opposite will most likely not happen. I personally don't have a problem with this, most men don't either, the problem is, like always, due to some women denying truths like this and gaslighting men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist?The problem is men probably treat very ugly women like that whereas women treat the average man like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:48 AM |
| 3 | I really doubt the "male loneliness epidemic" is such a big dealBookmarking this thread in case a woman ever tells me again that they never gaslight men or invalidate men's struggles and loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:47 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDrove over to my grandmother's to bring her some produce from the farmer's market and helped her cook and helped around the house with chores. Cherish your time with your grandparents, folks. Buried my other 3 grandparents in the span of 6 months and I would probably give all my money to spend one more minute with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:40 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhahahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not "rich man dates cashier", it's a man with a much better and steady job not minding what a woman earns, and how the opposite almost never happens unless the guy is ridiculously attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:35 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf it's her money, it's her choice so I wouldn't mind, but I wouldn't like it either, just because it's needlessly expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)I don't think they should be "automatically" attracted, the problem stems from women having too high standards, it's not like they *can't* be attracted to the average man, but if you delude yourself into thinking "I'll never date anyone who isn't this height and is that attractive", they'll slowly program themselves to feel like that. Women absolutely should be selective, I'm just saying they should be more realistic. I recommend women pick men based on attractiveness and good personality and ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)I agree and I got asked to rate people on camera multiple times in the street and always declined it, my point is about realism; it's just not realistic to be average looking and expect a model to commit to you. They may date you once, but it's incredibly unlikely they will commit to you. I'm not degrading anyone for their looks or praising good looking people, it's just the way it is, like calculating physical strength. I don't mean to objectify anyone, it's for argument's sake and to get my po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Absolutely, that's what I'm saying. Women are only delusional because men give them the upperhand. I don't see it, either. Most men are pathetic when it comes to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | The spark exists for women, and it drives a majority of their choices in men.No, but I have personality traits that psychopaths share, like being assertive and capable of being dangerous. These are attractive traits found in nature, the problem isn't women being attracted to these qualities, it's not having the mental wellness of differentiating criminals from masculine men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)It's not help, it's distributed work. If a man works a job, it's only fair for the woman to take care of the house and kids. You're acting like wanting a relationship and abandoning being single entitles you to something, and like having sex doesn't go both ways and the woman should gain something from it or something. A relationship is mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:13 AM |
| 0 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Because just because a more attractive man is willing to sleep with you, doesn't mean he'll commit to you. If all you value is sex, go for it, but if you want a relationship and do that, you can't complain. Average people dated each other before the invention of social media and dating apps and the glorification of promiscuity, and people were happier back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)i mean, shoot your shot, it's just really low and unrealistic. i just explained the potential harm, being used and dumped, harming your psychology and your future relationships, settling for a man who will take you with your baggage and not really be happy with him when you could just be realistic, but of course it's your choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)because you don't have a shot with top men unless you're one of the top women. just because a top man is willing to have sex with just about any average woman doesn't mean he'll ever commit to her. that's the problem, you'll be used because of your delusional entitlement. there is a such thing as realism. why would a top man commit to you when he could have top women? because you have the best personality in the world? because you're rich? because what? can both men and women marry up? sure. but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?Never argue with women, you won't gain anything from it. If you insist on starting the topic, state it once and clearly and stand by your preference and don't argue about it. Just say something short and slick like "when I'm with a woman I like to spoil her", don't justify your preference to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)They're frustrated and venting with valid points for some acknowledgement only to be met with gaslighting, they don't actually expect women to solve their loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?Men will accept women who look worse than they do, and expect women to cook and clean and raise children if she is not working which is fair, and how dare men expect females to be feminine? Men have much lower standards for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Players are also very rare, most men out there are genuine. No player is going to go through meeting your family and stuff just to get sex from you. It's very unlikely. This is why meeting potential partners via friends is a good idea I think because if your friend are good people, they would have already vetted their own friends and wouldn't be friends with such people. The reason why I would blame someone who keeps falling for people who usually don a lot of red flags is observational incompet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:08 PM |
| -1 | The spark exists for women, and it drives a majority of their choices in men.Spare me your wall of text joke, I already have a steady and loving relationship with a high-value woman who isn't like most women that I describe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)I don't think it'll result in more crimes. What it will result in is more porn consumption and mindless coping mechanisms like videogames and more alienation and isolation and disillusionment with no return. It's a genuinely sad state of affairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)If you use Tinder, that's on you. I can't even imagine how you would navigate hordes of matches the average woman gets. I installed Tinder on my girlfriend's phone to test this, she never had an account before, and we posted a couple of pictures and she immediately got hundreds of swipes. She's very pretty, and I'm attractive and tall enough to get matches on Tinder but it was eye opening to see. Men on Tinder aren't after serious relationships. No, trust is key, don't invade people's privacy. P… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:36 PM |
| 10 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?Most women are, ideally, looking for a superior in every sense of the word. They want someone who makes more money, someone physically stronger, physically larger, mentally stronger who takes charge and takes care of a family, and so on. Which is completely fine, I just wish they wouldn't deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)He is more at fault, I didn't say he isn't. I said vet your dates better before you sleep with them if you want to be sure they're not liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)It's a huge societal issue that I care about, because it's only going to get worse because it has been going worse since the emergence of social media and dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:20 PM |
| 16 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)They do. And every time they make a new one, women find a way to invite themselves over or cry about it and report it somewhere until it ceases to exist. Men can't have their own spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:18 PM |
| 9 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)It's not solved, but the gaslighting isn't helping. Acknowledgement alone is a great way to help people struggling in any subject. I'm sure a small minority would still complain but most would appreciate the understanding and try to move on. The gaslighting and other stuff actively push these people to hatred even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)It's your fault for not seeing clear red flags. Players don't look like nice guys, they look and talk like players. Learn to see through attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)I'm not entitled to anything. I already have a steady and loving girlfriend who's nothing like most women. It's not about women lowering their standards, it's them being delusional to think the men they want will ever commit to them. Enjoy your cats and wine when you're 40. I've already invested a hefty sum in cat brands, with the way it's predicted, most women will be single, sad, and alone by 2030, and I'll be rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Pick your men better, that's not my responsibility. Yes, because it not only hurts the average man, it hurts women in the long run, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allI actually held back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Nobody says their biggest problem is having sex, this is just you, gaslighting men again. Men want relationships, sex is just a byproduct of that, not the whole deal. And the fact that you can't take it seriously means you have absolutely no idea what loneliness is like because women can't be lonely unless by choice. "Focus on yourself" is not advice, it's womanese for "shut up". I'm not trying to humble anyone, I already have a steady and loving girlfriend who I plan to commit to. The fact that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | The spark exists for women, and it drives a majority of their choices in men.Different reasons, that man is a psychopath, and women love that. And she probably didn't know his height beforehand. The guy is good looking enough, and he's a psycho, nothing else matters to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)We don't want comforting lies or bad advice, we need some women to stop gaslighting men and downplaying men's problems. That's it. There would be someone out there for everyone, if women dated people in their own league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 13 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)No, they don't. Men unfortunately have very low standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 8 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)If cats are better than relationships, go back to it then, who's stopping you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)They're completely different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)"Duty to have sex", "competing against women's single life", "extra cooking and cleaning", just say you want a servant who should tend to your every need that you will occasionally reward with sex, and not a partner. Stay single then, I hope you enjoy your cats. I genuinely mean that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)It's because women confuse being wanted for sex is the same as being wanted for commitment. If most women are being wanted for sex, that doesn't mean you're individually wanted, it means men have a much lower standard for attractiveness, which if you take as something to be proud of, is complete delusion. Wanting the best partner you can find is fine, the problem is women can't get the kind of "best" partner they want to commit to them, because again, women confuse a man wanting you for sex with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:09 PM |
| 8 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)If I'm average and I want someone more attractive, it's not self worth, it's delusion and entitlement. They're unempathetic to men's struggles, that's a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Most men have a friend or two, we usually don't care about that but if you don't have a partner as well, not having friends adds up to that. Having a partner is much more important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Men don't want just sex, despite what women who have made poor choices tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?Yeah, I understand, I agreed with you. I meant it's no reason for the man to take it out on the woman and the relationship for his insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | The spark exists for women, and it drives a majority of their choices in men.They really don't. Someone may like tattoos but that's not a spark. Spark is literally being really, really attracted to someone, and that can only happen when someone is really, really attractive, most likely much more attractive than the person catching the spark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:59 PM |
| -1 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?They would eventually want to make more and provide for you because that's what a man is wired for. I can understand resenting your inability to do that as a man but that's no reason to take it out on your partner and the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)It is, not because the average woman cannot be attracted to the average man, but because she thinks she deserves better just for existing. And no, I hope my brothers out there stop entertaining delusional, low-value women who don't value them. I'm glad I have a great girlfriend that is nothing like most women so I never had to deal with that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:43 PM |
| -3 | Ladies would you date a man who makes less money than you or who is unemployed?Pick better next time. Most men won't mind you earning more than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:35 PM |
| -2 | The spark exists for women, and it drives a majority of their choices in men.Simple, there is no spark for unattractive men. It's what most women do, even an above average attractive man is not enough, so they go for someone even more attractive enough for the "spark". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:34 PM |
| 6 | The spark exists for women, and it drives a majority of their choices in men."No sparks" just means not attractive enough. Also, that woman is pathetic, but we all know she's not the first and won't be the last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Everyone is attracted to people much more attractive than them, that's not gender specific. But the average man is attracted to the average woman and not the other way around. The average man is invisible to the average woman. That's the whole problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.No, there is no "likely". You're not "likely" to be in a car accident, but you know you could die and you can never say for certain that you won't crash the next time you drive. No need to doubt, I live in a state where half the people own a gun, and most carry it when they go anywhere farther than the supermarket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Again, you are equating eliminating loneliness with finding the perfect partner. I don't care if you feel lonely with Mr. Not Perfect, it's your choice to not to be date him and stay lonely. I'm not lonely, I'm in a steady and loving relationship. I've been lonely though. Most lonely men don't have even 5% of your options. If you feel lonely even when you have people around you, you have other issues, which are again, irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:22 PM |
| 3 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.It's not about can or likely, it is literally unknown, therefore you can never make a presumption about a man based on his size, and it's not exceptions at all, where I live every other man carries a gun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 05:17 PM |
| 0 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allSounds like those women need a reality check and go for men within their own league of attractiveness. It sounds like they're lonely by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:46 PM |
| 3 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.No, you don't need any mastery. An amateur boxer with a few months of experience would wipe the floor with any taller guy, and getting a gun is easy. And it's not always stature that might intimidate a potential attacker. I know a middle-aged, 5'4" man who walks with so much swagger and carries himself so heavily that incredibly tall men make way when he passes them by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.Women are still more likely to date a lanky tall guy over someone shorter but buff regardless of physical prowess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:38 PM |
| 0 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.I wasn't making an argument or telling women to defy their nature and be less attracted to height, I agree that it has been like that until very recently. What they could do for both sexes is to start by not eliminating a huge chunk of the dating pool just because of something that is by today's standards somewhat irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Then your loneliness is by choice. There are plenty of men out there who are equally as attractive and interesting as you. It is irrelevant because that has nothing to do with being able to find someone. Lonely men's loneliness stems from being literally alone. It does make my argument, you're basically comparing being homeless to having a nice house but wanting a mansion as if they're comparable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.You don't know who's carrying what or what he's trained in. A small guy could pull out a gun or might be a boxer and all it would take is a bullet or a well placed punch and you're out. That's the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.That's something that may happen or never happen and only after a woman decides to date a tall guy. The problem is the woman finding the tall man attractive simply because he is tall, not knowing he might be a coward or physically weak. Even then, women find even skeleton-looking guys attractive as long as they're tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:24 PM |
| 18 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)It's mostly about dating and being single, but not having friends adds to that loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:21 PM |
| 8 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)What men don't like is the average woman thinking she is well above the average man when they're both average. Men want women to be realistic and not go for men out of their leagues and understand that just because a very attractive man will sleep with you doesn't mean you're his equal in appearance nor he will commit to you. That's what women's inflated self-worth stems from, by the fact that she can get men more attractive than her to sleep with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:19 PM |
| -4 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)False. Realistically, the average woman cannot be lonely when they could just go out and find any decent looking man in 10 minutes. If you mean still feeling lonely while with a partner, that's irrelevant. I don't care if women feel lonely even when they're surrounded with hordes of men who give them attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:13 PM |
| 8 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.Bigger implies more strength, my point was in the modern age you can't know who's going to win an encounter. It doesn't matter what size you are, no man is stopping a gun. What happened to "protection" now? Everyone knows this logically, but women can't help but still feel attracted to taller men. I'm not blaming people for emotions they can't control, I'm just making an observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:10 PM |
| 56 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)The only thing men expect from women is a little bit of understanding and less gaslighting and downplaying men's struggles, as seen on this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:06 PM |
| 2 | The problem in dating is not toxic masculinity nor femininity, it's toxic positivityThat's what I meant by gaslighting and belittling. They have no idea about men's struggles, so they intentionally or not downplay them with cheap advices to silence men. It's not "toxic positivity", it's outright manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:58 PM |
| 16 | I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected.It's a lie. I know short men who could physically overpower much bigger men or short men who carry a gun so they would have the power to de-escalate a dangerous situation but neither of which is something women find more attractive than simply a tall man. That's why you can see very skinny and weak looking men with women, as long as they're tall. Women equate height with power, in physical terms it's an advantage over someone shorter. But the "protection" part is mostly an excuse. A short man co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:05 PM |
| 114 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allWhat most women mean by "women are happier single" is having an endless buffet of men out of their league to sleep around with (but can't get them to commit) and not have to have any relationship quality because it's easier to sleep around than to form relationships, because that requires effort and personality, something those women have neither of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:16 PM |
| 3 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?Almost every day. The only times we don't is if we're genuinely sick or exhausted. Physical intimacy is a must. Both in our mid-twenties, dating for over a year, intimacy has been this way since the beginning, no kids, we both initiate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Being with an average male is not specialThe average man and the average woman are a match made in heaven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | if you were a young woman with no dating experience, how would you navigate the market?Piece of advice, don't believe people telling you men your age don't want serious relationships that lead to marriage. Men either pretend they don't want that because they lost their faith in marriage or because they think women their age also don't want marriage yet, not because they wouldn't want to marry one girl. Me personally, I always dreamed of starting a family with a loving wife as soon as possible. To answer your original question, I would make a list of important life questions to ask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Words like 'virgin' and 'slut' carry negative connotations. What other words would be more positive or at least neutral to help people who carry such monikers be accepted?It has nothing to do with words but what they refer to. An adult male virgin, in an evolutionary sense, is a genetic failure. Luckily we're a little bit beyond animals, so you get to decide your own worth to yourself and decide not to be affected by what others think. These things are inherently negative, and promiscuity for women is no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?Couples have the most sex at the beginning of marriage, then it's a steady decline that eventually leads to a dead bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 10:23 PM |
| – | Why are men here so obsessed with a woman’s past?Your past is the strongest indicator of your future. Just as your current lifestyle is an indicator of your personality. If you are fat or you smoke or you drink, it most likely means you lack self control and have problems. The past does not cease to matter just because you will it. I don't care whether men or women sleep around. I believe it's a societal problem, but I respect their decision to do so. I wish nothing but the best for them. I would mind my girlfriend having more than one or two … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:59 PM |
| – | Men should compete for women. Women should be selective. Change my mind.27 years ago, my parents got married because my dad met my mom and one day told her he wants to marry her, no cheap dating or anything. My dad told me it was because they knew each other and been around the same places so he got a good look at her and figured out she was the kind of person he would like to marry. My mom told me it was because she knew his family and that he came from a good one, so she believed he would be a good husband and a father and no bad would come from him. They of cours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 4 | What percent of women monetize sex?In 2016? It has to be at least twice that now. How sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:08 PM |
| – | Men should compete for women. Women should be selective. Change my mind.Collective wellbeing is not an evolutionary trait, at the end of the day, it's every man for himself. What you're describing already exists, it's the law of nature and it's rigged. The reason men are escaping to excessive videogaming and porn is because women are too selective. If the average woman dated the average man, most of these men would not be escaping to fantasy. In history, you needed to do little to start a family and attract a wife. You just needed to earn your keep and not be hideou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Women and Men screwed up dating...Maybe you have no self-respect and no options, but I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 06:01 PM |
| 22 | The problem in dating is not toxic masculinity nor femininity, it's toxic positivityThere is no "toxic positivity" for men. It's called some women gaslighting and belittling men's problems in order to invalidate and ignore men's feelings and arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Women and Men screwed up dating...I'm not changing for anybody or entertaining someone like a jester. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 05:21 PM |
| – | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?Regardless of whether it's a woman in trouble or a man, I most likely would, and not because it's what a man would do. But you never know in those situations, you could find yourself running the other way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble?No. Pick your man better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 04:48 PM |
| -1 | The only reason women have the extreme upper hand in dating is because men are way hornier; simple supply and demand.False, it's just men overvaluing women. The average man and the average woman are equally attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 04:46 PM |
| 3 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameI agree that you can make significant change in life by changing the way you think, but if you're dealt a bad hand, then you can't blame some men that wonder if it's even worth playing against such stacked odds, so all they can do is vent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 03:03 PM |
| – | Men do not reward loyaltyThere is no reward for loyalty. Loyalty is not only the minimum, it goes both ways. Nobody is rewarded anything but a healthy relationship for it. Stop expecting the world for doing the bare minimum. Not only that, are you good enough for a man at the finish line? If so, do that. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 01:16 PM |
| 2 | The only reason women have the extreme upper hand in dating is because men are way hornier; simple supply and demand.Most women aren't attractive either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating someone overweight or obese?Hell to the no. I don't even date beautiful women who have lost weight. You can lose weight but you can't lose those flabby arms. If you're obese, I will treat you the way I treat drug addicts; someone who has an urge and they can't shake it due to weak will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFat women can lose weight. Men can't grow taller. I promise you, if they could grow taller the way a woman could lose weight, there wouldn't be a short man on earth, yet the earth is filled with land whales. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average womanMillionaire, well groomed, confident and assertive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 0 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemRemember, it's never "the woman who can't come", it's always "the man who can't fuck". If you can't come from foreplay and sensual sex, it's not my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 03:02 PM |
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