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| 6 | Some Website Forum Upgrades Happened! .... Is It Better now?Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 103 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.This guy just wants a wingman with female genitals. A party mate. A gaming partner. Also the whole "I want her to be there when I want her to and not to be there when I don't want her to" - jfc he wants a sex robot Also it's all about 'me, me, me and my wants'. Super selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 09:16 PM |
| 102 | Do certain areas or physical spaces in public trigger you?It's just a temporary blip. You have been triggered and you had an emotional flashback. You will be probably fine in a few days if you had a long(ish) OK period before. Google these, there are ways to deal with emotional flashbacks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 10:10 AM |
| 46 | pickme glamorizing doing it all. there's no prize for doing it all🤡Seen the same. And then the lvm will either cheat, break up or emotionally check out because "she is no fun anymore/got fat" or some other bs. No shit Sherlock, if you use her up she will look like it.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Being vulnerable to help build intimacy in relationships.Saved, thank you. Just remark though that for me the type of vulnerabilities that can be shared are also meaningless, se he might (!) feel more connected but I will probably not.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 05:01 PM |
| 10 | Can an LVM turn into a HVM later in life?Sometimes. Very rarely. Like if they were a womaniser but had never watched porn. Even then some tough life events are what could provide a wake up call. Which they either use or not to improve themselves. Some do. Even then, whoever gets together with a reformed man she might have to put up with consequences of their past. Be it health or LV children, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 09:21 AM |
| 14 | Even JORDAN PETERSON knows how bad online dating and online porn is for women. Don't accept these things.That's like they are cherrypicking principles 🍒 , yeah. I have seen people doing it with organised religions, why not with JP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 16 | Valentine's Field ReportExactly. Most holidays are just societal constructs, but we keep them because ... we live in a society. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Mixed feelings about this meme. Yes, you can be replaced at work. But if your "home" is with a man you can be replaced there too. I would argue a lot of jobs are less likely to replace you than a man is and more likely to benefit you for a longer time. Thoughts?Hear hear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 48 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!She can get abortion inducing pills online if she lives in the USA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:12 PM |
| 7 | Men Abuse Women Who They Perceive to be BETTER THAN THEMHad an LVM ex, never made any significant amount with day trading in 10 years. Maybe a Christmas present money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:12 AM |
| 22 | Man pretends to be doctor, lawyer and council official to control his girlfriend. Story in the comments:Two years verdict with two years suspended? He will be out doing the same the following day... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 11:01 AM |
| 6 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meYou are going through one of the hardest life experiences, not easy. It took a long time and it got worse before it got better, but it gets better, I promise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:31 AM |
| 35 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meCommiserations. I have lived through similar. You will be OK- and probably happier in the long run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 20 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meIs he saving AT THE MOMENT? Like right this month? If not, dump him. If yes he needs to save 10 months out of 12, every year for 2-3 years to be considered reliably financially responsible. The 2 months exception are one month for Christmas and one for a summer holiday. He can use what he would have saved in those months - but no credit cards! Do you have 2+ years to wait before you decide??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupThere is a book called the gift of fear. Read that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:57 AM |
| 7 | If You're Single, Don't Be Sad During The Holidays.It's the 24th here already. I'm fine, full of plans how to spend these three days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Relationships with men as a reflection of relationship with parentsSee the YouTube channel school of life, they have some videos on parents and romantic relationships. Attachment is the word to look for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 07:51 AM |
| 74 | Wonder why he stuck around for 3 dates... Just when you think men can't get any worseThree dates, no sex and he 'breaks it off' in person? Her looks as reason might be shallow, but at least he has some spine Wheter he finds someone better looking is his risk and not our problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 03:48 PM |
| 77 | Normalize telling men they don’t turn you on anymoreGood tip. Wish I knew it in my twenties. But I will make sure to use it if ever necessary from now on. Hope it won't be, but it's good to be prepared. Thank you for this tip, OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:20 PM |
| 23 | How do you feel about the comments hating on her? (Possible trigger warning)OK, I live in Europe, so no fights with anyone armed, but IF I saw an opportunity I would fight alongside my partner against ONE UNARMED intruder. Like hitting them on their head from behind opportunity. When I'm sure there is only one of them. My advantage is that Intruders don't expect any resistance from small middle aged women, so they just might turn their backs to me. Biiig mistake. Big. Huge.... But if it was too risky I would run and call for help ASAP, because that is the best way to he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:18 PM |
| 12 | Thought I met someone I really liked, but recently he's ignoring me. Last night, I mourned my loss. I deleted his number so I wouldn't be tempted to reach out to him. Then I came to this sub to remind myself that I made the right choice. Thank you all for being my rock 💓You've made the right choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:58 PM |
| 48 | An increasing number of women are paying alimony to LVM husbandsJust copying my answer from another fds post: "Worse, we had no children (luckily), but he was on minimum wage (in his thirties) and was hiding his huuuge resentment over me out-earning him. Gave me the worst advice he could got away with. Took me years to see through him - and leave his ass. But I lost my best years to go ahead in my career. Not all is lost, but I could be making more had I not taken his advice - and his f***ing convenience - into account. Oh, and BTW he is balding and getting … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:36 PM |
| 26 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.You will be alone- FOR A WHILE. Once you have the time - and emotional energy - you will meet new people. You will make friends. You will, I promise. It takes time but it does happen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 08:09 AM |
| 9 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”Wanted to say the same! LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 11 | The "Marriage is just a piece of paper" lie.I'm sorry for your loss. Something similar happened to me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 09:04 AM |
| 5 | How do you establish financial independence?Spend consciously less than what you make. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 09:24 AM |
| 22 | FDS theories confirmedSameeeeee. I was so stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 12:11 PM |
| 8 | Ask Polly: ‘I Hate Men.’Really good article, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 12:24 PM |
| 18 | Can we talk about loneliness?I'm so sorry. My partner had died and his previous girlfriend - who was preferred by his son - badmouthed me to the whole expat community. My sin? I didn't cheat on him and I nursed him through his cancer. She left him at his previous cancer... There are people who didn't believe her, I'm sure, but I just don't care enough to figure out which ones. Not sure I have ever seen as an advice here, but a toxic ex can do a lot of harm to you, so put that onto your vetting list ladies if your good name … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 11:42 AM |
| 6 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 yearsI needed to hear this today, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Female level up strategyShe is the best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:03 PM |
| 17 | Don’t Allow Men to Use Ambiguity to Emotionally Abuse YouSh####t, that had so happened to me! And it took years for me to catch on 'some' and leave the scrote :( Still, better late than never, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 8 | Dump him on the first lieI'm sorry. You will get better, I promise. And you deserve better too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Filter questionsI like the 5 vegetables question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:39 PM |
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