~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | There is always someone elseRead or listen to Losr a Cheater Gain a Life by Chunp Lady she basically breaks down the whole Cheater SOP so you can learn to read the red flags | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Too fast or am I good?Listen to Leave a Cheater and Gain a Life and visit Chump Lady's site for additional information your lawyer and Chump should be your guides through this whole event. Do not date while going through the divorce work on yourself; mind, body, soul. Master 180 & Grey rock methods these will save you a ton of pain and allow you to take back some of the power dynamics in the relationship. Do Not Date or this will all end up being your fault, don't give her any excuses to shift the blame. Focus on the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/24 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?With her just around the corner of earning a bigger salary right after divorce is finalized. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Wife confessed to affairDo not have anything legally transfer to you before divorce, listen or read Leave a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references and speak with a lawyer to confirm what divorce looks like. Figure out the best scenario to protect you and kid and initiate and master the 180 and grey rock methods and don't have sex your WW to avoid the baby trap. EAs are far more intimate to a woman than physical, regardless cheating EA or PA are both cheating and that equals to emotion… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I have created my own prison with my mind my only limits are the ones I place on myselfRead/listen "Can't Hurt Me " by Goggins it may point you in the headspace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | The reason why we fail so hard.Thanks Bluto, I needed that, pass me another beer, | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/23 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Wife trying to come back after leaving me for affair partnerListen to Leave a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references like DARVO, gaslighting, love bombing, etc. Listen to Chump like your life depends on it, because it does as well as the future of your kids. Think about how you modeling for your daughters by taking your WW back, that it's ok to be emotionally and sexually abused (sexually abused is if she slept with AP unprotected and then you without your consent) and depending how long her affair and their frequency w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/23 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Am I wrong.......OP listen to Leave a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references, Chump has a really great chapter on dealing with coparenting and will explain and help you understand your WW'S motivation to get you to go along with her game. Like others have stated the whole thing only serves her and not you and she can take pictures and post to the world that your ok with the whole thing so she's done nothing wrong. The best path here now that she's serving you shit sandwich numb… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/23 10:20 PM |
| 3 | It's Not About You Or The KidsIt's alright brother that's what she was counting on, she's just playing you by your habits and taking advantage. In her mind she painted you out to be the absentee father and she's the victim carrying everything on her shoulders. Talk to your lawyer first and find out your rights and read up on your school county parental guidelines and also see about paying for a subscription for coparenting through your local county court approved it will help with all the scheduling and appointments for the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | So let’s see if this gets through….Middle age and divorce…Or both ends, follow the golden rule "the way you do one thing is the way you do everything " hard for them to get away from that truth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/23 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Well here it goes.Listen to leave a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references like DARVO, gaslighting, love bombing, etc. You are in an emotional mind so listen to the pros instead 9f your heart, follow your lawyer's and Chump's advice to the letter it's going to save you years of pain and misery and if possible seek therapy for infidelity trauma so you can process and not carry your WW'S sins into future relationships. Master the 180 and grey rock methods anytime you have to deal … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/23 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Let's be honest here. No macho answers, and no judgement. In reality, how many guys here would be happy to get validation from your ex that the divorce was not your fault?She will cheat again, just waiting for you to drop your guard. If she's not actively working towards reconciliation all she's doing is buying time. Listen to Lose a Cheater Gain a Life like it's the bible and visit Chump lady's site for additional information she has plenty of horror stories of others insight and experience with dealing with a WW only to end up abondement or walking away to save sanity. A woman wants a man who's not afraid to walk away, and will grow to detest a man that will ta… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/23 04:17 AM |
| 2 | My xwife is in a lot painOP, remember this you and her were each 50% responsible for the end state of your marriage, she however was 100% responsible for her affair and the demise of your relationship (last 2 years). You have know her for 30 years, yet you still don't know who this woman is and you can't blame yourself for "being too chicken" to tell her you suspected she was a victim of CSA because you aren't the professional to diagnose that nor was she ever while you were together seeking professional help to sort th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/23 09:44 PM |
| 3 | 13 years.. Married for 7Hello OP, sorry your here my friend and I hope you get a decent lawyer and set things right for yourself and kids this go around. Lawyer's are expensive because they are an investment up front for the long run to save you money and establish boundaries to protect you and your kids from financial abuse - you just have to get the right one so do some shopping and bring evidence of her infidelity and any abuse she has cause you - you must own the narrative from here on but hold your mouth until you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/23 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Do I blow it all up?Listen to Lose a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references, speak with a lawyer and follow both of these pros advice to the letter for the quickest and save yourself tons of pain as much as possible. Only disclose to OBS when your lawyer's advice you timing is everything here and getting her to agree now while she's in limerence is your best advantage. Learn and master bith grey rock and 180 methods and record every exchange with her and place security cameras in … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Pre served papers divorce advice.No problem you said grey rock/360 method but its grey rock and 180 methods. Great list btw. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 02:33 AM |
| 5 | Pre served papers divorce advice.correction - 180 and grey rock methods - if you listen to Chump Lady's book on Lose a Cheater Gain a Life you will get more detailed information on just about everything mention above - all in all your at war OP get the best lawyer and let him fight your battle for best outcome - and start mourning your marriage - if you want to save it you can't be afraid to lose it... | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Tiny Success StoryKeep what you got going for a long time away from your ex and keep working on bonding with your kid. Continue to build your self esteem and check out emotional coaches like Sarah Moore to keep you in the right head space. Great job, keep it going | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Forgive the rant but I need to air all this out.Stand your ground, also listen to Lose a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump Lady's site for additional information, she probably has not cheated but i bet my last dollar she will make her abandonment issue her version of you emotionally abusing her if not SA or DV so make sure you record any situation that she starts to escalate to protect yourself until the divorce is final. You have been emotionally abused for a while so you will need to listen to Stop Caretaking of Borderline and Narcissist … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Is marriage that bad?If you must marry, put everything you own house; cars, bank accounts, bonds, etc into a trust with your parents to include all direct deposit so all you have is a debit card and hold of at least 10 years before you put her name on the title until then she pays for everything 50/50 if all of this is too much work then get a dog it will loyal if you get insurance coverage when they are puppies they will be cheaper in the long run and every other decade or more you can always get another. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife got pregnant with current bf asks for money for? More context please | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife got pregnant with current bf asks for money forPlease tell me you're going to tell everyone your and her families and everyone you ever crossed paths with so eventually it will get back to him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Would you marry again?First, i would put everything home, saving, bonds, etc into a trust so basically im living of a paycheck or an expense card and i have nothing to my name. I would also travel the world some and visit places like Indonesia, Philippines etc where culturally women 30+ still hold traditional marriage values and consider those options. People going to jump on me with negative fires but after everything ive been through and seen with my friends and their horrible divorces it's just all one side by the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/23 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Nex jigging money to hold me backCourt approved coparenting app and record all interactions with her have your phone in your shirt pocket recording when you pickup and drop off the kids and just keep building up the evidence keep a running log of all instances good/bad and always keep your temper and tone down and let her thread the rope she can hang herself with in court or as you disclose to your friends and family to control the narrative. That child abuse is horrendous i would just avoid even going into the house for the ki… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/23 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Dependent tax questionI love a happy ending, even if it's only for a single tax season. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | My STBXW wants me to fill in the information on her lawyer intake/consult form?Look up Chump lady's site for additional references, in your situation grey rock and 180 is what's being recommended. I get it your trying to be amicable for the kids and whatever you may still feel for her but she's already started to show her cards by even disclosing your inheritance means she's going to try and take and lock down as much as possible from you. You didn't state who wants the divorce so people here are going to assume it was her and provide a defensive posture in their comments.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/23 08:25 PM |
| 7 | My ex-wife told me she got "raped" by multiple men, multiple times. At first I felt all sympathetic for her, until she told me by who, when and where.Stop being an enabler, if you really care for her you are going to have to cut her off completely. She's an adult making (bad) choices, you are divorced and she's no longer your problem and neither is her addiction. Listen to Stop Caretaking for the Borderline or Narcissist this will help you break down your co-dependency in some way you are still trauma bonded with her and she feed's of that you are just part of her emotional juice source and from the sounds of it she running dry of sources. If… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/23 05:01 PM |
| 2 | mother's dayRemember when modeling for your kid, always "the way you do one thing is the way you do everything " you set that as a standard for yourself and model for your kid and your ex can't hold a candlestick to you. Its about kid from now on and letting the kid come to terms cause the truth has a nasty habit of raising it's head at the least convenient times. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/23 01:25 AM |
| 12 | Should I let my soon to be ex wife rent the marital home from me?That's a big NOPE out of me, your divorced or ing for a reason there's no need for you too to be entangled for any reasons other than coparenting or alimony for however long that sentence is for. Then what happens every time something breaks and you have to repair or replace and you get to see the carousel of D she's bringing home while you're there fixing the furnace or she can't make rent, etc nope, nope, nope. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/23 07:49 AM |
| 6 | Divorcing after 22 years of MarriageRecommend two audible books while you workout, "Can't Hurt Me by Goggins and Praxeology Vol 1 Frame by Stone" think you might find them an interesting inspiration and push. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | To tell or not tell that is the questionListen to Lose a Cheater Gain a life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references, also r/infidelity and other similar subs will tell you to inform OBS and different possible outcomes so you have to consider your risks. Right now you're working with lawyer and they too can advice you when to pull the trigger. Most important is get your duckies in a row to close out your divorce and set things in place for coparenting if there's kids and maintain 100% NC if there's none only communicate … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/23 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Need to vent and get advice to cope with stressLook up 180 and grey rock and master both methods, as you stated "this will be the first divorce in her family " so she is going to do everything possible to save face and pin it on you. Own the narrative and make sure to protect yourself best as possible record everything so there's no DV or emo abuse charges charged on you. If you can rent a room or couch surf with friends/coworkers do so the distance will clear your head, listen to No More Mr. Nice Guy and Can't Hurt to set yourself on track.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Ex claiming I’m “poisoning” our old mutual friendsYou right! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/23 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Ex claiming I’m “poisoning” our old mutual friends"Projection, DARVO, blame-shifting, etc.." master the 180/grey if you must interact (kids) until things are finalized otherwise no kids = 100% NC other than through lawyers office back and forth until it's all finalized - keep working on you, you are doing great! Read/listen to Stop walking on eggshells 3rd edition so you can learn how to break any subconscious co-dependencies that allow her to level that type of emotional abuse on you, learn how to be as interesting to her as a pile of salt. Bu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/23 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Does the past ever matter?I stick with the old adage "the way you do one thing is the way you do everything" and that's a hard truth none of us can evade when we look deep down inside so it should be no different with a potential or current partner? Of course, buyer accepts all risks and responsibilities as defined by non stated conditions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Relationships seem like a boring & annoying waste of time now.May recommend "Can't Hurt Me" in audible ver not the book, and he does have a follow up might give you something to inspire to. Best of luck, keep working on yourself those kids will get older and they will want answers for themselves so become a better version of you to be there when they come looking. People are going to do what they're going to do regardless of what you think it's best for them. So you must do what's best for you always and not stay angry at them for not wanting to do things … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Multiple Sclerosis exacerbating narcissism in STBX. How to handle?Record Stop Caretaking the Borderline and Narcissist by Margalis Fjelstad in addition Stop Walking on Eggshells 3rd edition and master the 180 and grey rock methods until the divorce is finalized. Make sure you record or have a witness present in all instances with your sntbx to protect yourself from being charged with DV or emotional abuse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/23 09:28 PM |
| 4 | It’s official, there’s someone elseTwo pieces of homework for you, learn to read all the red flags and don't beat yourself about your WW'S choices listen to Lose a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references and master the 180 and Grey rock methods from here on until the divorce, do not confront her about the affair you know everything you need to know anything further is just pain shopping. Second find your Frame, listen to Praexology Vol 1 Frame and carry on my friend she will never be good enough … | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/23 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Dating (for sex) while separationOP. And every man on this thread find your Frame it really has made a world of difference, kinda of like learning how to restart and get it better this time before you got snooped into marriage. This should be HS learning prerequisite for young males before being allowed to date, guess I'm aging myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/23 11:59 AM |
| 6 | Wife filed TRO, judged denied the request to evict me from the house, but still have to do supervised visits.... in my own house.Record everything and any time you have interact with your sntbx, use grey rock and 180 at all times, and know she's going to provoke you so have a safe space and metal your temper. Also, follow your lawyer's advice to the letter and listen to Lose a cheater gain a life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references not saying she's cheating but she's playing from the same book, in addition learn how to use DBT it will help you communicate with the kids and de-scalate situations but alway… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/23 02:10 PM |
| 3 | My wife packed up and left me and our 3 kidsOP get a female lawyer "fight fire with fire" and make sure she's a supper shark with a file in hand. Hire a PI to track her down, you focus on the kids, home, securing your network family & friends for support and own the narrative - show everyone the proof that she's abandoned the kids and you. Never bad mouth her in front of the kids or family just tell the facts. Listen to Lose a Cheater and Gain a Life and visit Chump Lady's site for additional references. Get your lawyer to draw up abandon… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/23 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Does body count really matter?Easy fix going forward order of movement; get a vasectomy eliminate/reduce the possibility of a baby trap, work on your health and mind focus on your career growth and learn how to manage your finances so they will grow to the point you're accumulated wealth is making you more money. Be well read and travelled and NEVER marry or cohabitate until you have at least 5 years in a solid relationship with a solid prenup and separate financial resources. Don't pay or support student loans or maxed out … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/23 01:24 AM |
| 2 | How to handle a vengeful, bitter and narcissistic stbx without ruining our kidsDepending on your kids age and your state laws at some point they can choose to live with you instead so if they are toddlers or preteens then being consistent and in control always level headed regardless of what she says or does in front of them is your best defense. In addition create a safe space in your home and never speak badly of her to them will also put you out in front once they are old enough to decide where and with whom they want to live. For yourself you need to master 180 and eit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/23 02:03 PM |
| 7 | Wife just informed me she wants a divorce.OP, listen or read a couple of books while you go through this divorce process and the order of movement I'll recommend in a minute. First go get you the sharkiest lawyer possible asap, and follow all advice to the letter and start separating any financial ties you have bank accounts; CCs, and secure any and all important documents at your parents house. I know your world has been rocked, but you have to suppress your emotions and treat this as a hostile take over and time is of the e sense. Doc… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | So we separated… and now we are spending every night/day together and fooling around but…OP your problem is your dealing with this form your heart and dick instead of being logical. The phrase "don't read the same shitty book twice when you already know how it ended the first time, the only way to change the outcome a second time is for the author to rewrite the book " in your case she had an EA or possible PA you won't ever know until she decides if your worthy of the whole truth or she will keep her advantage and take it to her grave. Listen to Lose a Cheater Gain a Life and visit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I get divorce?taking time away from you and not discussing or working through conflict and taking it home to dad is cheating in a way - it's denying you access to her or allowing you to have your own agency to make educated decisions if this relationship is right for you both? The PI is just a sanity check, and they have better ways at getting to the real story than you would. Like i said if it's just her running away from conflict she's creating then those can be red flags and she's responsible for fixing th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Why do wives try to show minor affection during a divorce (living together)?I wouldn't waste the time with the upgrades/repairs sell the house as is and asap, get yourself with your lawyer and serve her first; in the interim Listen (audible) Lose a Cheater Gain a Life (even if it isn't about infidelity you will be emotionally prepared to deal with her worst) while you are waiting for her to get served master 180 & Grey rock methods you have to beat her to the punch at every point from here on take this advice to heart and move her or you out asap. If there's anything le… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Should I get divorce?I would recommend divorce, reason is you are both not compatible and really nothing wrong with that it happens more than most care to admit and end up living miserable and resentful until on breaks down or cheats and eventually part ways. As others have said if you're financially set next time she splits for whatever lame reason or child disagreement go see a lawyer and figure out what divorce looks like and most important learn and master 180 and grey rock through the whole process also have yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/23 02:12 PM |
| 10 | I think today was the day.I don't say this lightly but I've seen this behavior in the infidelity subs. So I recommend listening to Lose a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references, if she's comparing but not working on building or repairing the relationship it's because she's already checked out or working on a branching plan if that's the case then she's emotionally abusing you and the best way to manage the whole situation is to be informed. Learn to read all the red flags and the behavi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/23 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with the alone timeLearning to cook will also help you with managing your weight if you're starting a workout routine, I've ruined going out and getting fancy salads for my current partner since i can do way better for a whole week's worth for what we would pay in one sitting. There's nothing better than being able to open the fridge and just throw shit together in minutes and make it look like you spent hours and your eating healthy too. Check out John's to 25 recipes of 2022 to get an idea of his range and his s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with the alone timeI would also add learning how to cook, i use Food Wishes on YT chef John is hilarious and explains everything in simple down to earth terms and when you do start dating you will impress your dates as well as saving tons of money because what you cam can produce at home is better than most eat out places | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Love the passive aggressivenessLike others have said store the important things or items of value away from home, don't be lazy and keep the in a gun safe or something like that she will just hire a locksmith and take your things any way that happened to another fella that posted not too long ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/23 08:13 PM |
| 3 | tremorsGo see a doctor and rule out any of the medical concerns; get into IC for infidelity trauma visit this site to locate a specialist in your area and don't settle for the first one if after the first couple of visits you don't click with each other find another until you find the right one to work with you. As others have said start a workout program there are plenty on YT if you can't afford a gym you can join someone's channel for a minimal cost and workout on your time at home anytime your anxi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/23 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Female Nature: Never take responsibilityPlease listen to Lose a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references, in addition make sure to record any conversations between you and your wife to CYA | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/23 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Wife doesn’t want to be married anymore. She suggested we move into a multi family unit after I said I’d move out in a few months.Not your problem any more, and she won't figure out how to live a single mom, if you're staying put in the house have her move out regardless of her finances that's for her to figure out. You both need your own space, get a court approved coparenting app subscription work that into the divorce agreement so you can have proof when she starts skipping out on schedules or appointments etc, and that way you also limit her being in your life she wants a divorce so you need to act like your divorce st… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Seeing her hurt breaks my heart.Quite possibly or she may have already begun the mourning process and working towards acceptance, different folks have their own ways with dealing with loss or rejection. Either way it can be a volatile situation so leaning on the side of caution and protecting yourself will also help them to protect them too. It's ok for people to come to terms they are incompatible or not enough and be able to walk away and allow each other to find the right partners to make them happy, it's not ok to hold som… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Seeing her hurt breaks my heart.Sorry, for the confusion. You can YT different approaches for 180 and grey rock, they aren't covered in the books or at least not so straightforward. These are methods used to create a safe space for you from your partner to avoid or minimize any toxic situations and to protect you from being put in a negative outcome. These methods are usually recommended when a partner has been cheated on and is trying to get out of the marriage while having to deal with their own hurt and betrayal while their… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Seeing her hurt breaks my heart.OP recommend two sources to figure out you codependents to your wife, Stop Caretaking the Borderline and Narcissist or Stop Walking on Eggshells 3rd edition. As stated above while you both have to cohabit ate until things are finalized, 180 and grey rock methods and if she starts to get aggressive or mean record all conversations or have a witness around so all the sudden you are now the abuser. I'm sure she's not going to go there, but like others have said she's been projecting to you her emot… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/23 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Find herself?I was you many years back, minus the kid but if there's was one it would have stilled happened. My run down on your sntbx EA before the operation and she was starting to "not be happy" because of limerence and NRE After operation, had an awakening moment "life's too short " and was/started PA, icing you out by reducing contact so she could stay true to her feelings On AP was emotionally invested or put enough time and resources into making her feel like the one, she moved in for the kill The las… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Erectile Dysfuncion after divorce - common?Take back your control here, learn and master the 180 and Grey rock methods, also listen to Lose a Cheater Gain a Life and visit Chump lady's site for additional references, not saying she's cheating on you but is having an EA with herself and in the full fog of "independence" so don't give her anything that helps feed her bs, another reference is Stop Caretaking the Borderline and Narcissist by Margalis Fjelstad this so you can understand any codependencies you might have with your stbx and mak… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Was it all fake?OP, therapy only works when you begin to tell yourself the truth. One thing to help you get through the hard moments. Never compromise your integrity for anyone or anything, and the only one you are accountable is the person you face in the mirror every morning. Would recommend "Can't Hurt Me" by David Goggins not a love story, but just a bad mofo working his way up/out while life took a tremendous dump on him every step of the way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/22 11:06 PM |
| 6 | Was it all fake?a dog only loves the hand that feeds it... | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | DynamicsCreate a budget, calculate out costs of cleaning crew; lawn care, nanny watch for 4-8 hrs per week, etc. Present him the budget, and it's all his since he's not doing the work and you need time to recharge. Also set a few hours on the weekends where you can go and have time for the personal things you need to get you ready for the week, and a few more hours for both of you to do something together for reunification. Once he sees the bill it will motivate him to help out or he may actually be hap… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/03/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | 80/20 rule and male attractivenessOk, let's say you figure out how to make gazillion $$$, but are still short; with pouch, regular sausage, and bald would the $s alone get you into theb20%? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 01:31 PM |
| 38 | [42-F] Finnish landwhale Karen have kissed enough frogs, now she wants a prince charming. Line-up guys!I would have replied "Nope, not a motherfucker! Ladies please I was very clear No Children" thanks and happy swiping | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/10/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | "Both dads left"Or they forget to look for the common denominator of the root of their problems, in this particular case i would venture to say it might be she? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Schizo weedsmoker (29F) requires a man for a relationship and baby provision. Must have a girthy 6 and a half inches or longer (you must make up for her sexual shortcomings). White men or mixed race men only, please. You must also possess the soul of a black man, otherwise: disqualified."Multidimensional being" emphasizes the schizophrenia so when you wake up in the middle of the night due to the multitude of stab wounds. She will yell at you as she draws back that she "told you so" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/10/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Schizo weedsmoker (29F) requires a man for a relationship and baby provision. Must have a girthy 6 and a half inches or longer (you must make up for her sexual shortcomings). White men or mixed race men only, please. You must also possess the soul of a black man, otherwise: disqualified.Aja! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Files: You Need to Man Up & Deal w/ Someone’s Else Kids! And in Return You’ll Get…. Nothin’This seems appropriate I'm just going to leave this right here Yea You think when you 260 lbs bitches ain't gonna like you Believe me they gonna like you if you got a high color man And I ain't even handsome I ain't handsome I'm just crazy Bitches all wanna get slapped nowadays They want [?] beat up Or passed out drunk and shit facin For all, she got me up I'm recently divorced Fuckin knockin these sluts Might as well sky rocket Churches say know me up, re up, re up I just wanna get high and be … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/08/21 09:17 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter