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I've found it helps with energy levels, confidence, anxiety among other things.
/r/seduction21/03/21 04:24 AM
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Yep I agree its definitely a thing
/r/seduction19/03/21 04:37 AM
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I didn't assume anything. OP was asking what she was doing so I said that among other things is what it could of been, which it could of. Regardless of what it was OP handled it well just say 'ok no problem' and not let it bother you.
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:18 AM
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I think this is probably it. Only other option I can think of is maybe she wanted to see how he would react to her cancelling plans. If he freaked out etc. Testing in a way
/r/seduction18/03/21 11:36 PM
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Money is often the result or an indicator of 'success', which goes hand in hand with confidence. Theres also security and a more comfortable lifestyle to offer but you are correct that it isn't everything. It doesn't hurt though
/r/seduction14/03/21 12:04 AM
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That is a good point. Id say be yourself but always be looking to improve yourself too. If yourself is someone who is insecure and as soon as you get a girls number you blow up her phone with 100 messages a day obviously that is not going to help you by just 'being yourself'. There are definitely elements of attraction and other things to learn and incorporate into yourself.
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:30 PM
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Quality post. The reason you go 'no contact' isn't to manipulate the other person by giving them anxiety (which is pretty fucked up really) you do it because that person has shown no interest in you/ you decide its not worth your time so you focus on other things and theres really no point for you to remain in contact with them.
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:15 PM
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Going out/doing things alone is great. Can do.what you want, go where you want, stay out as long as you want etc. And if you meet other people you are 100% free to hang out with them without worrying about anyone else.
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:44 PM
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Yep and trust me this doesn't only apply to college age woman
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:55 AM
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Everything you said applies to woman of all ages, not just college girls
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:54 AM
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You’re first line says it all. And I know it’s not as simple as ‘be positive’ and all that but you need to slowly change that mindset about yourself. Just chip away day by day
/r/seduction03/03/21 01:53 AM
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Great post. I get what people mean as saying see yourself as the prize though, as they have put women on a pedestal for so long they need to get out of that mindset. I think the 'theyre not the prize, you are' mentality is good for that and getting that self confidence. But at the end of the day I think your'e right, its 2 people with a mutual attraction coming together and sharing themselves.
/r/seduction01/03/21 05:59 AM
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I gave my answer before seeing this. but this is basically what I was saying. Absolutely you can recover BUT you have basically no room for error. And definitely a lot easier to start fresh.
/r/seduction11/02/21 06:44 AM
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Im a guy but in my experience absolutely you can recover. And if you start acting the right way, quicker than you might think. However you probably wont be able to do as many things 'wrong' as other guys who haven't acted weak. In other words, she will remember quickly if you stop acting like a man.
/r/seduction11/02/21 06:40 AM
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If someone flakes or leaves you hanging and your first thought is 'how do I get him/her to be interested' it says a lot about your mind state.
/r/seduction16/01/21 01:39 AM
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Nothing wrong with asking per se but like OP said its about how you do it. One I have used before is just smile/smirk (when the time is right obviously) and say 'I think you should kiss me now'. Takes care of the consent thing without killing the moment.
/r/seduction11/01/21 09:07 AM
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This guy gets it. And god help anyone taking advice from the dating advice sub (obviously theres a few truths and some good advice on there but few and far between)
/r/seduction11/01/21 09:03 AM
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I had a girl get pretty pissed off at me when I said I wasnt interested in long term (And some comment about 'guys can be dicks' or something) despite her not once outlining or implying what she wanted. A while before her I was 'dating' a girl who I actually liked and she seemed pretty into me, next thing I know she starts seeing someone else. But to be fair I never said anything about how I felt or wanting a relationship so I couldnt complain.
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:11 AM
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This is something I have thought about a bit. If 2 people begin to date and say nothing about their intent, why is it the guy is in the wrong if down the track he says doesn't want something long term.
/r/seduction11/01/21 01:02 AM
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I just wrote out a decent reply to OP but after reading this its probably a better way of saying what I was saying
/r/seduction11/01/21 12:53 AM
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As someone who was in almost the exact circumstances as you Ill say what I learned, which may or may not apply to you. Deep down you probably know if you are interested in something long term sooner than you let on, if you really think about it. As soon as you know let them know you don't want anything long term (this could easily be 1 or 2 dates in) but open to FWB if they are cool with it and thats what you want. Some will some wont but being honest is always the best. Even if they get upset t…
/r/seduction11/01/21 12:48 AM
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Definitely. Id say it happens as much maybe even more with guys. Something we all have to deal with and its not easy
/r/seduction11/01/21 12:30 AM
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As a guy that was in the same situation as OP this was a big issue. The most recent woman I dated when I was living like this got very upset and pissed off with me. But as I said what could I have done? On the first date say im not looking for anything long term? That wasn't true, but just because I date and sleep with someone doesnt mean that im automatically going to want to date them long term. Its a fine line to walk
/r/seduction11/01/21 12:28 AM
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This made me laugh as he definitely missed an oppurtunity. But still a cool story and sounded like he had a good time and was content so whatever
/r/seduction09/01/21 10:05 AM
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Yeah I agree. While I do think that 'Alpha' males exist these men arent the ones worried about how to be 'alpha' or give a fuck about being called alpha or acting alpha they just live their life. Its definitely a term used in marketing to appeal to mens insecurities
/r/seduction09/01/21 01:47 AM
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+1 for my experiences being 100% congruent with what he says
/r/seduction24/12/20 10:55 PM
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I'm actually amazed that he is not promoted on here more. That book is literally the Bible for dating. Along with his videos has completely changed my life
/r/seduction24/12/20 10:51 PM
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All the usual self help/growth stuff but the biggest thing for me was finding and following corey Wayne's work. He has a book and thousands of YouTube videos I highly recommend you check him out. This is what really opened my eyes to all the things I was doing wrong and how pathetic some of the ways I was with women. It took a while but once my eyes were open there was no going back. To give you an example of what a few years ago I liked this girl and had asked her over for dinner at my place. S…
/r/seduction24/12/20 07:08 AM
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We all know it 😉
/r/seduction24/12/20 06:47 AM
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Well im Australian, we're just Britains prison colony. Stay safe mate
/r/seduction23/12/20 09:23 PM
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Haha... If you are in the states its just the time difference. Technically the same date. No need to hate cake bro
/r/seduction23/12/20 09:18 PM
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'Does she like me/how do I get her to like me' is bound for failure. Straight away that says so much about your mind state and the way you view yourself. You need to view yourself as the prize and if you don't believe that about yourself then start becoming the person that you would view as that. I know because I used to think like this
/r/seduction23/12/20 06:39 AM
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All good man. Yeah good idea, also there's plenty of other reasons why someone would not agree to a date, it can take some courage or a bit of motivation to go on a date with someone you don't know. On a Friday night after a week of work I'm sure plenty of people just want to chill and can't be bothered going on a date even if initially there were interested. I remember asking a girl out once and she agreed but flaked. I spoke to her mum not long after who told me she got shy/scared. So like I s…
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:53 PM
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A lot of girls will give you their number and not set up a date because it's easier and safer. When asked for a number if they flat out say no some guys don't take it well and they don't want to deal with that which is fair enough. These girls don't know you so would take it with a grain of salt. Just keep on grinding, you really only need a couple of good ones (or even one) to agree to a date anyway.
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:58 PM
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This guy knows the fundamentals
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:32 AM
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Its like most drugs. Great at first but the more you use the more problems start arising
/r/seduction12/11/20 07:40 AM
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For me I feel great and very talkative for an hour or 2 but then a bit agitated and anxious
/r/seduction12/11/20 07:39 AM
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I've done plenty of that. Must be on the right track
/r/seduction10/11/20 07:25 PM
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Yeah that aint it
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:11 AM
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Yeah I cant imagine 'you look nice and elegant' getting this response in real life
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:10 AM
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Trying to offer these guys gems and getting down voted. Come on man!
/r/seduction01/11/20 04:55 AM
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I've found you can actually feel better or get more satisfion sometimes just walking away then you would if you got the date. Funny thing is when you start acting like this alot of the time you become more attractive to them
/r/seduction28/10/20 12:07 AM
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Benching 95lbs isnt making women drop their panties? No kidding.
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:46 AM
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Wait for her to contact you. Ask out set up a date. Done. No need to text again once a date is set
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:58 AM
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Call her out. You don't do anything about it so she's doing it more often. Probably to see how much she can get away with or how much you'll put up with. Don't be a dick about it but 100% call her out and let her know that you don't like it/find it rude
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:03 AM
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Its chasing because you ask her out. She ignores you. Then YOU start messaging her and initiating contact again. Yes I would consider that chasing. Its a turn off when they disrespect you AND you just take it without even saying anything about it and start messaging her again. Couldn't they not flake in the first place? Well that would be nice but thats up to them. It doesnt matter to them anyway because you'll just message them again so why would they even care if they flake or not
/r/seduction25/10/20 02:04 AM
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You don't have to try and convey it you will just naturally be coming from a more abundant place. Put it this way. If you have multiple women your'e talking to if you ask one out and she doesn't reply you can just ask out someone else instead of still chasing after that one women despite the find she's just rejected you. If you don't message her again she might actually get back to you at some point because she will see you're not going to put up with her ignoring you. If you message her again l…
/r/seduction25/10/20 01:43 AM
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In that case make more of an effort. Ask more girls out, go out of your way to try and meet more women etc. Even if you have one girl to talk to you have to still act in a way as if you had more. Otherwise you will get desperate as you only have one option and this will show when you're talking to that one girl
/r/seduction25/10/20 01:25 AM
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They go hand in hand in this case. You're willing to let her blow you off and then turn around and keep chasing her again because you don't have many prospects. Need to work on having a more abundance kind of mind set.
/r/seduction25/10/20 01:16 AM
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The first girl flaked on you and you kept chasing her. Kind of shows your letting these women disrespect you and you let them get away with it. She knows she can just flake on you and it's no problem because you'll just ask her out again. Think you need to stand up for yourself a bit more. If a girl flakes on you call her out for it. Don't be a dick but.just let her know you don't appreciate it. Same with the second girl, she ignores you and then you reach out and contact her again. Need a bit m…
/r/seduction24/10/20 10:22 PM
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Depends on the context when she's late etc. but for this one you're trying to set up a meeting and she left you on read? It's pretty obvious she's not interested in meeting up. She's not dumb, she got your message and she knows she blew you off. I wouldn't contact her again, I would wait for her to respond or reach out to you and if she doesn't move on. Also if she reaches out days later like nothing's happened call her out on her ignoring your message and that it's not cool. Don't be a dick or …
/r/seduction24/10/20 10:13 PM
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If it doesnt bother you it wont bother them. Just make a joke about it if they bring it up. "Yeah good genetics, when im 50 ill still be able to go clubbing" etc. If they bring it up and can see it bothers you that would be hurting your chances, if you laugh it off and own it youll look a lot more confident and desirable. Looking younger than you are isnt a bad thing. People pay a lot of money to try and look younger so really its a blessing
/r/seduction24/10/20 08:35 AM
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If it keeps happening theres a good chance you are doing something. For example maybe you are coming on a bit strong? Messaging a bit too much, too available etc. Its hard to say with limited information. Can you give us a bit more information regarding the interaction? Where are you meeting these women? After youve set up a date do you keep a high level of contact?
/r/seduction24/10/20 06:18 AM
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Good post. I believe woman sometimes do little things like show up late, not texting back etc. As little tests to see what a guy is made of. If they act like you describe and don't stand up for themselves I think they won't feel as comfortable or 'safe' with them.
/r/seduction24/10/20 04:26 AM
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Im having the same problem with this girl called Siri. Shes playing hard to get
/r/seduction24/10/20 12:15 AM
4

True but you need to hold a few conversations before you sleep with someone
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:50 AM
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Good question. I'm 31 now and the thought of even holding a conversation with 18-21 age range, (from the women I know around that age) would be difficult to say the least.
/r/seduction23/10/20 03:56 AM
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There's guys in their late twenties that think they're too old for 18-25? ....... Really?
/r/seduction23/10/20 03:54 AM
1

Exactly. No point complaining about it being unfair just act accordingly. I dont mind being the one to take the initiative
/r/seduction23/10/20 12:43 AM
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Correct. As much as people want to talk about things being equal or 50 50 now it just seems to be the way of nature
/r/seduction22/10/20 04:14 AM
10

........but she told me she wants a nice guy who buys her things??
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:11 AM
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100%. Men complain about women on online dating being stuck up and flakey. Well maybe if they didn't have an inbox of 100 guys sucking up to her like she's royalty or thousands of likes when they post a half naked photo they'd be a bit more down to earth and more willing to engage with you
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:10 AM
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I honestly feel sorry for the people taking some of the advice in these subs. Blind leading the blind most of the time
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:56 PM
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Because the 20 questions is boring. Plus it can come across like an interview. Joke around, say things that are a bit silly/funny, make some statements instead of just questions
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:35 PM
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People don't want to hear the 'harsh' reality. Its nicer for people to say 'well maybe she's on the fence, keep trying!' Even though it's blatantly obvious she's not interested.
/r/seduction09/10/20 04:27 PM
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I would hope not
/r/seduction09/10/20 07:51 AM
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.... but how will she know how to dress if I don't give her the weather report? Or where to invest her stocks?
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:58 AM
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Alright I think I'm ready! Thanks bro
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:57 AM
2

Too much nice guy. Dam it, I knew I should of opened with the stock market news. Women love a guy with money after all
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:27 AM
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Well that's what I mean by own it, I'm proud and happy to say I don't have it. But you're correct
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:25 AM
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I think this is a great attitude to adopt across all areas of life. So many people play the victim and blame other people/circumstances for the position they are in. Thing is, even if someone has completely fucked you over its better to think like 'well how did I let that happen, how can I do things differently to avoid it happening in the future, what can I do to put myself in a better position' instead of 'poor me'. This way you can grow/be productive. When you blame other people etc. You are …
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:22 AM
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I just try to own it when people ask. ‘Nah don’t have an Instagram, I’ve got better ways to spend my time’. At the very least it sets you apart from 99% of people
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:14 AM
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Haven’t deleted it but just never use it. Never was a big user in the first place but man that is like poison for your brain
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:12 AM
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‘Hey Sarah! So how about that local sports team. On a roll huh. Anyway, cloudy with a chance of rain tomorrow. Thought you should know just in case you don’t have an umbrella....... Want to go out with me?’
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:06 AM
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Good advice. Also asking when they are free by passes the whole 'oh I’m busy that day’ thing.
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:04 AM
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100% this. Get to the point and be direct. If she ignores the request I mean I would of thought thats pretty obvious. Put it this way, if a girl you were interested in asked you out would you just completely ignore it?
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:01 AM
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Well if you had multiple women chasing, complimenting you, you asking you out you probably couldn't help to feel confident and have it feed your ego. Some people are terrified of being alone and not having anyone, this girl for example probably has multiple guys she have take her out, buy her dinner etc at the drop of the hat so she wants to keep those options open. OR maybe the op is misreading the situation and shes just replying to be polite and isn't as 'interested' as he thinks. This can ha…
/r/seduction07/10/20 07:52 PM
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She's not interested in meeting up with you otherwise she would make it happen. If I had to guess the reason she is still talking to you is she likes having texting buddies for a bit of an ego boast, boredom etc. Id move on
/r/seduction07/10/20 09:38 AM
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I agree with you but my point was if they are like 'oh I remember that guy he made me feel upset' then it won't help unless the girl has some issues like you said. I guess that's why a lot of the negging style techniques work on those kind of girls so if your just going for a hookup I guess it could work but I would much prefer emotionaly healthy women for hookups or relationships
/r/seduction05/10/20 08:29 AM
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You lost me at negative emotions are better than none. In the context of life yes maybe but I don't think making a girl you hardly know feel negative emotions as a direct result of you is the way to go
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:36 AM
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Good advice my man. Texting is to set dates not to build a relationship. This guy knows the fundamentals
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:35 AM
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Bypass the texting and just directly ask them on a date. I know you say they like to text but your just completely letting them dictate the terms by going along with only texting. Suggest something fun to do, if they're interested they'll want to join. I think it's better than sitting around texting and wondering if your saying the right things or not
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:34 AM
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It's fine (30) or id even say it was great before covid. I don't get any pressure/expectations from friends or family and it wouldn't really mean much too me of they did. It's my life I've got to do what's best for me not what other people think I should. A lot of freedom and low stress. If I 'settle down' it'll happen when it happens and that's cool too. Never been a person to think 'where will my life be in x' I just go with the flow. Parents divorced when I was around 8 but they are both nice…
/r/seduction28/09/20 05:57 AM
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Depends on the guy but in general being upfront is always great and im sure majority of guys would appreciate a girl initiating something. Id like it if a girl straight up asked to be FWB. If I wasn't interested I can say no or if I am great I know where I stand. Only thing with FWB is a lot of times one person will develop feelings so its good to be aware of that and another reason why its good to be upfront.
/r/seduction21/09/20 11:17 PM
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I think thats why being able to read cues and body language is so important. While I don't think theres anything wrong with a guy approaching and starting a conversation with a girl, if there's any hint of her not being comfortable or interested its better to just be like 'ok have a good day' and leave them alone.
/r/seduction21/09/20 05:59 AM
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Exactly. A lot of women are scared of rejecting guys as a lot of guys don't take rejection well. Much easier to just give out a number, either fake or real, and just ghost/block later if they wont. I think you should be able to tell when they give out their number if they are interested or not by bodylanguage, tone of voice etc.
/r/seduction21/09/20 05:54 AM
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Exactly, being overweight usually indicates factors of someone's lifestyle. For example an obese person you could probably assume exercise and diet aren't overly important to them so if those things are important to you there is going to be incompatible with you
/r/seduction21/09/20 01:16 AM
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I think alot of guys do care about weight (physical appearance) even though it can be looked down upon if they say they do. Sure some guys like bigger girls but I think it's biological to be attracted to fitter people
/r/seduction21/09/20 01:13 AM
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I think that is true. If haven't been 'manning up' as you said then this is why she doesnt respect you and if she doesnt respect you I dont think she can love you in the way a relationship needs. Like you said when you called her out she was kind of like meh, that I think was due to a lack of respect and thinking she could just disrespect you and get away with it. Im not saying its definitely over but its not looking good at the moment. But as you said the only way it will work is if you stand u…
/r/seduction18/09/20 05:55 AM
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I went through something just like this. I was the only one trying to make the relationship work and she was just completely indifferent and showed zero affection or interest. She ended up kissing a guy she used to date so I ended it. All of a sudden im the love of her life and she wants to spend her life with me and put the effort in blah blah. Ended up hanging out a few times since ( I had zero intention of a relationship) and she was more giving and adventurous in bed than she'd ever been.
/r/seduction18/09/20 05:37 AM
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Hate to say it and don't want to be negative but seems like she has completely checked out from the relationship. "I know long distance is hard but this is bs and I’m not trying to hold up a two person relationship by myself. She betrayed me and I feel like I’m the one in the wrong and I’ve been walking on egg shells trying not to ruin the relationship when I’ve done nothing but tried to keep it healthy." Sounds like you are fighting to keep things going and she in turn is off flirting with othe…
/r/seduction18/09/20 05:31 AM
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Yeah I get it. I think most people male and female don't know what other people go through/are going through so it's always best to be respectful
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:29 AM
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Yeah and that's fair enough. Women have to deal with those men that get their back up and 'oh you're a snob/think you're better than me' so I can understand their not talking, ghosting etc.
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:13 AM
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Perfect attitude. If she wants to be rude that's on her. The fact it didn't bother you is the key
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:11 AM
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Going off this and your next few comments you dont really come across as positive
/r/seduction09/09/20 11:47 PM
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Fairn enough. Whatever works for you
/r/seduction08/09/20 02:52 AM
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True. Good perspective
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:49 AM
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How does it give you an abundance mindset unless you are also dating/hooking up with them? Otherwise it's just another hot girl in your subconscious you have nothing to do with
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:48 AM
0

....Sure they weren't Bots?
/r/seduction07/09/20 05:52 AM
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100%. We as guys encourage a lot of this behaviour by being super thirsty and blowing up these girls egos. Have you ever actually had a conversation on Tinder with the IG model looking girls? One word answers at best. Sometimes just an emoji as an answer.. thing is they can do this and guys will still keep trying to talk to them and blow their phone up.
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:49 AM
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True. Just the icing on the cake?
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:33 AM
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I don't know why theres this misconception that it's being an asshole is what gets girls. You just have to not be a pushover and not go against your beliefs to try and impress her. Basically be confident and secure. It just happens that assholes are usually like this
/r/seduction07/09/20 12:28 AM
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The last thing a girl wants is you to be 'scared' of her or unsure/insecure of yourself. This is unfortunately why asking to kiss them/touch them dorsnt really help, they want you to be assertive. At the same time you need to know what's too far and what's appropriate. It can be a fine line but something we need to be aware of
/r/seduction07/09/20 12:20 AM
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Embrace it. Great attitude, get comfortable with being uncomfortable
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:35 AM
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Don't want to be a friend then don't act like a friend. Dont hang out like friends, dont text/talk all day like a friend, etc. Cut to the chase and ask her out (on a proper date not a 'friends' date) early on
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:15 AM
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Im 31 and i agree 100%. If your focus is 'ok I need to project this exciting life so girls will like me' youre already approaching it the wrong way.
/r/seduction03/09/20 06:07 AM
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Of course. Happens the other way around all the time. No problem either way, your'e attracted to who your'e attracted to no matter how much people want to call you shallow or whatever else.
/r/seduction29/08/20 06:44 AM
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How many missteps you can get away with is also related to how attracted she is to you. If you’re just a pass one and you’re gone. If she thinks you’re on par with bradd Pitt you can fuck up a lot and get away with it
/r/seduction07/03/20 02:56 AM
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Don’t let this bring you down like you said be proud of yourself. You done good. If she’s not interested she’s not interested. Fuck it there’ll be more
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:26 AM
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Sounds like you did pretty good. Humour is always good so instead of just asking for help with your laptop could of said something funny “oh I love it when my laptop takes an hour to load” (obviously that’s not that funny but something more relevant to what’s going on) or with the quiz “yeah I just picked c for every answer” etc. and gone into a conversation from there. Good job for the cold approaching though. Keep going!
/r/seduction06/02/20 02:53 AM
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She would at least find time to reply. No she doesn’t know you yet but she would know if she would potentially date you pretty much straight away
/r/seduction23/01/20 04:32 AM
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She’s not interested. If a girl really likes you she’ll always find time
/r/seduction23/01/20 04:07 AM
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No problem man. As for asking her out while she’s working unless you make it awkward and uncomfortable I think it’s fine. If you’re friendly and polite and seems like she’s on the same page, asking her when she’s free to grab a coffee or whatever because you’d like to talk with her some more in a different setting isn’t sleazy at all. Good luck
/r/seduction22/01/20 05:32 AM
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After chatting with her for a bit ‘hey I’ve never asked you your name?’ ‘Sarah’ ‘well Sarah Ive got to run but when would you be free to grab a drink/coffee/ice cream/dinner I’d love to get to talk to you a bit more’ You’ll get your answer. I don’t think there’s much point in making conversation a bit more personal if you’re not going to ask her out. By this point she knows whether or not she’s attracted to you or would go out with you. Just go for it
/r/seduction22/01/20 04:57 AM
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Just live how you would if you were in good shape. You’re not confident about your body right now and women are going to pick up on that. Keep training and keep going after women. If some reject you so what. If you have this mentality of ‘oh when I’m in shape I’ll ask her out’ then you’re going to fail because you’ll always find some excuse
/r/seduction20/01/20 09:14 AM
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They’re fine. If you don’t make a big deal out of it I doubt any guy would
/r/seduction20/01/20 08:57 AM
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Only way is practice. Repetition is the mother of skill my friend. I would start by talking to people who don’t intimidate you at all - old ladies, people at the counter of a grocery store or whatever. As you get used to that start talking to more and more people until you can talk to someone wherever you go. There’s no easy fix so you just have to put the work in. Like I said for me the weed made me much more withdrawn and less likely to want to talk to anyone
/r/seduction19/01/20 03:05 AM
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First thing I would say is quit the weed because it’s probably not helping. You obviously have self esteem issues which would be the main thing holding you back. You could try getting a new hobby/hobbies that increase your confidence. Going to the gym might be a good one. Try talking to as many people as you can, guys, girls, old people whatever and don’t be hard on yourself if an interaction doesn’t go well. You’d be surprised most people are actually quite friendly and it will build your socia…
/r/seduction19/01/20 02:45 AM
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Not rude or unacceptable but would completely depend on context. It’s good to be upfront but it could go many different ways depending on the girl and the situation
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:06 AM
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Playing guitar. Great skill to have and you’re always learning more and progressing which feels good. Really helped me in a bad time
/r/seduction27/12/19 02:11 AM
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