| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 364 | Pick me calls not wanting to have sex with your partner “abuse” 🤮 | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | InternationalHope8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Harvey Weinstein, 68, was visited by his victim-blaming girlfriend Alexandra Vino, 27 🤢🤮 | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | InternationalHope8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:29 AM |
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| 1 | Because a pedophile has no genderThe dude wasn’t defending the kid, he also tried to kill the child because he saw it as an “affair”, not child rape. He’s just as scummy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?“Regarding injury, men were more likely to inflict injury than were women”. “Approximately 1.5 million women and 835 000 men are physically assaulted or raped by intimate partners in the United States annually”. Looks like you intentionally left those parts of the study out of your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?Don’t bother, they just want to be right and have no interest in actually hearing your side of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?Except all they see is the asshole and not the good traits (adventurous, attractive, impulsive, interesting, enigmatic, etc.) that attracted those girls to begin with. They don’t bang him because he’s an asshole or like being treated poorly, they bang him because of all the other traits he has and subsequently decide they’ll put up with assholery (which is where it gets dumb but being young and dumb isn’t immoral, whereas actively hurting people is). So when a “nice guy” who thinks just existing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?Where exactly did you get that 90% from? Stop pulling numbers out of your ass and using it as a justification to generalize half the population because actual peer-reviewed studies completely contradict what you say. Most women do not act in the same way, being that there are billions of them from different races, cultures, and socioeconomic backgrounds in the world. What makes you think attractive men don’t treat unattractive women with indifference and derision? Or is it that you don’t even th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | It's a Power Thing - don't give it to themOh yeah, I have a zero tolerance policy with lvm. The first line they cross, I’m out and when they ask “wHy?” I bluntly answer the question on my way out. Your post makes sense from your perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 5 | It's a Power Thing - don't give it to themIdk about that. I want guys to know exactly why they lost me. For me it’s a declarative statement, not a debate, so he doesn’t get to answer back. “I am leaving you because you cheated, because you don’t pull your weight around here and I’m tired of you bringing me down, because I don’t date sexist men”. Its essentially “it’s not me, it’s you and I’m going to be very clear about that with a short terse sentence before walking out and blocking for good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Wife Should Seek Counseling and Help for Drunk Husband who R*ped her after she said NOThis is so disgusting. Is this really how the average Jamaican thinks? Because if so, I just became a little more grateful to live where I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 27 | Women who have played by the rules of the patriarchy must always live by the sunk cost fallacy. Misery loves company they say.Yeah gen X has always been problematic. The 80s was rampant with misogyny coupled with a giant push back against women’s lib (and progressivism in general). Male gen x-ers are even responsible for killing Woodstock for all future generations because they couldn’t stop raping women and setting shit on fire (Woodstock 1999). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:10 PM |
| 34 | Women who have played by the rules of the patriarchy must always live by the sunk cost fallacy. Misery loves company they say.Exactly. They see how patriarchy and their complacency in it robbed them of their life so it burns them to watch younger women actually living/enjoying their own life instead of being married off at 19. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | This PostSecret shook me, I think most women can relate to this.That’s exactly why we women have to stop being forgiving and start fighting back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | This PostSecret shook me, I think most women can relate to this.Because no one has held them accountable for what they’ve done. Report rapists and out them to their communities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:53 PM |
| 36 | Pick me, pick me! 🤦🏻♀️Yes, and the point is there is no “Karenism” for entitled/racist men. That’s the misogyny in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 110 | Thoughts?Agreed, and I’m for using birth control (IUDs were a game changer for me). It’s just if for whatever reason a woman finds herself pregnant by a lvm, she doesn’t have to go through with the pregnancy. Too many women end up going through with it and have their lives permanently altered because they think they don’t have any other choice when there is nothing wrong with abortion. The idea that abortion is wrong is based purely on a religious construct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 154 | Thoughts?I wish abortion wasn’t so stigmatized, that is an option if a lvm tries to trap a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:24 PM |
| 48 | Mic drop.That’s why I never want to have a boy. No matter how hard I try to raise him to be a decent person, he’ll always have his little buddies and society in general influencing him to be an entitled asshole. It’d be such a headache to have to constantly fight that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 12:25 AM |
| 4 | I don't know if the theory of Shakespeare being a woman is valid, but I find these lyrics totally to the point.I doubt the person who wrote the taming of the shrew was a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 12:16 AM |
| 93 | Mic drop.Yup, imagine parents controlling a teenaged boy the way they control their teenaged girls. There’d be holes in the wall and broken objects everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:11 PM |
| 107 | Imagine if every male on earth suddenly vanished ...Peaceful. I could actually walk around at night without having to constantly have my guard up. How relaxing it would be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:42 PM |
| 113 | I’m so disgustedWtf throw the whole man into the sea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Any stories of karma getting a horrid ex back for however they mistreated you?No. There is no such thing as the karma you’re thinking of, that’s just something people say for comfort. We as humans make our own karma. The only way he will face consequences is if people make him, it will not happen out of no where magically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 149 | I’d never even ask a man on a date anywaysActually I do agree with “whoever asks for the date pays for it”. I just don’t ask men out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I don’t even know what to say anymoreWhat a piece of shit. Report him to the website and press charges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Men Who Correct You but Make Sure You Don’t Ever Get to Correct ThemOh yeah I’m aware, I just don’t put up with it when I encounter it. I even cut off my little brother permanently because of it. Even if it’s my boss, I quip back and make it sound professional enough to where he can’t get me for it. I also log any incident and if I start to see a pattern of behavior in my logs, Im prepared to email them right to all the higher ups/HR. Once there’s a paper trail they do a 180 in how they handle it. Haven’t been fired yet 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Men Who Correct You but Make Sure You Don’t Ever Get to Correct ThemI didn’t even get past the title because I’d laugh in his face as I throw him out, as if I’d ever allow a man to act like he’s superior to me 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Pick me calls not wanting to have sex with your partner “abuse” 🤮Abusive men don’t just withhold sex, they couple that behavior with emotionally/financially/sexually/physically abusive actions as well. Calling the act of withholding sex alone, even if the partner refuses on a regular basis, abuse is problematic because bodily autonomy is our most basic right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 50 | Pick me calls not wanting to have sex with your partner “abuse” 🤮..and this was posted in a women’s sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:24 AM |
| 57 | Pick me calls not wanting to have sex with your partner “abuse” 🤮If it is then they really need to stop posting in women’s subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:22 AM |
| 4 | I’m actually so fucking triggered right now.Misogynists and their pick mes are more likely to raise a rapist than parents who teach their children to respect and treat everyone equally. But yes rapists are ultimately responsible for their actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | I’m actually so fucking triggered right now.I hope she doesn’t have son. She’s going to raise a rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:59 PM |
| 21 | I’m actually so fucking triggered right now.Thats the worst kind of pick me. I can’t stand people who enable abusers, they’re almost as bad as the abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:01 AM |
| 54 | He told me to remove FDS because of the "toxic thinking and expectations"Should’ve hung up on him the second you heard his voice. I hope you told him off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:09 PM |
| 55 | What’s the worst pick-me song of all time?Please don’t leave me by pink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:05 PM |
| 19 | TW: children and assault:I need advice. How do you release the anger? I am so full of rage.I know this doesn’t apply to everyone, but for me, none of those feelings went away until I publicly called out my abusers. Therapy helped manage those feelings for years, but no amount of therapy in the world was going to overcome the fact that I was still holding on to the burden by keeping the secret while they were out living their lives. So I told. I told everyone in their communities what they are. Some believed me, others stuck by them, but no longer holding on to that secret alone and ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:03 PM |
| 53 | sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT career-woman pick-meA self proclaimed strong independent woman probably isn’t one. Part of being strong and independent is having the strength to leave when being taken advantage of. Strong independent women simply show that through their actions by not putting up with unbalanced relationships and overall shit behavior. Traditional gender roles don’t make everyone happy though. I really hate cooking and cleaning so I found a man that does 90% of it (including deep cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, meal planning,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:22 PM |
| 20 | Found on IG, thought I’d share. Stay safe and be aware ladies.Yup, it starts with the trivialization of nuanced sexism. Left unchecked, it spirals into full blown civilizations where men can marry literal children, publicly sexually assault women, and use rape as weapons of war all with impunity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:00 PM |
| 24 | When even men like Bill Maher can acknowledge and criticize the abusive,rapey and misogynistic nature of modern porn, what's the excuse of the rest of the scores that play stupid?He’s always been disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 12 | And they wonder why we call them incels...Bahahahaha that figures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:29 PM |
| 62 | And they wonder why we call them incels...He actually said “use porn to understand logic” 😂😂😂😂 no wonder he doesn’t even know basic anatomy. What sub was this even found in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:19 PM |
| 7 | "No one cares about men's feelings :'("Yep, just went back and forth with someone on twoxx yesterday about this. So frustrating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 27 | The worst part is that it's mainly women in the comments agreeing with her. Internalized misogyny is real.She’ll figure out that her self worth isn’t contingent on her sexuality when she does all these things and still gets cheated on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:34 PM |
| 3 | The “Arrangement” 🤣Hahahahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 21 | If Women Behaved Like Men In BarsMen always imagine an incredibly attractive woman doing this when they picture themselves in the same scenario because they’re delusional. Get them to picture an ugly woman or a man doing this and in control then they suddenly get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:12 PM |
| 33 | I have no words for this lunacyExactly. I used to actually advocate for men’s mental health along with feminist ideals until men showed me just how much they don’t actually care about their “mental health” (which is why you don’t see them putting in any effort to create supportive networks amongst each other). They don’t want an egalitarian society where they can actually express emotions rationally without judgement. They want women to be legal minors again so their life is easier. I now couldn’t give two shits about their “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:08 PM |
| 21 | LVM need not apply 💁🏼♀️👑I partly (very small part) blame the mom as well for enabling this. If my son is an entitled pos, I’m handling it or he’s getting thrown out if he’s beyond hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Saw this and felt ill, hope she listens to the comments and break up with Him ASAP! (Tried to crosspost, but didn't work, link is in the comments to show her support!)It’s not always that easy to find, I wish we could simply link subs like every other sub does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:30 PM |
| 13 | Warning from a woman in the military.My time in the army wasn’t like this either. We need more women in the military to make it so no one else has to go through this, not less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Why shouldn't men view women's offer of "friendship" like a second-place trophy/consolation prize following a rejection?Like people who are kind in general to everyone because it’s simply the right thing to do. Not guys who act nice just to get something in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Why shouldn't men view women's offer of "friendship" like a second-place trophy/consolation prize following a rejection?You’re familiar with the rationale but you don’t understand it. When it comes to cold approach, many women simply will not risk their safety to be honest. They can’t tell you apart from a psychopath. It doesn’t matter if it’s not all men when it’s enough men to where most women have had to get out of a dangerous situation for being honest with the wrong guy. Women want to take 0% chance that they’ll end up in the hospital over a harsh but true rejection, and that takes priority over your potenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: Why shouldn't men view women's offer of "friendship" like a second-place trophy/consolation prize following a rejection?Gee, if only there were a way to avoid one-sided friendships. Free will is a thing you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/20 03:23 PM |
| 41 | How the patriarchal mindset means that chasing men is still a complete waste of time.Nope, not me. I will not allow men to dictate my relationship. I will not settle for a man I only kind of like. I will only seriously date a man I want. If he isn’t ready for a serious relationship when I want it, I stop seeing him and move on to another man I want. I did that enough times to where I found my ideal partner. If you’re privileged enough to be from a country where women have equal rights at least on paper, it doesn’t have to be this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Sheryl Sandberg's Advice for Young Women: 'Don't Do Your Boyfriend's Laundry'The getting “thousands” is based on his income, it wasn’t because of his neglect, and it was mentioned to show how much money he had to fight this over her. The point is my aunt’s experience of getting full custody, half of everything, and child support is not uncommon with proof of abuse (yes, starving your child and letting them sit in their own mess as they cry is legally considered abuse). Your experience isn’t everyone else’s either. I’m insisting that women have other options besides stayi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Sheryl Sandberg's Advice for Young Women: 'Don't Do Your Boyfriend's Laundry'I’m sorry that was your experience. I watched my aunt go through this and the courts did care. She got full custody, half of everything, and thousands a month in child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Sheryl Sandberg's Advice for Young Women: 'Don't Do Your Boyfriend's Laundry'If you come home to a sobbing, hungry, and thirsty baby with a horrific diaper rash, document it all and report him for abuse. If you don’t want to go that far, threaten to divorce him and file for full custody due to evidence of abuse. Forcing them will either make it so they step up or that you can document neglect/abuse/etc. and come out on top in the divorce. No one has to put up with a man baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Sheryl Sandberg's Advice for Young Women: 'Don't Do Your Boyfriend's Laundry'Of course most men don’t do their fair share, thats why they need to be forced. If mom wasn’t there, would he really let his child starve and develop diaper rash? I doubt it. He actually doesn’t want to properly take care of his own child? Document the neglect and threaten to file for divorce due to an abusive household. Women always have more options than just doing the work for him and shrugging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:49 PM |
| 56 | Sheryl Sandberg's Advice for Young Women: 'Don't Do Your Boyfriend's Laundry'With the exception of abusive relationships, I don’t see why this would have to happen. I truly don’t understand how women don’t just let their husbands starve and wallow in their dirty laundry when they refuse to help with cooking and cleaning. Why is it her responsibility to make sure the kids are looked after all the time? Why can’t she just drop their child in his lap and go to work? Why can’t she tell him “I’m under no circumstances quitting my job, so we need to figure out splitting child … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:15 AM |
| 21 | THIS!! I see women on here sometimes arguing with men and posting their “sassy” or “savage” clapbacks, he doesn’t care he just enjoys getting a rise out of you. Bad attention for men is still attention. Block them and pay them no mind.Yup, these scrotes are hopeless. If you’re not laughing at them for your own entertainment, there’s absolutely no reason to engage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:40 PM |
| 23 | Pick me desperationYeah I’ll never understand how pickmes will just eat shit with a smile for a boy that would leave her in heartbeat if she pulled even a quarter of the shit he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 21 | female MRA and supporter of MGTOW. ultimate pickmesha or? whats psychology behind this?That’s what romaarmy does lol. She makes loads of money off of scrotes by putting women down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:05 PM |
| 8 | Live together before marriage? No thanks!Yes you do, you do not meet the worst/most annoying sides of someone until you live with them. A two week vacation with dinners and room service is no indication to how they will act on a day to day basis at home. They could secretly be slobs, controlling, lazy with household chores/child rearing, hiding debt/bad credit, or straight up abusive and you wouldn’t know it for years because their home is separate from yours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:36 AM |
| 44 | Live together before marriage? No thanks!I wholeheartedly disagree with this. You cannot see a man’s true colors until you live with him. LVM masquerading as HVM can easily hide who they really are when they have a place to take their mask off every night. There are way too many horror stories of women who married seemingly HVM just to have them do a 180 after the wedding night. No one can keep a mask on forever, so living with them for at least 6 months is the only way to really see who they are. Red flags will start to slip out if th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Best friends who discard your friendship for a NVM are LVW in disguise! Don’t be a door mat for ANYONE!How could she tolerate someone beating her own sister?? Sorry, there’s no excuse for that 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Sexual assault or drunk mistake?I honestly can’t tell if you’re reaching for something or if you genuinely don’t understand what consent is. You were so drunk that you barely remember anything and that you couldn’t really walk, which is why he had to literally take you somewhere. You can only give consent if you say yes and are of sound mine when you say it. Not saying no is NOT consent. Even if you had slurred something along the lines of “yes”, you still can’t consent because you’re intoxicated. A 14 year old saying “yes” to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Best friends who discard your friendship for a NVM are LVW in disguise! Don’t be a door mat for ANYONE!Well said!! You are by no means abandoning her by expecting to be treated with respect, she’s a grown woman and she’s made her decision multiple times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:05 AM |
| 18 | Sexual assault or drunk mistake?This is clearly 100% sexual assault and if he penetrated you in any way, it’s rape. I know you said you don’t want to do anything about it, but that guy is 100% a sexual predator and he WILL do this again to someone else. If you don’t want to press charges, maybe at least warn the other girls around you about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 25 | Best friends who discard your friendship for a NVM are LVW in disguise! Don’t be a door mat for ANYONE!Yep I lost a best friend that way too, but she went beyond neglecting our friendship. She was too scared and brainwashed to direct the negative energy she received right back at her abusive bf so she’d lash out at me instead because she knew she could. She finally decided to leave and I picked her up in the middle of the night and helped file a police report. A week later and she’s back with him, voluntarily dropping the charges, and lashing out at me again for not “supporting her relationship” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:11 AM |
| 24 | Millionaire Youtuber Asks His Part-Time Model Girlfriend To Split The Check.What show is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 12 | Do abused women take out their frustrations/inability/lack of I understanding about how to help themselves out on other women?Yes. My ex best friend was like this. She was too afraid and brainwashed to fight back against her abusive bf so she’d lash out at me instead because she knew she could. I dealt with it until he beat her so bad, he put her in the hospital. I drove 3 hours in the middle of the night to help her make a report at the police station. A week later and she’s back with him and lashing out at me again for “not being supportive of the man she loves” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 40 | women can’t have meaningful platonic relationships with anyone because they’re women?Yup. That’s why they’re constantly leeching off of women for the free therapy their “boys” won’t give them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:34 AM |
| 28 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionYep, got banned from askwomen for suggesting that women actually fight back against abusive scrotes 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 9 | Do any of you gals ever go to r/deadbedrooms and just feel so glad you're single?LOL I got banned from that sub for suggesting that a woman actually value herself and know that sex isn’t just for the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Has r/banfemalehatesubs been banned??Yes it’s still up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:12 PM |
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