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Horrible situation all around. I hope the guy holds frame and cancels the wedding. Not exactly the same, but I did have a girl who tried to make me jealous which worked at first but made the relationship quite toxic. It's a huge shame, as I otherwise liked her a lot. In retrospect she might have just wanted me to make a bigger move because we were kinda stalling, but it kind of felt like she was either on the fence or moving away, which is definitely not inspiring.. I'm probably at fault too, lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:01 AM
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It's probably no use ruminating why my last relationship failed but I still do it anyway. I think the best answer is "we should've been better for each other, and better for our next one". In retrospect I probably should've done some repairing at the end, and probably should have put my ego aside despite feeling she wasn't into the relationship. The feeling of never knowing what could've been sucks so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:37 PM
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Wow, my story's similar. Divorced parents, neurotic mom, dad that's kinda there kinda not. Not much care which made me go with a whatever attitude to life for a long while. At around 20 I decided to take more social risks and got good at doing but not being, I got the macro but not the micro. Met the supposed dream girl at college, didn't go very well, and now we're here. I'm not proud of how I acted with her but it was also very rewarding because that relationship however bad it was gave me lot…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/26 10:40 AM
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What's your TRP story? Should leadership ever feel like a burden? The girl that got me into TRP gave me exactly that, it felt like I was somewhere between her daddy and someone who would fulfill a rape fantasy. But to me it felt like I might seriously hurt someone I care about.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/26 06:15 AM
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Weren't dating, just college classmates with lots of mixed signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:33 PM
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I definitely shouldn't spend hours watching videos finding out if someone is a narc or avoidant, but man this girl. Should've listened to my instincts when the behavior was off. It was the little things that didn't really add up. If anyone's wondering, she consistently was incredibly socially passive, but also unapologetic and lacking self awareness. Something about her felt like she was constantly fishing for responses, never taking her own initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:15 AM
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Would you say the same for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:04 AM
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My pill's dumber than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:28 PM
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My hope (I'll accept cope too) so far was that she was trying to make me jealous, but that could work too. It also feels like a huge shame because I liked her personality as much as I liked her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:26 PM
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Sometimes I wonder how much of the dating mess is caused by actions and reactions. For me it was the second girl I seriously liked, when another guy asked her, she just went with it like I wasn't even in the room, after she told me no in the past. It was a year after I asked her but it still stung like hell, and strangely enough the next time we met for class she initiated touch, probably because I ignored her. The friendship (if it ever was?) went downhill as I became a bit of an ass to her, ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 02:29 PM
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Just do some cold approaches, it's fun. Pull a hottie and he won't cancel anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 04:27 PM
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I think you're my type :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:52 PM
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Yeah that's why I don't participate even when I'm genuinely interested. Honestly, many posts start as a "not exactly right but not exactly wrong either" but the replies can be.. ouch. I think there's plenty of people that come for here just for that though. Despite that it's still lovely to hear from the serious posters.. until they disappear :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:47 PM
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Reflecting back on a relationship, my behavior was kinda shitty as I went cold and stonewalled a bit. But it was felt also very difficult to give because we had a fight and for a while she was very cold and distant with me, but also very warm and friendly with other guys. This led me to unintentionally punish her the next time she initiated and the cycle kinda continued. In retrospect I regret not being more proactive but also, I just didn't feel her being in that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:38 PM
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I've noticed a pattern where girls seem to be initially excited, but on subsequent meetings they're just cold and act like I don't exist. They have no problems speaking and even initiating conversations with other guys. This is just girls I meet at college and strike conversations with. I suppose the solution is abundance mentality and just hitting up more girls, but what's the deal? The good news tho, is that yesterday I approached a girl and she complimented my arms.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/26 09:25 AM
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Yeah, that's more or less what happened with me. I just started with TRP, finally clicked and got a bit close with a girl, then some guy asks her to come with him and she does, as if I was wasn't right next to her. What the fuck? It just went downhill from there, and her being cold with me but warm to other guys is just stuck in my memory. Getting a combative, dismissive, attitude and her throwing some sad expressions into the mix certainly didn't help. It overall felt like she was less than hal…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/26 08:55 AM
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Been practicing cold approach for the last year or so. Practically zero success, but as time went on it became more natural and I've become insensitive to rejection which is a nice plus. I've also had some pretty nice rejections overall, when girls at least seemed aware of how difficult it could be to approach and thanked me even if they said no for whatever reason. At this point the usual "I have a boyfriend" stuff makes me feel kinda ickish. If you really think about it - maybe cold approach i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:07 PM
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I dunno if I'm becoming arrogant, but after doing a lot of approaches I'd rather be kindly rejected by a very attractive girl than get anything less than kindness from a girl that's above average. Won't be posting pics but for reference I'm 5'3 and some girls call me cute. I approached a lot, girls younger/older taller/shorter darker/lighter. Getting something like "Wow, props for the courage, that's super flattering" with an excited smile and eye contact (some even hug if I ask) versus an ambiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:35 PM
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Done a few approaches that way, not really a big sample but I've gotten a stronger reaction but the same results. Great eye contact practice. I'll let you know once I've got a bigger sample. I did get one number so maybe it's a step in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:27 PM
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What does "stop searching" mean in practice? It could range from "never leaving my room" to "talking to women as little as possible" if not outright avoiding them. I guess something in the middle might be "focusing on your mission" without any TRP nonsense. Maybe some sort of abundance mentality that's been seeping in? It's something I've seen a few times but can't quite wrap my head around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:11 PM
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She asked her friend to check if there's any open positions at her friend's company. It was for a programming role.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:12 PM
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Right! While we're here, here's a situation I've had a few times: I'd approach with the usual, and we just end up looking at each other's eyes. The girl isn't really frozen but I can't quite tell if she's not sure what to do or too excited to response. Any insight?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:01 PM
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I've tried a wide variety of approaches (and gotten a wide variety of responses) but gave the most balanced results. Sometimes the second thing I did was hold my hand forward and say "Hi, I'm Dan". Maybe it's just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:37 PM
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Been doing a lot of cold approaches lately. Got some numbers but nothing came out of it. Lots of women are pretty receptive even if they reject me, one even looked for a job for me. Plenty of the older ones (say 40-50?) complimented my courage. Not much, but better that nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:03 PM
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Personal change I've made, being a bit more disagreeable. I'm not sure if it's a positive or even a good change, but after a lifetime of anxiety and quietness it's probably better for me. Today I told someone no even if what was asked was simple - a girl friend of his came and he asked me to move seats so they could sit together. I said no. Later on they got two more peole (4 total) and started talking quite a bit despite being in a designated quiet study space, so I told them to shut the fuck u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:46 PM
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