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| 8 | I am 44, lost my family, my money, and my home. Now I plan to move to Vietnam to start from zero. Is this a leap of faith or madness? | Living Situations | International_Dog872 | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/26 09:13 PM |
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| 1 | What’s the longest you stayed when you knew it was over? How did you maintain happiness while still in it?I stayed for 12 years out of fear - I had nowhere to go.. Started drinking and gaming. It's over just few months now.. Still lost, devastated afraid of the future.. But sure, there's no turning back.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Guides on emotional healing?Look, it's your brain's job to predict negative future. All the happy monkeys became someone's breakfast. You cannot turn of thes thoughts, but you can observe them. Just like spam advertisement on the monitor. One thing that helps: stop thinking - start writing. your limbic system is too fast. It jumps from one thought to another before you can consider it. Once you take notebook and pen, you force your brain to slow down. First you will let out your anxiety on the paper. Then you will start se… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Thinking About Divorce? Read This First.If you are still staying "because of kids", ask yourself: how unhappy parent can raise a happy child? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Advice for mediationHey, there. I am couples therapist and mediator. The biggest problem is that people cannot talk about complicated topics without emotions. And emotions can cause people to overreact. So Mediator's job is to keep your conversation in productive stream. Advices - before you go there, decide what you want to get as the result. Take notebook and pen, and write questions that they ask you. That way you slow down your reactive brait. You should have sort of template: Situation - What result do I want … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/26 09:19 PM |
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