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coaches say 'girls aren't visual and don't care at all about looks'. Posters say 'looks get your foot in the door. Game does the rest' I suggest just trying out the verbals and techniques (there's guides here for various pickup artists here that tell you exactly what to say too a girl) and report back with field reports as others have done and come to your own conclusion
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:24 PM
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he's offering a 5k weekend bootcamp at the moment in Krakow
/r/seduction08/02/26 12:32 PM
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he's offering a 5k weekend bootcamp at the moment :)
/r/seduction08/02/26 12:32 PM
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for those who do'nt wanna read all that: Female Bus driver was depressed and was gonna drive the bus full of passengers off a cliff. OP done some flirty cold reads 'you look like the kind of girl who sometimes drives busses off of cliffs, but sometimes you are fun and kind'. This made her want him and as she leaned in too initiate a kiss, OP was able to grab the wheel and steer people to safety
/r/seduction08/02/26 12:28 PM
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mark manson
/r/seduction07/02/26 03:43 PM
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Gold standard by who? not sure i can post links, but many daygamers/coaches with blogs talk about him and how he's the best to do it/gold standard etc. He's written many books and has been teaching for like 20+ years. 'Apparently' slept with thousands of 10's. Along with a few others he more or les developed the famous LDG model of game (open, cold reads, assumptions stacks etc) but honestly, I don't believe anything i ever hear anymore from these coaches lol. Just a glance at him tells me he'd …
/r/seduction07/02/26 01:11 PM
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yeah, seemed super cringe, but all of his infields are very similar to this one. The same extremely odd verbals and techniques (compare her too a fluffy animal, strange cold reads, 'I saw you....with my english eyes....and I think....she looks nice....she is shopping for shoes probably.......when i think of russian girls....i think vodka...."" etc etc). But many say he is the best of the best so was curious what others made of it lol.
/r/seduction07/02/26 12:58 PM
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i've had amazing and awful results with every technique. I think it's all essentially random and it's 95% about you just being her type (her liking how you look) and 5% 'state' (e.g when you're in a super good mood and your energy is good, everything will tend to have slightly higher odds)
/r/seduction07/02/26 11:51 AM
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ah, ok. Was just curious. I've seen his stuff
/r/seduction07/02/26 11:32 AM
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Who do you like out of interest? (please don't say john anthony lol). Mystery?
/r/seduction07/02/26 10:41 AM
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there's so many places, but as a general rule, go to countries where people are dirt poor.
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:58 AM
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here: Open: always go INDIRECT. Never give your power away by going direct. Use an opinion opener. Something like 'who lies more, men or women?'. Can make up your own if you want too. Use a false time constraint - explain that you only have 2 mins and you have to go and meet your friends and then GROUND the opinion opener (e.g why are you asking her that question) Now you need to 'display value' and ATTRACT her (the method is ACD - Attraction, comfort, seduction) How? attraction DHV stories. Tel…
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:50 AM
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mark manson
/r/seduction04/02/26 07:55 AM
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it's a numbers game. The 'game' is played on the girls who are attracted to you.
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:34 PM
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lol
/r/seduction01/02/26 10:03 AM
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just be grateful lol
/r/seduction31/01/26 11:56 AM
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probably the same as day game. The best in the world used to claim 1 lay from 35 approaches (tom torerro, krawser etc) But these are guys who have taught game for like 15 years. Lived it as their life and source of income. So probably best not to expect them numbers. But theh, you can change the odds massively based on how you look, and how the girls look in comparison Them guys were both average at best, and typically went for girls a bit hotter and younger than them (so kind of hard mode)
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:21 AM
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everyone knows and has tried the damn mystery method lmao!
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:14 AM
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''game;'' is basically flirting when you break it all down (push pull, teasing, cold reads etc). But as you'll have experienced, if you flirt with a girl who isn't attracted to you, it's unwanted and doesn't go anywhere. Thanks to infield footage, all of this should be obvious If you're not type, your 'game' won't create sexual attraction, basiclalyy
/r/seduction30/01/26 12:32 PM
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''game;'' is basically flirting (pushpull, teasing, negs, cold reads, blablablabla). But if you flirt with a girl who isn't attracted to you, it's unwanted and doesn't go anywayere. The fact that the best dating coaches in teh world get enough attraction to get laid with about 1 in 40 girls from their stats gives you your answer If you're not type, your 'game' won't create sexual attraction, basiclalyy
/r/seduction30/01/26 09:12 AM
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You say guys fail because they aren’t executing the verbal and non-verbal techniques correctly, and that each stage has prerequisites that must be fulfilled and vary slightly per person. I want to understand exactly what that means. If someone: memorizes the techniques (push-pull, cold reads, assumptions, qualification etc) knows when to use them (stages of interaction) consciously attempts to apply them in-field attempts to fulfill the prerequisites for each stage as best they can …what specifi…
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:53 PM
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You're describing cold approach as a performance skill like piano, where repetition trains the body and nervous system over time. But that’s not how most dating coaching is presented or sold. It’s sold as a knowledge system: Here are the techniques (push-pull, cold reads, assumptions, qualificaition) Here is when to use them (stages of interaction) Here are example lines to apply them So it’s reasonable for someone to assume that if they learn, remember, and attempt to apply that knowledge, they…
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:27 PM
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thing is, running game and doing what the books say isn't hard at all. Playing the piano is though. someone with a semi decent memory should be able to memorise lots of openers, pushpulls, cold reads etc. And someone like Todd V literally gives you the appropriate lines etc for the correct 'stage' of an interaction. And it does work. Sometimes.(when you open a receptive, attracted girl)
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:11 PM
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I know about your skills. They're the same as mine. I'm sure we've both read all the books and approached lots. And we both get rejected. You admitted that sometimes you approach a girl and 'she isn't attracted' and so you walk away. me too. But that confession proves that there exists a category of woman for whom no amount of behavior changes the outcome, which means Game does not create attraction. It can only amplify attraction that is already possible
/r/seduction26/01/26 02:02 PM
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There are plenty of guys who will try to feed you the fantasy that you will never get rejected. But in real life, when the rubber meets the road, it's not possible. And those guys are lying to you. they tell me that's a 'limiting belief' It soudns like we both get rejected and both get laid, though. I've been approaching for years! Probably more approached than you. I just came too a different conclusion to you. You get rejected and give a different reason for what I think when I get rejected. B…
/r/seduction26/01/26 01:50 PM
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this guy sleeps!!!
/r/seduction26/01/26 08:22 AM
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Nah, Advanced daygame is about screening for true interesy So even as an advanced guy, you're saying cold approach is more of a numbers game? (screening for the girls who are interested)
/r/seduction26/01/26 08:21 AM
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i think most rejections actually are because you're not her type. There's a coach here who does FR's and lots of his rejections are like that. Girls are just as visual as guys tbh edit: even the other coach/writer below me says it's about 'screening' and he's 'advanced' I and all the most advanced guys I know at this still get rejected all the time I mean, why are all those single girls rejecting you.Are you saying that your game isn't good enough for them? Despite being 'advanced'?
/r/seduction26/01/26 08:19 AM
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personally, I'd put my game against anyone. I'd certainly be confident that i'm at least as good as them or you. (obviously in the same body or whatever. I get at least as good results as anyone else) I talked to a girl last night that is messaging me right now I got laid last week with a girl who is messaging me!! Not just talked too. I didn't realise the bar was that low I've seen the worlds apparent best like Todd V (presumlably you're saying you know lots of secrets that he doesn't know) but…
/r/seduction25/01/26 08:33 PM
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watch infield from pros who dedicate their lives to this. Learn, Grow
/r/seduction25/01/26 04:36 PM
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Make sure to punch out, after. Rocking on the clock!!!!
/r/seduction25/01/26 11:44 AM
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I haven’t dated a supervisor before, how the hell do I go about this? do as you're told!!
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:04 AM
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look at the most upvoted reply Everyone agrees it's a numbers game. There's not even a dispute lol. Infields prove it. And even guys with the biggest mouths like the guy from the OP who I decided to meet in person and you crumble as soon as they have to prove themselves in front of me that they can make her want them. They get rejected by single girls despite all of their technique they're read about. Why? Because you can't MAKE a girl like you lol. Hell, even old school PUA's like Jeffy backtra…
/r/seduction25/01/26 09:28 AM
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should be stickied
/r/seduction25/01/26 09:23 AM
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I spoke to people who know him and gamed with him. His results were NOT impressive from waht I heard. I mean, in fairness it's quite surprising he got laid at all based on his mugshot from when he shot that girl in the face. But yeah, the standard of the old women he occasionally pulled apparently wasn't great.
/r/seduction24/01/26 07:05 PM
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yes, other than exceptional good looks, fame is a massive one. You can even be kinda ugly, but if you are a famous rapper or whatever, girls will let that slide
/r/seduction24/01/26 02:56 PM
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depends on how handsome he is, I guess. A very good looking dude would take a lot less than 60 approaches, even if he didn't know about pushpull and cold reads and other 'game'
/r/seduction24/01/26 11:50 AM
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This is closer to what I was trying to say to the other guy (epimpstyle), although I got downvoted for some reason lol. That, For most guys, there just aren’t many obvious “open doors,” so you still have to initiate. And even when a girl is socially receptive, that doesn’t necessarily mean she’s attracted, which is why you can have a lot of interactions that go nowhere even if you’re 'calibrated' and have 'perfect game'
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:49 PM
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yes, That very much seems to be the case and it fits my experience. But people (such as teh guy I met!!) imply in their writings that they are much better than that and that they MAKE the girl want them using 'game'
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:34 PM
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you understand what cold approach is? It's when you approach. If you wait for girls too approach you, it's gonna be a long wait!! haha. (unless you hit the genetic lottery)
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:28 PM
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No, you can’t, unless you’re very socially uncalibrated and unable to read basic social cues. unless you're saying to only approach if a girl gives you an indicator of interest, that is incorrect you can of course self eject and 'read basic social sklls' when she's giving you one word answers, but that is still a 'rejection' in my book. Hence i was right in that you could easily get 50 rejections in a row/girls who aren't attracted to you
/r/seduction23/01/26 05:49 PM
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problem is that people are fooled by randomness. YOu might 'reflect' adn decide that she rejected you becuse you smiled on the open (so next time look serious). Or was it because you went direct so the 'feedback' is to never go direct. Or was it because you asked her name, so never ask their name etc. Or did it actually not work because you just weren't her type and she wasn't attracted to you (so nothing would have 'worked') I tend to think basically everything 'works' (within reason) when you …
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:25 AM
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think of it like food. there's food you like and food you don't like. There's no 'maybe food'. It's about yes and no. Or if you see a girl in a magazine. You either think she's hot or you don't. There's no 'maybes'
/r/seduction19/01/26 08:11 AM
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yes, it's definitley a numbers game no matter what anyone says. That's because if you approach a girl and she is thinking 'hell no! Too old/short/ugly/whatever' and reacts bad to your open, it's over. Done. No amount of pushpull is gonna help. And depending on how you look and your age etc in relation to the girls you go for, you could get 500 'no girls' in a row. Leading to rejections, despite 'knowing game' And so in that way it HAS to be considered a numbers game where you need to 'get lucky'…
/r/seduction18/01/26 09:11 PM
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The girls who i've ended up banging have always been way more 'excited' to meet me and been much more responsive etc than the girls who end up rejecting me (hostile/barely talk back/bad body language). I think it becomes really obvious within seconds nowadays as to whether you are wasting your time or not Sometimes it's even the girls who approach.
/r/seduction18/01/26 10:48 AM
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can I dm you girls insta I like. You can tell me what to reply to whatever story she posts so i'll be able to see whether your lines work or not?
/r/seduction08/01/26 08:33 AM
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give verbal examples
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:27 PM
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yeah, I feel like at this point, we've got a very good idea of 'what's possible' with 'game' from infields etc, and tbh, it's not especially impressive. It's better than nothing and i'm not hating, but it's just not that impressive. The theme is that you need to approach a tonne of girls, and eventually you stumble upon one who likes you, and THEN everything appears to work (the pushpull lines etc) But what is teh explanation for the moutain of rejection that even the pros seem to get from singl…
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:31 PM
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What would you say is outdated about it? (I mean if he says to send a fax, you just send a text for example).
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:28 PM
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what happened to girls not being visual like all the coaches say?! They need to re-write the books lol ps - i have good looking friends who bang hot girls non stop who either approach them or just make it VERY easy for the guy. doesn't really matter what you say (game) if you are her type. It'll tend to work out fine. And if you're not her type, game won't help tbh. Saw a coach kyle vid earlier where he's trying to 'game' a girl who's clearly not interested and she ended up just saying 'bye' adn…
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:24 PM
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from what i've seen, you could say that all girls are immune to 'game' lol. I mean, in terms of using 'game' to make a girl attracted to you. She really seems to decide before the opener on a cold approach. Seen so many coaches strike out using their lines and stuff again and again. It's seemingly more of a numbers game than a 'skill' game
/r/seduction31/12/25 08:26 PM
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I see you've done your homework! yes, chase amante is a massive fraud who has never even had a single infield lol. WestIndianArchie I am aware of. A blogger who makes some interesting claims about 'game' and things he's seen, but agian, just pure anecdotal. Straus - fraud. People do'nt even actually know his story! And then they use his 'rizz' on a talk show with jessica alba as 'proof' that he's a slayer! it's crazy! Markus wokf: NOt bad tbh as far as PUA's go, BUT it's not exactly impressive. …
/r/seduction22/12/25 05:24 PM
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I don’t think there’s a single PUA in the world who would say ‘looks don’t matter’ pretty sure i could find you similar quotes from about 20 other dating coaches lol https://ibb.co/1HkFzzm
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:43 PM
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yes. Defeinitely a weirdo. I think I said that myself in teh post? lol Point is he'd obliterate john anthony and any other coach check out his livestreams. Girls way hotter and younger than teh PUA's get throwing themselves at him.
/r/seduction22/12/25 04:12 PM
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what do you mean? the point is that he thinks it's all about looks. Hence he gets surgeries and does EVERYTHING to be as good looking as possible. That IS his argument
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:25 PM
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only times i've seen him get a bad reaction is when he's genuinely being mean and trolling girls for views. And evne then (such as in his last vid) the hottest youngest one of them all was all over him still! (he just walked away from them and then hooked up with a stunner who I assume is his latest girlfriend) He has almost no charisma/personality etc. People compare him too a robot and say he's autistic. But it doesn't hurt him! point is, john 'should' win easily due to his 'game' and how he's…
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:20 PM
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yeah, that's his name
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:05 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejYYP--HJRo&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.redditmedia.com%2F&source_ve_path=MjM4NTE infield
/r/seduction19/12/25 04:47 PM
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because I was a shy nerdy boy. shows that being confident doesn't matter. being shy is fine too. It's just whether they find you 'hot' or not
/r/seduction19/12/25 10:59 AM
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I am no expert but from what i have learned, the game is not about making someone who is not interested in you become interested, in fact it is about finding those who already have some small attraction (or atleast they want to give a chance) be more attracted and build from that, this is why the context and first impression are important. yes, that ABSOLUTELY seems to be the case (I even read some field reports here from a dating coach with a tonne of experience and he kind of admitted the same…
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:39 PM
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thanks. Yeah, you're right. I actually had that exact thought in between approaches. Even a good looking dude with with God level game has absolutely no chance 'competing' against even a semi attractive girl. It just stung lol Funny thing is that it's not even news to me. I remember giving a friend the same advice you just gave me years ago when he broke up with his girlfriend who was now sleeping around lots adn he was like 'i'm gonna try to bang more girls than she bangs guys' and I told him t…
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:21 PM
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funnily enough one of my easiest ever lays was probably with one of the hottest girls i've ever banged. Absolute stunner. Only just turned 18 like a few days before. I was like twice her age lol Walked into a bar. She was on the dancefloor and was starring at me. I walked over to her and said 'hi' and danced a little and before you knew it we were kissing. Move her too a different part of the bar and rubbed her pussy over her clothes a bit and got her horny. She then tells me her parents are awa…
/r/seduction14/12/25 09:09 AM
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bot
/r/seduction12/12/25 01:37 PM
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bot
/r/seduction12/12/25 01:36 PM
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if you look 19-20, then of course
/r/seduction11/12/25 08:27 AM
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just keep approaching until you approach a hot young one for whom the age gap ISN'T an issue
/r/seduction10/12/25 07:34 PM
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make it 50!
/r/seduction10/12/25 01:28 PM
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if somsone wants it for cheaper than the 300+ they charge, I might be able to help
/r/seduction10/12/25 08:30 AM
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the alternative is to never appraoch though. I'll take the pain and decreasing confidence over time lol (hopefully with the occasional win when I open a girl who tihnks i'm handsome) But I must admit, after much researach, I do agree that we've been lied too about how we can make her attracted with the various technuiqes that are taught (pushpull etc)
/r/seduction10/12/25 08:15 AM
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No amount of evidence will convince someone who doesn't believe something can exist. i like to think i'd believe it tbh. But yeah, I'd need evidence lol. Hopefully RSD will hire a new coach who can do what none of the prior coaches could do and also show infeild of it!
/r/seduction07/12/25 12:20 AM
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However, if you're an eskimo with ONLY yellow snow (like me), then you better learn how to do it I've just never seen it been done and honestly I don't personally believe it can be just based on the evidence i've seen. But maybe one day a new dating coach will come out and prove me wrong using some never-before-seen tech!! (I hear RSD are coming back soon lol. Away from self help and back to pickup)
/r/seduction06/12/25 11:47 PM
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it's out of your control. Not worth worrying about it (but yes, easier said than done)
/r/seduction06/12/25 11:21 PM
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Succeeding with nonreceptive sets is one of the most difficult things to do, so even at the coach level, it's still relatively rare compared to receptive sets. yeah, maybe that's just the way it is. But it's mainly what i'm interested in. I wouldn't say i'm a 'natural' but honestly, if I approach a girl and she's receptive and stuff, i'm pretty good at getting the lay. But when it's clear off the open that she's not into me, it never goes anywhere. But that appears to be the same for the coaches…
/r/seduction06/12/25 10:56 PM
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A million times!! If you're in a bar, i'd say that reaction is basically a certainty IF you are not her type. Like, she's almost insulted you think you have a shot with her haha! Don't feel too bad. I've seen it happen in infields to people who teach this for a living! so there's just no getting around it It seems cold approach is about approaching the right girls
/r/seduction06/12/25 09:01 PM
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every time I see a coach pull on youtube, it's with a girl who was very receptive. I never see them get teh girls who are very cold.
/r/seduction06/12/25 07:38 PM
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Watch Todd V vids on youtube. He has many vids about pushpull. try ''you're trouble! me and you wouldn't get along' too get strong attraction
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:17 PM
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extremely looking good guy (in her eyes) isn't that a limiting belief? Women aren't visual
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:06 PM
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i think it will vary SO MUCH by things like your location, height, build, age, type of girl you go for etc I used to have 2 friends who both had amazing game. One of them got laid on a huge percentage of his approaches. Better than i've ever seen from the coaches we all know of. And the other dude who wasn't anywhere near as classically handsome DID get laid some, but his hit rate was a million times worse
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:04 PM
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people always say 'models' by mark manson. Download it. Shouldn't be hard to find for free
/r/seduction06/12/25 02:43 PM
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imply that he's trying too hard to pull the girl you are talking too. Try to put him on the spot.
/r/seduction06/12/25 02:42 PM
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Do you know anyone with a 100% approach to lay rate? If so, what methods do they use to convert girls who are extremely unwilling to comply? mysterymethod? (negs, DHV etc) or sometrhing else? regards
/r/seduction26/10/25 09:40 AM
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