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| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?So an adult young woman goes to work as a hooker. She does all of that by her consent and gets paid for sex. She sets the rules, if you want more you have to pay more. In most of the world they work for an agency, which sets the rules and promotes them. In other places it is totally legal and regulated where the sex workers are under protection of bouncers/bodyguards. If by that you mean doing a job that you don't want to do but you are forced because you have to afford the living, then the majo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 10:20 AM |
| 5 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itThat's because the majority of women use social media to get attention and validation. When they saw how high the demand is they monetized rewarding the attention. Why would women even bother making the first step or messaging first one random guy when they have other men lining up to give her everything she wants? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.She comes from a wealthy family, and I'm financially independent(no debts, my own place, being stable, have some life savings). We both are working and have managed well our free time. So money and priorities were not the issue or triggering any power dynamics as society likes to think. Yes 2 years since she's been away from high school and 1 more year since she graduates from university. In terms of maturity she has told me that she has struggled in the past with boys of her age(20-25) in being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 01:06 AM |
| 7 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.I'm 29 and my gf is 20. Technically we're both in our 20s. Still she gets a lot of hate among her male friends because of that and I get that too from my my female friends of my age. It's not a gen z problem. Back when I was 19-20 most of us boys would hate on girls of our age who went for much older guys. Thinking it was about them being too easy to manipulate and going for the money. Who could have thought that maturity, experience, having your life figured it out, being emotionally stable cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:45 AM |
| 3 | If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towel"Successful" men shoot their shot at every women at all times be it online or in public. Out of 100 at least one will agree to go out with you. And that's what these people show, hiding all those times they got rejected. Con artists and manipulative people(this goes for both genders) tend to pray and do some work before approaching. Some take the bait, some not. The best and the most common place to actually find someone to date is through a common environment. Workplace, a hobby or sports club.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman asking a man out make him respect her and the relationship less?No, but most of the time when the girl initiated the steps such as making the first approach it didn't end well. That's because they had this mentality that men can't say no and they were self entitled about everything coming next and bringing it up on every argument how the whole thing started because of them and it it was up to me, nothing would've happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 11:50 PM |
| – | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?I did. And it was more to avenge and finish what started. We dated on two different times through a year. At first she played games and led me on until she discarded me for her ex. I got in shape, better job, dressed better, moved on and was dating other girls. At some point she decided to get back at me during her desperate time, and I gladly accepted her. Dated her for a few months, planning a future together, marriage, kids and lovebombed her hard. Then when I got bored I discarded her just l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 12:28 PM |
| 3 | "You bring up the bad boys/Chad theme - just because you want to be bad and have sex!" - no, it's about the simple concept of justiceThe thing is men, as kids are taught from an early age to be nice and obey the rules and they will be rewarded. To put others respect in the first place and treat women nice by default. And to wait because the right partner will find them at an unexpected time. Which is a passive behavior and never intended to men. It is deeply problematic as this is a women narrative. Every part of our society is filled with women teaching boys how to be men, while fathers are tending more and more to forfeit f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenThe same goes for women. They all want and need men for attention and validation. If a guy is in a relationship and happy with his partner he wouldn't go around and talk with other girls. In contrast, women would require the attention and the validation be it from their male friends or online when their boyfriend is busy at work. Women like the excuse themselves before a break up "He never listened to me, I always expressed what was bothering and he never cared and didn't change so after a long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Why dont women start a single father epidemic?The law by default gives the custody to the mother wether it is from a divorce or a relationship while the father has to pay. There can be agreements such as spliting the time 50 50 or business days and weekends. The only times when the father is able to gain full custody is when it is proven that the mother has health issues, addiction or legal problems. So it is not men giving up on their kids in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Women cant complain when men dont care for themI don't care what women think. But I deeply care what my partner thinks and what she really needs. In general terms, men who stick to traditional values are the most successful ones not the ones who adapt to everything that women put up as a standard to date them. The first are called mysogynistic by todays values and society rules. But these rules can be easily be breached if you display masculine traits that have been desired for centuries. The traits that got men laid and helped them build a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:56 PM |
| 11 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyHumans and other animals have long migrated to find a mate when they were unable to do so in their place. Nothing wrong in going to S.America or Asia to find a wife wether it is true love or based on transactions. Having their own community where they help each other in a respectful way is also great. But the issue is that more often they don't take that step to actually go abroad. It is more of complaints on how Western women are bad and how they will regret rejecting these kind generous men. O… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultBut what if she is not experienced. Manipulators and abusers hit on everyone and see who takes the bait. Often targeting those who can't read red flags. This is true for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many men in relationships lust after women online?I've never been married but plenty of my friends are. From what I've seen their sex life is boring and have less action than I do. But it is not only that. Every one of them complains(not in details) about being disappointed from their wives on just having quickies. No roleplay, no seduction, no sexual fantasies. Only once in a blue moon they have these "wild adventures" when going on a weekend trip. So they seek to other forms of entertainment. It's not that they don't find their wives physical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 04:18 PM |
| – | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?You can have a dead badroom even to someone you are both physically attracted. And that is not being stimulated on emotional level, just primal lust. Which can be quickly overshadowed by an experience with a partner you didn't find that attractive, but eventually led to a sex with lots of communication, seducing, fun chasing games, expressing needs and preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?You have to make attraction happen. Create lust and desire. No woman would be attracted to you by default. Physical attraction are just a preference that don't last long. Bonding and being trusted are far more important. After that it gets a lot easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 12:02 PM |
| 0 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?This is a power struggle not a partnership. Your comment is why I don't like RP, because it preaches in avoiding and not how to engage. You have full control of your partner once you learn how to satisfy her in bed, how to build a safe space and provide security, not be afraid of these leverage you mentioned because you are confident in your own skin. You should make her feel desired and wanted all of the time and not only when you are horny. It may be hard to reach such balance but it is worth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently?I think something weird happening around 2015-2018 and it blew up in the recent years. My whole generation got obsessed with mentorship by narcissistic models and broken people. It started with women praising the mindset of being dettached from men. "It's okay to leave him sis and go dark for a week without telling anyone. You don't owe anything to them." Normalizing antisocial behavior. Nowadays it is even worse with normalizing stalking, sociopath behavior such as being jealous, possessive, tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 04:31 PM |
| – | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menIt is not legal in any country to expose someone personal information without their consent. There's a huge difference between telling a group of 3 friends that a girl you dated was crazy, to sharing to the world your face, your location, biography, and more. And trying to ruin someone else reputation without any evidence. This happens because men never take any legal actions towards such cases. Reminds me of tinder swindler. Lots of women have tried to manipulate men for their wealth and no one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 01:04 PM |
| – | All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal menThis is why most guys tell that women have zero accountability. Not like everyone of them, but this has become quite common and socially accepted from small things to creating social media pages exposing guys. "Are we dating the same guy" has a Facebook group for every city in North America throwing every detail they could find and go on a witch hunt. When we us men talk about a girl we be dating or a partner, we share only a few details and describe how we feel around them in short sentences. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 12:58 PM |
| -5 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themIt's not about putting down their career or goals. Most of the women I've met that had this kind of mindset of "building my own empire" didn't get too far in their life. Dated a girl who was obsessed with being independent and creating her own fashion brand and wanted to rival Fashion Nova. She had zero skills, no fashion education and in her words "an ambitious lady is more sexy than a housewife". All she did was buying cheap unbranded basic bikini and paying some cheap tailor to print her logo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on?When I approached and it worked out i had more fun and connected more. When I got approached in those rare cases, they were either broken women in their hoe phase or had this shitty mindset of being self entitled just by gender and how she did the first step and I should do all of the work. Turned out I got targeted and they were shitty too at manipulating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male?The thing is our society is not very much oriented towards any specific gender. You're on your own wether you're a woman or a man. This whole thing of binary or non binary policies, or women are amazing, are all part of marketing. Telling people what they want to hear so they can control such groups. More often women are targeted by companies be it a product or hiring. That's because 1) women tend to spend more than men(even if the men are the ones giving money to them) and 2) women tend to be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 11:25 PM |
| -1 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?Two years ago I dated a girl once and we didn't click. But her personality was so similiar to my best friend. So I told him to talk to her. Next year they are going to get married, and she thanked me for connecting them two. I don't mind at all and my friend isn't bothered that we once dated and went through the talking stage. This is more of an ego thing in women. I talked to a girl briefly, who turned out to have a boyfriend. She was the typical kind who wanted attention at all times. When I f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Women love to tell men what they're supposed to do, but men are almost always admonished for doing the same to womenFrom my experience this comes mostly from people who idolize trad values but only on a superficial level. They always end up disastified with their partner and are often miserable alone. Actual trad couples are mostly found in rural places or small towns and they are so disconnected from such labels or internet trends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Guys, Befriending Women isn’t a Solution.You shoot your shot in hopes she has a secret crush on you. You can try to seduce her if you got game. You can hide your feelings and get hurt when you watch her talk about dating other guys. Play the friend she can turn to you when she has problems with a boyfriend and cheat on him. What you do is up to you not to her regardless of her feelings or her reaction. If you express your feelings and she says she sees you only as a friend, you have the right to walk away and move on. You don't owe to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Guys, Befriending Women isn’t a Solution.I have female friends. I never text to them in daily basis. I only do when I want to reach out for a small talk about what is going on in their life or when we do group gatherings and events. Sometimes I meet with them when they need help or I'm in the same position and they can offer me a solution. Mostly to keep the network alive, same way I do with my male friends. I hang out and talk in daliy basis with 3 best friends who are men. I've never befriended a girl with the intentions to go window… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Women do not refuse the red pill arguments, they detest the label and who is declaring themWhat you are referring to is not limited to just women, and in the dating case it is of a small importance. This is purely modern marketing, especially with labelling and using successful people to attract the clients. Same way, most men would get an Omega watch because that's what James Bond wears, since he is a smooth ladies man, a sophisticated character(fictional) and knows what he does. When in reality, Daniel Craig has been regularly spotted not wearing any kind of watch and he just got pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 12:55 PM |
| 9 | Most men focus too much on specialists, whereas the reality is most women go for generalistsHaving attention is one of the biggest advantages women have. An average woman can afford rejecting top looking guys and pick one who is below them, just because she likes him. While men have to shoot their shot on multiple women to get one date. Social media has influenced this illusion of attention and options, which comes off as picky. Truth is women are picky as a form of revenge not as a real standard of values. And they come to reality only when they run out of options or see that guys los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 12:06 AM |
| 0 | Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average menThe only time women would drop their pants to a guy after a small talk happens only in the movies, or when they are wilding in drugs and drinks in a rave party. The rich guys who you see pulling girls, they are actually escorts. Lots of modelling agencies around the world that give women for events, parties, music videos, sports, ads etc. Even the most attractive guys would need to play the game and make the girl feel desired and valued before getting into sex. The secret lies wether the guy is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?This really depends. From my experience I've noticed a paradox. Women who were boring at first proved to be much more mentally and emotionally stable. And I found out later that they were just nervous and didn't know what to say because they were used to be fun around their girl friends not around men. The ones who just wanted my attention but didn't like me, were the most interesting. Deeply unstable and immature but they knew how to talk to men and how to seduce. The sole issue I had in the pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 02:52 PM |
| – | “Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point.Not everyone is the same, but women who are too immature to date and lack self awarness to own to their mistakes are more available and men would have more chance to meet such kind than a normal safe woman. And it creates the illusion that all women are like this. Most of us have already dealt with an adult woman who had the same notion of accountability of a kid. The typical kind that dumps you when they have the most of the attention and return when they run scarce. Plenty of inexperienced guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 02:24 PM |
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