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IntoTheWest/r/seduction06/04/16 01:46 PM
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I see it not on Feeld (dating app) where women will put in their bio they’re a size queen. Some even request verification in their bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:06 PM
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That’s not the point OP is making. He is saying he thinks roughly the same percentage of women expects her male date to pay [and so that expectation becomes normalized or expected overall] as women who like “bdsm lite” and so that sexual behavioral pattern becomes normalized overall EVEN IF not all women enjoy it. Edit: my belief is that sex should default to pretty vanilla standards and there should be clear communication around how and if you deviate away from that. I agree with OP many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:27 PM
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I have several women friends, a few of whom I’ve slept with, a few not. Most of my new friends are men, but I continue to make new (platonic) female friends into my late 20s. In general I value my relationships with women (duh), although I wouldn’t say I make friends with someone because they’re a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:35 PM
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Dude, if you’re 6ft+, have a bachelors, have a social circle, and a a six pack, either you’re not approaching women in the right way, are really ugly (have a hard time believing this given all the other things), or have standards that are way too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:02 AM
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first ONS
/r/seduction13/04/16 11:10 PM
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Just get better at talking at hot chicks. Don't actively try to suppress thinking they're hot, cause that just makes it less fun. And its a pretty unhealthy mentality all around. Trying to trick yourself into thinking they're not attractive is implicitly affirming the assertion that it's not normal/you're not worthy of talking to attractive women
/r/seduction19/04/15 02:47 AM
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That's misleading. Technically correct means that it is strictly correct, or by "precise facts." Technically correct would have been "100% of men are men." The statement "85% of men are men" can imply that the remaining 15% of men are not men, which is false, and therefore does not fit the definition.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/15 02:05 AM
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its not even technically correct
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/15 04:53 AM
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oh come on, I know what you're getting at, but lets be real, a "5" guy is going to be a whole lot more interesting/smart/funny/rich than an "8" guy. We can overcome differences, but don't pretend they don't exist
/r/seduction16/09/14 10:19 PM
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Get a lawyer. DON'T DO ANYTHING UNTIL YOU GET A LAWYER AND TELL HIM/HER EVERYTHING. Take your lawyer's advice on what to do next, not people here. Most (maybe all) are well intentioned, but it is likely they don't know how to properly navigate the law, ask pertinent questions of you, and/or how your specific university deals with these matters. You may have a case, you may not. YMMV. For what its worth, both my parents are lawyers, and if there's one thing I've learned, its to lawyer up and keep…
/r/MensRights24/12/13 10:12 AM
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Depends on the future we want and the past we want to look back on. Something just clicked with this. Thank you, I really needed to hear that.
/r/seduction19/12/13 10:13 AM
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I get what you're saying, but the difference here is the train seat called dibs on her guy too.
/r/seduction18/12/13 09:28 PM
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I hear you dude. It's easy to say fuck it, if she's down, I'm down. She can do it anyway, and the only one losing out is me. That's true, you are making a sacrifice for the benefit of someone else. You just gotta decide what you think is right and wrong, who you want to be, and then you got to do it. I really get where you're coming from. The right thing isn't always easy, but in the long run, I would rather be proud or my character than have another fuck.
/r/seduction18/12/13 09:26 PM
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While I think just from a numbers perspective you're right about not chasing attached women- more likely to get rejected, I do think there's a moral component. Imagine we have two guys, a guy who is willing to sleep with an attached woman, and one who is not. If everybody acted like guy B, there would be no cheating. I think everybody would agree that this is a good for society, for every guy and gal, including you. If we have people like guy A, we lose that good. So we can conclude that its bet…
/r/seduction18/12/13 06:36 AM
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I think you're right about the desire for attention and drama, and I wouldn't want to be involved with that either. There's plenty of other girls out their mate, and you're making the right decision.
/r/seduction18/12/13 06:22 AM
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Apparently Im in the minority in this thread, but if she's attached- whether I know the guy or not- I don't make a move and I don't respond to advances. Just because she is saying its okay doesn't change the fact that you are facilitating her cheating. If she cares about you that much, then she should breakup with her bf. Do the right thing dude, even if its hard.
/r/seduction17/12/13 10:04 PM
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I appreciate your commitment to your statement. Upvoted.
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:07 PM
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This is very important. Body language, eye contact, and delivery of speech are some of the best generators of interest.
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:06 PM
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I think this mostly applies to American women, where kissing on the cheek is NOT a greeting. It might be acceptable from foreign men, but not really from other Americans. I generally agree with your point on hand-holding though. I don't see why its even on the list. To me hold hands is exclusive to relationships and implies a lot of emotional involvement.
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:05 PM
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Breasts are one of the things with girls where you really don't know what you're getting. Bras can make saggy tits look perky, hide imperfect aerolas/nipples, hell even make them bigger with wonder/push-up bras. Many girls are self-conscious about their breasts and these issues. Playing with them/removing bras can trigger that negativity and detract from the mood. And if they try and stop your breast-play, they might feel hypocritical about going further and throw-up some LMR.
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:01 PM
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Been busted three times in a park by the fuzz. Just got told to leave, never go to court.
/r/seduction14/08/13 01:13 AM
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That's when you go and turn the stove on haha
/r/seduction14/08/13 01:12 AM
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Coffee shops work pretty well. Now that summer rolled around, icecream and froyo are pretty casual too.
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:21 AM
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In addition to what the others are saying (which is great advice imo) I would also start running some more social circle game- which is when you tend to get to know the girls a lot better before anything happens.
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:19 AM
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You should pursue what makes you happy- that ultimately is more important to your own self-fulfillment, but also will come across as more genuine and in sync with your personality (which will help with others). That being said, make sure you are able to talk about your passions in a way that is relatable. If someone asks about programming (which I am not hugely familiar with) talk about how programming forces you to be creative, or inventive, or you like that it challenges you to come up with el…
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:15 AM
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I agree with b1ly. Also, Spanish girls tend to be raised in a more touchy society, so kino is more important and it is likely that she will respond well. Good luck!
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:11 AM
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There's a lot of truth in that. I remember a girl telling me she didn't want to give me head (and ended her last casual thing cause the guy was pretty insistent) and I was completely cool with it. I told her that she didn't owe me anything and I was going to respect the boundaries she set up. That didn't stop us from getting naked and her changing her mind, but I am confident if I was insistent or had I asked, she would definitely not wanted too.
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:09 AM
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You're all up in this thread and giving really solid advice. Thanks for helping with the community and good luck hunting bro
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:07 AM
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haha I like OP's response: nahh, it's too much work to get friend-zoned
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:52 AM
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I think the essence of this is true, but don't forget that cities and their inhabitants do take on a certain flavor (both men and women) so there is something to be said about having a preference for one city's vibe over the other.
/r/seduction07/06/13 05:43 AM
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Quality escalation. Good hunting
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:36 AM
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Yeah maybe so, but if you took out all the girls who weren't looking to hookup, you'd see a lot fewer girls and the gender ratio would get shot to hell.
/r/seduction12/05/13 06:08 PM
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Great work! I like Char's way of approaching (or getting them to approach you). I spent a good 10 seconds waving like an idiot haha.
/r/seduction29/03/13 09:30 PM
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Nice FR. I think the basic setup of MUN (Model United Nations for those wondering) makes it a great place to work on approaching. Which conference were you at? I'm going to NAIMUN and NHSMUN and if you're going we should meet up for a bit.
/r/seduction30/01/13 05:34 AM
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Solid FR. If theres a clear age difference and it could be a problem, either agree and amplify: "163" or go with "old enough"
/r/seduction28/01/13 04:54 AM
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He's saying closing isn't your problem, its attraction and connection in the first place. That was the advice, you should focus on building attraction and forming a connection. Keep it cool, funny, and light-hearted and work on kino.
/r/seduction17/01/13 11:49 AM
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no emotional involvement I think is what he means
/r/seduction29/10/12 11:48 PM
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I'm not old enough to drink. What locations would you recommend as a good date spot? (just because its one of the example questions doesn't mean I don't want to know the answer).
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:00 AM
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After a few dates with each of them, cut a few loose. Your schedule will get too hectic, and you want to have some space, esp to maybe see a few new girls. Seems like a good problem to have ;)
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:56 AM
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Single greatest thing I have ever read.
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:44 AM
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THERE IS HOPE
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:33 AM
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