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| 1 | What’s your guys processes for being a good wingman?Simple but effective | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What’s your guys processes for being a good wingman?Yeah makes sense. Like I’ve approached entire groups with my group of friends I think I just inadvertently command a lot of attention away not because I’m more “interesting” then them or whatever but I just am able to “sell” myself better in that sense. Best way I can explain it I guess but yeah, so that’s why I’m trying to see what other peoples strats are and lots of good advice here | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 07:12 PM |
| 0 | How to initiate sex?Context is everything And if you decided to read my further comments rather then just make this comment you’d even see that I say to ask for to consent | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate sex?And frankly don’t be afraid to ask if things are already when you do them and such. I’ve always asked and girls have always greatly appreciated it. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate sex?And don’t take it personal if a girl doesn’t want to move forwards either. There’s a multitude of reasons why they might not and majority of the time it’s nothin to do with you | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 7 | How to initiate sex?A lot of women will tell you if you’ve gone to far, they might swipe your hand away if you try and put it in certain places. It all depends on the situation like if you guys are making out then just go for it with some attempts to push the foreplay | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”Yes this stuff happens But at the end of the day I feel like this is such an over analysis. Some men/women suck. Some want/don’t care about being approached, some don’t want to be approached. Some are polite some aren’t. This is the mindset that snowballs into not approaching cuz of fear of what someone will say or how they will react. Some people suck and I too have had people say terrible things to me like this but at the end of the day, that is more so a problem with them then it is with me, … | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.It’s not so much being cocky/arrogant etc, but about giving off the energy of not being insecure and unsure of yourself. I really like the way you break it down at the end because confidence isn’t about bragging about yourself and making it seem like you’re better then other men, that’s just arrogance. Confidence is just being comfortable with yourself and not trying to compare yourself to others by making yourself seem better. Like for example I love some very weird shows, like downton abbey an… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | I get dates with way more attractive girls through cold approach than OLD. Am I just that unphotogenic?In my personal experience yes. I mean you obviously have to be decent at cold approaches/like I said have confidence to do so. But I think dating apps can be overrated personally, but then again I am a bit younger so I am really speaking to younger age ranges and my own experiences from dating apps vs in person interaction as well as other friends All this being said what works for me doesn’t work for everyone and vice versa, some people are much better at attracting on apps. I feel I’m not that… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I get dates with way more attractive girls through cold approach than OLD. Am I just that unphotogenic?Oftentimes it’s hard to portray confidence and personality in online dating apps. You’ll almost always have more success doing cold approach/in person interaction then on dating apps unless you look like the most gorgeous man alive Not only is it hard for your personality/confidence to show through as well as other things on apps, sometimes they can feel way to much like a game, and there are definitely lots of women (and men) who treat the app like a game just for attention. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 11:08 AM |
| 20 | Think back to some of the most fun and flirty conversations you've had with women...what were you talking about?Random stuff. The times I’ve had the most fun and flirtatious conversations, as cliche as this will sound, was when I wasn’t trying to, and I was just talking about things that both of us enjoyed, and the two of us were just vibing. Don’t get me wrong, this us through a lot of trial and error, I’ve had tons of bad convos too so don’t get down just cuz every convo doesn’t turn out great | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 4 | Is it possible to get an ex back by reinventing yourself?Well said | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to get an ex back by reinventing yourself?Aside from the fact you should be bettering yourself for your own sake, this isn’t a question that’s just a yes or no, it all depends on the breakup, the person, the situation, the ages etc | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?Oh yeah for sure | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?Yeah but that’s not so much to do with the method of contact you choose to ask for and more about the approach | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?I mean both have there merits, I can see why guys like asking for numbers cuz it is more forward but Instagram just gives me a lot more info personally and like you said makes the experience easier | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:17 PM |
| 16 | Getting phone number vs Getting Instagram?I go for instagrams. For multiple reasons. A if a girl is let’s say “on the fence” or if I want to keep it super casual then asking for an Instagram is always like why not it’s just Instagram, vs asking for a number which some girls may be like woah that’s to forward, whereas people seem to be a lot more comfortable giving out an Instagram Also, for example, I ask for an Instagram, I follow them but they don’t follow me back then I know they aren’t very interested or if I’m really intrigued by t… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | What has been your experience when you had to reject someone romantically?I’ve not rejected many people as I’m usually the approacher, one girl didn’t take it very well and told me “I wasn’t that great anyway” and the other girl was very mature and understanding and we moved on our ways the best way possible | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Information overload…At the end of the day the entire sub can more or less be summed up to being confident with yourself, and practicing. Finding the opportunities to put yourself out there and adopting the mentality that any girl you talk to at the end of the day is just a girl. Will not be the only one you ever find attractive or to show you attention and don’t get hung up on rejection. Just keep putting yourself out there With dating apps specifically I will say go out and take some nice pics with a few different… | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Hitting it off with a girl, feeling you could kiss her, but just can't find a right moment? Try this line.Another update perhaps | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 02:27 AM |
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