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HealthIntrepid-Fan-6122/r/MensRights10/10/23 09:02 AM
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Take away: do not be honest with women about your history. Instead, tell them what they want to hear.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 10:54 PM
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Literally ANY other group... This post/thread is a good example of how/why I have transitioned from being a lifetime lefty to something else. The far left has become radicalised and has left me.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 10:46 PM
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They have a distorted sense of reality due to their need to portray themselves as victims of men. Their echo chamber reinforces it. Nothing pisses them off more than statistics showing otherwise. And nothing makes them care less than men being actual victims.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 05:52 AM
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First, we need to create a safe working environment for male teachers. Male high school teachers are too vulnerable to false allegations from female students wanting to "have fun" or retaliate.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:58 AM
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Many male suicides have to be slow suicides from alcohol/drug use. Might not be recorded as suicide but they effectively are.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:43 AM
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10 years from now: did you know that 1 in 20 suicide victims are WOMEN?? Act now to prevent the epidemic of female suicide.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:40 AM
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The only person who gives a shit about me is my mom.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:38 AM
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And gotten those responsible for it permanently cancelled.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:29 AM
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Well done lads for calling out the BS in this piece. It shows that even men can be feminists in sheep's clothing. A few thoughts. From the piece: "This means that while women are more likely to be diagnosed with anxiety and depression, men are less likely to be diagnosed at all." Except for ADHD where boys are much more likely to be diagnosed because of their lesser ability to conform to the behavioral norms of the feminist-designed classroom and educational system. I guess that diagnosis doesn'…
/r/MensRights21/10/23 11:43 PM
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To your point, I expect dating dynamics change dramatically for men from their 20s to 30s. Women have all the power in their 20s. 30s women are ready to settle down and find a good man, but most chads are already taken, so the guy who couldn't get a date in his 20s had plenty of options in his 30s. And in the 40s, women are divorced and looking for love again, and again, men are in the driver's seat. I can speak from experience, beautiful 40s women will throw themselves at you if you are a norma…
/r/MensRights21/10/23 10:49 PM
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Jesus Christ bro, I am so sorry to hear you are going through that ridiculous situation.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 08:07 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights19/10/23 05:28 AM
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Do you have a citation for that 8x stat? If so, I'd be grateful if you could post a link!
/r/MensRights18/10/23 10:47 PM
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My ex has 100% custody of my 17-year-old. I had to move to another state for work. I pay about $400 per week in child support.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 10:42 PM
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This is a very good point. It is exceptionally difficult to prove your accuser deliberately lied. Much easier to show they have inadequate evidence to show the accused committed a crime. It's a burden of proof issue.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 06:01 AM
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There are no feminists when it's time to go to war. Or move your house.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 09:13 PM
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It doesn't work that way. Women are believed, men are not. A man who accuses a woman of sexual harassment is likely to find the tables turned on him. All that has to happen is for the woman to say, no, he harassed me. This happened to a friend of mine. It's dangerous out there.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 03:12 AM
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This guy's experience should be a major media story. Honestly. This shit needs to be called out publicly.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 03:04 AM
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That is terrible. I have a male friend who is a high school PE teacher. He lives in fear of the female students and tries to keep his distance as much as possible. He tells me schools are so afraid of lawsuits that they are quick to believe student accusations and fire teachers regardless of evidence or due process. They do not protect their own teachers. He also tells me that students know this which gives them power over teachers. They know that all they have to do is make a false allegation t…
/r/MensRights16/10/23 11:47 PM
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This is why false allegations need to be punished. When girls/women know they can get away with ruining a man's life "for fun" without consequence, cases like this are to be expected. The girls who did this should be arrested and criminally charged. We probably need new criminal legislation specific to this type of crime. Without it, it is not safe for male teachers.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 08:56 PM
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The war in Ukraine is a great example of how seeing the world from a men's rights perspective allows one to see things differently. I abhor Russia's invasion of Ukraine but I also abhor Ukraine's blatant sexism and disregard for the lives of its men.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 05:34 AM
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You make good points. So why do you think boys suffer more than girls from this approach?
/r/MensRights10/10/23 11:47 PM
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Unless she said it due to internalized misogyny from the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 11:03 PM
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Yes. I noticed the same wording in my country's main news outlet. The hostages "included women and children" as if to emphasise that they weren't merely disposable men whose lives matter less.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 10:56 PM
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Totally agree. Problem is the people who do this kind of work are not as you said. Work needs to be done.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:58 PM
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Great example, one of many possibilities, of what it might look like for "experts" to actually help boys. What does mental health look like? Doing stuff.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 01:14 PM
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I cannot honestly tell what you are advocating. Could you please be more clear? I'm interested to know where you are coming from, thank you.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 12:55 PM
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I'm sorry, I don't understand. Can you re-state your point in simpler terms?
/r/MensRights10/10/23 12:44 PM
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I hear you. When I was 13, I woke up every morning at 5 AM for my paper route. Was excluded from the cool rich club at school. Bullied, in the true sense of the word. And that was just life. Miserable but not always, created my own pockets of companionship and fun. As we all did. That was life. Being a teenager was filled with ups and downs. Whatever. Mental illness? We all would have laughed at the notion. No words can describe how mortified I would have been to be chucked into an "emotion regu…
/r/MensRights10/10/23 12:33 PM
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Thanks for your comment. I think that is true for everyone. It speaks to the fact that reactions to directions to focus on inner experience are not always helpful. Indeed, this is a known thing. Research (in addition to the study I mentioned) shows can harm: https://mentalhealth.bmj.com/content/25/3/117.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 12:04 PM
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Thanks for your comment. Nobody said the boys were "mistreated." The results show that the intervention was generally harmful but much more so for boys. They recommended more research be done on their demonstrably harmful intervention. Thank you.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 11:58 AM
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I understand your point, thank you. They come from the default ideological view of a female feminist approach to the profession including this issue. They didn't have to declare it. It's evident in their study as should be obvious.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 11:07 AM
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It's because you are a man, period.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 10:46 AM
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Definitely.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 10:40 AM
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I will add that ethically, it is more important to know that an intervention is harmful than helpful. First, do no harm.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 10:23 AM
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I agree. You cannot hide from results that bad, all you can do is "massage" them looking for moderators (like homework engagement) and argue that it might have been effective if not for this or that, and future research should study this. I hear you and applaud them in the sense you described, but for me, the smoking gun is their conclusion: more research is needed on how to make our harmful intervention effective. Honesty only goes so far, apparently. The sunk cost fallacy is powerful. Note: th…
/r/MensRights10/10/23 10:18 AM
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HR is a dream job for feminists. It's all centered on creating and enforcing rules for others behavior with an emphasis on punishing men for making women "uncomfortable". For instance, they have redefined sexual harassment as actions that make women "feel" uncomfortable regardless of the man's intent (and we all know discomfort depends on the man's desirability). An HR job is a man-hating radical feminists fantasy. They have added a huge burden to the workplace - endless hours of orientations an…
/r/MensRights08/10/23 06:31 AM
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We all know why.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 06:08 AM
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Guessing they rely on women to get re-elected. Sometimes the equation is more simple than it seems.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 06:07 AM
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While I agree with your comment in the context of this ChatGPT post, I (and presumably many of us here) don't view feminism and men's rights as the same. Men's rights is about equality and feminism is about female privilege and superiority.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 06:06 AM
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So male applicants can have a safe space.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 11:38 PM
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Feminism: a world in which something is true if it feels like it is. As a person who values objective reality - even when acknowledging it doesn't feel good - this perspective drives me nuts.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 02:00 AM
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But patriarchy?
/r/MensRights04/10/23 07:48 AM
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No words can show how furiously I agree with your comment.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 07:45 AM
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She didn't intend to kill the person, known to her for decades, she stabbed in the heart with a knife. Really? You can't make this shit up. From the article: "She claimed the stabbing was an accident and insisted she did not know her husband, 55, had been wounded until she found him lying at the end of a trail of blood. Hanson, who was convicted of murder following a one-week retrial, was today jailed for life with a minimum of nine years."
/r/MensRights04/10/23 07:41 AM
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If so, that is shocking as very few Aussies own guns. Fair enough, we must run in different circles. Where I used to live in the US, the average person had multiple guns. Anyway, thank you for joining our discussion.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 09:54 AM
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I live in Australia which has extremely strict gun control laws. Almost nobody here has guns. 75% of suicides here are men.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 03:44 AM
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Guessing he cannot sue her for defamation, or that it doesn't make sense all things considered. False allegations need real consequences.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 03:37 AM
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He isn't, he used km and not miles as a unit of measure. Dead giveaway. I am grateful to hear OP's experience. Life can be rough out there for men.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 03:31 AM
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Men have been socialising her to commit this crime her entire life. It was inevitable.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 03:24 AM
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The case was so serious that she was tried as a man.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 12:51 AM
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And the stress she was under.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 12:50 AM
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I discovered this in middle age when I got divorced. Overnight, almost all friends vanished, became financially ruined, almost nobody cared. My main function in life became being a wallet. Still is.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 02:20 AM
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Thank you young man for your post and awareness of these issues. You will do well in life, I am sure of it. Thanks for joining us. Stay a while and learn with us.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:58 PM
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Totally agree! But teaching boys this would require education about woman on man abuse which is not permitted. Honestly, let's think about this. Mine is not a throwaway snarky comment. This is real and important. But I imagine the narrative required to give voice to this side of the equation will have no support. Nobody gives a shit about men.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:52 PM
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A "real" man or woman is in the eye of the beholder. I have my own idea of a "real" woman but that is totally unique to me and I have no expectation that it corresponds to anyone else's, and that is totally fine. I only refer to the term "real woman" in my mind and would never speak it let alone, for fuck's sake, advocate publicly for it. To do so would require an epic level of narcissism.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 11:42 PM
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Honestly, much respect. What you did took much courage. Fist bump. 👊
/r/MensRights01/10/23 05:54 AM
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14, bitch!!
/r/MensRights30/09/23 12:12 AM
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I'm guessing this initiative was championed by the 3% of women who are so epically unattractive than they have never experienced unwanted staring.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 12:07 AM
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Yep: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.abc.net.au/article/102868618.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 12:04 AM
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Sexual harassment now includes "leering," which is unwanted staring. By this definition, an attractive woman is sexually harassed every time she walks down the street. The photo posted by the OP perfectly captures the insanity of the current discourse. Where are the reasonable people with common sense in the institutions responsible for these initiatives/policies? There will be pushback and it won't be pretty. Men will increasingly ignore women and this will drive women mad because they will no …
/r/MensRights29/09/23 11:44 PM
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We celebrate diversity! But not that kind of diversity.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 02:54 AM
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At the heart of this matter is "concept creep" https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Concept_creep. Harm-related concepts like abuse, trauma, violence have expanded in recent decades. When I was a kid, bullying was getting punched. Now, bullying is not playing with an unlikeable kid on the playground during recess. Violence now has been redefined to include words. Abuse now has been reframed to include thoughts. One can be a "victim" of "violence" and "abuse" now for receiving an unwanted text message…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 02:41 AM
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Happy wife, happy life? Yeah, nah. If that is your mission in life, what happens if your marriage ends? Thanks for your post.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 02:29 AM
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Great comment, thank you.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 02:28 AM
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What is the root cause of the female over-expression of emotions? Your question reveals your philosophical starting point. What is the basis for starting there as opposed to the vantage point that leads to my question? Main point: how about we acknowledge that men are not women and that is OK?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 11:48 PM
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This to me seems the fundamental organisizing principle of modern society. This is considered acceptable because white men "had their time" and now need to step back and accept discrimination.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 11:02 PM
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According to the Duluth Model system of policing/adjudicating domestic violence, if a woman slaps a man and the man slaps her back, the man is a DV perpetrator and will have the book thrown at him. She is a victim, even though she started it and did the same thing the man did, because she is a woman and therefore inherently the victim. The patriarchy means women should have no accountability for their actions.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 06:44 AM
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I get what you're saying. You'd want to know why. But is it really a mystery? A father taking photos of his child at a kid's sporting event. Is it not 100% obvious why? I just don't understand how there is any reasonable doubt that leads to the need to make sure. I work with clients who have anxiety disorders and this reflects their typical mindset: overestimation of threat and intolerance of uncertainty. I don't think we should celebrate this way of thinking as reasonable or diligent.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 05:59 AM
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Why though? When you see a man of dad age, standing in the middle of kids running around playing a sport while taking pictures, why would you suspect that he might be a pedophile who has taken the opportunity to use the sport as cover to take pictures of young children in swimwear for his sexual gratification? Why would you take that concern so seriously that you would ask the man what he is doing? That I do not understand. I don't see the world that way and it upsets me that in just a few decad…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 10:32 PM
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Thank you for proving my point. I imagine I was equally suspect when pushing my daughter on the swing given that it occasionally involved me touching her bottom. And diaper changing, well, no words for how inappropriate that must have been. Cuddling together in bed while reading a book? Grooming, right? I feel sorry for you. The world is not what you think it is. I hope you come to see that someday. Thanks for commenting.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 10:44 AM
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You are correct that I did not understand and I much appreciate your correction. Thank you.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 09:40 AM
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I think the premise is spot on and supported by a mountain of obvious evidence which forms the basis for the existence of this subreddit.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 09:20 AM
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They see us as creeps, predators, pedophiles, intrinsically violent and threatening. It shows up in various contexts including unfortunately walking down the street while just being normal and nice. Sorry that happened to you, it's ridiculous but speaks volumes about the messages women are getting in society today. My similar experience - I enrolled my kids in a popular surf lifesaving beach activity club, literally 100+ kids between ages 5 and 15 running around the beach and surf doing events a…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 09:03 AM
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Welcome home from your 60 hour work week, honey. I've made dinner. You can do the dishes afterwards - I didn't clean any of them as I cooked. Don't forget to spend 4 hours of your Saturday doing yard work. The kids are yours this weekend as I've had them all week and need a break.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 03:09 AM
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We have the Duluth Model to thank for this. It incentivizes women to use threats of their legal power to control men. "Do what I say or I'll call the police, and you know they will believe whatever I say." And they will because according to the Duluth Model, women are always victims and men are always perpetrators. This happened to me with an ex and it is absolutely disgusting. I have no words to describe the flood of negative emotion I experienced when she would pull out her phone and say "I'm …
/r/MensRights23/09/23 10:11 PM
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The media is feminist. I've been really noticing this lately in part due to the Russell Brand allegations. If you want non-feminist news and commentary, you can find it on YouTube where feminists are trying to cancel prominent voices like Brand and Jordan Peterson who promote a different perspective.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 10:02 PM
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The dominance of the Duluth Model means it doesn't matter. Ever, no matter the context. Make no mistake, the science around domestic violence is unrelated to policy, law, and media coverage.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 02:46 PM
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Genuinely curious, what percentage of your classmates are women, and your teachers are women? To the extent there are any men there, do they say anything out loud about their perspective (assuming it is different which it may not be)?
/r/MensRights22/09/23 01:12 PM
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Yes. Here is something mind-blowing: world chess championships have an open division and a women's division. I watched The Queen's Gambit on Netflix and enjoyed it. But in reality, women can't come close to competing with men at the highest level in chess. Learning this surprised me because I've always thought the smartest women were as smart as the smartest men. Perhaps chess is a reminder that men and women are in fact different and have unique strengths and weakness in certain domains, and th…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 12:16 PM
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There are more men than women at the extremes of the IQ bell curve.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 08:51 AM
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That is exactly what will happen.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 02:59 AM
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I predict that in the not too distant future we will see a backlash to this in the form of overtly "traditional" (for lack of a better word) dating spaces where women disillusioned with radical feminism who seek a relationship based on more traditional gender roles will go to find a man who aligns with their values. Such women will find themselves in extreme demand, more so than their radical feminist peers who realise that sleeping around is not a recipe for finding something real with a good m…
/r/MensRights21/09/23 07:43 AM
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To your list, I would add "my money is my money, your money is our money." Strong, independent, empowered feminist women feel entitled to have men pay for everything. Women want to make just as much money as men (no gender pay gap) but want a man who makes more money than them so he can pay for everything.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 01:02 AM
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Psychology. I work mostly with female students in their 20s.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 10:37 PM
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Being surrounded by femininists in my 80% female profession who see the world totally differently than I do and not being able to speak my mind for fear of being ostracized and punished. They believe in the patriarchy, view women as victims, and think sex (not just gender) exists on a continuum. The world is going increasingly mad and we're not allowed to call it out lest we be cancelled.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 09:41 PM
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This community is a gift. I feel the same way!
/r/MensRights20/09/23 05:43 AM
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That video is excellent. Thanks for the great resource.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 05:38 AM
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I can't remember what I had for dinner last week.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 12:30 AM
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"Thoughtcrime was not a thing that could be concealed forever. You might dodge successfully for a while, even for years, but sooner or later they were bound to get you." -George Orwell, 1984
/r/MensRights18/09/23 10:34 PM
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This is what happens when speech is considered "violence." "Anyone who says words hurt has never been punched in the face." -Chris Rock
/r/MensRights18/09/23 10:27 PM
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Totally agree. According to the authorities, I have to pay my ex $450 per week to support my 17 year old. She had full custody as I had to move to another state for work. I've basically paid my ex's rent for 5 years.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 01:40 AM
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I recommend this book to better understand the abuse of men by women: https://www.amazon.com/Abuse-men-women-happens-hurts/dp/0983433879.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 01:16 AM
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Male psychologist academic here. Where I live, 80% of psychologists are women. 80% of our students are women. I am the only male professor in our program. The majority of faculty across the university, and also recently tenured/promoted faculty, are women. The uni offers 2 workshops for preparing for promotion, one for everyone and one specifically for women. We need men and their perspective. Badly. Feminist ideology has led to some things becoming absurd, like gender identity stuff. You can't …
/r/MensRights27/08/23 02:13 AM
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At my institution, 60% of academics who get promoted to tenured professorships are women. Two workshops provided by my university to assist academics in getting tenure are available. One for everyone and one specifically for women.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 11:25 AM
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Fucking thank you. This is the only point, really. To each their own. Freedom of expression. You do you it's all good! Just don't think you should be entitled to change others' behavior for you.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 11:15 AM
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Do you think he has a point?
/r/MensRights26/08/23 11:05 AM
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I couldn't care less about the extent to which a man conforms to traditional masculinity. I don't see that as relevant to the main issues we all care about.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 07:56 AM
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This situation is so complicated. But a somewhat relevant quote comes to mind. Her body, her choice. His wallet, his choice.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 07:53 AM
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Please respond to the actual content of the previous post. Telling someone they are irrational is rude and intellectually dishonest. Thank you.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 05:41 AM
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The law should require women who made false paternity allegations leading to child support payments from the (false) father to repay every dollar they received plus an additional percentage. I can't imagine how it would feel to learn you've been supporting another man's child.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 05:10 AM
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