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| -1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Finance | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 04:53 PM |
| 13 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?Don’t! | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Great first date, kissing, positive texts… then she ghosted after I asked for a second date. Now she texted again. How should I respond?That’s it - she’s juggling options. Or she’s just distracted by other things. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)?I’m older than that - if they like you for an initial meeting, they’ll show up for coffee, a walk in the park or anything casual. Don’t waste your time or money on those who come in with high expectations and bring nothing to the conversation. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)?Their loss then - they weed themselves out and do the guy a favor. Are you there for the guy or are you there for a free meal? | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)?When they “the date” suggest or rather insist an expensive restaurant as a place to meet for dinner for a first meeting, that’s a good sign they are looking for a free meal. If they like you, they’d meet you for a hot dog because they don’t care about the food as much as seeing you. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 06:05 PM |
| 3 | How to trust a womanWhen she proves it to you | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl?No - the right woman doesn’t need drama to make you feel good | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | what made you give up on dating & women?I never implied that. | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | what made you give up on dating & women?Of course, talk about her but if say you ate in a particular type of store - a food establishment, you can weave in something about the place other than do you come here often, just to get the conversation started, | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 12:53 PM |
| 3 | what made you give up on dating & women?Take a public speaking class / learn to speak about anything without fear - if you can speak like a normal person and not be nervous or show anxiety of rejection you are 90% of the way there. Don’t try cheesy pickup lines, say something about the environment you’re in - a store, whatever and get her talking. You’ll gain more confidence and confidence is attractive to people, in general. Own your behavior and go with it. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive?You haven’t been around enough men yet. Stop hanging with the boys looking for a parent. | /r/seduction | 14/06/23 06:18 PM |
| 2 | what is a high value man?Yup - (Guy here) guys should apply the same when searching for their perfect companion. Stay away from shallow and vapid women. There’s a lot of high quality females out there, it’s worth the wait. | /r/seduction | 01/06/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?"Because there’s much more than meets the eye, but only if you are game to try. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully asked a waitress out?Why don’t you break the mold and either tip her like a tourist does or compliment her (nothing to do with her service either) and just ask if she’d like to grab a cup of coffee when she gets off shift or another time? | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | pills/ drugs to help me overcome anxiety?Look into l-theanine - non habit forming, non addictive, no prescription. Look it up, it’s the amino acid in green tea, it will calm you down without the caffeine. Don’t get hooked on Xanax or other benzodiazepines | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 10:25 PM |
| 196 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?Thinking that women are some prize to be captured, a trophy! Instead of looking at them as another person with their own interests, values and thoughts. Just talk to them like a normal person. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 67 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?You should have said I just did, with a smile and then walked away. She’d be intrigued because she’s used to guys throwing themselves at her all the time. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 6 | How to get laid ?You ask questions, they respond and what is your response to their comments? | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 11:39 AM |
| 20 | How to get laid ?This has to be a troll post! Are you serious on the last question? | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 11:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle the "what are you looking for?" question?How about: I’m looking to get to know you better. That ought to be apparent what his story is. He’s outright telling you he wants to see you again. Not this vibe nonsense. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | how to handle gf tantrumsLeave, that’s how! No girl is worth a lifetime of misery. Her immaturity will kill most men. Leave now! | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | 10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dudeWhat about if your friends are off to school or located in vastly different geographic locations? People are mobile. Quality over quantity any day. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:31 PM |
| 3 | 10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dudePeople do it because they are cowards! Period. In reality, you’ve dodged a huge bullet. You don’t need to waste any more time or resources on a person with mental issues. Immaturity is not attractive. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 6 | I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the yearGod…..I don’t miss the dating scene. What ever happened to “a simple hello and compliment”? When did people forget how to talk? Women/men - they are just people, it’s not rocket science. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:54 PM |
| 4 | I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the yearHow will you know he has a quota? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:43 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend slept with my friendYou need to work on yourself. Right now, you sound like a doormat. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:02 PM |
| 28 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?No they don’t. Each woman is unique, some prefer brashness, some in between and some subtlety. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What does a woman mean when she say's she just doesn't feel the connection?Here’s the key - “where you thought you were lucky to be with them”? It’s the other way around - they were lucky to be with you. Start thinking like that and it will become apparent to them. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent?You made the right call. If your gut says don’t do it, listen to it. If you chase the thrill you might find the juice was not worth the squeeze. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Know if a Girl is Too Drunk for Consent?You fucked up a chance for getting your a$$ thrown in jail. Use your head with two eyes between them in the front - is she’s intoxicated she could claim she was incapacitated. Is it worth throwing away your life for some chick you never met in person before? | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 01:04 PM |
| 13 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?That’s not testosterone, it’s your mind. You should look into therapy. Fix yourself first, otherwise people are going to pick up on your insecurities quickly. And please, get over this virginity stuff - it really should not be your primary goal. Work on building a real relationship with people, the rest will fall into place. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 10:50 AM |
| 6 | need advice on how to set up first dateThat’s it. Find another person to date, one sided relationships usually end with one person who did all the investing of time, energy and resources being unappreciated and being taken advantage of. Why subject yourself to that? You aren’t going to “win” her over or change her mind. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | how do you talk to girls?It all starts w “hello” | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask her out?Would you be interested in having a drink with me? Yes/no. If she says as friends only - no date and up to you to say okay or say no, I really like you and would like to know you better. But if she says no them that’s it. You aren’t going to know unless you ask. If you don’t ask and she’s single, then someone else will. Maybe not tomorrow but there’s a whole summer ahead. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Why do females move on faster?Not if the woman wasn’t fully invested from the onset of the relationship. There are a number who make no effort, one sided relationships don’t last for obvious reasons. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manI’m older than you, never overweight but wanted better health I dropped 25lbs over last 3 years - agree moderation is key. Maintaining and building muscle will burn more, not less calories. It is extreme but we don’t know how much weight the OP wants to drop and keep off. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manYou are wasting your time with binging and intermittent fasting. I eat what ever I want so long as I focus on three things - eating 4-5 servings of fruits and vegetables, exercise 4-5 days a week, take 2 off for rest, get enough sleep. You can snack but do it judiciously. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manStart eating vegetables and fruits - eat all the salad you want and watch the pounds come off while improving your health. But don’t pour half a bottle of dressing on it or you will pack on the pounds | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:03 PM |
| 4 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manIt’s not cardio every morning. It all starts in the kitchen, eat high nutrient food, cut the crap out, goodbye bread, pasta, greasy foods, no fast food, goodbye chips, candy, milk chocolate bars (mostly fat). Hello strength training supplemented w cardio, hello vegetables and fruits, berries, an ounce of nuts and water. No soda, cut the alcohol out and definitely no social drugs. How many are willing to do that? Not many. They want their burger, fries and pizza globbed with cheese. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Make money. Be rich.Money is important up to a point, but after $150-200k there are only a few types which require higher income or wealth to satisfy them - those with champagne tastes. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Make money. Be rich.It’s the wrong kind of bees you want hanging around you. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you view rejection?That’s fine - looks fade too, but personality or lack thereof remains. What’s better? A bald guy who’s fit and healthy and has a personality or a woman who looks worn by life, overweight and a bad personality to boot? | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you view rejection?Balding means shit - for some. There’s someone for everyone | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you view rejection?A gift - saved you from pursuing an investment of your time and energy on an individual who fails to appreciate the value you bring to the table. Sometimes you want something so bad, but the optimum choice is to stay away from those who don’t value you | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | First approaches at nightclub got played for a drink.He got off cheap, could you imagine if she was dating him just to get free meals and other stuff? | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Attract Women By Being Yourself (Not What You Think)This 100%!! Agreed. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Women nervousnessSmile at her | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:47 PM |
| 4 | I’m in a big city, NYC. Most people here walk with brutal efficiency, and don’t enjoy random strangers talking to them. What can I do?I’d say try talking to a person at a crosswalk before the light turns but most people will cross so long as there is no nearby vehicle or if light changes quickly. Plus, they will usually ignore you or give you the “evil eye”. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:31 AM |
| 5 | I’m in a big city, NYC. Most people here walk with brutal efficiency, and don’t enjoy random strangers talking to them. What can I do?Central Park | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 09:42 AM |
| 0 | I’m in a big city, NYC. Most people here walk with brutal efficiency, and don’t enjoy random strangers talking to them. What can I do?Lol! Yep, sounds about right. The sidewalk is just a path from A to B and C. No one appreciates others just blindly stopping and blocking the path for idle conversation. It tough enough w those with cell phones.in their faces trying to text while pedestrians need to circumvent them. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 09:42 AM |
| 3 | I think I might not be able to approach without lowering my inhibitions. Any way to do this without intoxication?There is your mistake - the first initial meeting is not about romance, it’s about introducing yourself, make light hearted statements, maybe buy her a drink after asking what’s she drinking, get her number….. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | 26M virginYou can still have fun in life and not attract others. It’s a special combination of luck and qualities that will bring you to others attention. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What Are Some Best Ways To Seduce older women ?Don’t, she’s 36 not 86! | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 05:18 PM |
| 7 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???Stop questioning it, just do it! And don’t talk like that to the young woman ever. It’s their time like it’s your time. It’s different if you already have a relationship with them - then they still have a choice but explaining that choice should in some effect be made instead of just ghosting someone or bad mouthing to others but there are confused and mentally broken people out there. We’ve all been rejected at one time or another. Your time investment of 5 minutes is nothing, try years - that … | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:22 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???When you were a baby - before you could walk you crawled, before you ran, you walked. Crawl your stubbly face over to that girl staring at you - “Hi, my name is…. I saw you across the way and wanted to say (fill in the blank - keep it tasteful). See if she introduces herself. Even if she says she doesn’t have the time or has a boyfriend or she’s not interested, smile and say “well, enjoy the rest of your day” and smile as you walk away (don’t slouch or look disappointed either). If you can not g… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:15 PM |
| -1 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???Shave the stubble | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???I just replied above on how to approach | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???Smile the next time you see them looking at you, then walk over and say “hi, my name is …..”. I just wanted to come over and say that jacket or shirt blah blah really accentuates your hair or whatever. See if you can get a response out of her, make sure you keep it light hearted and smile while talking. Ask for her number and see if she’d like to grab a cup of coffee or ice cream (warm weather is coming) with you. That’s it! Can you do that? Time to stop thinking about math and serious relations… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Best days to go to bars alone?Friday and Saturday night - midtown west side and uptown east side | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Best days to go to bars alone?Go downtown in the village and find out | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Best days to go to bars alone?Where do u live? Uptown midtown or downtown? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 12:40 AM |
| 12 | Best days to go to bars alone?Thursday, Friday and Saturday. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 12:40 AM |
| 7 | Best days to go to bars alone?Thursdays | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do females like muscular, tall men ?Not entirely correct - abs are defined in the kitchen. You want to see them? You need to go into a caloric deficit first. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 3 | What's an instant turn off for you guys from a girl?Manipulation and lies, hands down. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 11:09 AM |
| 2 | What are some good ways for a 20 year old guy who can’t legally drink yet to meet women his age?Church, ice cream shop on a warm day | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Why “nice” isn’t attractive, and why it actually makes senseYep - sometimes it’s because of things completely out of your control. There will be some who are attracted to you regardless if you jump through hoops or not! There will be others who don’t give two shits if you have a hobby or value especially if they are blinded by their own biases that they are unable to see it until it’s too late. Maybe in retrospect they might acknowledge you or you her but by then the chance is long gone. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Why “nice” isn’t attractive, and why it actually makes sensePerhaps those doing the complaining ought to look in the mirror themselves? | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 08:14 PM |
| 4 | How I DESTROYED Approach Anxiety!Headphones in don’t mean headphones on! It could start with - Hi! Excuse me but I noticed you wearing that necklace and wanted to say it really looks nice on you or something to break the ice. She’s not likely to rip your head off or even shoot you down. If she doesn’t appreciate a compliment she isn’t for you | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:27 PM |
| 11 | How I DESTROYED Approach Anxiety!Don’t take Xanax | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:23 PM |
| 0 | What's that aura that some guys project which makes others instantly show respect ? And how do we get it, or is it for some people only?I wasn’t in the military but still have it the second I walk into the room. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | What's that aura that some guys project which makes others instantly show respect ? And how do we get it, or is it for some people only?Don’t be surprised if they aren’t like what you imagine. It’s those who you least expect who surprise you the most. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecuritySo you have a “grower” - put that in your mindset and get rid of this belief you are less than. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Guys…can you be just friends with a girl?Adult male here - past college. Mature people can and do have friends of both sexes without the need to want to have anything more than a platonic relationship. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Guys…can you be just friends with a girl?You can be friends with a straight male but you have to set clear boundaries from the onset and you have to make a concerted effort to be just a friend. Long ago I tried to be that type of friend until she used me in an attempt to triangulate me in a love triangle, turns out she was a covert narcissist. I had to give her the heave-ho. I’ve had other platonic friendships w females, no problems. Stay within the boundaries and don’t cross the line. Be firm and clear - the issue is you are seeking v… | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | SingaporeEspecially when it comes to chewing gum! 😆 | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:23 AM |
| 2 | SingaporeDon’t chew gum! If the authorities catch you, they will cane you in public. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?You are entitled to your opinion | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?You are entitled to your preferences, of course. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:20 AM |
| -1 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?Sure, sure - can’t handle the truth? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?Like a transaction! | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?They all want to know and age doesn’t matter, they still ask. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?Can you say “call me daddy”? | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?They are in all age groups the gold diggers. It’s so apparent you can spot them easily. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?You do realize that those who live with parents because it’s cheaper or cost effective with a long term plan in mind is the mark of a mature individual? You might be unnecessarily discounting the gem while you chase the trash. Not everything is cut and dried. What I’m saying is those who keep an open mind might find their opportunities increasing instead of finding the same undesirables. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?Don’t pamper - all the time. She’s not your escort. She should be independent, not dependent on you unless she has a daddy complex. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:47 PM |
| 10 | Do women 25-35 really find older men 40-50 attractive? If so what signs would you look for?Would you like to grab a cup of coffee with me one day? How is that creepy? | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | this sub kinda scares meMiss - there is NO perfect body, period! Ignore that air brushed crap in magazines! This is what counts in life - your inner beauty, it may sound cliche but I’ve got news for everyone reading it - gravity takes it’s toll on everyone, exposure to sun will age you faster, smoking is even worse and alcohol will mess you up big time if you don’t ease off in your early 30’s. Eat well, exercise, take time for you to love yourself daily. This idea that you or your outer shell is imperfect takes you no … | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | this sub kinda scares meOr maybe he actually digs the girl. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:10 PM |
| 11 | this sub kinda scares meThere are a lot of immature boys in the world and especially on this sub. Oh my goodness, somewhere mama didn’t raise them right! | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:09 PM |
| 6 | this sub kinda scares meBrutal huh? To be honest - dating can be brutal. Choose wisely, don’t ignore red flags. You don’t want to be sleeping with someone who’s bedroom has a revolving door of other chicks. Look for quality you usually find it - don’t chase! Let them chase you, have high self esteem for yourself and hold to your boundaries. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | 12 Signs She’s Into YouNo, they are picturing their future husband at that age | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 05:32 PM |
| -1 | Keep your standards low.Hell - can’t understand why you rate with numbers? Just say I’m with this really attractive girl, we get along well and if it doesn’t work out I’m going to focus on finding ones where there is mutual attraction. Numbers are so childish. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?And? Let’s say you were 0 for 10, you know you might get lucky on the 11th one. You never know. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?Have u tried? To approach in person? | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | No awkward silence because she keeps talking?And watch out for narcissistic traits - she could be love bombing you. It’s real-look it up. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How to be a chick magnet?Narcs aren’t attractive - but hey if it works for you. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What’s going on here?Just their 30’s? Try til the end of life! | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Life Lessons From A Gorgeous Girl I Met On The BeachYou must be joking - easy for men to find someone willing to commit and date? Hardly. It’s not like qualified candidates are falling over themselves to go out with guys on a regular schedule. Players abound on both sides. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Life Lessons From A Gorgeous Girl I Met On The BeachHa! I just saw your post now. Yep! | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Life Lessons From A Gorgeous Girl I Met On The BeachAs a guy, I’m telling you don’t give up. It all starts with hello, if you set boundaries you won’t have that issue of “giving it up” remember you are the gatekeeper not the other way around - hold firm if you aren’t into it or feel someone or something is off. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Life Lessons From A Gorgeous Girl I Met On The BeachThat’s when you say - have a nice day and continue on your merry way. You don’t want to date a chick who treats people like garbage no matter what bug crawls up their backside. It’s really a poor reflection on her, you come out smelling like a rose. Some lucky girl is waiting for you and it won’t be the bitch either. Count your blessings. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?You need therapy, seriously. That line of reasoning that your career will suffer if you don’t get a girl is horse shit. If you don’t focus on your career and other life pursuits first, I guarantee you your performance will get worse, not better. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?Go to a bar or a dance club on the weekend. Learn how to dance. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?You can get attention from woman at any age. If that’s what you are seeking. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?Yup - took judo in college, after getting thrown a few times and vice versa - you learn discipline and patience is a virtue. Violence is a last resort. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Men with weak jawlines, how do you handle it?Forget about fixing the jaw - he needs to fix what words are coming out of his mouth when/if he approaches chicks. He also needs to work on what he is subconsciously transmitting to the opposite sex. My guess is he comes off as a creep with no self confidence because he thinks his jaw is the issue (incorrectly). | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?They get shit because karma evens out the scales eventually. What they regret most is that inside they are empty, they always have a need to get a new experience from someone different- you are normal, they have a personality disorder that can not be solved by taking meds, there are no meds that fix an abnormal brain. Only intense therapy and only if they apply serious effort but most will not. Consider yourself lucky, you get another chance at having a fulfilling relationship instead of a vapid… | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?It’s called a trauma bond. The way you break that cycle is to go no contact. Basically, get the F away from that energy vampire, she will suck you dry and leave you drained just at the time when she’s moved on to her next supply/victim. You’re lucky you get out after 6 months, can you imagine years? Going through the wringer with one? There are plenty of unhappy marriages with both male and female narcs / you know the signs, you connect the dots - the next girl you date, if you see 5 of the 9 tr… | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?It was downvoted because I struck a nerve with those doing the acting. The immature behavior is out in full force. They don’t like being challenged, instead they expect you to roll over and be their door mat. F them! So many mature chicks of all ages out there that you can find - have fun exploring all the world has to offer. Remember, you are in control of your own destiny, don’t give up your power to no one, no matter how much they smile or sweet talk you. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?It’s a big popularity contest on tinder. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?That is your mistake-you stay! You want them to ask about you and to talk to you, absence makes the heart grow fonder - or not. Let them chase you, not the other way around. Disappear for a while, don’t be at their beck and call, you’ll know if you found someone worth sticking with or not. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Exactly- what can she offer you? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Plenty of them out there - both men and women. Look up covert narcissist, the worst of the lot - very sneaky they are but if you don’t ignore the red flags you can spot them a mile away. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Yup - had that call once, she was bored at 9pm on a Sunday night. Had no time to entertain her, ended the call quickly 😆 | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?She clearly was NOT into a LTR, she was there to have a fun time. Count it as a blessing, you don’t want an immature child, you want a mature female who doesn’t cut and run when facing a decision. Can you just imagine what it would be like having an LTR with a personality like that? Nothing you do will ever satisfy her. Count your blessings and find someone who’s willing to invest as much as you would - that’s when you’ve found a quality person. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Sometimes they are good at acting - meanwhile it was all a big charade to them. The guy isn’t picking, it’s the chick who picked the guy, even if it was the guy who initiates the contact. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:33 PM |
| 6 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Look up narcissistic personality disorder- their need for constant validation and new experiences will lead them to find someone new to satisfy them and begin the cycle anew. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Keep looking | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:23 PM |
| 3 | How to break things off after 3 dates no sexSo immature for a 30 year old. How old are you? 15? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:51 AM |
| 5 | How to break things off after 3 dates no sexNo - don’t say shit about boundaries. Just say she’s a great girl but just not the girl for you. That way she doesn’t think it’s her, why give her a complex over something that you don’t like? It’s not her, it’s you - no guilt, no harm, no foul and no leading her on with more time or dates. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Attempted to flirt with girl at amusement park, friends started teasing me, so I got shy and stopped.They aren’t your friends - they are douchebags who wish they had your confidence to talk to girls without choking. Don’t let them steal your self confidence or lower your self-esteem and don’t ever feel the need to explain your actions except to the one you are directing them towards. I’d spend less time with those losers and let them see what they are missing. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 04:14 PM |
| 2 | How do I start a conversation with a girl in a bar while she is surrounded by her friends?Yup - it all starts with hello and a genuine smile. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Typical shit test girls use , don’t fall for itSure, I think “shit tests” are a sign of immaturity run amuck. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Typical shit test girls use , don’t fall for itShe sees him as a challenge, thinks she can change him - good luck with those games. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Typical shit test girls use , don’t fall for itThis girl is going to see how long she can string him along. People never learn. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?You aren’t leading, you are doing and that can lead to others taking advantage of you. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Someone who shares in all aspects. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:09 PM |
| 0 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Women aren’t looking for a boss in the house. They are looking for a partner. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:50 PM |
| 0 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?Leadership? Grow up. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 0 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?And what do you bring to the table? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman a perfect “10”?You hit it right on the head! | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.You may still not fall for someone who goes above and beyond either. This is no clear cut answer when it comes to whom you pair up with. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.Not necessarily true - you can treat women as people and they still might reject you. Each individual has their own set of criteria, people with low self esteem though will value superficial things or tolerate poor behaviors just to be with someone. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:32 PM |
| 12 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.They weren’t your friends. I had been there a long time ago - people like that aren’t your friends, they are bullies. Good riddance. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | RecoveryWhat’s going to happen? She’s going to cut you off at the knees and leave you hobbled for life? Come on would ya? | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:57 AM |
| 2 | RecoveryYep - have seen that happen. Karma for the most vapid ones too. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | RecoveryWhat whole life? Keep your options open - when you see an opportunity that looks promising then approach. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 12:58 AM |
| 0 | How do you approach super hot girls at bars?Stop focusing on your looks or what you think are bad looks. You’ll know right away if she’s into a conversation or not but don’t immediately jump and think your looks are the reason why, okay? | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach super hot girls at bars?Are you serious? It’s like you are basically advertising that you have zero confidence. Don’t approach if you don’t believe you have something to offer to the potential conversation. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women?It’s your attitude. Stop looking at other guys and who is on their arm. What do you bring to the table? What are you saying at your initial meeting with the prospective woman? Let’s hear your approach. And when you are speaking or approaching them / what are your eyes looking at and what is your mouth doing before you start talking? Eyes on 👀 but not intensely. Your mouth should be flashing a smile even if you think your smile isn’t great. Then, introduce yourself. Let’s hear the rest from you. … | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:45 PM |
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