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You saying that sex ends with semen/sperm counteracts your previous point of it being a mans job to pleasure a woman and not a woman's job to pleasure a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:18 AM
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Abortions aren't just for unwanted pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:45 PM
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source???? no, not like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:23 PM
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UK is still in your world. I was only pointing out that those things are not some pipe dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:40 AM
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The UK has paid maternity leave and free healthcare during pregnancy (even free dental). Child care is also free for a set amount of hours from the age of 2/3 depending on household income. It's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:37 AM
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Are you mentally deficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:34 PM
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The most common treatment is birth control. Women dying is related because with more pregnancies and births, the more likely a woman is to die during childbirth. No BC = more deaths related to childbirth. C'mon man that was simple to put together. At least try to engage your brain, if you have one!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:31 PM
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And, if you Google it, what's the treatment for irregular periods? I didn't once say that all women or even a majority of women suffer from these issues. What I said is that it's not always as easy as tracking ovulation and not having sex on applicable days. We did exist far before BC was around, we also procreated a lot more and it resulted in a lot more deaths of women, and children didn't make it to adulthood on the level they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:34 PM
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And the number one treatment for irregular periods is birth control. So what's the "rule" you are proving here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:24 PM
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Yes. Because SOMETIMES it works, and others it doesn't. Because humans are individuals and our bodies don't all react the same way to the same things. The birth control that works best for me, doesn't work for my sister and the one she uses doesn't work for our other sister. Go figure. Your blanket statement of "that's not how it works" is incorrect though. Either learn about how it works, or stop opening your mouth about something you are so deeply unaware of, it just makes you come off as a st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:17 PM
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No, birth control can fix that sometimes. But please, Dr no-rough-7390, continue assuming you know fucking anything about periods considering you think it's so simple to track for every woman in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:09 PM
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I am a healthy weight, and I have no physical health conditions. Sometimes, periods are just fucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:01 PM
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I went onto it because of irregular periods. But nice try :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:56 PM
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If only my period cycle was ever regular or predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:53 PM
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Wouldn't it be really nice if those 5 days could be accurately predicted every month by all women. If I could not use birth control and accurately track ovulation, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:35 PM
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Very advanced OF ad. 2024 is a weird time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:31 PM
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The role reversal was amusing at first but it's poor bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:25 PM
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You're dumb lol Your obvious troll is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:15 PM
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It's not babysitting when it's your own kid. It's called parenting. You are the one disrespecting mother's here by saying they are a full time babysitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:13 PM
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I think my boyfriend is hot as fuck, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:43 PM
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It isn't mandatory. But for schools that teach it, it is a standard subject and parents can opt out of their child taking the lessons instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:39 PM
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The UK already has relationship education.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:48 PM
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I do have a child, I have also been a foster carer, but thanks for talking down to me about children anyway. I didn't say that the clitoris supports het sex. I said that is a good reason to come to the conclusion that sex isn't just for making babies but also for enjoyment. You do raise a good point, however, if sex was only for babies then why would gay people exist and have sex? But, we are way off topic. Your original point is that sex apparently should only be for procreating. Which is wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:55 AM
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The clitoris/orgasm isn't an alarm clock for if someone is touching you whilst you are sleeping. So we can get rid of that theory. I know from personal experience that women don't always wake when they are being raped in their sleep. Injecting drugs is man made. Nature didn't provide us with needles. You could make an argument for marijuana in that ball park, though. Childbirth causing orgasms, those nerve endings are still being stimulated. Women can also orgasm during sexual assault. It isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:07 AM
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Okay, why does the clitoris exist, or the female orgasm at all, if sex wasn't supposed to be fun and feel good? And not just in early life when people are "taking risks". If that were the case we would simply lose the ability to orgasm after menopause. But many women report getting hornier than ever during menopause. Women don't need to orgasm in order to procreate, only men do. And sometimes not even a full orgasm, think of precum. We evolved to have fun with sex, it's not a bad thing to have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:19 AM
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You don't need to have sex to bond, but it is an excellent bonding activity in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:00 AM
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Couples don't need to have a child in order to bond or procreate to bond. Fair enough, if you don't have sex for fun then that's how you are. All humans are different. But for many millions of people, sex is a fun activity you can do with one or more consenting parties. It's only purpose isn't procreation. I can't imagine only ever having sex for the purpose of procreating, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:44 PM
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Do you not believe in sex for fun, or intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:41 PM
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This reminds me of when men say "i just used you for sex" And I'm like "bitch, I was wearing my best and sexiest matching set. Who used who?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:39 PM
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What would be the difference? So does only one of those things make you a loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:33 PM
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Does only having one of these things make me half a loser? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:06 AM
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Except I'm not. I have plenty of friends that are women. Thank you for your concern, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:56 AM
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I wasn't going to get into it because nothing I can say will make you realise that you are wrong. Around 8% of rape allegations are proven unfounded. And when that happens, the person who lied is punished for it. Often they get more punishment than someone who is proven to have actually raped someone. So, going off the stat that 8% of rape allegations are false (and taking into account the small percentage of women who report rape in the first place), that is an astounding small percentage of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:06 PM
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In what way is makeup or hair dye pretending to be something you're not? If someone thinks my hair is naturally a bright, unnatural colour, and my lips are naturally black, my eyes naturally have thick dark lines around them, my eyelids are naturally black, my eyelashes are naturally over an inch long... Then I'd say that's an indicator of their intelligence and not that I'm trying to pretend that that is how I was born 😂 I'm not even getting into your obsession with false rape accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:48 PM
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Nope. Is hair dye also lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:34 PM
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Do you think makeup is lying? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:28 PM
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You can doubt that if you like. It's not on me to change your perception. Yeah, I've been called a pick-me a couple of times for it. Will that stop me? No. Because I care about equality and don't really care for silly name calling in an attempt to silence people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:18 PM
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I am one woman who calls out misandry. Either remember to switch between your accounts or make your mind up mate. You look unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:46 PM
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LMAO you're so salty over people finding him attractive and for what? Get a personality outside of hating others, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:45 PM
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Hilarious mate, hilarious. Guess I have brain damage cus DAMN the things I would do to that man 🥵😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:25 PM
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This is kinda hilarious, what did Petey boy do to you? 😂 People have different tastes, someone finding a person you think is ugly attractive doesn't mean they are brain damaged. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:19 PM
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Untrue. There are plenty men in my life who will call out any oppression wherever they can. Sadly, not every thing is in their power to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:13 PM
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He doesn't look like "just a junkie" though. And theres not really such thing as what normal women are into. I know women who would give anything in the world for a night with a guy that looks like Danny Devito. Women's tastes in potential partners is so broad and varied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:54 PM
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Except he isn't ugly as fuck. To you, he may be ugly. Beauty isnt one size fits all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:47 PM
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I feel scared for the present, for the women and girls who currently share the streets, workplaces, schools, with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:40 PM
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It's almost as if beauty is subjective and what you find good looking may be what some one else finds disgusting. Thinking someone is good looking doesn't mean people have brain problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:21 PM
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I was incredibly attracted to him. Being in pain during normal vanilla sex is a limit for me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:52 PM
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Does this study take into account that autistic women tend to be taken advantage of and thats where a lot of their sexual experiences come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:37 PM
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And autistic men date more than autistic women? Not everyone wants to limit their dating in that way. But a lot of autists will date other autists. So the men they are dating ARE autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:03 PM
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I am aware. I have both ADHD and autism, you don't need to explain my own disorders to me. I am speaking about ND in general, but mostly the people I know are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:54 PM
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I've rejected someone for being too big. Almost on the spot. We tried anyway, I didn't have fun, when he attempted to set up another date I turned him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 12:28 PM
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I'm friends with lots of NDfolk, majority of us that are in relationships are in relationships with other ND folk. In fact, I know more ND men with NT women than I do the other way around... I've tried dating NT's, it never works. No matter how well meaning they are, they just don't get me like someone who also has ADHD/Autism does.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 11:18 AM
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Is that just the red pill way of saying "sleeping around"? Now I'm picturing a carousel with penises instead of horses (fair ground music and all) and that's a hilarious mental image.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:18 AM
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Pete Davidson is funny, he speaks openly about his mental health, he advocates for others to help themselves with their mental health, he isn't afraid to call someone out when he thinks what they are doing is wrong and he's very confident. These are all super attractive traits in a person. Along with looks being subjective, I find him a very attractive person even before taking his personality into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:26 AM
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I can understand the post from context, but what is CC? I think the reasons vary for each individual. Some women may be lying to their friends about how exciting it was. Some may lie to men about how exciting it wasn't, and how lonely it was. Some may lie to themselves about how it feels at the time, in order to feel better. Some may be telling the complete truth, it was good at the time but looking back on it brings feelings of loneliness that they didn't realise were there at the time. Feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:38 AM
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Consent. Take my relationship, for example. I will often wear something around the house that I know will instantly make my boyfriend drop whatever he is doing so he can scoop me up and take me to the bedroom. But if someone else saw me in those clothes, I would be mortified. Because I consented to my boyfriend seeing it, and not others. Some people have different boundaries of consent. Someone may post a photo in similar clothes, and they have consented for anyone who can view their profile to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:42 AM
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so what? So that's why most women have stories about it, even if most men aren't rapists. I don't think we know the same "feminism". The feminism I know will advocate for all survivors of any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:14 PM
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If I'm dating fellow autists, who do you think they are? That would be my male "equivalent".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:51 PM
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You not seeing it ≠ it not happening. I already gave examples. I have, in real life and online, come across NT's who purposely only go for autistic women because sensory issues mean apparently mean we grip tighter during sex (bullshit, I know, but it's a reasoning I have heard and is fetishisation at its core) and we are easier to manipulate and abuse. Also because we act "more immature", autists are often sought after by people who prefer younger women but have at least a semblance of morals to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:08 PM
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Damn, thanks Dr doinit989, I'm cured!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:47 PM
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It's an autistic issue, not a gendered issue. I get annoyed when people turn things into gendered problems when they aren't. We all get annoyed over different things. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:44 PM
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Why is "autism in women" in quotations? And no, BPD and sociopathy are completely different disorders. I should know, I am an autistic woman with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:41 PM
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Can you read? The comment I replied to didn't say "getting a date is harder for autistic men" or "men with autism suffer in different ways" which I would agree with. I was just saying the gender split was unnecessary. Not every thing has to be men vs. women. Humans with autism can struggle, and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:40 PM
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Talk to me when you understand struggles of autistic women. Until then, sit down bruv and stay in your lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:20 PM
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Nah, just a normal reaction to incel rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:19 PM
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Had the comment said "as a man it's harder finding a date" then we wouldn't be having this conversation. The original point is that dating is rough for any gender with autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:13 PM
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brotha eeewww
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:09 PM
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Why do you assume that ND women want a man they can "follow along"? That's a very gross generalisation and we've cycled back around to begin infantilised. Wonderful. Have the day you deserve, friend ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:07 PM
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So autistic men would have better luck with autistic women. Then what's the issue with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:03 PM
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Yet stoicism is common amongst many autists, so that would be desirable, no? Personally, I love ND4ND relationships and love my autistic boyfriend who expresses his emotions. All people like different things, who would have figured?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:00 PM
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And I've seen plenty of average and below men going in emotional tirades towards their partners and family, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:57 PM
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Pretty women are given more freedom on their emotional expressions*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:55 PM
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Did I say anyone was? 😂 Humans are entitled to be treated as humans and not our disability, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:50 PM
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Wrong, again :) Not my character at all, but I don't like the erasure of autistic women and being told "we have it easy". Because we sure as hell do not. We may have different struggles but that's because it's easier for us if we align more to "mens autism". Talk to some autistic women other than me and learn if you want to talk about our disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:48 PM
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I've never heard it refer to BPD. I may have found a partner (who is also autistic, a man... Crazy!) but the comment didn't say finding a date was harder, just dating. Horrible men flock to me because I fit into some gross box of "goth autistic bitch". Dating is harder as an autistic person. Don't you love autistic women erasure!!! (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:44 PM
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I've literally almost dated someone who only dated autists (he was NT). That is a fetish. And no, as someone with both BPD and ASD, the manic pixie dream girl refers to autistic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:39 PM
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Yeah, because it's so much easier being fetished, infantilised, manipulated and treated as a fuck toy /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:37 PM
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You've never seen the "manic pixie dream girl" trope which is just a woman with autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:32 PM
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Don't confuse being fetishised for our disability for acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:28 PM
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We are affected in different ways by it, sure. But that doesn't mean it isn't rough for all autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:28 PM
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Being autistic makes dating rough, no matter your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:11 PM
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I don't think you needed the "as a man". Being autistic and dating is extremely rough. Although I have better luck when dating fellow autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:00 PM
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You are correct, majority of men don't rape women. BUT, the majority of women have been sexually harassed. Which is why you hear so many stories about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:10 AM
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Then we agree. I would LOVE if men (and women too, but it happens more often with men) wouldn't approach me whatsoever. I don't want to have to tell someone to do one, or ask them to leave me alone. I've tried just saying "no" but plenty of men who think it's okay to approach a stranger also don't take no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:00 AM
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Oh no, I don't agree with OP. I don't think men should cold approach at all, I agree with you here mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:54 AM
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Are you incapable of reading between lines? Or understanding satire? I thought it was rather obvious that I was being satirical and those thoughts weren't in my head at all. Sorry, I should have realised I was conversing with a dumbass when you thought you could be arrested for molestation after only talking to someone. My fault for assuming you may have half a brain cell, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:47 AM
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Now I'm confirming things?? This is awesome man, how do you know so much about my own head when even I don't know those things are in my head? Is it perhaps that you are attributing those thoughts to me and assuming you are correct with no basis? It's probably the second one, huh. That's less mystical and rather disappointing :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:43 AM
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Oh I love when people tell me what's inside my own head!! You're one of them telepaths then? That's REALLY cool!! Now what am I thinking about, oh great psychic man??? 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:38 AM
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You wouldn't get arrested on molestation charges for talking to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:35 AM
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Except I have been very picky in the past and these things still happened because the psychos are VERY good at hiding it. I wasn't just sleeping with any man that came along, I was very choosey and went for personality over anything else. Along with the fact that majority of the sexual violence I have experienced was whilst in a relationship with someone who even now presents himself as a "good guy" and puts on an amazing act.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:18 AM
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There are subs for that. Did you see the post before the content was deleted? It was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:47 AM
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Yes mate, we all DEFINITELY believe you...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:27 PM
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Wanna put your mouth where my money is? This u bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:24 PM
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The penis part isn't gross, what is gross is still trying to solicit to someone that clearly isn't interested. Basically, your lack of respect for consent is gross. Hope that helps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:21 PM
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Oh, why do you assume I'm grossed out by penis? I love it! Specifically, my boyfriend's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:18 PM
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What does this even mean? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:14 PM
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Brotha eeeewwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:05 PM
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Suuuuuure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:02 PM
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Then you're weird as fuck, bruv.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:59 PM
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GOTTA be a troll, what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:58 PM
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Plenty of women are into men who could easily be considered "twinks".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:53 PM
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Oh so you are just deranged? Okay. You should be receiving therapy, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:08 PM
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Oh, what the fuck is wrong with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:50 PM
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Why should it be the other way around and not just equal with nobody being discriminated against?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:51 PM
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You would get that chance with pregnancy and even periods anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:33 PM
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I don't think we fully align, I am still attracted to men, and I engage in sex with men very often (I have a boyfriend). I don't think it's silly for women to want to have sex with men. I just think that people need to be aware that sex can be high risk and isn't always safe. Having access to condoms, birth control and abortions (for those who actually have access to those things) doesn't mean it is low risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:43 AM
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Sex is high risk. I've been "stealthed". I've been with men who think it's okay to just grab my throat and be sexually violent without consent because "I look like I'd be into that". I've been beaten by a man after I consented to sex but said no to anal. Sex is high risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:58 AM
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Except I'm a person who focuses on personality. So yes, people do feel like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:25 AM
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I'm not going to adjust my language and add "very few" in front of sentences just to make you feel comfortable. What I have said is true. People do feel this way. It may not be ALL people, but people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:21 AM
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Am I not allowed to speak on how I view things? Did I say this is the majority of people who feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:18 AM
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The more I get to know someone, the more things I find beautiful. I do find my partner beautiful, both inside and out. It's not that I only like him because he is kind, but it is one of the most attractive things about him. Id rather be liked for my personality than my looks, which will fade eventually anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:50 PM
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I knew I liked my partner before I ever knew what he looked like, we met gaming in online lobbies. His personality is 100% the reason I was attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:29 PM
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I didn't say constant. Just being kind overall. My partner is cold as fuck towards my son's father, because he knows what that man has done and that he doesn't deserve respect. To anyone he doesn't know, or people around him that haven't given any reasons to be unkind towards, he treats with respect. Kindness ≠ a pushover who is nice to every one around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:25 PM
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Then still yes, the first is more attractive because I value personality more than looks. This may not be true for everyone, but it's true for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:21 PM
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The first one is more attractive, ahuh. Id rather be with someone that people don't particularly think is good looking and treats me and others with respect than someone who is viewed as gorgeous and treats me and others like crap. Being a good person is sexy as fuck. You can assume it's bullshit if you like, there's no way for me to verify that this is true really. But I have had relationships with kind people who were intelligent and funny that I view as better than the short relationships I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:17 PM
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Kind people can be rude, and that doesn't mean they are unkind. Not everyone deserves someone being kind or polite to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:14 PM
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Exactly, yes. Ugly personality=ugly person. Although even if they had the same personality, none of the traits you mentioned there are unattractive to me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:10 PM
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Physically, yes. For me personally, a kind, intelligent and funny person is sexier than someone who is a "10" with a bad attitude, can't hold an intelligent conversation and has no humour. An ugly personality becomes an ugly human.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:10 PM
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Being a good person is one of the most attractive qualities in a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:55 PM
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I suppose I should have added /s I know the issues, I was "flipping the script" and making light of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:57 PM
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I don't see an issue with "males and women"? What's wrong with calling people what they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:45 AM
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No because people seem to make a lot of assumptions about me based on their fetish and it's gross. No, I won't be their "goth mommy" and no, having autism doesn't make me their manic pixie dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:18 AM
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Why do you assume I'm selfish and greedy? I already tick one of your boxes of what a woman "should be". I am a mother, I just don't want to be married (I've turned down proposals) and I'm not submissive because I have a fucking spine and my own thoughts and feelings. Wanting to do what you want with your life isn't selfish, rather the opposite. It's very selfish of you to assume that someone should live to your standards rather than their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:13 PM
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"wife and mother" and "sex slave" aren't the only options for a woman. How backwards are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:05 PM
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An entire gender doesn't need to be "submissive". Nor is it in their best interests to be a wife or mother. Get a life, bruv.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:54 PM
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Depends where you live in the UK. Recently, when I needed police assistance, they got to me in less than 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:50 PM
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That's so strange because I thought it was in a woman's best interests to be dominant and the men should be submissive! See how stupid you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:46 PM
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How is this even a discussion? You don't have to put yourself at risk for the sake of someone else. Especially not a stranger. Certain situations, it can make it worse too. Imagine it's a couple where one person is abusive. If someone steps in, that causes the abuser embarrassment. I know first hand that that can lead to even further and worse abuse when the couple is in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:31 AM
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Sex is okay if both parties consent to it and are of sound/able mind to consent. And "normal" sex isn't a thing, really. Sex is fun, it can be experimental, it can be funny, it can be serious, it can be gentle, it can be rough. There's no "normal" when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:22 PM
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Nah the weird part was the "duty to create family" stuff. Well, take it from someone who has been sexually active half their life, women DEFINITELY enjoy sex. If you do have desire to have sex, even if you have buried it deep due to others opinions, then one day you may find that out firsthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:15 PM
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I'm not even gonna touch the weird shit you are saying at the start... Earlier I said a lot of the sex I'd had was with women, if it was only women it would be "all of". It isn't wrong to desire sex. There's many men and women in this thread telling you the opposite. Just because you don't see women enjoying sex, that doesn't mean we don't. Majority of adults enjoy sex a hell of a lot. Gender makes no difference in that regard. Personally, I have a higher libido than any man I've ever had a sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:04 PM
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Someone being scared of your unhinged rants doesn't make them "the right". Not everything needs to be viewed as political leanings. Just view people as people. It isn't that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:56 PM
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I ask because you seem rather unhinged and you are either misreading everything I have said, or mistaking me for somebody else because i haven't said anything you claim I have. Go see your doctor, dude, you need it. I care, because I don't want you exploding like this on another person who actually could feel scared by your behaviour rather than find it mildly amusing as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:47 PM
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When did I say I was gay? I said a lot of the sex I've had is with women. I like men, women, enbies, transfolk, agender... I don't look at things like gender in a partner. Why do you assume lesbians think trans men aren't people? Because they are men? A lesbian still views men as people. You don't have to be sexually attracted to someone to view them as people. I enjoy sex, a lot actually. If women felt no sexual urges, what do you think lesbians do? Spend all evening playing Scrabble? You are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:39 PM
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I never claimed to be a leftist, where did you get that idea? I also never claimed that men aren't people. Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:34 PM
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Ah, more rubbish. Wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:24 PM
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Oh my god, hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:23 PM
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LMFAO. Why start a debate post if you are going to invalidate multiple people's experiences of women feeling sexual desire and urges. You can keep believing we don't enjoy sex if you like. Makes no difference to my life, you are the one who will remain miserable whilst I have fun having sex 🥰❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:23 PM
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I didn't call you any names, I'm just saying that your ramblings are incoherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:09 PM
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Oh really? Please, enlighten me then. What was I doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:09 AM
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Aw, you don't control what I say, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:08 AM
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If you looked through my entire post history, you wouldn't find a single comment about me hating sex. You would, however, find a lot of comments on sex related subs. Because I am one of many many many millions of women who enjoy sex. What is the point in opening this debate if you are going to dismiss everyone's accounts that do not agree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:03 AM
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Most women do have a desire for sex. Most women feel pleasure from sex. Most women can orgasm. If you feel that desire is wrong, then that's okay. Not everyone feels that desire and need for sex. But don't assume that all women feel that way. I can assure you, we do not. I've been sexually active for half of my life, if I didn't like sex, I wouldn't have sex. A lot of that sex has been with women. I can say with 100% certainty that a LOT of women enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:51 AM
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Have you ever actually had sex with a woman? If you have, have you ever tried to make her feel good? Women definitely get pleasure, and seek pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:44 AM
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Because lots of women have very high libidos, and lots of men have very low libidos. It varies person to person, based on how that person naturally is, any illnesses they may have, any medication they may be on, how much stress they are under, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:41 AM
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No, not all women are sex workers. I'm not a sex worker, majority of my female peers are not sex workers. Do you even know what a "sex worker" is? I'm a woman, who is on those sex themed subreddits. Women love sex. They just don't love it with you, clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:39 AM
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That's women looking out for other women and once again falls into "I trust my partner but that doesn't mean others should have automatic trust".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:57 PM
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Nope. I've been in relationships with both men and women so all those "statistics" applied to the wlw relationships anyway. Body count means nothing to me as long as they are std-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:30 AM
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The reason I find my child easier than an allistic child is because I am also autistic. Not all autists need life long support. That's a very backwards claim after only stating "autism".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:37 AM
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Oh, I'm a single Mum and I find it easier parenting my autistic child than I do babysitting an allistic child for a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:00 AM
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Go bags or money stashed away isn't just in cases of the other party becoming abusive. Money stashed away is helpful if something awful happened to your partner, that money can keep you going until life insurance etc comes through. Go bags are also handy for a last minute hospital stay. Those are things I would suggest everyone has, as a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:24 PM
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Common colloquialism in my area :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:28 PM
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Weird, I could have sworn that people in healthy and loving relationships have trust in their partners. I'd say that's what stops most people from getting one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:24 PM
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I don't hide money from my partner, we have separate finances. And doctors and nurses should ask that. I trust my partner, but that doesn't mean that others should automatically trust him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:44 PM
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If you've had an orgasm before sex, then the sex is for him and for you to get some extra pleasure (even if you don't orgasm during). It seems like the sex is mostly for him now, anyway. Unless you can only orgasm once and then any touch there is too sensitive and can hurt (I've been with women like that in the past, and I understand it can't be helped) then I'm not seeing an issue in getting you off first and then him getting off. As I said, if you are content as you are then you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:36 AM
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He could be using the toy on you during sex. Toys aren't just for masturbation. There are also things like cock rings, that stimulate the clitoris during sex without any extra effort from either of you. You seem to have a very black and white view of sex. Sometimes, I do all the work. I'm fine with that. Sometimes, my boyfriend does all the work. He's fine with that. Sex doesn't have to be 100% equal as "I am doing something for him to get pleasure". Very often I am doing something for ME to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:31 AM
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Even in hetrelationships, sex isn't penetration. Can you not get off first and then he has sex, then? If it's so awkward to do it afterwards? If you are content in having no orgasms through sex then okay, you do you. But there are plenty of solutions that you could attempt, if you want to step it up and start having orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:26 AM
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Whenever I do something nice for my partner, all I expect in return is for him to be grateful. Hopefully it makes him smile, too. I don't care if I don't get something from him. I get a good feeling in my soul by making someone else smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:24 AM
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Except it doesn't afford the same trust. Yes, I know the child is mine. But my issue would be that my partner thought I could cheat on him. I can't do a test to get the same trust. Along with majority of out-of-the-blue cheating accusations coming because the other party is cheating, how can I prove he didn't cheat? Without trust, relationships cannot last. So sure, men can ask for paternity tests, but they can also deal with the repercussions of that and end up single afterwards. There's no nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:22 AM
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Penetration is not sex. How do you think lesbians have sex??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:13 AM
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Top of the clit is not stimulated during penetration Yet another argument for toys!! Have you tried using toys during? Or even just your partner's fingers stimulating during sex. I can orgasm through vaginal sex quite easily, but sometimes my boyfriend uses the rose during sex and those orgasms are mind-blowing because it's the mix of stimulation. Maybe you need the mix to get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:11 AM
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Toys can be used with natural sex. For example, one of my favourites is a remote controlled toy. I can be cleaning the house, and my partner will just press a button on his phone and leave my legs shaking. That doesn't get in the way of natural sex, it enhances the sex since he keeps me in that state for hours until he finally decides he's ready to have sex. The build up makes things amazing. TOYS ARE YOUR FRIEND.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:06 AM
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Relationships are built on trust. If my partner doesn't trust me, the relationship is over anyway. I'd just be ripping the band aid off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:01 AM
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I've laughed at what these fools would call "high value men" when they have refused to use any toys and considered them competition. I don't fuck insecure idiots, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:00 AM
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I don't prefer a toy to my boyfriend's body parts. Using toys doesn't have to be instead of your penis. It's used with. An ally, not an enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:58 AM
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People who report their earnings, still get money from their ex partners for their child. Child support is based on the paying parents income, the receiving parents income has nothing to do with it. It's more a matter of principle. If I became a millionaire tomorrow, I would still get money from my ex partner as child support. Because if he isn't going to be a worthwhile father, he may as well do something to contribute to his child's life. Especially considering he was the one who wanted a chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:56 AM
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I don't know why you are viewing it as competition? But to answer your question with another question- have you ever ventured into the world of BDSM? Toys are VERY big in BDSM, especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:51 AM
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I didn't know what it was, I scanned your link though. Thank you for the information :) It's 2024, there's no excuse for you to insinuating that a woman is "stamping her feet" and having a tantrum for not agreeing with you. Keep to your shitty environments that view women as objects that you can dispense sex from, see how much it helps you get laid. I'll stick to my environments that view all humans as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:21 AM
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Toys are not your enemy, they are your ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:10 AM
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I see 'hypergamy' used often here, what does it mean in these terms? Sex is also a desire for women for relationships. Sex is one of the most important parts of a relationship to me. That's why I don't enter a relationship without having sex first, I need to know how satisfied I will be (I do also consider room for improvement). I know plenty of men who don't consider women as sex dispensers. If you surround yourself with men who consider women objects that they can put "favours" in and receive …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:52 AM
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Well, I slept with my partner within 2 hours of officially meeting him in person. Not much seducing needed on either side. We had been talking online for months upon months and he listened to me when I needed an ear, he checked in on me every day to make sure I was okay and was extra caring when he knew I was having a tough time (I struggle with my mental health often). He made me laugh every single day. He sent flowers to my house for my birthday even though we had only been speaking for a coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:35 AM
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Nope. Optional. My ex partner could have asked for a paternity test if he wanted to. I would have consented. I also would have ended the relationship at that moment. Also, it doesn't matter how much the mother is earning, if she has full custody then the secondary parent should be paying child support. I could be a millionaire and I would still receive the pittance my ex sends me per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:25 AM
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Okay, before me and my partner were a couple then both of us still did those things for one another without the expectation of them being transactions that would earn us sex. If you need to do things in order to "earn" sex, I suggest being better at sexual interactions. After the first time I slept with my partner (before our relationship) I wanted to go again and again and again. No transactions needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:18 AM
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I really don't think that's true. Or maybe I just don't want to think that's true. That's very very gross. My partner does things because he cares, not because he views the relationship as transactional and he deserves sex after so many instances of doing something nice. Why do you think women buy birthday gifts for their partner, take them to dinner, buy they random 'just because' gifts, get them flowers? I do those things because I like to see my partner smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:02 AM
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What the fuck does the kid having autism have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:56 AM
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That had nothing to do with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:46 AM
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Oh that's easy! I don't! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:46 PM
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Ummm.. okay.. what would you like to talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:41 PM
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I think you got me mixed up for someone else, is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:34 PM
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Are you mistaking me for somebody else? All I said was that not all American politicians are "for women". I think you have me confused for someone else, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:25 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:21 PM
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I'm not in Poland? 😂 Also, when the front page of Reddit and the entire fucking internet is full of American politics, it's hard to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:19 PM
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I don't see how I said anything to disagree with? All I said is that I've struggled with gender identity. Unless you are inside my head, you can't say whether I have or haven't done that. So, I'm confused, what is to disagree with? And if you won't say what's on your mind, why even reply with ellipsis anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:56 PM
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I don't know of any women only clubs. I do spend majority of my time out drinking in gay bars though, where it's less likely for a man to come and hit on me. Of course, there are straight men who target gay bars to hit on women with what they consider "less competition". If I can't go to a gay bar, I take my friend who just pretends he's my boyfriend for the evening to keep creeps away. The last thing that a lot of other women and I want is men coming up to hit on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:42 PM
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Why should I have to stay home just because I have a boyfriend? Home has a different atmosphere to a bar. It's like going a concert Vs. Listening to the album at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:28 PM
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Sorry, does a relationship mean you have to forego anything you enjoy? I love going out, whether in a relationship or not. I'm never there to be hit on, whether in a relationship or not. I just wanna go dance and drink with my friends, whether in a relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:28 PM
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Follow up question- how do you know the women who reject you immediately are single?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:26 PM
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America elected a president who believes he is entitled to women's body and was found liable in court for sexual assault. I don't think this "USA politicians are all for women" statement is the slam dunk you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:09 PM
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Well, don't be shy! Go ahead :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:29 PM
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Then I suppose don't approach people. It also scares me when a stranger approaches me so I don't mind if men don't want to. The only time I don't mind being approached is in a bar, usually because I have alcohol in my system and I can anticipate that people may approach me and sort of mentally prepare for the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:20 AM
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I have autism and severe anxiety, the thought of approaching a stranger for anything terrifies me. I won't even approach a shop assistant if I need help, and it's literally their job to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:14 AM
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There's a difference between being viewed as sexy, and being sexualised. I've spent a lot of time being sexualised and fetishised by (mostly) men. It feels yucky and disgusting. Like I'm seen as an object to have sex with and nothing more. I LOVE feeling sexy, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:47 AM
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Did you have something to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:41 AM
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I clearly stated "gender identity". Do you think 'dog' is a gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:55 AM
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No. I've struggled with gender identity quite a lot throughout my years and I feel if I changed gender suddenly, I would go through that process again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:33 PM
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Please, tell me what part of our "biological make up" determines women's personality to be "hot and cold".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:26 PM
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Okay. I think I kind of understand what you mean. "Yes means yes" absolutely should be in play. Because consent is needed. I think where the confusion is coming in for you is when "enthusiastic consent" is needed. For me, that means happily saying yes without pressure. I have vocalised a "yes" in the past, to a man who asked me 30 times within one hour, and eventually cornered me in a small room with no chance of escape. My consent was NOT enthusiastic at that time. It was forced, much like the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:37 PM
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If a huge chunk of people are all saying that your ramblings don't make sense, maybe consider that your ramblings don't make sense. You seem to be just dismissing any of that and saying "it can't be me that's wrong! It must be everyone else!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:29 PM
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I have countless accounts of the strain of an abortion on the body and mind. Do you think it's a simple "go in, remove the baby, leave" procedure? Do you know what happens when someone gets an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:00 AM
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What does "learn your place" mean? Nothing I have said is a lie, I know how the system works because I have been through it myself and part of my job is to offer guidance whilst other people navigate child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:55 AM
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It's not easy as all. But it's a lot easier than an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:53 AM
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Fun fact! In my country, women make up the majority of the work force and work more hours than men! Mostly, women work less hours because they are the ones who are expected to take time off for child care and a man asking for time off is asked why his wife can't do it. Nice of you to assume man= works more. Congratulations, you are learning about how patriarchy harms us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:53 AM
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An abortion takes a physical and emotional strain on the body and mind too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:51 AM
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No, it is not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:51 AM
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Nope. I was born in poverty, I still live on relatively low income. I just understand the impact of an abortion and pregnancy since I have had an abortion, a miscarriage, a to-term pregnancy, and a forced abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:50 AM
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And the receiving parent is also earning money, needing to use their brain and body. Yet also just expected to "get an abortion" like it's an easy thing to do. Most jobs don't require much brain or body power, most are mindless autopilot jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:49 AM
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Ah you are going to bring in "false paternity" claims because that's all anyone says despite it being incredibly rare. Get a paternity test if you are that concerned. Although I doubt you need to be concerned, since you clearly don't know how the system works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:47 AM
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You could not imply that receiving parents don't spend the money on their child. Yeah, because I just got a second pool installed from the £144 I get per year in child support!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:44 AM
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Because it doesn't take a physical strain on your body to pay money. And the emotional impact isn't near the same level either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:42 AM
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You implied people don't spend child support on the child, so yes, you. Unless you actually know how the system works and have been a part of it, keep opinions to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:40 AM
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Do you know how much most people get paid for child support? It barely supports the child let alone the receiving parent spending it on themselves. So many people who have absolutely NO idea how the child support system works have a lot of opinions on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:27 AM
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Money and body are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:21 AM
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Why does everyone say "you can abort" like it's fucking easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 08:20 AM
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I'm not saying it's okay, just that OP's system is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:45 AM
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My ex uses my netflix/Disney plus/prime. My son is logged in to those on his Xbox at his dad's house, and his dad just uses it when my son isn't there. I also provide every thing my son needs for the one weekend a month he spends at his dad's (when his dad feels like it, it's more like one weekend every 3 months). I even send over snacks in my son's bag for him. My ex doesn't work by choice, but even then benefits state it should be £30 a month. He purposely doesn't claim benefits and lives off …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:54 AM
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Pathetic, I know 😂 At this point I take it and just give it to my son since he gets £5 a week pocket money anyway, that contributes to majority of that. Since it's such a pittance that it doesn't help towards my son's needs whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:39 AM
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You aren't suggesting he lose some of his money though. You are suggesting ALL. What if a man has multiple children with multiple people? It would be a race to withdraw or transfer his money every pay day. I know not all women would take all the money, but some would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:21 AM
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Why do you assume America = the world? Unless you're black, that's not the white woman's story. Hello! White woman here, letting you know that my ex pays £12 A MONTH towards his child's upbringing. That's not enough to pay for half of what my son eats in a week, let alone half of my son's expenses in a month. Which is what child support is supposed to do. Kids eat Cheerios, not Gucci handbags. The amount of women using child support for a lavish lifestyle is extraordinarily small, majority just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:15 AM
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Anyone saying "suck my dick" is cringe, men/women penis-havers/vagina-havers. It doesn't matter. But, I'm curious, would you view it as less cringe if the woman saying it actually did have a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:32 PM
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BDE/SDE is just a shitty was of speaking on someone's vibes and security/confidence. It isn't gendered. Which is one reason it's a terrible expression, another reason being that it always equates big dick as good and small dick as bad, which isn't strictly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:29 PM
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Anyone LGBT+ is more likely to skew liberal, yes. But look at the difference between how liberals view LGBT+ compared to how conservatives view us. The reason why is obvious. I know a lot of bisexual women, and almost every single one of them fits the criteria of "loyal". I think you just don't know enough bifolk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:28 PM
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Small/big dick energy has nothing to do with the size of the actual penis. I've known guys who were packing and had major SDE. I've also known guys who were smaller than average and had major BDE. Women can also have BDE/SDE. It's more the vibes someone gives, but it is very poorly named and I don't use the terminology myself in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:23 PM
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I'm not so sure it's interesting, just view bisexual people as normal humans who, just as other sexualities do, all have their own preferences and ideologies around sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:18 PM
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Many bisexual people do not need to "explore their sexuality". Straight people all over the world know they are straight without ever "testing out" the other gender/s. Bisexuals can know they are bisexual without "exploring". And a hook up phase isn't needed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:01 PM
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It's nice that you are putting what you think feminism is on me, but no I am happy for anyone who wants to serve in the military to serve. That's their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:59 PM
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Have you ever gone to a court over a men Vs women issue? I work with women every day who do, and courts are very much skewed in favour of men (at least in my country) even when said man is an abuser with stacks of evidence against him. In my own case, the man was favoured despite the stacks of evidence against him. Men can go to court and be tried for over 1000 cases of rape on a singular woman, and walk away with a slap on the wrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:58 PM
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Except, no, society doesn't support women and men are still very much in power and control. Feminism is about equality, which would mean listening to all genders and caring equally. Don't let the shitty radfems taint your view of what feminism actually is, which is a fight for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:45 PM
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They are not attracted to "more people" by default. Just as a hetero man isn't attracted EVERY woman, bi people aren't attracted to EVERY person. But, for the sake of what you are asking lets imagine they are attracted to more people. That doesn't mean they are more likely to open the relationship or leave. They also have loyalty, aren't always polyamorus, and a lovely/connection to their partner. I haven't ever cheated on any partner despite pansexuality meaning I am attracted to all genders. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:43 PM
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Many bi people will do this, but that is not down to bisexuality. Many homo/heterosexual people also do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:36 PM
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The sheer irony of you not wanting to "suffer" and wanting to "voice your complaints" and "not shutting up no matter how much others want you to". Those are the very foundations of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:34 PM
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Reread what you replied to, more carefully this time. The commenter said that most RP are men, you seem to have gotten them the wrong way around in your interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:31 PM
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It's just a common belief people have that bi/pan folk will always crave another gender rather than just the partner they have. I've had people not want to start a relationship with me (completely fine) because I am pansexual and therefore will eventually cheat on them, apparently. The belief itself is rooted in biphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:27 PM
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Very common misconception of bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:02 PM
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I have had men, and women (I'm pansexual), where I have looked at them and instantly thought "woof, that's an attractive person" but I still wouldn't say I am attracted to them. I just recognise that they are a beautiful human, features wise. The full attraction doesn't come into play until I have bonded a little more. I have had casual hook ups with good looking people, however a substance is usually involved such as alcohol. Or I've just been mad horny so cared less about the person it's with …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:31 PM
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I'm pansexual, and I'm in a relationship with a man. I hold women and men to the same standards, both in friendship and relationships. A person would need to tick all my boxes in order for me to consider a relationship with them, no matter their gender. I also think it's important to have a variety in friends, which is why I do have friends of more than one gender. It widens my scope, it means I can get advice and perspectives from different sides. For the same reason, I have friends ranging in …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:38 PM
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I know you didn't ask me this one, but I have an answer of how this works for me. If I find that person to tick a lot of boxes (humour, intelligence and communication is also something I look for in a friend) then I will just be friends with that person. Romantic and sexual (sex is very important to me in a relationship) compatibility also comes into play. I initially wrote my partner off as "friend" territory because, although I could appreciate he was a good looking man and he ticked boxes, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:12 PM
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I start to notice more things about the person that I find attractive that I wouldn't have noticed before, or that I wouldn't find attractive in another person. My partner, for example, the way his entire body seems to vibrate with excitement when he is happy. The way his nose crinkles when he smiles. How his hair flops over to one side when he first wakes up. How his shoulders move as he moves his arms. All these things would be just ordinary in another person, but I find them super sexy becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:02 PM
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It doesn't matter. Both would need to tick all my boxes to move into attractive territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:11 PM
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Started out strong but I don't think the categories are quite right. It probably differs person to person, but for me- a man starts in "meh" category. I can appreciate a man is good looking but not have attraction to them. But as I learn about their personality, their humour, their intelligence and how they interact with others that's when it can move into "attractive" territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:02 PM
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Dad bods are soft and cuddly, 6 packs aren't as comfortable to lay on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:20 PM
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6 packs are homosexual or happy? How can a feature be homosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:19 PM
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Why could women and men not share power in a roughly 1:1 world? It shouldn't take a higher ratio of women for women to have power. There isn't a higher ratio of men yet they have historically had all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:46 AM
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Having sex should not be seen as an "obligation" though. Would you rather a woman have sex with you because she had to, it was her "obligation" or "responsibility". Or would you rather a woman want you and want to have sex with you enthusiastically? I just don't see how non enthusiastic sex with a partner that isn't turned on is fun for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:32 AM
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Do sex workers even let you not use a condom? If you are sleeping with a sex worker, without protection, think of how many others are also sleeping with the same person without protection. Why risk your health for a little extra pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:17 PM
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I would think discussing those would be against the "no Jordan Peterson" rule.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/24 09:29 PM
2

Depends on the ages of the people. My partner is in his 30s and I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:07 PM
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I work, I get paid. I pay for me and my child with money I earn at my job. Would you be asking the same question of a single father, and automatically assume he is lying about paying his own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:07 AM
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If men date a "gold digger" that's because that's what they actively choose. Also, I pay for everything. I'm a single mother who lives just me and my child. I have a partner who I don't want to live with, and he doesn't assist me monetarily. I pay for everything for me and my child, myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:38 AM
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I wouldn't insist my daughter sleep with anybody. I would advise and encourage her not to begin a relationship with a married man, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:51 AM
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Are you missing an /s or do you seriously believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:49 AM
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Not dismiss or minimise, just point out the click-bait title.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 05:45 PM
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Because I believe in equality and equal rights for all.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 05:40 PM
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Okay?
/r/MensRights12/08/24 05:39 PM
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Not just "makes husband get a vasectomy" but adding "then divorced him" makes it seem like that immediately followed. Whereas the actual post states it was 5 years later and after the marriage his rough patches. Very click-bait-y title.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 04:08 PM
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You really don't have platonic friends of the opposite sex? I'm pansexual, if I could only be friends with the gender I'm not attracted to, I wouldn't have friends. I have friends because one person cannot encompass all my social needs. I can't go to my partner with every issue. Some things are very womanly issues and as much as my partner is understanding and caring, he never fully gets it because he hasn't experienced it. Sometimes I want advice about the relationship, it's nice to talk to mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:36 PM
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There's just not enough time in the day for 3% of men to be sleeping ALL the women. Those poor men would be shooting dust 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:04 AM
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I have borderline personality disorder and, I can't lie, it's very disheartening that everyone always mentions BPD when talking about unstable people in relationships. Especially since BPD is often due to childhood trauma. It feels like- cool, I was raped as a child and continuously molested into my teen years and now I'm unlovable as a result of how that screwed my brain up. I'm not saying you have to date people with BPD. It just hurts that so many people write us off when a lot of us try very…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:55 AM
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Not all abusers do have those things in common, though. I work with women who have been/are being abused. Some of their partners/exes have lots in common. Some couldn't be more different if they tried. Some showed early warning signs easily. Some didn't show any signs until the wedding papers were signed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:37 PM
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I don't think you understand what a partnership is. I don't WANT authority over my partner. We make decisions together and both hold the same amount of authority. One of us is not a larger part of the couple as the other. We are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:01 PM
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Just because someone is stronger, that does not mean they hold authority. I lift, I train, I have a fighting background and quick reaction time. I could 100% solve a violent situation better than my partner could. Does this mean I hold authority over him? Certainly not, that would be insane. Wanting a relationship with someone so they can say "yes sir" and roll over whenever you speak is disgusting. If you want to be a master, get a dog not a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:32 PM
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It is as much my partner's responsibility to keep me safe as it is my responsibility to keep him safe. I am an adult, I wear my big girl pants, I don't need a big strong man to keep me safe. I can look after myself. I don't need my partner for that, I have a partner for companionship and love. An air balloon pilot or scuba instructor makes sense for them to have authority as they are not in a partnership with their passengers or students. Partners are equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:51 PM
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But this conversation isn't about two sisters that are presumably children. As adults, my sister holds no authority over me. She didn't when I was a child unless my parents were not around. Two adults in a partnership should not have one person who holds authority and one person who nods their head and says "yes sir". My partner certainly holds no authority over me and would probably laugh at someone who suggested he did and invite them to talk to me. Would you be happy for your partner to hold …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:59 AM
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But why? And why does that require women to submit? Should we not be able to voice our opinions without worry of men using their strength and force?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:23 AM
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Submissive is a very common term in the kink scene. It's not weird for anyone to mix the meanings up. Although I don't suggest you go to the kink community with this looking for a "submissive" woman. Fake Doms like that get eaten alive. They will set the brats on you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:42 AM
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The woman can't demand authority because the man has greater capacity for violence. Do you know what you implied there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:37 AM
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How is "submissive" either a decent person, or a healthy lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:33 AM
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What is "unreasonably difficult"? That would mean different things to different people. An ex of mine would have described me that way for not bringing him food with a "yes sir" as soon as he clicked his fingers. What is "unreasonable unstable"? You can often help your mental health, but it's often not solvable, and is also up to interpretation since I would consider men like OP to be unreasonably unstable, but others may find him compelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:29 AM
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You keep using BMI as if it isn't an outdated tool for measuring body weight because it doesn't take into account many factors about a person and therefore doesn't give an accurate reading of someone's fat build ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:23 AM
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Yeah I was thinking the exact same. Him and Drake used a technique called 'grooming' and maybe shouldn't be looked to as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:12 AM
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Do people actually use cucumbers? I thought that was a joke. Same as men fucking apple pies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:41 PM
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Even through my autism I can sense the sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:02 PM
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I want to be seen as dark and mysterious? 😂 nope, I just like how it looks. I don't want to be perceived at all. It's very common with autism, not liking being perceived haha! And I am like a bird, I can get trapped in my own reflection. I'm awfully vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:45 PM
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What drives me is I see something and think "oo pretty" but what other people may think doesn't factor into it. If I cared for other's opinions, I wouldnt do my makeup so I look like a corpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:29 PM
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How does what I said mean any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:28 PM
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But sometimes a woman can dress for the people around her, and sometimes for herself. Sometimes those can align and that's the sweet spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:12 PM
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And what I'm saying is a person can still look attractive to others and be seen as dressing how someone else would enjoy, whilst also doing it within their comfort zone. It can be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:08 PM
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I don't care if other people perceive me as cool. I hate being perceived in any type of way. If I could not be noticed whatsoever, that would suit me just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:07 PM
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I dress however the fuck I want to though, if that appeals to some people, that's likely a reason we started a relationship. My fella loves the way I dress, which is a bonus. But I don't do it for him or anyone except myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:06 PM
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No, we don't. My style doesn't make me fit in or belong. Most of my friends don't have my style either. Maybe we do it because we like the way it looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:55 PM
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You seriously said something about women wanting to kill men if we had the chance.. on a thread about wearing makeup. Which, by the way, women have been killed for "lying" when they have worn makeup on dates. Not only are you dense, you are incredibly tone deaf about the issues happening in our world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:52 PM
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Except I don't lust after serial killers, or read rape smut. Whereas you have made an amazing spectacle of your personality in this thread. Starting with the rudeness and right up to expecting me to give a shit about your disability whilst also doubting mine. Get a life, get a job, grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:39 PM
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This has been a wonderful conversation in which you have shown what a kind hearted and lovely person to be around you are :) I can't imagine your personality has ANYTHING to do with why you are a "black pilled" incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:18 PM
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Who said I'm making fun? I'm mentally disabled myself :) I'm just having a fun conversation with you since you are so kind!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:11 AM
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Sure are! Look at you, understanding pronouns!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:14 AM
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Sure, buddy. If it makes you feel better to tell yourself that, you do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:36 PM
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Okay, lovely interaction! Enjoy the rest of your day! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:31 PM
1

So that's a yes, you are. What is an example of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:26 PM
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There's no way you are this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:20 PM
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Does make up change the appearance of a woman's face permanently?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:13 PM
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You could actually use makeup to change the appearance of your jawline, and hairline.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:07 PM
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Most women I know personally swoon for a man in eyeliner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:58 PM
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I've been cautious around men since I was 6 years old, after the first time I was assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:01 PM
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I've tried explaining the difference to you, you just cannot accept it. People like you will never learn and I have given up on trying to educate you. Continue to be unaware of the fundamentals about sex, women, and horniness. You may learn one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:51 PM
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And you still don't understand what sex, or rape, is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:45 PM
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Your entire argument falls apart the moment you imply rape is sex. They are not pursuing sex. Sex is an act between two or more consenting parties. It's never about horniness. It's always about power. Go speak to some other survivors and see if a single one agrees that their assaulter was just horny. You will have your answers. Rape is not sex, therefore it cannot be equated with how horny someone is. It's not only insulting to survivors, but to men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:44 PM
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As stated, I gave anecdotal evidence just as you did. It was a funny debate, until you decided to claim that sexual assault is a result of somebody being horny. That's just incorrect and downright insulting to survivors. Not one of my assaulters did so because they were horny. Hell I gave my ex partner sex every single time he asked for it. He was still so horny he had to rape me whilst I slept every night? Give your head a shake and rethink why you think rape happens, because you clearly don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:31 PM
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Horniness doesn't make women want to be assaulted, going into a man's bathroom would open us up to assault. That's stupid. I don't know what you think you are "winning". All you are doing is giving men an awful name by saying they cannot help but rape someone because they are so fucking horny. Horny does not give a lack of control and ethics. You can be horny and still have morality. You seriously think rape happens because someone is just so horny that they HAVE to rape someone? What is wrong w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:13 PM
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Ah yes, women using glory holes. What should I do stick my vagina right up against it? What would a glory hole do for a woman? Are you under the impression that sexual assault is due to horniness? That is not why sexual assault happens. Men don't get so horny that they HAVE to assault someone. Sexual assault is about control, abuse, and power. Not horniness. Plenty of people are incredibly horny. Assaulting someone isn't a logic conclusion, because not everyone is a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:05 PM
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By doing the same as you and providing anecdotes? Sorry you got insulted because I implied you don't make women horny but if you don't think we are just as horny as men, you're wrong. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:55 PM
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I gave you an example. Another would be that women I have been with can match my libido better than any man. You have provided anecdotal evidence, as have I.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:51 PM
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Dude I just think it's hilarious when people don't realise that women have high libidos too, just as men do. Not all men have high libidos, and not all women have low libidos. I've only been with one guy in my life that could match my libido. It isn't a man/woman thing. It's a human thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:43 PM
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I love seeing a guy in the wild who clearly doesn't know how horny a woman can be when she is around someone who makes her feel comfortable. Many women have crazy high libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:23 PM
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Abuse can be very subtle and often people dont realise they are being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:24 AM
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Then they always had the capacity for abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:33 AM
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At 18-20 years old, most people have only just left education. That isn't a lot of life and relationship experience. People at ages 30+ have usually been in relationships whether good or bad, and learned that way. That's how experience works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:33 AM
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Life experience is more valuable than you realise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:24 AM
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Control is an aspect of abuse. Some people are abusive and have the capacity to be abusive, some are not. Not everyone who has that capacity will act on it. But those that do act on it will not wait 20 years to begin to become controlling and abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:22 AM
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Because controlling people seek out those who are easier to manipulate and control, younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:18 AM
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If someone has the capacity to be controlling, they usually don't wait for a catalyst like insecurity. It's more likely that they were already controlling, just in smaller and less noticeable ways and it becomes amplified as insecurities set in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:17 AM
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If it's an age gap relationship where one is much younger and was quite young when the couple began their relationship, the older party is usually very controlling (also often involves elements of grooming). It's harder to argue in a relationship where one person controls everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:10 AM
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I could turn all of this around to say the exact same about men and abusive behaviours towards women. Does that mean I should hate men and have contempt for them? I don't think it does. Also, what world do you live in? Men don't pick apart women's bodies to dump on and shame them? That has happened for centuries, and hasn't gotten any better. You make reference to me sniggering at your responses but I have not once put you down and have been supportive of your feelings, not placed all the blame …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:29 PM
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You cannot blame the actions of 3 women on all women. I could easily write off all men as horrible and abusive due to my experiences with many different men. But I am aware that not every one of a singular gender is same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:54 PM
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You are putting so much of your self worth on one part of your body. That isn't healthy. It wouldn't be healthy for me to have all my self worth tied to how perky and great my tits look. If you seriously feel this inadequate over .3 of an inch, you have more problems than your penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:28 PM
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What am I blaming you for? PEOPLE LIKE YOU LOT ??? I know a lot of heterosexual women who are indeed wired that way. I enjoy heterosexual sex just as much and a hetero woman does, I don't see how there is a difference? I just also happen to enjoy sapphic sex, completely separate to heterosexual to me. If you are 4.8 not doing that, then you are still only .3 under the world average. That is pretty much average. Have you seen how deep 4.8" goes and where the g-spot is on the average woman? That i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:33 PM
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I've been nothing but nice and not put you down over your size at all yet you are still blaming me for something? I wouldn't have sex with a man that refused to do those things. Full stop. I don't give a shit if he used his penis or not. I just want a partner who is willing to please and work with me to maximise what pleasure we both get from the sexual activity. You say about twisting words but you're putting words in my mouth. You said in other comments you're 6"? I sincerely doubt EVERY ex is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:15 PM
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In what world is foreplay and toys emasculating? My partner (male) uses foreplay and toys with me every single time. It just enhances the experience. If someone told you to harm yourself over your penis size, that isn't your fault. That's someone else being a waste of space, you cannot change penis size. Even if you had a micropenis, that's no reason to harm yourself. It isn't something you can change. You can, however, change your attitude towards sex. Thinking foreplay and toys are emasculatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:58 PM
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But I don't have a penis, is that not "lack of"? I've also been with men with smaller than average penises. They weren't lacking in bed. I don't know what I'm supposed to be saying to you, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:43 PM
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I've seen more men say that a small dick is worthless than women say that. I don't even have a dick and I manage to pleasure women just fine. And I'm not the one claiming it is a micropenis, I'm asking you how it is... "genius".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:38 PM
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That's only .6 inches less than AVERAGE penis size, how is less than an inch smaller than average a micropenis?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:34 PM
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Id rather swap my guy's dick size than his ass, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:32 AM
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Then why not being weight and ass into this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:58 AM
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Anything except 2 and 3, the rest are negotiable and don't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:57 AM
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That's a normal arsehole, where have you seen these other anuses? A lot of porn actresses bleach there. Lay a towel down for the blood if you are both okay with having period sex.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 11:36 PM
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I've literally only ever dated 2 people over 6ft and never had a casual hook up with someone over 6ft.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 11:30 PM
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Most of my hook ups, and relationships have been men between 5'0 to 5'8.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 05:56 PM
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I've never had someone approach me in the gym but I have had people approach me outside the gym afterwards to ask me out and it's very off-putting in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 01:28 PM
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Ah okay, I was a little confused then, sorry! It really makes no sense when people say about others going to the gym for dates. Looking good to secure future dates? Sure! But at the gym? No thank you. I take my security dog (big scary-looking male friend) every time I go to the gym and he just uses the machine next to me or spots me just because I got sick of weirdos leering at me whilst I was there.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 01:20 PM
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Why would anyone approach someone at the gym anyway?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 09:50 AM
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Men do care about how much a woman makes though. A lot of men throw tantrums over a woman who makes more money than them. They would prefer she make less. Both viewpoints are fucked.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 09:50 AM
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Are those the things that you think brings a human value?
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 12:13 PM
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Incorrect, you are projecting your own insecurities onto people :)
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 11:59 AM
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Even if abusive men happen to get a relationship, they often don't keep it. Do you want someone to stay with you because they care for you, or because they are scared of you?
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 09:30 AM
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Even if you feel some people don't treat men as people (which is the biggest load of shit ever) then the response isn't to not treat women as people. Women have been treated as property for centuries, yet (majority of us, there are bad eggs in all bunches) still treat men as human people.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 06:10 AM
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I think it's important to be able to be happy and comfortable being alone before being in a relationship, so your happiness doesn't rely on another person. Also I don't understand your statement about everyone not wanting to live alone. I am in a relationship, and I'm incredibly happy in that relationship, but I do not foresee them ever living with me. I don't want to live with somebody else (except my child).
/r/ExRedPill17/05/24 11:09 PM
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If you say so, I thought you were leaving this conversation now?
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 06:08 PM
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Once again, there is a huge difference. I hate incels, and the way I will present that is by calling out the behaviour. Incels hate women, and the way they present that is by raping, beating and killing women. That is what makes them a hate group. I'll say again "get a grip man". It's no wonder your wife threatened to divorce you so often lmfao.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 04:01 PM
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I can understand both sides. I have definitely dated people due to an immediate and initial attraction. I have also spent a lot of time around people I don't have that immediate pull to. I don't find them ugly, just often not my type. With time of getting to know some people I notice small things that I think are beautiful. The way they laugh, the way their eyes light up when talking about their interests, how they behave around my child and interact with him. How they make me happy just by bein…
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 12:19 PM
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It helps society because all throughout history women have had to be silent when faced with violence. Where did that get us? Because it's still happening. Speaking out is how we fight the notion that it's okay to do those things to us. It's absolutely okay to condemn an entire hate group based on the extremists within those groups. Do you also defend racists, and homophobes? Because some of those people hold those beliefs due to terrible interactions with POC or LGBT+ community. That doesn't mak…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 11:38 PM
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That is what the incel ideology represents though. In support of incels, and defending them, you are supporting that too. And looking at your post history, that checks out.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 05:56 PM
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Yes, I hate a group of people who think literal children deserve to be raped and killed. I don't think that should be a controversial take. If you are seriously offended because someone dislikes incel ideology, maybe it's time to look at yourself and your own ideals and get some mental help.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 05:48 PM
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Incels have slaughtered women. Because the women won't fuck them. There's your difference.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 05:36 PM
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The difference is that incel is a hateful movement. Women have been slaughtered, by incels, who are citing incel ideology. If someone is advocating for men to be treated as anything less than EQUAL then they are not feminists, they are misandrist. Feminism is equal rights, for all.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 05:30 PM
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I personally can't look at a group of people who want to hurt women and hate them purely because they haven't been able to get a woman and have sympathy.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 08:44 AM
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Simply untrue. I find it uncomfortable if anybody comes up to me without knowing me and compliments my looks at all. Doesn't matter their gender, age, attractiveness, it's weird. However if someone comes up and compliments my clothes, or make up, or something like that then I happily engage in a conversation with the person and once again that doesn't matter the age, gender or how attractive I perceive them to be.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 07:16 AM
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Feminists don't blame men. Maybe research what a feminist is before you claim not to stand them.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 07:13 PM
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Even if the last part we're true, a man can be dominant whilst also being empathetic.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 07:02 PM
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I get that. I can understand your reasoning but not where the logic comes from, if that makes sense? Sorry, I am autistic and I tend to question just about everything so having different perspectives helps me understand people even if I don't quite understand their perspective.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 07:36 PM
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Thanks for giving me a proper answer! I suppose I can understand your thinking here. I don't quite understand why god believes sex to be for marriage alone, were Adam and Eve married? How? I still don't quite understand the logic behind sex devaluing somebody but I do appreciate your perspective on this, so thank you again.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:51 PM
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What part of having previous sexual partners makes someone lose their worth though? I never understood this logic so I would appreciate if this could be explained. The only explanation I've ever gotten compares women to items like cars. I'd like to hear a perspective that isn't like that if you have one.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:54 PM
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It's incredibly common for people to do this though, thats what makes it not a leap. It's wonderful that you don't think or feel that way about it, but many many many people are manipulative bastards who do think this way. It happens more than people realise.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 04:51 PM
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That's just not true. Are you a woman, or do you actually talk to women? Or is all of this based on what you see online? I am a woman, who talks to mostly women. Last couple of guys I've been with have been larger than average. The first one I didn't go back to, no amount of being careful made me able to take that without being hurt, a lot. My current partner I have to be on top mostly so I can control depth etc because that shit HURTS. Give me an average sized dick anyday.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 01:05 PM
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Just because you've never heard a woman speaking on how good a penis is that's average sized, doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 07:03 PM
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Yes. If someone thinks I look like her they clearly haven't looked at me properly. Therefore I'd be offended. Compliment me on things that actually make sense instead of throwing out something they think sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:40 AM
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Because although she is pretty, she looks nothing like me. Since most of these comments are about her weight I'll use that comparison, i am not even close to Lizzo's body type. I am also not close to Scarlett Johansson's body type. I would get offended if I was compared to either, because neither of those women look anything like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:11 PM
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