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Yeah, you meet OP's standards. But does that mean you're average? Could you still be below average? OP's main point was that average guys fuck. I think OP just did a shit of defining average. That was my point. So you get anecdotes posting "but I'm not short or fat or broke, why do I struggle?". Those stories don't disprove average guys are OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:01 PM
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I'm not OP. The average American guy is 5'9" and overweight but has some muscle (not jacked but some muscles hidden by fat), is extroverted, neurotypical, has good social skills, is basic, and isn't a virgin. There are a lot of skinny-fat socially-awkward nerdy introvert gamer guys who think they're more attractive because they're not fat. But they struggle much more with women than the other type of guy. The outgoing basic bro with a beer gut is fucking more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:50 PM
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Are you a socially awkward nerd? Why do those people think they're "average" just for not being obese? Trust me, shorter fatter guys with much higher social skills and cooler hobbies/style are fucking more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:09 PM
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Thanks for sharing that. I see how it helped your life and why you believe strongly in it. I'm glad you found a good relationship. Do you think mainstream culture doesn't advocate physical fitness, taking risks, being brave, telling women how you feel upfront, or asking women out and planning dates? I'm feminist, woke, and may count as blue-pilled (not red, black, or pink). That's why I ask. But I lost my virginity at a normal age, hit the gym young for reasons that had nothing to do with women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:36 PM
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Under 30, not 35. Single includes every Chad, plate-spinner, and gay guy playing the field. So what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:27 PM
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These are great questions! Sadly you're gonna get shit answers because most of these guys have never seriously reflected on what makes a good partner, since they're stuck in "will bone any hole that actually says yes". What do you think the pros and cons are of being in this position? Con: She might be naive and vulnerable to the wrong guys. Pro: She's young, healthy and attractive. Her kids are more likely to be healthy, and she'll really have the energy to nurture them. If she wants to marry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:07 AM
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> Even men with options though are generally very open to different types of girls though. Their “type” is just attractive girls. However, they could have any hair color, be any race, be any height, be thick, be skinny. As long as they’re attractive. No. Men with options and a type go for attractive girls of that type, and will reject other "conventionally attractive" girls who aren't that type. That's the whole point of having a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:57 AM
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A lot of men don't pay for digital services or prostitution. Most guys who do are simps or incels who never had much footing in the dating market to begin with. VR, porn, OnlyFans, sex robots and prostitutes are competing for the same market of mostly low value men. Men who already have dating options aren't going to care whether the alternative market is currently on YouPorn, OnlyFans, VR, or a brothel. For the same reason I've never even heard of AI/VR porn till you posted about it. They're no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:59 PM
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That's compared to white women. When white women get arrested for drugs, they get 3 freebies and the officer buys her a coffee. Now compare to black men ages 18-30. It's not even remotely close. Young black men are incarcerated at much higher rates. Even white men get incarcerated more than black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:49 PM
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Why do you guys fixate on corner cases of hot abusive guys who get forgiven for their abusive behavior? You forget to look at the thousands of hot guys with Chad status who aren't abusive? Incels be all like "Chad gets away with raping 11 year olds. Normal guys can't. I wish I was Chad."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:12 PM
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She's right bro. If you missed childhood swimming lessons, you don't just jump into the deep end to catch up with everyone else. It's not a race. Self-improve, but take time fixing those deficits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:56 PM
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Nah, a lot of women orbit or stay friends. Some women flip out when they get friend-zoned, just like niceguys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:30 PM
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Based on the title, I expected a very different post. This is only "bargaining power" over self-published porn, not dating. That only applies to the few men who spend money & likes on that shit. Simps? Those same women already have 0 bargaining power over the rest of men, without VR or AI. A lot of men will never use VR or AI porn either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:09 AM
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When lived experiences disagree, because they're just anecdotes, turn to the data. The data doesn't prove Chad's hoarding women. It shows imbalance. But guys who are fucking are mixed in the single group, so the data CANT say anything about Chads vs other guys, even though that's how all the incels keep interpreting it. I'm dating this great guy right now. It's still early, but it's great fun and I want to see where it goes. She would say this, but she would not say she's in a long-term committe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:50 AM
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We're already in agreement on all of this: most men (even top 20 men) will take the path of least resistance, which involves simply not bringing up "the talk' until it's absolutely necessary 60% believe it's "dating" and 40% are like "We're just fucking". You simply "see where this goes" and "we don't need to define this" Don't ask don't tell is the most common move. But that's "dating" or "short-term relationship" or "situation". They know it's not a "committed relationship" since you put off t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:01 PM
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Wow someone got triggered. Ok bro. You have "lived experience" because you had roommates and know men IRL. Other people do too. At that age I had 3-7 girls on rotation. I never lied. They knew what was going on. Some were hopeful it would lead to more, but they knew we weren't committed. Most saw other guys too. I've seen male & female friends go through all sorts of casual arrangements. Most women realize it's casual. They might hope for more, but they knew they hadn't "Defined The Relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:30 PM
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10-15%? You people have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:58 PM
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Lol 0.07%. "5/5 Red Pills. You don't belong on this planet." On the female delusion score I'm a top 0.08% male lol, so I'm not a hypocrite. I have dated many women who meet that criteria. But no wonder I have a hard time finding a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:54 PM
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The Pew study literally says single is anyone not in a long-term committed relationship or marriage. The incels think it means people who aren't interacting with the opposite sex. Such projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:30 PM
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Not obese takes out 40% of men. 50k takes out about 40% of men. Not married at ages 23-42 takes out a bunch too. So even with most American males being white and over 5'4", there are aren't many left after the other criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:08 PM
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Read the rest. If evolutionary attraction has stayed the same but men got uglier, then fewer men pass the bar. If it was relative, then the same % of men would pass the bar in 2023 as in 1993 and we know that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:25 PM
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Ok, take the data at face value. You want it to mean 60% of men are sexless, only 30% of women are sexless, so Chad's fucking all the women. That's not even what it says. Say Chad's got a harem of 10 partners. He's gonna report being "single" in the 60%. The women, if they're not dumbasses, will report "single" too. Maybe 1 or 2 naively doesn't realize she's in a situationship. Chad and his hookups are in the single group with the sexless incels and MGTOWs. The 40% not single are average guys se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:10 PM
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Over that short time frame, evolutionary instincts have not changed. But men got worse-looking, while women got better cosmetics and clothes. What outcome do you expect? Fewer men will pass her "attractive" bar, while men get thirstier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:13 AM
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Ah if you only knew. Keep believing your pilled limitations on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:51 AM
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If by cuck you mean having harems of women without paying for dates and now affording a comfortable lifestyle... can't complain bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:37 AM
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You clearly missed out on English 101
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:23 AM
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Idk context seemed obvious to me. But it also turned me on. People can't detect banter and sarcasm in text?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:19 AM
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You've never used Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:10 AM
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Maybe if you're short and bald. Don't speak for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:06 AM
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He's vanilla and not into it. That's fine. But she's flirting. He can be not into it without getting so offended. Someone else in that thread had the same read as me: she's a bratty sub looking for a dominant guy to banter and playfully put her in her place. Is it fast? Yeah. But it's also an effective way to filter down a large pool of matches, instead of needing long conversations with each. It's Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:49 AM
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I'm a man and have been flirted with like that. Not everyone does, some do. People are different. She's probably a sub looking for a certain level of dominance and banter in a guy. OP was just too pansy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:37 AM
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Hear those words in a teasing voice instead of the voice of some angry mean bully. I'd bet money that's the tone she meant it in. She's being playful and wants him to push back playfully, instead of just getting offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:31 AM
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OP is being autistic. She's blatantly flirting with him. She's acting like a naughty girl who wants to be put in her place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:27 AM
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That's Twitch. You're selecting for the nerdiest most isolated gamer addicts. Most mainstream guys don't even know what the fuck Twitch is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:18 AM
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I don't work in those fields and like my job. My point is society depends on someone stepping up to do that work (mostly men), otherwise infrastructure would collapse. So those men get paid well for that hard labor. If women expect men to do it, don't get upset when men get higher pay for different work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:46 PM
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No because skinny guys are less sexy, while skinny women are peak sexy. The equal isn't someone who looks just like you but someone equivalently in demand. Women prefer strong-looking men. Her equivalent either needs more muscle or more wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:17 PM
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Please treasure your 5'9"+ body, avoid bitter incels, and have tall babies with a tall guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:59 PM
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Shit, finally some common sense. Maybe I should join PinkPill. You accept men? People our age get mad at Boomers but don't realize they had prosperity because of the demographic surge in young able-bodied people in the workforce, women joining the workforce, immigrants joining the workforce, and fewer men dying at war. More workers means more productivity (and more tax to prop up big government). But the demographic pyramid inverted, young people refuse to grow up and work, smart healthy well-of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:51 PM
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That's a nice excuse. Women get sexually harassed and raped in Hospitality and Retail too. But they don't have to sweat outdoors while enduring that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:00 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks for putting the effort into doing the survey and analyzing the data. It's what drew me to the sub. Before I just lurked once in a blue moon. But this was a lot more informative than the usual regurgitated rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:22 PM
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In college I had 3ish, then after college 4-7 at a given time. I never lied. Most saw other guys too. Some never asked. At 7 scheduling was hard. It didn't last long. Had to double book, sometimes hooking up with 4 women in the same weekend, or getting my phone blown up from not answering messages. It cut into the ability to have a normal social life or achieve other goals, so I pared it down. Eventually I got bored of casual and settled down. Never heard of TRP or PUA then. Just normal dating. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:16 PM
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There's billionaires in the world, but we segment them away when asking about the net worth of the typical person. You don't need to for median income. They only bring up the average. If there's a big discrepancy between average & median, then you know the average is brought up by the outliers. You could report other percentiles too. Top 20%, next 20%, etc. That gives you an idea of how many guys are at the extreme end and where most people are. Saying that the typical American only has enough s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:46 PM
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Why remove outliers when they are meaningful info? In the real world, some people have very high body counts even though most don't. That's part of the story. Just report median number of sexual partners as well as mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:38 PM
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Maybe at the time. Now more than 50 years later, why don't new women enter those fields?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:20 PM
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If every woman disappeared tomorrow, some of us would be fine. I know a lot more adult men who live completely independently than adult women who don't call up men to bail them out of binds. With the current state of things, women would suffer more if all men vanished. Though a lot of men would be in emotional turmoil.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:54 PM
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Yet the second men returned, they refused to. Look at US data on the gender pay gap and employment by industry. Women fought for equality in cushy white collar office jobs. But if they can't get those white collar jobs, modern women don't want to work in Construction, Mining, Oil, or Trucking. Instead women go to less physically-demanding service sector jobs like Hospitality, Social Services, Arts, Retail... even though they pay less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:38 PM
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Tall muscular dude here. This sub is delusional. We often strike out too. But there's a much better move. Be the tallest biggest guy in the room, make an entrance, and act charming around others. You won't make all women lust after you, but one who does will come to you. Women don't all like tall muscular guys. But there are more who do than there are guys that fit that, and you stick out in a crowd, so it's not hard to pair up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:53 PM
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Never seen a Good Girl struggle. They're in high demand. The women who struggle are obese, unkempt, low-libido, and/or consume so much feminist echo-chamber stuff that they clearly harbor deep resentment against men. You can see the man-hating ooze out of her pores, and know exactly why she's still single while you have a drink with her and listen to her dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:28 PM
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My mother was a HVW. As an adult I realized most women are not, making me a lot pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:12 PM
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Yeah bro. I go for cheap Asian too. Cars are depreciating assets, and luxury features just demand more maintenance. Inefficient resource allocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:15 PM
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Women get an oxytocin boost after sexy times. It's a very real effect you see with most women after good sex. Many women have high sex drive too. Men are more visually stimulated, but that doesn't mean women don't like men. Male and female sexuality work differently. Dating app stats are about visual stimulation, but don't prove what women do or don't like in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:02 PM
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