Ionic3127 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
560	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs	Inner Game	Ionic3127	/r/seduction	09/10/25 07:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	I’m trying to become a man with options, but I’m struggling to understand how to navigate this? You have to figure out who you are apart from how others view you. You said it yourself, you made her your focus and pushed her away. You had to live life outside of women and expand yourself through the natural curiosity of your hobbies, interests, goals and sense of self. Who you are, what your priorities are, and what your goals are should be the center of your focus as a man. Purpose is attractive to women, and they can sense when your purpose as a man is extrinsically motivated rather than …	/r/seduction	02/04/26 05:10 PM
2	Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done right Curated photos: Go get a haircut and groom yourself, Upgrade your wardrobe and Find a professional photographer and take some professional pictures Make sure your photos highlight two things: What you’re passionate about doing/What hobbies and interests are important to you & Your photos project that well You have to sell/market yourself well to secure dates off dating apps so what you put into it is what you get out of it	/r/seduction	04/03/26 11:17 PM
5	older guys getting younger girls I’m 27 and I don’t date anyone younger than 25. It’s a complete risk. Between 18-24 most women are in college and just graduated college, and they’re well aware of that fact too. That time period for women is spent enjoying their youth, because they still have time in their life to make mistakes and grow up. So the vast majority of the time they’re not looking for anything serious either because they know this or because they’re not mature enough to see what life is like ahead of them yet. A lot…	/r/seduction	27/02/26 12:26 AM
1	How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs? Nightclubs are very chaotic environments with small windows of opportunities. As someone who thrives in bars where great conversations is paramount and timing is more patient, nightclubs to me seem catered to people who wouldn’t mind capitalizing on those surface level, quick moments. Nightclubs are very hit and go, very heavily catered towards looking and being seen rather than actually taking the time to establish a connection. It’s why certain people love them, and why certain people hate the…	/r/seduction	25/01/26 09:39 AM
9	Do women instictively know when you have options? You typically are ripped or extremely toned. At 12-13% your abs are extremely visible	/r/seduction	19/01/26 04:02 PM
1	Should I just breakup w my gf and get back to the game The grass is greener where you water it. Sure, you could take your chances and gamble being single with the hopes of landing a woman that’s a better fit for you. However like anything in life, improving yourself will improve your outcomes in dating just like anything else. The woman you think you’ll get probably won’t want you unless you put some work into yourself. People are replaceable, but they’re not substitutions. If you’re having these thoughts about your gf, have you tried motivating her…	/r/seduction	05/01/26 04:39 AM
18	There Are Guys In This Sub Who Don’t Know The Difference Between “Sexual Attraction” and “Physical Attraction “😳 The art of detachment. Don’t focus on the outcome but rather capitalize on being in the moment. Working on yourself in a way that maximizes the chances of you being a really enjoyable person in the moment has landed me more much spontaneous hookups than intentionally looking for it.	/r/seduction	02/11/25 09:55 PM
5	seduction is easy once you know this Appearance does matter, but not in the way most men think. Hygiene matters, a sense of style matters, and being presentable matters. Fellas a fresh haircut and eyebrows done (get your eyebrows threaded… it’ll do wonders) goes a veryyy long way. Couple that with a decent outfit and you’re golden. Clip your nails, brush your teeth, bring some gum and before you get out your car to meet her or go out, spray some cologne on you (especially behind the ears) so it stays on you. I keep cologne in my ca…	/r/seduction	24/10/25 09:22 PM
1	What has been the best places to create an opportunity to meet women and date them ? Decenter women from your life and look to lead your own life. The moment I started doing that, II started having more success no matter where I went. To answer your question vary your environments. Bars/night life is very low risk low reward. It’s a great environment for practicing your game and charisma, but won’t rear much results if you’re looking for a long term relationship. Not everyone who goes out is looking for a relationship, a lot of people may be looking for a quick hookup, quick fix…	/r/seduction	22/10/25 05:23 PM
4	I don't think race that matters when it comes to seduction I think as long as people don’t put down others or members of their own racial community to justify the preferences of the people they date then no it doesn’t matter. You tend to see this a lot in interracial dating, lots of self hate projection and racial isolation.	/r/seduction	21/10/25 04:56 PM
14	Why I quit dating apps forever (and what I now do instead) Hit the nail on the head there towards the end. If men lead their lives wanting to do better and be better, women will gravitate towards them looking for that same leadership in their own lives too.	/r/seduction	21/10/25 02:11 PM
26	Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me? Sucking their clit does a whole lot more for a lot of women than the motion of your tongue. When used gently (and with gradual pressure) and with circling your tongue or flicking their clit they will definitely orgasm for sure. Asking helps as well, pay attention to the way her body responds when you give it. I always make it a point to let them know to be vocal in what they want, because at the end of the day I want to please them. There’s no shame for asking for help, once you learn her body t…	/r/seduction	14/10/25 02:57 PM
4	What are your guys’ go to openers for when doing day game? “What kind of trouble are you getting into today?” Followed by ”You look like a trouble maker”. Gets them to loosen up, it’s a little tease and gets them talking about themselves	/r/seduction	14/10/25 12:38 AM
1	As a 21M what are some of the best ways to show women 24-49 that they can take you seriously? Best thing you can do is be yourself. Lead your own life, be intentional in focusing on all aspects of your life (Physical Health, Mental Health, Wealth, Social Life & Personality). If you want to be seen as a leader to women, you first have to lead your own life. Most importantly, don’t let your age define you. Yes some women will make it a point to bring it up (I experience this as a 26 yro male talking to women at bars who are over there) but quietly own up to it. It’s a small test to see if …	/r/seduction	13/10/25 08:16 PM
1	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs Just avoid women who lead their femininity with expectations. Like paying a bill, earning over 6 figures or looking a certain way is all the sudden going to “unlock” their femininity with a cheat code. That’s them telling you that you’re not their type. Avoid women like that	/r/seduction	12/10/25 04:27 PM
1	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs Not necessarily, I think it’s just that minority of women who perpetuate that has made such an impact on the majority of men that men have adapted to that response	/r/seduction	12/10/25 01:56 PM
1	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs It’s a grind man, and I’m no saint. It gets hard for me too. But I’m proud of you man, we’re all in this together	/r/seduction	11/10/25 01:40 PM
5	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs To put it simply in dating and relationships, you are who you attract, and you are what you put up with. If men and women put more work into improving themselves for the better, it will lead to better outcomes in dating. That isn’t to say don’t approach people who you are attracted too, but don’t go into dating thinking someone else has to prove anything to you before they get a basic level of respect. Don’t go into dating leading with expectations/looking to work extremely hard in doing so. Whe…	/r/seduction	11/10/25 01:39 PM
1	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs You can. Some goals take longer than others. The key is, take advantage of the time you have right now to actualize goals with shorter timelines. If that means working out everyday, going to therapy 2-4 times a month, practicing your social skills, it’s still work. Then when that big promotion lands, you’ll have that accomplished as well as other goals. Just have to make better use of your time	/r/seduction	10/10/25 03:10 PM
2	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs It’s easier said than done. Spent a lot of months trying to gain the validation from my ex gf. When I finally saw how pointless it was and turned that attention to myself only then did she start to notice and act different. It was too little too late but once you understand this vital lesson life starts to look up for you, you have better outcomes in life.	/r/seduction	10/10/25 03:08 PM
6	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs Subjugating women’s rights is not leading. True leadership is allowing people the autonomy to be who they are and them still making the conscious decision to follow you. Also I don’t think you read my post. Perhaps I was a bit vague. Working on ourselves as men encompasses everything. Physical Health, Mental Health, Wealth, Social Skills & Personality/Charisma. All those things are important in growth as a man. When those are worked on, the rest becomes easy	/r/seduction	10/10/25 03:05 PM
9	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs All that means is that you have to do more work on yourself and figure out why that is. The work never stops, you don’t ever “peak” as a person. The grind is forever	/r/seduction	10/10/25 03:02 PM
3	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs I’m rooting for you man	/r/seduction	10/10/25 03:00 PM
7	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs Focus on yourself and women will be attracted to what you’re building regardless	/r/seduction	10/10/25 02:59 PM
4	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs It’s relevant because it’s allowed women to make femininity transactional and conditional. A lot of women feel like they’re becoming empowered by simply adding more standards and expectations from the men they want thinking that give them what they looking for. The reality is, expecting more from others when you don’t have those same standards for yourself is silly.	/r/seduction	10/10/25 02:57 PM
9	Become the man who attracts, not the man who begs With a defeated attitude you won’t. You already lost before you even tried	/r/seduction	10/10/25 02:55 PM
5	Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy? If woman are open to you approaching at the bar, if a woman does a double take with you at the bar, etc	/r/seduction	09/10/25 02:12 AM
5	Pro Tip: Make friends with women It always pays to have friends with women. They’re excellent in giving advice in dating, more sympathetic, and sociable as well. You can go out with them and they can be good wingman too. All in all it gives you very good practice in being comfortable around women	/r/seduction	26/09/25 03:28 PM
13	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. Learn to take your losses gracefully. They might even change your their mind when they see you do it	/r/seduction	07/04/23 07:53 PM
1	Drugging raping and robbing boys when she was younger Come on, be realistic. When has a guy who lured women in the under the pretense of “dating” only to rob and drug them has not been suspected of date rape?	/r/PussyPass	27/03/19 08:12 PM
12	Drugging raping and robbing boys when she was younger It doesn’t matter. If a man replicated this same behavior with a woman, it would be classified as a date rape.	/r/PussyPass	27/03/19 02:40 PM
20	Drugging raping and robbing boys when she was younger It’s implied. She says she used the men’s desire for sex to lure them into drugging and robbing them. She also said she did this with men who she was dating. I’m sure the last aforementioned statement is where people are coming to the conclusion she raped them. I see this falling under date rape.	/r/PussyPass	27/03/19 12:32 PM