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California reported a suicide rate last month that basically equaled an entire year. No idea what the gender breakdown of it is, but normal people recognize that as horrific no matter what the attributes of the person are.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 03:46 AM
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Her Twitter is like a masters thesis in winding logical fallacy on top of itself into a self referential mess of bullshit framing relying on logical fallacy and outright lies. I found a tweet in which she digs in on how men who do dangerous work are selfish. That “men” love to claim high workplace fatally rate but most work safe jobs, therefore no. “Men” aren’t working dangerous jobs because most of them don’t Wait.... wouldn’t this mean that since even fewer men are harming women and abusers, t…
/r/MensRights24/05/20 09:02 AM
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How rude! I bet she was hoping the judge would say “you got it, dude!” Or at least have mercy on her situation.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/20 10:40 AM
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I hope she gets hit by a bus the day she is released from prison. Not killed though. Paralyzed from the neck down, and also somehow in constant pain.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/20 11:13 AM
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It situations like this, it’s important to use whichever restroom is open.
/r/MensRights26/04/20 11:41 AM
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I’m really sorry you don’t have any bros to code for you. We don’t give a fuck about many. You need to be included in someone’s few.
/r/MensRights19/04/20 11:02 AM
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Largely doesn't mean entirely. I agree with a lot of what you've said.
/r/MensRights02/01/20 10:18 PM
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No, I’m not justifying Discrimination against anybody. I’m saying that a lot of how and why society works the way it does is because of self selected roles that are often influenced by sexual dimorphism. Feminists are anti-male, and lots of men are also anti-male. What’s not anti male is saying, let’s appreciate what men do for society. That it costs lots of male lives for us to have what we do. That “disposability” is the attitude. If there were gratitude for the sacrifice it wouldn’t be “dispo…
/r/MensRights01/01/20 02:16 AM
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Let me try to rephrase it then: We will always die in greater numbers; and I’m fine with that. We will always be the majority fighting wars, doing dangerous jobs, etc, And frankly, that’s okay. In that I’m okay with this imbalance, men are in practice more disposable, we self select it. And that’s okay.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 09:43 PM
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“ I feel like as a whole society is never really going to change until both genders are held to the same standards at every level.” Nah. See this is where things got fucked. My wife and I don’t split Household chores “evenly”, wanna know why? Because I’m taller, stronger and prefer doing the more manual labor. I prefer it for lots of reasons. One of them is that it feels really wrong to watch my wife wrestle with things that aren’t a struggle at all for me. We can’t be held to the same standard,…
/r/MensRights31/12/19 12:13 PM
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No, there are very easy to observe ways to see proof of a round earth and fully comprehend it. My point wasn’t that it’s wrong to believe an authority about something beyond your own person comprehension, it’s that they argue precisely that very thing against religion. I’m not religious, nor anti climate science being a valid science, I was merely pointing out an inconsistency in their application of logic.
/r/MensRights08/11/19 06:49 PM
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Shocking stupidity. I was banned from r/atheism for saying that people follownclimate change science mostly based on faith, and that very few in any of them fully grasp the science they so readily point to as obviously correct. Basically i got banned for pointing out that belief in a concept because an authority says so is pretty close to faith, which they hate so much, and were posting about someone calling this concept out as being so dumb. I got banned from r/atheism for disagreeing with a po…
/r/MensRights08/11/19 02:46 PM
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It’s not pussypass at all. Yeah. What it is, is society going apeshit because of the gender of two astronauts. I had to DIG to find info on what they were actually doing: what was the mission. No. Even nasa was tripping over themselves to promote the gender of the astronauts, and wrote several paragraphs about the significance of an all women mission. Wrote a very short blip about what their mission was. This is more “the most interesting part about you, is that you’re a woman.”, said all of soc…
/r/PussyPass19/10/19 11:22 AM
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No. That woman was told to exit my life. She promptly went and told everyone I hit her, though i did not. I have a wife who is kind and caring and wonderful. No discipline required because she is an adult who can simply have conversations to work things out.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 12:04 PM
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A woman who has a tattoo there in fact did hit me.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 11:42 AM
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Lolz Well, that you were cool and comfortable enough to flip the joke/prank around says you are cool enough to play the prank on. The one playing a prank has no right to get angry when the prank either backfired or is flipped back around. Also... “you flashed my boyfriend!” Haha so what!? First, you didn’t. You wore a suit. Second, so what!? You didn’t seek to show him your boobs, exactly, you sought to flip the script. In other words your motivation had nothing to do with him seeing you. But ma…
/r/PussyPass23/09/19 11:59 AM
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... r/incel is leaking.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 01:46 PM
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I think the desire for vengeance fades after the sorrow sets in and you realize nothing brings them back. At that point, you see that all that a harsh penalty brings is more suffering to more people... it’s hard, but empathy is always the most powerful emotion for healing. That said... an indignant remorseless asshole would have a much harder time finding that empathy, from even the most cerebral and kind of people. And rightly so.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/19 09:18 AM
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I’ll be your pen pal.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 12:22 PM
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I’m six feet tall in metric inches!
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/19 01:29 AM
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If either parent requests it, all parties dna should be tested.
/r/MensRights19/09/19 04:17 AM
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Woah.... woah.... So wait. If a guy sleeps with a girl, they both regret it afterward for whatever reason: raped each other?
/r/MensRights15/09/19 02:45 PM
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Indeed. Isolating for 18-30/35 is hard to do. Thanks for discussion instead of being an ass. Appreciated. Suicide is like.... an indicator that things have gone beyond repair. The rate this happens is the point of maximum failure. It could supposed that after a life of struggling and trying to find a way, a person takes their life at 50 because it has been 30 years of discouragement.... I dunno. What I do know is that society sees the problems of you men and laughs at them. They get no support. …
/r/MensRights10/09/19 12:10 PM
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I'm not saying sex sells. In fact that's completely not at all what I'm saying. Additionally my original comment on OP's post was to say, the dating world is only one dimension this plays out, and its a very narrow view. I am not suggesting that I can use the sex appeal of a young woman to market my business. I'm saying society doesn't give a fuck that I gave an 18 year old dude a job welding, or plumbing, or working on cars. But you put a woman in the same role and talk about promoting women in…
/r/MensRights10/09/19 01:44 AM
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Bullshit. I’ll give you an example: I run a small business doing a typically masculine thing. I have the chance to hire two people. 18 year old boy 18 year old girl. Both fresh out of trade school. I’m a small business, so marketing matters a lot in growing a business. I want to attract attention to my business on social media, I can promote women in stem and trades and maker women, blah blah. So. No. It’s not just sex. Young single childless women are out competing their male counterparts in th…
/r/MensRights09/09/19 10:18 PM
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The reality is actually worse... Young men and young women are treated entirely differently. The key difference is that society places value on women for being women. It is part of biological programming: women are to be protected because they are more crucial to species wide survival than men. That biologically driven bias results in social differences. Take a look at a young woman’s Instagram account. Support, kind words, well wishes, compliments for days. Young men don’t get the level of supp…
/r/MensRights09/09/19 12:38 PM
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Well, yes but framing it within the concept of dating is stupid. It’s larger than just dating.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 11:50 AM
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As far as, forgiveness, path to rehabilitation, victims becoming victimizers, and someone not becoming a serial pedophile after impulsively acting on a teenage hormonal confused urge.... okay, I mean I’m pretty big on considering both sides to the situation, and having empathy for what lead someone down a path to make such a choice. Up to a point. And while it’s fine to discuss the grey areas and what is appropriate to respond with, how we can work as a society to rehabilitate... fine. But try t…
/r/MensRights02/09/19 01:50 PM
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Yes but people believe there is active gender discrimination where there is none. there is selective freedom.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/19 02:32 AM
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Did she just assume the gender of 389 people!?
/r/MensRights16/08/19 12:05 PM
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Not irrational at all. There are wackos out there. You just try to be friendly and suddenly you’re defending yourself against insane accusations from people who are your neighbors. It happens. I just refuse to let that sort of shit close off what I can offer the world. Even if that’s as simple as letting a little kid pet my dog.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 04:49 AM
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Normal people don’t. Having a dog helps people see you as less threatening. I work around kids in a volunteer capacity from time to time. Honestly I keep a few simple rules and it’s no worries. Never be alone with a kid, and never touch them without proper permission (safety checks for helmets being on and buckled, etc). I’ve never had a problem or had weird looks. Like another commenter in this thread, I too an a bigger guy with a beard. No problems.
/r/MensRights14/06/19 03:39 AM
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Maybe they should have just removed your anus as well, and given you a colostomy bag, that way you wouldn’t have to worry about having a dirty anus either. Removing body parts for the sake of cleanliness is moronic. Pretty much everybody in the USA has access to a daily shower.
/r/MensRights05/06/19 05:47 PM
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Ah, this tactic. We will pretend the sentiment was not shared as a featured trait of “women”, just an innocent statement, true of all humans... okay. Sure.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 10:19 PM
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This is very poor logic. Much of what you say is correct. Your integration of that information into your life is extreme. Female movements behaving irrationally and refusing to engage because their perception of men is formed using the same logic you’re using about women...? Hmmm. Weird parallels there huh? Yes. Men are valued less biologically, and society follows suit. Now there is a patronizing movement to promote women in all things. It’s annoying as Hell. I get it. There are male only space…
/r/MensRights31/05/19 03:08 AM
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It’s unfortunate that only a few hours ago I was having a back and forth between myself and another poster to this sub. He used the phrase “the truth about women” and implied they all lie. But yes. Imagine if people had such awful ideas...
/r/MensRights31/05/19 02:45 AM
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I mean, okay. If you think representing the men’s rights movement as you’re doing it is working out, by all means, continue on. I also would be very interested to hear all about “the truth about women” as told by u/serreptitioussoidog Please do elaborate upon your thoughts.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 01:02 AM
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“The truth about women”... Gee, we wouldn’t want to generalize, would we?
/r/MensRights30/05/19 10:21 PM
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So there are slightly fewer choices after getting pregnant than there were before. Congrats, you now are one step closer to being a man.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/19 12:12 PM
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Being a condescending asshole is a shitty thing to do. Attributing sexism where there is none is also a really shitty thing to do.
/r/MensRights17/03/19 01:45 PM
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A kid said “what is that?” So she flew into a rage and punched him repeatedly...? Because she is racist and sexist? Hm. Well....
/r/PussyPass16/03/19 12:05 PM
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Hah.... I am part of a few men’s groups who focus on making men the best versions of themselves they can be. I’m going to have to ask them about some of these ideas you guys have around here. It’s amazig how risk averse all of you who choose to argue with me because I’m not going to mistrust a fantastic woman and deny a marriage and family because the law is poorly written. She could also get me arrested and my gun rights stripped simply by living with her. All she would have to do is blacken an…
/r/MensRights13/02/19 12:29 AM
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I cannot ignore your addiction to straw men arguments any longer. Have a good one.
/r/MensRights13/02/19 12:26 AM
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Yep. I expressed my opinion that overly cautious people miss out. And for me, from my perspective that is a cowardly way to live. And still I agree that these laws are unfair and need to be changed. Weird how I won’t let other peoples bullshit stop me from living life how I want to. I am a trip, huh? Yeah... it’s a trip having multiple “once in a lifetime” experiences because of a willingness to take some risks.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 07:47 PM
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Wrong. My words would indicate that not going on a hike at all, or beyond a specific distance, or only allowing yourself to hike inside of cell phone range for fear of injury, rather than making a careful decision like one based on weather. See you’re looking at the law as a fixed variable that is not worth the risk. For your analogy you chose bad weather on a hike. To follow your analogy, I’d point to what a “through hiker” must deal with, which is hiking in all weather conditions. For them, th…
/r/MensRights12/02/19 07:45 PM
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I’m not saying choosing not to participate makes a man a coward. I’m saying doing so out of fear of poor decision making, or fear of being taken advantage of (reasons not to marry the woman regardless of the law) is a cowards reasoning. You don’t have to agree with me. And i agree with changing laws so they don’t favor one gender over another in divorce court. I just think a woman worth marrying and a relationship well managed doesn’t result in a man being totally ruined just because the law all…
/r/MensRights12/02/19 02:06 AM
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That’s not what i said at all. You’ve so severely misunderstood or misrepresented what I said, that for you to call my comment “dumb” is brutally ironic. What i said was an attitude like the one displayed in the original post would result in a life of mediocrity. Avoiding anything with sizable risks, needing things to be perfectly in line to move forward, unable to trust a handshake deal.... What’s laughable is your inability to understand that I was speaking more broadly than just about women/r…
/r/MensRights12/02/19 01:58 AM
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I agree with default 50/50. I don’t agree with not participating because of unjust laws. It’s as simple as that, and you’re acting like saying men should step up and both work to change the laws, while also being husbands and fathers, is an awful sentiment. It’s an OPINION. MY opinion. Personal freedom is what you are talking about. Not personal responsibility. The ability to choose not to participate isn’t a responsibility it’s a freedom. I’m not “shaming” anybody. That’s some weak ass percepti…
/r/MensRights11/02/19 01:59 PM
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What do you do to change this or help men in your community, outside of keyboard warrior on reddit? You missed my point entirely. How do you propose young men have access to fathers? What have your efforts changed within the system? How do we prevent young men from growing up fatherless, and solve the issues with the legal system surrounding marriage and parental rights? By not participating at all? That’s entirely impractical. Your concepts are as well formed as the green new deal. Nonsense and…
/r/MensRights11/02/19 01:35 PM
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I already told you I know the system is flawed. In my first post. I helped him out financially to get back on his feet and was his friend. I know what he went through. I have read plenty. And without reading them, I’m sure your cases you’ve linked are horrific. Being vulnerable in the right setting is a good place to be, because it generally means you’re caring for important things. But this isn’t going to get through to you. Your attitudes are not rooted in falsehoods. I’m aware of that.... you…
/r/MensRights11/02/19 01:12 PM
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An attitude like this will ensure that your life peaks at mediocrity at best. All the greatest experiences require a little risk. Relationships are no different. Women are fantastic, you’re missing out. Unless you’re gay. In which case disregard.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 01:06 PM
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Prenup that covers you guys being a middle class family both bringing in X income and you agree to a 50/50 splitnon shared possessions and savings, and no alimony. But then she gets pregnant with a few kids and you support her for 17 years while she is a stay at home mom. Prenup doesn’t touch this concept, so it doesn’t prevent alimony: only covered when you were equal partners. Prenups have to be well written, or yes, they get tossed.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 01:04 PM
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Avoiding the system altogether harms young men who need fathers. Abandoning the system is a bad idea. Acting like feminists is a bad idea. If I misinterpreted your words, I’m sorry. Also it’s great you read Jordan’s book. I am disagreeing with the methodology that OP’s post advocates. Not saying it’s factually false. Lots of things can be factually true but also propose foolish actions to solve it. Flat tire on the car! (Fact!) drive on only 3 wheels is the solution! ...? no. Doesn’t work, not f…
/r/MensRights11/02/19 01:00 PM
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A man who is not married and left his home will fight much harder to win any custody. Am abandoning parent of any kind will always have a harder time than they would had they stayed. Being married, in many states, is helpful to men in the court systems when trying to get custody. Being a “boyfriend” when mom has new daddy right there.... eh, you’re disposable. But yeah.... after helping my buddy go through his wife leaving him and keeping custody of his son, I am ignorant as fuck, right? You’re …
/r/MensRights11/02/19 12:56 PM
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Thanks. I like the idea of this sub. I dislike the folks who believe that acting like the polar opposite of radical feminists is helpful to anybody.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 12:52 PM
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Alimony is easily removed from the table by a good prenup. If you never want kids, that’s totally cool. Marriage doesn’t matter much then. If you ever do, or simply value the concept of being joined together by a bond more than a casual promise, marriage has its value and you can manage the risks in many ways. Or you can do the radfem bidding and help destroy traditional families, leaving even more boys to grow up with no fathers.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 12:49 PM
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You realize that your ability to have rights to your own kids is helped by a marriage right? You care about “men’s rights”? Then care about how boys need their dads around. I am lucky my wife is so great. But I could’ve married a couple other women... or my wife and I could have bailed out when times were tough. Shit might still go wonky and result in divorce. I’m saying my wife is not the person to harm another in any way, use of court system included. I understand the system is broken. I simpl…
/r/MensRights11/02/19 12:47 PM
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I knew people like you would be upset. Go read Jordan Petersen’s book. Learn what the value of a family means and stop acting like the opposite side of the pendulum for a radfem. You sound just like one. You’re rallying against traditional family settings. How can men possibly learn to be proper men without a father? Your plan essentially dooms men to never have a chance at having a dad. You are literally behaving as every radical feminist does, to the point of now helping them accomplish the de…
/r/MensRights11/02/19 12:37 PM
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I’m a few years away from having been with my wife for half my lifetime. I feel sorry for men who are so afraid to fail that willfully being vulnerable with another person is a bridge too far. I haven’t lost my friends. I’ve gained friends. I’ve gained respect. I have gained more of my own space, my sex life leaves me with no complaints, money is on a good trajectory, having a partner in my wife to make our money go farther when we put it together and make decisions together is helpful as well. …
/r/MensRights11/02/19 05:20 AM
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I would expect this in the Middle East...
/r/MensRights10/02/19 12:25 PM
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I have had multiple “men” argue with me that there is nothing wrong with the ad.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 05:08 AM
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It’s a term that means “everybody but white people.” It is a term that needs to die. It’s such a nonsense phrase... andnyoure right, get the word order right or you’re an awful person who is racist.
/r/PussyPass10/01/19 11:43 PM
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WHAT THEY PRETEND THEY ARE: Joirnalisfs who take on edgy and fringe topics, and cover them acirately with deep dive style reporting. WHAT THEY REALLY ARE: After Vice news lost its best journalists and only risk taking staff members, as well as a founding member, Vice became sort of like Huffposts sister who wants to seem tough and edgy, so she says her favorite band is linkin park, cause she is into hardcore metal. They write with bewthink style applications of social norms and apply intersectio…
/r/PussyPass10/01/19 10:18 AM
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American society has gone nuts. I don’t exactly know why. My best explanation is we have lots of shelf centered people who lack principles. Best of luck. Grind that shut out and find a cheaper place to learn the same shit.
/r/PussyPass07/01/19 01:13 PM
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Are they...? I’ll take having a blast laughing at ten year old inside jokes with my best friend (wife) and our dog on a hike in beautiful mountains followed by some wine, and then home to make delicious dinner, perhaps out to a local restaurant, and then home to chill and watch some Netflix... But yeah sure... Netflix booty calls are excellent too I’m sure.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/01/19 05:14 AM
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I’ve worked in a blue collar trade for well more than a decade. Sara Wheale is speaking about her experiences in a different trade, in a different country. But the culture of the blue collar crowd is very much the same. Genuine kind people, always that one dickhead. But everybody knows he is a dickhead, and avoids him. Watch “dirty jobs”, the same is displayed. People who love to laugh, are generous with their time and resources, will teach you all they know, and want to see you do well. Guess h…
/r/MensRights24/12/18 03:15 PM
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Zero reason to “be quiet” here. You’re welcome here and asking questions and participating is appreciated. At worst you might get some downvotes. Thanks for joining our doscussions.
/r/MensRights24/12/18 02:21 PM
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Data source?
/r/MensRights24/12/18 07:01 AM
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I love the “yeah but those male victims are victims of OTHER MEN committing the crimes! ...ok? Does that negate the victims experience because they share a gender with their attacker? Hey, turns out more women are abused in domestic violence situations by other women! Or at least that lesbian relationships have more violent abuse percentage wise than men... don’t worry about those women. They weren’t victimized by men. So it’s okay.
/r/MensRights23/11/18 11:36 AM
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It might have a lot to do with the fact that every human required a woman to be safe and cared for, fkr 9 months to make them. Socially we have historically viewed this as of the utmost importance, as it is at the very core of human existence. Men want the best women to raise their kids and lend their dna to creating kids. Historically you’d make 6 and 2 or 3 would reach adulthood. A woman’s job was to create the future of humanity. Women who did not were called spinsters... Some of this history…
/r/MensRights21/11/18 10:12 AM
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In the U.K. rape requires one to penetrate another. “Being forced to penetrate” does not count as rape in the U.K.
/r/PussyPass11/08/18 02:24 AM
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Shshsha!!
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/18 12:01 PM
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Unless she is a republican woman. I fucking can’t stand either party. If you’re a woman and todays society doesn’t feel like it is pandering to women, you have lived a very privileged life.
/r/MensRights14/07/18 11:08 AM
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She is 100% making the “I’m guilty of a sex crime” face.
/r/MensRights03/07/18 01:54 AM
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Tonight my wife and I sat down. We places food items into our mouths and moved our jaws shut. We released this process. We salivated as this occured, after mushing the food item using our teeth and produced saliva, we swallowed it. Of course, there is a name for that process. It’s called eating. Much like when we describe the act of forcing sex upon someone we are simply defining a word we all already know: rape.
/r/MensRights03/07/18 01:52 AM
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I got into a Facebook discussion which turned into multiple fat ugly feminists with shit for brains calling me trash. I never spoke in even a remotely insulting way. The post was a share from a woman who was sexually assaulted posting about her horrible experience and then saying “men are trash” at the end. Facebook removed the post and suspended her for a time period because the “men are trash” got flagged as hate speech. What i said was “should victims of sexual assault or other violent crimes…
/r/MensRights01/07/18 05:03 AM
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If this person wrote a headline about eating a pizza, they’d probably say “a man was observed placing slices of pizza into his mouth. Compressing his teeth to sever a piece of the pizza, repeatedly smashed it between his teeth, eventually swallowing the the small piece he severed with his teeth.” You mean he ate some pizza? “No. Men cannot eat pizza”.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 12:19 PM
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This bathroom stuff is insane. I use whatever bathroom I want, if the urgency demands it. I’ve been doing this since 2003 or so. Nobody cares.
/r/MensRights15/06/18 11:13 AM
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I wonder how the workplace deaths being 93% men effects the wages earned by men vs. women? men with a low level of education, but a strong back and a willingness to risk injury or death, can earn more money by doing so. Women can too, but this is a classic case where feminists not only aren't clamoring for more women in risky dangerous jobs, but they also are happy to ignore the fact that this is yet another factor contributing to men earning more money on the whole, than women. It's just funny …
/r/MensRights13/06/18 10:45 PM
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of Course they’d need to see all of it: her judgement regarding what was considered technical and allowed to be shown to the public is specifically what is being screened for. “Here are all the sentences with technical info.” Oh good, she submitted a portion for review, happened to mention a seemingly insignificant detail elsewhere and it slipped through because we didn’t read the whole thing.... right.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/18 10:32 AM
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Yep. I misread it for sure. I do know what those words mean. Ass.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 03:24 AM
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Your statement is hyperbolic at best. I’ll agree so far as to say, there are probably many brilliant people who struggle with the finer aspects of grammar. Your statement implies the least capable of communicating their thoughts via written word are among the most intelligent. This is obviously not true.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 02:41 AM
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Its a very common mistake. Illustrating the error in a sentence helps remember the error in context. It’s important. If he types a reddit title this way, he writes emails this way. It reflects upon your intelligence even though perhaps it shouldn’t. It’s a favor, if you choose to see the greater context.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 09:55 AM
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Nice bot. Reminds me of the Scottish court system.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 02:35 AM
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Not trying to be a dick but this is one of my major pet peeves. It’s never, ever “would of”. Let’s look at the following sentences: “You should have received the letter by now. Have you?” “Yes, I have”. Or “You should of received the letter by now. Of you? “Yes, I of”. The contraction you were looking for is, “would’ve”. Thanks for endulging my pedantic, correcting, jerk-faced ways.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 02:33 AM
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I post occasionally in theDonald, here, and a couple other subreddits. I’ve never once posted in twoX. I was notified I was banned last week.
/r/MensRights28/04/18 12:09 PM
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“Do you not realize that”. You saying “that’s not your place to say” is an opinion expressed by a stranger on a message board. Just like my post was an expression from a stranger on a message board. This is, by definition, my place to say. So, It’s not a matter of my realization of an objective reality, but rather my disagreement in opinion expressed in the proper place to do so. I’m not making decisions for people, or trying to. It’s a custom for lots of folks for various reasons, all of which …
/r/MensRights10/04/18 01:35 AM
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The only reason to do this at all is if a person has medical issues that require the procedure. Any other reason is tribal in nature, cosmetically motivated, or medical benefits are argued that are not based on any sound research. These reasons are acceptable for a person to make for themselves, but I do not believe they are reasons to decide for someone else, to remove part of their genitals.
/r/MensRights10/04/18 01:24 AM
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Please take this outside of personal values and opinions, and explain what is backward and broken about urging parents of boys to consider not having a cosmetic procedure done to their baby boy’s penis?
/r/MensRights09/04/18 11:16 AM
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A) I was half joking. B) to specific further, and be more precise I’ll say, most teenage guys who learn to play an instrument hope to one day impress a potential romantic interest with the skill, this may rank low on the scale of priority but it’s in there. MGTOW sounds pretty lonely. Good luck to you in your choice.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 04:04 AM
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Panel 1: I saved every bit of my money earned by working 3 Jobs and not buying that sweet mountain bike I wanted, or anything else. I spent all of my savings on a down payment, and, renovating the house over the month before we moved in. I gutted the kitchen, replaced all the cabinetry, the 40 year old stove, installed a dishwasher where none existed, and bought a new fridge. I removed a wall in the kitchen and finished it out. I build a custom countertop, and I continue to work on finishing the…
/r/MensRights07/04/18 09:28 PM
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Lots of generally smart people buy into these simplistic, single root source, social concepts. I would guess because it requires the ability to hold an idea and see the many forks and possible outcomes that may result, in order to escape the group mentality. It’s not exclusive to topics of gender equality. And it’s crazy to see how much tribal psychology and “groupthink” in general influences peoples opinions.
/r/MensRights06/04/18 11:42 AM
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I’m going to give you an analogy... When I was a kid, I learned to ride a bike using training wheels. When I was ready for them to come off, I didn’t realize it, and was terrified to agree to my parents to removing them. They convinced me it would be ok, they’d help me... rode off no problem, the training wheels, in fact were torn up and not really even functioning. But I knew only that they needed to be there. I needed the small assistance and reassurance. Only I didn’t. I learned to rely on th…
/r/MensRights06/04/18 11:27 AM
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Most people critical of this woman claiming to be silenced are critical because of the bullshit regarding this view of “us vs. them” she is promoting harms men’s approach to get support for men who are suffering. Jordan Peterson is an amazing man, and he attempts to provide helpful pathways for young men. He is also the target of feminism’s critical eye, and, has actually had people attempting to silence him. So... pointing out the hypocrisy of someone claiming to have no platform, while using a…
/r/MensRights29/01/18 03:46 PM
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...At one of the largest awards ceremonies in the world.
/r/MensRights29/01/18 03:40 PM
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I mean... ok. But I’m not a feminist at all. Not a fan of modern feminism. I’m also not a fan of logical fallacies. I was kind of making the same point you are: the OP was saying, all the negative shitty whining done in the West isn’t “real feminism”. I was saying, yeah, it kind of all is feminism if that’s the banner they throw above it. This woman’s actions, in my mind, are acts in support of human rights and decency.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/18 02:24 AM
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What a great woman. Not to take away from what amazing work she has done.... but could you show me what a true Scotsman looks like next?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/18 12:32 AM
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The common BS line is always physical stature and intimidation.
/r/MensRights27/01/18 08:00 AM
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Hahaha... yeah I’m going to just use the restroom with urinals in it, and fuxk your stupid signs. Either stop me or call the cops. Either way I’m using the indoor plumbing.
/r/PussyPass29/12/17 12:59 PM
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From the article: it sounds like the lesbian couple simply applied for help from the state when they fell on financial hard times. The state pushed the request for child support forward. And the state disregarded their contract with this man. I’m not sure if they consented to these ideas or not, but they did not approach the state asking for this man to be made responsible, and that’s an important thing to note.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 02:53 PM
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Man up: accept the role of being male in society, as being a provider without complaint. as being an unsung hero. As patting women on the back in a patronizing way assuring them they are just as capable as men, calling it feminism, and keeping that laugh going for many years. Accept being a man, being potentially disposable unless you're in the top tier of intelligence or born into advantage. You're the cogs of humanity, invisible to many, your backs will be broken for the benefit of the many. M…
/r/MensRights01/11/17 03:09 PM
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When I was in high school they tried out having classes that were 90 minutes long or something like that, and alternating half our classes each day. This allowed for a gym class that included loading up on buses and going to the bowling alley. During one such bowling alley gym class early on in the school year, the tall, athletic, popular blond girl in the class, a teachers favorite, as she was on a few different athletic teams, took to harassing me for sport, with her gaggle of white knight cuc…
/r/MensRights25/10/17 07:49 PM
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Male disposability and a society that has socialized people to perceive any discussion of male suffering or victims, to be “whining”. You’re an anti feminist for promoting helping men, because that is anti feminist. The definition is about equality, but the actions are for female supremacy, to receive all the benefits of being both male and female, minus most of the responsibilities of either. If men want to address a social issue that women and men face, at best they are told by feminism that t…
/r/MensRights21/10/17 12:12 PM
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Lawmakers who also have penises, might be fathers, and will brush the topic aside like many people who’ve not been made aware how horrible the practice is.
/r/MensRights19/10/17 02:10 PM
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I agree. My point was, you’re not going to get fathers to stop doing it to their sons by convincing them that their penis is fucked up. You’ll do it by allowing them to see that, even if it’s fine for you, that’s not something you should decide for your child. I agree with you.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 12:32 PM
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The video should be posted on social media with the hashtag #mentoo - women aren’t the only victims of domestic and sexual abuse, but men are laughed at for it, and have no shelters, phone lines for support, or any other resources to help them.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 01:25 AM
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Fuck that. Fill it out and show up.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 12:53 AM
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It does work just fine. My quality of life is great, and being that I am one of the luckier ones, I am thankful for having what I do. Now that said I find genital mutilation to be barbaric and a shameful thing that we still do, based on an idiotic acceptance of a confusion surrounding correlation and causation. I find it horrible. I wish it weren’t done to me, but it was.... now that’s the point I want to get into..... Men aren’t clamoring to shout from the rooftops that they have a messed up pe…
/r/MensRights18/10/17 12:51 AM
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After they didn’t call them they.
/r/PussyPass01/10/17 09:40 PM
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It’s also important to note that often, the CEO of a small or medium Business has also, even if not the owner of that business, taken a larger risk by working for a startup or less secure business of moderate or small size.
/r/MensRights27/09/17 04:02 PM
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That’s awful. I’m so sorry for your brother. Sounds like his ex was a conniving horrible person. A good friend of mine ended up with full custody of his son, but for that to happen, his wife had to both abandon him and their son, AND test positive for meth. She still gets visitation, even though she has failed, and forged test results, and been caught doing so... she still has visitation. And my saint of a friend refuses to push to cut her out.
/r/MensRights22/09/17 05:46 PM
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No! This is a hate group! J/K. I found this sub awhile back. I found that the first encounters I had with a feminist taking women's studies courses always ended in me thinking "these ideas seem less than intuitive, they seem to be in opposition to everything I've known my whole life" so I argued. I was told to educate myself. I did. I found out how insane it really was. I ended up far deeper down the rabbit hole that I thought I would. My wife was initially annoyed by my new found interest and s…
/r/MensRights20/09/17 12:45 PM
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Wow... yeah apparently? I dunno what happened. I remember a comment being made about most men not having voting rights until a specific year... oops. My bad.
/r/MensRights20/09/17 12:02 PM
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Now your voting rights as a man are contingent with compliance with registering for the selective service (draft). Your failure to comply is punishable by further restrictions of your rights. Only if you are male.
/r/MensRights20/09/17 02:42 AM
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Removing a mans testes would be the equivalent of removing a woman's ovaries. That's not type 1 FGM. Admittedly, the forms of FGM that remove the entire clitoris, and mutilate the inner and outer labia are definitely more severe than typical male genital mutilation. What isn't helpful is ranking acceptable forms of genital mutilation based on severity. Iirc there are ceremonial forms of FGM that are almost nothing more than a pin-prick and done symbolically, which is far less severe than typical…
/r/MensRights10/09/17 03:28 AM
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Assigning traits to gender and race is sexist and racist and it is wrong to do this. Unless it's a white man.
/r/MensRights08/09/17 11:51 AM
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Maybe He could be a weather man.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/17 03:34 AM
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She also followed her own advice "ma'am, you're being filmed and everybody here is commenting on what you're doing". Called her ma'am. She had the dudes back: awareness that he also was being filmed, and trying to help him stay mindful of his actions in a tense situation. Also he seems like a nice patient man.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/17 03:32 AM
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"Colored friendly".... this guy writes for the green book.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/17 03:28 AM
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When I see this, I use the women's room.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 03:50 AM
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Top comment on it at Twox is essentially ended with "just treat us like the guys".... no. Trust me you don't want that. I can't even treat most men like "the guys". The guys are mostly just boys now. They get hurt feelings really easy.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 01:24 AM
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Hear "white male" phrased together enough, ant group representing men must represent white men... any group representing white men is automatically racist.
/r/MensRights13/08/17 11:41 AM
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You don't need to invest in my children. That's my job. My job isn't to invest in your children, that's your job. I don't want to pay to feed your children either. Or buy their clothing, school supplies, little league or any other advantage you want them to have. My kids don't need you, or other people to pay for them. I've got that under control. i don't want to pay for your kids. You should handle that. Just like you handle feeding them.
/r/MensRights12/08/17 10:23 PM
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I got a public school education, until I was asked to drop out. I'm a business owner. Capitalism is to thank for that. You want an education? Go get one. The government has allowed schools to charge what they like, and they will provide you a loan to go to these schools. You can save your money and go to a community college, and not take the loan. Or you can take the loan and go to a bigger better school. You have options. Sort of like how when I started my business I could have gone to a bank w…
/r/MensRights12/08/17 02:58 PM
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i don't recall what the personal tax rate was but I recall seeing that my wife and I would pay more, and we aren't making 250k a year. The "corporate tax rate" as it is often referred to is essentially a business tax rate. As I understand this, his plan was to o crease the bottom end of this tax for all businesses. This allowed him to say "corporate tax rate" and "multinational billion dollar businesses need to pay their fair share", while ignoring that his plan didn't exactly excuse small busin…
/r/MensRights12/08/17 02:47 PM
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Do you know what "pass through taxation" is for a business? Essentially, I make any money my business doesn't spend in that tax year. If my business makes 150k one year but business expenses were 110k, I only made 40k. So in this instance I would be ok as far as taxes go. But as a young business I expect my yearly investments to have an overall decline as I buy lots of the equipment and such in the first few years. Maybe I have a great 6th year where I hang on to 100k. Here is the problem: I can…
/r/MensRights12/08/17 12:55 PM
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I'm asking for a fair tax rate for entrepreneurs/job creators. Not a bail out. My investments in my company allow me to carry essentially zero business debt. If I had a 4 year degree, by statistics, I would still be paying it off. Instead I have a mortgage payment for the house I bought. I invested in a business that is stable and as varried as my skill set. People like custom creations when they have cash. They like to repair and keep things around longer when they don't. So, assuming you're jo…
/r/MensRights12/08/17 12:44 PM
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Have you researched the numbers? Trust me, what you think of a "middle class" Bernie was talking about as upper income. His tax rate for small business was an increase, a dramatic one. I dropped out of high school, and now I own a business that I funded, and built, by myself. Please tell me again how I am Invalidating my argument about hard work.. I spent 8 years learning a trade and then started a business. I've educated myself far beyond the limitations of a solitary college degree. I work as …
/r/MensRights12/08/17 12:14 PM
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Not free college, tax payer funded education entitlements. Small business owners like me would have been taxed out of business. What I actually earn is barely enough to call me middle class... yet somehow his tax plans would have been so abusive I couldn't continue to operate a business. I'm a high school drop out, and a business owner. People who tell you America isn't still the land of opportunity aren't looking hard enough or willing to take the risks required. And no I don't mean loans. I ne…
/r/MensRights12/08/17 11:37 AM
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No, those are easiest to identify. Not first order effects.
/r/MensRights04/08/17 06:23 AM
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You're ignoring my point: other factors, hundreds of them, play into the concept of privilege in general. Mostly our parents worked hard to provide as many of these factors as possible. If your parents were poor, but highly involved and resourceful, you might end up a better student than the rich kid with ineffectual parents. The point is, dozens of other factors act as an order of effect more impactful than race, so to focus the conversation around race doesn't help anybody. Maybe focus the con…
/r/MensRights03/08/17 07:18 PM
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Because there is no such thing as "all things being equal" even a person's resilience to opposition is a factor. Example: the kind of bullying I was subjected to has caused kids to kill themselves. I struggled with rage. But, I ended up learning as lesson some adults haven't learned: be true to yourself. The outcome of "all things being equal" is never equal, because personality alone can be enough to change the outcome dramatically, and, what's more, how much opposition they even feel along the…
/r/MensRights03/08/17 07:12 PM
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Has to do a lot more with who was around to teach you how to go through life than simply how others are perceiving you. If I were 7 feet tall 300 lbs of muscle with a mean looking face, but I'm white, male, blue eyes, gruff voice with a redneck southern American accent... you think I'm going to do as well?
/r/MensRights03/08/17 11:06 AM
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You take a poor white kid born to shitty parents in a trailer home and a poor black kid with decent parents, born in inner city project housing... tell me now who has the advantage?
/r/MensRights03/08/17 11:04 AM
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I got into a debate when one of these protestors posted in a private Facebook group I'm in. Guys who argue for strapping a baby down and chopping off part of their penis because they cannot handle admitting how horrible that is, since it means their penis is mutilated, and admitting that is impossible for insecure men who cannot reconcile that being a victim of MGM doesn't mean you have to hate your penis. The way dudes argue against it shows their ignorance. When you tell them 96% of American a…
/r/MensRights30/07/17 12:11 PM
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Does that not apply if a man loses his wife who was receiving a pension?
/r/MensRights24/07/17 08:59 PM
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I talk down to people about a lot of complex things I'm an expert on. The concept of laymans terms is essentially talking down to people specifically about a complex topic with much of its own vocabulary in order to simplify it into something more easily understood. ELI5, essentially. I do this if I suspect you don't have the complex understanding of a topic we are discussing and I am a professional on the topic. The context of this matters a lot. Am I going to explain things about a classic car…
/r/MensRights24/07/17 12:57 PM
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Unfortunately the article indicates that the law says he owes the money before it was proven by DNA he is not the father. So seems to me every couple in Texas should just pick wealthy folks and list them as the father on birth certificates. Then you can make them pay for the kid until they pay to prove it is not their kid. And even once they do, they are legally required to pay for the time elapsed before proof is obtained. It seems the way to change this law in a hurry would be that all women b…
/r/MensRights24/07/17 12:38 PM
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I'm going to tell you a lie, Ellie.... Ellie is more likely to be ten times smarter than a boy she might meet than a girl. She is also more likely to meet a boy who is ten times smarter than meeting a girl who is 10x smarter... Men are more genetically diverse and hence make up more of the geniuses in society. But also more of the morons.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 01:16 PM
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Choose terrible moments and lash out at your critics, call them "harassers" and do all you can to silence them.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 01:12 PM
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How does feminism replace "want" in any sentence about a man with "feels entitled to..."? I do not need to feel entitled to sex with a woman I find attractive in order to feel disappointed that she doesn't feel the same.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 12:22 PM
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Welder here 94% is accurate.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 12:09 PM
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I'll stick to equal rights and responsibilities, as well as equal application and protections of the law.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 11:11 AM
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The fact that it happens like this and it is so accepted makes me think of the Middle East where a woman's testimony is only worth 1/2 of a mans. Only here it's that a mans responsibility is twice that of a woman's: he is responsible for his decisions and hers, while he is drunk. Meanwhile her drunk choices are pussypasses. I'm wondering if a woman has used this concept as a drunk driving defense (successfully)?
/r/MensRights20/07/17 08:37 AM
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I thrive in opposition. Positivity and complimentary actions make me lazy.
/r/MensRights16/07/17 12:47 PM
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Do you mean you would kill your father or the man he paid to do it?
/r/MensRights12/07/17 03:08 AM
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I'm quite happy with it. That does not mean I'm ok with mutilating a part of a babies penis. I'm happy because my skin isn't overly tight and the circumcision was done well. I have a nice looking penis by western circumcision land standards and healthy sexual function. But I also do not think the human body, with daily access to showers, is so flawed in its design that its better to cut off part of the penis, and would never ever do that to any son I had.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 03:05 AM
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That may be generally the case, but it's not a massive difference across the board. More has to do with job choices. An uneducated man is more often willing take dangerous work which has higher pay than say, retail, or other positions which require little to no education. So when you have more women attending college selecting less profitable majors, fewer men going to college, and selecting higher paying jobs, some of which might kill them. Frankly I'm fine with that. Most women do not want dan…
/r/MensRights07/07/17 12:19 AM
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I've always taken issue with "equal pay for equal work". What is equal work? Equal assignment of tasks? Equal job title? In my mind "equal work" means equal productivity. If I have two employees. Same graduating class, and interned together... hell, let's say they are twins... but one shows up 10 minutes early and is always at least 5% more productive than their counterpart. They are also the first to pick up a broom, and handle doing the things that are everybody's "job" but yet nobody else wan…
/r/MensRights05/07/17 01:08 PM
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When did exclusivity become required for something to count as oppression?
/r/MensRights29/06/17 11:43 AM
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I'd say not having any way to obtain voting rights counts as oppression.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 01:39 PM
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If you "can do science" but you find it dry and boring, maybe you end up in an unrelated field because you enjoy it more. Women prioritize happiness in their career over money more often than men. So the dry science fields may just not be very satisfying for women, so they don't persue it. I could have made a fantastic lawyer. But I would have hated it. I could have gotten an engineering degree and worked as a mechanical engineer by title, but it's dry, and very rarely ever remotely hands on. In…
/r/MensRights27/06/17 12:22 PM
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Face it: children of both genders have a wide variety of learning styles: public school systems always leave a portion of kids to figure out how to make a system that is not good for their learning style work, or drop out, or fail. I should ha e graduated in 1999. I did not. I got a GED several years later so I could go to welding school. I wanted to take wood shop. And automotive, and especially metal shop. But my school did not provide me these opportunities. Instead they would sit me down and…
/r/MensRights27/06/17 12:08 PM
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"I wanted to help this kid, so I made sure her dad went to jail." It's a tough spot. You want this dude to learn his lesson, but our justice system isn't really about restoring people, and educating them, its more about locking them up.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 11:58 AM
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Not that having a kid should be a shield against facing some sort of charges. Personally I'd just want the guy to do some community service work, and meet with some sort of counselor to help with assessing the proper action in situations regarding his child.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 11:57 AM
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Or... "excuse me, where are you going with my daughter?!" Or... "hey! That's my daughter!!!" Or... "give me my daughter!!" almost anything other than leading with punching.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 11:55 AM
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I was at a bar. They went gender neutral for both rooms. Noting on the sign that one had a urinal, and the other had "a better mirror". They were one at a time style.
/r/MensRights27/06/17 11:50 AM
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How fucking awful that brides to be want to be fucked by a stripper (no offense). Makes me feel sick thinking about these poor guys.
/r/MensRights30/05/17 07:26 AM
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Do you want urine on the floor? Because that's how you get urine on the floor. Or: This is why I carry a knife.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 04:26 AM
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Oh, no... she means billing him. For some reason feminists think "educating" people about their pet cause of male hatred should be compensated.
/r/MensRights09/05/17 12:25 PM
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A "reasonable attempt to locate and notify the father at the earliest opportunity must be documented in order to bring a case before the court to hold a man accountable for child support." Is how I would word that. Let the courts sort out the details.
/r/MensRights05/05/17 04:00 PM
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I'm sorry Mary, you can read the sign.... your historectomy means you no longer have an opinion. Good day.
/r/MensRights05/05/17 03:58 PM
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It could be argued to criticize ones art is to criticize the artist.
/r/MensRights14/04/17 12:17 PM
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I was at a bar. Two toilet rooms. Labeled "gender neutral bathrooms". Cool. Below that, "this bathroom has a urinal" and on the other one "this bathroom has a better mirror."
/r/MensRights07/04/17 03:36 AM
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Cuntrodictor
/r/MensRights07/04/17 03:25 AM
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Literally was explaining this double standard to a feminist who had basically one response "it's not the same because of different power structures". So I finally asked "besides white male, how can you categorize the men in this room?" Which had ink the answer "why make it so personal?" To which I replied, "why wouldn't I see myself in that category? And how can you isolate men like me from this archetype you have when you say "white males/white men"? Her reply was essentially isolated around a …
/r/MensRights02/04/17 12:09 PM
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It's bad math. We all know this. I can use crap math to show anything I want. If men are 97% of workplace fatalities, and women make 77% of what men make, yet make up only 3% of those who sacrifice their lives at work, it seems to me that men aren't getting fairly compensated for doing all the dangerous work. If men are 97% of workplace fatalities, 98% of men should get paid 98% more than women, right? Garbage math is easy. More women have college degrees, but what are those draftees in? Most no…
/r/MensRights30/03/17 03:24 AM
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Yeah, it's kind of like when my 13 year old nephew convinced me to let him drive my mustang GT. For some reason when he ran over a few pedestrians and crashed into a house, they threw ME in jail! Something about children not being adults and being unable to judge the consequences of certain actions, and something about, being an adult in a position to provide a certain level of care for the child makes me responsible for putting the keys into his hand and saying "go for it!"... I made this up, j…
/r/MensRights19/01/17 01:42 AM
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Like a CPS visit and an interview with the child? When a woman leaves her husband and takes her children to a women's shelter (provided she doesn't have a teenage son), what evidence is demanded of abuse or danger to the children? What can men do in the same situation? Nothing, unless they manage to get it on video, apparently. No men's shelters after all.
/r/MensRights17/01/17 01:37 PM
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...well isn't that convenient.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 04:50 PM
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Well let's try this out: "Racism - the hatred of blacks - is completely understandable. In fact, I wouldn’t blame whites for never wanting to interact with any blacks because many of the fact that so many of us are trash. Like, it makes sense, doesn’t it? (And for the record, I am a black man who has contributed to the reason why whites might just hate us. We all have.) “Why would you blame all blacks for something some blacks did?” This whole “not all blacks” has got to stop. If the shoe don’t …
/r/MensRights09/01/17 07:13 AM
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No, she should be responsible for monetary restitution for the damages she caused, AND an equivalent time in prison to what he was forced to serve, plus 50% more time. Disgusting vile trashy "woman". Edit: He should file a civil case. If it were me, I would crowdfund running a full page ad of her face, and the story, in the local paper if the civil suit failed to gain the monetary restitution. I would destroy her life, and do it all legally. It's not Lible or slander if it's true. And it's not h…
/r/MensRights09/01/17 07:06 AM
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Soon enough... soon enough.
/r/MensRights09/01/17 07:01 AM
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I notice that when male birth control tests show promise, the story is picked up only to lambast men as babies. Alongside the "man cold" nonsense. It's this bizzare thing where feminists/sexist women want to belittle men, and prove women are tougher than men. Bragging about pain tolerance is a very common thing I hear "empowered" women brag about. I notice that when hormonal male birth control options show problems, and Trevor Noah makes fun of men for the lefty lols, he just exposes that if wom…
/r/MensRights26/12/16 04:25 PM
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I have attempted many times to explain that any social movement is at its core, a marketing campaign. The product is an ideology, and they want you to buy in. Now that we have established a solid metaphor, one that is more literally applicable than metaphor, actually, we can draw comparison. Have you ever seen a popular and successful marketing campaign which insulted its target market? "Hey, moron, you probably are too stupid to know this product would make your life easier, so let me explain i…
/r/MensRights21/12/16 08:49 PM
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There was a showing in fairfax va maybe six weeks ago.
/r/MensRights17/12/16 02:28 AM
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That's good.
/r/MensRights13/12/16 08:01 PM
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Right, I'm still setup to be triggered though, because by using a gender neutral pronoun out of caution, you can still trigger me!
/r/MensRights13/12/16 04:30 PM
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But I am not gender neutral. So referring to me by a gender neutral pronoun is misgendering me. I am a man, my preferred pronouns are "he - him". I was teased as a young boy because my hair was long and kids called me names about being a half girl half boy. Or just being a girl. So, Ze is very problematic and triggering for me. Your own rules state it's not ok to misgender someone, yet by calling me gender neutral pronouns you are misgendering and triggering me, violating your own rules. That's …
/r/MensRights13/12/16 03:20 PM
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Feminists say women have been prevented from doing these jobs. Uh... Not really, we can barely get enough men to do it. It's physically demanding. Dangerous. And it's miserable. Men only do it for the pay, for the most part, and even then, it's only a small percentage of men who can physically do these jobs. Currently there are 5 million trade jobs that need to be filled by skilled tradesmen. Do you think a company would reject a women who was a skilled tradesperson? Doubtful, highly doubtful, a…
/r/MensRights27/11/16 06:40 PM
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Not to mention, lets say roughly 93% of the people who keep your lights on, toilets flushing and clean water flowing directly into your house. Essentially, comfortable modern standards of living are brought to by and large, by men doing difficult uncomfortable, unpleasant, and dangerous jobs. Men are 93% of workplace fatalities, because men keep the things functioning that prevent society from crumbling into chaos.
/r/MensRights27/11/16 06:12 PM
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Doesn't that cop know about white privilege? He is supposed to let her go...
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/16 12:40 PM
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https://youtu.be/S8gyNRqIp5U
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/16 03:05 PM
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As a self taught engineer who traveled to two countries outside my own last year specifically because I helped to design, Prototype, and produce an engineering kit vehicle for engineering competition purposes. And also I own my own metal fabrication business. I am a high school dropout. I am the statistic of the terrible "uneducated" white male. I didn't vote for trump, I couldn't do it. I voted for good old Gary, even though he is a moron. I agreed more with his policy. But again, keep blaming …
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/16 01:53 PM
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I am getting sick of debunking this shit. First of all: There is another option called Vaselgel that is showing promise: non hormonal, so it will not have so many dangerous side effects. It's a gel that hardens after injection into the vas deferens. It blocks sperm from being able to pass through the vas deferens at all. It can be reversed with a second injection to dissolve the gel. It was supposed to be seeing human trials this year. It's being developed by a small Organization, not a huge dru…
/r/MensRights11/11/16 01:18 AM
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If I were to advise my 16 year old self, id have told myself to drop out of high school. Get my GED, and get my ass in trade school straight away. Instead I fucked off till I was 23.
/r/MensRights02/11/16 11:45 PM
1

Think bigger than Reddit. The "red pill" concept is a larger social idea than being a shitty hateful sub Reddit.
/r/MensRights02/11/16 04:31 AM
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Bought two tickets and saw it tonight with my wife. Interesting crowd and a good discussion with my wife afterwards. She said while she didn't necessarily agree with all of it, she related to Cassie's journey a lot. She reminded me that she dropped/stopped attending her women's study class in college because she disliked how the class addressed and treated men. Her primarily complaints with the movie had to do with approach and methodology of the MRM. I had to explain in more detail the "bash a …
/r/MensRights02/11/16 04:30 AM
1

Based on the sarkesian model we should see this movie in ten years or so. Glad I saw it with my wife tonight.
/r/MensRights02/11/16 04:20 AM
1

I understand your point. I think it's heavy handed. The reputation is not well earned. People like you and I make up a considerable portion of this sub, and we call out the shitty comments for what they are. That's also a part of what this sub is. And that ought to be part of the reputation we have earned as well.
/r/MensRights02/11/16 04:19 AM
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4 year doctorate? 1 year? Doctorate takes 8 years minimum. Let's compare 2 years in trade school to a 4 year degree. All the bullshit you study alongside your specified courses take a lot of that time up. General studies is bullshit and beyond developing writing skills doesn't do much in the way of functional education. A two year vocational training program produces a more educated person as it relates to the specific field of study, than a bachelors degree. I'll concede as far as that they are…
/r/MensRights02/11/16 03:51 AM
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Yes. If we are basing this on the "definition" of education being quantity of knowledge, then knowing more about your specific field of study than another person makes you more educated. Knowing a little bit about many/more fields of study, but less about your specified field is a more well rounded education, but not more educated. Perhaps another way to put it would be to call it "effective education". This is why I said it depends on how you define educated.
/r/MensRights01/11/16 02:54 PM
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Credit the measured and fair attitude of Cassie Jaye. She gave them very little to turn into a slam piece. She also is a tough one to argue with, she doesn't try to convince people in discussion. She holds her ground and supports her statements. I respect her a lot and plan to go to the screening next week.
/r/MensRights01/11/16 02:14 PM
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Then you could say a tradesman is more educated than someone with a bachelors. But someone with a bachelors has a more well rounded education.
/r/MensRights01/11/16 01:42 PM
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Potentially also true. My family was lower middle class. My sister, the oldest, and younger brother, the youngest, were the only two of my siblings to attend college. My other brothers and myself weren't good students and knew there was only student loans to pay for our schooling.
/r/MensRights01/11/16 05:40 AM
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I disagree. Typically you're probably right. But most of this depends on your definition of "educated". Educated can mean a lot of things, to some it means a possession of a certain agreed upon set of knowledge. To others it means possessing a very complete "toolbox" of skill sets with which to derive a solution to a problem. These two things have a lot of overlap: having read many works from classic thinking authors for example gives perspectives which open a pathway to new thought processes. H…
/r/MensRights01/11/16 05:36 AM
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A degree is something that can get you more money. That's all.
/r/MensRights01/11/16 05:11 AM
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He doesn't connect the two. He really dislikes when I try to "red pill" him by pointing out how different it would be if he were mommy and his ex were daddy. He believes that socially women have it harder than men. He is still under the charms of polite society, and believes women are oppressed and face more difficulties in life than men. "The pendulum has to swing past center before it can come to rest" he will say, and excuses the hateful words of feminists by simply offering empathy of all wo…
/r/MensRights29/10/16 09:50 PM
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A friend of mine is struggling as a single parent of his son. His wife left them because she wanted to be polyamorous. She has failed multiple drug tests for meth. She still has a schedule for custody. She hasn't paid child support in months. Can you imagine what would happen if genders were swapped!!? And sadly he still supports feminism.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 09:31 PM
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Lots of respect for her honestly. It's rare anymore that someone would want to make a movie where they do their best to give both sides of an argument a voice.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 09:27 PM
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The director stated that numerous people commented they'd love to make this movie, but they considered it career suicide. It's not going to get the traction it should, but it clearly shows how each side operates; good and bad on both. No platforming is a vile technique that is used massively by feminists: once it's shown what message they wanted to oppress, there will be much back pedaling, and lots of "not all feminists". Irony will be infuriating and hilarious.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 05:39 PM
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Keep in mind: this means a large number of people now have to watch it.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 01:23 PM
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Hm. You're the only one who assigned that behavior to "women". But yet I see people refer to bad behavior of a tiny percentage of men, as "men", all over the place.
/r/MensRights07/09/16 07:47 PM
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What I found most interesting is the criticisms leveled against men's rights being more of a complain about it rather than do about it group are a result of overall criticism of the MRM in mainstream media, by feminists! A group tries to gain visibility for men, and you oppose it and shout it down as a hate group. Also, nearly every response Sargon got was a classic logical fallacy: https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/tu-quoque
/r/MensRights07/09/16 04:09 PM
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She has such a mean nasty face.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/16 10:24 PM
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Eh yeah... The dude basically displayed "I can dominate this situation." And stopped. One display of power. No punches thrown. He didn't want to hit her. So he didn't. After she landed a solid blow (based on the sound) he used his ability to display power to end the shit. He could have leveled her with a punch to the mouth. Which is what I'd probably like to see happen since she can't stop running it, maybe crushing her jaw would get it wired shut and serve her the steaming pile of karma she has…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/08/16 02:25 PM
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You know what blows my fucking mind is that you literally just typed "some women...". This is the men's rights forum. A group labeled as misogynists. You said "some." Yet I can guarantee you in the feminism forum I would never see such a modifier as "some" before the word "men". Also I read this entire thread. Lots of upvotes. 70 comments and zero misogyny. You guys are so evil...
/r/MensRights27/07/16 05:30 AM
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How come they never show us his tweets where he encited his fans?
/r/MensRights20/07/16 12:06 PM
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I didn't mean to say it was a required trait of being a good man. Only that young people need good men to act as role models, teachers, etc. it also doesn't automatically make someone a good man just because they are good and ethical with kids. When boiled down to its essence, "being a good man" means to be a good honorable human, and to act in such a way as to offer up a good example of the male of your species/society. One doesn't need to be all those ideal things to be a good man. You just ha…
/r/MensRights17/05/16 02:19 AM
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"I hope that you can continue the course you've chosen without a false allegation" That's where boundaries come into play. Can a kid still make something up? Sure. Can a parent coach up a kid to say the right things. Sure... Is it likely? Not really. Especially when I make sure to set and maintain boundaries. Of course those boundaries are different for each circumstance, but really it's as simple as being appropriate for the given situation. The little guy struggling to get undressed to go to t…
/r/MensRights16/05/16 08:03 PM
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I don't let this shit stop be from being a good man. I'm aware of the ramifications. I am aware that I need boundaries in place to protect me (which I must set and maintain). I also am aware that we don't change the perception of men without constant actions. Example 1. I volunteered with a group aimed at getting kids on bicycles, specifically mountain bikes. Specifically underprivileged kids. We act as ride leaders and take them out for mountain bike rides. The year I was most active I was vote…
/r/MensRights16/05/16 01:07 PM
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All fair points. Also: there is still time, and I am sure she will trot that crap out again. Maybe trump is waiting for all eyes to be upon them when he lays down the heavy shit. Also though: confirmation bias is a powerful one that causes a lot of folks to basically say "nuh-uh yer wrong!" When someone challenges their belief in junk statistics such as the wage gap.
/r/MensRights11/05/16 10:07 PM
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https://www.change.org/p/universities-suspend-social-justice-in-universities Youtuber Sargon of Akkad has begun a petition to suspend SJW courses at universities. you can also check out /r/sargonofakkad for more info.
/r/MensRights11/05/16 12:53 PM
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800k views in a single day is a big deal. There are multiple factors driving it in the viral direction: "trigglypuff" as a name for an overweight girl who shrieks buzzwords and chants to disrupt public speakers is on the level of an episode of "South Park", not something people expect in real life. this was, for many, the first time the SJW non-sense has been exposed to them. They may have heard people complain, or they might have been vaguely aware of some people who act out on the internet wit…
/r/MensRights11/05/16 12:50 PM
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It's not likely they'd relate such actions to a specific event. Hell, it's possible they view this as the straw that broke the camels back, seeing this movement for what it is, and responded with sanity.
/r/MensRights11/05/16 12:38 PM
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"Also, women are underrepresented at the highest echelons of our society — accounting for only 5 percent of Fortune 500 CEOs and 19 percent of Congress." Men also make up about 95% of Darwin awards. Great risk, great reward. Men show a wider spectrum of intelligence than women. There are more stupid men than stupid women, and also more genius men than genius women, because women hover closer to the median with fewer outliers on either side.
/r/MensRights11/05/16 12:36 PM
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"The statement condemns efforts to shout down controversial speakers and declares free speech paramount to other values like maintaining a positive campus “climate.”"
/r/MensRights11/05/16 12:08 PM
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Public urination on its own is rarely ever deemed a "sex offense". It's more to the point of where it was, and if "I was just taking a whiz" is the BS excise given when someone is intentionally exposing themselves. Essentially it's a myth that a dude taking a whiz and trying not to expose himself would be prosecuted as a sex offender. But not a myth that there have been cases where this happened, just normally it's not as cut and dry as a dude peeing against a wall and charged with a sex offense…
/r/MensRights03/05/16 08:43 PM
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I worked a job in which sales were a part. The pure salespeople of the company had their numbers tracked. The top salesperson was always, always a young attractive woman. These girls knew their stuff well. But so did their male counterparts. Boobs sell. For sure.
/r/MensRights02/05/16 12:36 PM
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"Forced sex" or "moved a dudes hand to her crotch". I really don't like her humor stolen or not, but don't go all SJW and clickbait up your title.
/r/MensRights28/01/16 10:42 PM
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"Over my dead body" Yeah. Literally. They will rape your daughter over your dead body. Now your daughter has to watch her father die, AND get raped... But I am clearly the lunatic for thinking that is worse. Or that if dad carried a gun, or daughter carried a gun, that scenario would be different. We are equal, until we aren't. Then you need to sacrifice your life for ours.
/r/MensRights28/01/16 01:53 PM
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I had a Mohawk. Lots of people made crappy remarks. I was in a punk band. I had a shitty temper. I never punched someone over mocking me for my hairstyle.
/r/MensRights24/01/16 10:39 AM
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I agree with you. I'm simply pointing out the stumbling blocks that society will provide in this fight. Sometimes taking incremental steps is easier than achieving the whole shebang. Take a look at the battle to make marijuana legal for recreational use, they started by getting acceptance of the legitimate medical uses, and legalizing it for that. Then when public acceptance of this grew, they were able to further spread the information and counter a lot of the myths about marijuana use. This he…
/r/MensRights19/01/16 07:17 PM
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I do agree. The reality is though, that a majority of western people simply don't see it this way. A circumcision is a much nicer cleaner sounding word than "genital mutilation" which it is. It's also hard to get people to swallow such a term when they are looking down at their own penis. To get men who LIKE their penis to call it "mutilated" is a hard sell. I agree with you, and in many ways this topic is sort of a tipping point, if the MRM can convince the western world that male babies have a…
/r/MensRights19/01/16 07:12 PM
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I agree with your overall sentiment. But in terms of laws that actually stand a chance of passing in the USA, I'd say you'll have to make an exception for the religious folks who view circumcision as a religious act, rather than an act of mutilating a babies body.
/r/MensRights19/01/16 02:05 AM
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I don't know if it should be made illegal (religious people have their rights after all), but it shouldn't be a standard and urged upon new parents.
/r/MensRights18/01/16 11:07 PM
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Especially when you're trying to get as many swing voters away from Hillary as you can. "No I'm not a feminist" is a sure fire way to lose all those potential votes.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 08:46 PM
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In 2016 it is controversial to favor that crimes are handled by the police... Fuck.
/r/MensRights12/01/16 08:43 PM
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Ugh. I know a girl who fucked the artist for a tattoo. I wonder what she thinks of when she looks at it...
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/15 01:47 PM
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More than the content??
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/15 05:30 PM
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"So you need to babysit your kids?" "No. Nobody "babysits" their own children, parents hire sitters. If you'd like to pay for a sitter then I'll make the time for today's work load and that would be fine, but being a father means my kids are a priority in my life that ranks above all else"
/r/MensRights16/12/15 01:47 AM
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Well, she promotes bullshit statistics like the wage gap, and goes along with all of the junk social science produced by feminism. Trump proposed bringing back import tariffs that the bush administration removed, opening the flood gates for outsourced manufacturing. It's literally the only idea he has had that I've heard that I liked. Have you tried to have anything produced in the USA before? It's quite difficult to do, especially at an affordable rate. Again, I never said I support trump, only…
/r/MensRights03/12/15 01:20 AM
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She's a liar, and a dangerous one. yes. At least trump has some good ideas about bringing manufacturing back to this country. Don't get me wrong, I think he would be as big a disaster, if not bigger than Hillary. I'm just saying, she's 100% more of the same shit that is causing us issues. Further: she's a career politician who takes money from big banks, oil companies, etc. How can we expect anything but more of the same, PLUS massive feminist agendas if we elect hillary'? I'm afraid that not on…
/r/MensRights02/12/15 05:39 PM
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I agree, all choices are bad. hillary is as bad as trump though if you ask me. Just in different ways.
/r/MensRights02/12/15 05:20 PM
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Secretive liar, over open and honest Bernie? At least we KNOW what we get with Bernie when we get it, not years later when someone leaks it. Fuck Hilary Clinton. I assure you if she wins the country loses.
/r/MensRights02/12/15 01:48 PM
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As I watched last night I looked at my wife and said "you know I've been complaining about this shit for a couple years.... Here we go! It's finally happening! They've (feminists and SJWs) have painted themselves into a corner and now we are going to watch them ruin their own ability to be taken seriously with this crap, South Park is often leading the charge."
/r/MensRights20/11/15 12:16 PM
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USA and UK, as these are the most feminist influenced large data pools to pull from, and are first world nations with expectations of decent workplace safety.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 11:55 PM
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I was 20 on sept. 11th. Enrolled in selective service, and I sat in a friends basement watching the coverage and discussing what we should do, would there be a draft??! There won't be. And if there is, you're highly unlikely to be called. And if you are, you still have a chance for any medical issues you might have. Really a low probability, as in, worry about being in a car accident a lot more than being drafted. It is interesting that, at this point, we have women demanding the right to combat…
/r/MensRights16/11/15 12:59 PM
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Your first mistake was presuming they care about the truth. They care about an agenda, anything that fits the narrative stays, anything that doesn't is thrown out. The truth doesn't matter to modern feminism.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 12:52 PM
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Could you make a couple showing male disposability in the work place and the shrinking numbers of men enrolling in college?
/r/MensRights16/11/15 12:29 PM
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You should drop out and become a welder.
/r/MensRights13/11/15 08:55 PM
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The foster system is full of abuse. Removing a child from their parents hitting each other into another potentially abusive situation is something not taken lightly by anybody, but make no mistake that simply toving the child from these parents into a foster system will, even in non abusive circumstances, scar this kid for life. Add to that, some physical or sexual abuse and... Well that isn't much better than seeing mom and dad until he slaps her and says to knock it the fuck off. Personally, b…
/r/MensRights28/10/15 06:12 PM
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Typical victim blaming /s
/r/MensRights28/10/15 06:04 PM
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Sorry about that. What's the best way to create an archive or mirror?
/r/MensRights28/10/15 06:02 PM
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What I took from this article was: Some women want hookup sex just like some men. When hookup sex is bad sex, this author asserts its the fault of men not caring about women's pleasure, that it is not part of the social pressures and climate of male sexuality that pleasing a woman is something to care about, and if it doesn't happen, oh well who cares. She references the numerous articles written about the topic in men's magazines. So, obviously the editors of men's magazines are bad at their jo…
/r/MensRights27/10/15 05:50 PM
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Even if it does happen more to women, and it is a gendered problem, the people sympathetic to the complaints of women who don't want to be spoken to and told to smile, or whatever, aren't the people who are behaving this way. How does demanding the world change in a facebook post do jack shit to change anything, especially when any sort of opinion that doesn't fit the feminist narrative is chastised as wrong, and then the person who offered up such an idea/opinion is then attacked with the list …
/r/MensRights27/10/15 04:47 PM
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This is an area that is beyond true. Today's over the top hyperbolic statements of sarcasm intended to display the insanity of their sentiments is tomorrow's feminist reality. Recently I was foolish enough to engage in debate with a feminist on Facebook. The concept was this: she links an article about a trivial first world entitled feminist problem of hookup sex being bad sex. I suggested that perhaps selfish people are just selfish in bed, that the cause may not always be so sexist in its orig…
/r/MensRights27/10/15 12:25 PM
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So that in 20 years we can read articles about how leading people away from what naturally interests them is cause for some new social inequities or misfortunes suffered by another supposedly disadvantaged class of people. How about, people are happiest when they engage in what naturally attracts their interest.
/r/MensRights19/10/15 01:59 PM
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Feminists realize the power of language. Change the definition of enough words and you control the narrative, and shift the power.
/r/MensRights15/10/15 07:14 AM
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feminism realized the power of language awhile ago. Since then they have been redefining things to shift the power dynamic and control the narrative.
/r/MensRights12/10/15 09:40 PM
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Self validation is the most under rated skill.
/r/MensRights04/10/15 05:07 AM
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She was white.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/15 09:32 PM
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She was like 15. I showed it to her, then explained ratchet actually refers to the action of a mechanism that allows a component to rotate only in one direction, and "ratchet" when turned in the other. Again, no clue the word didn't just refer to trashy people.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/15 08:39 PM
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I worked part time at a bicycle shop. I was asking a coworker where the ratchet set was, the girl who owned the bike was in utter disbelief that the word "ratchet" referred to a tool, before it ever was a hoodrat term.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/15 08:24 PM
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"Could it possibly be that women aren't interested in that field? No, it must be sexism." This is feminism's greatest problem in a nutshell. They identify a "problem" with society, that something isn't equal between men and women, something perhaps as simple as percentages of male and female workers in X field, and then, rather than evaluate and study why this might be, they make an assumption, "its discriminatory, inequality, PATRIARCHY!" and then attack how to solve the problem. Perhaps if mor…
/r/MensRights28/09/15 05:54 PM
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Just in case this isn't obvious: if someone near you sprays pepper spray: get the hell out of that area quickly. It's unpleasant as the people filming this found out.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/09/15 02:32 AM
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Uh... Maybe I am insane, but aren't there states in which 16 is the legal age of consent? I feel like a 17 year old kind of knows what they're doing, and while not legally an adult, it certainly isn't always a case of victimization. The double standards are indeed BS, but I just don't see someone having sex with a 17 year old in the same light as someone having sex with a 14 year old.
/r/MensRights25/09/15 03:47 AM
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I think it's more that even if these were the exact same scenarios, this would be treated differently by the media if genders were swapped.
/r/MensRights12/09/15 01:05 PM
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Women's clothing is shitty. Essentially it's so it will look better, pockets full of crap bulge out, and the aesthetic is the primary function of women's clothing. Most men's clothing puts function only slightly lower than form.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 09:42 PM
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Yes... Let's teach boys not to be sexually attracted to girls: corrective sexual therapy worked so well for the homosexual community to "fix" them, right?
/r/MensRights21/08/15 09:35 PM
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Clearly the best way to defeat sexism is to create and use gendered insults.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 03:45 AM
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"Rather, nobody should accept abusive speech against anyone." This is what I end up arguing with feminists. the concept that being hateful towards men, making up gendered pejoratives against men while "workings for gender equality" is the most hypocritical shit there is. If you're going to ignore men's issues, ok fine, I don't like the hypocrisy of that either, but at least don't become a hateful person who uses gendered pejoratives and promotes jokes about male genocide, and claim its for gende…
/r/MensRights22/05/15 01:10 PM
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literally Hitler... Was the last person to successfully wage a campaign against people based on race, who wanted to commit genocide. I suppose white women would be spared, and non white men. A very specific type of genocide I suppose? Regardless, this is some very literal Hitler stuff.
/r/MensRights22/05/15 12:57 PM
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I'm also a fabricator... If I decide to get sloppy with facts figures or science it might kill people, another military parallel. I'm so far from military material though... Massive respect for our troops!
/r/MensRights08/04/15 01:13 AM
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Gender equality is accomplished by creating new words that associate negative traits and behavior with a specific gender.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 12:41 AM
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Not a veteran at all. Support gender equality, recognize the struggles unique to all genders. Highly science minded, and place detecting bias as a top priority in reading anything. Delving into the study the article or statements are made upon is something I habitially do. You cannot think in this method and not find massive fault with feminism.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 12:28 AM
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It was pretty good... Though it still implies a male perpetrator as the only perpetrators.
/r/MensRights28/03/15 12:15 AM
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Swap the genders here and imagine how this story would be national news... Reactions would be insane. There would be marches and protests... Universities would have conferences about the turtle culture and how to handle the epidemic.
/r/MensRights28/03/15 12:13 AM
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Yes. This is complete BS. Men have no reproductive rights.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 12:24 PM
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"Despite the fact that men get in more accidents than women" No. Not in spite of, because of. Auto insurance charging men more isn't sexist, or inequality; its mathematical algorithms for managing risk. Making it illegal to conduct this practice with women for healthcare is a tad different, as it predicates less on factors of fault, and subscribes to the theory that everybody deserves fair access to health coverage, and charging women more for using more healthcare services is wrong. Agree or no…
/r/MensRights26/03/15 03:54 AM
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Even more to the point Agree with actor - "yes, they really could affect change!" - value Disagree with actor - "bullshit, nobody should listen to actors!" - no value
/r/MensRights26/03/15 03:40 AM
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Drink your own tea... Yeah so go finish yourself off. Don't drink her tea, or continue to pour the tea down her throat after she passes out. Analogy kind of holds up...
/r/MensRights09/03/15 06:50 PM
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I'm hoping your comment is poking holes in the analogy and not saying you shouldn't stop having sex with someone who passes out... At which point the analogy holds up. I make us both tea. She passes out halfway through her cup, fine, I'll drink mine alone until I finish. Alone, and I won't finish her tea either...
/r/MensRights09/03/15 02:46 PM
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She acknowledges the injustice done to her father, but then justifies it by saying historically men have been so favored... She says her mother was clearly the less fit parent, who won custody anyway, but goes on to say how men should basically accept injustice and inequality because women had to deal with it for so long... This is the disgusting "now it's your turn" attitude of retribution and revenge that modern feminism stinks of. Nowhere do I see equality being fought for by feminists. Edit:…
/r/MensRights09/03/15 01:38 PM
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Hey now... I am not a supporter of the fat acceptance movement, as it is not good to applaud someone's choices to be unhealthy as fuck. That said, I also don't support shaming someone for their body. Someone like this guy would be better served by kindness than by being shamed. If his weight/health don't kill him, he might just end himself with a faster method. Of the nearly 2000 women at this dance party in his honor, I bet he makes a friend or two, maybe a friend who wants to go dance with him…
/r/MensRights09/03/15 01:11 PM
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They were tainted by the patriarchy and having to play in that system, you see... Though if genetically superior, why couldn't they rise above it?
/r/MensRights09/03/15 01:04 PM
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It's strange... Crime stats show that violent rape in an alley is the rarest of all forms of rape, and rape in general has been on the decline for some years now.
/r/MensRights09/03/15 12:55 PM
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Yeah... And? Women's anger is valid due to systemic oppression. Men's anger is toxic masculinity and men should be shamed for being angry about anything, because it is a disgusting display of their masculine nature which is really just another way of asserting dominance over women and reinforcing that the patriarchy is real. /s
/r/MensRights05/03/15 02:17 PM
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I have a very, very feminist friend who is absolutely obsessed with Judge Judy....
/r/MensRights05/03/15 02:12 AM
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being condescending is not gendered. Feminists tried to make it a gendered thing, and of course, only men do it because it is negative, therefore, mansplaining. Truly it is simply being a condescending jerk face, regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights05/03/15 02:07 AM
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Isn't this simply being "condescending"?
/r/MensRights05/03/15 02:05 AM
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I'm all for arming people, and honestly, with how often these sort of incidents actually take place, I think if we overcame some of the hysteria of a dangerous society for women by arming them.... well then it certainly reframes the notion of big scary man and defenseless woman doesn't it?
/r/MensRights17/02/15 11:29 PM
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well YEAH! that's why we need to cut them up and make them at least a little less gross... too bad it doesn't work as well as we would like, maybe we can just begin to cut the whole thing off?
/r/MensRights17/02/15 11:13 PM
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Isn't this a little like, if someone kept buying different models of cars, but all of them were in the same color? of course each individual is a different person, with different physical traits, and personalities, etc. but if someone is just most often attracted to someone of one particular race or another, what does it matter? I understand some people place an unhealthy level of importance on it, and are awkward as fuck about it, and that's not cool, but... generally speaking isn't that a rari…
/r/MensRights17/02/15 11:11 PM
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White fever cannot be a thing because being white is a privilege, and a race that has never been systemically oppressed, therefore your race cannot be appropriated, or viewed as a trait to be preferred. Shitlord.
/r/MensRights17/02/15 11:08 PM
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So, the sad part here is you aren't speaking in hyperbole. Many feminists believe that, to put it metaphorically: the pendulum is swinging back the other direction, and will continue in that direction for a little while, and that's ok, because women spent so much time in disadvantaged situations. also they will state that until the workforce and wage gap reflect the numbers of college grads, it isn't enough. Equality.... yep.
/r/MensRights17/02/15 10:59 PM
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Fair enough. Regardless, the poll was in the USA.
/r/MensRights16/02/15 08:29 PM
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All this shows is that women prefer what they are used to seeing most often. In western cultures it is very much the norm, wrong as it may be. You cannot blame women for accepting and desiring the statistical normal. It's a sign our culture needs to change in regards to its attitude towards male genital mutilation, but not much else at all.
/r/MensRights16/02/15 05:17 AM
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Ok, first I was saying, I was in a country that restricts women's lives to an incredible degree, not that it was the other side of this issue. What is ridiculous is the idea that men "need the space for their balls"... No. Men's hips are shaped differently, making sitting with legs together less comfortable. Regardless, men can sit comfortably and not take up more than one seat. So can women. But lots of people (men and women) are inconsiderate, and take up more than they should. Feminists latch…
/r/MensRights02/02/15 01:24 PM
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I'm unfamiliar with typical UK laws, but this is pretty harsh. Laws like this make me think the mgtow thing isn't so crazy. Or at least a super careful approach with any woman I met. Handle like dynamite. Shock sensitive and deadly quick to ruin your life. Glad I am married and in the USA. makes it easier.
/r/MensRights30/01/15 01:40 AM
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You know that both sides of this are ridiculous, right? I was just in a country that has laws about how women can dress, and blocks specific internet content. I think Kristen Schaal did a good job of making the whole thing ridiculous, even if she did spit out some false statistics about wage gap. The obvious factor about how stupid this is, is that women are just as rude, and take up multiple seats with their handbags, etc. see: http://movethefuckoversis.tumblr.com
/r/MensRights30/01/15 01:09 AM
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I seem to be full of piss...... Stories. My wife bought one of these for a backpacking trip. It arrives, she holds it to her crotch, and proclaims, "just like you!", ok sure hun. So smash cut to a few days later when she decides she had better try it out before our trip. I made her let me watch, I was really curious how this contoured funnel would work. Well, it worked fine. She thought it was strange to get used to the concept of standing, and I had to help her realize it didn't require a stran…
/r/MensRights09/01/15 03:25 PM
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I managed a photo lab years ago. My coworkers began blaming me for pissing on the seat. There was no way I was pissing on the seat. I made it a point to figure it out, who was the toilet seat pisser. I waited a few days, then I "casually" observed all my coworkers, and caught the culprit, who was it? The girl. She didn't want to sit on the seat, so she sprayed it with piss for the rest of us instead. I told her the following, after making her come into the bathroom and pointing at the seat: "if …
/r/MensRights09/01/15 03:17 PM
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My wife lived with a few sorority sisters in college for a short time. I can confirm; they trashed that place with insane parties, etc. My wife moved out early because they didn't like someone who had a problem with destroying their home, stealing her food, medicine, toilet paper... They basically ran her out for not being an irresponsible party girl, since she worked almost full time. Anyway, yes, this anecdote holds true as I have seen as well.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 03:06 PM
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Wow... Most large venues have more toilets for women than men to attempt to help shorten the wait. This is pure insanity on the authors part.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 03:03 PM
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Sounds like a good idea to me... Having the police investigate and handle rape and assault allegations. Almost like that is what the police are for.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 03:01 PM
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Ask her why she hasn't had her appendix out. Ask if she will proactively remove the tonsils as well, since after all they can cause repeated strep infection in children. Ask if she will have any other elective surgeries to correct the problems with her child's body.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 02:58 PM
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Correlation vs causation... An often overlooked (intentionally?) factor.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 02:25 PM
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Funny... My benevolent sexism and respect for the fact that I weigh about 200lbs, has always kept me from shoulder checking women by consequence of paying no attention. I've done it to men, because at a certain point, if you cannot be bothered to make a tiny adjustment so we do not collide, then neither can I. Now... That all said, WTF? This is crazy, it takes TWO people to decide to allow such a collision, but of course this is a men's issue, not humans in general. What's amazing is the respons…
/r/MensRights09/01/15 01:52 PM
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You're right, and I notice "anecdotally" that most moderate feminists are not activists in any way. Modern feminism is continually growing more extreme in a publicly accepted way. But at least more people are recognizing the insanity.
/r/MensRights05/01/15 12:54 AM
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Indeed, I agree with this.
/r/MensRights05/01/15 12:51 AM
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I agree with you, however pop culture does present a less threatening to women and children view of gay men than straight, and I was too general in my words. I think the negativity towards gay men's sexuality isn't viewed as quite as threatening as straight men's. It is held more in contempt, and disgust. And that could very well stem from a misogynistic view point, or simply the binary gender and sexuality roles society likes best. Either way, feminism isn't doing much for gay men, or straight.
/r/MensRights05/01/15 12:49 AM
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Between lumping all feminist ideas you see, such as those blatant displays of misandry from the tumblr crowd, and lumping red pill and PUA with MRM. Extremists exist in all crowds. They have been loud lately, but a great portion of those who claim "feminist" as a label are moderate and nowhere close to being extreme. I know many in real life. Point is, yeah, feminism uses bad science a lot and has had quite a year in pop culture (ban bossy...?) but that doesn't negate that they have actual issue…
/r/MensRights04/01/15 06:38 PM
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Here's a tip, if you find women to be difficult to deal with, and you have this attitude in real life, your desperate grab at superiority... It's not necfesarily your maleness they oppose, simply your shitty attitude. You're "done with me"? Oh, well then. Clearly you have the superior understanding of all things. Enjoy life with that attitude.
/r/MensRights04/01/15 06:35 PM
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"No true feminist". Logical fallacy - no true Scotsman. https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/no-true-scotsman Just as pop culture likes to put MRM in the same category as red pillers and pick up artists, doesn't make it true. Likewise, Tumblr and YouTube feminists do not define the entirety of those who believe in feminist ideals.
/r/MensRights04/01/15 04:05 PM
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The problem is: The right to abortion is based on the widely accepted concept that it is a woman's choice regarding her own body. In that, you enter into the act of sex with this person with this knowledge. And it is not reasonable to expect a woman to endure pregnancy to provide you a child she does not want. It's a biological double standard we cannot change. I do agree, however, with men being able to walk away and take no responsibility for the child. The "financial abortion".
/r/MensRights04/01/15 03:41 PM
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Yes. Christina Sommers. So now you're the authority on what feminism is, is not, and who is, or is not, a feminist? So when other people write articles and lump pick up artists and red pillers into MRM, you make no distinction? Because this is exactly how moderate feminists respond to the radfem insanity... I know many of them in real life. Have had many a civil debate. Edit: spelling error
/r/MensRights04/01/15 03:37 PM
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Well first, the person who wrote this erroneously tries to paint a picture of the only issues men and women have in society as direct results of misandry or misogyny. It's not so black and white. But humans like categorizing and organizing things this way to simplify them and make them easier to grasp. He then creates a laundry list of things he thinks are issues men deal with. Certainly some men deal with the issues he lists. But probably not in specifically exactly as he imagines. He lists sex…
/r/MensRights04/01/15 03:24 PM
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I am not going to transcribe Christinas videos for you. Watch a short one. She supports feminism that sticks to actual facts, and criticizes feminism that does not. I provided a link to lots of videos. It's up to you to decide to remain ignorant about this person or not.
/r/MensRights04/01/15 02:50 PM
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Dude, you cannot legally obligate a human to be an incubator for your child. The line has to be drawn somewhere.
/r/MensRights04/01/15 02:33 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLytTJqkSQqtr7BqC1Jf4nv3g2yDfu7Xmd Feminism is a very large group. While I agree there are flaws, so do some feminists. Like Christina Hoff Sommers.
/r/MensRights04/01/15 02:23 PM
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Overlap: meaning there are a lot of red pill people who subscribe to this sub. I disagree regarding your take on feminism. So does she:http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLytTJqkSQqtr7BqC1Jf4nv3g2yDfu7Xmd
/r/MensRights04/01/15 02:22 PM
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Receiving credit is often something people get hung up on. I do all he time in my life, and work hard not to dwell on it, and recognize that I've affected the change I want to see, regardless if I am given credit for it. The harm is: as right as you are, as often as you are right, no credit means no progress in being listened to. The flip side is, at least then the ideas are being evaluated, and determined to be good before being implemented. Essentially, this is the difference in a movement lik…
/r/MensRights03/01/15 02:19 PM
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The author of this article should be exposed to some of the posts that exist here. Sure there is red pill overlap, just as the moderate feminists deal with radfems. The parallels between men's rights and feminism end at them both being groups focused on gender issues.
/r/MensRights03/01/15 01:39 PM
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Copy the post. Edit the gender identifiers in the post. Change the aggressor to be male. Repost the edited version, but wait a couple weeks so that people forget about this one. Observe the reactions, then link the original. Boom. Repeat the experiment again maybe another month or so later. This time make the female the aggressor, again, watch the different reactions. Again, post the original, and the first swap to display the double standards. Here: "I spent NYE with my roommate just having dri…
/r/MensRights02/01/15 02:07 PM
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I think the issue is that hogging space in public transit situations was portrayed as a male specific problem. Everybody knows that its simply an inconsiderate human thing. People (men and women) do it with their bodies, and their stuff. It's just another attempt to make men look bad. I also cross my legs in both ankle on knee method, and knee stacked. I've never been criticized, only asked "isn't that uncomfortable? I can't do that". Just my experience, but yeah, I don't think I've seen that as…
/r/MensRights01/01/15 04:27 PM
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Bull shit. Men have MORE on the line. STD infection is equal risk. Pregnancy effects women directly, but only she gets to choose how the situation proceeds. Even if a conversation has occured, an agreement is made etc, she can change her mind. The man is at the mercy of the woman's decision regardless of his desire. Either he is financially responsible for a child he does not want, or he loses a child he wanted to have in his life, either way, the risk is greater for the guy. The physical ramifi…
/r/MensRights31/12/14 04:56 AM
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Justice?? Fuck no. The problem is that so many people believe it's ok for the pendulum to swing back past center (equality) and "let the men have their turn" at being the oppressed sex. Many people actually see that as equality, not actual equality, but forcing men, and to a greater extent, boys, children, to endure oppression and an intentional dismissal of the needs and issues of boys and men. The thing that bothers me most is, I get called names and said to be crazy when I advocate true equal…
/r/MensRights31/12/14 04:52 AM
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But I regretted it afterwards because you said it was a good movie!
/r/MensRights31/12/14 04:46 AM
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Doublethink
/r/MensRights31/12/14 04:43 AM
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In use as such, sure, they are harmless. But there are a lot of people who'd like to see these sorts of things used in college classrooms. There are people who use triggers as an excuse to limit discussion.
/r/MensRights28/12/14 07:53 PM
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It's a term being used in a "Social awareness campaign" by the NYC tranist system. so... take that for what you will.
/r/MensRights28/12/14 07:35 PM
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precisely. She's a scam artist who seeks to make money on the cause. If she wanted to make a large difference, she could have used the money she got from the kickstarter, and the notoriety, to start a Women centric gaming company, and provide games that fit the bill for the demand she says goes unfulfilled. Instead she has taken over 2 years and still not produced the content promised.
/r/MensRights28/12/14 07:27 PM
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FeMENists
/r/MensRights28/12/14 05:10 PM
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Maybe align as "factual feminists", like Christina Hoff Sommers?
/r/MensRights28/12/14 05:07 PM
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"like the inflexibility of workplaces for those of us with baby-making parts" Uh... You think only women have "baby making parts"? Pretty sure apparatus A needs to insert fluid 1A into apparatus B. you need both apparati to make a baby, foolish feminist.
/r/MensRights28/12/14 04:59 PM
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If you're unaware of someone's "triggers" and you pull one, the only thing anybody can reasonably expect is an apology. Personally I hate the concept of "being triggered" as it implies a right to never be offended or reminded of difficult things in life. Every time someone talks about suicide I think of a good friend I lost, sometimes holding back tears. I miss her dearly... I don't say a word to them about it. It is my mental issue, not theirs. "Triggers" are bullshit. A new phrase to justify f…
/r/MensRights28/12/14 04:51 PM
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How is this not discriminatory hiring practices? If genders were swapped, what would the response be?
/r/MensRights28/12/14 04:29 PM
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Am I not thinking for myself? I have not read what you've suggested. So I will read it. You have sort of a strange tone.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 02:39 AM
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What happened to vice? When did they become huffpost?
/r/MensRights21/12/14 02:19 PM
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TRIGGER WARNING: LIFE: uncensored reality in which the world occurs uncontrolled by anybody.
/r/MensRights14/12/14 06:54 PM
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science is irrelevant in the world of social activism. Science is only relevant as a way to prove your point, and when science doesn't prove your point, you lie about it, or ignore it, or shame people for using that science. The way it works in science is, hypothosis, tests, results, repeat, analyze. The way it works for social "science" is, Theory, work backwards to support theory, only admit data that supports theory, if you cannot substatiate the theory based on collected data, then manipulat…
/r/MensRights14/12/14 06:36 PM
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True. Regardless of what happened it's pretty clear the woman acted horribly
/r/MensRights02/12/14 05:17 PM
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Please explain the grey area.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 04:45 PM
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Blue collar guy here. I will urge a man to shut up if he is catcalling a woman. If he comments to me "wowee! She sure is a looker!" I find it normal. Not demeaning at all. This guy who wrote this article failed doing what he wanted, and resorted to a trade as a consolation prize. I really really hat it when the whole classist bullshit is trotted out about tradesmen. My blue collar trade has me primed to travel the world and run my own company.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 04:44 PM
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Men choose more dangerous jobs. Are not forced into them. What is the relevance to men's rights? How is this an issue of equality?
/r/MensRights02/12/14 04:08 PM
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Crying is a reaction to overwhelming emotion. Unless it was an act, I don't think she was attempting to handle it BY crying, but was most likely unable to keep her composure.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 04:06 PM
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Here is a crazy idea: put the burden of the boys safety on his parents!
/r/MensRights02/12/14 04:01 PM
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If there was no protest to what was occuring, I do not see it as rape.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 03:30 PM
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Look up "condescension" in the dictionary. Earning that reputation on top of people not taking men's issies seriously would not help men's issues. I think it's worth viewing this through the "reverse the genders" lens, because we can all easily imagine the difference in response. If it were a woman, I would be saying the same, "if you do and say nothing to indicate your protest, how is it rape?
/r/MensRights01/12/14 02:14 PM
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Just reverse the genders...
/r/MensRights01/12/14 02:07 PM
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try is a key word, protest, forget artistic integrity to say "don't rape me"... Curious how it's rape if there is not any form of protest.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 01:57 PM
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Why didn't he try to stop her? It is really rape if there is NO protest? And I don't mean by crazy California university feminist logic, I mean a sane realistic approach.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 03:38 AM
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So, Let's look at an extremist group known as Isis... Yes, clearly they empathize with people of other faiths and cultures, clearly they see other points of view. /s Objectification, within this context: treating a human being as an object. I recognize there is room for debate, depending on the grey area in the intention of the person instructing a woman to smile.... But generally speaking they aren't saying this to approach her as a person, looking for a connection. They are sexually interested…
/r/MensRights12/11/14 11:23 PM
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You are an extremist unable to see things from a point of view other than your own. It is actually possible to pay attention to what the majority of women are expressing, no. Clearly I don't speak for all women, or even some of them. But the countless women supporting the notion of not enjoying being treated a specific way speaks for a good portion of them. If there were even divisiveness about it, there would be a lot more women countering the argument. Why is it so hard to accept that telling …
/r/MensRights12/11/14 05:06 PM
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Why? "Smile". Why are they asking a stranger to smile? probably because they want to enjoy objectifying them because they find them attractive, and know that if she smiles she will look happy, and probably even prettier. It's also because they think it's clever enough of a line that makes them seem like they are saying "hey, smile, its a great day, a nice world! be happy, enjoy life!" but that's not what they are saying, and everybody knows it. Clearly women are saying "I don't like it when stra…
/r/MensRights12/11/14 12:11 AM
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I'm just too busy and don't value what I will gain from this discussion. But clearly you want my opinion to be defended. So. Here. I find you to be a bit too close to the line of an extremist. You believe that men suffer more greatly based on gender issues than women. Assuming we are speaking only of the western world, your argument can be waged as you are, but I find that flawed when we are talking about the fact that less than a lifetime ago women were up against a lot. Yes, feminism has won a…
/r/MensRights11/11/14 02:39 AM
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I don't think they are all "gynocentrists". Just idealists who also can't accept that idealism of concepts like human nature, public safety, etc are not always the reality. They won't accept that reality not because they necessarily believe women superior, but more because they don't accept the world as it is. Which could be commendable, but they have lost grip with the realities of the world, and human nature, and are treating a symptom of a massive societal issue, instead of the primary causes…
/r/MensRights10/11/14 10:47 AM
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You're right about one thing, I didn't spend the time to quantify my opinion to you. I don't care enough to have a pointless internet argument. You win. Good job.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 10:39 AM
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The pancetta thing -not sexism, it's pork... Lots of people don't/can't eat pork, and it was on veggies! The check thing... Yeah. Dead on. My wife hates that one. Of course there is always the wine list thing... My wife knows wine better than I do, we can probably drop that tradition as well.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 01:50 PM
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It is rude when the motivation is what it generally is in those situations.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 01:34 PM
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I disagree with her on most stuff she puts out that I have seen... Could someone provide examples of her misandrist views?
/r/MensRights09/11/14 01:21 PM
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Agreed. But in an ideal world, there wouldn't be hookers, you see, and therefore you'd never be treated like one, and should be able to dress how ever you want. /s That's the whole thing... Rejecting reality, in favor of what "should" be.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 01:16 PM
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Yes it is. It's the nice way of saying, I think your logic is flawed because neither gender really has it worse. It's pretty equal out there. Just different challenges. We disagree on a minute aspect of a topic that we generally agree on. Does it need further debate?
/r/MensRights09/11/14 01:12 PM
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My favorite line "women SHOULD BE ABLE TO xyz". Ok sure you should be able to drink heavily and not get taken advantage of I guess. You should be able to not worry about getting drugged... IN AN IDEAL WORLD. which this is not. I should be able to ride the subway without worry that if I absorb myself into my phone, that nobody will victimize me somehow, maybe snatch my phone out of my hand. Maybe mug me... Who knows!? I shouldn't have to worry about being victimized at all. But depending on my ch…
/r/MensRights09/11/14 04:07 AM
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YouTube is an international and amazing platform which she used to vault to such notoriety. Downplaying the power of YouTube is sort of misguided. YouTube is shared so easily that you will still watch more than 80% of linked video content through their servers. Better than YouTube? I disagree, more like a companion piece. Still, I think creating what you want, rather than demand others change to suit your desires is a modern phenomenon.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 03:53 AM
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I acknowledge the unique challenges men face, but I also see a lot of what society provides women to deal with. Not trying to be a jerk, but you ought to try to look at your view point a tad more objectively, your view point is heavily biased.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 03:49 AM
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Valid points. I didn't consider that point of view.
/r/MensRights08/11/14 03:37 PM
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Copied the whole page. Don't give this the clicks! TRENDING 286,946 VIEWS The Ultimate Guide To Being A Woman According to everyone else. posted on Nov. 7, 2014, at 3:15 p.m. Krystie Lee Yandoli BuzzFeed Staff Jenny Chang / BuzzFeed Be happy and appreciative of everything you have because women have come really, really far. Smile, especially when people gawk at you and catcall you on the street. Accepting compliments is the polite thing to do. Understand that catcalling and discrimination is jus…
/r/MensRights08/11/14 03:14 PM
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The thing is, you could make a crazy biased list about anything like this. Doublethink all over the place. I could probably counter everything there with some sort of male equivalent, that someone, at some time, experienced... But that doesn't make it common. Besides that, the majority of these things might be societal pressures felt by some women, but they are ultimately choices a person makes to feel them, give them validity, and act upon. Sometimes there are situations in which we sacrifice f…
/r/MensRights08/11/14 03:10 PM
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And, based on those characteristics, she is, at worst a scam artist with a cause. And at best, a really, really unmotivated critic who fails to deliver what is promised to the people who donated to her cause.
/r/MensRights08/11/14 02:54 PM
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Because many of the same problems women face regarding prejudice, etc men also face, sort of the other side of the coin. Men and women both face issues in our society. I don't believe either is "oppressed", but that we have some societal issues that created a lot of ideas of what men and women are, and what is expected of them. Men cannot be raped because they are sex crazed, and obviously an erection means they wanted it... Women are overly emotional and should not be trusted to make important …
/r/MensRights08/11/14 02:49 PM
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Literally http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1222156/Man-arrested-naked-home-Springfield-Virginia.html
/r/MensRights08/11/14 12:46 PM
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Inflating the statistic for impact is propaganda. Ten out of 100 men are rapists? All ten rapists will rape every woman at every encounter? No. How about .01% are poisoned. Eat a handful...? Sure. I will, because life is unpredictable and risky. I'll use my judgement and trust my instincts, and continue taking chances with human beings... Thanks.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 01:18 AM
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Can we please stop pretending that a classroom is an extension of society, and begin realizing it is the earliest part of shaping a future society... Kids don't understand sex, and they certainly don't understand that the little girls in their class are getting special treatment because of what adult women believe to be oppression in modern society makes them believe they must do for children who aren't even ten years old, and have no frame of reference other than "that's not fair!"
/r/MensRights05/11/14 01:34 PM
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Within games designed to allow you to kill people, the objectification of women is clearly the most atrocious thing the game promotes. Why isn't she flipping out about the hip hop community and how they treat women? If there is a community where misogyny is ingrained into the culture and behavior in large numbers, hip hop/rap is one place where it is rampant. ...maybe she (and everybody else) is afraid of seeming racist... White men: the race and gender you're allowed to be racist and sexist tow…
/r/MensRights01/11/14 01:54 PM
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Oh yeah, Colbert had his kids gloves on for this one.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 01:49 PM
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It's cool you realized your error. You're lucky he accepted your apology. I hope this sticks enough for you to make some changes in yourself so you can avoid this kind of loss of self control in the future. Truly, I wish you the best. Thanks for sharing, and I'm glad you've realized that some of the stuff men face as a gender is pretty screwed up. "Men's Rights" is a terrible name for the men's movement. But the goals are equality. I think you'll find the majority of those who post here to be re…
/r/MensRights02/10/14 04:31 AM
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I would say so. again, I wasn't doubting you, just trying to help you make your point stronger by citing sources. Thanks!
/r/MensRights22/09/14 12:44 AM
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interesting. A suggestion would be to link at least one source sighting this stat. Not that I don't believe you, just for due diligence sake.
/r/MensRights21/09/14 11:39 PM
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"men's rights" sounds terrible. nobody perceives men as being oppressed, which they assume means there is no need for any sort of advocacy.
/r/MensRights21/09/14 07:25 PM
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isn't the "1 in 5" a statistic of "in their lifetime"?
/r/MensRights21/09/14 07:22 PM
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Is it possible you're experiencing confirmation bias? Perhaps you've noticed a certain set of circumstances revolving around showing affection for a friend Vs. the indications behind romantic interests... My friend, many women do not even tell their husbands or boyfriends they look nice, because they don't consider that they would want to hear it. Your friends might fall into this catagory, or because there has already been some slightly awkward situations regarding confusion of attraction Vs. f…
/r/MensRights21/09/14 07:19 PM
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How can she slap!?
/r/MensRights13/09/14 02:18 PM
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I doubt the time will come for us in the USA is my point. I admit my lack of knowledge regarding the specifics of the non-profit making it available at cost. But... has such a thing been done in the USA before? how was that handled?
/r/MensRights10/09/14 06:28 PM
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I'm married, and child free without birth control for about 6 years now. However, not a bad plan for those who can swing it!
/r/MensRights10/09/14 06:02 AM
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Obamacare covers virtually all forms of birth control for women. And none for men. None. Not condoms, not vasectomies.... Oh... Right that's the end of our list. Damn right it got negative, I seriously doubt we will ever even see vasalgel in the USA, for it could damage the money made by keeping women on potentially dangerous drugs for longer than intended by the scientists who developed the drug... And we can't cut into profits!
/r/MensRights10/09/14 05:02 AM
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I bet we don't see it in the USA for a lot longer than until 2017. And I also bet insurance companies will refuse coverage, and nobody will care. Except the evil men's rights community, who will of course only be endorsing it so they can rape women without worrying about pesky impregnation. I am sad now. Edit: forgot a sarcasm tag. And now I am double sad because I realized my comments would need one.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 04:57 AM
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Indeed, I would like to know the answer to these questions. I also would like to ask; If feminism distances themselves from radfems (like the ones opposing transwomen being considered women) why do you lump a similar equivalent in with the majority of "moderate" MRAs who are concerned with the points you recognized as valid? If I go to tumblr and pull crazy feminist quoted is that fair? Why don't I just quote people like Andrea dworkins and say all feminists agree with these notions? Tim, your a…
/r/MensRights30/07/14 11:28 AM
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What's ridiculous is how you just cherry picked the worst parts of "black culture", and held it up against the best parts of "white culture" The white folks over in the trailer park aren't really the folks I look up to as an example for anything. Guess what, they're white. The black folks living in the projects, same damn thing, not a good example for my goals in life, how to be successful... Poverty is poverty. But I've known plenty of black families that did not "act white" at all. But they al…
/r/MensRights29/07/14 02:22 PM
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Wow. In depth. Also a very good distinction made re: radfems Totally insane.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 02:02 PM
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Good observation. Word choice is a great indicator of many things. It's quite interesting to me that the message feminism puts out there causes a reaction among many men that is the same "but not all men...". If you look at this from a simple propaganda and/or marketing perspective you would say "that's a bad marketing campaign, nobody wanted to buy our product... How can we try to sell it in a more effective way?" Feminism on the other hand uses it as a reason to spew more hate, and a chance to…
/r/MensRights29/07/14 12:58 PM
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The initial reaction is "men's rights!?, wtf that's a really dumb name". I agree with that part. Most younger folks have been pretty strongly convinced of most of the feminist rhetoric. Presenting facts, and urging them to read up themselves is generally where it ends up. Lots of "I doubt it's quite exactly as you say", which I leave at "well I hope your respect for my intelligence will have you doing your own research." Most people I know are logical. Especially college age guys I am friends wi…
/r/MensRights29/07/14 12:48 PM
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Don't tell me to wear a seat belt, tell other drivers not to crash into me! Put the blame where it belongs!
/r/MensRights24/07/14 04:09 AM
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You're welcome. A lot of the sexism towards boys isn't overt. It's more subtle than what is directed at young girls. Essentially, gender roles of the "typical" female are attempted to be applied to both boys and girls. Some girls are rough and tumble and want to play sports and get dirty. Some boys want to play make believe, and enjoy more imaginative play... To attempt to force kids into a mold based around gender is not ok. the problem is that what is thought of as "feminine" has been morphed …
/r/MensRights20/07/14 02:40 PM
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Google Christina hoff sommers. She wrote a book called the war on boys. I believe you'll find a lot of what you're looking for there.
/r/MensRights20/07/14 01:18 PM
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The explanation would be "child pornography"! Familywatchdog tells you what they were convicted of and shows you any available mug shots. Imagine this poor guy moves into a new neighborhood with his wife and kids... His neighbors notice a new red dot on the map, and it's their new neighbor... Who had a conviction for child porn about 8 years ago... And now he has kids!? WTF!!? So how can he possibly handle that... "Hi I am your new neighbor _. We just moved in, got a couple little ones... Yeah w…
/r/MensRights11/07/14 06:04 AM
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Thank you for the link.
/r/MensRights10/07/14 07:31 PM
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Not doubting you, but can you link to info about the lack of coverage for vasectomies but indeed the coverage of Women having their tubes tied?
/r/MensRights10/07/14 04:40 AM
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Honestly... In my experience, it's always been a case of do not put fluid A into container B. Pull the fuck out. Colitis interrupus. 97% effective if you do it right. Now, girl pulls condom off... Why does SHE care? My experience says women can feel a difference but not by much, if any. Nope. Condom stays on, time a get a new one. Point is, what I would do is not cum inside a girl regardless of if she is on the pill or not. Literally... Do not put fluid A into container B. I was conceived while …
/r/MensRights07/07/14 03:45 AM
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It always makes me crazy how there will be people who will use race/gender as a qualifier for how much "privilege" a person has. I recognize the "white privilege" thing to be a reality in terms of statistical data. But to compare based solely upon race, or gender ignores massive components of this supposed privilege. Here is a short list of those things: Location and the culture associated with that location. Socio-economic status you were born into. Personality traits (friendliness/outgoing nat…
/r/MensRights06/07/14 12:59 PM
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Perhaps it's not all caps on separate lines to try to make your point slid stronger... You're right. My example was extreme. If someone attacks me, and I defend myself to the point where my attacker can no longer attack me, am I the aggressor? I would like to see a full description of the incident. All k saw was that a woman admitted to making things physical and the person she attacked was treated more harshly in punishment than she was simply because she lost the fight.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 12:23 PM
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I would say making a determination of who was the physical aggressor, and what sort of injuries were sustained matters a lot. If you attack me with a weapon, I disarm you by breaking your wrist, and end the fight, but I am charged with assault and battery as you're treated as a victim, is that right??
/r/MensRights05/07/14 02:31 PM
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A lot of conservatives don't buy into the anti-gay and socially backward policies. They simply are still clinging to the idea that conservative = smaller government and more efficient use of tax dollars.
/r/MensRights05/07/14 02:25 PM
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So if patriarchy were real, it would basically be the Middle East.
/r/MensRights05/07/14 02:18 PM
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I once dated a girl from Dallas/ft worth. This is accurate.
/r/MensRights05/07/14 02:07 PM
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War on boys, Christina Hoff Sommers? The blatant use of skewed data as fact is disgusting on it's own, let alone the anecdotal "I feel" statements made about why men/boys aren't doing well in school is insane. Btw: it has taken me ten years in my career field to get anywhere without a degree. Bullshit men get by without a degree and still earn more than women. My wife outearns me, and has for our entire relationship, without a degree. That might change soon but only because I have started my own…
/r/MensRights05/07/14 01:53 PM
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ARTICLE TEXT: There is an increasing gap between female college students and their male counterparts in terms of college preparation, enrollment and graduation in the University of California (UC) and California State University (CSU) systems, according to a recent report by the Campaign for College Opportunity. On average, women graduate at a rate of five to eight percent higher than males, according to the report. At CSUN, 62 percent of first-time freshmen graduates from the 2012-2013 school y…
/r/MensRights05/07/14 01:48 PM
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The only useful thing in comparing rates of disease between men and women is to observe if our sexual dimorphism effects how the disease effects each gender in a specific sense and how to best help people suffering said disease. Anecdotal evidence is useless in any sort of real determination. And ultimately, the notion of more women suffering migraines is a curious one to me. I also am aware of the wide range of symptoms migraines can display. I have had a few I was able to struggle through my d…
/r/MensRights05/07/14 01:26 PM
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The problem is that migraines are referred to as "migraine headache" when some people don't even experience the headache. The reality is that it's a brain disorder. It's illegal here too. I just don't really pay attention to laws that are stupid. I am a good person. I regard the safety of others. The law is not a necessary component to guide my behavior. If I get caught (again) I'll hire a good lawyer and deal with it. But it's a choice not many people want to attempt to make. I also could not t…
/r/MensRights04/07/14 04:11 AM
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The company isn't choosing the more narrow options in fashion for men. Could you wear green slacks with a slick looking designer shirt to a business casual environment? I'd bet you could. And in that sense it is not a discriminatory choice. The discrimination would be that if a woman could wear flashy shoes and skirts/blouses that were bright colors, etc, and the men were told that they could only wear blues/blacks/greys/browns or something like that. I do see there being a potential case for cl…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 11:02 PM
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Man, That's some rough stuff there. I know how bad it can be. I am sorry you've had people deny that you suffer from a disorder that is clearly documented to effect men as well as women simply because you're not a woman. The smell sensitivity is one I always forget about, but totally sucks. At least the excedrine works for you. To me that shit might as well be a tic-tac unfortunately. Marijuana helps a bit. Sleep also helps. The mega expensive drugs don't help. However very strong pain killers w…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:56 PM
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cluster headaches and migraines are two different things. cluster headaches are actually more painful than migraines, which is hard for me to imagine. I do find that more women seem to claim to be "having the worst migraine today" while fully functioning. I also know that my mom dealt with them a lot in the past as well in a legitimate sense. I seem to know just as many men who get migraines as women, though that is purely anecdotal evidence and means nothing.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:49 PM
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Holy shit this has been my whole life. I get severe migraine headaches. I have experienced virtually every symptom you can get... This includes the numbness and tingling limbs, dizziness and disorientation, aphasia, which is where you're fully aware of what you're trying to say, but word salad comes out, visual disturbances ranging from blind spots, to tunnel vision, the standard shimmering auras, and the one time in my life where the migraine was actually worth the experience it came with, I go…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:47 PM
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-Uniforms: can be enforced in most work environments. Typically uniforms ARE uniform. you will still see a difference: example would be someplace where they have a polo shirt with a company logo, and are required to wear a certain color pants. This is a uniform, but certain cuts are more flattering for women, and so they make female specific fitting polo shirts. NOT revealing clothing, simply properly fitting clothing that is the same for both sexes. This is common in many retail stores, you'll …
/r/MensRights03/07/14 09:52 PM
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I believe the AD uses cherry picked statistics to make a point, and I disagree with that method. however, I do think many PARENTS need to be aware of how discouraging anything their CHILD is interested in exploring is doing them a disservice. Boys are differently gender policed, but no less effected. The thing is, the notion that women aren't well represented in "scientific careers" is bullshit. Take a look at medical science and biological sciences... much more equal numbers, and even some wher…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 08:11 PM
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Personally, I consider the morals and idealogy of a company to be an important factor in regards to whether or not I would choose to work for them. Some don't have such a luxury, but I do feel that exercising religious freedoms isn't something a private corporation should have a right to. Obviously many people disagree on this topic, and the Supreme Court has ruled... I disagree with the ruling.
/r/MensRights03/07/14 03:22 AM
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In many ways this decision sets a terrible president. My thoughts are this: your healthcare is a private matter. The coverage provided by an employer should not also be dictated by religious, or any personally held belief systems. It is not that conpanies life, or Heath, yet they are able to deny specifc types of coverage for personal beliefs. Dangerous precedent... Very dangerous.
/r/MensRights02/07/14 07:27 PM
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"Journalist" No, not remotely. This is a blogger. A glorified Facebook soap boxer.
/r/MensRights02/07/14 05:25 AM
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Full article text: don't give them the page views!! The very first International Conference on Men’s Issues happened over the weekend, in the unlikely surroundings of a VFW Lodge in Detroit. The thought of a bunch of men’s rights activists converging to swap stories of how good women have it these days isn’t one that fills anyone with joy (unless they’ve been on the Reddit red pills for a while), and I’m loath to give it any more publicity — but fuck it, the event has already happened, and it pr…
/r/MensRights02/07/14 05:20 AM
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I was supporting your statement with hyperbole/overt sarcasm Calm your jets of justice my friend.
/r/MensRights02/07/14 05:02 AM
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It was sarcasm, obviously. If we free the oppressed only to oppress the oppressors, what have we actually changed? And are those who would cry for such action seeking justice, or retribution?
/r/MensRights02/07/14 04:54 AM
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And you've found the reason why men's rights doesn't leave feminism alone: politics, where laws and social programs are formed! Just to let you know. If you're referencing the hobby lobby case, most of us here would strongly support the "women's" side of this argument.
/r/MensRights02/07/14 04:51 AM
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Well that's why when blacks were freed from slavery in the US they made white people do their time in slavery....
/r/MensRights02/07/14 04:48 AM
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It's about double standards and hypocrisy. Very few people here care that it's happening, but rather that it is celebrated while an equally overt display of objectification of women would be called an example of "rape culture" and attacked by all of the blogs celebrating the World Cup via appreciating the male form. It's just the double standard, not the act itself.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 08:45 PM
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Sorry about your lack of privilege bro. Great post.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 08:41 PM
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Uh... Nope. It's about a woman who has insecurities wanting to be able to enjoy sexual objectification without feeling like a hypocrite. Most men would probably enjoy more women at the sports bar.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 08:26 PM
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Downvote due to stawman argument. Nobody is saying women can make rape jokes.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 05:42 AM
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people who are like sheboonery is the reason we need downvotes. I'm glad this sub doesn't ban people for having their own viewpoints. I'm also glad we have a vote system to show disapproval.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 11:50 PM
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I think it was just used as an extreme example of providing the fallacy in the argument "people who disagree with X is why we need X" its a flawed argument at it's core.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 11:48 PM
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So, it doesn't belong here. This kind of crap is what causes people to call men's rights advocates "whiney".
/r/MensRights24/06/14 11:21 PM
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I am not sure how this is a men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 10:53 PM
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holy shit. "Earlier, it was reported that even as distressed women from Bhopal as well as other districts flooded the centre since its inception, obscene calls from men was giving tough time to the counsellors present in the centre." Well that's unfortunate that a call center got some prank/harassing phone calls. I bet that's never happened to any other sorts of call centers of any kind /s "Keeping in view the National Crime Record Bureau's 2012 report which stated that the state witnesses the h…
/r/MensRights23/06/14 06:16 PM
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No, it's not common sense to do this, or it would be commonplace to see it enacted. It is basic logic and reason as well as the law. But these are all things that are eroding quickly in the flood of emotionally charged ill conceived concepts meant to protect victims at, literally, ALL costs. It abandons logic and reason immediately, because it begins to presume that the accuser is to be automatically believed before the accused.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 06:07 PM
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"if you're not laughing you're crying" some folks use humor as a way to cope, and deal with things very uncomfortable to talk about/deal with.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 05:25 PM
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Stats and references being ignored due to anecdotal evidence? No way feminists (of the tumblr and reddit 4th wave variety) would make such a flawed argument.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 12:47 PM
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Forgive my ignorance of the legal system, but if the judge acts in direct violation of of federal law, isn't there a step other than appeal to hold that judge accountable? If I were a judge in a state that marijuana was illegal in, and I simply just gave every single marijuana charge a "not guilty" verdict because I felt the federal law was wrong in this case, as well as the state law, surely I would be removed from the bench. How can this judge ignore federal law/process in his proceedings? TL;…
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:58 AM
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feminnocence
/r/MensRights18/06/14 06:30 AM
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Women "leaders" of the MRM are well respected because they lend balance to the message, and help soften the delivery of the information. a women advocating for men and boys causes other women to take pause and in some cases consider what is being said more seriously. Of course women are well respected as outspoken advocates for equality... It's sort of the entire point of the MRM... equal rights and responsibilities.
/r/MensRights15/06/14 08:57 PM
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No, not almost. Just as crazy. A different flavor that might not come with mass murder as a result, but the level of logical fallacy and delusion is right up there.
/r/MensRights14/06/14 03:34 PM
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Collecting and cataloging radfem posts like this is not much of a men's rights issue. It's deplorable but not a men's rights issue. Perhaps r/againstFeminism is the place for this type of post.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 01:31 PM
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Do you ever get tired of attempting to assert an intellectual superiority over strangers using logical fallacy?
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:58 PM
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Too bad for women who have had hysterectomies then eh?
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:47 PM
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I would feel more comfortable swimming with carp than sharks as well...
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:46 PM
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It's important to note that many people who post here avoid generalizing about men or women. I read a lot of the posts here. The shitty biggoted comments get downvoted... Not sure how the men's rights movement became such a negatively perceived. I've never seen someone share a story like that here and be received negatively or with misogynistic comments. At least, the shitty comments always get downvoted... Point is, do not get the bad wrap.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 01:04 AM
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So.... There were at one time before Hitler's third reich, discussions regarding eugenics. eu·gen·ics yo͞oˈjeniks/ noun the science of improving a human population by controlled breeding to increase the occurrence of desirable heritable characteristics. Developed largely by Francis Galton as a method of improving the human race, it fell into disfavor only after the perversion of its doctrines by the Nazis. The Nazis showed us how well that idea works out.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 01:25 PM
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I already agreed it is inappropriate and that teenage boys will think what they think, regardless of the length of the shorts. Just saying be careful in how much your frustration with female privilege comes out as hostility towards females.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 05:53 PM
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Based on that post, I don't think most feminists truly understand what the patriarchy is. I also cannot believe the comments saying "the not all men have power, but most who have power are men" is a new concept to them.... water is wet, but not all things wet are water... Critical thinking skills here.. WTF.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:01 PM
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It IS a woman's choice to live in fear or not, but the open hostility towards this stuff only bolsters the "look how angry and violent men are" rhetoric they use to justify not being able to tell a rapist from a man. The thing is... Women DO face some seriously NOT OK shit that is everything from catcalls to rape. The narrative the twitter feminists used to try to gain sympathy and begin a change in society was not well received, because it was the same method that's been used for awhile now tha…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 01:39 PM
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You are extremely hostile, and seem to need to categorize me to make dealing with someone who doesn't simply view things as "black and white" as you seem to, easier. I'm no troll. I'm certainly no white knight. The thing is, nudity is only automatically sexualized in the USA really. Work places have dress codes. And they are always more loose with women. But they ARE enforced. My wife had to tell an intern last summer that her booty shorts were inappropriate for the office... She also became the…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:50 PM
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Thanks. Makes sense.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:57 AM
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I support free speech.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:56 AM
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Why not? We have video games that actively allow you to murder massive numbers of innocent people if you so choose... Kill cops... It's displayed in our entertainment in movies and TV, game of thrones is the most violent show on HBO, and it is also the most popular. In what way do we not have a culture that "promotes" murder in similar ways that it "promotes" rape.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 01:43 AM
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I disapprove of your overall hostility. Someone shared an experience and has an opinion. Even the sidebar tells you to keep it respectful... However you bring to mind something that follows this concept of the "rape hysteria". When I was younger, and when my older brothers were younger, we were allowed to roam free in our neighborhood all summer long. No real supervision. This began around ten years old I would guess. Nobody was worried about us being abducted, etc. my friends did the same. It w…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 01:26 AM
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Not to mention, there is not a single barometer which upon sight alone allows one to adequately asses another persons threat level, or "goodness". Humans are the sum of their actions.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 01:19 AM
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While nobody has a right to dictate what others say and think, you cannot just say literally anything you want... There are laws about this. It is called assault. Clearly calling a woman a name for wearing a tank top is not assault, but it is a despicable thing to do. Wearing a tank top is not a sexual display. Nudity, or showing skin is not a sexual display, it is a clothing choice. Are you the red pill overlap I keep reading about?
/r/MensRights04/06/14 01:14 AM
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yesallwomen is based in valid reasoning. In a statistical sense, all women have experienced some form of harassment based on sexism, and that's the very start. The problem is that the narrative that resulted in "not all men are like that" was obviously ineffective at communicating the issues of harassment women face in a way that "men" were receptive to. Instead we hear generalization of our entire gender, and feel attacked simply for being male. In fact, "not all men" should really be "not most…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 01:05 AM
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I'm a casual participant who agrees with the main points of the MRM. Labeling it as "outrage" does have a bit of a whiney connotation to it. I see your points, but was just trying to offer the logic in the use of the label, as well as why it has a place here as a meta men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 11:56 PM
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"Perhaps even here". Do you want to find some of those types of comments and posts that have been supported and upvoted within this subreddit? Because if you're talking about posts in other subs, then perhaps MRA's should be left out of this hasty lumping together of ideologies.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 08:49 PM
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It's a sorting tool, a label used to describe the topic at hand. The need for such a label is because there is such a large amount of misinformation being spread about the men's rights movement. As of now, people who have been deeply hurt by the issues men's rights works on (child custody, rape (victims of it and the falsely accused) and so on. People who were hurt and are trying to keep other men from dealing with the same are being called a hate group, repeatedly. So, this indeed is a source o…
/r/MensRights03/06/14 08:45 PM
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What's the overlap on men's rights and feminism?
/r/MensRights03/06/14 08:36 PM
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MRA is to TRP as Organic farming is to Monsanto.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 08:20 PM
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It is mindblowing, and agenda exposing.
/r/MensRights26/05/14 05:43 PM
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They also have a tendency to completely disregard the resulting issues for men, some of their platforms create. some of them actually seem to take pleasure in making the world worse for men.
/r/MensRights26/05/14 03:44 PM
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I wasn't taught much of anything in regard to gender roles directly, other than as a young boy you're told not to hit girls. never to hit girls. Girls, and Women, were displayed to me as, get this.... People. Worth my respect as any other human is. The sum of their actions, as any other human is. Worth only what they show themselves to be, nothing more, nothing less, and certainly nothing based on their gender. Both my mother and father worked. Though my mother was, and still is, a daycare provi…
/r/MensRights26/05/14 02:26 AM
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Yep... I honestly feel like a crazy person sometimes because there is this mass delusion about what an "MRA" is. It makes me feel like some sort of conspiracy theorist. But, I'm not. The reality is frightening.
/r/MensRights26/05/14 02:13 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ehr6HxrU5wo
/r/MensRights26/05/14 01:57 AM
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I'm really happy to see that another hashtag, one with a much more equality driven approach, has begun to trend.
/r/MensRights26/05/14 01:53 AM
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Not a lot, except understand that you'll now be accountable to being a father. You obviously have a relationship with this woman, and care for her. She may have thought, in a logical thought exercise that abortion would be the route she would go, but upon the actual situation being real, that option was too much to deal with emotionally. Now, you're not ready to be a father, and you have your complaints about how your life will not proceed as planned. That sucks, and I'm sorry for that. But now …
/r/MensRights26/05/14 01:51 AM
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Straw man argument tactics like crazy! I've never ever seen anybody make comments or statements that women (or anybody) should be raped in an MRA thread.
/r/MensRights25/05/14 09:31 PM
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Agreed, except that this is still so hyperbolic. Boys are being told they are basically faulty, and treated as such. There is more a movement to eliminate maleness from culture, and unfortunately these gendered concepts are directed at children who don't even really understand the concept. It's an attempt to vilify maleness.
/r/MensRights25/05/14 01:22 PM
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"Is it a group of men? A bad one right? Yeah just associate him with them! Oh those two groups are actually opposites...? Well, whatever if it hurts MRA!"
/r/MensRights25/05/14 12:11 PM
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I'm not sure that it doesn't concern this sub reddit. Feminism is somehow accepted by society to the point that actions like these are full of apologists for the "extremists". Yet if men acted in anyway close to this they'd be universally condemned. Even by this sub full of terrible misogynists! (/s). Point is, this isn't remotely close to gender equality, and is yet another example displaying the difference in how men as women are treated by society.
/r/MensRights24/05/14 01:46 PM
1

This is why so many people have chosen to label themselves as "egalitarians" rather than gender specific rights groups oriented labels. I believe we humans are created equal. And we have certain human rights as a result. Human is the only thing required. Race and gender matter as much as the color of a car in terms of it's usefulness as a car.
/r/MensRights18/05/14 02:49 AM
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I recognize that was your intention, and I received it as intended. This thread is trolled by people who like to twist things up, and get the wrong idea of what this subreddit promotes. I try to offer my comments in support of the context these types of stories should be received (as intended), rather than twisted into some sort of "oh look, they are reveling in punishing women for sexual harassment!" where the truth is "hey, just wanted to give a positive example of equality in the workplace".
/r/MensRights06/05/14 03:23 PM
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The only reason men's rights would (should?) be interested in this is cause it displays equal treatment in the work place. Good job OP.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 02:23 PM
11

You know what gets people to take you seriously, bullet pointing "you're stupid" and "stop". If your school doesn't enforce dress code equally that is bullshit. I feel that there ought to be requirements of dress code at school. They should apply equally to all genders. Rape culture is a myth created and perpetuated by junk science and logical fallacies. The concept of "rape culture" and it's application to a situation regarding dress code enforcement minimizes the trauma suffered by rape victim…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 02:55 AM
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I volunteered with an organization that worked with children. I was never alone with them, and the time spent was mostly on bikes, or coaching children on bikes. No background check. No questioning WHY I wanted to work with children. I was eventually awarded volunteer of the year with them, hopefully I will be in a position to volunteer my time again soon. The article linked is really saddening. One incident is referenced for reason to keep children away from men. But the reasoning there is abso…
/r/MensRights27/04/14 01:42 PM
1

Statistics are trotted out to prove points, and quickly ignored when there are more statistics to show counterpoints, potentially much, much stronger counter points. You don't NEED guns! You also don't NEED swimming pools, and they kill far more kids than guns... Yet you don't hesitate to send your kid to the neighbors house with a pool... SMDH logic is not a strong point of humans.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 09:47 PM
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Yeah... But the LDS church is stubborn and old fashioned bunch... Not a lot of hope in my mind. Beautiful landscape though!
/r/MensRights27/03/14 09:45 PM
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Not crazy pills... The rest of the planet is on crazy pills, except its less crazy pills and a willful ignorance to only see the world in a way that comforts them. "A woman physically attacked a man? Wow, why was she so mad? That is so unlike a woman!" Common perception is that a woman must be driven to this behavior, and is somehow a victim. Essentially society takes the "I wouldn't have to hit you if you didn't make me so mad" attitude of the abusive spouse when the genders don't make sense to…
/r/MensRights27/03/14 09:26 PM
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Not at all... Utah is the state that makes it easy for a woman to adopt out her child without the fathers consent... Fuck Utah.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 09:15 PM
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She posted the photo to Facebook. If you post something to Facebook you obviously didn't want it to stay private.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 08:59 PM
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Yes because the only time people get guns and kill with them, they followed all the laws regarding guns, right up until they committed murder... When will people learn laws exist to provide a structure for punishment, they do not, and never will, prevent crimes.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 08:44 PM
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I glossed over it? No. I described it. She had a concerned look, because an unknown man was leading her child towards the bathroom, When I spoke to her, she was friendly and pleasant. I do not know that she considered me a "threat". I know she did what any rational parent would upon seeing a stranger leading their child anyplace. Now, I know that leading a kid towards a bathroom seems like absolutely insane behavior, except that: I would not have entered the bathroom with him, and honestly, I'd …
/r/MensRights26/03/14 02:03 AM
1

I volunteered with an organization that takes kids out into the woods on mountain bikes.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 03:43 AM
1

This is very accurate.
/r/MensRights25/03/14 03:39 AM
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This is a great article, I just wish they would leave some of the more opinionated statements out, and let the facts speak for themselves. I almost want to rewrite this article with a more gentle tone, present the same facts and figures, quotes, etc, but leave out the more MRA sounding statements that, while true, turn a lot of people off to hearing the truth. The facts about the studies and statements from those who conducted the studies cannot be argued. Without the added bits of opinion throw…
/r/MensRights24/03/14 10:23 PM
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So if I were skinny with a pencil thin mustache wearing aviator sunglasses and a too tight T-shirt that might be a problem?
/r/MensRights24/03/14 09:07 PM
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Thanks. I do try to be a good person. I have a full beard and vary from 185-200lbs. About 5'11". Not a typical cyclists physique, I am always a bit soft around the middle but don't normally appear "fat". Though I am not sure how that would effect this. What body type do you think is perceived as less threatening?
/r/MensRights24/03/14 08:34 PM
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Solid point.
/r/MensRights24/03/14 08:01 PM
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I am an American. And a 33 year old married man with no children. I like children. I grew up with my mother being an in home day care provider. That meant that growing up I was around children from the ages of infancy to kindergarten age pretty much daily until I moved out. As a result I like kids. I think they are funny, and I enjoy interacting with them. I even volunteered with an organization that gets underprivileged kids out on mountain bike rides, kids who might have never left a 10 block …
/r/MensRights24/03/14 07:58 PM
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Can you give more details?
/r/MensRights24/03/14 07:40 PM
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Your concern is karma harvesting? Or was this simply an observation of the rage this would cause?
/r/MensRights24/03/14 07:38 PM
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Purely speculative, but in order to fire people up, and get them to rise up against their oppressors, they first need to be convinced they are, in fact, oppressed... This makes the culture of victims in feminism a requirement... Again, purely speculative.
/r/MensRights24/03/14 05:08 PM
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1) I agree the college education system, and accreditation programs/degree requirements are totally fucked up. 2) not everybody is the sort of autodidact that you are. In fact, most aren't and require guidance and an established program to help them learn. 3) your opinions on the minutia aside, i feel we could agree that more choices need to exist, and the degree programs/required degrees for so many political positions do indeed seem to feed the wage gap. Solutions seem overwhelmingly large to …
/r/MensRights24/03/14 11:54 AM
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Oh you're funny... What if I told you I support equality, and enjoy seeing young women empowered because even though legally in this country we are on equal footing, little girls still get sent messages of gender role that aren't fair for anyone. What I dislike is anybody not willing to say "instead of excluding little boys from this program designed to get little girls involved in XYZ, let's include the boys, in fact let's not exclude anyone to help send a message of equality." Separating gende…
/r/MensRights24/03/14 11:23 AM
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"Pedantic" is a favorite insult of feminists.
/r/MensRights24/03/14 04:39 AM
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I would have no problem with this if an equivalent "lite" course was offered as co-ed.
/r/MensRights19/03/14 03:13 AM
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It is possible. However, knowledge of precisely what is covered in both classes would greatly allow us to know if this is simply a matter of a more truncated course, or, some sort of favoritism. I have no problem with an all women class for something like this, however. Women often feel intimidated to take classes like this, asking a simple question is tough if you worry you'll be laughed at for not knowing something so basic. Creating an all women's course is fine by me. But, the cost should be…
/r/MensRights18/03/14 10:34 PM
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sounds like the womens course is truncated, and not as comprehensive as the other course... Which is interesting itself.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 09:45 PM
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They already offered her the job. Taking it away because she tried to negotiate is a little screwed up if you ask me... but it's the right to do so if they want to. And she made it clear she had not commited to accepting the job in her reply, essentially stating that the offered compensation was not what she wanted, and in fact what she DID want was a lot of time not doing what they wanted her there to do: Teach.
/r/MensRights18/03/14 09:03 PM
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Because the girl with upper middle class parents doesn't have the same opportunity as the boy with parents below the poverty line, living in a trailer park.... Truly she has multiple times more opportunity than he does but will still be eligible for assistance programs because of her gender... Insane.
/r/MensRights17/03/14 01:25 PM
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I read to the point of "taking part in violence toward women, or worse, blaming women for it" Yes... It is worse to say "maybe if you didn't go to the worst part of town at 3 AM alone wearing a mini skirt and crop top, you wouldn't have been raped" than to be the guy who raped her...
/r/MensRights16/03/14 01:13 PM
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that's what she said, ABOUT JOE JACK.
/r/MensRights04/03/14 03:42 AM
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Or... She is establishing a history in the field so she can have a career to return to after taking the time to raise her children. Believe me, I don't understand the concept of manufacturing interest in a particular field by women simply because that field has fewer women (and big paychecks). But... Can you fault a woman for trying to "have it all"... Women are pressured to be all of it... Career women, mothers, etc.. As men, our "privilege" is greatly a myth, but when it comes to social percep…
/r/MensRights03/03/14 01:01 AM
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I could stop rape... But I am kinda busy. Currently all I do to stop rape is, not rape. And not condone rape. And not condone double standards about rape.
/r/MensRights03/03/14 12:47 AM
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All these subversive fake rape reporting plans... This must be happening on the "deep web" right?? I mean, I read a lot of MRM stuff, I had never heard of such actions organized and taking place by MRM "members". Hmm... Or that doesn't happen.
/r/MensRights03/03/14 12:28 AM
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The notion of being overweight as status symbols was usually a result of famine, or at least something close to it. In societies that were not subjected to such struggles but to pretend that we have not looked to the human form, in all its various incarnations as something to be appreciated is foolish, and denies history.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 03:25 PM
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I think that women prefer the sculpted male physique as an aesthetic the way most humans do. The reason that the the ancient Greek statues were fit, and had defined muscular features is because as humans, we can recognize what the ideal human form is. Through history, it has changed, sure, but rarely do you see obesity worshiped, and where you do, it is as a result of some other function, a side effect of famine, or a deity figure. Do not mistake this for personal/sexual attraction, although it …
/r/MensRights01/03/14 01:18 AM
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She is a comedian. Why should anybody listen to her discuss politics? Not a fan of huckabee at all, but I do like responsible reporting, and proper context. "Mansplain". Makes me sick... So am I supposed to assume you know everything i do, and not explain any of it? If I need to make reference to a topic, should I refrain from descriptions and use technical terminology? Or is using the technical terminology mansplaining because I am using my specific knowledge and nomenclature to intimidate you,…
/r/MensRights25/02/14 12:03 AM
2

You were as antagonizing as you were egalitarian. Why are you surprised at your banning?
/r/MensRights22/02/14 06:32 PM
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"Men are taught to take what they want!" Well I was taught to earn it. So fuck them.
/r/MensRights20/02/14 11:35 PM
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What an amazing read: between the lines there is so much said. So many insecurities... Despite her outlines and specific sexist views, the "good man" she describes is a men's rights advocate!
/r/MensRights18/02/14 06:29 AM
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Right. Agreed. I meant putting her poly desires ahead of her kids needs to have a mom.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 06:12 AM
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I don't think so unless you hide your men's rights forum activity from me in real life and on Facebook... Lol. Unfortunately I think your situation is all too common. Sorry you're in a bind. If you are my best friend, how's the bike?
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:15 AM
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Glad you included sarcasm tags. Part of my problem is that people often don't get the satire, and so to promote this sort of crap, either direction, is a detriment to the cause of equality.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 01:36 AM
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My best friend is dealing with a very similar situation. He is a single dad because his wife wanted to bail so she could be poly-amorous, and far worse things as well... Anyway, he is a great dad (as I am sure you are as well) and I call him regularly to give him a chance to vent and just chat. Oh did I mention he moved halfway across the country for her before she split on him? Yeah... This misandry has got to be put to a stop... If we are promoting ideology, shouldn't it be ideal? If we are pr…
/r/MensRights18/02/14 01:15 AM
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"How women are".... This is the crap that makes people not take men's rights seriously. If you must use blanket statements, keep it to "feminists". And even then you'd be incorrect to use such wide sweeping statements.
/r/MensRights17/02/14 09:00 PM
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All valid points, yet none address the notion of promoting hate in any form as a good ideology. No, I'm not talking about shouting down a race that has suffered at the hands of an oppressive race when they raise valid points, I'm talking about blanket statements rooted in hate made against an entire race.
/r/MensRights17/02/14 05:34 PM
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While racism against whites is not a serious problem, harboring the idea that it is ok to be hateful towards a group because you perceive that group to be deserving of hate, is a problem, an ideological problem. It's fine to promote the advancement of a subset of people, be it women, or minority races. It is very much not fine or ok to promote hatred of anybody based on things like gender and race. Promoting the idea that racism is ok and in fact not racism as long as it is directed at the unopp…
/r/MensRights15/02/14 12:07 AM
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Came up against this argument with race on Facebook today. Stating racism cannot exist against white people because they aren't oppressed: here is my response: "So Monica, making hateful remarks about people based on race, is not racism, as long as you don't believe that race to have been oppressed? You are part of the problem if you think like that. You perpetuate hate, not healing with that attitude."
/r/MensRights14/02/14 03:00 PM
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I only mind it when I feel like crap. Otherwise, I enjoy what I do for the most part. Any job will be unpleasant at times though.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 10:11 PM
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Right. So what is it called when I came down with shingles at 31, including on the underside of my foot, kept working at both my jobs, and moved to a new house. By the way the thing I kept saying before I went to the doctor was "I feel like I am dying, I don't know what is wrong with me". But yeah, a "man cold" will stop me in my tracks... Get a clue people. Edit: one of my jobs is in an un-air conditioned shop, and requires heavy lifting, lots of math, and careful attention to detail.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 06:01 PM
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Did you just equate being an unwilling parent to a prison sentence? I bet you'd find a lot of prisoners who would disagree with your analogy.
/r/MensRights28/01/14 04:52 PM
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Anybody else thinking these girls watched too much house of cards?
/r/MensRights28/01/14 04:35 PM
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Or... It just means being locked in as someone she cannot see as anything but a friend, and after getting to know her, you really like her a lot. Maybe you wanted to share a life with her. Enjoy romance, yes, but also emotional intimacy. To experience typical human courtship, typical romantic feelings of Perhaps even LOVE! It's insulting to men to boil their desire for a relationship down to purely sex, and ignore the painful experience of seeing someone you've come to have romantic feelings for…
/r/MensRights28/01/14 06:18 AM
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So, then the entirety of mammalian existence is due to rape? So we owe each and every valued life to rape?
/r/MensRights28/01/14 05:48 AM
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Go to therapy. Sue the girl who falsely accused you. Put her In the poor house.
/r/MensRights26/01/14 01:36 PM
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I completely understand what you're saying, but my point still holds. HBO and broadcast are very different, but my point remains... don't get all twisted up over something so insignificant.
/r/MensRights18/01/14 05:52 PM
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I think pointing out that you believe feminists wouldn't allow the equivalent type of thing shown without complaint is simply pointing out that feminists can often be hypocritical and miss the mark on egalitarianism. But OP, I don't care that this was shown on TV. I watch horror movies. Just last night I watched an episode of Game Of Thrones in which a man's penis was severed and sent to his family... It's meant to stir a reaction in you. It's "art", its entertainment, and its not an attack on m…
/r/MensRights18/01/14 02:59 PM
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fair enough. And I was just pointing out that responding to ignorance with impatience and irritation doesn't help spread knowledge and understanding.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 03:55 AM
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I never disagreed that everybody deserves the same rights. I never argued that such questions should be off limits to those who wish them to be off limits. And yes, the internet is quite shocking to those who've somehow not encountered it.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 03:45 AM
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So let me see if I've got this: people are ignorant to the concept of transgendered people in large quantity. This is something, that while may well have existed for a long time, is relatively shocking and new to still a large number of cultures in america. As a result wide spread ignorance to the issues that face transgenered people exist. In response, ignorant questions get asked from time to time, and in this case, an ignorant question was asked in front of a large audience. So, The time has …
/r/MensRights14/01/14 03:55 AM
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Transgender is new. It requires surgery, hormone therapy, etc. It is a process to "transition" into the opposite sex so you feel on the outside, how you feel on the inside. This is something that IS unusual to the VAST majority of people. It is a pretty damn new thing. What blows my mind is the attitude that surrounds it. This attitude of shaming a person who doesn't know the particulars of what a "trans-person" goes through, what the proceedure is like, why they choose to transition, what sort …
/r/MensRights12/01/14 02:49 PM
0

Fucking vertical video.
/r/MensRights11/01/14 08:29 PM
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I've worked with guys who tease each other by drawing dicks on each others PPE. I'm pretty sure most women, even the ones in the trades, wouldn't like that too much.
/r/MensRights05/01/14 04:59 PM
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I'm a welder fabricator. I've worked in the trade for nearly 10 years. I attended trade school at the community college, there was one girl in the class. increasing enrollment for women in the welding class by 100% would mean one more woman... Anyway, here is my take on women in the trades: Women in the trades would, as the article said, feel as though they've got something to prove, and as though they need to be at LEAST on the same level as their coworkers, but also trying to be better to prov…
/r/MensRights05/01/14 04:10 PM
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Feminism is rooted in precisely that which it is defined as. Modern feminists have had to find new things to fight for, to argue about, and to be offended and upset by. Are the issues women face non-issues? no, not at all, but they are comparable to what men face, and while there ought to be organizations fighting to continue working toward an egalitarian society, many of the causes and talking points of feminism have stepped beyond the definition of working for equality, and are instead focused…
/r/MensRights05/01/14 03:48 PM
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right back at ya pal!! Grab a beer?
/r/MensRights05/01/14 05:20 AM
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bingo. Men are pretty harsh with each other, especially professionally.
/r/MensRights05/01/14 03:57 AM
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Interesting... Why aren't we discussing how jobs like welding, farming, plumbing, and other trades are in desperate need of people? Did you know the average farmer (american) is 60 years old!? The average american welder, 55 years old. Pipe welders can easily make a 6 figure salary inside of 5 years on the job. Its difficult hard work, but there are jobs available and they pay well to those who can do the work. Its MASSIVELY male dominated. But yet there are no acronyms for the trades, there is …
/r/MensRights22/12/13 02:30 AM
1

Really, there is a lack of people to fill jobs in that industry?
/r/MensRights21/12/13 06:51 PM
1

Agreed. It's pretty strange the emphasis put on that field in particular as NEEDING more women, why?
/r/MensRights21/12/13 06:45 PM
1

"White cis. Female" Bleck. Drivel.
/r/MensRights21/12/13 01:04 AM
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"Le" Fucking die.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 11:56 PM
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Ugh. Why can't these people be held accountable for what they've clearly documented here as their actions?
/r/MensRights12/12/13 03:44 PM
1

Is docs a European organization? Here, well, in Texas, a good friend of mine obtained full custody of his son when his wife left him and began using narcotics. This was something if a shock, I anticipated he would really have to make a case. But a female judge ruled logically in the matter. It's terrible if even one child is left in harms way while a very very capable and fit parent stands by. Helpless. Wanting nothing more than to care for the child they don't have legal right to, but it's nice…
/r/MensRights12/12/13 01:24 PM
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I would like to see a source for this "14 times more likely than men to die in a disaster" statistic. That sounds insanely inflated, if even based in truth. so, for every man that died in the Philippines after megastorm haiyan, 14 women died? That would mean the death toll is 5000+ So, lets combine ALL children (i would assume they used 0-17 yrs of age for "children") and ALL women, and I am guessing you are at a majority of the people in a situation already... now, lets do the math. for every 1…
/r/MensRights09/12/13 04:32 PM
0

...so you dismiss people based on their gender for what you expect/assume will come forth from this person, solely based on their gender? Hm.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 10:20 PM
1

This is correct. And now you're both arguing semantics.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 12:35 AM
1

exactly. Thank you.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 12:35 AM
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Your friends are jerks. Almost anybody I call a friend would do anything they could to help me if I told them i was suicidal. I think this subreddit is full of folks who'd love to help. For that matter, I'm willing to listen, and do what I can for you if you'd like to PM me.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 12:33 AM
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My former roomate killed herself this past year. It was no less tragic because more men kill themselves. I think of her often, she was an amazing girl and really miss her. I think its a great idea to urge the men at men's rights to make their presence known in the r/suicidewatch subreddit, and do what they can to help most of the people reaching out for help there. by and large it will mostly be men. if you feel there are so many more resources available for women, how about kindly directing wom…
/r/MensRights30/11/13 12:29 AM
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bingo.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 12:24 AM
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hmm, how about "people" at r/suicidewatch.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 02:29 PM
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Well, you're wrong. I can't make it more clear than that.
/r/MensRights23/11/13 05:25 AM
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Doubtlessly. indeed. You made this statement, asserting a lot more about a woman and her opinions of things than you could possibly know based on one opinion she holds regarding social issues. Pal, That's sexist.
/r/MensRights23/11/13 02:04 AM
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Oh, one word answer with zero explanation on the internet? cool.
/r/MensRights23/11/13 01:41 AM
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only really useful when bidding on federal contracts, and rather than minority owned, we will probably try to get hub zone certified down the line. I am a welder fabricator, I make things out of metal. you can see some of my work here: fordsfabrications.com Plus, there are other requirements when you simply put a founder/owner of a company on paper beyond simply claiming ownership. Also another host of reasons. She will eventually be partnered in, and given a % of ownership, and does help out a …
/r/MensRights23/11/13 01:39 AM
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If this is indeed a regular thing as the post says, he is a sex offender and should be treated as such. I also don't think "standing there" is part of anybody's getting up and taking a shower routine. So, with the info we have, "stands there whenever she walks the dog" that behavior is clearly harassment at the very least.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 03:43 PM
2

It's funny. My wife and I just had a long discussion regarding this type of thing. I am starting my own company, and I stated if i weren't born a white male into my exact situation my life would have been easier because of all the programs and grants afforded to minorities and women. She disagreed. I said essentially its racism and sexist to be so exclusionary towards white males, but that there are countless examples of this all the time. Here is yet another. She believes that because it is so …
/r/MensRights22/11/13 03:25 PM
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No... Because your range of ability to enjoy something has nothing to do with the sensations that someone else experiences. Your 100% intensity is going to seem pretty damned intense, because it is your 100% and is the only frame of reference you know. So saying sex isn't as "pleasurable" for a man with an uncircumcised penis is inaccurate. Saying a mans glans is far more sensitive to direct stimulation when he is uncircumcised is accurate, but pleasure derived from that direct stimulation is en…
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:26 PM
1

My father. I never saw him disrespect anybody.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:16 PM
2

Marketing to children in general is already kind of scummy. Directing children towards gender bias in their interests is not great for their development. This will keep more girls from playing with toy guns, cars, trucks, and later the engineering toys like knex and certain Lego style toys. Most of the gender bias toys girls are marketed into playing with focus on motherhood, or kitchens etc. This early play and gravitation towards certain items for make believe play influence later development …
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:04 PM
2

I think your kid is screwed if they are turning to any doll as a role model.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 02:53 PM
1

Oh. That's certainly not the nicest example of a circumcised penis but I understand now. Thanks.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 02:47 PM
1

In the interest of population control all governments of the world should pay for birth control and elective sterilization. Just my opinion.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 02:20 PM
0

Thanks. I have read about the topic. I'm aware of most of the differences. But again, zero frame of reference other than what I've got. And you might call it being philosophical about it but I call it being realistic.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 02:08 PM
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Yes the poorly performed circumcisions are terrible, terrible things. The best performed circumcisions are pointless, and while I don't suffer any of the side effects listed by this gent in his comments, I do sympathies with him. I hope Americans will begin to realize that it is most often needless, and stop subjecting kids to this brutal procedure. One question though... A "keratinized glans" As in the same stuff hair and nails are made from...? Whaaaat?
/r/MensRights12/11/13 01:56 PM
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I agree. I shouldn't have used a disclaimer before stating my opinions. I indeed meant that I felt people (some, not the normal MRA frequenters) would chastise me for saying I don't think being circumcised is so terrible (provided the doctor does a good job). I'm glad I wasn't received that way.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 01:47 PM
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The amount of sensitivity I lost was lost as an infant as you suggested. Therefore I don't know any different, and I experience no other sexual health issues at all. Let me analogize this for you. Ever heard of a supertaster? A supertaster is a person who literally has more taste buds and therefore tastes food more intensely. What you're telling me is basically like saying "oh you love pizza? Well you can't like it as much as a supertaster! Your tongue doesn't work well enough" I cannot change t…
/r/MensRights12/11/13 01:42 PM
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I know I will get a lot of hate for this but... I am Circumcised. It works fine. I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel incomplete. I have a healthy sex life and I'm ok with it. But, this article changed my mind. If there is a future where I have a son. There is a future where my son doesn't get his foreskin chopped off.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:53 AM
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This article is insane. Her son is monopolizing computer time... Get a second computer. She chose to send her daughter to a special camp (why not both kids?) and her daughter says "too many boys!" what if her son said "too many girls!"? Less women in the classes. More women dropping out "because they aren't comfortable". Oh is that why? All of them? Dropping out at twice the rate of men because it's "uncomfortable"? Hmmm... What if men were dropping out and claiming they were uncomfortable aroun…
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:48 AM
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Common reasoning from the feminist camp goes like this: Violent against men perpetrated by women is so rare, and the patriarchy is so powerful and there is a history of violence against women perpetrated by men that goes back into history so far that it's not really worth mentioning, after all with so much oppression there is bound to be some backlash. Not even kidding. I've literally heard that argument more than once.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:32 AM
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There are a couple pieces of info that need to accompany the chunk of data regarding how many men will get prostate cancer vs how many women will be affected by breast cancer. The older a man gets, the more likely he is to have prostate cancer. Above 80 years old something like 2/3rds of men have it. So that skews the numbers heavily on that statistic. However, prostate cancer that occurs in the 40s is more likely to be a faster moving tumor that can escape the prostate and infect larger regions…
/r/MensRights12/11/13 03:02 AM
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It's tough for many men to talk about these sorts of issues. The momentum of the MO is helping to turn that tide. I think that seeing as how this is pretty much the only thing men have for awareness, and that it's pretty new, we are still learning. Women have walks, bike rides, prime time TV spots and an entire color dedicated to breast cancer awareness/find raising etc. Men have the mustache and very little experience promoting specific causes as a gender. Especially since we get told how our r…
/r/MensRights11/11/13 10:29 PM
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Pretty sure literally gouging a mans eyes out of his head with your bare hands will have an appreciable result. Eyes are fragile, throats are fragile. Self defense courses aren't worthless, but they have to be an ongoing thing, not a one day seminar. Beyond this I believe handguns are a great solution for women, especially in states with conceal carry laws.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 04:38 PM
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Society expects everyone to conform to a certain level of appearance. Men have to keep their facial hair kempt, or shaven bare... Excessively hairy men are made a joke out of, often been used as a topic for comedy. So why is this a problem?
/r/MensRights22/10/13 04:13 PM
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You've chosen to recognize the influences, but you stopped halfway. Realization is step 1. Step 2. Is chafing your own programming back to a healthy one. Good luck to you.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 04:03 PM
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I meant in situations where your immediate struggle/strike has not freed you from them. But I also am not a self defense expert... What does not exist?
/r/MensRights22/10/13 04:01 PM
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Hopefully they teach better pressure points than that. And throat and eyes are places I always tell my wife to go for... Literally try to rip a man eyeballs out if he attacks you. Smash his throat in as hard as you can and try to rip his eyes out. I'm all for another class on campus for men's self defense, 100%. But in trying to help empower women to defend themselves against whomever would attack and/or try to rape them, I think is great!
/r/MensRights22/10/13 03:27 PM
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I would say, after talking to Buddhist monks, studying the spirituality lightly, practicing meditation with them, and spending time in their temple with them... If any human has the ability to see things most as they truly are, it would probably be the people who have given their life to following Buddhist teachings. Just my take on it.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 03:17 PM
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Not only male privledge... WHITE male privledge! I'm sure all the trailer park dwelling white men living in poverty feel their advantage.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 02:54 PM
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Articles about him did. And I was discussing how his mother was defending him. I didn't disagree with any if your points.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 02:52 PM
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For awhile I debated this stuff with some feminist friends. They would point to college degrees in women's studies to tell me how ignorant I am. And how I am sheltered. And how I don't really know. Etc. The word "men" is thrown around with negativity a lot. An entire gender is referred to when the topic of tape comes up, as though it were common for most men to rape people. It was often thrown in my face how we are naturally violent, and more likely to commit violent crimes when I would engage t…
/r/MensRights22/10/13 06:44 AM
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No. Usually for murders and such. Point remains... However this particular woman also has an excuse for all things bad in his past too.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 06:31 AM
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You mean like many family members who've apologized for terrible actions of another family member?? Happens a lot actually.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 06:14 AM
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"Men should" gave me "men should die" and "men should persue women". "Men aren't..." Gives "men aren't men anymore" "men aren't worth it" "men aren't dogs, dogs are loyal" "Men can't" "men can't cook, men can't drive, men can't be trusted, men can't multitask" "Men don't" "men don't cry, men don't change, men don't listen"
/r/MensRights21/10/13 11:47 PM
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"Men should" second result "Men should die" Hmmm...
/r/MensRights21/10/13 11:38 PM
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I'm curious how divorce settlements would be decided in such an instance?
/r/MensRights21/10/13 01:29 PM
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Yeah... Men over 50 don't have much life to love anyway....? "Later in life" isn't always that late.
/r/MensRights21/10/13 01:22 PM
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Objects can be called oriental, people are Asian. As for everything else. Yes. White men have a built in advantage you see... So there have to be programs and Systems in place to make it more fair.... You understand right? Your hardwork is not as valuable to an employer than the hardwork of a minority.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 04:38 AM
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The problem with this sticker is the phrasing. "Another man against.." Makes it sound like there are other men in support of men's violence against women. I'm pretty sure only a psychotic person supports men abusing women.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 04:16 AM
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My buddy is, as of recently, a single dad. Even when he was still with his ex, people would act like he had no idea how to raise his son. Amazing how people can comprehend some fathers are actually amazingly good single parents.
/r/MensRights27/06/13 09:08 PM
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