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IrishShee/r/ExRedPill01/04/25 10:32 AM
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Eww!
/r/ExRedPill09/05/26 08:34 PM
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People who exploit others are really good at doing it without explicitly being told what their vulnerabilities are. Being open about your vulnerabilities actually protects you because exploiters will assume you’re working on your vulnerabilities and less likely to allow yourself to be exploited
/r/ExRedPill22/12/25 10:05 AM
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Get a life
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 10:03 PM
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Lol You can think of me as promiscuous if you like. I couldn’t care less.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 09:22 PM
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Why are you asking?
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 08:31 PM
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So masturbate. It seems like you want everything all your way without an ounce of compromise on your part. You’re so young and already giving up, it’s depressing. You seem like the type that will never be happy, and I think that’s what you need to work on. Accept that you can’t have everything your own way and focus on other ways to make yourself happy and fulfilled. Maybe focus a little less on women and sex. Get a hobby. Masturbate to free porn and use your money to buy yourself something nice…
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:25 AM
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So pay for it. You’re clearly bitter you’re not getting it for free but think you should. And you’re taking that bitterness out on women …. The very people you want something from. Do you not see how disgusting that is? “Give me your body to use for my sexual gratification, and even though I’m 300 lbs you’d better find me attractive!! But I don’t want a relationship because that’s too much work. And I don’t want to better myself because that’s too much work.” - you, probably.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/25 12:13 AM
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You can make yourself more attractive but you can’t make people attracted to you. That either happens or it doesn’t. When you’re attracted to someone it doesn’t matter whether they wear makeup or perfume or any of the other rubbish.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/25 07:32 AM
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You think that spark is in someone’s control? Do you think attraction is in our control too?
/r/ExRedPill31/10/25 07:28 AM
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I’m not sure what point you’re making here
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 05:21 PM
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Spark isn’t really something you can control. You either feel it or you don’t.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 09:49 AM
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It doesn’t say whether they stayed together since the time they were “childhood sweethearts” but I think a lot of people that were childhood sweethearts with someone eventually feel bored and essentially they’re wondering if something better is out there. Maybe she feels that she missed out on dating different types of men to see how it felt, maybe their sex life is boring. We’ll never know the real reasons they’re breaking up because they’re unlikely to tell the press. Maybe the relationship on…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/25 07:40 AM
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Men hating women when men hold power over women is completely different to the other way around. The fact you think they’re comparable tells me all I need to know
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 09:06 AM
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Oh for goodness sake. You know that when women say they hate men they don’t mean ALL men right? Why is this so difficult to grasp? I have a partner whom I love and I frequently say in exasperation “ugh I hate men”, and guess what? He understands it comes from a place of hurt and oppression. There’s SUCH a lack of sympathy and understanding for women who have been SAd, raped and abused but people are so fucking quick to jump to the defence of men if those same women say they hate men.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 06:40 AM
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When men literally want to take away women’s rights, and cause women a lot of harm, it’s pretty normal for women to say “I hate men” don’t you think?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 10:32 PM
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But if you have a preference for larger breasts then small ones won’t “please” you
/r/ExRedPill29/09/25 08:16 PM
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Control in what way? I’m assuming you mean policy. How do women not contribute equally?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 03:31 PM
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How so? Why not?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 02:08 PM
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I’m failing to see how being a feminist is “extreme” in any way, shape or form. Do you not think women deserve the same rights as men?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/25 09:32 AM
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So men know that girth matters more yet they only ever tell women the length measurement? Makes sense
/r/ExRedPill05/09/25 08:53 PM
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In all my 32 years, a man has never told me his girth measurements but probably 100 men have told me their length measurement. Maybe this is something men share between themselves? 😂
/r/ExRedPill05/09/25 08:00 PM
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It’s definitely not girth. Men aren’t measuring their girth. When they talk about size they’re talking in inches… and they’re talking about the length
/r/ExRedPill05/09/25 07:18 PM
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When people talk about a large penis they mean “long”. If they’re talking about a wide penis they say “thick”. When men talk about women only liking big dick, they mean “long”. Don’t try to change the narrative now. Again, some women prefer a thick penis but lots don’t.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/25 04:17 PM
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That’s incorrect
/r/ExRedPill27/08/25 06:39 AM
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A bit of an uncommon opinion but just let yourself have those feelings. Sit with the feeling and at some point you’ll probably think “ok, nothing’s really changed. I’m still me, I can still do fun things and have a nice time despite these feelings” and really accept that, for now at least, those feelings are a part of you. One of the worst things I can do (and this is for me personally, everyone is different) is try to get rid of negative feelings or tell myself “you shouldn’t feel like this” be…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 11:38 AM
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Sorry but how are you telling me (a woman) what women prefer? Lots of women who partake in the lifestyle you’re talking about do so because they prefer larger penises, so that’s probably where you’re getting your numbers from. The average woman’s vagina is between 4 and 8 inches deep when aroused. So anything above 8 inches is a waste. And anything between 4 and 8 is likely to be the “perfect” size for a woman depending on her individual anatomy.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/25 10:37 AM
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Lots of women don’t enjoy the feeling of a large penis
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 09:09 PM
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Apart from penis, which parts can women adjust that men can’t?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 09:08 PM
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Love this take because it’s so true for me and my friends
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 07:17 AM
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I pray that these countries do go the way of Japan/Korea. Men are much more conservative than women and that needs to change if men want to keep dating women. You don’t get to take away our rights and then complain that we don’t want to date you
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 07:15 AM
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Women could say the same thing about who you’re willing to sleep with though. If men are willing to sleep with a wider selection of women, your gf is probably thinking “there isn’t a woman in this room my bf isn’t willing to fuck”
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 07:09 AM
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Bla bla bla comparing it to race has been done to death and I’m bored of it. The reason it’s OK for women to dislike men is because men benefit from patriarchy and women suffer because of it. Would you think it’s acceptable for native people to hate white people for coming and taking their land etc? Of course, you would say it’s understandable. But for some reason can’t fathom that it’s the same for women hating men. And just in case you’re stupid enough to think women mean all men, I’ll clarify…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 10:06 AM
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You didn’t “catch” her liking that stuff, you noticed her liking that stuff. She isn’t doing anything wrong. We absolutely need women to encourage each other to fight against the patriarchy. Especially if you’re in the US where abortion is now illegal and the Adriana Smith thing has happened (if you don’t know what that is, google it). And this is largely due to men in positions of power exerting control over women’s bodies completely to the women’s detriment. If you haven’t already, I’d recomme…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 08:22 AM
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Why do men do the same thing?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/25 01:28 PM
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Breast implants are not a reasonable solution to wanting larger breasts. They come with all sorts of side effects and risks, they cost a lot and will need to be replaced in 10 (ish) years, your body can reject them and become very unwell and they also no longer look or feel like real breasts. Also… what’s “interesting” about it?
/r/ExRedPill11/05/25 05:39 PM
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What do they have to do with the topic of the post?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/25 10:55 AM
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Is preferred and even has privilege? Wtf are you even talking about
/r/ExRedPill03/01/25 09:07 AM
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And some men love small breasts and some love large
/r/ExRedPill14/12/24 02:32 PM
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So I would only be able to have sex in that one position to avoid pain? No thank you.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/24 09:22 PM
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But there are plenty of women who don’t enjoy the feel of a large penis who would comment on how large a penis is if they encountered it. In the same way that men will comment on large breasts even if that’s not their preference.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 09:10 AM
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But a bigger penis isn’t necessarily able to fulfil that function better. And not all men prefer big breasts lol
/r/ExRedPill28/08/24 11:55 PM
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Ok you got me. Go find me a large penis because clearly you know better about what I want than I do.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/24 05:32 PM
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The comparison is to illustrate that just because something gets commented on / noticed more doesn’t mean it’s the preference. To me, a large penis can look aesthetically good but I don’t want it inside me because I hate my cervix being pushed on during sex (which only happens if the penis is bigger than a certain size)
/r/ExRedPill14/08/24 07:02 AM
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I would upvote this more if I could
/r/ExRedPill11/06/24 03:40 PM
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As others have suggested, therapy. It will help you look deeper into how you feel and why you feel it. It sounds simple but it really helped me to be able to link my knee-jerk reactions about things today back to the same feeling I had as a kid and some of the things that created that feeling in me. For some reason, just knowing the underlying reason for my reaction to things today makes me feel better about them, whereas I used to feel shame about those feelings and try to ignore them or preten…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/24 07:12 AM
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It’s weird that you’re complaining about women needing an emotional connection to find a man attractive because I would MUCH rather my male partner need to have an emotional connection to a woman to find her attractive than be drooling over every woman we walk past in the street because he’s able to see her in a sexual way. The “small percentage of men” you talk about isn’t the same group of men getting sex from all the women, it’s that women are only attracted to a small group of men, but the m…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 07:53 AM
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This statistic is used so often by people who haven’t even read the data. The data doesn’t say what you think it says. Go read it before you cite it.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 07:43 AM
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I’m not really sure why this is offensive, unless you want to be used for casual sex but no one actually wants a relationship with you
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 04:23 PM
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She didn’t stumble across a bear, she tried to take a selfie with the bear 😂 what a ridiculous piece of “evidence” you’ve just added to the convo
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:45 PM
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It’s not a room though, it’s the woods. An open space where you have a far higher chance of survival.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 03:37 PM
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I completely get it. It just made me chuckle
/r/ExRedPill02/05/24 12:47 PM
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I loved this! Thanks for sharing. Also, don’t think we didn’t notice the little brag you slipped in there about 100+ models 😂
/r/ExRedPill02/05/24 11:29 AM
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My ex was 5’9 and I’m 5’7 and people used to always comment that we looked the same height (inevitably I’d have some heel on my shoes and he wouldn’t). But his height was part of him and I found him attractive and I agree, that he felt sturdy. My current bf is 6’1 and I like that for completely different reasons. Mainly that he makes me feel petite lol. For me, height is just part of someone and you either find them attractive or you don’t. I’ve never been put off someone because of their height…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 05:33 PM
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I’ve had conversations with multiple friends about which celeb we secretly have a crush on. The reason it’s “secret” is because they are generally considered unattractive. Most of the ones mentioned were completely unattractive to me. And the ones I’ve mentioned, most people have said “omg nooo not him” because they find him unattractive. The point I’m making is that even “ugly” people are attractive to someone. I will also say that the majority of people who are objectively attractive are not p…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 04:47 PM
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You’re nasty
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 11:57 PM
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You’re missing a massive factor that is influencing the attention you’re getting now. Guys who are in shape are attractive to women for non-visual reasons. Health is important to a lot of people and a guy who focuses on his health and keeping his body strong and healthy is attractive. Men usually die younger than women do and (at least for me) it’s a big worry if my partner is really unhealthy as I feel like he’s going to die young and leave me alone and heartbroken. Being visually attractive is…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:48 AM
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😂 well done, you got me
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 02:52 PM
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But you said you “took the redpill” therefore you believe in what it says. And what it says is incredible derogatory and hateful towards women.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 12:21 PM
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How about because redpillers think of and treat women badly and you don’t want to do that?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 10:03 AM
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Commenting a second time to state the plain fact: only one out my five closest friends prefers a large penis. For me, it’s actually off-putting if it’s large because i know it’s just going to hurt me. I hate the feeling of my cervix being pushed against and it means that anyone with a large penis needs to not fully go in and they spend the entire time being careful
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 01:56 PM
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Well it’s the same as when a woman’s nudes are leaked and she has massive breasts. It gets commented on in a way that smaller breasts don’t. Am I to believe from that that all men must prefer bigger breasts because only the bigger breasts get commented on?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 01:54 PM
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You 100% should be ok with and accept how often and with whom other people decide to have sex. You also get to decide whether to date them.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 09:41 PM
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The reason he won’t do what you’ve advised is because men like this truly believe that if they’re just hot enough then women will be interested in them regardless of their personality and that’s the key to their happiness 🙄
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 03:13 PM
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I saw a post on exredpill the other day and the man mentioned 35 as the age he wanted to have kids by. I’m guessing it’s some redpill thing?
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 09:09 AM
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I think someone’s “world” is a normal way to view a person. Family and friends, where they live, their lifestyle, their views, their plans for the future, their daily routine, their hobbies, their likes and dislikes. All of these things contribute to our opinion of someone and constitutes their “world”. If these things don’t align with what she’s looking for from a partner then she wouldn’t carry on seeing that person. Why is that a bad thing?
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 11:35 AM
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Firstly, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You absolutely don’t deserve to be treated like that and he isn’t showing a single sign that there’s hope he’ll return to who he was previously. Secondly, what’s your house situation? Is he on the contract? If you’re the one paying rent you can absolutely change the contract to be only in your name. Tell him he has a month to figure out what he’s going to do and then once the month has passed, change the locks while he’s out at work if he hasn’t l…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 11:49 AM
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That’s how I feel about people who are billionaires who have their parents’ money to fall back on so they start business ventures where they pay everyone else to do all the work for them and make a shit ton of money. The only fans girl you’re referring to is (I’m assuming because I have no idea) a regular person who has found success doing something she’s good at. That’s luck, and a lot of other women on OF don’t do very well. She will (unfortunately) probably face negative consequences for her …
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 12:51 AM
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I had to google what escortmaxxing is and it’s honestly one of the saddest things I’ve ever seen. Any emotional comfort you get from it is faked on her part, you know that right? She’s literally pretending to care about you so she gets paid. How do you think fake care is going to make you feel loved and cared for? Go to therapy to explore the cause of your feelings, and focus on yourself for a while. Self love. Self care. Eat well. Exercise. Stay offline as much as possible and spend time outsid…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 10:42 AM
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Dating for money is absolutely understandable, especially if you plan on having kids. Life is expensive. Kids are really expensive. Scraping by while trying to feed kids is not fun. Everyone chooses someone based on what their future will look like. For some people, their love of being outdoors will determine who they choose to date. For others, choosing someone who they have amazing sex with is the most important. For others, they choose someone with a good career because it gives them financia…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 09:32 AM
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I don’t know what OP meant exactly when he said that. Ask OP.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:23 AM
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You think women aren’t insecure??? I wanted to kms as a teenager/young adult because many things in my life were going wrong - one of them being that I believed I was unlovable and not enough. Not good looking enough, not thin enough, not charming enough, not smart enough, not funny enough. Men were interested in me, but only for sex and I felt used afterwards, especially because they would then say I was easy or call me a slut when all I wanted was for them to like me. I later thought no one wo…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:22 AM
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Fearing men isn’t the only problem women face in dating though, there’s so much more than that. Do you honestly think you need to look like Henry Cavil to succeed in dating? If you really are destined for great things, women will find that attractive. Being capable, intelligent and ambitious is attractive. You have nothing to worry about except your personality and this weird mindset of your gf somehow holding power over you because she’s more attractive to men than you are to women. That probab…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:02 AM
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But you’re saying that most men are reasonable looking and don’t smell etc. if that’s all you think is required then you’ve got some serious learning to do. My suggestion to do research wasn’t to win “oppression olympics” but so you can understand more what women go through in life but also in dating. Because once you understand that, you’ll have a pretty great idea of how they want to be treated and what they’re looking for in a partner thereby increasing your chances with finding and maintaini…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:44 PM
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I didn’t even finish reading your post but I could make many many arguments about women being at a disadvantage because of biology and social conditioning. Literally type into google “what makes being a woman difficult” or “disadvantages of being a woman” or “are women actually equal to men” and start reading. You may learn some stuff. After that try “social pressures for women”, “why are some women misogynists” and “why is dating hard for women”. If you want some more research tips after that, …
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:27 PM
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I don’t even know where to begin with this shit. You’re not exredpill, you’re very much still redpill and you’ve got so much to learn and experience. Your bitterness based on absolute bollocks is probably making you really unattractive to the people who know you.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 09:33 PM
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😂 it’s true though 😭
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 09:36 PM
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I can understand why that would hurt. I’m not sure how old you are but over time you can remedy that by sharing feminist posts or just anti-redpill posts, up to you. We all have to accept that people will view us in a way we may not like, or a way that we used to be but no longer are. Just trust that by continuing on your anti-redpill path, you will be viewed in the right way by people who know you, and new people you meet. I’m a woman btw, but you may have been using ‘man’ as a figure of speech…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 08:27 AM
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You sound like you’re doing really well getting rid of redpill ideas from your mind. But the way you say “it sounds like I am just not lucky when it comes to relationships” and “nobody seems to put any effort in me” is a bit strange. If you’ve been acting in a way that is “redpill” then why are you surprised people don’t want to put effort in. And you’re putting it down to being unlucky when you know where you’ve gone wrong. Those things aside, I do wish you the best of luck. Stay away from redp…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 01:27 AM
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I personally would never willingly go to a strip show so I’m going to try to be as respectful as possible here. Women who cheer and clap and scream while a male stripper is getting naked is doing so because that’s what the audience is supposed to do. She may be impressed by how ripped he is, but it’s like seeing a body builder or a celebrity without his shirt on - it’s the nature of the show to admire what the man is showing off. It definitely doesn’t mean that’s her personal preference in a man…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 08:18 AM
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No offence but that’s not a reason
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 08:24 AM
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I find any man who isn’t a virgin himself looking for a virgin girlfriend 1000% creepy. It grosses me out the way redpillers talk about virginity and sexual promiscuity in women.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 12:23 PM
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Every time I read these excerpts from TRP, I actually feel sick. Particularly the way they describe women as babies/chimps. I can’t believe people read that and think anything else they have to say is valuable. Some people say they only agree with “parts” of the red pill rhetoric. But like… If you’re willing to take advice from anyone who thinks of women in this way then I don’t want to hear anything you have to say.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 09:31 AM
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What advice would you give to someone who struggled to make friends and is now bitter and resentful?
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 02:53 PM
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Do you have friends? What advice would you give to someone who was never successful at making friends and is now bitter and resentful? Probably something along the lines of “no one is entitled to friends just because they want them. All you can do is be a good person, work on your social skills and hope for the best. You need to reassess how you’re coming across to other people and realise that your bitterness is not only unfounded but it’s also palpable and putting people off.” - you need to ta…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 02:23 PM
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Well the first thing to do is stop assuming that because you’re tall and earn well you should therefore have women coming onto you left and right. That’s a redpill mindset which will put a lot of women off and makes you lazy because you think that’s all you have to do to get into a relationship with a woman. I read recently on AskMen, quite a few men in the comments had gone out with a really attractive woman only to find out she had serious red flags and they didn’t want to see her any more. An…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 09:37 AM
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Sorry I didn’t mean 200 is anything to be ashamed of, just illustrating that although many women have 200 as an option, very few take it and yet we’re still shamed for sleeping with “too many”. Basically we can’t win.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 10:46 AM
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This is actually a really good point. It’s ridiculously easy for women to get sex if that’s all they’re looking for, so why are women not all in the 100s for body count? And therefore why are women being shamed for having slept with 20 men when they could easily have slept with 200
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 10:32 AM
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You talk about wanting your daughter to be shown compassion if she’s only slept with 0-2 people, but should she not receive compassion if she’s slept with more than that? Or should she be shamed for being a ‘slut’ ? People rarely shame others for having slept with too ‘few’ people, but women are frequently shamed for being ‘promiscuous’ even if their number isn’t high.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 10:31 AM
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This is so accurate. I wish I thought like this 10 years ago.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/23 11:27 PM
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I didn’t say women are the only victims. I’m saying women are the only ones you’re criticising even though abuse can explain their behaviour
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 04:08 PM
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When talking about abuse you can’t really base the actions of women as a whole on abuse victims. Being abused changes the way you cope in relationships and the uncertainty and trauma because ‘normal’ to you, which is why when you date someone healthy it can feel ‘boring’ and you miss the excitement of the person who abused you. This is to do with attachment, not attraction. And basing women as a whole on abuse victims is non-sensical and harmful.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/23 07:38 AM
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No offence but sounds like you’re still a red-piller if you believe this. People can have “colourful” pasts, as you put it, and find a deep connection with someone they’re extremely attracted to - sexually and otherwise. Women, like men, are capable of being more attracted to someone in their past than their current partner and there can be multiple reasons for that. It could be that they didn’t actually know the past person very well so the attraction is the unknown or the potential of that per…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 09:03 PM
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What bothers me is that you are willing to overlook the absolutely appalling way women are spoken about in the red pill rhetoric because you get something out of it. And what you’re getting out of it seems like things you can much more easily gain from self help books. It’s like overlooking Trump’s behaviour and saying he’s a good guy and has value just because you agree with one good thing he did (no examples spring to mind, sorry). But that good thing he did is also done by actual good people,…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:22 PM
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