Irishjedi52 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Health insurance?		Irishjedi52	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/25 02:53 PM

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2	Ex wife’s new contact name. Need ideas! I use her first initial then the word cell. That's it.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/25 02:18 AM
1	Unbelievable Divorce! I can attest. Getting divorced in Massachusetts sucks!!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/25 08:31 PM
1	How long did you get over? They call her their bonus mom. Her daughters and my daughter call each other step sisters. When I met her it was in the beginning of the summer and I was determined to make that summer just about me. Once we started talking that went out the window. I've never been happier and it's not about investing time. It's about happiness and just how happy you are which right now I am the happiest I've ever been.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/25 01:26 AM
2	How long did you get over? Not long. Married 21 years. Mostly amicable with ex. Moved in with parents during divorce process for 2 years. Bought a motorcycle, then a house, and I'm only a school teacher. 4 years after finalized got engaged to greatest woman who has entered my life, other than my two daughters. Life gets better.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/08/25 02:34 PM
5	How much do you pay child support? I did pay $1600/month for my two girls. That hurt. They are 25 and 28 now. Luckily no alimony.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/25 11:06 PM
7	Financially ruined after divorce Don't give up. I was paying $440 a week for my 2 girls and I'm a school teacher. I was working 3 jobs to her 0 jobs. Did I get screwed? Yup. But now I have a truck I bought new, got the Indian motorcycle I've wanted, a house and have $$ in the bank. It does get better. Keep plugging away.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/25 01:37 AM
4	Telling the kids - anyone have an approach that "worked" It's a tough talk and lots of tears, but your son will be ok. My girls were in middle and high school when we told them. We are close, even though they both live out of state, on their own. On another note, as a teacher make sure you, or your ex, let your son's teacher know about this. His behavior may change in the classroom and you want to keep on top of it. Best of luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/25 03:33 PM
3	Why did you marry her/stay with her? Good question. I really don't have a good answer. I worked 3 jobs to her 0 jobs, believed she needed to be home for the kids when they were in middle and high school. Went on vacations with kids while I worked. Got mad when I went out with my friends, never got a long with anyone on my side of the family, always did things with her side of the family, among a plethora of other things.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 06:43 PM
3	Health insurance? Because I'm an idiot. She barely worked when we were married so laws in good ole MA day that she had to be covered by me. I'm calling my lawyer Monday.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/25 07:29 PM