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The same exactly happened to me, is it as if i had written the same post as the OP. I gave my friend No more mr nice guy and The way of the superior man, and he began talking shit behind my back. I have since learned that yes, you shouldn't talk about RP, but most importantly, ACTIONS, not WORDS. Act out what you believe, you believe it for a reason, dont try to convice people. For example, if you get ripped, people will ask you for advice. It doesnt work if you go around advicing people, less i…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 12:58 AM
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Dominance is fine, it's what attracts, it's makes us feel masculine. Devaluation of women is BS, you explained it very well. Self-reliance is encouragable. What I DO find toxic is supression of emotions 100% of the time. We all need to vent, ALL, EVERYONE. If we don't vent someday you'll get aggressive with someone you don't want to be aggresive with, or loose frame in a complete outburst. We vent through TRP, typing here and sharing our insecurities and our discoveries. In the book "No more Mr.…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 07:02 PM
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About NoFap: Yes, it's mostly for people like me who suffered Erectile Dysfunction due to years of porn consumption (and depression). Addicts like me, are scarred for life. I left porn for two years, and when I came back thinking I was already "cured", I began feeling down again, ED, and social anxiety, after using it. Problem is LOTS of people don't know that their main issue IS from fapping to porn. Just like a drug addict, our dopamine receptors are busted, and only feel satisfied with tab-se…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:59 AM
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Been there man. And with time I've realized I had become too heady, too mind driven. When we were kids, our world was an ever changing reality, unveloping every second, it was a thrill. Now we abstract everything into concepts. We don't actually feel, we interpret everything, label everything, and don't take the time to actually be there, or to appreciate the small details life has and made it wonderful before. We lost that sense of wonder. It's all abstractions now. I read one phrase the other …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 02:16 AM
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It's not a PC (politically correct) sub. Just check out all the shitstorm about the google memo.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 06:36 AM
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Man, yeah... After TRP I don't know which path I want to take anymore.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 06:00 AM
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Just own it man. I used to be the same. I felt like a chad when I fucked her good, but when I came fast or didn't deliver... I felt like she would think I was unworthy. I even said sorry sometimes. I put emphasis on "she would think" cause looking back it's approval seeking behaviour... if you deliver you feel alpha but if not, you fear being perceived as beta? In your mind you are always the shit, man, even if you trip... it's not about being perfect 100% of the time but owning your shit even w…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 05:33 AM
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Just happened to me. And found out that some time ago after a big fight we had she went to a pub a kissed two different guys.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 03:57 AM
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For me it was knowing that your SO will never be someone who you can lean in on times of turbulence. That is her benefit... when you have bad times she will doubt you even more if you loose frame.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 03:24 AM
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Some guys here say it has nothing to do with porn but it depends... it may be if you: 1) are using it often, almost daily. 2) you have escalated to hardcore porn and only get horny with specific scenes. 3) you are using lots of tabs searching for that scene that will give you the hit. If you arent that far (never get that far!), its probably nerves. The only trick for nerves to go away is either some alcohol, some anti ed drug (not both!) or just dont think about it (i know, its difficult) and i…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:17 AM
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but 9 out 10 women reject me because of my baldness Self fulfilling prophecy right there man. Even the most succesfull PUA's get rejected. Even if you manage to get a girlfriend she will "reject you" (called shit testing, side bar!!). You are enough man, you could be balder, older and out of shape and still bang chicks just by displaying confidence.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:35 PM
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Maybe you are depressed. When on a depression you shut off your emotions, or any spontaneity you may have had. You become extremely judgemental. The problem is this becomes your default state. My brother is depressed. The best friend of my dad died and he didn't even feel empathy for him. He is very socially awkward and anxious, but it's because of this. His ALWAYS on his head. He even speaks alones sometimes, imagining scenarios. But he wasn't always like that, I'm sure. If you feel this is the…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 09:26 PM
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True.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:57 PM
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Man stop please!! I used to M with porn everyday, I didnt know at the time but I got very depressed and had insane social anxiety because of it. Your brain wont find ANYTHING more rewarding than fapping. Socializing feels like a drag/uneeded. Everything feels diminished, it's like you are a step away from reality, or nothing feels as satisfying as fapping. It made me feel weak. I didnt pursue females, cause I could just fap anyway. Sex was tedious. I had ED when not on porn. My concentration wen…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:33 PM
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Takes a while to find the sweet spot man. The majority of people here are still on the trial and error, getting reference experiences, making sense of it all in their realities. Keep developing, keep reading, experimenting, improving. I once told someone I was having a big crisis in my life (end of LTR, red pill, doubting career choice, even my own personality). This person replied: "Good! Nietzche says that crisis are needed for growth... if i'd be you I'd be excited, change is to come and I'm …
/r/askTRP28/08/17 08:07 PM
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Good.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:20 PM
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True. She was actually the only hot girl there. It was an after party with few people. Guess i could game the 5 or 4's just to build social proof.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:18 PM
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During my worst days, I had depression, low self steem, and fapped compulsively to porn. NoFap works wonders, man, even better if you are someone who faps constantly. Everything feels more real. I get aroused by seeing a girl walk or move, while before I could only get aroused with porn. Sex wasn't even as pleasurable. Yes, I'm horny as fuck a lot of days, but I made a compromise with myself: "porn doesn't exist", so instead of fapping I begin to chat girls (when not fapping confidence goes up, …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 03:12 PM
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During my worst days, I had depression, low self steem, and fapped compulsively to porn. NoFap works wonders, man, even better if you are someone who faps constantly. Everything feels more real. I get aroused by seeing a girl walk or move, while before I could only get aroused with porn. Sex wasn't even as pleasurable. Yes, I'm horny as fuck a lot of days, but I made a compromise with myself: "porn doesn't exist", so instead of fapping I begin to chat girls (when not fapping confidence goes up, …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 03:11 PM
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Tons of things I haven't even considered before, like the shit test about "would you die...", or the going cold act instead of being her rock... I don't know, I guess once the familiarity kicked in, my mindset changed. Comfort is the enemy, really. I believe that on my actual self I'm not able to handle a LTR. When things are good... great. But when shit starts to happen... I loose it. Doubt kicks in, and it all goes down the drain. So time for some plate spinning and get on track, I'm not on th…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 05:27 AM
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So we broke up. We began this silly play where I took 2 hours to answer, she would then take the same or even more. She then took 2 days to answer: "I'm very busy with work, but I love you. Be it bad or good what comes, I need you to tell me because I can't stand being like this." I answered the day later. Told her we would speak in person. She told me, "no, tell me now". "No. In person. I don't plan speaking this via text". "Make an effort and say it now, ok?". "No, see you later", Her: "No. I …
/r/askTRP17/08/17 01:10 AM
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Tough to read. Been my LTR for a year, too. Been improving myself more than ever last months. And that's exactly what's happening. Being more assertive, I feel better around people, around myself, and I have no problems expressing what I want, what I don't, my expectations, and limits. And suddenly she has been massive shit testing me. She tries to make a woman out of me I swear... telling me to be more empathetic towards people, "why don't you think about what the other one wants first", teelin…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 10:25 PM
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Shit. Still have ways to go. She's been passive-aggressive lately. I know I lost frame these 2 weeks since I quit my job and my business hasn't been thriving, not on the best mindset. I'm usually dominant but lately she has been completely non compliant, and bitchy. Called her con her BS (been calling me egotistical, getting angry for mundane shit, not compliant, and other BS), so told her I'm not willing to tolerate her behaviour. She responden that lately "she doesn't know why, she doesn't fee…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 09:53 PM
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Yes, I believe that what you said it's true. My mindset has been not the best, lately, try not to complain but do sometimes. Not in the best mood, not going out so much with friends to save money. Still, what the f* to do man... been in a LTR with her for over a year and this never happened. She just started filming a movie with a team, and she is busy from 7 am to 11 pm, socializing with lots of people every single moment. She is the youngest in the team and HB8. The team has parties with alcoh…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:07 AM
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The girl must be initially attracted for that to work. Either by your physique, or by your attitude, something. If you push to early and she has the power in the interaction and you keep going, it's a complete turn off for her, and you'll be seen like a creep. I remember one girl not so long ago that I tried to kiss, to what she replied "I have a boyfriend", I just kept staring in silence and told her "Yeah? I don't believe you". Immideately she came closer, put "the eyes" and told me with a sex…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:29 PM
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You are the most important person in your life, never forget that.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:23 PM
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"You cannot expect a woman to be your true confidant, your soul-mate, and your respite to lean upon during the stormy times in life. That is your role for her benefit. It does not work in reverse, for as soon as you believe it can work that way, she will lose confidence in your ability to lead her and begin to resent you. She will go about illustrating her resentment by making your life as miserable as she possibly can. This may be one of the hardest lessons for a man to learn in life because it…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 05:45 AM
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Yes, man. What I found out is that if you really want it, if the thought resonates with you, then you can, because that's how you would like to enjoy yourself... your actual persona doesn't resonate with what you want anymore. I was like that, and man it's a long way but keep on. I know myself I have ways to go still but the change I have made is enormous, so I know it's possible. Some tips that I've found are the best for creating the habits that will keep you on track this process: Read. Make …
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:22 AM
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There are millions of bitches out there who happily swallow your load. Man, true. Sometimes one forgets that and feels like the girl is a bless, while in reality 80% of the bitches out there would do it too if gamed well. Hadn't read 12 levels of dread, just found the link. Good day to you sir.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:43 AM
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I feel like that when I wank. I feel like that when I drink too often. I feel like that when I smoke too often. Like someone else mentioned, you are busting your dopamine receptors. Go clean for some time, it may not be easy but afterwards you'll be amazed. Willpower to do things is a muscle. Habits build willpower. Get a routine, stick to it. At first it will be hard but keep on. The difference between people that make a difference is that they do the thing they want to do to start feeling like…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:13 AM
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I recall him saying that some accidents need to happen to get the correct behaviour established. For example, if you want to stop your dog from attacking people, the dog needs to get aggressive at someone for you to establish the correct behaviour. And yeah, "calm and assertive no matter what the situation". Also yeah, humans definitely aren't dogs, that's why I refer to the "animal mind" throughout the post. He speaks about the most important thing to consider is first and foremost that the dog…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:17 AM
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That's kind of what he is saying though. First leadership, then affection. Affection gets you trust. That's what's happening on the example you provided; he was already the emerging leader due to his actions, and by eating last he cares, and builds trust.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:08 AM
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Yeah man. Women are unbelievable, really, they just make no sense. She even told me, "I know how you think, but keep thinking like that as always and you won't get any results. The only exception is clearly myself." Like, what! Reminds me of some girl I was banging before her, she complained that "I treated her badly", "no one treats me as badly, and breaks my heart that Ruben (some other guy who was behind her) treats me so well but I don't want anything with him, and I'm seeing you". And proce…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 07:12 PM
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