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Ok then. Sure.
/r/seduction26/12/21 10:14 AM
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Stop asking questions about how good she is in bed or fish for compliments where you’d put yourself in her history. Idiot. If she’s good in bed compliment her and say thank you. She did not learn that stuff from a book. And earlier when her life was different… what did you think was gonna happen? That she would bat her eyes and say in a coy manner “I dunno, I wasn’t really into boys before I met you.” The past is a minefield if you are a sensitive jealous type. So stay clear or work with your sn…
/r/seduction26/12/21 10:05 AM
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Don’t listen to the incels. This is a good thing. Being safe with a guy is the most important thing. You could handle a no. You didn’t do the ‘nice guy’ or the angry guy with a boner. You would be surprised how so many guys appearing to be perfectly normal turns this corner and goes to the crazy place. That she didn’t jump the first time you asked also says that she is not desperate. Consider that as a bonus. And that she can take a second look is also a bonus. Don’t throw it all in her court bu…
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:50 AM
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Reply with an emoji. That is a good ending of the convo ‘for now’.
/r/seduction01/12/21 06:01 PM
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This never happens. Relax. And stop watching Datenight.
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:31 PM
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So you coming back to her place….? Is it just your place that shouldn’t be… what, tainted with just sex girls?
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:30 PM
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Funny story about that in regards of the topic. I told a guy I’m casually dating and he was all up about me wanting black dick. He totally pissed on my dream. 😬 I had no thoughts of that, since I made the plans when I was married.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:16 PM
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I plan to relocate to the Caribbean for a year with the kids. I can work from wherever.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:13 PM
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Hey. We are all different, for sure. I’m glad you’re happy. Just imagining the life would make me sad. However. Traveling is pretty cool. Myself I’m in the Canary Islands right now with my kids. I find it also exhausting (bc I have shit sense of directions) so I need to come home in between.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:10 PM
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That life seems terrible to me. Not having roots, a home, a circle of friends, family. Just work and hookups? I hope I’m reading this wrong but I know life has it’s ups and downs and when I’m down I need my people around me.
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:00 PM
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I hope you will pay it forward and hep your friends with their problems. And be better friends with those who help you, and less with others.
/r/seduction24/10/21 12:59 PM
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Don’t listen to this. She might very well be into you but is mature enough to not just fuck anything that is attractive but want to test you out, see how you handle a no. A lot of guys (like above) think that the slightest pushback is either a bitch move or disinterest. It’s not. Women have lives and sometimes we can’t or won’t fill you in on the entire picture and we need to know that you are not abusive or a needy baby about it.
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:12 AM
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I get that you have some anxiety. If you do run into her, take a deep breath and if there is a possibility do a kind nod or hi and move on. It’s a power move. If the girl you are with asks, just go we dated but it didn’t work out. And if she asks for details say a gentleman never kiss and tell. The respect for past connection is deep. The new girl will like you for having integrity and that you can handle yourself. Old girl… who cares? She might think you are a dork for saying hi or brave but it…
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:04 PM
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Oh wow. Then perhaps you need to switch up which type of woman you are dating. Idk how hot I am but have been told plenty. I prepare for dates, really try to put my best foot forward, I can pay for my part, make jokes, listen, laugh, share stories. Rarely I meet these men that work so hard for dates, and only real desperate men bend over backwards for women that are acting like they are not attracted to you. I see all my dates and a chance to get to know a new person. Lowering the expectations o…
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:29 PM
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I think that I am technically in the age range of a cougar 😉 And it was clear to me that after I built that computer for my son I am not a computer builder no more. It works and works well but the hassle.. 🤣
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:40 PM
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Oh baby. That is my love language. I’m a tech nerd myself to a point where it’s ridiculous (google home, lamps, Apple Watch..) I will bring out my notepad. I built a gaming computer for my son this summer. And then I remembered why I don’t build computers anymore 🤣
/r/seduction29/09/21 12:53 PM
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Hey! I do too care about hobbies. I ask a lot for that. Guys who don’t have anything other then eat, sleep, fuck, work, workout are boring af. Give me a sci-fi nerd, or a gardener any time of the week. Even if I don’t share the interest I learn about new things and you guys are soooo cute when you talk about your passions. 🥰
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:38 AM
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Steer the conversation towards career and say how thankful that you have recently landed a job that you really like and will get you the opportunity to tick off things on your bucket list. Don’t ever say the sum. And be clear on what it is that you want to do, your dreams and if you are generous. If you are not you should date within your income bracket. Nobody like to follow along to expensive stuff they can’t pay for themselves. And have dreams. That requires someone to come along and enjoy th…
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:58 AM
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If you want a relationship with her then know this. You turn her on. She likes sex. She has had some experiences that she needs to deal with. If you are relationship material for real then you need to be cool to hang out with AND be able to talk about hard stuff. Shit man, all interesting people have baggage. It would be a huge turn off to be with a guy who couldn’t handle some deep talk. Even if you don’t have anything real to say just being there, listening, asking questions and checking in. “…
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:43 AM
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It’s your attitude that needs an adjustment. Just that your mind goes to this place after an hour. I can be super into a guy and not text him for days. Maybe I’m busy, maybe I don’t have anything to say, maybe I’m having a bad day and don’t want to engage in that energy. I also read in the neediness, and calling people assholes for giving you hard truths is a red flag that your head is screwed on wrong. Ask for advice, get some that resonates with you or not, take what you need to move on, refle…
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:32 AM
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Say things that pander to them without a weird suger daddy vibe. “I’m really attracted to experience” “it’s sexy with life long achievements” “young men are so shallow, they have’s really done anything yet to be proud of and it’s all just a bunch of bs to me.” Remove the things that older men are insecure about. Getting kids, having young bodies, baldness, hair in wrong places… if you signal that it’s not a problem and also focus on life experience then they will know that you are game and they …
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:22 AM
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The first few job interviews were awkward for me. I was nervous. Maybe babbled on a bit. Now, I’m a pro. I know how to steer the conversation towards what I want to say and know. I know how to answer “where do you see yourself in five years” and “what are your weak and strong suits?” Same with dating. Talk to people about how to talk to women. Think about what you want said, what is your strong personality traits, how to you show case that… reflect, test, talk to people, ask your friends for the…
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:14 AM
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If you don’t want to talk about it, then don’t talk about but don’t lie. If you love each other then that is what it is. If you want to provide for your woman, great. If you want her to have her own career and be independent, great. If she feels the same way, great. Lies about important stuff always bites you in the ass.
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:25 PM
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Wonder why…? 🙄
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:51 PM
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Think of it like you would think of a job interview. You would prepare for that? Have a purpose to the conversation. Try to put your best foot forward and not be desperate “please hire meee, I need money.” So think it through. Talk often to women. Reflect on what works for you. Are you the sensitive guy, funny guy, sweet, cool… find what is your thang and work at it.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:00 PM
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Know one thing. Sex will be amazing if you know and trust eachother. And this goes double for women. So get to know women. Ask about her, share stories and your values. A back and forth in conversation. Nothing is a greater turn off then desperation. Then we feel like we are just a vagina for you. We want to feel special. Learn authentic complimenting. If someone would tell me that I look like a movie star or the most beautiful woman he’s ever seen. Or that I always look absolutely stunning then…
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:21 PM
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Eye roll. Most men can’t take a no. This is a fact. Some men get fucking crazy when they get a no and do shit about it. I’m sorry that you ‘nice and woke’ men have to live in this era of toxic masculinity. Sure every woman should assume that no men are like this and always be super transparent. Especially you. Because the consequences for a woman getting a no is ooooobviously exaaaaaaactly the saaaaaaaame as a maaaaaaan. So much eye roll.
/r/seduction19/09/21 10:54 PM
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It might be easier to bring up topics that would make it more in your minds. Talk about sexy movies/series, like sex/life, 50 shades and talk about how cringe they are. Then you approach it without saying that -you- want to have sex. Tell a story about a friend’s awkward first kiss. Once you are comfortable about getting into talking about kissing (which I think is hot, cute and sexy) you can move on to flirt more hard core. Look away and then deep into his eyes. Touch your neck. If you are eati…
/r/seduction11/09/21 05:24 PM
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Keep the car clean and be comfortable with your story for the car. If it’s shit then be “I don’t prioritize a car right now, it works.” If it’s a nice one the. “I really like this car bc..” and have a real reason. THAT is what says something about you. Your reason, and that you are not ashamed, but have taken a confident decision. But also, it’s gotta work 😉 so no shit car.
/r/seduction11/09/21 05:12 PM
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I get confused by this. You wanted to but not your type. Not good looking. If you were sending that vibe, not really into her but could fuck she probably picked up on it. Don’t go in half assed. Either get in there or don’t. When you have one foot out the door then you are not so attractive. I get that it’s scary to put yourself out there, it is for everyone. But you gotta do it.
/r/seduction11/09/21 03:07 PM
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Talk about her, the teacher, the weather, the news, food, a fun tv show, dreams, books, politics, her friends, sports, animals, going to Mars, Rasputin, Chinese wall, the Hiroshima bomb, how to build a motor, solar energy, the most effective way to tie your shoe laces, a scary memory, owls, kallmekris on TikTok, how deep the ocean is, Plato. Idk.
/r/seduction11/09/21 02:41 PM
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So you have been friends for ten years. And don’t want to do something with your friend. C you might not get sex. With your friend. Woa. Friends with benefits still means that you are friends. Friends.
/r/seduction11/09/21 02:26 PM
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So go get some hapiness!
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:12 PM
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You could always say something like “oh, sorry. I misread your behavior here today. I thought you were looking for attention.” Just call her out on it. And don’t exchange numbers. Let it sit with her. If she’s looking for mr next then she will probably do this always. Cheat herself out of relationships. And that, my friend, is a toxic girl.
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:42 PM
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But, in dealing with loss, it will turn into a “Happy it happened” over “Sorry it’s over”. It’s like our very bestest bestest friends we had when we were kids. We remember that with fondness in our hearts. And we don’t norm great days that passed, we remember them as awesome good times. Nothing amazing happens if you never take risks.
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:37 PM
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Thanks. I’m healing. But I’d take this heartache over not having him in my life and the amazing times we had. I am open to love bc you never know. And as for anxiety or fear of loss - there are great help out there to help you deal if it gets to hard. I value and treat my mental and emotional health just as carefully as my physical health. When I need help with dealing with the emotions I go to therapy. I have during a few times in my life when things got rough. I still miss my dog that died whe…
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:02 PM
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It’s a risk you gotta take. That is life. All relationships end. Either someone breaks up, or someone die. Mine dies, broke my heart in a million pieces but I am alive still and have to move on. To find new happiness. For each time you take that leap, trusting and positive, it will be better. And even when you are -in- the relationship you still gotta risk stuff to gain stuff.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:50 PM
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Wow. That is not how love works. She likes you, seems to be following your twists and turns. Be attentive, sweet and take her out on quality (not expensive - quality) dates and make her fall in love with you in the process. Don’t be so defensive. Go for it. Who knows how many times you will actually be -able- to fall in love.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:39 PM
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Just to be clear, that is a you problem and you need to work on that. Don’t make her work to make your mind calibrated.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:31 PM
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Why don’t you want to fall in love? It’s the best feeling in the world. Who cares what the arrangement was from the beginning? Live and let live, man. Go get that cuddle. And sex. And girl. In which ever order.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:27 PM
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Good job. Well done.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:08 PM
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He might have had intentions but that does not mean that she did anything. I was married for 15 years and spent a lot of time with people that would have wanted stuff to happen, but it didn’t because I was 1) loyal to my husband 2) don’t automatically do anything with a guy bc he wants to.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:02 PM
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She seende to like you, to keep you update during her travels, responding even though you were negative. Be cute. Say that you overreacted but it’s because you like her. And when you meet again talk it out and say that you want to be exclusive.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:00 PM
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You acted rather unattractive. 1) did you agree to be exclusive? 2) jealousy sucks 3) assuming she’s lying She might not have done anything sexual with anyone but you acting like that could have turned her cold. I know I would. And one of my best friends is a guy, and I have many male friends.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:47 AM
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Talk about love but in a non aggressive way. How did your parents meet? Been to any weddings lately? Things that make you go aaawwwe. Tell stories about someone else “my mate fell hard for this girl and started acting so stupid, but it was hella sweet. Now they have three kids..” Then you both will be in the mindset of love topics. Without pressure. And as you laugh and smile you need to touch her. Her hand, hair, arm around or anything. When you go for the kiss make sure that you then are in a …
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:09 AM
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I know. I was correcting him. Because men need to be corrected in This. They just came too Quick, got their and Are now getting more? Nah nah nah. And a guy that doesn’t get horny from hearing a woman moaning and getting hers should not have sex at all. Narcissitic idiots.
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:53 AM
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You mean you say “I will go down on you for a bit, and then I will be ready for you again you sexy fuck”?
/r/seduction30/08/21 04:30 PM
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Yeah. And no. Because God gave you a tongue and ten fingers to compensate for shooting too quick. And after a bit of down time then you should be able to go again. Shooting to quick happens. Sure. Like sometimes a guy works his ass off for our orgasms but it’s just not happening. What you NEVER do is leave the other part hanging. Sex is something that you DO together.
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:45 PM
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Wow. Really? I have known ppl for years and have things to talk about. Weird vibe you are sending out. Chat, be entertaining and cute. Build to the date. It more to it. If you are in a bad mental state - don’t date.
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:56 PM
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Pay for it. Seriously. Go to a prostitute.
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:34 PM
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Be naughty in public where he can’t do anything about it. Lean in and whisper that you don’t have underwear, tell him sexy things like you want to taste him or that you want him to taste you. It will drive him wild and will want to carry you home. Show him a nipple in the car. Touch yourself in the car.
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:22 PM
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It ess not a gender thing. More to the point of the post. The girl might have been horny and the next time, he did not have game and her hornyness did not bridge over. And umm… it’s more then ten times a year women get honey AF. If men had more game and were more respectful then you would get more of that then our vibrators. 😉
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:41 PM
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Oh ok. Since it’s your sister. Then I rest my case. Nothing bad happens to women.
/r/seduction26/08/21 07:50 PM
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Lights on and music. And candles. 🥰 setting the scene is important.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:06 AM
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Omg. Do you actually compare that to whore, slut, nympho? If a guy at the office says he’s dating three girls and sleeping with them - how is he treated compare to women? And more importantly- if he got raped would a judge use it against him and say that he deserved it? Men don’t get same shit in society as women.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:58 AM
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Then I approve of this message. 😉
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:12 AM
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I agree with everything accept don’t care about the woman. Please, please, please care about us. And do all of this. Not caring about being rejected is perhaps better but it’s hard. I get that.
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:49 AM
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But… sometimes we women want to get laid because we are horny AF and the men we really go for are not as available. We need a bit of Mr Right Now. And then we don’t really care. We can be the aggressor. We take initiative.
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:44 AM
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Consider the state of things for women. It’s actually dangerous to date. It might be more convenient for you to skip online but IrL is not very safe for women. I have had men thinking they can come and pick me up in a car and drive me away somewhere for a first date. Or ask me to come to their place for “coffee”. When I explained that I don’t roll that way they get defensive and all “nice guy” and have zero appreciation of the predicament I am in. Not only do I risk that a guy lies to me and onl…
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:26 AM
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But to the point. If you want to get sex from dating, you have to act long term. Mentally turn her on and build on success. Then it will become better. And perhaps lead to a real relationship. Or a really good sex only relationship. That depends on the rest of the chemistry.
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:41 PM
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Triggered I gather. It’s my point of view based on my life experience and conversations with friends and lovers. My point was that the one time in particular bad sex that was years ago was horrible for me but probably completely fine for him. I.e WE did not have a bad experience, I did. I’m not here to argue with anyone. Not here to defend or have a gender discussion either. If you want to bitch about how something is unfair or whatever you are free to do so but I will not respond. And I am a wo…
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:29 PM
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To get a woman think about you sexually you need to first make it physical. A firm but gentle hand when you can. If there is any way you can lead or carry a woman - do it. Like if you are on a boat to be that strong arm to help me get on the boat without even having the slightest risk of falling in…. Mmm… act like it’s a no big deal. Ignore it all together, or with a just “I got you, your’re fine.” 🥰 stuff like that.
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:25 PM
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A question to ponder. Just having sex with women when you are in the mood doesn’t signal a deep connection with women, more like casual sex. What I am talking about is more towards getting the relationship you want with a woman and have a more rewarding sexlife that escalates towards your wildest dreams. The difference is exactly why women want a boyfriend because casual sex for us, with our complicated orgasm, isn’t that rewarding. For guys bad sex is like cold pizza. Still pizza. For women and…
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:22 PM
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True. But most people complain about bad dates. And if someone says French lovers we think… good or bad…? Break bad conventions to get what you want.
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:03 PM
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I like it. Guys that would do this on me would get a date. So many chats that go on forever. Boring. So boys, follow this man’s advice. It’s good shit.
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:09 PM
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Digital dating let’s me intelligently sort out the douches and fuck boys with a few minutes of concentrated time. Same amount of time IRL would be hours. And the real psychos I can block and be safe from. IRL they could follow me and cause all kinds of headache. I just don’t have time for that. I am busy. And if a guy can’t show that he is special and worthy of my time digitally.. tough. Up your game or don’t date. Darwin.
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:05 PM
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It makes perfect sense. I am confident. I get challenges. I manage the edge at work and in life all the time. My man is to provide a safe space for me where I can relax and let go. Take my inner freak for a walk. Bc a challenge requires focus. A plan. A strategy, tactics. Climbing Mount Everest is not done on a whim. Pulling out my raw animal self that just want to get sweaty, fuck and be fucked is about completely different things. Great sex is something that we have together, not something we …
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:01 PM
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No, most women don’t. 🙄 But a lot of women don’t feel like they can say and be open with what they want because we get judged by -everyone- and called names. So create a safe space for her, where you don’t criticize and appreciate her for what she is -now- and she just might let you in to her sexual fantasies or be open to yours. Then all women you meet can be an adventure.
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:58 AM
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Wow. Well, if this is the effort you want to put into the opposite sex then your success rate will be… unsatisfying. Being a douche is actually simulating qualities women want in men but without substance. And if to make a woman hot and horny for you, for real, is too much work… then say hello to left hand. Men who are confident and can show respectfully that they want to fuck me the way I want to be fucked, while making me feel safe (not rapy) will have my heart. And to make me horny, a guy who…
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:56 AM
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Stop feeling weird by just doing it. Say something about it that you want to sit next to her and get used to it. Practice with friends if it’s super weird. Bc Why is it weird? It’s not something that you normally do and you have the table, food, glasses and a bunch of shit between you. Reaching out to touch her is -impossible- without being crazy weird. On opposite side you are in a safe zone. And why play safe? To win her you have to risk it.
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:47 AM
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Don’t ignore. Having sex once with a guy that doesn’t really do it for you is fine. Having mad sex for weeks with a guy that you just can’t stop getting on top off… good stuff for guys as well. All good lovers knows this, it only gets better.
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:12 AM
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Well…. Yes and No. I totally get the whole “you got no game” because that is boring. But being a douche is technically -a- game but not a recommended one. As a woman I was to be desired and given attention. Escalating the date to something sexual is what I want the guy to do. And it starts mentally. Show me something, say something, do something. Don’t challenge me (hate that bc I am a very confident woman) but make me think about you sexually. And do French seating, sitting not across but besid…
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:10 AM
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Well…. Yes and No. I totally get the whole “you got no game” because that is boring. But being a douche is technically -a- game but not a recommended one. As a woman I was to be desired and given attention. Escalating the date to something sexual is what I want the guy to do. And it starts mentally. Show me something, say something, do something. Don’t challenge me (hate that bc I am a very confident woman) but make me think about you sexually. And do French seating, sitting not across but besid…
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:10 AM
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Or maybe she would have burnt the house down. 🤷🏼‍♀️ You Will never know.
/r/seduction21/08/21 04:34 AM
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So you said you were about to end it. Maybe that was the vibes you both sent out and neither of you knew how to break up properly. Communication and investing in the relationship, laughter, experiences, memories, spending time being close… then the services or gifts (very nice too) will be the extra. I don’t think men feel more, but women have to be more strategic in relationships because we most of the time get the crap deal. Getting kids with the wrong but normal guy will destroy your life. Fo…
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:23 PM
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Hahahahaha. Omg. Boys boys. Keep dating and just as you escalate for sex, you escalate the relationship. Open up more, hang out with your respective friends, move on to family. Have longer dates, move towards weekend plans… And don’t wait for her to bring it up. Rather, if you can’t talk about your emotions then go into the talk that you want to be exclusive. You might early bring up that you are not expecting her to be that but you won’t see any other women because you want to focus on her and …
/r/seduction08/08/21 07:38 AM
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Live and let live. Go for it. Perhaps she broke up in text because she didn’t really want to in the first place.
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:00 AM
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Wow. Um. Height matters for a lot of women. Like me. I have dated guys that are shorter then me but I was not really attracted and it did not last. I did it because I tried not to be shallow. Now I know better, it’s a sexual preference for me to be the small spoon. But as previous ppl have said, it’s relative. Women are shorter then men so there will be women out there who are shorter then you.
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:12 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you are saying but talking to women you want to have sex with like they are your mother or grandmother is not… they way. I have a dark sense of humor and a dirty mind (heard that I’m a lot like a guy) and my no 1 requirement for a guy is that he makes me laugh. I would say tread carefully, and consider the type of woman you are looking for. I married my best friend and we were together for 15 years and we had the best time together. I’m a widow since 1,5 now (fuck canc…
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:36 PM
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Look eye contact and keep it a little too long and then look away. Do this a few times. Use open body language and move around so that it will be easy for him to approach you. Don’t sit in a group with many friends. And if you get in a spot together say hi and practice small talk. I mean how would deep talk work right off the bat? The meaning is to just talk and let the guy know that it’s ok for him to talk to you.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:30 PM
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I don’t know that online dating is much better for women. I’ve been on a lot of first dates, a few second dates and one that passed passed it. Quantity does not equal quality. A lot of guys are interested but they rarely message and the ones that do are “not into a relationship” and mostly just want sex which is so boring. And I’m older with kids so the ‘desperation’ is gone for me. I’m just chilling and want to go on fun dates with fun guys which I am pretty open about.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:14 PM
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We both send a pic of the day. You can suggest it and start with a pic. Something normal/cute/entertaining.
/r/seduction02/08/21 02:44 PM
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A cool thing to do would be to have a “pic of the day” as you are apart. I did that when I was away with a guy. It was a cute way to keep in touch but not endlessly be in touch. Just short check in’s.
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:49 PM
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Screw the rules. Send off a text message right away saying something positive, like you are still in that first meeting “I had great fun, hope to do it again some time.” Then she can relax that it wasn’t a ONS and you don’t have a build up to when you or her get in contact again. It will be a lot less tension for when you do.
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:43 PM
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Girls may have seen more of your personality and you might have grown on them. You don’t only have one shot at each woman. You can try again. I remember this one guy that I had a ‘dance’ with where the timing was always off. When he was into me, I wasn’t into him and vice versa. We ended up hooking up. We are still kinda of friends (years and years ago) and I always think of him fondly. We just never got the timing right and the moment past for a LTR.
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:36 PM
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I vent guys in texting before saying yes to a date. If he’s boring (not saying you are) but then I dwindle away. Try to give her something to go on. You asked her questions but gave nothing for her to work with from you. Ask a question and in the same text answer it yourself. “What else do you like to do? Myself I like to hang out in the park with my friends playing basketball…” Killer move if you can steer it to what you will do on a date. “What movies do you like? I can’t wait for the next XYZ…
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:29 PM
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Have a personality. Have interests and always work on yourself. Read stuff, watch news, keep up with new stuff. Be comfortable in your style that isn’t a copy of someone but a mash up of what you like. And lift up other people. If you are at a restaurant and the food is great, tell the waiter to give your compliments to the chef for something specific. Stuff like that really comes off great because then you are a person of the world that can show appreciation. And learn how to tell stories. A lo…
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:23 PM
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If it’s any comfort, it’s the same for us women. The options seem endless but they aren’t really. All of us only have so much time and first dates are exhausting. Dating is like selling, and there is a saying in sales that 100 knocks on the door leads to 10 talks leads to one thank you. It’s ok to be nervous. Rejection is always a bummer but think of it as one step closer to what you want. It can be cute if a guy says to me that I make him nervous. It’s also hard for women to reject a guy. We ne…
/r/seduction02/08/21 01:15 PM
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Ok, This is getting out of hand with the name vallning and BS. The point that is being missed is that women also loves sex. Dirty sex where we throw our heads back and just scream and moan. That does not happen with a guy who asks if it’s ok to touch our breasts. We are just as much animals in that way as you are. But there is a balance. The difference between giving in to a guy to take control like most women actually like and being manhandled and abused is pretty close. We need to trust you to…
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:17 PM
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Don’t go directly for hand on thigh. Make sure that you first have touched. Just touching legs if you are sitting next to her. Arm around the chair and a too long look with eye contact. If she doesn’t back down you can absolutely do it. Keep eye contact and fire off a crooked smile. Pull back and make sure she is game. Back off for a while and then do it again. It’s a very hot move.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:37 AM
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You can text things that will in his mind go places. The more senses you get involved the better. Like “I just got an amazing new body lotion, mango body butter!! It smells like summer and is just so smooth. Love love love it!” There isn’t a man who is sexually interested in you who wouldn’t imagine your body, you putting on lotion, perhaps him putting it on, smelling you… The not so subtle is to say things about taking a shower. That you are about to, just had one, need one.. he will then imagi…
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:27 AM
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I feel you. It’s so easy when you don’t really care to be cool and relaxed but as soon you start to have feelings you screw it up and come off as awkward, needy and desperate. I do it too. It’s hard. Perhaps tell women that you are sapiosexual? That you don’t get there until you get to know them, then you haven’t taken the relationship off the table when you take a long time to attach. You might send out a ‘friend’ vibe and that is hard for us women to understand since the ‘standard’ is that guy…
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:20 AM
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Yes and no. You have to start somewhere to make the move forward. But not start with the dirty stuff. Start with cute and move up.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:12 AM
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Ok. The drug part was unnecessary (and not true). And what has tech to do with flirting on a date? I date guys that are -15 years to + 15 years and not much differs in the aspect of what a ‘nice guy’ zone. I think that you could probably pick up moves from the 15th century and still get a lot of love, sex and attention. Do you really think the naughty whispers in restaurants have changed that much? Do you think men and women want different things? All querks and kinks are old and tried before. I…
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:11 AM
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Old. 😉 got teenage kids. But I have always been naughty.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:01 AM
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When she said those things to you, how did you respond? It seems like she sent out a lot of signals and maybe didn’t get the positive vibes back? When she suggested a second date then spin on the story and add the details as in where when and how. Like we should walk the cat (weird but ok) so ask where you should take the walk, check the weather or whatever that builds on it. Then it goes from her idea to your plan/fantasy.
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:47 AM
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Perhaps I am a mermaid, luring men to their deaths 😈
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:35 AM
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Women comes in all shapes, sizes and wants. This is my point of view. I don’t speak for 5 billion. I’ve been on enough boring dates that might be heaven for someone else. It’s all in what you want and how to get that vibe out.
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:34 AM
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Moving out of the nice guy zone is a process. And as I Said, I am a bit naughty. If a guy would do that to me after we have gone through the first pleasantries it would make me very turned on. It would also work in a LTR.
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:32 AM
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He? I’m a she 😉
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:28 PM
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PC - politically correct
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:24 PM
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Maybe… but then I am kinda naughty. However, for breaking out of the nice guy routine there need to be some added spice. Perhaps the first date isn’t for that. Depends on the chemistry. But then… to create chemistry… Do French seating where you sit next to eachother instead of opposite. Then you can make remarks about the stuff around and get closer. Make up silly games, like guess the profession of other people in the restaurant and give them motives. That is a bit naughty (because you will alw…
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:18 PM
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Well… to ease into it and not go full on bad, start with some compliments that might show some of that animal underneath. The breakdown would be respectful + aggressive + naughty. “If you’d let me into your world I would take care of you and your wonderful body until you scream. It turns me on just thinking about you.” don’t overdo compliments because you might find the woman to be stunning but most women don’t think they are. “Can’t wait until you are comfortable to be alone with me. I’d love t…
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:02 PM
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Prepare for the kiss during the date. Don’t ask but in a playful way during the date, like when she laughs at a joke or something say ‘yes, closer to a kiss’ and that will probably put a smile on her face. And prepare her to the thought. If she continues with the joke you know she’s into it.
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:25 AM
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Break out by adding some edge. Flirting and being a bit naughty will go a long way. It is always a risk to go there but as a woman I can say it’s what we want. A nice guy with a dash of bad. We want you to want us, to show that and make us feel safe. And that means safe from others. If you are a bit bad, that means that if shit hits the fan we are in good company to get out of it ok. Being a bit aggressive, assertive goes a long way. But not to us.
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:18 AM
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