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| 936 | I'm Asexual and not really into guys, but reading about all of you gals living awesome, fulfilling lives without men as the main focus/goal is really validating. Thanks for sharing your stories :) | FDS MEMES | Ironically_Kinky_Ace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:05 AM |
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| 5 | There is no guarantee that the ugly autistic man would be a good husband/fatherAs another woman with an autistic boyfriend, you're on the nose about everything. If you're the type who doesn't mind, or even prefers, being the leader in a relationship, it can pretty nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Women, is it a dealbreaker if a man doesn’t tip much? Even if he’s generous in other ways?23f from BC. Canada here, and not a deal breaker but a larger conversation imo. I don't like tipping 25% but always tip something because I recognize that we live in a society where I'm a dick if I don't. Depends on whether "not much" means "dimes and quarters at a sit down restaurant" or "five to ten bucks for a meal, or $1-2 for a coffee and pastry". Like I think it's crazy that as someone who makes $20-$25 per hour, I'd have to pay an hour's wage if I cover a nice meal. I usually give $5 at a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Does it matter to you if you are a man's first choice?Depends on whether first choice means first/only relationship, or person they'd most rather be with in the moment. I wouldn't expect to be my partner's only crush or relationship ever, but I wouldn't want them to only ask me out because the woman they like more said no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Men are the ones who really settleI dunno, I'd say that a lot of varience between studies would depend on the way average is measured. Is it the mean, median, or mode? Because one woman sleeping with 100 people and 9 woman sleeping with 4 people would average out to 136/10=13.6 people each if you measured the mean, meanwhile the median value and the mode would each show the average to be 4. Assuming 5 partners is the most common amount of partners, 10 women with only 3 partners would affect the mean average about the same as 1 w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women?I have a slightly different experience than everyone else here so figured I'd share. Feel free to discard if it's not what you're looking for. As a 23f with a lot of male friends (probably 60/10/30 m/nb/f), it's because as a neurodivergent queer woman, I find it harder to relate to the average hetero neurotypical woman. I've noticed that neurotypical cishet men and are more forgiving towards my weirdness. My female friends are all either ADHD, queer, or immigrants, and we tend to bond over our d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Just a woman speaking from experience. I've been pressured into a lot of things I didn't want to do and most of the interactions have gone similar to the way you described. The majority of my female acquaintances have similar stories. The guy would start with light flirting and I'd be into that, thinking that he seems cool and I'd like to get to know him over a date. Then he'd escalate way too fast, and I'd try to back out because I wasn't ready, but he'd keep putting the pressure on until I eve… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 4 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Sure thing buddy. r/ihavesex 🙄 | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Same here! I felt like I was going crazy because no one else had said anything, so I had to comment about it. The way he writes is so pornagraphic that it's likely he's just writing this to get his rocks off, and in this situation I really hope that's the case and no actual women were harmed. I've been in that girl's position and it sucked, but the guy seemed to think he'd done nothing wrong. I really wish men were more self aware lmao | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 11:56 PM |
| 31 | Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house.Please tell me you're a troll. I really hope you're not naive enough to not realize how bad this whole story reads. "She was all the way on the other side of the couch" "She said let's take things slower" "She was resistant but didn't say anything" Dude, it sounds like she didn't wanna fuck, but went along with it because you were pushy. That's sexual assault at minimum. You should really reflect on why women aren't sleeping with you unless you wear them down :/ | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:36 AM |
| 0 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI didn't say you're taking advantage, but I think to be interested in someone that much younger is inherantly creepy | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:43 PM |
| 0 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadLeo's a terrible example. That guy's a major creep | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:42 PM |
| -7 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI was with you until the age gap. Dude, that's creepy AF. Find someone your own age | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 06:25 PM |
| 17 | Don't.I totally agree about not going out of your way to impress a guy, but a petty part of myself likes proving them wrong sometimes. Once some guys I was acquaintances with were talking about VR gaming, so I mentioned that I played a bit of beat saber. One of them said that I "didn't seem like the kind of person who'd be any good at that". (Not sure if it was because of my gender, or the fact that I'm not in amazing shape). Anyways, the jokes on him because I told him to add me and look at my highsc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:01 AM |
| -10 | Oof does she tell it like it is lol wait until the endShe makes some points but her "you cant demisexual your way out of white privilege" comment kinda came off as homophobic to me. I mean just because you're queer doesn't mean you can't recognize your white privilege, while also wishing for acceptance over your sexuality. In fact, a lot of people use their white privilege to help their activism in ways that benefit queer POCs. Racism and homophobia are two separate forms of discrimination, and there's nothing wrong with wishing neither existed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:28 PM |
| 51 | The bar is so low 🙃Heh, I've met guys that carry around a shovel just to dig beneath it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:36 AM |
| 15 | Is this guys slow texting a red flag?All of my guy friends are like that. I think that's just how most dudes are, but if anyone else has any insight, I'd appreciate it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | I'm Asexual and not really into guys, but reading about all of you gals living awesome, fulfilling lives without men as the main focus/goal is really validating. Thanks for sharing your stories :)❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:08 AM |
| 11 | I'm Asexual and not really into guys, but reading about all of you gals living awesome, fulfilling lives without men as the main focus/goal is really validating. Thanks for sharing your stories :)That's kinda how I feel (bi-romantic). Some guys are really awesome, but I like knowing they aren't a necessity in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:17 PM |
| 30 | I'm Asexual and not really into guys, but reading about all of you gals living awesome, fulfilling lives without men as the main focus/goal is really validating. Thanks for sharing your stories :)Heh, when I was younger I wished I was more normal, but now that I'm older, I'm really grateful that I've got one thing less to worry about in life. Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:15 PM |
| 36 | I'm Asexual and not really into guys, but reading about all of you gals living awesome, fulfilling lives without men as the main focus/goal is really validating. Thanks for sharing your stories :)It's so sad to hear what you went through, but I'm really proud that you were able to grow as a person and stop letting men's desires control you. Hope you have an awesome life with a nice house and a bunch of Succulents, haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:13 PM |
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