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| 5 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]Why would being a "Nice Guy" cause a girl who never loved you to marry you for 15 years? Or why would it lead a girl to cheat on you? If she got together with you, you would think she likes the "Nice Guy" thing. Genuinely Curious. I'm kind and considerate but do not put them on a pedestal. I was cheated on but was that just by chance? Is it possible to be to stable? | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 10:18 PM |
| 58 | Does anyone else feel like the masks really hurt their seductive levelYeah I've not even considered it, just working on the career and self improvement. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else feel like the masks really hurt their seductive levelPersonally I just put dating on hold during the pandemic, also with the masks on you don't know what your getting into, could be a meat grinder underneath. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Escorts vs GirlfriendsI think about shit like that "What would my future partner/wife think?". | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Escorts vs GirlfriendsI don't agree with this totally, if it's someone you plan on marrying or spending your life with then they should have no problems accepting you and your past. I would want my wife to know everything that shaped me into who I became today, if you can't get that deep with someone then what's the point of getting married? | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Escorts vs GirlfriendsShit man I was 23 when I got my first girlfriend, and it was amazing. I was 20 when I lost my virginity to a escort, honestly having sex with someone you don't care about is exactly like jerking off or using a pocket pussy imo, not nearly as satisfying. Ditch the hentai and go to some bar's and give yourself the opportunity to meet a girl, and when your at the bar have fun, be fun, dance drink and be merry. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Escorts vs GirlfriendsBro don't do it. I did it and regret it. It crushes your self worth and self confidence even more. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Girl is blowing up my texts after dateThis should have more upvotes. I have had girls that literally text non stop, like as soon as you reply, they reply, all day long. I don't text girls back right away because of these incidents. I don't want to set a precedent where we are texting back and forth all day. Like I'm trying to life a life here and enjoy myself, not be on the phone 24/7. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Rule: if she flakes, she's outYou are totally right, noone owes anyone anything and I never said they did, but let's have some basic social decency. If anyone is going to cancel do it in advance, last minute flakes suck because like shit, I could have planned something else, and please for the love of god don't stand someone up. I still think it is something you deflect easily with a little white lie. | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 06:48 AM |
| 4 | Rule: if she flakes, she's outA girl can easily turn down a guy without hurting his self esteem in a few ways, one of the most common is to say your already seeing some one, easy peasy no hit to the confidence. As a guy, asking a girl out can put you in a vulnerable state. If a girl says yes, and fully intends on flaking on you or to ghost you, that is just cruel. If a guy can muster up the courage to put himself on a limb, the girl should have the decency not to lead him on and turn him down instead of getting his hopes up … | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 06:25 AM |
| 313 | Rule: if she flakes, she's outGuy musters the courage to ask a girl out, girl can't even muster the courage to turn him down lol. | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 03:27 AM |
| 7 | How are you guys dating during Covid?Yeah that shit ain't happening, hooked up with a chick a few times back in November and that's about it. My Dad had a aneurysm and I'm helping take care of him so I am not putting his life at risk for some pussy. | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 05:20 AM |
| 2 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthThis was like reading a horoscope, relatable to a certain degree but so ambiguous it could be anything. | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 01:18 AM |
| 12 | Why men ghost women in relationships?(29M) Out of a 6 year recently so maybe I know what I want/I have a lot of red flag experience? I dunno? Lol. But not to sound like a douche but I get a decent amount of matches compared to my friends. Even so in most my connections online in "The Apps" I was literally carrying the fucking conversation entirely on my fucking back (Insert Atlas here). I literally got so sick of the one sided, asking interests, hobbies trying to get something going that I just deleted all the apps. You want self v… | /r/seduction | 12/01/21 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?Lotta good stuff, been alone (single) for the majority of my life and I still don't know what I'm doing in this life lol Life's a bitch. | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone else have trouble ending things when it's time to "move on"?(29M) Having sex literally releases bonding hormones for both parties, that's why they are getting attached. If you are not looking for a relationship and just want something casual you should tell them straight up before having sex. You may not be telling them you don't want a LTR, but they don't know that unless you explicitly state that, be honest to them, they deserve it and might stop them from getting attached. They might not sleep with you after you admit that, but that's the price of bei… | /r/seduction | 11/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 3 | How to let her fall into your frameHey man no worries, I'm pretty numb these days. She met some one about 2 weeks later and started dating them about a month later. She met him right when she started smoking meth which was right after the break up. He is a meth dealer so it doesn't surprise me? She was escorting for money a bit before she settled with him. I msg her like once a month mostly just to hope that she's doing well and hope that she's taking care of herself (remembering to eat and sleep). She tells me things because she… | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 11:21 AM |
| 3 | How to let her fall into your frameI'm on the line of thinking just enjoy whatever it is you like doing? I don't think anyone has a real "Purpose" so to speak, that's like trying to figure out if there is a meaning to life. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 06:42 AM |
| 3 | How to let her fall into your frameI haven't gone to therapy yet. I don't like the idea of someone telling me how I should feel and think, If that makes sense? I have thought about it on particularly hard day's. I've never been much of a player or ladies man but yeah, I've been thinking about making the switch. Maybe it's just a quarter life crisis phase haha. Thx for the sub recommendations, not really out there looking for anything at the moment, but I like reading these dating subs and what not to maybe get me ready for when I… | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 06:36 AM |
| 3 | How to let her fall into your frameWell she had depression which is ultimately why she ended things. Yeah I'm not rushing anything, thought I was ready to get out there again but deleted all the dating apps couple months ago. Trying to enjoy the last of my 20's, but I've only got 3 months left and my Country is in lockdown lol Yeah I've thought about it (life in 50+) but I also thought about how I could be dead next week also. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 06:32 AM |
| 13 | How to let her fall into your frameYeah it might be comfort, although I just don't really have anything that I care too much about, I made every decision of my life based on them the last 6 years. Thanks for your sympathy, he wasn't my biological son, I raised him from 2-8 and night potty trained him and just so many experiences, so he was like a son to me. His biological father was more than happy to completely axe me out of his life when she gave him custody. It sucks to lose a girl, but I feel like I lost my family. Still tryi… | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 04:16 AM |
| 24 | How to let her fall into your frameBut why do we have to grow out of it? Serious question, I mean people say your shaving years off your life but those are the shitty years anyways. I don't do drugs but yeah, I partied hard in my early 20's then got a gf and started to grow out of it and started thinking about a family, growing old together yada yada yada , 6 years later she gone. Now I'm not sure if I want that family shit anymore tbh or a relationship again. Thinking about just living my best life from here on out, like I said.… | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | How to let her fall into your frameI play games but that's always been a passion of mine, I love going out to parties also but I feel like if I gave up gaming I'd be lying to myself about what I want, and aren't we suppose to be true to ourselves. Lotta hobbies imo sound super boring. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 53 | How to let her fall into your frameIs partying and having a great time count as a mission? Trying to live that baller lyfe. | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met?I thought about doing that, the text right away. But what if you text and her phone doesn't buzz because it's fake? Possibly awkward moments about to happen. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | 3 signs you are her beta orbiter.Even crazier considering you can already see the most intimate part of a lot of good looking girls physicality, for free on the internet. Who would ever pay for porn? | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps?No. | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 10:15 PM |
| 39 | 3 signs you are her beta orbiter.That's disheartening. I had a girl recently who wanted validation, I gave it to her, she gave me sex. Fair trade. | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | How can I be myself when I don't even know what myself is like?Maybe they are both them tho. Sometimes I'm extroverted, sometimes i'm Introverted, that's ok. I'm normally very introverted when put in new places and meeting new people. 2 months later I'm extroverted as all hell. | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | “Be yourself” really is the best advicePreach. I WAS 6"2 260, now I'm 190 cause I hated myself. Hating yourself can produce results. | /r/seduction | 04/11/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | It’s crazyYeah,I wish my confidence could take a blow like that. | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | It’s crazyBut how do you know there into you is the big question. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How do I make a guy realise I want it when I can't talk to him?Yeah, I can't tell for shit if some one is into me. | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I make a guy realise I want it when I can't talk to him?I would still drop that ball. If a girl doesn't straight up tell me she's interested, I have no clue and don't make any moves. I'm getting used to being single tho, so there's that. | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | This Is How I Get Several Dates With Hot Girls Every Week (infield)Fuck boys lie and manipulate and mislead to get laid. I didn't see that. | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Gym and dietYeah, and not even appearance, fitness level. The way she worded it is your not jacked then she ignores you. Like how much can you actually tell how fit some one is under their shirt/jacket? I've seen dude who look scrawny take there shirt off and they are fucking ripped. | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻"I may have to resort to drastic measures or something" I can't what to find out what that is. | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 03:12 AM |
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