Irrelephantitus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
67	I wouldn't marry him until he paid off his debt, now I'm in charge of our money - BBC News - If the genders were reversed, it would be classified as financial abuse... The only thing weird going on in the article is how little he was in debt before she would marry him, I thought it would be like 60k of debt for a student loan or something not a 4k car loan. That being said there's nothing wrong with one or the other person dealing with the budget as long as it's not abusive. My wife and I could both be better with money and I hate dealing with it I would love a wife who would handle everything financial and just tell me when I can afford something or how much …	/r/MensRights	17/07/26 04:26 AM
1	I found a new leftist content creator that challenges misandrists and harmful feminist rhetorics. Communists love to slip under the radar into liberal territory using the stealth technology of socialism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 02:27 AM
0	I found a new leftist content creator that challenges misandrists and harmful feminist rhetorics. Depends what you mean by socialist I guess, most people on the left after fine with capitalism though.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 02:19 AM
7	I found a new leftist content creator that challenges misandrists and harmful feminist rhetorics. You don't have to be a communist to be left wing you know.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/05/26 04:13 PM
1	Men who correct women over any disagreement could face disciplinary action under new Green party rules Next meeting just say: "I can't comment without risking disciplinary action".	/r/MensRights	14/12/25 05:46 AM
5	Doordash SA girl has been arrested Is there a way to see the first video she posted?	/r/MensRights	24/11/25 04:54 AM
26	This Is The Society We Live In 😂 LLM's are just reflections of things humans say, not of reality.	/r/MensRights	30/09/25 06:30 AM
6	The 'Shrekking' Dating Trend: When Women Date 'Down' in Hopes of Better Treatment Also is this really women choosing to date worse looking men? Like they could have dated a better looking man but chose the worse looking one? Or is it that every better looking man was only interested in one night stands or friends with benefits so they settle on a man who is actually at their level but they think they are dating down?	/r/MensRights	31/08/25 07:39 PM
1	Denmark expands military draft to women for first time. You know what, it's a step in the right direction. Give people extra pay if they are sleeping outside or are in a front line position.	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 12:23 AM
4	UK: 'Two-tier' sentencing rules are unfair to white men, Britain's equality watchdog chief warns. Circumcision, disparity of treatment of male domestic abuse victims, disparity of treatment of male sexual assault victims, ignoring issues of male homelessness, ignoring issues of male workplace death, the male school performance gap, the entire idea that we live in a patriarchy.	/r/MensRights	13/03/25 04:19 PM
6	First time I've seen a feminist defend men from another feminist It's basically an indistinguishable statement, on any meaningful level, from "society causes men's problems". It just lets feminists continue their narrative of men as oppressors and women as victims.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/08/24 02:49 AM
9	Men are forced to become meat shields and dying in Ukraine, dating scene for women most affected If we were using the logic of reparations and affirmative action it would be "we need to have a women-only draft for the next two years so men can catch up".	/r/MensRights	05/08/24 02:11 AM
1	War Shatters Dating Scene for Women in Ukraine Biggest case of "check your privilege" I've ever seen.	/r/MensRights	05/08/24 02:05 AM
1	A man was acquitted of molesting a woman on a flight after a judge found the woman's testimony unreliable. That's... not hot that works at all. To convict someone of a crime you need to prove it beyond a reasonable doubt. So for the state to prove its case against the guy for sexual assault they need proof beyond a reasonable doubt that he touched her leg without her consent. For the state to prove its case against the girl for making a false allegation they would have to prove that he didn't touch her (or that she actually gave consent or something like that). It is not the case that just because he…	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 11:35 PM
-7	A man was acquitted of molesting a woman on a flight after a judge found the woman's testimony unreliable. To be fair, they would also need to prove she lied.	/r/MensRights	30/04/24 02:38 AM
7	Sextortion: The hidden crisis killing our boys Ok, so we don't live in a patriarchy then?	/r/MensRights	20/04/24 03:06 AM
8	Sextortion: The hidden crisis killing our boys Right, the belief that everyone can be categorized into groups and then ranked according to their level of oppression or privilege. The one that pretty exclusively views men as the oppressors of women. I can believe that there are feminists who believe in equality between men and women and can admit that there are areas where men have serious discrimination, but not if you believe in intersectional feminism, critical theory, or the patriarchy.	/r/MensRights	20/04/24 02:40 AM
42	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Everyone	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 06:55 AM
42	"Radical Feminists" are insisting the reason on why women quite the workforce to become stay at home mothers is apparently male managers with stay at home wives, because they are supposedly more "Sexist". Here we go, feminists trying to restrict women's choices. If women want to have the same career and family opportunities that men with stay at home wives have, they'll need to be ok marrying a husband who will stay at home. They would also need to accept a man who makes less than them.	/r/MensRights	17/03/24 04:13 AM
12	A bus load of Ukranian men trying to evade conscription by escaping to Romania get caught Israel drafts women, they seem to be doing just fine.	/r/MensRights	10/03/24 04:33 PM
2	"There will be a six-week ceasefire in Gaza starting today, if Hamas agrees to release the default defined category of vulnerable hostages: the sick the wounded, elderly and women. " Because everyone knows that male hostages are completely invulnerable. Like Power Rangers, injured but never killed. That would be what Hamas thinks as they use them as human shields while continuing to attack Israel.	/r/MensRights	04/03/24 09:54 AM
5	Does it annoy anybody else how those speaking up for male issues are often really conservative? I mean, no argument there	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/24 06:55 AM
6	Does it annoy anybody else how those speaking up for male issues are often really conservative? Who is they?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/24 06:16 AM
15	Does it annoy anybody else how those speaking up for male issues are often really conservative? Maybe for the moderate left, the further left you go the less egalitarian it seems to be.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/01/24 05:35 AM
8	Woman lies about sexual assault, refuses to go to police, sued for defamation, is somehow still the victim. You're getting caught up in the terminology. The universities are receiving a report of a sexual assault and making a determination on whether they think it happened or not, and imposing a significant penalty on a person they think "broke the rules". The fact that it doesn't have the same level of due process is kind of the point here. Universities are running a parallel "justice system" that lacks the normal protections for the accused and is open to abuse. It's not totally incorrect for the pe…	/r/MensRights	02/12/23 01:27 AM
3	I Hate This Argument On FOM Violence The way I like to put it is that yes, more women are killed in domestic violence then men, but not for lack of trying. It's pretty hard for a woman to kill a man, she basically has to surprise him and use a weapon. A man can kill a woman by accident.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/09/23 09:22 PM
5	One in three primary schools has no male teachers, report says Oh you mean actually diverse, not diverse (-ity, equity and inclusion)	/r/MensRights	10/06/23 01:35 AM
128	Why is it so hard to discuss men's issues in left spaces? Radical feminists (defined as the ones who believe in the existence of a patriarchy...ie most of them) worldview depends on viewing women as victims of male oppression. Any talk of men's struggles threatens this worldview so they won't accept it until they give up their core belief that we live in a patriarchy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/03/23 02:12 PM
9	How do you feel about when every time males suicide rate is brought up, feminist counter it by saying female "attempt" suicide rate is higher? Yup, men don't expect to get any help by attempting suicide	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 05:51 PM
0	I'm sure she knows this isn't true. Feminists: "kill all men" This doesn't break TOS Andrew Tate: "women suck at driving and should let their men cheat on them" Permanently banned from all platforms. (And yes he is a human trafficker I'm just pointing out the double standard with the social media companies)	/r/AntiFeminists	16/01/23 05:19 AM
9	A Guy Asked Her Out And She Turned Him Down, But After Her Friend Said He Had Money, She Agreed To Let Him Take Her Out For Dinner Because She Likes That He's Rich Based	/r/MensRights	14/01/23 06:02 AM
4	Millie Bobby Brown called out by intimacy coordinator: "Consent is mandatory" Because in feminism or woke-ism or whatever, men should act like women and women should act like men. Once you see it this way it clears a lot of things up.	/r/MensRights	23/12/22 05:33 AM
6	A poster on display in the men's toilets at my local library today The only place feminists won't take it down.	/r/MensRights	21/12/22 06:10 PM
1	women only night club What do you mean by women?	/r/AntiFeminists	20/12/22 04:27 PM
38	Gender Suicide Paradox Women know they can get help after a suicide attempt, men know they won't.	/r/MensRights	14/12/22 12:46 AM
4	Women are oppressed I agree it is time for feminists to wrap up the oppression Olympics and allow men to advocate for their rights.	/r/MensRights	04/12/22 02:49 PM
4	Women are oppressed If you think it didn't suck just as much for men I don't know what to tell you. Jobs used to suck A LOT more than they do today. They were almost all dangerous with no union protection. No concept of safety standards or employee rights. Women staying home with the kids was a privilege. And all of a sudden when jobs start to get easier women want to break into the workplace and they STILL take the least dangerous jobs. And none of this is to mention men being dragged into wars. Men and women were…	/r/MensRights	04/12/22 02:39 PM
3	Women are oppressed Very small numbers of men hold the positions of power. The lowest in society, homeless, prisoners, and those who die young are overwhelmingly men. And this represents far greater numbers in absolute terms than the men at the top.	/r/MensRights	04/12/22 02:32 PM
9	Women are oppressed We can't fix all of these things but I think the point of this post is to realize that we don't live in a world where women are oppressed by gender roles and men aren't. It's not a patriarchy. One gender is not privileged over the other.	/r/MensRights	03/12/22 10:03 PM
11	Women are oppressed Here's what I think. A homeless woman almost always has the option to start dating a guy who is in a better position than her, and this comes with staying in whatever living arrangement the guy has. No woman is taking a homeless guy into their house. I've heard in these studies "homeless" doesn't necessarily mean sleeping on the street, it can include couch surfing, and that when you categorize it by sleeping on the street it's like 90% men. The difference in workplace fatalities is simply becau…	/r/MensRights	03/12/22 06:58 PM
3	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. I'll try, what part didn't you get?	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 12:21 PM
1	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. Oh ok, thought I was talking to a feminist for a second there, my bad!	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 12:20 PM
6	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. That's alright, in the absence of state violence you get non state violence. I think there's places where state violence doesn't exist, Somalia for example. You should try living there. Let me know how it goes.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:12 AM
7	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. You don't think men and women should be treated equally?	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:09 AM
12	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. The lowest people in society, those on the streets or in prison, and those who die before they are old, are overwhelmingly men.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 02:58 AM
9	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. It's a gynocentric world after all.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 02:55 AM
11	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. I don't think a person has to be against capitalism as a pre condition to believe in men's rights.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 02:51 AM
9	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. Probably because any kind of street protest for men's rights would get shut down by feminists.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 02:34 AM
17	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. This is what your argument boils down to: "lol".	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 02:31 AM
18	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. How is that relevant here?	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 02:30 AM
1	Female Attorney General abuses her position after she was appointed so that our country could have women in top positions. Well, if we are always hiring women through affirmative action people might start to assume they wouldn't have been hired otherwise. Maybe we should stop with the affirmative action.	/r/MensRights	02/10/22 07:45 PM
1	How do I respond to women who say "We're repulsed by men's emotions because we've been brainwashed by the patriarchy?" These people will generally define the patriarchy as a system where men are in charge and where they use their power to benefit men. If we are challenging this idea by pointing out that our society doesn't actually tend to benefit men over women, they don't get to turn it around and say that those instances where men are disadvantaged in society are actually examples of the patriarchy. It just doesn't make sense to say society benefits men and any time it doesn't that's proof that society benefi…	/r/MensRights	01/10/22 07:08 AM
3	she wanted to eliminate every single male from the face of earth Also enjoy going back to the stone age.	/r/AntiFeminists	28/09/22 05:49 PM
3	If we should say #BlackLivesMatter instead of #AllLivesMatter because black people are getting killed at higher rates, Why isn’t it ok to point out that black men are being killed at higher rates than black women? Nobody knows, especially not you. We can survey victims of crime and ask the race of the offender. This is called a victimization survey and the results of these surveys are fairly consistent with the arrest/charge/conviction rates. So no, we are not somehow arresting way more black people then white people. Black people are committing more crime. There could be all kinds of reasons for this (it's not genetic) but it doesn't help anyone to deny this on ideological grounds. Trust me I'm in favor …	/r/MensRights	15/09/22 09:58 PM
5	If we should say #BlackLivesMatter instead of #AllLivesMatter because black people are getting killed at higher rates, Why isn’t it ok to point out that black men are being killed at higher rates than black women? I hope you're not referring to Breona Tayler because she wasn't shot while sleeping in bed, so stop making that claim.	/r/MensRights	15/09/22 08:53 PM
2	Is gray hair sexist? I'm only talking about a single case I'm not generalizing anything. I'm saying if they dismissed her for having grey hair, and they didn't do that for men with grey hair, then it seems like it would be sexism. If they dismissed her for some issue other than her grey hair then it probably wouldn't be sexism. If they can point to examples of continuing to employ other older females with grey hair then it wouldn't be sexism.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/09/22 06:31 PM
1	Is gray hair sexist? I'm not trying to make some broad statement about how we treat old people of different genders differently, just in the news world. Don't you think it seems like we are more ok with older male news anchors then older female news anchors? Just look at Fox News, there's no female version of Bill O'Reilly there, the woman could all could pass for being in their 20's or 30's. And it's not like Lisa LaFlamme was unprofessional with her grey hair. It's bias to have a different standard for men and wom…	/r/AntiFeminists	06/09/22 04:11 PM
1	Is gray hair sexist? I'm not saying anything about the broader picture here, only about the dismissal of Lisa LaFlamme. I agree with you, feminists make up sexism all the time, but we can at least admit when it actually happens to a woman.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/09/22 01:25 PM
4	Is gray hair sexist? If they allowed Lloyd Robertson to work with grey hair until he was 77 and fired Lisa LaFlamme basically as soon as she stopped dying her hair that would be ageism applied only to one gender. So the "policy" isn't really about age but about gender.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/09/22 12:54 PM
-1	Is gray hair sexist? I think we should be careful here. I am as antifeminist as any of you, but we should be able to call out sexism when it happens to women as well as men. We may not ever know the true reason for Lisa's dismissal, but if it was because her hair went grey, when they kept Lloyd Robertson on long after he went grey, then this can pretty clearly be seen as a case of sexism against women. No one will take us seriously if we deny actual cases of sexism against women. We have enough instances of feminism…	/r/AntiFeminists	06/09/22 03:38 AM
19	Violence against men Wikipedia page has been nominated for deletion (again) The hilarious thing is if you ever look at the page on violence against women it's got no substance to it. It never references comparisons of violence against women to violence against men except in domestic murders and sexual assault. Everything else on the page is super vague, saying things like "violence against women is not well documented" (because it's way less then against men).	/r/MensRights	30/08/22 04:01 AM
3	Stats don’t lie, but people do https://newdiscourses.com/2020/08/2-plus-2-never-equals-5/ Recommended reading on just that subject.	/r/AntiFeminists	23/08/22 02:26 AM
18	Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE Idea Of course you don't because no one cares about men's issues like they care about women's issues.	/r/MensRights	26/06/22 08:41 PM
7	Woman jailed for making false rape report I don't like destroying words either but think of it this way: if the state jails you for say 5 years for a rape, what would that be the equivalent to if someone that wasn't the state did it? It would be like someone had kidnapped you and locked you in their basement for 5 years. When someone makes a false allegation to the police, this is what they are doing, they are attempting to have the state enact violence on their behalf, and because it's based on a lie I would say it's morally not differ…	/r/MensRights	11/06/22 03:24 PM
2	What do you guys think about this quora post claiming that Feminist organisation supporting Johnny Depp against Amber Heard? While I tentatively agree (I'm not familiar with this organization, I don't know if they supported Heard until now), I think it may be better if we don't reject their support. We should encourage feminists in believing men, not shit on them when they occasionally do. I can imagine people watching this from the outside thinking "even when we give MRA's what they want it's never enough".	/r/AntiFeminists	26/05/22 11:17 PM
11	This hurts my brain... Are you implying that words have meaning? How dare you.	/r/AntiFeminists	23/05/22 03:08 PM
30	Femcels and How the narrative changes when it affects women. From they are losers (male incels) to what do they need and how can they better their lives (female incels). Girls when a guy isn't attracted to them: "Guys don't treat ugly girls like people" Girls when they aren't attracted to a guy and he complains: "You're not entitled to my time"	/r/MensRights	18/05/22 06:31 AM
13	Apparently men have to pay child support if they get raped. Read the one about the father in India being forced to provide sperm to his ex-wife. That is insanity. I'm curious to see how it turns out if he wins an appeal.	/r/MensRights	18/04/22 04:34 PM
1	Would you go to a male-only gym? In my 20's there was a women's only gym called curves a block from my house, next closest gym was probably a 30 minute walk away. I would have started working out much earlier in life if I had a gym a block from my house that I could use. I don't mind these women's only gyms but they should have to be attached to a co-ed gym.	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 01:39 PM
14	Wow, so r/marriageisntworthit was banned? Yeah I thought marriage was a patriarchal institution?	/r/AntiFeminists	01/04/22 10:01 PM
16	Read the comments of this post And you can bet every woman picking up an AK is getting their picture taken. They see 10 photos of women with AK's "wow look at all the women fighting!". Where that is like, all 10 of them.	/r/AntiFeminists	28/02/22 04:23 AM
3	Remember: women are the drivers of toxic gender roles — never let anyone tell you otherwise. But how many books do they sell?	/r/AntiFeminists	12/02/22 03:12 AM
3	Men really do get blamed for everything, even a women's sex addiction. Apparently having CONSENSUAL sex is "taking advantage" of a women now. It's not the responsibility of everyone around her to deal with her addiction. Could it be kinda shitty if they know about her addiction? Maybe, but her addiction won't be helped by blaming everyone around her.	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 05:15 PM
6	Connecticut Supreme Court: Women-only gym areas violate state discrimination law When I was younger I wanted to start working out but the only gym within walking distance of my house was a women only Curves.	/r/MensRights	27/01/22 06:44 AM
5	Connecticut Supreme Court: Women-only gym areas violate state discrimination law As we can see from the court decision, both men only and women only gyms are in fact both outlawed.	/r/MensRights	27/01/22 06:36 AM
9	Our school no longer allows male high school students to go to the restroom It's judging people on their gender. One boy caught with drugs, that must mean boys have drugs, and girls don't. Implementing policy that discriminates based on gender is pretty woke.	/r/MensRights	09/12/21 07:31 PM
3	Modern feminist asking for equal rights makes no sense https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homicide_statistics_by_gender https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/cifamerica/2012/feb/21/us-more-men-raped-than-women If you are going to speak for women the least you could do is be aware of the issues.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/09/21 05:20 PM
8	Modern feminist asking for equal rights makes no sense More men are killed then women, men are raped as much as women when you include prison rape, and I'm sure workplace harassment totally outweighs the gender gap in suicide, homelessness, workplace death, sentencing etc, etc,.	/r/AntiFeminists	06/09/21 05:05 PM
7	It's done ... Pentagon has to DRAFT women to receive funding Pretty sure South Korea only drafts males, and the males actually have to go for two years of training/service.	/r/AntiFeminists	04/09/21 02:26 AM