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That profile pic 💀
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 03:01 PM
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What’s the reason for the divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 08:52 PM
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Obviously they do.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 08:52 PM
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My point exactly. It’s not just women, it’s people these days in general. Happens often on this sub as well. I lost count how often people talked to me about narcissistic friends / family members / bosses etc.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 01:53 AM
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Except it’s used plenty on this sub as well.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 01:40 AM
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Check out: r/narcissisticabuse and r/narcissisticspouses. You’re not alone.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 08:31 PM
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Nah, don’t make it weird.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 07:11 AM
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Do you get erections during?
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 05:07 PM
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What about the bitter men here?
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 06:55 AM
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Tradcons, passport bros, and sugar daddies were all fine with being wanted for money. Nah, they’re not. They want to be desired for who they are, not for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:56 PM
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Nah, they don’t care about you. Don’t worry. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:55 PM
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Nah, don’t blame society for this. It’s not the girl’s fault she has better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:49 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:46 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:45 PM
1

And now they’re angry because they’re wanted for their money?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:37 PM
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They’re doing it all the time with OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:36 PM
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lol
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 11:34 PM
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Because you can still look for a relationship while being passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:14 PM
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That’s exactly what I’m talking about.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 06:39 AM
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Then I guess you have good people around you. But if you check the male subs it’s always that advice and the gym thing. Never saw that advice on female subs or heard them say that in real life… The problem with men is like you said that they statistically have less friends (if any at all) and if they start dating / sleeping around immediately they tend to be vulnerable and make mistakes. That’s why it’s advised not to do it and take a break / focus on oneself first. But women usually do that any…
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 10:09 PM
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No, the general advice here is “The best way to get over someone is to get under someone.” So I don’t know what you mean.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 09:52 PM
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The modern double-stardard has inverted. Popular opinion says men shouldn't date until long after the divorce is finalized, as in 6 months to years, or risk the run of being called "fuckbois" What double standard? What popular opinion? Never saw that advice except for on this sub.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 09:34 PM
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Did you read the rules? They don’t sound like she wants to be exclusive with OP and that seems to bug him although he doesn’t want to be exclusive with her. It’s all very confusing.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 09:21 PM
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I think, black guys got it right 10-15 years before us, with the culture of baby daddies and stuff like that. How so?
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 09:16 PM
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Then why do you care so much if she’s out with other people?
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 09:11 PM
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Do you want that chick as your girlfriend?
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 08:22 PM
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Finally someone sane…
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 08:20 PM
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Yeah you already wrote the same comment before.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 07:50 AM
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Using extremely rich stars as examples is kind of stupid though, no? How many average 60 year olds could pull that off? Going to poorer countries was my first thought for someone older as well though, it’s just that most probably don’t want to adapt to a new culture / raise their children in a different way (especially after a certain age) so it’s not an option for lots either. And who knows how real those marriages even are.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 07:05 AM
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Pretty sure OP is not a movie star with status and billions in the bank… But yeah, at 35 he shouldn’t worry, but he should get out there and look for someone.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 06:24 AM
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She wasn’t exactly 20, she was 20 and 10 months. ☝🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:44 PM
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And? Did she?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:15 AM
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Youre probably right, but it’s one of those things you can’t really fix I think since it depends on the person‘s upbringing among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:26 PM
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Yeah no, it’s definitely a weird situation for them both (especially since a child is involved now), but it’s realistically how most relationships are. It’s just that some things should remain a mystery for everyone’s sake, but she was drunk and blurted out how most feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:05 PM
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That’s most relationships. Just people don’t talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:02 PM
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“Proposal to go out” is going on a date though, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:17 PM
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You think with your own two eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:22 PM
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And since you take your “evidence” from YouTube comments: Check out comments under videos of Helen Mirren who is in her 70s… it’s scary how thirsty some men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:14 AM
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And I can't tell if you're deliberately being obtuse but the whole point is that an attractive 40 year old woman is NOT more attractive than an average 20 y/o woman, whereas the reverse is true for men. Yes she is lol Plenty of plain looking 20 year olds with no personality who would pale in comparison to JLo. And yes, JLo is extremely attractive, what are you talking about? Compare the women you posted to their male counterparts. Plenty of men in Hollywood who aged very badly and who wouldn’t g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:12 AM
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And I can't tell if you're deliberately being obtuse but the whole point is that an attractive 40 year old woman is NOT more attractive than an average 20 y/o woman, whereas the reverse is true for men. Yes she is lol Plenty of plain looking 20 year olds with no personality who would pale in comparison to JLo. And yes, JLo is extremely attractive, what are you talking about? Compare the women you posted with their male counterparts. Plenty of men in Hollywood who aged very badly and who wouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:11 AM
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An attractive 40 year old man is much more attractive than an average 20 year old guy. No way, an attractive 40 year old is more attractive than an average 20 year old? Now compare those middle aged actors to Timothee Chalamat and see who wins. Plenty of men are into older women, Sofia Vergara and JLo to mind for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:02 AM
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If a woman looks 45 years old, most men would not find her that physically attractive. The same isn’t the case for a man who looks 45. That’s not true though. Unless you have money to compensate for your age, you will be less attractive than the man who is 20 years younger than you. And yes, balding makes you look old. That’s why men are so scared of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 12:02 AM
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I don’t know why you wrote a whole novel, but you didn’t really say anything of substance. But for the most part, it's that actual perception of aging that makes women unattractive to men as they age, and not any loosely correlated changes in physical traits. Meaning what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:36 PM
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And why? What’s the reason for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:03 PM
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Hollywood is not real life. How many 70 year olds look like George Clooney?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:04 PM
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Yes exactly. Same as young women, they want the young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:52 PM
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There is no escaping aging in general, for both genders. What makes you think you could compete with younger guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:47 PM
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Why do you want kids though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:47 PM
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Lots of things have happened lol Doesn’t make your comment true in the general sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:46 PM
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The point was that for men it doesn’t only get better like the RP preaches. I know plenty of men for who at mid 30s it was more or less over. The average man is not George Clooney like the RP wants you to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:36 PM
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Never saw someone comment that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:33 PM
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I don’t know about you, but I wouldn’t want to be valued for my $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:32 PM
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For all the things you listed there is an equivalent for women that they can get help with. So what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:28 PM
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And young women find young men the most attractive. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:25 PM
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60 is very generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:21 PM
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Depends on the man and even then there’s a limit. OP has a point, but let the men find out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:19 PM
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Why do you want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:44 PM
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You already have two kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:43 PM
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That’s because most women don’t say “I’ll just get pregnant and get 10 nannies to take care of the kids”. Why have kids at all then, seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:36 PM
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No he doesn’t, he wants to hire Nannies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:34 PM
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Seriously, why do you want to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:33 PM
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Idk, I hope not. The woman apparently is from a broken home, so it might not work the same for her as it would work for “healthy” people. For example arranged marriages have better success and report more satisfaction than normal marriages and they often start the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:19 PM
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I would argue that kind of love is at least more real and long lasting than the fleeting romantic love. Sure, it’s not “genuine desire” like some people here want, but most people won’t get genuine desire anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:32 PM
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What are those two paths you were thinking about?
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 09:34 AM
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Agreed. So much anger in that short post. OP should work on it and hopefully heal.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 02:58 PM
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Can’t you write her and ask her for your desk?
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 08:42 PM
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Or even better: Just ignore them and move on
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 01:54 PM
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Seriously, why do you care so much?
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 01:53 PM
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What?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/24 05:11 PM
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Finding someone like that, sure. Making up stories? Not so much.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 01:06 PM
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Why did it grind your gears? Sounds very basic.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 09:17 AM
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You could always make up some stories about some hot young blonde (half your ex-wife's age) with big tits that you're dating, and tell your wife all the lurid details about it. That’s shit and pathetic advice. Why should he embarrass himself like that? Just ignore her and work on yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 09:15 AM
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Why would the son be shaking his head? Would you want your mom to have sex with someone she doesn’t want to have sex with for money?
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 03:25 PM
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We have a couple of those in this comment section lol
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 01:42 PM
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But to get those kids you had to get into a relationship / marry, didn’t you?
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 11:20 AM
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lol Kind of true actually
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 11:10 AM
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Why are you being downvoted? You are absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:05 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:11 AM
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I hope you’ll find peace soon 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:18 AM
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You seem to not understand what the OC wanted to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:17 AM
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No, it’s not up to me lol That’s exactly the point. In polyamorous relationships it’s not up to you and another person, it’s up to a ton of people. Thats why your comment didn’t make sense with the analogy the OC used.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:11 AM
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You should really try to move on, it’s been 15 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:10 AM
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And you focus all your hate on her… 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:01 AM
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💯🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:59 AM
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No, you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:59 AM
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That‘s an awful long text for something you don’t care about at all. 🤔 You’re still bitter and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:35 AM
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She won’t look at you now either, no need to worry. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:02 AM
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I will never marry her. I don’t think you have to worry about that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:58 PM
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Sounds like a midlife crisis.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 07:29 PM
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The divorce rate is far higher too.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 03:57 PM
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get a stable of 20 year olds on rotation. lol Sure, why didn’t OP think of that? 🤡
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:46 AM
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Probably before tbf.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 11:45 AM
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You mean because it’s not long-term anyway? Then I agree.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 08:55 PM
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Having a good time = spending lots of money
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 05:30 PM
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Women who are in their mid 30s and 40s are all looking for a guy to fund their lifestyle. Women of all ages do, but the younger ones especially. Why Single out that age bracket?
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 08:16 AM
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How did it mess with your head?
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 04:55 PM
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Obviously
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 10:13 PM
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Have you not dated at all after your divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 02:13 PM
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How long have you been divorced?
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 08:15 AM
1

Why does it get depressing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:53 PM
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What exactly is so harsh about the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:05 AM
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I said, speaking from a systematic perspective, if you have a society where the majority of females are having sex with a minority of men, then they're by definition living in the harems of those men, sharing them with other females Is there proof for this? Because I fail to see this in real life and we have a big hook up culture here. I explained the difference in the other posts under that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:44 PM
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Playing semantics? Lmao Well yeah, this discussion is about semantics after all. 🤣 I already explained the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:01 PM
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Not really, since the intentions are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:24 PM
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What does them knowing about each other have to do with anything? Lmao Explained it in the comment below yours. You are describing “spinning plates”, not harems. If the vast majority of females are having sex only with a small minority of men Which is not the case lol I don't get what you're struggling with here Lmao I think you are the one struggling here, you don’t seem to know what a harem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:10 PM
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Then I disagree, call it spinning plates. A harem is something different and doesn’t make sense it that context, because like I said it means something different. Unless you imagine a guy who has several girlfriends and the girls are fine or “fine” with it, then you could call it a modern harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:56 PM
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Are the absolute majority of females having casual sex only with a small percentage of the tallest and best looking men, or not? No. In other words, are the majority of females sharing a small group of men with each other, or not? No. Which by definition would mean that the majority of females are living in harems of a minority of men, sharing those men with other females No, it doesn’t. Even if it were true what you said about those numbers. If those women don’t know about each other and don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:24 PM
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Yes it is. Because that’s not what a harem is. 🤣 If you sleep with a girl and she leaves and you never see her again, is she part of your harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:03 PM
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It’s really not that rare… Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:46 PM
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lol 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:39 PM
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You found that girl yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:38 PM
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She has to be a home owner too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:38 PM
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What is the definition of a harem for you? This:? If a female has ever had casual sex- she's been sharing a guy with other females, which is the definition of a harem So if a guy has ever had casual sex, he has been sharing a girl and was part of her harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:22 PM
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Too much “freedom”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:17 PM
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But you can’t force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:26 PM
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Then why should a woman settle for someone she doesn’t find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:17 AM
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But don’t they also say attraction is not negotiable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:26 PM
1

But aren’t those women settling then which TRP says is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:42 PM
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Wow, that is crazy. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:33 PM
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Do fat women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:17 PM
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Good for you! But seriously, how are you desperate? What does that mean? And desperate for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:07 PM
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Well, some are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:43 AM
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Doesn’t work in countries with legal prostitution. Source: Am from a country where prostitution is legal. Emotional connection is what most men are looking for, despite their place of origins. There are even studies that prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:35 AM
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Why do you want a relationship at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:18 AM
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The issue is we have a society filled with men that think there's more to relationships than there actually is What is there to relationships in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:14 AM
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MGTOW (the original one) is not lashing out at all. I wish more men would go that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:58 PM
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Wow, that’s a strong reaction lol Her comment made 100% sense, what didn’t make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:57 PM
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Have you improved now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:49 PM
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I don’t even want to know how many kids who were raised by the husbands were actually from other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:42 PM
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Please speak for yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:26 AM
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Those guys are usually the saddest though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:11 PM
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we had pity sex with What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:31 PM
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Well yeah, they’re using their desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:06 PM
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I did research and didn’t find any statistics, but I did find some anecdotes where it’s majority women. Guess it depends on the region / country. The rest that you wrote was complete nonsense though. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:36 PM
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People with lower singlehood satisfaction are more likely to be men, older, more educated, or in worse health. Are you shitting me now? You’re linking data that disproves what you’re saying. this one for example, but you have to remember we know for a fact women are lying who answered this survey. The singles events prove that. How convenient… The singles event I’ve been to are usually majority men though. So again, we seem to live in different realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:04 PM
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I am looking, yes. That’s why I’m asking you, because that’s not my reality. So statistics lie then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:26 PM
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There not pushing an agenda, they’re trying to give themselves some hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:25 PM
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Because the majority of people get uglier as they age. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:23 PM
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Could you link that data please?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:20 PM
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If it’s reality for men, why don’t I see it all the time then? And why do statistics paint a different picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:18 PM
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I would suggest reading a history book. Is that a suggestion to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:16 PM
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Building a connection takes time and effort. Plenty of people don’t want to put any work into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:53 PM
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I have more money now than I did back then but not sure how much of a factor that plays, especially since women do not find out more about that until later in the dating process. What do you mean “how they find out”? They assume it, like most people. Most people have more money in their thirties than in their twenties. If they find out you have less money than the average twenty something guy, they’ll be gone immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:37 PM
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They are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:33 PM
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It’s sad for me personally, because I have two men like that in my family and it’s hard to watch them struggle. 😩 But I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:59 AM
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Very dumb and unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:06 AM
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It’s doable, but extremely unlikely. For that OP needs to either become a super high value man or chose a super low value woman usually. It’s definitely not as normal as those older people tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:46 AM
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What a well written text! Men’s wall is actually women’s wall Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:45 AM
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This, sadly. And the risk for a divorce / separation is bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:43 AM
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Just asking because your answer is different than the majority of answers. You don’t have to reply to me though.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 11:58 PM
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What does this have to do with your kids then? If they themselves decide to call the new partner “step dad”, what would you do to stop that behaviour?
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 11:11 PM
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So you’d threaten to knock out your ex wife’s new partner if your kids would start call him “step dad”?
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 10:50 PM
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Why don’t you regret it?
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 01:21 AM
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lol
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 01:20 AM
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What if they won’t listen?
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 12:59 AM
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poonani 🤣🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 05:16 PM
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You want attention from women to what end? Validation.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/23 02:06 PM
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What do you need help with? You said you still get lots of attention.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/23 02:04 PM
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Statistically second marriages are more likely to fail. What are you talking about?
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 05:39 PM
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To name another reason, a lot of times the men know the woman will leave if they don’t get married. Especially if they are more “traditional”.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 05:37 PM
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Women don't go on shooting sprees when they can't get laid lol Your comment: Well, women actually modify their bodies for getting the men they want or keeping, which is as crazy. No, it’s not just as crazy. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:47 PM
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Sure is. But men go to gyms and go to the hairdresser, so it seems to be important as well (for good reason). And it’s still not as crazy as shooting people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:03 PM
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Confirm what? I am asking you, since that’s what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:02 PM
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What happens when you go two years without a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:46 PM
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So do men. And no it’s not just as crazy lol You sound insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:43 PM
2

Yeah you’re right actually. Same with physical affection like cuddling, men can get it from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:19 PM
1

LOL I also thought that one was funny. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:17 PM
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OP answered that question pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:03 PM
1

What topic? I gave my answer to OPs question farther below
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:47 PM
1

Idk, you tell me, you wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:47 PM
1

Guess we are being shown different threads then? I think it is sad that redpillers live rent free in your head and you have to bring them up out of nowhere for no reason when the discussion doesn't even relate to them. Get a grip, you are in no position to judge. Sorry, didn’t mean to trigger you. I thought we were having a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:40 AM
1

Girlgamers has only one thread about a man (a girl asking what games she can play with her bf) and the women sub only has 2, the rest are health / work related. self improvement in the redpill context is something you do to improve your dating. Well that’s just sad. But even so, they rarely talk about it or their hobbies or anything that doesn’t involve a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:19 AM
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Not really, it’s also about self improvement. Not much to be seen about that topic though. So you have any other examples of female only subs that fit your description? Or only that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:32 AM
1

Because man hoes are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:10 AM
1

No genius. Women don’t have to do much of anything when dealing with men. You read that somewhere or did you actually experience this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:09 AM
2

He doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:08 AM
0

So just one sub? That’s it? In TheRedPill sub the men only talk about women. Does that mean men only every talk about women? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:04 AM
1

I’ve been in situations What does that even mean? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:03 AM
1

most female spaces Which female spaces are you talking about? Over at AskWomen most questions are about (mental) health, family, fun questions. And in real life it’s the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:57 AM
2

So you have been married and had kids already then. You are in a completely different situation than what vinland is talking about.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 10:56 AM
1

Because they were told by other women?
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 05:43 AM
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Fashion also wants them to be underweight… You know any men who are into runway models? None of them have any curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:42 AM
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Not really. It’s usually the other way around. You don’t know the meme? Woman is broken up with: She cries and cries and talks to her friends and after 1 year she feels good and can start dating again. Man is broken up with: Sleeps around, drinks, takes drugs and after 1 year it hits him that he didn’t do any emotions labour and it’s catching up with him, that’s why he has trouble moving on.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 08:33 PM
1

Women tell each other that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone. Women tell each other to start sleeping around. Women tell each other to enter their hoe phase. No they don’t. Where did you read this?
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 05:24 PM
1

It makes them look softer which is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:17 PM
1

If you would have read OPs post you would know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:06 PM
1

Women are also allowed to have more bf % than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:25 PM
1

They seem to think that loud, obnoxious aggression is a turn on? I don't know. It is to some. Plus some in shape men love heavy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:28 PM
1

I ask you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:09 PM
2

Now imagine you were also fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:07 PM
1

That was exactly the point of the OPs comment. If you’re ugly you can at least have your height. If you’re ugly and also short it’s really bad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:00 PM
1

Are you ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:57 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:56 PM
1

I think society. A year ago I read an article that made a revelation out of men wanting to feel desired. 🤣 I think people thought / still think that men only need sex and a sandwich and they’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:10 PM
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Yeah, that’s the one that hasn’t been figured out yet I guess. Maybe also because it was not seen as important as sexual needs. Or even important at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:19 AM
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Yeah sure, if you ask teens who their crush is, it’s definitely Kevin Costner. 🤣 till he can't get it up anymore You might be onto something here.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 07:57 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:04 AM
1

crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:48 PM
1

Isn’t that exactly what you have done?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:48 PM
1

The comment was removed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:47 PM
2

I just noted how it simply had basic conversational pleasantries programmed into it and I was like - WOW, when was the last time I've heard this from a woman? When was the last time you offered it to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:36 PM
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I don’t think we have neglected men’s needs. There’s plenty of outlet for those. Just that men are naturally more desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:21 PM
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Sad times we live in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:07 PM
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To impress other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:00 PM
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That’s embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:53 PM
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Not if the girls were ugly / easy. What’s the point? A man with no standards is supposed to be attractive somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:51 PM
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This. Most are insecure and use some loser alpha males as an orientation on how to be successful. You want to impress other men? Sure, you slept with 20 baddies. You think that will impress a woman though? You think it will make you attractive in her eyes? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:49 PM
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What if you’re ugly though?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:46 PM
1

Wdym? Dude is old as shit.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/23 07:44 AM
1

I'm not himogenizing all women but rather speaking from a DNA standpoint. What?
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 03:23 PM
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Why did you marry her at all?
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 08:25 AM
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To mask the pain.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 08:22 AM
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Bro is still hurt and it shows.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 07:09 AM
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What is your question? If it doesn’t affect you, it doesn’t affect you.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 03:32 PM
2

But the same goes for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:41 PM
2

Apparently everyone has their own definition if you look at the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:02 AM
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If it’s not about fertility, then I would disagree though. Because I know plenty of women who had their glow up in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:41 AM
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That’s for you to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:25 PM
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She will stay with you alright, but will rotate those 10 side guys until one of them becomes richer / has a more exciting life than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:22 PM
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Not really. They won’t stay. Curiosity will get the better of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:21 PM
2

There is. But she has 10 side guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:19 PM
2

Now women are told they need careers so they can be independent of men. Do you think that’s a bad thing? encouraging them to be as selfish as they want. It's never really done that for men. Yes they do. Two and a half men comes to mind, but there are plenty of other (way older) shows that depict family life as hard and kids and wife being ungrateful and how those men are longing for better days when they were single and free. 🤷 I haven’t watched the movies you mentioned, because I’m not big on m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:59 PM
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lol that’s fine! 🤣 I am past 25 and still would never consider someone 10+ years older than me. I can’t help what I’m attracted to. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:30 PM
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The honesty is admirable but that must’ve been difficult to hear. LOL I know it sounds cruel, but that’s just how me and my mother are. 🤣 We are relentlessly honest with each other. And I was glad she told me. After all it’s not like we can change it now. 😅 But yes, we have a couple in our bubble who were trying for years to have a baby (the woman even went to an African shaman) but it didn’t work. But once she saw what sacrifices her friends with families had to make for their kids and how some…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:26 PM
1

Well yeah. Do you have any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:21 PM
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It doesn’t matter either way, because women in their 20s prefer men in their 20s. I don’t get why this is always brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:09 PM
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lol It’s not about the gap, but the ages. Ever talked to a 21 year old for a longer amount of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:04 PM
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I have a relative like that. She was very devastated at first, but grew into it fast. And now everyone is jealous of her. 😅 But same goes for men sadly. We know a very cute middle aged guy who would have made the perfect father, but it just never worked for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:56 PM
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I think many people don’t realize how many mothers love their kids but regret having them, or the circumstances under which they did so. This is because it’s taboo to talk about. This. My mom and I have a very open communication and she told me herself if she could repeat her life, she wouldn’t have gotten us, even though she loves us. And she really wanted kids, even when she was little.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:51 PM
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It is great compared to their peers with kids who have nothing but stress, debt and no free time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:49 PM
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You’re living the dream! 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:43 PM
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modern society is trying to convince women that they don't Does it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:39 PM
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It’s not cope, you can read it regularly on the news. But people don’t know the reason for it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:37 PM
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And purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:23 PM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 12:25 PM
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This. Don’t know what the guy is talking about. Attention stops at 30? It never stops. My mother still gets hit on frequently (and she’s almost 60).
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 08:01 AM
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Yeah it is. Those statistics that people are quoting are showing it too. Hook up culture is bad for everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 07:10 AM
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Why “yes and no” if it’s both “yes”?
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 10:25 PM
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It’s true for men as well.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 10:22 PM
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2 weeks is absolutely excessive This! Plus it’s better to have a playmate for your cat if you have a very busy life.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 04:45 AM
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Not really. You have to work with what you have anyway, so nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:49 PM
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I don’t think it matters tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:55 AM
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Isn’t it already declining?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:53 AM
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in these places men are absolutely the gatekeepers of relationships. Not really. Or at least not enough to make it a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:52 AM
2

LOL Love your username!
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 08:56 PM
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🫂
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 08:55 PM
1

But you said you are casually dating too, so what’s the problem?
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/23 06:22 PM
2

Finally someone said it! 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:44 AM
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Just noticed how you have trouble addressing the points made lol. Have a nice day. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:05 AM
1

Is English not your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:08 PM
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Just read up on it. And while you’re at it, check out the erectile dysfunction subs too and see how many guys in their prime are suffering of it because of modern porn. I’m not wasting more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:55 PM
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Can you read? They said that it wasn’t as accessible back then as now. And people didn’t commit sex crimes or killed themselves over it. What you prefer or don’t prefer doesn’t matter. If your imagination is all you have left, you will use it. You can check out subs that are helping people with porn addiction and they suggest the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:38 PM
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From eavesdropping on my mom’s conversations I would almost agree with you. It’s shocking how many women cheat and then simply continue on with their lives like nothing ever happened and the husbands never find out.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 11:49 PM
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Midlife crisis
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 11:47 PM
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And you are satisfied with this?
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 11:02 PM
1

And do they know of each other?
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 08:43 PM
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Oh okay! Now I got you. 👍 And how is it going so far?
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 08:24 PM
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I think that was because some weirdos tried to justify having sex with underage girls / rape among other things. The bitterness that was prevalent on that sub was fine, counterproductive but fine.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 05:07 PM
1

So you use those “techniques” for companionship as well?
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 04:18 PM
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I was just wondering, wouldn’t it be better to build companionship with guys then?
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 03:28 PM
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How do you build companionship without a LTR?
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 10:27 AM
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she did not have an affair Yeah...
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 04:02 PM
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Definitely not in my experience. Know a lot of guys who sadly gave up their dreams because they pursued a career that would earn them more money simply because they knew their chances of finding a woman else would be really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:55 PM
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Some men, most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:25 AM
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Saw plenty of those guys get married to formerly promiscuous women... (Except for the conservative / god fearing part)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:01 PM
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Why do they want to become an engineer? Why do they need all those degrees? To earn lots of money to attract a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:00 PM
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Apparently you don’t mind your girlfriend sleeps / slept around...?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:59 PM
1

Thanks for the suggestion! But it’s too cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:57 PM
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Not enough money to be made that way. Have you seen the sugar daddies? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:57 PM
2

What is a quality man to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:14 PM
1

If she divorces him, she won’t need another successful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:55 PM
1

No, not how it would work. Some men need to simp to get anything in return. It’s just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:08 PM
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Yes. It is a success story, for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:07 PM
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Disagree. A lot of women (especially the young ones) need excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:06 PM
2

Most obviously wouldn’t tell them. Why would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:48 PM
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Litterallly everything you do in life is just because you think it will help you getting pussy I think that describes most men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:45 PM
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Most men, if they don’t simp, will never feel the touch of a woman though sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:39 PM
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Good luck! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:31 PM
1

Well yes, because man’s main value = money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:27 PM
0

The Red Pill in a nutshell...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:22 PM
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Well yes, exactly. So “good“ behaviour is pretty low on the list. Just take care of yourself and look good and be confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:17 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:16 PM
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I disagree. I know tons of examples like these in my personal bubble. Plus she openly flirted with a (in her eyes) hotter guy in front of her man... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:14 PM
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Wowza... Japan of all places.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:57 AM
2

Okay... Never heard about that happening to anyone. Are you sure it’s not just your bubble?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:08 AM
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I don't tell the current girls that my ex had a nicer body. Maybe you don’t, but others do... So all those women were telling you how their exes were better in bed or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:15 AM
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For me it’s not jealousy, but simply disgust. Manhoes aren’t worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:05 AM
2

I heard that one too, just never saw it happen in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:53 AM
2

Not really. You should see how tall men talk about shorter men...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:52 AM
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no matter how stunning you are, men won’t wife you. But they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:50 AM
2

That might be more bubble. I’ve definitely heard men being called whores and women virgins as insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:49 AM
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Men are worried the woman will compare them to past lovers and they will look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:00 PM
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Pretty sure those are young, edgy teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:59 PM
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She said it doesn’t matter to the men...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:57 PM
1

Same for me, just from a female perspective. It also makes the man “less special”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:53 PM
1

LOL good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:51 PM
3

So you disagree with your own statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:50 PM
2

That depends on the woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:49 PM
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I do. Fuckboiis repulse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:48 PM
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Serious question: Those women you’re talking about, would you want to date them? Do you consider them high value? Because of not, I really don’t see how it’s important what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:48 PM
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"show me a hott chick and I'll show you a dude who's tired of banging her". That goes for women as well, just genders reversed. What comes after the novelty has worn off though, that’s a different story.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 01:19 AM
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I guess the separation is pretty fresh?
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 08:47 AM
3

This.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 08:44 AM
1

What is ENFJ?
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 06:38 AM
1

Are you saying women in India have higher body count than women in California? Or did I misunderstand you? But what I meant by “lying” was their lifestyle and everything about themselves. They weren’t rich like they portray themselves and the women that they show off with are paid.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:34 PM
1

Sorry, not anymore. Their sub was closed unfortunately. :/
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:04 PM
1

I might never get married Good, you shouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:24 AM
1

Just don’t get married if you don’t agree. Why do you want to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:10 PM
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What is cited as the reason. I think either I misunderstood OP or he misunderstood me.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:49 PM
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What is cited as the reason?
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 06:02 PM
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Ofc it’s not. But you did the same. And there are actual statistics about loneliness and how people today have fewer and fewer friends (some even have none).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 12:29 AM
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Yeah better enjoy this moment. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 12:02 AM
1

They all should. It’s cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:46 PM
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I’m not expecting anything. Just telling you what it’s like these days sadly. I can also see it in my bubble. So OP does have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:46 PM
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They both kind of did, sadly. :/ But it is what it is, the most important thing is health. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:38 PM
1

Good for you. 💪 Hope you’ll find someone good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:36 PM
1

Same! Hate beards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:34 PM
1

No I think that’s because men are too insecure and think they don’t have a chance anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:33 PM
1

Never happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:25 PM
1

Exactly. And that was the point of OPs post I guess. Because the number of people without friends is on the rise too. Just check r/AskMenOver30. It’s pretty bad over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:24 PM
1

How is that weird? Some men are hot and you want to have sex with them, but once they open their mouths you want to run for the hills. It’s not that weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:19 PM
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I have a friend who will be a fully fledged cardiothoracic surgeon in a few years. She will be making bank, and she's a pretty nice person. Yet, she's almost 30 with no quality men lining up to date her. Why? Because she is like a 3/10. I know guys like that. Unfortunately looks are pretty much everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:15 PM
1

How is that weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:11 PM
1

Send them my way, if you don’t want them.💪
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:07 PM
1

What about people who have no social circle / friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:04 PM
1

Why not go to prostitutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:00 PM
2

Just get a fleshlight then? If this was true, this sub wouldn’t exist. 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:56 PM
2

Many women have an unrealistic sense of what a guy can achieve. I don’t disagree with you, unfortunately this is true as well. Hope you’ll find someone who’s worth your time and appreciates you for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:54 PM
1

This SHOULD mean no fault means the woman gets nothing so we get to 0% transfer wealth Yeah, lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:51 PM
2

Because of the promise they made obviously. Tons of old people in elderly care because they’re alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 10:34 PM
2

Yes you are. You’ll be reported and blocked soon I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:38 PM
1

Your school must have been pretty special then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:37 PM
1

She’s probably sick of the kids and wanted to relax for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:35 PM
1

Just check r/Divorce_Men if you want to know the answer... But careful, you have been warned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:28 PM
1

You forgot that 15-20% of those woman accounts are bots...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:27 PM
1

“Most women” 🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:26 PM
1

You assume a lot...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:25 PM
1

How did you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:24 PM
1

autistic selfies LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:16 PM
2

But you’re spamming the thread...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:13 PM
1

Alright. 💪 But this has definitely not been my experience. Yes it happens, but it isn’t the norm. Plenty of girls / boys stay virgins until 17-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:12 PM
1

It definitely doesn’t suck as much as me on Chad‘s nipples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:01 PM
1

Love your username! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:59 PM
2

I like this! 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:58 PM
1

Finally! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:58 PM
1

Guess all my partners were submissive then. And so is my dad. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:56 PM
1

To be fair, there’s no logic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:54 PM
1

Highly unlikely! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:53 PM
1

That’s really sad... I wish you and her all the best. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:51 PM
2

Bro, why are you writing the same shit all the time? This is the fifth comment of yours I see with the virgin obsession. Just go to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:48 PM
2

Same for me as a woman sadly...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:47 PM
1

Oh okay. For me at least, men with high n counts just scream “STD!”, so that’s where the ick comes from. Plus of course nobody wants to find out their partner has kids somewhere after a while into the relationship. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:01 PM
1

Do you even know what those words mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:57 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:55 PM
1

You’d be surprised. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:50 PM
1

Bro no offense, but this is definitely not “normal”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:50 PM
1

You should head to r/LookingForAVirginForMyBrother, they’re pretty helpful bunch usually and know exactly where to find virgins for brothers! Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:43 PM
1

Just like men get the ick from high n women, and there's really no logic behind it, How is there no logic behind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:36 PM
1

What a comeback... 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:31 PM
1

You can desire whatever you want, doesn’t mean that desire will be reciprocated though... 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:22 PM
1

Yeah, guess you’re right. I’m from a European country with a high obesity rate so I definitely see big changes in men’s bodies. 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:25 PM
1

So, it’s not just the confidence then... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:39 PM
1

Dodged a bullet! Hope you’re better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:36 PM
1

that he’ll replace if he can find a younger pretty nurse who will take him. Don’t worry, he won’t. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:05 PM
2

Nah, I disagree. Plenty of hot MILFs out there. And not just in the celebrity world. 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:44 PM
1

Are we talking about attractiveness? Then they’re right I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:32 PM
1

Oh there are some. Just never heard them say what OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:30 PM
1

I don’t get it either. Sometimes I think there are kids posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:16 PM
1

His confidence changed. He went from not contributing to anything outside of himself to contributing to things outside of himself. So it’s his contributions then. It you’re a broke fat loser with lots of confidence (which unfortunately exist), you won’t have a chance. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:14 PM
1

Can’t you get rid of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:43 PM
1

Money / resources / hard work For certain men: looks / body For very few men: personality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:39 PM
1

many men see no significant changes in their bodies That’s weird, because I definitely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:22 PM
2

The only right answer. Nobody likes saggy balls and leathery skin. If you need to spend money for people to spend time with you, I wouldn’t consider that “being in your prime”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:21 PM
0

Good for you! But unfortunately you’re the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:12 PM
1

You don’t. It’s the same thing. Men here are more or less taught to become Beta Bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:00 PM
2

Especially since babies need two fit parents. Why would a woman chose someone whose body is declining? Some people here live in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:58 PM
1

The different is, men don't depend on their looks and sexuality the way women do. If you follow this sub, you notice that they do. “Looks don’t matter” is a lie unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:54 PM
0

Do you have a source for that? Never heard a popular feminist saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:53 PM
1

It really doesn’t though. Plenty of dudes unfortunately take it literally and are surprised when they’ve aged, bald with a beer gut and no money / career to compensate for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:51 PM
1

Same with men tbh... Some white men look like 40 when they’re in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:41 PM
3

But why are you talking about “surpassing” at all? Why making it a competition? That’s really weird in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:26 PM
1

You’re really tough, bro. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:24 PM
3

If those kids are even his...
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 10:28 AM
2

Is that phase called “going insane”?
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 12:33 PM
0

WTF are you talking about? These are some weird “theories”.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 01:54 AM
4

I think he’s talking about “presents”. They are one of the love languages.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 05:29 AM
2

Are you being dense on purpose?
/r/seduction14/04/23 11:05 PM
6

Pretty sure that depends on the man / woman though...
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 09:21 PM
1

What does this have to do with being conservative?
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 08:47 PM
1

So you’re asking how to become famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:54 PM
1

Money Same with the women in their lives, they already admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:53 PM
1

Definitely lol I wouldn’t want to be in his shoes! 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 10:27 PM
1

Pretty sure his family is doing fine. And at this age he would rather have companionship, so he chooses marriage as a form of commitment.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 10:01 PM
1

Because he’s a billionaire and almost 100 years old maybe? Idk, but if I was his age, knowing that I’ll die soon I wouldn’t care.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 09:55 PM
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That’s what I think too. He’s extremely old. If he didn’t have his money, nobody would want him. But he’s likely paying for companionship now (which is harder to get than sex). That’s why he had to get married. Or he just tries to stay relevant somehow.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 08:46 PM
1

I doubt he’s bluepilled. Where did you get that from?
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 08:44 PM
10

He’s old and ugly. If he didn’t pay, nobody would want him.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 04:48 PM
1

Dude, are you being serious? I heard those were the worst to pick from because infidelity is no biggie in those countries.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 06:27 PM
0

The only right answer. 💪
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 04:44 PM
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not even talking about marriage, but atleast about long term living together in some kind of piece Why would you want to live with a woman again?
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 01:23 PM
1

Oh definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:58 PM
1

Look, I don’t care. Just don’t get married and you’ll be fine. Happy new year! ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:08 PM
2

✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:49 PM
1

I don’t get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:31 AM
1

Sure thing, but you’d still be married then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:15 PM
1

If you’re in a relationship, you can leave anytime. If you’re married, you need to get divorced first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:00 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:25 PM
1

Not really. You’d still be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:15 PM
1

Because else it’d be just a relationship. Boyfriend? Today yes, tomorrow no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:13 PM
1

Because marriage = commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:37 PM
1

Because you’re committing to your partner by marrying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:13 PM
1

Good for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:07 PM
1

It shows commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:40 PM
2

And why don’t you want to stay with the kid permanently? Sorry, that plan is really weird to me. So you’ll be with the kid for the first seven years, then will visit them twice a year until you’re so old you’ll need to be taken care of? Then you’ll move in permanently?
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 05:28 PM
1

Ill play Dad closely for 7 years then visit 2 times a year. I meant this part. What do you need the child for then?
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 03:47 PM
1

Why?
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 11:35 AM
1

No, it’s not weird if you’re 25. that’s completely fine and better than some dude who’s been everywhere for sure. That assumption that someone who hasn’t been chosen yet must be broken is the definition of preselection. Yep, for 40 year old of both genders for sure. I would be wondering what was going on. You aren’t representative of every woman; don’t take this broad commentaries on society as personal attacks. I believe you when you say this. But ask women if they’d rather date a guy with some…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:43 PM
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Don’t know. Have a nice day. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:09 PM
1

Because 40-yo virgin types are weird, same with 40-yo virgin women. That’s simply another extreme. or women who showed no interest suddenly perking their ears when they hear he’s got a GF. What? When tf does that happen? When I hear that, I leave the person alone. Granted, I would feel more comfortable around men with partners because I wouldn’t have to worry them hitting on me / them thinking I’m hitting on them. Hell, even when hitting on a guy, girls will literally say shit like “You must get…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:39 AM
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No thanks, I can read something and understand it the first time. Doesn’t matter though! MEN BEWARE!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:51 PM
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No, I don’t think so. Maybe rare in your bubble, definitely not in mine though. Those two examples in the end don’t contradict what I said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:22 PM
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Nope, you said men were blamed (when they clearly weren’t at all). Anyway, hope you’ll find your wonderful person and never let them go. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:16 PM
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Yeah, because you made it out to be some groundbreaking new revelation! 🤣 Plus your reading comprehension is shit. But thanks, it was fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:43 PM
1

🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:32 AM
1

I’m talking about your original wall of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:32 AM
1

Women might think a promiscuous man is sleazy, but they are also attracted to the social proof that comes with preselection (see: Pete Davidson). That’s a RedPill talking point. And I disagreed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:25 AM
1

Wow. Killer revelation. 👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:54 PM
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Do they warn against that? I don’t think so. They have a guide to marriage after all. But good for you, if it works out. Don’t lob random accusations. You don’t know what you’re talking about. Right back at you! 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:41 PM
1

Promiscuous women? Sure thing! Those are the ones they’re dating (in my bubble at least). According to the red pill the main value is money. Or am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:33 PM
1

✌️🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:45 PM
1

Me and all the others apparently. Have a wonderful day. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:44 PM
1

Yep, everyone knows that. Thanks. Have a wonderful day. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:38 PM
1

Yeah definitely, I agree with you. ✌️ But this isn’t news to anyone, everybody knows that. Have a wonderful day. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:37 PM
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No, talking about the rest of the bs you wrote. 🤣 But good think you forgot about it, maybe better this way. ✌️ Have a wonderful day! 🌞
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:35 PM
2

Huh? They do? I actually never saw that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:34 PM
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They are having sex with ugly women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:29 PM
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No, just pointing out that you’re delusional and aren’t helping anyone with your bs advice. Have a wonderful day! ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:28 PM
1

Cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:41 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:39 PM
1

It’s a troll. Ignore him. 🤡✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:39 PM
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The only person having comprehension issues in this thread is you. Nah, it’s you, clearly. 🤡 10/10 troll! 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:01 PM
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NOBODY IS BLAMING MEN! 😭🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:59 PM
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The reflexive response by women is to always blame men even when the woman said, herself, that he was wonderful. Where did anyone here blame the man? Dude, can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:58 PM
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Disagree with the stuff he wrote, the stuff I cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:48 PM
1

She said Then I met someone and had a three year relationship with, and I ended that. He was a wonderful human but I didn't see a future with him. What exactly did you expose here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:47 PM
1

Nah, that’s really sweet. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:43 PM
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Ironically, most of them do want to have fun themselves, they just don’t want women to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:36 PM
4

What truth are you pointing out though? Sometimes the chemistry dies. Doesn’t make much sense to continue a relationship then, unless there are kids involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:07 PM
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She’s lucky she has you. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:00 PM
1

And would you describe yourself “mentally healthy/stable”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:14 PM
1

Wow, good for her (and you)! I knew a bipolar girl and it was hell. But she also had a “tough” upbringing (drugs & prostitution, rape in the family).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:07 PM
2

What about the one you’re dating now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:47 PM
2

Well... yeah. Else that dude would have become a BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:42 PM
-1

Tomassi said so! ☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:40 PM
1

But those are the best guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:58 PM
4

“Women might think a promiscuous man is sleazy, but they are also attracted to the social proof that comes with preselection (see: Pete Davidson).” I disagree. As a woman with a low n-count promiscuous men seem too risky and at least to me disgusting. He would be valuable if he was popular but didn’t act on it. Now that’s a high value male. Logically speaking a man like that would have to be super rich for it to make sense to commit to him. Because else you’d have to share his resources (a man’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:53 PM
2

Where was she from?
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 12:06 PM
1

Definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:17 AM
1

Weird how nobody here seems to agree with you. You sound like a 14 yo who watched too many YouTube videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:14 AM
1

Nah, you need to be hot and in shape. And even then. You’d have to pay now and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:51 AM
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Pretty much, yes! And since you can only do so much with your looks and most people simply won’t get rich, it’s doom and gloom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:50 AM
1

Those hot sportsmen and actors wouldn’t need their money though. The money is just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:20 PM
1

If you’re super hot, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:18 PM
1

Thanks for your answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:30 PM
1

7s and 8s are still above average. And I chose that country, because Swedes are frequently chosen as the most beautiful people on earth. I myself prefer dark hair anyway. What country would you have chosen?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:09 PM
1

Nah whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:38 AM
1

Yeah no, I totally see your point. But what do you want feminists to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:49 PM
1

Sorry man, I completely misunderstood you. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:48 PM
1

No, but how to raise a boy. Usually a mom‘s main concern is not to raise her son to become the hottest stud out there. So how is that weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:16 PM
1

Idk. What was your point? That those men were attractive at first to their wives or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:14 PM
1

Pity fucking? Go see a prostitute then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:20 PM
1

A break from dating and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:17 PM
1

Are you going to answer the question? Because I don’t get it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:51 PM
1

... if you try to complain about it, you will be gaslit to Tartarus by feminists, because complaint of such nature will be seen as misogynistic. What do you want to complain about? Or is it all in your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:49 PM
1

Is that weird though? Would you want to mold your daughter into a sex puppet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:39 PM
1

If you want to be an asshole thug, you can do it though? What’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:32 PM
1

It’s true I don’t, but he always said how he was feeling very validated and appreciated so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:11 PM
0

They’re here on this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:10 PM
0

... and I'm kind of glad it never happened because I'm positive I would have been a pretty shitty boyfriend. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:15 PM
1

That this is just life really. You guys are dreaming about banging 10 models a day and it’s women‘s fault they don’t want you because you don’t look like a model?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:09 PM
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Then you’ve simply chosen women who didn’t appreciate you enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:56 PM
1

Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:24 PM
1

Now imagine being an ugly asshole. 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:21 PM
1

So you need to either work on yourself to “glow up” or kiss that dream goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:14 PM
1

But then she’s right. Those women aren‘t fucking their poor partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:12 PM
2

Doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:09 PM
1

Because without feminism women would have to date such men and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:05 PM
1

😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:03 PM
2

For that to happen you need to be super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:54 PM
1

The main problem in my opinion is "respecting women", if it is not taught in the style of respecting all people, humanity in people (God's creation, if you are religious), but "respecting women" in the sense of placing every women and femininity on a pedestal as somehow purer, more perfect than men and masculinity. Especially if that mother combines it with a dislike or disdain for men and masculinity. But who does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:04 PM
1

Check out Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:50 PM
0

Classiest RedPiller!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:46 PM
2

Are you maybe speaking of “fear”? You only “respect” people you “fear”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:43 PM
1

It would for me, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:03 PM
1

Pretty much the same here in Germany. Maybe it’s an American thing where it’s stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:39 PM
0

It would be even more fucked up if those women would reject OP as well. He should take a break and work on his self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:28 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:24 PM
3

Exactly. OP it sounds like you need a break. If you decide you feel happier being single, just stay single. At least in today’s world it’s not as weird as it was to be a forever single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:23 PM
4

Support, validation, (hopefully) sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:11 PM
2

Well yeah. Hot in shape sportsmen and actors don’t even need the money to attract anyone. That dude is delusional and contradicts himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:32 PM
2

So you also need to be hot and in shape. 🥸 What are you on about? You’re contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:21 PM
1

And I never said you had to pay. You did. You’ll be able to get a chick online talk with her and then if you got money fly to her or fly her out. Literally it’s so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:11 PM
1

You’re the only sane one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:09 PM
1

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:18 PM
0

Yes you do, King! 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:16 PM
2

Yes I know, but you seem to not like her answer and only reacted that way out of spite. 🤡 Nowhere does it say that women aren’t allowed to answer.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 07:57 PM
0

No one asked you either. 🥸
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 05:04 PM
1

I think it’s a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:42 PM
1

Nope, I just checked his post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:38 PM
1

🤣 I still agree with him though. I’ve seen lots of guys here who dream of a big career and forget about working on their social skills. Who think it’ll all get better with age and money, but it’s simply not true. It’s a good thing to remind those kinds of guys sometimes that they should go out and live a little, doesn’t matter whether they’ll find a girl at the bar or not. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:40 AM
1

He said women appeared after he joined the gym. :D You get plenty of opportunities going out with your friends and have fun, instead of sitting at home moping, like a lot here seem to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:24 AM
1

Where? I only found a post where he says he’s tall but else pretty ordinary. And not a single word about women flocking to him. Either way though, I agree with his statement. If you’re young you shouldn’t just work on yourself and wait til you’re 30 (or whatever) to start dating. It won’t get easier for most people. You should go out and try your luck and be social.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:06 AM
2

Exactly! For some people even a haircut is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:57 AM
5

Are you 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:58 PM
5

Just buy a doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:19 PM
2

I would agree. Modern life makes it easy to be single to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:03 PM
1

Unless of course you’re a billionaire movie star. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:22 PM
1

That’s good news. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:04 PM
0

You might be in the minority then. Because most men definitely care (as they should), since most just can’t support a woman and themselves (plus possibly children) with their income alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:01 PM
2

men can get validation and emotional support from friends They could, but they usually don’t. And that’s the main problem. If men had friendships and social circles like women however, then is agree with you. They wouldn’t need women at all. But it’s simply not the case (yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:34 PM
1

No, I meant the guys. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:33 PM
1

Woah, what’s up with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:58 AM
0

I don’t see this as bragging. He’s probably trying to warn the guys who think they can ignore dating now and later will be drowning in pussy because that’s not how it works. Nothing wrong with going out and be social while young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:57 AM
1

Yeah, and I said it probably wouldn’t, because men also want validation and emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:31 AM
2

Pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:29 AM
1

I hope so!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:24 AM
0

Do they not care or do they expect it? Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:00 AM
1

No, it’s not just men’s need for sex. It’s their need for validation and emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:59 AM
3

Prostitution. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:57 AM
1

What do you mean? What explanation do you need? Some people are desperate, you explained it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:56 AM
0

Do you see this in your bubble as well? Because basing your world views on social media is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:48 AM
3

I don’t think they need luck, they’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:39 AM
1

But I guess they don’t care, so it should be fine, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:38 AM
2

That’s really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:32 AM
0

Soup!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:31 AM
2

“Love” and “Commitment” 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:28 AM
1

Guuuuurl! You’re looking great! 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:10 PM
1

Or the milkman if they’re housewives...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:36 PM
1

Physically, he’s not super bulky or intimidating, but character wise he is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:19 PM
1

He looks pretty good for middle age! I’d describe him as athlete with a little pouch in the stomach area.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:11 PM
1

Not all of course. But the ones that flock to DiCaprio are mainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:19 PM
1

Nah, it’s about the money. You genuinely think models would flock to him if he was poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:20 AM
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That’s why it was surprising to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:20 AM
1

Yep, but most would consider 20-25 very young too, especially if their partner is way older. Like I said, it’s not a male/female thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:47 AM
1

It is large when the younger person is 21, yes. And you set your range to 21-29, so yes, I’d find that weird ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:46 AM
1

Because you talked about them breaking up? 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:20 AM
1

Leonardo DiCaprio, one of the richest men on earth. Yup, good example!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:19 AM
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Wow! Thanks for actually comi through. And it was just one woman who disagreed with you there. So why make a generalization out of it? Besides I agree, 21 and 31 is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:07 AM
1

Because it is? Wouldn’t you call that age young now that you’re a decade older?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:04 AM
2

RPs see women as children no matter their age. 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:58 PM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:58 PM
1

Well yeah, I would think the same way if someone in my family would date someone significantly older at a young age. I would think the same if it was a male family member. But since you’re dating for a long time, you should know how to deal with it by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:57 PM
2

Don’t be bitter! 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:55 PM
1

Could you share a link? Because I don’t believe anyone shaming you for a 5 year gap, especially since your gf is mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:54 PM
1

I know a Muslim couple like that. She betrays him when he’s at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:25 PM
1

I doubt it. Nobody gives a shit now that you’re almost 40. You’re a full adult now, so do whatever you want. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:24 PM
0

Thank you. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:23 PM
2

If you want to see real bitterness, check out r/Divorce_Men 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:22 PM
1

So young women prefer young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:21 PM
2

Living rent free in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:19 PM
1

Because people age?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:18 PM
1

Statistics support this though, so I think in that case it’s fine to make general statements like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:18 PM
2

I haven’t seen that. Just with teenagers and young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:46 PM
1

Because her boyfriend apparently is awesome. Why does it bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:45 PM
1

Are you being shamed now?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:43 PM
2

“Old men“ are only hot when they’re Chris Hemsworth. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:27 PM
3

Just like younger men...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:26 PM
2

Now let’s make it fair: An older junkie or A younger junkie?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:25 PM
4

Then why are you talking about money? 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:23 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:07 PM
2

And younger women find younger men attractive, based on the poll. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:05 PM
2

He’s a troll! 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:03 PM
4

She will catch up on it when her husband starts to look like shit and she sees her hot peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:02 PM
8

These are really lovely reasons. I’m sure he will treat the daughter well when she gets older.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:00 PM
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In the FreshAndFit sub (that’s banned now) 99% of the dudes said they wouldn’t want their daughter to date an much older guy. They said about 5 years older max. So that says a lot. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:37 PM
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I am just bothered by it, because I don’t want to be hit on by old gross dudes. I’m a young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:35 PM
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Don’t they have too many men already?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:40 PM
1

🙏❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:34 PM
1

Sure! Here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/z6wdhf/comment/iy937l5/ And here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/z6wdhf/comment/iy44er3/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:27 PM
1

He said himself he’s an incel in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:48 PM
2

You should post this on every new thread on this sub. You basically summed it all up. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:06 PM
1

Nah you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:06 PM
1

No. I’m talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:49 PM
1

Oh boy... Better become Chad then!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:47 PM
1

Because he has nothing else to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:21 PM
3

If they don’t care, they don’t care. That is correct!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:41 AM
1

Oh but it is. Else you guys wouldn’t need a cure for “oneitis”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:38 PM
2

As opposed to the women men want to keep but can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:00 PM
1

And you’ve been observing relationship dynamics for how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:58 PM
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If women would want to “keep” their men, they wouldn’t initiate the majority of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:44 PM
3

Oh boy, an incel that actually leaves his home. these days How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:42 PM
2

Don’t worry, plenty of men still want them. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:41 PM
3

Is that what you actually see happening or is that just something you hope for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:17 PM
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Ofc not! It’s just women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:28 PM
4

Is that so? 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:27 PM
0

Why get to know the person and how beautiful her character is when I can just swipe left? Because you’re a dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:26 PM
5

*and has sex with Chads on the side
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:15 PM
1

Your wife (or your partner) ideally lives with you and is there with you at all times. Your friends (with time) will have their own families and responsibilities. If you have a good family, sure they will help you. But that is not the case for everybody. What you’re describing isn’t the reality at all. Most people simply don’t die surrounded by their . (WTF?) They are either alone or in most cases with their partner / children. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:39 AM
1

Is this actually your reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:36 AM
1

Anyone with a brain can see humans fold under temptation everyday. Where do you see that happen everyday? What culture are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:45 AM
1

That doesn’t sound very alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:20 AM
1

Well, hopefully. But realistically this is not what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:17 AM
1

There actually was a post by a guy yesterday, who couldn’t pairbond anymore and didn’t know what to do. Was quite interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:20 AM
2

Or she doesn’t care about you as much as you think she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:17 AM
2

I really hope he’s just 17...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:16 AM
2

I think you won this thread! 🎖
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:14 AM
1

Plenty of points were made, but you chose to ignore them. 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:13 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:12 AM
1

At the same time he said that nobody wants kids anyway, so I think OP doesn’t really know himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:11 AM
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Is it... invisible? :x
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:10 AM
1

Then just get more friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:08 AM
2

Let the boy dream! :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:59 AM
1

And those chicks you’re talking about? They were violently taken by force. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:58 AM
1

In another post he said “like sisters”. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:49 AM
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Don’t forget the extra in-laws. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:48 AM
1

😬😬😬
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:38 AM
1

Hmm? Edit: I wasn’t talking to you, was talking to the dude I replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:06 AM
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OP seems to be a very young dude. Some young men genuinely think that this lifestyle is fun and they will practice it forever. That is, if they can pull it off in the first place of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:57 PM
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Are you from a religious background? Because to me, as a woman, this deal sounds pretty bad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:45 PM
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Not even that. Money is enough really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:43 PM
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It’s perfect for women who don’t want commitment either. I’m one of them for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:41 PM
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Girl, you’re a savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:40 PM
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Yeah, but she doesn’t want to leave it either, since she benefits greatly from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:38 PM
2

I’m not splitting rent with a fuckboy. 🤣 Whut?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:28 PM
2

He said he doesn’t care about children or marriage. He’s talking about monogamous relationships in general and how they don’t have any benefits (for men).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:23 PM
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Yeah.. that’s not how it works though. If you have your 2 favourite aunts and your mom, what about the rest of the family? What if your mom gets into a fight with one of the aunts? Who does the man trust (the most)? Or does he simply share all his problems and secrets with everybody? It’s all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:16 PM
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No problem. 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:13 PM
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Honestly, not really. I don’t know about my uncle because I don’t talk much to him, but apparently he is living OPs dream. And my aunt is doing very well. She has everything she wanted and more freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:11 PM
1

Yeah, what is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:09 PM
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I think you guys forget about one very important aspect though: What of fights happen in those families? And what about trust? These new patchwork families very often don’t work out, for very obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:08 PM
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Nah, he will ignore you now. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:54 PM
2

No, he’s talking about “monogamy in any form”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:53 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:49 PM
2

Well yeah, but they’ve been married for quite some time, he was an alcoholic and just looks bad now and she’s annoyed with him. She’s concentrating on other things in her life now, but they can’t get a divorce because they build a lot together and it would be too complicated to split. Now she doesn’t get jealous anymore, she simply doesn’t care. But back then, when she was into him, ofc she was! She’s was the most jealous person I’ve known. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:48 PM
2

Then why are they still doing it? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:45 PM
1

Yeah no, my aunt only cares about the money (now). 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:33 PM
1

Oh definitely, anything is possible! But it’s very improbable. You can check the sub r/AskMenOver30. Basically every week there is a post about “How can I build a strong circle of friends?” Very often those guys either moved to another city for a job or all their friends have gotten married. Might also be a cultural thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:23 PM
1

Important point you made there. 💪🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:13 PM
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Women and men both compromise to reap the rewards of monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:11 PM
1

Just imagine having to deal with multiple mothers- & fathers-in-law though... <.<
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:10 PM
1

My aunt is like that (I’m not from a religious country, I’m from a European country). She doesn’t want to sleep with my uncle anymore so she doesn’t care what he does, as long as he still does his part of the deal. She seems very happy actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:08 PM
0

So what is the purpose of this kind of life then? Have sex with as many gorgeous women as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:04 PM
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Dudes who think like that are mostly super young.. They think they can live the fuckboy life forever. OP basically reduced himself to a walking dildo in his scenario and thinks it’s somehow a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:02 PM
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I’m guessing you’re very young? Because except for your family and super close friends (who’ve known you for decades) nobody gives a shit about you. Don’t have to get old for this either, just get sick in middle age and then see who will take care of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:00 PM
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I’m under the impression OP doesn’t care about a real connection. So I don’t see how this was worthy of posting. Do as you please I guess? If lots of women find you attractive, go for it. 💪🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:57 PM
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Yeah exactly. It’s not like anyone is gonna stop this. Now whether multiple women want to have OPs children or not is a different question! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:54 PM
1

My mom pretty much did this. I don’t see it as a positive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:53 PM
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Another one would be: Trust and intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:40 PM
1

But if you happen to be on the receiving end, good luck! 🍀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:14 PM
1

Yeah, you don’t have to explain to me what purpose muscles and aggressiveness have. But if you happen to be on the receiving end, good luck! 🍀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:02 PM
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Sure thing, they’re pretty stupid now though. Unless you like feeling like shit and being humiliated by men who are physically superior to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:50 PM
1

If you have a male friend circle like that, that’s great! You should hold on to them. 💪🏻 But that’s not the case for a lot of people unfortunately (especially men). Whether the term “toxic masculinity” is correct or not, I don’t know. But that there are toxic traits in masculinity is undeniable. I see it everyday at work (I work in a male only field). And in my experience the ones who suffer the most from those toxic traits are men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:12 PM
2

Yeah, nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:32 PM
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Guess so, I’m just speaking from my own experience here. I had people call me because they were suicidal. (They’re thankfully still alive) Plus we don’t know yet whether it helps or not because it’s still all pretty new.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:31 PM
6

That’s just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:28 PM
4

Yeah, good. 👍🏻 You do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:27 PM
3

So you think it’s better to never open up and just man up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:27 PM
1

3 mothers-in-law though... :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:38 PM
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The high suicide rates say otherwise. I definitely wouldn’t recommend opening up to just anybody, you should be careful. But it is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:19 PM
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You need more masculine people to defend you against... masculine people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:11 PM
3

Then just be a super masculine man. Nobody’s stopping you!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:10 PM
4

It shouldn’t be!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:58 PM
1

Ikr? ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:58 PM
3

Honestly, it sounds like it’s problem in your culture. I’m living in a European country and sure, some men are complaining about the changes as well, but most that I know are taking care of their kids as well and are happy about it. I guess it just needs to take time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:48 AM
1

Yeah , that sounds like a complete shitshow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:46 AM
1

But then those women have “emotional affairs”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:42 AM
1

But apparently before that happened it was a shitshow as well wasn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:37 AM
3

But why are they weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:16 AM
1

or gamer gate a rebellion against the women pretending/lying to like video games just to get close to men. Wow, I haven’t heard about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:06 AM
2

Then why have men “softened”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:03 AM
2

What did your friend say when you pointed that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:01 AM
1

Call him that like an uncle or what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:18 AM
2

Both gross imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:16 AM
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There was a post yesterday by a guy who said how happy he is he married and had a family young because now he has to watch his friends struggle with dating apps and all that bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:39 PM
4

That’s bad. Well the text is still there, so you can do that now! 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:35 PM
2

Yeah I agree (at least from what I’ve seen here on Reddit until the sub was banned), but I do know some MGTOWs in real life and they’re pretty chill dudes. Granted, they are a bit older. MGTOW could have been a really cool sub and I wish it still was a thing (because I’m the female version of that and would have loved some advice and general stories), but they blew it by not banning those weirdos who were plain misogynists with violent fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:06 PM
5

Have we read the same text?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:52 PM
1

Because women are Queens, dummy. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:27 PM
1

Maybe, but it’s on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:03 PM
2

If I would write “Men are stupid.”, I would definitely get heat for that. I would have to write “Most men are stupid.” or “Some men are stupid.” You don’t see a difference at all? But you do you! 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:42 PM
1

Yeah, now you explained it and I got you! No, that’s not how language works unfortunately. If I would say “Men need to stop being stupid”, all men would feel addressed and rightfully so. I’m not trying to be difficult here, just saying that your original statement is a generalization and since I’ve never heard anything like that being said by women I asked you for clarification. That’s it really. Have a nice day / Happy thanksgiving! 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:32 PM
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Nope. You said: “I think women need to let go of this silly idea that the majority of men hate them.” Not most women, not those women, just women, which is a generalization. That’s why I asked you, because I never heard of this before. Never said it’s not a thing, just that I never witnessed such sentiments here or in real life. 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:21 PM
1

No actually. And your statement was a generalization, that’s why I asked. Never heard of this before and definitely don’t know anyone who thinks that way. Haven’t met a woman here who says “All men hate women!” either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:56 PM
1

Never heard of that one before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:46 PM
1

I think women need to let go of this silly idea that the majority of men hate them. Women think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:00 PM
1

Not necessarily. MGTOW is a thing after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:56 PM
2

But you made it sound like a general thing. Which is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:49 PM
1

Cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:31 PM
1

🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:22 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:26 PM
7

Yeah, this question is all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:16 PM
1

WTF is this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:15 PM
1

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:32 PM
2

💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:23 PM
1

But is that more of a woman problem? Men don’t think about “what does she being to the table?” That was my whole point really. We all do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:04 AM
1

Yeah, pls reread what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:38 AM
2

Well yeah. Because modern life has made living and being alone pretty neat. Tons of men (even on this sub) feel the same way, because relationships are a lot of work. If there is no benefit at all, why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:25 AM
2

And those women don’t do anything? They see themselves as the prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:07 AM
1

I did say “society and family” didn’t I? Or do you live completely alone in the woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:46 PM
2

It’s positive here as well. But I’m talking about the women. They aren’t cute and demure like a lot like to believe apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:45 PM
2

Good job, man!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:24 PM
0

Yeah, because apparently that’s what you want? I don’t get it. That’s what I would do. Blue and brown!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:24 PM
2

Nobody could ever replace a red pilled sealion! So I wouldn’t worry so much if I were you. 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:13 PM
1

😍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:59 PM
3

Oh I easily believe that it happened. (Source: Lived and worked with Slavic women, best friend is from Russia)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:26 PM
0

Men ☕️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:21 PM
2

You’re cute! ♥
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:33 PM
1

Just scream into your pillow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:19 PM
3

This, my friend, is a 1 day old troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:07 PM
1

Well good. Then you should lead by example and not date such women. 💪🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:06 PM
0

Why not move back in with your mom again and then go to prostitutes for your other urges? You’d safe tons of money that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:05 PM
1

Pussy is one hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:02 PM
2

Then don’t? I don’t know how you want to find out how the woman you’re interested in feels about that, but more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:58 PM
1

🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:57 PM
1

Nope, here it’s almost the worst for stuff like that. But dating advice and relationships and all the other mainstream subs for romantic relationships are usually fine. Either way, simply don’t listen to them, you do your thing and go find a good woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:53 PM
1

It’s okay, u/Gari_305. 🫂❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:52 PM
3

Women (and men) do something worthwhile in the meantime. And then they meet someone and sometimes get into relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:51 PM
3

Plus some men have really nice butts!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:49 PM
1

Yeah no, that’s not what I noticed at all. Guess it depends on the subs you’re visiting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:40 PM
2

Is that your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:32 PM
0

Everyone gets old so most will try to settle eventually. Plus pressure from society and family exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:30 PM
2

Yes, I think that men want relationships more (given my experience). Wanting something less doesn’t mean not wanting it at all. So what is your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:29 PM
1

But they do it all the time here on Reddit. So what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:20 PM
1

No clear answer? Okay then. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:46 PM
1

Serious question: Are you mentally ill? :x
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:11 PM
1

Like with most here unfortunately. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:07 PM
1

🤦🤦🤦 You don’t have to link me, I get a message when you reply to my answer. You’re on Reddit for quite some time, you should know that. And I wasn’t talking only about kids but life in general. Very few people want to start anew in middle age. That’s not weird, unless you never leave your house and talk to people. But whatever, he has enough money and he’ll be fine even if he won’t have any kids in his life. :) I think it’s sad, because he would have made a great dad, but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:49 PM
1

I meant change everything he ever knew and learned. Meaning, move to a completely different country with a different culture / language and with different traditions with women who have expectations he never even thought about. How is that weird? I wouldn’t want to do it either, and I’m not even middle aged yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:24 PM
1

Guess so. But I don’t find it weird that he doesn’t want to change his life completely and compromise on all ends just to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:54 PM
3

Haven’t you heard? Young women love grey hair, leathery and wrinkly skin and balls that hit the floor. So men only get better with age!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:51 PM
1

Yes, he knows that too, but he doesn’t want that. Other countries have other traditions and mindsets. He doesn’t want to have to change and adapt, especially at his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:42 PM
1

Okay. Yeah, guess you’re in the minority with that mindset. TRPs advice is a different one as well, so it’s weird to read something like that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:19 AM
1

Not really a Karen response but ok. :x
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:16 AM
7

Edgy 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:16 AM
2

And then leaves after a couple of years, to start a family with someone her own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:44 AM
1

I guess it depends on who you ask. I thought the OP meant literally high school love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:42 AM
1

They don’t want their kids to look “different” though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:39 AM
1

How can I be wrong here? 😬 I just said you’re being creepy. I didn’t even talk about your weird ass analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:38 AM
1

That’s not what I mean though. TRP says, you should spin plates and build your value so that you can marry a virgin when you’re 35. This way the woman you’ll marry won’t be with you through your youth and your struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:36 AM
2

Yeah, they write that weird shit on their own sites now. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:32 AM
1

Lots of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:30 AM
0

But then the person they married isn’t from their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:29 AM
1

Dude, I don’t mean to sound offensive but your “knowledge” sounds very theoretical. Like you read a lot but never actually left the house. Wish you all the best though. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:27 AM
1

Nope, not all of them. Some are genuinely head over heels and can’t believe their luck. It’s really cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:46 PM
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Yeah okay, fine. Still my point stands. How is that supposed to work? If you want that fairytale like romance you need to find a partner soon and preferably commit for life. But nobody wants that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:38 PM
1

But it is? Those who couldn’t get a girl in their 20s, either didn’t get a girl later or got one the same age as them. So I don’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:37 PM
2

Lots of people do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:32 PM
1

Okay, but it was your aim from the beginning on? It just didn’t work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:16 PM
1

Thanks. 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:15 PM
2

Where did you get that from? It’s definitely not my life experience (and statistics don’t back this up either).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:14 PM
1

Did you look for that lifetime partner when you were younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:10 PM
5

Then I guess you’ll stay alone. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:06 PM
2

Never heard of the “grumpy old geezer”? I’m wondering why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:03 PM
1

🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:02 PM
1

Yeah sure. Nobody is shaming those men though, unless they want to go for teenagers / women in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:01 PM
0

I’m just confused. How is that supposed to work out if they want to sleep around and then get a virgin wife when they’re in their 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:59 PM
2

That’s what I would say too, yes. But I guess it’s better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:38 PM
1

Well in that case it always depends. Tons of women have to grow into their femininity with time and my colleagues (middle aged men) prefer women with ample hips and boobs, which is usually much more pronounced in older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:37 PM
2

Actually men of all ages seem to be affected currently. We just don’t know why yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:33 PM
2

Is that supposed to be a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:30 PM
3

That’s always your argument! 🤣 Who’s to say those women who are married to older men aren’t entertaining other hotties on the side? :x
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:28 PM
3

I think women value both though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:17 PM
3

Why don’t you show those 1000 men first? 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:02 PM
1

Why didn’t you look for someone earlier then? Or didn’t it cross your mind back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:00 PM
1

Don’t care about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:58 PM
1

Doesn’t really matter much though, does it? Since the same thing can’t be said for those men unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:57 PM
2

Unfortunately it’s not just the older men who have problems with their sperm but the younger ones too...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:48 PM
1

I do know such men personally who want to have kids in middle age. Unfortunately they’re still looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:47 PM
1

Dude, you’re being creepy...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:43 PM
2

Okay. Because the common narrative here is that women start to decline rapidly after the age of 18 (to some even 14).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:37 PM
1

Congratulations! Finally something positive on this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:30 PM
1

You can read up on it! But basically, it gets riskier with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:27 PM
1

Are you new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:25 PM
2

Hmmm? That doesn’t make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:24 PM
1

Nah, you’re a bald king now! 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:24 PM
0

So you’re still craving parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:20 PM
1

For any specific reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:51 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:57 PM
7

Nah, it’s the saggy balls and leathery skin they’re after!
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 10:13 AM
2

Citing therationalmale as a source? 🤦 Alright then bud.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 02:50 PM
1

So it seems Gisele was in the same situation as you then. Why do you think she is playing the victim?
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 09:54 AM
6

Didn’t you say you filed for divorce because your now ex forgot how to be a wife?
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 09:22 PM
1

When they’re married. Not when they’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:25 AM
0

Talking about this sub. I’m following this sub for quite some time and it’s usually the comments that aren’t hateful that get downvoted to hell. And the hateful ones are the top comments. 🥸
/r/MensRights30/10/22 12:17 AM
1

No you didn’t. 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:15 AM
1

And they’re not horny but lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:08 PM
-1

Everyone here is bitter. And no need to feel “dehumanized” because I called the dudes here tainted. You seem to be pretty sensitive.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 10:03 PM
1

And you’re sleeping with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:01 PM
3

Everything really. Their lifestyles, their past, their “women” (that turned out to be escorts)...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:01 PM
0

You don’t have to believe it. I said see for yourself. 🤦 I’m talking about this sub in general. If someone says something remotely positive about women or questions the narrative, he/she is downvoted straightaway. I didn’t insult anyone. 🤷
/r/MensRights29/10/22 08:48 PM
1

Like I said, I won’t provide any “evidence”, just keep your eyes open on this sub and maybe you’ll notice yourself. Sorry, but your opinion isn’t important enough to me to go through the trouble (and I am too lazy). Just saying, with that attitude you won’t change anything and bitterness isn’t an attractive trait. Have a good day. 🫂
/r/MensRights29/10/22 07:49 PM
1

Yeah, that’s what I mean. Most of your reasons are things people could work through. And if they chose to do so, I wouldn’t consider them mentally unwell. After all it’s the RedPillers who cry about women being flaky and prone to monkey branching.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:44 PM
2

Ikr? You, King, deserve a Jessica Alba in her prime!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:41 PM
1

You mean those two clowns who’ve been exposed for lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:40 PM
7

Hopefully!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:39 PM
1

Wow! One thread... :( Thanks, now you convinced me otherwise!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:38 PM
2

Well, singles are on the rise, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:30 PM
-1

No, not too clear, too dramatic (can you read?). I’m all for emotions, but I don’t think they help during a discussion.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 07:26 PM
2

Do you have experience with women in their 30s/40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:21 PM
3

“A marriage needs consent from both parties. The moment one person revokes their consent (usually for a good reason regardless of gender, occasionally petty reasons regardless of gender), it would not be healthy to continue it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:15 PM
-1

Jeeez, turn down the drama. 😳 No need to get emotional.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 07:14 PM
1

What would be a good reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:11 PM
1

Can you elaborate on this? :3
/r/MensRights29/10/22 06:40 PM
1

How so? You think I save all the bullshit written by some here? I won’t go through the trouble of rereading threads here. Just keep what I said in mind if you actually try to understand it and see for yourself next time. ✌️
/r/MensRights29/10/22 06:39 PM
1

Not necessarily. Some people pride themselves in their loyalty, resilience and sense of “doing the right thing”. (I am kind of one of them) I wouldn’t call them unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:37 PM
1

Oh okay, alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:35 PM
3

Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:28 PM
1

How are you doing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:28 PM
2

Genuine question: Have you never met a woman who was more like your grandma?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:25 PM
1

Depends on who you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:24 PM
7

Good for you! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:24 PM
9

Same with my mom (except that the guy she’s seeing right now isn’t younger, he’s 3 years older). And he’s such a sweetheart, I’m feeling sorry for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:22 PM
2

Why are you talking about their sex life? RP is about much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:20 PM
2

If you’re an avid reader here and aren’t tainted yet, you should know what I’m talking about.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 06:17 PM
1

Most dudes (and dudettes) here are super bitter and can’t cope with any criticism at all. Healthy discussions are nonexistent here. It’s basically become a sub for hurt men to spout bullshit disguised as wisdom. Last time I simply asked a question and was downvoted for that. 🤣 PS: If you hate hardcore feminists so much, be careful! You’re slowly starting to resemble them...
/r/MensRights29/10/22 06:14 PM
1

I don’t know what you want me to elaborate on then. Here, I’ll just repeat what I wrote. Read it slowly this time: “You seem uninterested in helping men and very interested in complaining about women.” This sub in a nutshell.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 06:08 PM
-4

You don’t understand English?
/r/MensRights29/10/22 05:17 PM
1

Are you new to this sub?
/r/MensRights29/10/22 05:15 PM
3

WTF are you talking about? France’s birthrate is on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:51 AM
1

Doesn’t make her equal though. 50/50 would be equal.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 01:02 AM
2

He said “in most countries”...
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:07 PM
0

People on this sub are too bitter to read apparently... 🥸
/r/MensRights27/10/22 11:06 PM
-2

My problem was that you said it would make a woman equal and it would be empowering to her at the same time. It doesn’t make sensethats it really.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 08:00 PM
-4

Yes.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 07:17 PM
-10

You said yourself the woman should pay because it would be “empowering”. That doesn’t make her an equal.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:38 PM
-15

How would that make you equal? Edit: WTF is this sub? Getting downvotes for asking a question! 🤣
/r/MensRights27/10/22 12:15 PM
1

Yup! Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:26 PM
1

Sure! But my claim is supported by anecdotal evidence and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:33 PM
1

Statistics back this up unfortunately though and I can see it in my sphere as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:29 PM
1

I did, I disagreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:26 PM
1

I jumped into a conversation? This is a thread for discussions. Anyone can participate. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:53 PM
1

Thanks! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:24 AM
5

Yeah you were talking to me. You answered me. Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:12 AM
1

Thanks man! That’s really nice of you. <3 But I wouldn’t call that fat (maybe because of his wife as comparison). But yeah, he’s still a good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:48 PM
1

They make OP wait apparently. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:40 PM
2

Cool! I’ll wait then. 🙏✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:38 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:35 PM
2

Perfect! When?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:28 PM
1

He was? I only know him with an average build body. Never seen him when he was fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:28 PM
1

You need to leave your home once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:27 PM
2

Yeah, super weird. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:16 PM
2

Nah it’s still true. But it applies to hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:12 PM
1

Tess Holiday’s husband was super hot. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:12 PM
2

Sure... 🙄 So are we moving to the woods or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:10 PM
2

No, most people get tired of partying after a certain age. That’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:09 PM
1

Nah, they’re just tired of partying and want something real. Happens to men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:06 PM
1

Because that’s what the RedPill teaches anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:02 PM
2

Dude, why the downvotes? 🙄 Actually, I want to go live in the woods too. It definitely sounds like a good plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:59 PM
2

Because in arranged marriages they know that this is it. So they need to find something positive and attractive about their partners. Else they’d go insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:30 PM
12

It depends on the woman. Some do, some don’t. That wasn’t the question though. Single and alone is better than being in a relationship and miserable is what we were talking about. Try to keep up. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:28 PM
2

“Definitely not yours“ is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:26 PM
1

Sooooorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:26 PM
0

Because you’re single?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:25 PM
3

Not for you, you handsome devil you. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:20 PM
1

Some already do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:20 PM
1

It is to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:15 PM
6

It also shows that women in their 20s find men in their 20s the hottest. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:13 PM
1

They wish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:12 PM
0

Are you unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:08 PM
1

Good question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:24 PM
13

Especially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:52 PM
9

Maybe they’re onto something though! Arranged marriages exist for a reason and are statistically more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:49 PM
2

Because he said so. That’s why. ☝🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:27 PM
1

Well yeah. Women are hot after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:25 PM
2

Yeah exactly. I don’t get what OP is talking about. But he hasn’t answered yet.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 01:27 PM
1

If you want to go your own way, you can do that. Who is stopping you?
/r/MensRights22/10/22 12:50 PM
2

And feminists think that?
/r/MensRights21/10/22 10:31 PM
3

“The only reason MGTOW exists as a movement as many people (cough feminists) think men have no choice.” What do you mean by that? Edit: Downvotes for asking a question?
/r/MensRights21/10/22 09:42 PM
2

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:52 PM
1

That’s really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:46 PM
46

How are you doing?
/r/MensRights17/10/22 05:06 PM
1

If I look at my bubble, it’s more “hoes” being wifed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:25 AM
1

I don’t think there are statistics for that topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:00 AM
1

“ENJOY THE DECLINE!” 😡 👊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:52 PM
3

They need to protect their frame. They can’t if you challenge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:46 PM
6

And yet so many people have seen dudes marry washed up crazy hoes. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:31 PM
2

HAWT! 🥵🥵🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:20 PM
1

Ever thought about paying for that service?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:47 AM
1

I guess the vulnerable one. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:23 AM
1

Not if you look and act like that dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:21 AM
1

I’d hug (and cuddle) you for free! But it sounds like you don’t want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:00 PM
1

Do you even want to be hugged?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:54 PM
0

Harry Styles... 🥵🥵🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:04 PM
2

He wouldn’t be getting anything at all if he wasn’t rich and famous obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:04 PM
2

You clowns actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:03 PM
1

🔥🔥🔥🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:41 PM
0

You tell that to yourself. 🙏 I don’t blame you, after all you’re a victim of propaganda just as much as everyone else.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 08:08 AM
0

How come everyone talked about the Nazis in Ukraine then before the war?
/r/MensRights28/09/22 07:41 AM
1

My point is that everyone is exposed to propaganda. If you think that the west doesn’t use propaganda, you must be naive.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 07:29 AM
1

“ Try to place yourself on their place. You,all your life, was told some things. The very things,that compose your life there. Than you flee to West. You get well accepted, et . And than you realize, that all, that you have been told is a FUCIKG LIE!!! Like all of your world is collapsing.” So like all of us?
/r/MensRights27/09/22 06:41 PM
1

I don’t know whether or not they go to prostitutes. They seem totally fine to me. But of course there’s no way of knowing unless I’d live with them or something. They definitely don’t come across as bitter or vile though. They’re chill, they have their hobbies and are generally friendly to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:46 PM
1

And it satisfies you? So then you’re not an incel, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:03 AM
1

Then you’re probably not an incel. Do you want to get laid but can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:56 AM
6

Cool! Good for you! Finally something positive on this sub. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:04 PM
3

Wowza! Congratulations! 🎉 Are you going to upgrade anything now? (New car, new flat?) I’m doing fine, thanks. :3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:49 PM
29

I know two men (both about 60) who are living alone, no wife no kids. And they’re doing pretty fine. They’re chill dudes. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:42 PM
13

It’s the king again!!! 🤴🏼 How are you doing, Your Majesty?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:40 PM
1

Well there you go. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:00 PM
1

It says “access denied”. :/ But I’m your opposite sign! So no wonder you are attractive to me. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:41 PM
1

You too, hun! 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:39 PM
1

WOAH. A dude who’s into astrology? GET OUT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:31 PM
1

Nope, I was 100% sincere! ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:21 PM
1

Yeah no, I get your point! Still, what I mean is when you don’t have to offer anything but yourself, that’s when your peak is. But I get your point. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:26 PM
1

Oh I know! People change. Is that news to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:58 PM
1

My point was that young and hot people don’t have to offer anyrhing but themselves. When you need to have money to get attention from women, you aren’t at your peak. That’s what this discussion is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:57 PM
14

Don’t ask the catholic priests, please...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:46 PM
1

So your peak is when you have to offer other things? When you alone aren’t enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:31 PM
1

That’s why I told you that the dude has to be hot and young. Usually when you’re young you don’t have to worry about gaining weight. And you don’t need to have everything figured out and earn a lot of money. If you’re young and hot, that’s when you’re at your peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:01 PM
3

Maybe not to you, you handsome devil you. 😘 But using compliments to manipulate people is definitely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:54 AM
2

Isn’t that common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:50 AM
1

Where did he say that? I know guys like him, who were “late bloomers”. He does sound like a typical late bloomer to me. I can only hope he gets what he wants. His situation sounds tough. But why would I want to date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:48 AM
1

I read the thread and dude doesn’t want a LTR. So what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:22 AM
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Exactly. I don’t think you’ll want to party til you’re 40 yourself. ✌️ You might think like that now, but the nightlife gets boring fast once you get older for most people. Still you will always have options, at least here in Germany we have parties for people of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:21 AM
1

You’re were talking about an actual homeless guy? Then no, you’re correct. But some dude who’s hot and lives in his moms basement and can’t afford a car or fancy vacations would still get more action than Elon. That was my point. If you’re hot, you don’t have to go through all that self improvement, being hot is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:05 AM
1

Didn’t happen with my friends. They always chose guys their own ages for dating. They did hook up with some older dudes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:07 PM
2

Yeah, hopefully! Still I would chose the 25 year old instead of the 40 year old. You can’t fight aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:15 PM
1

We all need money to live across the globe. And since men are the earners, that’s their main value. If we wouldn’t need money to survive, women would chose the hot young guys, because then older men would have no advantage at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:18 AM
1

Enough women are open to the notion of dating an older (sometimes much older) willing to overlook the wrinkles and sagging balls for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:15 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:12 AM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:10 AM
1

No, they will spin plates like there’s no tomorrow. 18-22 year olds only.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:01 AM
1

I’d bang the 27 year old hot guy. And then marry the older Elon for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:59 AM
1

No, you’re lying. I see 60- year olds with 22 year old super models all the time. Must be your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:58 AM
1

No, it’s called raw physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:45 AM
1

Ah okay, then it makes sense. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:40 AM
1

Okay, thanks for the discussion. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:40 AM
2

You actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:38 AM
1

Not if they only think about physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:37 AM
2

He is right though. If we are talking about raw attraction, your status, money and stability don’t matter at all. Only your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:36 AM
2

Maybe more attractive for relationships. If we’re talking about raw attraction, your mental stability and money don’t matter much, only your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:35 AM
2

If you’re attractive without money, you’re more attractive with money. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:27 AM
1

Because they see their value in the amount of money they acquire. And then they cry about Alpha fucks/Beta Bucks and how genuine desire is not negotiable and you shouldn’t simp. 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:18 AM
1

Celebrities =/= only actors You never had a celebrity crush?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:14 AM
1

My experience tells otherwise. You genuinely think young women find old men more attractive than young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:13 AM
1

Since we need money to live, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:11 AM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:09 AM
1

Then you must be demi sexual. Else celebrities wouldn’t even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:08 AM
1

So you don’t know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:07 AM
1

How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:05 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:04 AM
2

Well built silver foxes are super rare. And even then, it’s pretty rare for young women to find them attractive. The majority would still prefer the younger version of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:55 AM
1

She’s talking about physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:50 AM
3

If money didn’t exist, that would definitely be the case. Even for protection a younger man would be better than an old one. But since we need money to live, men who have acquired more of it are more “popular”. But that’s pretty much the only advantage the older men have. If I had to chose between a young dude and an old dude and they have the same amount of money, I obviously would chose the young one because he has more time to live, a better body and more health.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:50 AM
2

Okay, alright! Thanks for answering. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:57 PM
1

Are you being pressured by your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:46 PM
5

And the saddest married women. 😣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:44 PM
3

Her succes for a divorce will be higher too. 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:40 PM
1

I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:41 PM
1

They got tired of that lifestyle and found good men who they are married to now. Don’t know what standards you are talking about. “Would these men be okay with their partner fucking another men infront of them” No, because that would be cheating. I doubt they think about the past. They’re living in the here and now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:31 PM
1

Alright then. Thanks for the discussion. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:09 PM
1

In the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:01 PM
1

You have a source for that claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:38 PM
1

Well I’m talking about the men in my sphere who are dating / married to former promiscuous women. They are not hot and rich supermodels, but they normal down to earth guys with good jobs. They don’t care about the past, but no, they wouldn’t want their gfs/wife’s to sleep with other men now since that would be considered cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:35 PM
0

Well yeah, it’s sad that this needs to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:14 PM
1

He admitted to having slept around and even with whores that he found disgusting simply because he was horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:12 PM
0

No, he said so himself. By his own reasoning he’s a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:06 PM
2

Yes. I would feel disgusted, but know plenty of men who are dating / are married to former promiscuous women and they’re doing just fine. If you’ll read this thread carefully a lot of men agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:23 AM
3

Some of my promiscuous friends are already married. And no, their husbands aren’t abusive. That’s a weird revenge fantasy you have. 🤣 That’s what I mean by real life. In real life most men either don’t ask, don’t care or deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:22 AM
1

Unattainable means he’s a fuckboi?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:19 AM
1

So far I have only seen them call out OP on being a “whore”himself. And I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:19 AM
1

Luck. Or he was recommended by a friend/family member.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:36 AM
2

I as a woman would feel disgusted, but she is right that in real life men don’t care as much as you guys make it out to be, unless it’s super extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:30 AM
1

Yep. Doesn’t happen to the majority of men. And most men don’t have the luxury of choosing date after date and next women. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:25 AM
0

So it’s insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:20 AM
1

Sure, simple solution! For people who have money, are able to sleep with prostitutes and live in a country where it’s legal to do so. All while waiting the unicorn woman to give them the “best deal”. Sounds super simple, just not achievable for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:18 AM
2

But that’s not a guy exclusive thing. Most women feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:14 AM
1

But they don’t. “Gross hoes” are getting wifed up all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:12 AM
3

It’s not a good deal. Don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:10 AM
1

It’s also a rhetoric I only see on Reddit. In real life nobody cares about this except for super religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:07 AM
1

Not complicated, just very unrealistic for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:02 AM
2

No they don’t “run away”. I think men don’t “run away” from promiscuous women either, unless they hold a knife. But they certainly don’t consider them marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:01 AM
2

Nah, it’s always the same bs. This kind of shit is posted every week. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:53 AM
7

Thanks for writing it out! I feel the same way, just that I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:48 AM
3

What exactly is your point? Women that only saw you as a fuckboi didn’t mind you had a high n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:46 AM
1

The problem is they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:40 AM
-2

Well this is a sub for discussions. 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:39 AM
-4

That’s news to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:38 AM
1

“ On to the next one. Simple.” Is it really that simple though? 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:36 AM
2

For ONS? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:34 AM
2

That’s what men like to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:32 AM
1

Yes it is, for RedPillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:01 PM
1

Sorry, no time for that. You seem to be interested in that topic, just check yourself. Or just continue reading new threads. It always comes up. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:33 PM
1

Okay. 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:34 AM
1

You’re talking to me? I am prioritizing what’s important to me. And that’s not money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:57 AM
1

There are no statistics for that specific topic. But there are tons of anecdotes here. Take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:55 AM
2

People like these are still super rare. And they get rarer with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:54 AM
1

“Because she likes him.” That goes without saying. If it happens, it happens. Everything else is not as important as you think though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:53 AM
5

Because the statistics say that they date men their own age. That’s the majority of women. And the study about men finding women in their 20s the hottest also claims that women in their 20s find men in their 20s the hottest. For those who don’t, you can check out the SugarBaby subs, where they entertain older dudes while having boyfriends their own ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:53 AM
2

So that’s all you’ve got to say? Women want money? :>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:52 AM
3

Young and fratty? Fine. Older and mature men? Definitely weird. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:51 AM
2

Just read this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:49 AM
9

Learn to read.🥸 They are old and ugly to women who are very young. When I was 18-25, 30+ dudes were middle aged in my mind. And apparently most here agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:47 AM
3

“And right now, for various reasons, socialization is pushing strongly for women to find older men less attractive than perhaps at any time in history.” What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:45 AM
4

Ignore him, it’s a troll! ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:43 AM
1

Too bad not everyone looks like Jamie Dornan after 30...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:38 AM
6

So if younger and older guys are looking for casual relationships, why would she chose the old one? How does that make sense? Unfortunately older men have a bad reputation by default. And often for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:30 AM
3

No, for lots of women older dudes simply approaching them would be enough. No need to actually date to feel disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:23 AM
6

The average 30 yo definitely looks older than the average 22 yo... And that’s all that matters in this dicusssion. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:20 AM
3

Not the same thing. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:12 AM
1

Then just let it all out!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:05 AM
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