IrunsoIcaneatcookies Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Pension question		IrunsoIcaneatcookies	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/22 04:48 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is sex tourism a hidden gem for men who want causal sex? Watch this (see below) and tell me if you still want to go Colombia. Mind you, I’m referring to the neighborhood(s) where you would find prostitutes. https://youtu.be/ToQ8PWYnu04	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 07:25 PM
8	If you have found, much better women after divorce, where? You have some grammar issues in your writing which leads me to believe that English is not your first language. The reason I bring this up is if you have some beliefs about women that are specific to your culture (Muslim, Latino, etc.), those attitudes are largely counterproductive in dating women in this country. You sound bitter and women will absolutely pick up on that very quickly. Those initial conversations (text or by phone) need to be fun and lighthearted. She needs to associate you with…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/23 04:12 PM
2	What did you do with your old wedding band? I have mine and my wife’s. She kept the engagement ring. I want to give the bands to my kid so they know their parents were in love once.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/23 10:07 PM
1	Pension question Thank you. All my Googling says I am only entitled to her contributions while we were married.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/22 04:38 AM
8	Girls Night Out Forever. I’m embarrassed to admit this was me. Minus the cooking. She did that but I did the majority of cleaning, laundry, and so much “Yes dear”. Since my separation (divorce is still in the works) I learned a lot, including about masculine and feminine energy. I won’t make the same mistake again. Check out a podcast by a woman called “Dear men”. She and a panel of friends go on and on about how they want a man “to lead” the relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/22 03:38 PM
1	Dating Sorry I’m not answering your question but here goes. I was married for 14 years and together for almost 20. She told me she wanted a divorce in September and my world imploded. I can’t tell you how helpful therapy was. It really helped get me through the stages of grief much sooner than if I hadn’t sought out professional help. Having someone ask you hard questions that your friends won’t really makes you dig deep and look inside. This helped me understand my role in the end of my marriage and h…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/22 04:40 PM
3	What do you guys DO? I’m 44. Make sure to invest in good running shoes. Being outside jogging saved me from being at home ruminating about the separation/divorce. Find a good podcast, audiobook or make a playlist. I actually listen to audiobooks my therapist recommends so I’m getting a workout and doing the “work on you” thing at the same time.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/22 05:23 PM
4	What do you guys DO? I began jogging just to get out of the house. I’ve lost 25 lbs since the wife moved out in October. And yes, I still eat cookies. But I need to spend some time learning how to cook different meals.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/22 04:37 PM